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66

Love seeing desi posts here!! I’m Pakistani and tired of this shit we have to endure simply because we are women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:33 PM
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I’d rather not 😂😂 getting trauma flashbacks just from picturing it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:21 PM
138

All I see is “I did not prepare. I do not care enough to prepare. I do not care. I am lazy. Don’t expect anything from me. I will disappoint you.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:17 PM
69

they didn’t find them more artistic, they saw it as a sign of intelligence. small dick = less lust = less stupid man who uses his dick as a compass. not sure about any of this logic but still interesting 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:55 PM
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Pepper spray is illegal in some parts but BUG SPRAY IS NOT. Before entering your car, make sure nobody is waiting under it to slit your ankles. You can do this by dropping your keys a few metres away and glancing under. Utilise security guards at malls and shops whenever you can by asking them to escort you places. That man is not just being friendly, always be on guard. If someone you don’t know tries to corner you or pull you away, mention you have a baby at home waiting for you. For some reas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:10 PM
1

maybe 👉🏼👈🏼 how is it that a book i read as a child still has such an important place in my heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:48 AM
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Yes ❤️ I hate how so many women don’t even realise marriage and children is a choice that they don’t have to make. As soon as I realised that, it was like a blindfold was lifted andI thought about what else I didn’t realise was just a decision. Same! I am so girly by societal standards and love some games too. That is so normal and nice yet internalised misogyny has some people seeing it as quirky, as if women can’t have any depth. That last line yes PREACH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:39 AM
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100 percent. Feminine rage knows what it means to be pushed down, ignored, made a second class citizen, everything. Male rage? Boo hoo the feminists are taking over 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:35 AM
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EXACTLY. I can’t believe some of the things they say and am honestly so bothered when women, of all people, are against feminism. Lmao, is it not feminine to want rights? SAME.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:34 AM
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If it’s not okay to tell other women it’s nasty and painful then it’s not okay to tell other women to do it just because you (definitely a man) want to do it. Stfu. Scrote logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:46 PM
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I walk away. Don’t even look at them. Just grab my things and move. Sometimes I laugh at them if I’m feeling up to it. It’s not your job to be polite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:06 AM
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The comments questioning how much effort she put in. Fuck off like 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 08:17 AM
9

Huntress of Artemis vibes, so cool!! I love that for you ❤️💕😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 10:48 AM
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Amazing!! I love that for you. I enjoy doing those things too, staying at home or going out for no reason, having the choice and freedom to do that?? Amazing. Ooh I have heard of that actually but haven’t tried it yet, I might check it out. I get stress dandruff quite a lot which basically means constant dandruff lmao so right now I’m splurging on products specifically for that. Good for you!! You deserve those things. It’s summer season for me so I’m investing in the opposite haha. 💜💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:01 PM
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I love gaming too! At least you’re self-aware. Recognising things that might need help or work is the first step in being the better you. Coping with or changing whatever can be worked on. It’s a whole, peaceful self-care process.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:58 PM
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YES. Your time is precious and others should be honoured to be given a slice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:30 PM
5

EXACTLY. Relationships are accessories, they are baggage, services. And what do we do when accessories tear or lose their colour, when baggage gets too heavy or when services lose their worth? We LEAVE them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:29 PM
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I know how you feel. Some days it’s a battle dragging myself out of bed. But it’s all about the accumulation of little things. I discovered that I love green tea so I started drinking it more often. I decided that raggy t-shirts weren’t going to it as pyjamas so I invested in quality ones. Hell, I nurtured growth by buying special treatment shampoo that I need for my hair type! Growing isn’t about making huge career changes or buying Chanel handbags. It’s the piling up of many brilliant, tiny th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:28 PM
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Good for you, this is what living and being a high value woman is about. Being high value for yourself, discovering yourself for YOU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:26 PM
6

