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ceoil/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 04:16 PM
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Ergh, I have a fairly controversial view on this. Good married friends if mine (have been married since 18 only slept with their SO) found after 25+ years of being exclusive sexually they felt as though that had mutually missed out. They have three beautiful children, a beautiful house and good jobs and love each other deeply and profoundly, simply put, they wanted to keep all of this going but, knew they were sexually lacklustre. They decided to start swinging. (Swapping sexual partners with ot…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/14 11:59 AM
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Huh? Any mods out there???
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/14 11:36 AM
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You sound like a pretty awesome mum.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 11:08 PM
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I am a huge fan of hair down and fresh flowers. I think they are super feminine and such an ode to a wedding day. Its the only day you really can wear fresh beautiful flowers in your hair. I love the how the swedes do it and when I get married it will certainly be the way I style it. I also think that it would make a great addition to the hair linked. http://flowerona.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/Ciara-Richardson-road_trip_elopement_1.jpg
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 11:00 PM
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How do you do that? (curious)
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 10:37 PM
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I'm furthering my college education at the moment, its pretty close to free in my country so I don't see why not.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 10:36 PM
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I'll do an update tomorrow: but ALL good, very good :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 06:19 PM
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As people in RPW know I was in an abusive relationship that landed me in a terrible situation. RPW was amazing a) because when things crumbled people saw how well I had treated him, I was certainly not "blamless", but, through using RPW to be the best woman I could be people could see how much of a dick he was being. b) I found solice in the methods here. When I got advice I did it. When there wasn't a response to it there was warning signs going off madly in my head. Also the skills that I had …
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/14 12:46 PM
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That makes me feel a little bit sick to be honest.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/14 10:24 AM
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very cute :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/14 10:49 PM
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Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/14 03:09 PM
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He changed his mind. He decided to stay as he got an offer to run a restaurant in Dublin. They are understanding
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/14 03:07 PM
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Yea... I was denying the physical abuse then. Trying to calm everything else down.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/14 09:33 AM
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no the ex strangled me on the 16th of Feb then we broke up start of March (4th)
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/14 08:43 PM
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Is picking up girls for sex in a mental ward a thing???
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/14 07:56 PM
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I haven't let that happen. He is running a huge amount of high profile do's with celebs and he wants me to go with him and also he wants me to meet his friends etc... Like I am not blowing my own trumpet here; but, I have not met a man who didn't want to be with me in a substantial relationship after three dates. Then I call yea or nay on it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/14 07:55 PM
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I'll ask the nurses is that a possibility :S
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/14 07:04 PM
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I think I have to listen to them a hell of a lot more.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/14 07:03 PM
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Insane... not certificate yet!
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/14 07:03 PM
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Very possibly.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/14 07:02 PM
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No no I have been in about three weeks. Met the guy when I was at a wedding two weeks ago (I am allowed to go home on a friday till a monday morning as my course only runs from then) I didn't meet him in the hospital... I am pretty fucking bad. But, not that bad.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/14 07:02 PM
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Never actually been "pumped and dumped" before! Have always held out on sex until things are solid (2-3 months) and they are there for me rather then gee.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/14 07:00 PM
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Thank you all for the comments I really feel that I have a lot to think about with this does of reality thank you
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/14 11:09 AM
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LMAO that is sooooooo sooooo true
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/14 10:22 AM
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Your totally right... I had girlfriends on about my ex for so long... he cut them off from me. They are (and I am so glad) they are back in my life.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/14 10:20 AM
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All these comment feel like a punch in the stomach... but, I think that sometimes the truth is like that. If I didn't already think he was so cool... I could walk away... but, I have to anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 10:15 PM
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I think this dose of reality is probably what I needed to hear.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 10:13 PM
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You are right... I think you all are :(
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 10:11 PM
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Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 10:10 PM
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no not at all. I have to deal with this stuff for when i invariably with out treatment become a mess again.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 10:07 PM
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I know and I do appreciate the honesty from all of you I truly do.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 10:06 PM
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Feeling REALLY awful
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 10:06 PM
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Why can't I do the two at the same time?
