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chadchadovsky/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 03:15 AM
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The "truth" in these matters is very subjective, we are just focusing on the pros of break up to make the whole thing easier. And this is repeated so much around here BECAUSE IT WORKS. So what if I deeply care about a girl in a relationship that has to end? Saying this aloud won't help me at all. Telling myself that she is a dirty replaceable whore, will. I was genuinely scared to drop some LTRs(even after 10 years in the game and insane success some fears/thoughts never fully go away) but guess…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 12:33 AM
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Ok so you are OP and have 2 choices: 1: Spend 2 hours working and then order 9 over to fuck your brains out all night 2: Spend hours trying to get date, get date with a 6, spend hours on a date, possibly get half-decent sex at the end? Yeah, #2 might become more profitable long-term but who wants to bang 6s long-term? OP is already in decent shape so as far as looks/getting dates goes, he is hitting diminishing returns. Hell, even most TRP guys will never be able to get 9s. Should he just choose…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 09:05 PM
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lol I am more surprised you got the upvotes. True pimp doesn't care if girls actually like/care about him... that's the definition of beta / approval-seeking thinking. And gym to get adoration from people, wtf?
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 09:16 PM
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Patrice O'neal suggested using logic vs her emotions in the context of LTR. You won't get far using this to get new pussy. Anyway, the rest of the post is on point. Betas change themselves to please/try to get the girl. Alphas just state their intentions clearly - no logic and no arguing necessary.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 09:07 PM
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Translation: She sees your SMV to be around hers or slightly lower(not skipping event for you, being too playful) so she reacts negatively to a small insult/joke. You can probably still make it with her(she is at least slightly interested) but I wouldn't recommend it. Work on your SMV, nothing else matters.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 10:48 PM
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Even the most hardcore feminists respond well to true alpha, but you probably aren't and she is gonna smell it from far away and call you on it. Be normal and don't go anywhere near politics.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 10:45 PM
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Shit tests are supposed to be light, teasing, playful... Only delusional PUAs believe girls seriously disrespect guys they want to fuck. Something like 95% of my bangs came from girls that were VERY receptive/did minimum shit-testing from the beginning. Don't be autistic, if she shows disinterest EJECT like a rocket and find a girl that will appreciate a high-value guy such as yourself. Always see yourself as higher value then girl(as you should be) and this won't be an issue.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 10:42 PM
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Hungboy's answer is correct. Entrepreneurship is trendy right now so every hs dropout and facebook mom thinks they can make it. Running any business and competing(even online ones) is hard. Even for barley profitable niches you are competing with very smart people from third world countries who can work 16h/day and are wayyy hungrier than you. My advice? Unless you have savings, experience or real desire + character for this shit and can commit for at least 2 years, don't even bother. Your energ…
/r/askTRP18/10/19 10:24 PM
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Here is the thing: Guys from 13 to 110 all want the same: ~20 years old girl. Here is what options guys at 50 have: Top tier SMV(9-10): Hot early 20s girl Second tier(8): Hot 25-35 girl Third tier(6-7): Decent/hot 40s woman Betas(5-low 6): 45-50 years old, still decent looking woman. Everyone else: Woman like the one from the article? How many quality guys do you think she rejected in her youth? This is the ultimate karma.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/19 04:09 AM
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If she is cringing you already lost(she isn't attracted). A year ago I went on a date with a feminist, communist, philosophy student and even though we disagreed just about everything she messaged me to meet again on whatsapp, after I didn't respond for few days she went back on tinder and said her whatsapp died and she is not sure I saw her message, but she wants to meet again :) Work on your SMV, nothing else matters.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 05:59 AM
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On average pretty true from my experience.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 05:53 AM
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With your current friends and family, you already established a certain image and it will take years of hard work to change it. Best way to speed it up is to make yourself unavailable(get busy with more important things). With new people? - Look like somebody that's to be respected(muscles, clothes, body language). Don't smile, don't be "nice" until they deserve it. - When somebody oversteps your boundaries make it known. Either stand your ground or remove them from your life. - Be high value. -…
/r/askTRP01/10/19 02:03 AM
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You shouldn't care at all about her cheating. Paradoxically the less you care the lower chances she will actually do it. Redpill is more about not giving a fuck about what "they do", living your life to maximum without much(if any) attachment to pussy, which again usually means more of it. They come, they go... "she is not yours, it's just your turn"...