Exactly!! Once you discover yourself, you realise that men are really just accessories to an outfit that’s whole on its own. I love the variety! X
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:26 PM
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Good for you, loving the growth! The best thing about learning yourself is that it’s constant and there’s no expectations, as long as you’re moving forward and there are so many directions to move forward in. Good luck ❤️💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:24 PM
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Generous, ambitious, humble
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:07 AM
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This is disgusting. I hate that this was meant to be funny and relatable. It’s gross and terrifying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:03 AM
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Poor her :( you can see the joy literally leave her eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:51 PM
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I think a world without men would lead to revolution. Before modern religion, many societies were matriarchal. To be a woman was to be a god. Men would cut themselves to bleed, to imitate mensturation because they could never live up to such a feat. And these matriarchal societies blossomed. As a childfree person, my interest or focus wouldn’t be on birth and birthing new children. If anything, I think the birth rate would significantly decline. Of course the majority of women want children out …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:22 AM
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I’d rather have my time wasted in a luxurious restaurant where my meal is paid for than on some frumpy park walk. I’m not a dog, why do you want to walk me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:56 AM
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So true. My brother and I are both pisces and he’s a LV narc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:45 AM
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I’d consider it a yellow flag. Maybe it’s the truth, or maybe he was an asshole when he was younger and had no self-awareness and blamed it on not finding the right person but really he was the wrong person for everyone he ever dated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:09 PM
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Oh yeah he needs to continue his bloodline 💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:19 PM
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Okay dusty boo boo the fool, he looks like he argues with his girlfriend in a mcdonalds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:06 AM
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He wants a child but also most likely a mommy who will care for his deluded manbaby ass 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:04 AM
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Men are protectors 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:22 AM
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Whenever I’ve been in a dangerous situation, men are the ones who say “calm down, don’t be dramatic, nothings wrong” whereas women are the ones that say “I’m here for you, I’ll help, don’t worry.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:16 AM
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So true. I always criticised myself because I didn’t feel like a good person. I had judgements about people, I was a little selfish and vain, I lie sometimes. Like today I was refunded $50 instead of $12 like I should have been and instead of telling the shop, I went and bought a LOT of fancy ice cream. Then I realised being a good person isn’t a state of being or something inherent, it’s a choice. A constant choice. A choice that I obviously did not make today LMAO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:16 PM
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I need to get around to reading his books! Could you share some things you learned specifically about the workplace thing? I just have not got the time right now. No pressure if you can’t x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:08 PM
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Worst are the men that think their “seed” is of value and that women must be “worthy” of having the pleasure to be given it to get pregnant. I am twenty, child free and this is such an eye-roller for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:53 PM
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Bug spray. That’s my hack. Works just as well, and legal to have. Maybe you just bought it so it’s in your purse, maybe you get a bug problem in your car sometimes so you like to keep one there too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:26 PM
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I LOVE HOW YOU ROASTED HIM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:46 PM
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So sweet haha love the energy and how he builds you up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:05 PM
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MEN PEAK AT FIFTY HAHAHA WHO SAID THAT WITH THEIR FULL BREATH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:39 AM
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Surprisingly I didn’t like Yennefer at all. I blame it on her creators and writers but she was honestly annoying. And I didn’t quite like Geralt either, or their relationship. The progression was so out of character and cringe for both of them. Just another powerful woman whose one weakness if- OH NO GASP, infertility. I hate how male writers really think they did something there, it’s the only idea they have when they want to give female characters something interesting. It’s pathetic, in my hu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:34 AM
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I wish I told my brother’s girlfriend that he’s a LV narc but she’s also a LV pickme so maybe they deserve each other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:06 AM
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“Men are logical beings, women are emotional” sir
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:34 AM
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He really thinks he did something there with that response. Owie :( Lmao, loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:32 AM
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It’s literally not your job to coddle him and answer to all of his beck and calls. He’s grown, he knows what he’s doing, don’t let him take advantage of you, I doubt the friendship or he as a person is even really worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:24 PM
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WHAT RP PUA “alpha” convinced these idiots that negging actually works? Lmao a joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:19 PM
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Not that the way feminism also benefits men should matter and determine its value, but do they even realise it benefits men? They are literally useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:16 PM
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AMEN. This really opened my eyes, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:13 PM
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I agree with this. I also have a male best friend and we send memes and play games together and sometimes I’d sleep over on his couch and him in a separate room. Romance never came up in conversation for either of us because were THAT platonic. And throughout his relationships with others I acted respectfully. Like the above comment, don’t ignore red flags but don’t act without logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:02 AM
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What game is this? Looking for new ones to pass time x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:00 AM
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CUTE 💜💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:58 AM
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If anything, I think women are MORE visual creatures than men. When men say visual, they are referring to how the ogle tits and ass. When women think of visual, they look at a billion different factors and details. Complete BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:46 PM
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I don’t know about the specific app but years ago when I made book covers on wattpad (that’s a whole other story) I would save images of paint swatches with png backgrounds (that’s how you can google image it) and with any app that allows you to add photos from your gallery onto another photo, it should work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:40 PM
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experiment 535 is a FAILURE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:24 AM
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HE THINKS SUCKING DICK IS STRESS RELIEVING HAHAHA 💀💀💀 I’m actually laughing that is the funniest shit I’ve seen all week
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 10:57 AM
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Whether it’s a compatibility issue, a communication issue or something else, the common denominator is that it bothers YOU. It doesn’t matter what KIND of problem it is, it’s a problem. The handbook gave a guideline timeline for relationships and by a year in, he should only be stepping his game up more and more. If you think it will be worth it, I would suggest communication what’s bothering you to him. There’s a chance that he doesn’t even notice because he’s used to doing things his way. It’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 10:51 AM
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Ooh okay I see! Thanks :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:35 PM
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so men hate women AND men? 💀 do they ever get tired of hating?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:31 PM
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If she’s actively bragging and displaying narcissism, she doesn’t seem like a good friend and I wouldn’t remain friends with someone who valued pathetic male attention so highly and carried so much vanity. I don’t have much advice but I am friends with really beautiful girls. It’s honestly a coincidence how my closest friends are all insanely gorgeous, like strikingly beautiful. But that has never bothered me because they are HVW who don’t care for such narcissism, and I put in work to be a HVW.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:26 PM
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How endearing!! I can’t stand racism, it’s the one thing that really triggers me when I’m almost always calm and composed. I sure hope he finds genuine friends and company that treat him with love and respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:22 PM
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Why do creepy men hijack every sub??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:17 PM
7

