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I would sum this up in the category: be interesting If you are talking like everyone else you will not be perceived as special. So talk about different subject matters, talk in a different style(including vocabulary and delivery). Have enough things to say so as to avoid running out of stuff. Know how to transition from one topic to the next.
/r/seduction07/08/16 02:08 PM
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So be a verbal wrecking ball to their autopilot. What are some examples of the weirder things you said?
/r/seduction07/08/16 02:02 PM
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1st: Kudos for having done actual experiments and not just spouting theory. This works for all sorts of things and it works REALLY REALLY well. What you mean it works for all kind of things? Examples please?
/r/seduction07/08/16 02:01 PM
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The mistake is on your part. I only ask for number when I know there is a good chance for it working out. But to get there I had to collect lots of nonsense numbers. So keep going, just dont blame it on her.
/r/seduction13/10/14 08:29 PM
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If you get this kind of attention usually from women she might be interested, if not, she is just making the sale.
/r/seduction13/08/14 11:20 PM
1

Dont focus on confidence, focus on competence. Confidence without competence is delusion. Confidence should be a consequence of competence.
/r/seduction07/12/13 10:52 PM
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Pro tip: dont go there! Or do non verbal game. Seriously, part of the game is selecting the right venues. Explore the city.
/r/seduction21/10/13 01:46 PM
1

I only watched small parts. I dont think the opener was good. But overall your delivery and bl, smiling were great. I think you are on the right path.
/r/seduction08/10/13 11:57 PM
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I've also had other dates that led to me getting a job, being invited to an elite party, and hearing about an opening for a coveted internship. Can you elaborate on that? Im assuming you are male and the dates were of romantic nature with females.
/r/seduction08/10/13 01:59 PM
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Its hard to give feedback withtout knowing you in person. I know that some people can be very awkward to interact, actually I met one such guy the other day... he made me feel terrible and I avoided him. I would suggest you try to find some people that are also into self improvement. That can be people in a local lair or some other group that practices communication like toastmasters.
/r/seduction14/09/13 12:27 PM
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What do you mean by "the bullshit at bars and clubs"? I think women in bars and clubs will be brutally honest. This is unlike other social meetings(e.g. workplace) where there are certain expectations of politeness towards others. There is no such thing at night, especially towards strangers. So if a girl doesnt like you she will either express her dislike directly or try to ignore you at the first opportunity. At first the above makes it feel like bad places to go, but if you look from a differ…
/r/seduction14/09/13 12:24 PM
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Its just what I thought about, choose what fits your interests.
/r/seduction11/08/13 04:24 PM
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This is hard to answer in writing because it is more a question of reading the other people and how you present yourself and carry yourself. Social skills is the keyword. A general advice is not to invite a single person but instead suggest some group activity to the group, e.g. if it is martial arts: why dont we meet together to watch the next UFC.
/r/seduction11/08/13 02:02 PM
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Find some activity that interests you, e.g. martial arts. Find a place where people practice it and join. Doing activities is one of the best ways to make new friends.
/r/seduction10/08/13 11:14 PM
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After a while, I tell him I'm impressed and wished I had his game. His only reply was, "What do you mean? It's easy. You just say hi."
/r/seduction10/08/13 11:35 AM
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Assuming your post is not ficiton: You just say hi. If it were that simple I would have gotten laid hundreds of times by now. That is the problem with most naturals is that they dont have a clue of why they are good. For them it is just their way of being. They dont realize that having the social skillset that is natural for them isnt for many other guys. So if you dont have this smoothness just saying Hi is not going to work.
/r/seduction09/08/13 09:40 PM
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Have you ever tried to analyse his modus operandi and reverse engineer it? Because that is what PU is all about. I know some naturals myself that are pretty impressive but unfortunately I didnt manage to hang out with them long enough to analyse them.
/r/seduction09/08/13 09:31 PM
5

Cool bro! Upvote!
/r/seduction01/04/13 04:30 AM
4

Thanks for the feedback! Did you actually ever do some live in field training or just watched videos, read stuff?
/r/seduction01/04/13 12:01 AM
9

Could you provide a bit more details of how exactly you proceeded to put it into practice? You wrote somewhere else that you always were a great conversationalist. Did you use any of his routines or just the concepts?
/r/seduction31/03/13 10:58 PM
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A friend of mine did this, he didn't get laid once. He was 20 years old and good looking.
/r/seduction31/03/13 10:51 PM
1

Memorize a couple of openers and start using them. I think it is very liberating mastering the art of approaching on your own. I learned it the hard way, believe me, it is possible. Just get out until you manage to get over it, the barrier is only in your mind. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eExL1VLkQYk
/r/seduction29/03/13 07:28 AM
1