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 10:05 PM
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I am not a total mess. It is when I go through emotional trauma. It is how to handle that. Not a day to day problem. Do I risk making him wait? Or do I accept his care and kindness. Argh :( feeling utterly awful now.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 09:50 PM
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Phantom I know, but, I am genuinely interested. There will be no fling! But, I am terrified that if I pass this guy up (who is a meriade of good things) that I won't find someone who likes me loads etc again.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 09:46 PM
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Not so much in day to day, more so in emotional situations.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 09:35 PM
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I would... I really wanted to but, then he came along!! Plus I am moving home a bit of a distance from him and I am not going to get into anything really emotionally binding. As for the are you insane comment; lets call a spade a spade CLEARLY! And my opinion is questionable.. but, on the other hand as they say @I rather live with the 'ah wells' then the 'what ifs'.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 09:33 PM
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I think that it depends on the person and what there goal from the encounter/relationship is. Man looking for a purely fun thing = not that picky whatever woman will do it. Man looking for a serious relationship = picky this is the girl he wants to be close to. Woman looking for purely fun thing = picky he better be rock n roll n hot n cool just to get sex. Woman looking for a serious relationship = (I would argue) not AS picky as the other one because she is happy once he is making that commitm…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 09:30 PM
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Well I told him that obviously ill need time... just to recuperate. He wants to be there for that. (I am clearly just that awesome: joke)
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 09:24 PM
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I still am haha he knows. A couple of his friends have been in he gets it. I have been completely up front and honest. He even visited me in hospital!
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 09:21 PM
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Okay, I don't play games (never have) but, taking it slow will be hard. I am looking forward to some fun frivolous dating but, I don't want to make rookie mistakes. (Eg sleeping with him too soon etc) Ill be assertive and have a look at what is going on. I have to be more assertive for sure.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 09:01 PM
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Thanks sugarcrush will do... :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 08:56 PM
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Cool great point! Yea this is way way to soon, I genuinely was like "Universe you pick right now to send me this guy??" It was after two dates he said that, when he couldn't be with me. He was alpha when I was with him for sure. I guess he feels he can be open and flirty which is nice. I am dealing with the abusive relationship through therapy and I think (or at least feel) I can box that off and enjoy this. I am sure in myself that this is not what I was looking for... it kinda came up outta no…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 08:54 PM
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Thank you very much. I told him I wasn't going to have sex for a while he was cool with that. He told me I would make him a fine girlfriend. He also has a lot of public social events that he wants me to go to and has spoken about me meeting his friends. We're having a lot of fun so far (of course I am being nice to him lol). love the advice thank you
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 08:50 PM
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In the circles I travel in the flappy vag jokes are just as prevalent.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 08:36 PM
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I have the opposite problem which has ruined relationships. Completely blaming myself (making me in turn the victim of myself) which led to me being vulnerable to incredibly lowering my self esteem. It was only in the last relationship I said "hold on one second...." but, it still was a bit of a nervous position. I think that I probably blame myself too much which is just as detrimental to a relationship. Asserting yourself as a women is a complex task in this way of life.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 08:21 PM
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Hmm this is interesting I have started dating a guy with a really good job. I am on leave at the moment. We went on a date and he picked up the bill. I felt so lucky! He had asked me to dinner in fairness. Then when we went for drinks I paid for a round. His face dropped. He was like WOWZA!! He has lost a lot of money on women I think I deffo don't want to be that way.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 06:19 PM
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I'm getting a little lost here at times: does RPW lifestyle mean by default the man is in the right and the woman in the wrong?? It's just a trend I am seeing. I don't think this is an appropriate case for a woman to "stand her ground" as I see very little ground to stand on there is no relationship but, will everything be twisted to the fault of the woman in one way or another?
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 05:57 PM
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Where in the world are you, I live gluten free, but, I have gluten free bread pasta etc... one of my fav meals is a salad and sandwich! Also why not try going to a make up artist about the make up and learn how to do it fast and learn tuts on youtube... hair is a bitch but, you have to figure out a low maintenance way to make it look good. What kind of hair do you have?