TW in the title please :) This story makes me so angry and the comment ugh, so many men lack empathy and awareness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:11 PM
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I’ve never seen it but I know a guy who does and he’s a close friend so can someone please tell me what’s bad about it? I don’t want to be friends with a guy if he likes something full of red flags or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:06 PM
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Ohhh I see, okay thank you! I love communication and being able to discuss these things but never know the appropriate way to do it because I can be too blunt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:28 PM
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When do you bring that up? First date? And how? Like what tone do you use?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:24 PM
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What in the fresh hell 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 08:45 AM
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When men want women to do all the house work like a traditional wife but don’t do their part to provide and do the labour 🤡 can men go back to war again? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:31 AM
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This is so true. As high value women, we are so attractive and desirable. With our traits and ideologies and habits and ambitions. Of course who wouldn’t want us?? But not everyone should be able to afford us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 01:33 PM
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I want to know too!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:40 AM
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Joker. As a comic book fan, I can appreciate it but any man that relates to the main character has always been a narcissist or incel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:59 PM
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Censoring the name at top but not at the bottom 💀🤦🏻‍♀️ gave me a good giggle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:48 PM
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Oh my god, I feel so bad for her having a baby with him. Did she really not see the signs before? And the guy sounds like such an unaccountable ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:39 PM
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I’m in my early twenties and have never dated at all before, could you tell me what a good answer would be if I was asked? :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:07 PM
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Right! I have no words .... like what experiences and mindset does someone need to have to end up like this guy??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:55 PM
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aaa, i always find myself reading about the sb experience but since ive never dated at all, i feel like trying it would be like diving in head first. good for you!! 💖 finesse the bag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:33 PM
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I’m so sorry that you have had to face some crappy people. Things like this is what made me initially resent my heritage before I came to own it. It’s never easy dealing with this sort of thing, especially from other people of colour. 💖❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:32 PM
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ugh not HER again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:07 PM
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Any man that “connects with the Joker” is an instant red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:06 PM
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Cities?? 5 star hotels just for you?? HOW??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:46 PM
5