The other night I did this when talking to some female friends: (pointing to another set of girls) "I think I know this one girl, I'll brb, let me talk to her." I went over and was blown out, so I returned to my friends and said "No, it wasn't her." :) You see what I did there?
/r/seduction29/03/13 07:24 AM
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Thanks a lot, I really needed this. After reading so much negative stuff about PU it's good to hear a success story!
/r/seduction29/03/13 07:15 AM
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Yes, do it!
/r/seduction29/03/13 06:41 AM
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Competence breeds confidence. I started with zero confidence myself, you grow your confidence with every interaction you have, even if they are not successful.
/r/seduction25/03/13 08:47 PM
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That's where the attraction phase with all the DHV material comes in. Only after you created enough attraction do you move on to qualification. The correct order is Opening -> attraction -> etc... Do you know the Mystery(M3) model?
/r/seduction21/03/13 06:32 AM
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I don't think so. Qualification makes her invest more into the interaction, solidifying it. But there has to be attraction before that.
/r/seduction21/03/13 06:03 AM
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Yes, my secret is that I never started drinking.
/r/seduction21/03/13 05:20 AM
1

As always the mistake is in the previous phase of PU: attraction. She won't want to qualify herself to you if she is not attracted to you in the first place. So the correct answer is not a line or a gimmick but "work on your (attraction) game."
/r/seduction20/03/13 10:38 PM
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Zero. Yes, that's right. I don't drink and the venues I'm going nowadays are mostly street or no entrance-fee bars. I drink some water occasionally and of course I have to pay the bus fare. That's it. And I still get to talk to a lot of girls for free. So, PU can be cheap.
/r/seduction20/03/13 10:36 PM
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So wait up, you figure it's fake and staged and the guy couldn't even stage it right except for the kiss? Yes, you know acting convincingly is not that easy and neither is faking a PU video. Guys with in field experience can tell the difference.
/r/seduction20/03/13 10:29 PM
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I agree with you. Either the video is fake or this girl reacted in a totally unnatural way. I don't see this as a good way of PU. IMHO the guy's delivery is totally off.
/r/seduction20/03/13 10:28 PM
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It seem you are looking for some kind of formula. There is no such thing. Just get over it. I suspect that once you actually log field time and start getting rejections you will realize that it's not a big deal. Then you will kick yourself for not starting with the process earlier. But it is important for your learning experience, you cannot learn without going in the field, and rejection will be part of it!
/r/seduction19/03/13 08:16 AM
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Yep, and sadly if you read the other comments a lot of people seem to be falling for this kind of crap.
/r/seduction12/03/13 10:46 PM
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MUAHAHAHAHAHAH AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! Sorry guys, but I had to laugh out loud for the patheticalness of this!!! I went to your website and watched the video but I couldn't finish it. One word, lame! Just another self-proclaimed guru trying to sell advice. $ 200 for one session? Btw, how long is one session? 1 hour? Btw, I wouldn't normally comment on that but since you are marketing I have to say: sorry, but your girlfriend doesn't seem particularly attractive, I don't have much game but I've da…
/r/seduction12/03/13 06:49 PM
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Dude, there is not much you could have done at that point. Usually things go wrong way before, as always she wasn't that attracted to you. Solution? Work on your game. If you want to stay friends with her in the hope of getting laid, don't. If you want to stay friends for other reasons, great, just don't expect more from her than you would from a guy friend. Focus on your game, find new girls, enjoy life! Focusing on this one girl will be a waste of time!
/r/seduction12/03/13 06:37 PM
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I qualify the statement a bit: being friends with a girl is not the problem, being and orbiter is. An orbiter is someone who is friends with a girl because he expects to eventually get sex from her. Don't be that guy. I have at least one good friend who is a girl and she is the one that introduced me to my last girlfriend. But I don't orbit around her and I go out with my friends and PU girls all the time. So yes, having female friends can be good, just make sure that you are friends for the rig…
/r/seduction06/03/13 02:28 AM
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Who is this guy?
/r/seduction04/02/13 06:08 AM
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What countries have you been to? The suing culture in America is part of the reason people are so polite(in general).
/r/seduction22/01/13 06:03 PM
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I'm neither a lawyer nor do I know the particulars of this case. I recently sued a shop because they refused to sell me merchandise. I sued them but I didn't have any proof besides my word against theirs. They lost because their defense lawyer made a technical mistake(don't know how the case would have ended without that) and I was awarded several thousands in damage. Yes, it is true.
/r/seduction20/01/13 04:25 PM
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Hardly, lol, I'm going there for years now, not a problem.
/r/seduction20/01/13 04:22 PM
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I don't get it. You think it is permissible to drag people out by their neck?
/r/seduction20/01/13 03:09 AM
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I get that, but AFAIK they are still not allowed to drag you out, at least not before asking you to leave politely first.
/r/seduction20/01/13 03:08 AM
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I agree, I always talk with the bouncer when I arrive.
/r/seduction20/01/13 02:18 AM
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The point is he was assaulted and could/should file a lawsuit.
/r/seduction20/01/13 01:10 AM
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Agreed. I've been out with dudes who are soley there to pickup girls, and have provided zero cash for the bar. I think that's a bit rude. There is a bar that I always go to, and I never paid a single penny, why should I? Btw, I'm still friends with the bouncer.
/r/seduction19/01/13 09:51 PM
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Did you read what he wrote? He was dragged out by the neck.
/r/seduction19/01/13 09:49 PM
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Why do you care about the bar staff?
/r/seduction19/01/13 09:46 PM
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He dragged you out? How about a lawsuit?
/r/seduction19/01/13 09:42 PM
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Dance classes, lots of women there.
/r/seduction11/01/13 01:18 AM
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The big point here is how have you been hitting on the girls? It boils all down to your delivery, what are you conveying to the room. The fact that some girls seemed wary of you(I'm assuming they really were and it wasn't you that read something into them that wasn't actually there) is a hint that you came over as not as charming as you would like. There is no problem on "hitting" on every girl in a room, the art lies in doing it in a charming way so as not to convey that you are actually "hitti…
/r/seduction09/10/12 02:40 AM
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One aspect that she didn't touch on. Voice. Do you become more alpha if you speak louder? Laugh more? Is telling a joke and making people laugh a signal of social dominance?
/r/seduction02/10/12 02:45 AM
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One aspect that she didn't touch on. Voice. Do you become more alpha if you speak louder? Laugh more? Is telling a joke and making people laugh a signal of social dominance?
/r/seduction02/10/12 01:33 AM
2

