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| 21 | How to escalate after making out? | champlu | /r/seduction | 16/11/14 10:05 PM |
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| 1 | Girl i spend time with at the party, should i ask her out through fb?Just gotta do it my man. I did it one time and i said something along the lines of “I hate to do this but i’m gonna have to be that guy to ask for your number through fb” in a joking kind of way. But my intentions were clear that I was into her | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Girl i spend time with at the party, should i ask her out through fb?ask for her number first | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 06:53 PM |
| 2 | I don't know what's wrong with meFollow up and be genuine. If you enjoyed hanging out with her, let her know and ask her to hang out again. | /r/seduction | 26/12/17 11:19 AM |
| 1 | How can I get my confidence back with women? Haven’t done anything with a girl in at least 3 yearsDefinitely agree, well said | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 02:46 AM |
| 1 | New relationship.. early doubtsJust reread my message and saw a bunch of typos so I fixed them. But with setting boundaries, I think that you have to be straight up with her - let her know that her communication with her past boyfriend/fling bothers you. Communication is key in relationships. If she doesn't accept this, then you have to be willing to compromise or walk away. | /r/seduction | 24/09/17 10:29 PM |
| 1 | New relationship.. early doubtsYou probably don't trust her fully which is understandable given her behavior. You have to set boundaries with this. | /r/seduction | 24/09/17 04:21 PM |
| 4 | Waiting too longMoving on is the only thing to do here. It seems like she knows you have these feelings for her, but she sees you as just a friend. It really sucks, but it's happened to all of us and the best thing to do is to move on. Time always helps with getting over these kind of feelings. Definitely do not tell her how you feel. | /r/seduction | 24/09/17 04:12 PM |
| 4 | How do you respond to what are we going to do?Women are like an oven. They have to be preheated first. You should always have a side activity to do when hanging with them because it sounds a little bad if they just come over to bang | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 12:42 AM |
| 3 | Let's forget getting laid for a second. How do you get a solid, tight-knit social circle?In the past two months, I've made two fairly good friends. I work out with one of them, and we share the same passion for lifting. We eat, sleep, and lift. We respect each other because we can see that both of us share similar goals - to get big. We also see each other every day. The other friend loves soccer, as do I. We talk about soccer at work all the time and I continuously ask him questions about soccer to learn more. I like him cause he is knowledgeable about soccer, and he likes me becau… | /r/seduction | 19/04/17 03:38 PM |
| 5 | 3 Proven Compliments That Wil Make You Stand OutGreat post. These are things I tend to read over and over again, but I always forget about what to do in the heat of the moment haha. | /r/seduction | 05/04/17 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Could do with AdviceIt would put her in an awkward situation. But it just sounds like you have to make a definite move to get a definite answer from her. Just ask her out, but respect whatever response she gives you. | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 04:10 PM |
| 5 | Compliments & sexual topics. When are they too much?Well you're going to find out one way or another.. nobody on reddit can truly know how girls are reacting to your approaches. Keep on trying and learn from your mistakes. | /r/seduction | 09/02/17 06:43 PM |
| 3 | I have a date next Thursday, is there a way to give my confidence a boost by the time the date comes?Nofap just for the next week and you'll feel great! | /r/seduction | 09/02/17 04:43 PM |
| 5 | Next Step | Date 3 - Sex?Yeah man just ask if she wants to come over and watch a movie. Nothing to lose there. | /r/seduction | 22/01/17 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Ask a friend to dare you to approach a girl. Try it. I find this gives me a confidence boost, and makes me less nervous.I think you're both right, although I don't think the method is stupid. It definitely helps you get used to the idea of approaching girls, but it does sort of avoid rejection. People should learn to go into the approach with confidence but also realizing that there is a chance you will get rejected because your approach was wrong/they don't find you attractive or whatever. That way you can learn from your mistakes. I do the dare thing with my brothers though and it's pretty fun and makes it a lo… | /r/seduction | 08/01/17 11:34 PM |
| 5 | [FR] My Spanish Girl Experience Round 2+ Advice??Hey man, if she doesn't respond.. it's all good. She's not the only girl in the world. Keep your options open and go talk to other girls! Good job on approaching the first girl, keep it up! Also don't double text haha. | /r/seduction | 08/01/17 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Met my dream girl, I need help.Tone down the clinginess. One of the big rules on this subreddit is to only text when setting up dates... Especially at the early stages of interaction. Just go with the flow, don't be that guy who is thinking about her all day and night... you can live your own life and pursue a girl at the same time. Just don't have your life revolve around her because it will end badly. Also, don't think of her as your dream girl. | /r/seduction | 07/08/16 03:05 PM |
| 2 | So i met this girl at the club yesterday nightReally not worth investing too much into. Just text her one more time and if she doesn't respond then call it quits. | /r/seduction | 03/06/16 03:51 AM |
| 3 | How to get girls engaged/interested/investing/obsessed with you via text/snapchat?Not trying to be mean at all, but that just seems kind of creepy. Idk... I'd probably be annoyed if one of my girl - friends asked me to hook them up with one of my friends randomly. | /r/seduction | 26/02/16 02:52 PM |
| 5 | (21M) I might sound a bit ungrateful....yes she is blatantly hitting on you. I remember being completely oblivious back in the day when I was a virgin. Being more experienced now however, the signals would seem very obvious and I would act on it quickly. Make a move dude, she wants the D. | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Please don't down vote, I'm a desperate guy in need of help.Have you tried nofap? | /r/seduction | 27/06/15 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Drugs aren't all bad. Sometimes they can change your perspective of life completely.Thanks for the reply. While I don't agree with your view on drugs (the use of them being moral in any way), I can respect it. | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 06:10 PM |
| -3 | Drugs aren't all bad. Sometimes they can change your perspective of life completely.Imma be that guy... wtf is wrong with people... is there any morality here?? | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 08:45 AM |
| 3 | How to escalate after making out?That is something I really want to do, but I usually drink with my friends before going out. I would say that I'm best when I have had a bit to drink. If I have too much I'm sloppy and if I don't drink at all, it is hard for me to open up. | /r/seduction | 17/11/14 12:09 AM |
| 3 | How to escalate after making out?Thanks for the advice. I may not be aggressive enough. Last night I was making out with a girl and she stopped me once, but I went back in. She stopped me again though, saying she had to go. Also her friend came up to her prior to that and said something... her friend might have been cock-blocking her. | /r/seduction | 17/11/14 12:06 AM |
| 3 | How to escalate after making out?Yeah I might suck at making out, I'm not sure. You're right though, I should probably feel them up a bit more. The problem is that I don't feel very comfortable doing that when there are a bunch of other people around. | /r/seduction | 17/11/14 12:03 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate after making out?Well sometimes they say they have to go to the bathroom and other times their friends take them away. | /r/seduction | 17/11/14 12:01 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate after making out?Nah I go to college but I'm always pretty drunk when I go to parties so I would probably have to call a cab. I've never gotten to that point yet though. | /r/seduction | 17/11/14 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Q - girls keeps pinging me. confirm my thoughtsShe just wants attention. Don't even worry about her. | /r/seduction | 01/08/14 04:42 AM |
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