ZUKO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:39 PM
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The ending made me laugh, I love innocent little skits like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:36 PM
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This was oddly refreshing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:33 PM
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Omg I love your username 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:02 PM
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I love seeing men getting worked up because they can’t comprehend women being successful or unbothered. Also good for you, the picture on the left breaks my heart but the picture on the right is doing all kinds of other things to it! ❤️ good blessings your way sister x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:58 PM
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Can men no longer formulate full sentences, at least on a dating app? Who finds this charming? WHO?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:19 PM
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I hate coming across her videos, something about her is so annoying. She seems like she was a school bully. Annoying voice, annoying mindset 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:19 PM
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Yes exactly! Time and place, I suppose. OMG I hate that! I’ve had POC “friends” call my brown friends “curry” and “paki”. Do they know I’M brown? Haha, it was really disrespectful. Guess you’ll find bigots and ignorance everywhere :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 10:24 AM
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I’m still a college student so I’m going to wait until I start working before really splurging on classy wear but oh my god, I love accessories. That sounds simple but also so beautiful and really flattering. The little details like pearls really can add gentle flair. No it’s not showin off at all, I’m exactly the same!! I’m 5’2 and a half and petite, but also quite curvy and I never know how to say that without it seeming like I’m bragging but I understand you! I have an hourglass figure and it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 10:23 AM
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I agree. Obviously it isn’t something we can bring up during the BLM movement because this is time for black activism and I think involving other races might take away from the black community. But something I wish was also discussed was racism shown by other POC. Not to make this a food chain situation, we all suffer at the hands of racism. But I and so many brown people I know have faced racism from other minorities. Other Asians, black people etc. which honestly hurts more than when white peo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 10:05 AM
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Honestly the divide between brown men and women is huge. Brown women, or the ones I’ve met, are AMAZING. Strong and brilliant and beautiful and loving and liberal. The men? Pathetic narcs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:31 AM
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Why are all brown men such mummy’s boys. I swear it’s because mothers never make them do the chores and spoil them, call them “my raja” LMAO 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:30 AM
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Girl don’t give up, you’re not dead yet!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:29 AM
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I know how you feel. I have depression and anxiety, which I’m luckily managing. But it was partly because of how restrictive and invasive my parents were. It took 20 years of my life but they’ve finally relaxed. Myself and my brother were both the “wild child” kind and being raised in western society, my parents were forced to become more liberal. I graduated from off shoulder shirts to crop tops and my brother openly drinks and has a white girlfriend. I was suicidal too at one point but was giv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:29 AM
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I feel this! The brown guys I’ve met at college are laughable. They’re so insecure about being brown, some of them are closet conservative and try to be white. The toxic masculinity is too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:25 AM
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I was thinking about this too ! They’re catering to the extremes of the spectrum so white women and black women. That’s great sure but I need something as a brown woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:24 AM
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I haven’t found decent foundation, it makes me so angry. It’s either too rosy and light or too orange and dark.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:23 AM
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I think I’m the same. I have really olive / light skin, borderline pasty on sone days even though my dad and brother have such a lovely brown / bronze complexion. White, beige and grey look awful on me too ! I definitely understand having to use bold colours, but it’s a struggle when they’re not considered professional. Luckily I can pull off black so most of my clothes are but it’s still not enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:20 AM
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Thank you!! 💖💜 Good vibes right back at you x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:07 PM
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Ooh I’ll check them out, thanks! I think it’s pretty awesome ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:59 PM
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You don’t need FDS to see this one is a LVM. He’s screaming it at the top of his lungs 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:37 PM
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SAME. Once I noticed how much I do it, I completely stopped and actively have to erase those words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:29 PM
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Is he seriously blaming women for when men kill them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 04:58 PM
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I hate how he calls women “bitches” like a collective term. And anyone that uses “alpha” is an automatic cringe. God, how disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 04:58 PM
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36?? And you’re 27? What fantasy island is this man living on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 04:50 PM
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“If the lord can forgive me for everything I do then I can forgive him” GIRL you ain’t the lord though 🤡💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 04:32 AM
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Oh wow, I was not expecting this. That’s so fascinating, and you’re absolutely right about the name. I love this. Thanks for telling me kind stranger!💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:44 AM
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OMG this is really interesting, what’s a Golem?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:18 AM
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Honestly, fuck men LMAO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:21 PM
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Maybe if they didn’t construct the patriarchy that tells men that therapy is for pussies, they wouldn’t suffer. Oh well. They made the bed, they can lay in it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:53 PM
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“men are the logical gender” 💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:20 PM
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It’s not about how smart you are. There’s only so much you can do to armour yourself. And with genuine feelings involved, it’s so so stempting to overlook the “smaller” manipulations. It’s about the pattern. When his behaviours add up, it’s no longer a coincidence. It’s his ability to mask his tendencies, but the sooner you open your eyes to them, the quicker you can respond and take care of yourself. Not everyone will be like him and when you find a HVM who isn’t manipulative, the heartbreaks w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 12:14 PM
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Yikes. Those are all signs of manipulation, girl do I have to physically slap some sense into you? Classical emotional manipulation. It doesn’t matter how subtle it is or how he spaces it out over time. It takes at least 6 months to truly find if a man is HV and then a further 6 for him to STAY that way. These slip ups will only increase and become worse and more personal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 11:56 AM
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This is so true, I find that the counselor always takes the man’s side even if he’s in the wrong. My BIL tried to cheat on my sister with me and when I exposed him to her, they went to counselling and the counsellor made excuses for him. How because he was stressed, it wasn’t his fault. BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 06:15 AM
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He’s a racist and it pisses me off how much people back home (Ireland) glorify him. He’s a POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:42 AM
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WHAT. men will stop at nothing, god. the bar continues to descend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:59 PM
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What did I just read 💀 this is so disgusting please why are pickme’s so STUPID.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:35 AM
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Of course he looks like that 💀 big toe garden gnome lookin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:00 AM
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I was thinking the same thing!! Big earner to me is six figures. Please 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:01 AM
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She made her bed, now she can lay in it 🤡 How manipulative of him to downplay her reaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:33 PM
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Would you say it’s worth watching? My experience with kdramas is that they never give me the plot twists or endings I crave and I end up underwhelmed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:17 PM
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This sickened me to my core. What the fuck. Who talks to someone like that? God, how do I bleach my brain??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:15 PM
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This too yes ! I had a male friend get angry with me, accusing me of “no longer paying attention to him whenever a more handsome man walked into the room” BUT the kicker is HE WAS ONLY FRIENDS WITH ME SO HE COULD HAVE SEX WITH ME. What a lying, insecure hypocrite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:54 AM
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Idk haha, I just think it’s really cringe and gross and kind of cavemanish. Like look at me, I hunt, I strong, I catch big fish!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:54 AM
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If he uploads a picture holding a big fish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:33 PM
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I wouldn’t want to be with someone who would accept me if I wasn’t at my top. His standards would not be okay with me LMAO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:10 PM
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I want a younger man in the future over some old, balding fart but they’re immature and their ideals are different. Sigh. All men are disappointing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 11:39 AM
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straight up. not to mention the women who choose to date the men they “steal”, as if he didn’t just cheat on his ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 11:36 AM
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Agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 11:34 AM
1