Try watching a movie in a foreign language.
/r/seduction11/09/12 09:10 AM
2

Yep... I focus more on verbal because I think it makes you more into a rounded, social being. Most human communication is verbal after all.
/r/seduction10/09/12 10:41 PM
1

I use ear muffs when going to loud clubs! Really, and it generates a lot of attention so it is a good thing. Lots of people think I'm a DJ because of them. My health is more important than other people's opinions. In general I avoid loud clubs because you can't really talk, which makes it harder/impossible to run verbal games.
/r/seduction10/09/12 09:32 PM
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Intelligence is attractive but it has to be conveyed in the right manner. "Intelligent" conversations don't necessarily convey that your intelligent, usually they convey "this guy only knows how to talk about his narrow boring field of knowledge". If you are really intelligent you should notice what mood people are in and how to make them feel good and that is the real art of PU.
/r/seduction21/05/12 07:48 AM
0

Would you mind putting up a picture of you or two?
/r/seduction21/05/12 07:20 AM
1

One word: Looks!
/r/seduction21/05/12 07:19 AM
1

More interesting to me is that the preferred teaching method has been 3 day weekend bootcamps and seminars since 1995. Yes... this is terrible and IMHO totally wrong. The right way to teach PU would be like martial arts, you pay a small monthly fee and practice every week, steadily improving.
/r/seduction11/05/12 05:17 AM
1

One thing that I was curious for a long time: Does anyone know the evolution of boot camp prices? I know that Style paid $ 500 for his BC with Mystery, that must have been around 2002,2003. Nowadays they are like $ 3500. Anyone ever compiled a time line?
/r/seduction11/05/12 03:06 AM
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First of all it is not clear in what tone the question was said. I'm assuming she didn't say it in a happy voice implying that she is enjoying your coming back. That being said, and I don't want to put down the other answers here, what exactly is it that you hope to accomplish with the "right" answer? My point here is that there is no magic right answer that will change her feelings for you. The impression she formed about you was determined by the interaction you had before, this is where you s…
/r/seduction08/05/12 07:38 AM
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Your question is wrong. The true alpha would not have a problem with a break up because he would have other options. So if the break up is a big deal for you that is the basic problem that needs to be addressed. The answer is you shouldn't worry much about break ups, instead you should worry about improving yourself to the point where you are attractive enough to have options. When you are at that point and a girl leaves you, then you can shrug it off. Btf, my ex broke-up with me and it hurt a l…
/r/seduction08/05/12 07:24 AM
1