/r/askTRP29/09/19 11:42 PM
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Whe she is not sure or she says no that means your perceived SMV is too low. She would never do this to a guy with much higher value than herself. So you already lost this one, work on your SMV and try again with different girls.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 11:37 PM
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This is gonna be tough: - if you report him/try to use the authority you end-up looking like a little bitch. - if you move, you end up looking like a little bitch(probably best options though). - if you use weapon you risk shitload of serious legal trouble and you still end up looking like a little bitch. I am gonna assume you have pretty low social status // no friends to stick up for you (or help you ambush him). You've been dealt a tough card, my friend. You are not really an alpha(physically…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 11:35 PM
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Translation: Beta guy figured out the rules of the game and is now playing sexual strategy that actually benefits him, after being fucked over all his life... Now all the women and white knights are losing their minds. Imagine if instead it was a girl explaining how guys denied her sexual strategy all her youth and she is now "a tinder slut"... Everybody would be congratulating her and again demonize guys for treating her so badly before. We are in a wired timeline man.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 07:41 PM
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Stfu and learn.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 03:36 AM
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1: Try to get her to come to your home to watch a movie :) 2: No 3: Don't think about this. Even if you think you suck at talking with women, just show up and talk about silly things around you, ask her some personal questions... No politics(especially if she disagrees with you), no sad things... Keep it fun and don't overthink it! 4: Casually tell her you just moved in or something, doesn't matter at all. 5: It doesn't really matter. Just don't do it half-ass.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 03:35 AM
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It should be 10% or less theory 90% practice(even for beginners) you know what to do. Go out, lift something heavy, approach a cute girl, make some friends... Jesus, it's not that hard.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 12:22 AM
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You wrote you were not interested in a cute nurse but you remembered her and wrote a paragraph about her... She treated you like it's her job, because IT IS HER JOB. What did you do to change this? Is she supposed to just drop panties for every patient? Or let me guess, for some reason you deserve more "human connection" with her, right:)? Did you do any of this "human connecting" with homeless people you saw on the street before? You are not unplugged, you are just bitter. Go lift, make somethi…
/r/askTRP25/09/19 11:45 PM
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Don't try to force it as you will come across as try-hard. For me it's natural at this point, I get excited to see a beautiful woman. I move her around, have fun, escalation comes by itself. You also have to really internalize that it's not you VS her. If she likes you, she WANTS YOU TO TOUCH HER and if she really likes you then she is dyyyying for you to do it :)
/r/askTRP25/09/19 11:38 PM
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You got it backwards. Bullies are generally looking for weak people to easily pick on / get status point without themselves getting hurt. If you respond with strenght they will know even if they mess again with you, they will likely get hurt in the process. I never saw somebody try to get revenge like this later, you might be reading too much Machiavelli.It's like poker, you need to be aggressive a couple of times(with a good hand) so your opponent is too afraid to call your bluffs. In real life…
/r/askTRP25/09/19 11:25 PM
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This has nothing to do with the girl, you failed to escalate initially(using lame excuses) and then continued to fail throughout the date(understandably as it gets harder and harder). I fucked virgins with 0 resistance on first dates when my SMV was 2-3 points higher. You opened by saying you are looking for LTR not plates, well... You will never learn this way. Even if you get good LTR(inexperienced guy looking for LTR probably won't), chances are it won't be for long, sooner or later you will …
/r/askTRP25/09/19 09:49 PM
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OK basic stuff...You should NEVER try to keep a conversation going with plate, LTR, friend... They should always be competing for your precious time. Within 1-3 texts you should tell her you would like to take her on a date and nothing else. If you keep getting rejected that means you didn't leave good enough first impression. Work on your looks and analyze how you come off in short initial interactions...