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 09:16 AM
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Yea I think so
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 09:13 AM
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There probably was more going on then just that. Think we are over simplifying. He could have been super supportive etc... maybe other things were not working out and they were not suited. My ex helped me drop a load of weight and dress much (MUCH) better. We split. I look better. But, that wasn't the reason why. There was other stuff that made us incompatable. Hell at the end of it I just about felt worth enough to be his SO.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/14 11:31 PM
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I think that that opinion of mental health patients is why there is so must stigma around the place. Someone who is getting treated for Cancer wouldn't be told she wasn't the best person to tell someone else there story. It is a thing, just an illness, that I am getting through. It is not defying my thought process or making me post insane things; I am actively dealing with a similar problem and succeeding, I think that it makes my opinion at least one to be put into the pot.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/14 06:09 PM
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Really love your reply xx
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/14 06:00 PM
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The one thing that I have found is openly speaking about it with people in the same situation helps (group). This is a phase of my life that will be over but, talking to people in the same situation helps
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/14 05:55 PM
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at points in my live usually I am fine but what I perceive as trauma sets it off... something that someone would be upset by deeply would be able to handle but, I over blame myself and start to elf destruct. Its happened 5-7 times in my life with two quite serious attempts at my own life but, I just need tools to handle it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/14 05:53 PM
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Probably a good call to be fair haha... but, I am well on my way to recovery and on no meds. But, I do have an insight into the system.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/14 05:51 PM
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Not in for being crazy! lol... in for emotional instability in times of distress. Only happens every once and a while but, no meds will be given for it. I live in Ireland we don't think there is a pill for every ill and prescribe things as a finale resort rather then a first stop.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/14 05:35 PM
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Heya Aaron, I am in hospital at the moment with mental health issues. I can say clinical depression is not a made up goofy disease. In China (just to show this is not a western agenda) more young people die from suicide then any other thing (here in the west it is generally accidents that are the number one killer of young people). CBT is great for people going through a tough patch etc... and can help people to live and cope with their own conditions as much as possible but, there are people wi…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/14 04:29 PM
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I have shit down my Facebook to avoid seeing him there and feeling bad. I don't think that it would be a bad idea to take a break from facebook for a while anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 09:32 PM
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I don't think a judge would feel the same way. I do see the point you are driving at. Once he slapped and chocked me after I went into a paralitic shock on the ground after witnessing him smash up the entire flat. His reasoning for this argument? I had been crying in bed. I know he hated it but, he had been nasty to me and I was so upset. I had tried to resolve an issue that he had brought up before we went to sleep. I kept at him then he just dropped it and we were both unhappy. Ah well...
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 11:46 PM
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that is pretty much along the lines of what my father said to me.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 10:49 PM
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There is nothing that can justify physical violence. A word can not be responded to with a slap etc (from either party) I have never EVER claimed to be an angel. I did the RPW stuff to a tee let him guide the ship as it were but, he steered into a collision course. I followed blindly letting my love and fear of rejection cloud my reasoned judgement of this man. Dana I don't think I was an angel or innocent... but, i didn't merit or deserve that.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 10:48 PM
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Until the last couple of weeks I truely was but, I have walked away moved out and my stuff is in boxes. I am not collecting it my father is as I won't go near the apartment again with him in it.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 10:44 PM
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I have to remain talking to him to get bills and all changed we have both agreed only to meet in public areas. (No being alone together at all). He is leaving my country soon. So there will be no threat. I am not putting myself in that position.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 10:43 PM
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Yes, and I think on that journey I will be using RPW to disern that
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 07:16 PM
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he was adopted, always acted out... bad time at school insecurity etc etc I also fairly certain he has anti-social personality disorder (look it up and it kinda describes he bad behaviour to a tea)
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 06:43 PM
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he did lol
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 06:42 PM
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Yes we were living together
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 06:41 PM
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that was a friends situation lol, I forget that. The suicide post well here is the thing: my mental health was in serious decline due to the stress of the realtionship also I got in the "implanol" which fucked up my emotions. No there was no big issues sexual health. We trusted eachother.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 06:38 PM
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Nope not at ll he kept it together for a bit then he started to loose it again.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 06:35 PM
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thank you
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 06:35 PM
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Yea personally unstable would be correct, always got into fights at work, in trouble with the police, volatile in general.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 06:35 PM
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He thought that throwing things around was normal behaviour. :( now I know that it is not.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 06:34 PM
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he had been engaged afterwards... He didn't use drugs anymore... He didn't drink himself stupid either. No accountability with other men, lost his jobs continuously and refused treatment or help for his (at times) irrational behaviour.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 06:33 PM