Yes: choose a quieter bar, venue. Choosing the right venue is part of the game. I simply don't go to loud bars and when I go I try mostly non-verbal game: approach girls on the dance floor, see which ones are receptive, etc... but usually I avoid such places, I only go there when friends invite me out.
/r/seduction08/05/12 07:19 AM
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From my limited knowledge and practice of game(100's of sets): She was interested in you. When the other guy came he AMOGed you, so this lowered your value in her eyes and at this point she probably lost any interest she had in you. What you could have done: 1) If she was more interested in you in the first place she wouldn't have let the other guy drag her away. 2) Other than that it comes down to an Amog battle, I'm not a specialist in this area so I don't know what you should do either. Just …
/r/seduction02/03/12 07:50 PM
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Thx a lot. Would be great if we could have Mystery here.
/r/seduction02/03/12 07:43 PM
1

Was that the video from "The mind of Mystery"?
/r/seduction07/02/12 12:34 AM
3

Dude, make your move... get blown out... move on. Obsessing over one girl is not worth it, there are 3.5 billion ou there if you still believe your one is special, sorry, but you are wrong.
/r/seduction06/02/12 08:01 PM
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I hope I don't get in trouble for this. Mystery is a nice guy but he's pretty weird. He's definitely not in the same world as you or I. He's amazing at picking up girls, but he's a really weird guy, and his life is entirely about seduction and the community. Funny that nowadays it's almost impossible to do a BC with Mystery. There are BCs listed in the venusianarts.com website but you never know who the instructors will be. Do you know how it would be possible to do a BC with him and do you thin…
/r/seduction04/09/11 04:22 PM
1

You learn by doing. In this case hook up with the girl. Trying to think your way out is the wrong approach. Do it, feel the anxiety of "what will others think" and get used to it until it wears off. This is essentially cognitive behavioral therapy. Btw I'm not a therapist so take all this with a grain of salt.
/r/seduction31/08/11 08:01 AM
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As a long time redditor and PU-community member I disagree with you. This stuff is very relevant and important! People should be informed before shelling out thousands of dollars for a BC.
/r/seduction14/08/11 09:41 PM
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It is relevant because a lot of people come here to seek information, including info on which companies services to buy. So it is fair to warn them of current business practices of said companies.
/r/seduction14/08/11 09:37 PM
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Ross Jeffries has been trying to bring Mystery down for over a decade now. I don't consider him an unbiased source. True, no source is unbiased, but that doesn't mean we should ignore it. If Ross Jeffries is willing to put his name behind this it's probably because it is legit.
/r/seduction14/08/11 09:36 PM
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seconded and upvoted!
/r/seduction14/08/11 09:34 PM
2

AFAIK Discovery has more or less admitted to it as far as can be verified by accounts from other famous people in the PU community(Ross Jeffries). I have personally talked to the guy over Skype, for me this seems legit, he wouldn't have anything to gain for making this shit up. You are right though, on the internet you can never be 100% sure, you might as well stop reading reddit altogether.
/r/seduction14/08/11 09:31 PM
1

This is probably the best reply here.
/r/seduction14/08/11 06:50 PM
1

Seconded. Just going out is already a big accomplishment.
/r/seduction14/08/11 06:44 PM
1

First: Don't take anti depressants or alcohol. I can tell you how I solved the problem of approaching in day game when I had the same problem as you: Make regular approach missions. Set aside specific times and locations during the week where your only objective will be to go to a public venue and try to approach women. Mind you, the objective is only to go and try. So if you went and spent the allotted time in the venue and tried but didn't manage to approach a single women it is still a succes…
/r/seduction14/08/11 06:42 PM
1

I second this totally. People obsess over the opener way more than they should. If the girl doesn't like you for some reason, no matter what opener you use... its blow out. If she likes you she will react positively with almost any opener. That being said it is still important that you project a fun, positive, energetic vibe when opening. Increases your chances of success.
/r/seduction14/08/11 06:12 PM
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I've been going out this weekend and opened lots of sets. Blow outs are just normal. Friday night I went to a dancefloor. Opened set after set with dancing moves... blow out after blow out... but I kept going unphased, the last girl I opened was the hottest and guess what... she opened fine. I extracted her and got a kiss close. No big deal. Part of what will make you attractive to the room/girls is when you just keep going. Don't let blow outs phase you out, just keep projecting a fun positive …
/r/seduction14/08/11 06:10 PM
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Sorry I didn't get what was so bad or embarrassing about the incident. Sure she was a transvestite, so what?
/r/seduction05/07/11 02:20 AM
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