/r/askTRP25/09/19 09:43 PM
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If you plan on soft nexting her why write this long-ass post? I think you really like the girl but you read a little too much TRP and you are now confused and not even sure what you want. If you didn't care at all, you would just brush all of this off and not give it a second thought. So here is my advice: Be a man and ask yourself what do you want from the girl then tell her that and if she doesn't play along, replace.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 09:13 PM
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I've been in a similar situation quite a few times, so few more thoughts:- If you really don't want to fight, be the coolest guy around. Nobody wants to mess with a guy that everybody loves. If you tell him you are game after he calls you out, one of 2 things is likely to happen: - He will be shocked and in attempt to save skin he will try to switch frame and escalate verbally + start taunting you. Don't play his game, be calm but 100% ready to explode. Don't call him pussy or try to push it onc…
/r/askTRP25/09/19 09:02 PM
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Obviously be smart, if he seriously outweighs you or you know he has a lot of fighting experience(I train MT and would bet on street fighter in street vs average MT fighter), better pussy down and live to fight another day. Same if he has friends to help him around.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 08:02 PM
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Start training muay thai, next time he calls you out calmly reply: go ahead and smile. If he approaches, calmly put your long guard up and don't let him come closer then that. If he pushes even a little, take his head off. This is my problem with TRP, you guys always try to find an easy way out... Sometimes it doesn't exist. Dealing with "real alphas" you will sometimes be seriously pushed and have to firmly stand your ground. Best way to avoid these situations is to look intimidating, be bully …
/r/askTRP25/09/19 08:00 PM
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Obviously your career is more important than girls and it's your senior year so focus on that! Online dating which probably offers best time ROI. Even if you aren't getting laid I would recommend it over prostitutes, simply to build up experience. It also seems you have little to lose so I would be fairly aggressive there - say hi, 5min of chit-chat and ask her out. If she refuses, next one.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 07:44 PM
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Both are valid and depend on the exact dynamic between you two we can't see, although #1 is much more likely correct. If you are high SMV guy chances of fucking her are still ~90% after hearing this(it means shit). If I see on a date it really won't happen I am much more likely to cut it short there, you know... Have to work early next day or something. Then obviously never contact her again, as there are other options around willing to spread their legs to get into awesome life of a high SMV gu…
/r/askTRP25/09/19 06:39 PM
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I think you are making certain parts of the story up. You started with 3 lays in 2k approaches and after seeing yourself on camera ... now you get laid every night you go out :) ? Well I am 6'2, good looking, 10 years and 1000s of cold approaches, without aspergers(I hope lol), living in South America(country/city where white skin is a serious advantage) and I don't get laid every night I go out. In my PUA days I actually went out with guys that didn't get laid for 500+ cold approaches and they …
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 06:27 PM
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No, you failed it hard. You should have ignored her comment or respond in a funny/cooky way. Instead, you came off as a try-hard asshole.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 04:43 AM
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It's a funny thing, some guys after a lot of experience with women lose interest in chasing pussy and want to find serious gf/wife(many famous PUAs), others like me realize that no woman today is really worth that commitment. For me the list goes like this: LTR pros: - emotional connection and all the feelz - 24/7 sex LTR cons: - She has 3000 problems I now have to care about. - I am usually paying (much)more than with plates - I usually can't fuck other women - If my SMV is higher then hers the…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 12:22 AM
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No, she has a bunch of 7s for that purpose. As a 5 you literally don't exist in 8s world, sorry.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 08:26 PM
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I've seen this happen so many times... You have to understand that guy surely had at least 3 points higher SMV then her(so her hamster figures they are a match made in heaven). If you are on the same level(or even slightly above) this won't happen, not even close. She has 10 other options that are on "her level". Average guy(5) on the other hand wouldn't even get a date with 3 points hotter girl. Not even online conversation, she would probably think he is a fucking creep for trying to talk with…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 03:18 AM
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Patrice was 1 in a million. So much ahead of his time. Some of the things he said are controversial even now on /trp but I think in the next few years we gonna see he was right about almost everything. Rest in peace you magnificent bastard.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 02:20 AM
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It's not as much stupid question as a meaningless one. What changes for you if the number is 5% or 50% ? On some guy, all the women are gonna cheat, on another 0, ever.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 04:47 PM
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top 20%: Good looking enough that most girls would be happy to take a picture with him and post on social media. Good job, but nothing crazy. At least a few friends. Goal oriented, positive, masculine mindset. top 10%: Even better looking(good genetics or at least ripped). Great job(think doctor, lawyer, engineer, entrepreneur...). Extended social circle, so wherever guy goes he usually has friends. Actually the last could easily be top 1-5% guy as well. I think after you get a "high level" job …
