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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | I can't really feel much of the girl I'm datingSo then the "myth" is actually technically true then? Lol | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Moving on from an ex after she supported you and you reciprocated?Make it clear to this that its excessive and you just can't do that. This gets us to my initial question, what kind of leverage do I even have if she's done/spent more than I physically and financially can in this period? She does say that she is miffed about having to follow my terms, though I don't think most of them are abhorrent: I can't really call back and forth or text back and forth daily, just not my thing. I prefer safe sex, she kind of does not. It might be subtle manipulation on her … | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Moving on from an ex after she supported you and you reciprocated?I can't deal with the ultra clingyness. Have to text every other hour, if not, throws vague ultimatums, tantrums. Can't deal with long-distance. But she doesn't have anyone else, no family, only daughter. That's why I'm thinking if I can still help or train, make her be better. I'm not only staying but being mindful that I'm there for advice. I meant she's dependent in a way that she's financially well off. Can't I teach or help someone not be too attached or clingy? You're also right, plating t… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Moving on from an ex after she supported you and you reciprocated?Always want to make things better definitely! | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Moving on from an ex after she supported you and you reciprocated?Unpredictable close orbiter | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Moving on from an ex after she supported you and you reciprocated?Oh yea definitely, I've told her what I could and even got her to sort her finance or get mindful with it because her ex was just mismanaging her bills and was getting her in debt. I feel akin to be a good example, especially to her kid but it's unavoidable. The least I can do is just acknowledge and set a good example anytime I stay over. My suspicion is that if she's got some bad hardwiring that can't be fixed, some form of BPD, but she's not manipulative. So it just draws me into feeling gutt… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Moving on from an ex after she supported you and you reciprocated?so your exit would need to timed and reasonable. Like it what case or sense for example? What ever is a reasonable exit? single mothers are dangerous ground, and kids unfortunately get brought into it. Don't plate in a situation like that, you'll probably leave it worse than you find it Her kid was way out of the window from the start but as we say, it's inevitable. But how do you mean worse? | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Moving on from an ex after she supported you and you reciprocated?If you do, make sure you pay her back with a check and with what its for so you have evidence you paid her back. Would love to if it wasn't for a roller-coaster career of last year. I've lost a good amount.. She's wholesome and gives a lot. I liked it when we reach a mutual-convo, where I can just advise and be there. She could definitely be better. Just so I can calm my sanity, as a joke, I even asked her to send me a recording of her agreeing to her decisions, she even sent it back. I can't gi… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Moving on from an ex after she supported you and you reciprocated?Never want to be a moocher, not even like a scaramooch always want to be better and want the same for friends who've opened up to me | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Any good reads on how to segway a medium-long term, long-distance plate to open relationship?Yes, exactly what I mean There's no other way around this then, I've read as much as I can and having a LTR plate whatever is a fantasy unless you're that Brazilian futballer who has like 3 wives. What's the end game even, spin plates till you're old. Or maybe have a plate be a LTR, or family friend type far orbiter? I've actually read about those | /r/askTRP | 06/12/20 06:41 AM |
| 2 | One of my plates just gave me an ultimatum, what's the best response?Lol this sounds like from one of those college movies lmfao | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Soft nexted crazy plate, exes used to control her and she texts me occasionally, why? And what can I do?Same thing I've been thinking but couldn't put it into words. Wouldn't this feel like manipulation? But you're right about attention. Funny enough, and now that I realized, some of her trades basically went (I get money) because she's way more successful than I am, and mine was attention and sex. I don't want to go complete Machiavelli, because I also want accessible sex and any ego boost is good, and I'd want to keep a plate. But is it bad to feel guilty? | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 06:43 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with mentions of other men hitting on her and her similar sayings?What do you say when she just says "I'm looking for my one and only ride or die type of guy" I mean what, there are consistently three women that have told me this lol! | /r/askTRP | 26/09/20 05:09 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with mentions of other men hitting on her and her similar sayings?Amused Mastery Can you share to me more about this? | /r/askTRP | 26/09/20 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Words mostly used, and definition?what's an fso? and I've never seen a word by word definition of common used terms | /r/seduction | 28/08/15 10:34 AM |
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