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[–]jimmiepop 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
WTF exactly are you worrying about? That she prefers black men? That she hasn't dropped her Exs? That she's going to cheat? That she's going to move home and dump you?
[–]notabrickinthewall92 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Kind of all the above.
Advice?
[–]jimmiepop 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Truth?
No woman is ever truly "yours." She is just yours for right now. My suggestion is to let your head trash go and focus on enjoying your time together. Any self indulgence in needy and/or controlling behavior will drive her away.
[–]champlu 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
You probably don't trust her fully which is understandable given her behavior. You have to set boundaries with this.
How?
[–]champlu 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just reread my message and saw a bunch of typos so I fixed them. But with setting boundaries, I think that you have to be straight up with her - let her know that her communication with her past boyfriend/fling bothers you. Communication is key in relationships. If she doesn't accept this, then you have to be willing to compromise or walk away.
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