/r/askTRP03/06/19 06:49 PM
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You are overthinking this. You spent a decent amount of time writing about a girl you are not even fucking. I lived in Playa del carmen for a while and had a rule, if she isn't 100% F-I-R-E about me, letting me have it on the first date, then I am done - her fucking loss. No games, no "hanging out", NOTHING. There are just so many others, willing to appreciate a high-value gringo :) At the base level women are the same everywhere. Either you are the highest value prospect in their line and they …
/r/askTRP15/05/19 06:34 AM
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Same for Muay Thai. Something small 2h before although I only notice difference if I fasted for 20h+ before.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 10:47 PM
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If you can somehow get into her phone(peak when she types pin or something) then do that. If not, put her on the spot and tell her to show you the phone or relationship is over. There is no third option.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 10:45 PM
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As others pointed out, numbers don't add up and her real number is more likely ~60 something. To answer your question directly: No, chances are you won't be able to overcome her past. She fucked better looking, wealthier, stronger, bigger, funnier, more interesting... guys than you. And she will always compare you to the best ones she got before. Also, ask yourself why it didn't work out for her before. Why all these guys fucked&dumped her? And now that it's your turn you will give her all the l…
/r/askTRP15/01/19 05:44 PM
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You actually handled the situation well. She started ignoring you because for some reason you stopped being her #1 choice. Maybe you didn't fuck her well enough, maybe higher SMV guy came along... Maybe she was just horny and you were never her #1. ​ It doesn't really matter. Ignore and move to the next one.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 05:32 PM
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Hi, how are you, which part of the city are you from, let's go for a drink in X hours. Every single fucking time. Don't go off script, it doesn't matter which country are you from, how hot is she... - nothing. She matched you, assume she wants your dick and go for it. This was such a huge revelation for me, I used to spend days talking with bitches just to find they lost interest. Friend recommended I become direct and it was day and night difference.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 02:05 AM
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I worked harder then you can imagine for my smv. Stop complaining and run to the gym, NOW!
/r/askTRP15/01/19 12:15 AM
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Few convos I just shared in another thread: https://imgur.com/a/T2VwKeA and this is from the girls I mostly ignore :) Being high SMV you pretty much get pussy "with just a ring of your phone". Right now I have 8.5 latina in the room(my ltr), she is patiently waiting for me to finish my work(or wasting time on reddit). After I will go and fuck her with everything I got. Then she will make me a delicious meal, smoke a joint with me and cuddle while we watch whatever I want. Then more "high sex" an…
/r/askTRP15/01/19 12:05 AM
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What do you mean attracted to them? You think millions of years of evolution will get thrown out the window simply by re-learning that women aren't innocent little angels Disney brainwashed us to believe they are :)? I am now at a point where I actually enjoy the true female nature. It's like playing poker but seeing your opponents cards. There is almost 0 chance she wins. It's adorable watching them do silly things... Even seeing other guys or anything that would hurt me in the past. It's expec…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 11:46 PM
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You were her #1 but failed to cement this in her little head. She found higher SMV man who did everything you did + fucked her brains out. Just a few "texting examples" of being her #1 from ChadChadovsky :) https://imgur.com/a/T2VwKeA ​ ​
/r/askTRP14/01/19 11:28 PM
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Telling her the truth about how her actions make you feel is not BP. She is disrespecting you and you are just taking it on the chin, that's the definition of BP my friend. Again, is $1000 worth 3 more weeks of emotional pain? I'd say HELL NO. And you know very well by now that situation ain't gonna fix itself. There might be another way, but it requires some serious mental discipline... Just ignore her, like all the time. Do other things, don't initiate anything. You don't need to go on dates b…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 11:09 PM
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A while ago I was in almost the same situation. This will hurt and there is no easy solution, you will suffer either way. Does possibly losing $1000 mean more to you than a month of emotional pain? Because that's what you will get. Possibly the worst month of your life. Instead of hitting up the girls and making progress you will JUST SUFFER. Sit her down, tell her how you feel. She isn't just a plate and you aren't being needy by establishing some normal boundaries. If she chooses a trip over y…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 10:45 PM
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Drastic change. Be realistic, right now you can't get a "healthy female with BF below 25" do you think in a year your SMV will increase by 2% 5% 10 %? How much change do you need to go from shitty girls to mid-top tier? A LOT. Most guys here are still in the beta mindset where they worry about health and doing things in moderations... If you really want the results hit the steroids, get plastic surgery, get tattoos, work 16 hours per day, drop a bank on car/place/clothes and most importantly put…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 10:34 PM