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I forgave him... He based a hole through the wall with a lamp and then broke the lamp. I was shocked and he promised not to do it again.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 06:31 PM
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I am learning those lessons and I have an amazing family behind me. Which is wonderful thank you for your words. I was able to get out which is great.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 05:53 PM
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Yea, when I was speaking to my mother about not demonizing my now Ex-boyfriend she told me about a woman she went to therapy with and blamed my father for everything. She walked out. She said that she was going to ruin her marriage. Although I tried my best I never said I was "perfect" and to think I didn't contribute to the break up and it not working would be naive. But, there is no pleasing somebody like that I think. He did thank me for the stable home that I gave him which made me feel kind…
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 05:36 PM
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Feeling the heatache, the body ache was fleeting.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 05:32 PM
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Your completely correct I have to be more deserning and assertive.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 05:31 PM
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I hope you have read my older post; he strangled me and he slapped me. He smashed up my things. When I asked him why he did this he said that it was to "Calm me down"... (he used to bring up topics that were very debatable at the end of the night) we were both too fiery and neither of us had that balance to bring things down. In other words we weren't suited. And although we loved/love eachother very muich we have enough respect to realise that the relationship and he had a detrimental impact on…
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 05:28 PM
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I think that you guys are right... like I wasn't perfect in a lot of ways. I mean I am 23 and I am still learning to be good. But, I was as good as I can be.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 05:24 PM
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He was charming said that he utterly regretted it and that it was in a past life. He offered to let me view the court records etc... I trusted him. Ah well.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 03:34 PM
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He convinced me that it was in his past and that he had changed and for a while it seemed to be the case. But, it transpired not to be. In a normal relationship I would agree, it take two to tango. Yet, I was not perfect (I would loose control over my emotional reaction over some of the smaller mistreatments of me and cry so much) nor would I have claimed to be. It is my own bad judgement of that man that landed me in the situation. But, I genuinely tried!
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 01:43 PM
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Heya Danabanana! I posted up a couple of times during the relationship so the whole thing is up there. He and I had arguments. To get a better idea of the relationship you should read back on them. The man in question has spent time in prison for rape and also he had smashed up things in a previous relationship. I am not sure if it went as far as the physical violence which ended up happening to me (which to be fair has no viable "reason" to happen). Unfortunately I thought through red pill etc.…
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 01:38 PM
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Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 12:07 PM
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Thank you I am Irish and Catholic so a prayer to St.Jude might be a big help.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 12:07 PM
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I really love this thread and the mods they are pretty awesome.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/14 10:27 PM
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He also wants us to travel a lot before I am thirty etc etc etc... I just feel like I want a cosy stable home and a fulfilling family life.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/14 09:21 PM
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We have spoken about marriage. He was engaged and called it off before so he wants it to be an extremely short engagement with a wedding shortly after. We are not in a position to have the wedding that we would like so we are waiting one to two years (for him to have his own business staple and me to be finished full time college)
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/14 09:20 PM
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Taken Lady: Me and my SO are going through a pretty rough time to be honest. His mind isn't his own sometimes and he smashes things up in the house. Although I am trying to make his home beautiful for him he is finding it very hard to settle (he has been travelling for so many years this is his first time to really settle down). He and my family are a little at odds over a fight we had he smashed everything (I wasn't disagreeing with him I just wanted to sort things out that evening, that he had…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/14 09:16 PM
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I want to have children in the next 5 years (I am 23) but, my SO wants me to wait till I am 30 to start having children. I only want two! I would love to have them now, I guess just waiting for certain things to fall into place.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/14 09:10 PM
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Smash something. :(
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/14 09:02 PM
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This is true, and its sad for her because I bet this is the best that she could do pure thing... I always cook so well for my man (when he lets me). I just wish I had the opportunity to make him a dinner for after work but he worlds unsociable hours really.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/14 08:53 PM
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My SO wants me in heels every day...getting there bit by bit but, the days I am in work I still wear comfortable shoes.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/14 03:08 PM
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hmm I have been thinking about this for a while, cause its very to the core like. My mum and dad are an amazing couple. My mother completely supports my father and vice versa. She is a strong independent woman and he is very alpha. They are equal partners with different role, my mother looked after myself and my brother. Dad worked. Then my mother went back to work. The mutual respect and accountability really works. They both work out, they both dress well and they both have expectations of eac…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 02:25 PM
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thank you! yes it really does. Gonna start next week or thursday/friday as i did such a good job nothing needs to be done lol
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 02:17 PM
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I totally do that too... I was outta breath scrubbing the tub, and I mean I am not unfit in the least.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 02:16 PM
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thats really cool!
