I'm studying seduction and I always come across words that are often used. I'm building a list for them, do you think you can help me?

Set/Setting - Usually a "target" area for an interaction, can be a place or a potential social interaction, e.g: "There's a chance for a set, two ladies just speaking with each other on that counter"

Opener - Something you would say to start a conversation

Fail Safe Opener - An opener that will usually give you an "escape" if your opener fails. E.g: "Hi, I just want to say hi to you and I also want to ask, do you know where the bathroom is?" (I suck at these so if you have better one feel free to replace)

Denial Opener - Starts similar to: "Hey I'm not really flirting with you but I think you look great"

Logistics - Transportation to and from destinations for interaction

Pad - A place to head back after a date

Mid Game - Your interaction that is happening in the "middle" stages

Direct - A method where you are "direct" with your intention

Playful - Basically a playful attitude, nothing serious. This is more like an attribute

I good tip is to be genuinely interested, taken from How to Win Friends and Influence people, and really have to be interested though. My problem earlier was (and I'm just starting off) I caught myself trying to show off to my friends, and it just ended with me trying to hang on in the conversation with her and my friends. Feel free to share your tips too.