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You got a simple shit test and feeling insecure you failed it with honors. Bravo. Imagine Chad doing hb3 a favor by fucking her, do you really think he needs to put her down after she tries to make him a little jealous? Nope. 0 fucks will be given. Next time Her: Look at all these IG guys that make my pussy wet You: Yeah, you can go fuck all of them but first make me a sandwich.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 10:24 PM
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Listen, you telling her that you like her is not a cardinal sin TRP guys would have you believe it is. That's not the reason she didn't text you in 2 weeks(she found someone else, sorry). Your overall behavior(not pushing for sex, talking too much.... god knows what else) made her see you as a friend. One of 20+ that are blowing up on her phone. So she has no reason to text you. I 100% promise you that she isn't playing games and waiting for you to chase. If she wants your D she will do anything…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 09:03 PM
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He was just one of the first ones to travel around for pussy and describe it in great detail. Sure it works, your SMV as a westerner in 3rd world countries will be few points higher(I am currently doing this, high SMV at home, godlike in South America). Is he any good and are his books worth buying? Not really, just find this stuff on the internet. There is some useful information on rooshvforum but I don't recommend spending too much time there.... Huge echo chamber and you will get banned for …
/r/askTRP14/01/19 08:51 PM
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You are asking us if a girl that is cheating on her BF with you might cheat on you in the future? Well............ Free meals, good sex, unlimited rubs... She sounds like a perfect plate. Use and dump when the time comes.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 08:35 PM
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NoFap takes some mastery, I took me a few tries before I learned to 100% block sexual thoughts the second they arise(except when with a girl) because after you get hard and ready it's usually too late to turn back. The scientific literature on this is weak but I experienced positive benefits that are almost 100% not "placebo". Around day 20 I wasn't even thinking about (no)fapping anymore, I just went out and without thinking talked to a bunch of strangers. I had a REAL smile on my face and even…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 08:28 PM
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I have girls texting me after months or even years of radio silence. If you are high SMV male with some game it will be hard for them to forget you. She will be waiting for your texts all the time and when she finally gets it, a huge dopamine spike will make you even more special in her eyes. You are either her first choice or you are not. Your fear of her moving on is only legit if you have the same SMV/game as her other orbiters. Stick out, make no excuses. FUCK HER BRAINS OUT WHEN YOU SEE HER…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 06:16 PM
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Legit. A bunch of betas here worrying they are gonna get STD's and die from 2 girls they fuck per year :) Spermjacking is equally funny... Unless you are 8.5+ in looks, outearning her at least 10x.... You have nothing to worry about. 0. Nada. She doesn't wanna do anything with your sperm, sorry.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 12:13 AM
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Did you guys read his post? He is already lifting, stop telling him to "just try harder" ... It seems this guy tried "harder" and it didn't work. My advice would be to try a couple of different people to talk with. CBT can work miracles. Next would be a bunch of blood test for any deficiencies. Last resort: Shrooms/LSD or even good weed trip(especially edibles) can change your perspective on things. When I am stuck for weeks/months, I'll get high out of my mind and see things in a new, usually b…
/r/askTRP12/01/19 09:16 PM
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Look at the guys face, he looks like an out of shape viking. If he lost some weight, took care of his hair and stuff... I think he could be in top5 % just lookswise for his age group. Wife on the other hand aged for like 20 years in the last 5. Imagine dude starts working on himself, in 3 years he could have some deadly SMV... Wife, on the other hand will be a 2-3 by then. Shame he is such a beta, probably beyond redemption. And I love me some JBP but obviously, his advice sucks here. Hit the gy…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/19 12:00 AM
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LoL Jordan is the ultimate Alpha. He got shitty physical genetics (he always looked feminine, weak) and turned it to the point where he could probably get laid due to his MOTHAFUCKING INTELLECTUAL ability and fame wherever he goes. And he chooses not to. Jesus. You know, he has other things on his mind... like his fucking mission.Not only that, but huge number of seriously high SMV males are following him like little sheep. Do you really think he comes across as a beta to anyone but a few nerds …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 05:03 AM
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I feel you brother, you've come to the right place. I know it sucks and even reading all the theory is unlikely to make it better at the moment, but it will prepare you for the next time. Maybe you will even get moments of clarity where you will realize just how "unspecial" and replaceable she really is. About this relationship, it's over. 100%. There is no going back from what she did. Even if she does come back to you it will be temporary and your suffering will be unnecessarily prolonged. Bel…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:32 PM
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Same story here with my current LTR. 1: Started relationship as alpha. She fell for me hard. 2: Liked her MUCH more than other plates. 3: Became a needy beta. 4: She started behaving very poorly. 5: I knew it's my fault(thanks TRP) but only found "strength" to change after her behavior became intolerable. 6: I Am Chatting with other girls, hitting the gym hard, doing my own things and not actively looking to hang-out with her, not giving a fuck and passing shit-tests with flying colors. No fakin…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/18 08:33 AM
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