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 02:16 PM
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such a good tip, he is a chef, and mother of god the mess he makes. I don't mind cleaning. I don't like him cleaning the kitchen because that is what is part of his job. Cooking is a passion of his though. And the food.... UNREAL
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 02:15 PM
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trying and trying and trying. Tis hard but, my god I don't want to have to spend my whole sunday doing it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 02:13 PM
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that is a brilliant idea that is very very good.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 02:12 PM
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thats what we have to do my SO is a chef so there is a lot of washing to be done.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 05:42 PM
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Brilliant thank you
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 04:52 PM
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My clothes washer is broken keeps leaving stuff wet which is awful. I live in a rented place and have been onto the landlord about it to no avail
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 04:48 PM
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:) fantastic lady. Glad we all could be of help. LOVE THIS THREAD.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 11:28 AM
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Deadly! I don't think my post about his moods was outta line was it Dana? All the advice I got super really helped.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 11:21 AM
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The only I can think of which would be really fun and would open up his palette would be to do a cooking course together. My C is a chef and it is really fun when we both get to cook together. It also lets him try new things if he wants to. My father did one and got really into cooking now he swaps recipes with my boyfriend. He really enjoyed it to. It could be something fun. If it doesn't work at least you both would have spent some time together that you had to put aside for eachother and you …
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/14 11:28 AM
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I think the first time he broke something I started crying. I was like "I have made you do this". He reassured me absolutely that it was not me and that was victim talk and that I was no victim. Mostly he says I am helping in fact sometimes I just have to send him a loving message that he has sent me or show him one of his fav funny programs and he he happy. He is a wonderful man. I am very lucky.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 10:19 PM
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I am two years away from qualifying. He has moved country a fair bit. He loves France. He will be going away for five months to work on cruise ships and private yachts. I am making good friends here in Ireland. Yet, I know I could do that anywhere. It would be a huge thing to do but, I would of course do it once it would be visible.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 10:13 PM
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If it (escalated to physical violence) did I would leave, that would be wholly unacceptable. That would be too far. It is so hard not to react to the breaking. It scared me the first time. It has cost him so much money to. In fairness I never throw it back in my face. Neither of us hold onto things. Thank you for tips I will look up submissive body language. On the other hand sometimes when I am overly submissive he tells me to woman up or to fight back. I get so confused.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 10:04 PM
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Thank you... I know I am extremely lucky
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 09:33 PM
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You are very right. He is a very chatty person himself. I must admit sometimes he just likes to talk and talk but, then does not want to hear what I have to say. I think I just have to respect that. It does not happen very often but, sometimes he just wants me to listen. A soothing environment is right. I have taken on a lot at 23 in college and working two jobs myself. But, I want him to have the home and woman he deserves. I defiantly am punching well above my weight with this guy and I am try…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 09:31 PM
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I do a lot of script editing already for independent production companies. He is encouraging me to be a children's literary writer or singer in the future. Script editing will probably be an stable income in the future when I have the credentials behind me.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 09:25 PM
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Not eccentric at all. He dresses so well. Like a Calvin Klein model. Very good looking kinda like Steve McQueen in the glory years. He insists he always drives. He orders my food. The insecure monsters he has he never feeds them. Then out of no where, in the middle of the street or while we are out for a meal he will just look at me, straight through me and this feeling of love. He brings me on holidays. Does kind things for my parents. He shares everything with me. He loves bringing me to the s…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 09:23 PM
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I think that another woman would have to leave because of his mood swings and also a very checkered past. He also smashes things when he becomes angry which would scare a lot of women too. He has broken a table, blinds, a lamp, the wall and the cooker. He is wild! But, he always fixes them and I know he would never touch me. I tolerate a lot of things. But, the rewards are numeral.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 09:16 PM
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I am mature in my demeanor, most of the time. I have my moments, of course. He is guiding me through them. He is 36 but, he still gets asked for ID. He also is immature (for his age). So we are a good fit. He has a youthful way about him and still he excited about life.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 09:13 PM
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Thank you. You are right. You know you just keep jabbering on hoping that the right combination of words will make it better.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 09:02 PM
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and can cook (professional chef), and sees the merits in buying a woman flowers, makes me strife to be better every day, respects my father, helps me understand the importance of being feminine, takes me out , makes me laugh and laugh and wants to share everything he is passionate about with me. Romantic doesn't even start to describe him.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 09:01 PM
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Just because I'm 23 he is 36. I think that it will make him feel like he is becoming lackluster, putting it in his face I think would make him feel his age and his depression more. He most certainly is not doing drugs. He words 11-12 hours a day non-stop on his feet. Really high end cooking. He is so bloody brilliant. Working so hard for us and providing. I just wish he would see it!
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 08:58 PM
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he loves the beer. We had a little money tight patch (just because he switched jobs etc etc) I spent my last €10 on beer for him. He will only have one but, you know how it is, you just wanna give any happiness you can to your man.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 08:52 PM
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omg I am... always ready for sex. I am hornier then him (I don't let him know that). When ever he wants it whether it be 4am or 2pm I am up for it. Since his mood swings have come in his sexual desire has plummeted. I have been working out doing my make up wearing the things he likes conducting myself the way he likes. Its just this up and downess.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 08:50 PM
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yes he likes that... but, when he is to stressed not so much.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 08:47 PM
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I am in Ireland studying English and Film. He would like to move to France. The fees would be astronomical but, I will look into it. I don't speak French either. He does. I would, if I can find a way I most certainly will.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 08:46 PM
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Ok, that is good to know! thank you :) god, I hope I don't fuck up to much.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 08:44 PM
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why do you think that?
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 08:41 PM
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Nope, don't think that would help at all.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 08:40 PM
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He is a chef... (which explains a lot apparently a lot are like this), so he generally is not hungry when he gets in between 11pm and 1am. A clean house and a warm bed is what he wants. (And a sleeping girlfriend, he loves chatting to me but, hates keeping me up). I am exercising and meditating as often as possible this is the best encouragement because he naturally hates being told what to go but, this leaves it in his mind that he can do it.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 08:40 PM
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thank you x
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 08:37 PM
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I don't!! Lord never ever. Not the body but, the mood. Like because he feels this uncontrollable emotion that he can't fight I just ask him to note how I feel (when I met him my PMS was extreme but, I have eaten better and worked out more and gotten rid of it). I just used it as a way for him to understand how I felt which I know he appreciates. But, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 08:36 PM
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I think that this monster in his head will try and make him push me and push me till I don't have a choice but, out of self respect to go. He makes the problem money, then job, then me. When we both know fundamentally it is his attitude.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 08:28 PM
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I actually tell him that he should get my PMS now because he is up and down. He tells me that he gets it now. lol.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 08:26 PM
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beer and a cigarette seem to be his cure (he doesn't normally smoke) but, then he feels shit for doing that. I guess the saddest thing is that the more depressed he seems to get the more he wants me to leave and find someone that "deserves me"
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 08:21 PM
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Hit the needle on the head there.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 08:20 PM
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because he most defiantly includes me in these ups and downs. He likes expressing things to me. He wants me to be there for him.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 08:20 PM
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I am 23 and my bf is 36... I know I have a RPW leaning but, I still think he is mature as I am lol. He is a chef I guess...
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