Thanks! I lose more and more hope each day. Oh to see without eyes 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 09:26 AM
45

What the actual fuck. Not to sound like I lack compassion, but what kind of woman ends up in this situation or chooses to stay in this situation. Obviously not everyone has a choice. But damn, I’m angry at men like this. And the women in the comments laughing. This isn’t normal behaviour, this isn’t funny, how can their standards be so warped. Bangmaids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 08:07 AM
121

I love this so much. I’m so happy that you have a loving relationship, good on you and your partner for having that balance. How sweet of you to be so caring, as you should. You are a true example of a HVW. It’s a give and take. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 07:45 AM
2

Why not! There are plenty of likeminded women out there who might not know what the first step to take is or are too shy. It’s definitely a weeding out process because we had so many pickmes and LVW in the group who only wanted to be lifted up but no intention of levelling up or giving back the same. It was a few weeks before I found these girls but now we’ve been best friends since last June so just over a year ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 07:01 AM
82

I hate the word nubile, it automatically sickens me. Red flag when a man uses it. I’ve seen it brought up so much in porn discussion and pedophile articles etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 06:40 AM
1

I wouldn’t mind if I was overweight and rejected for my weight because weight is a preference. If I was outright ignored and mistreated, I wouldn’t like a man at all that treated differently if I lost weight. It’s one thing to be rejected and another to be treated like a POS.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 06:12 AM
1

Please I need to know what the thousand cock stare is 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 06:06 AM
1

I’m a short woman (5’3) and I only find taller men physically attractive. That being said, a tall man to me is 5’9” and above. As for weight, I am very slim and toned as I have done strength training, cheer leading and am doing ballet. So I tend to look more at men who are as physically fit. But to me that also consistutes a healthy layer of fat over muscles, not the dehydrated 6-pack look.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 06:05 AM
1

I can’t speak for the red pill one, but I’m a member of FDS and the overall experience to me and many others seems to be “Here are readings, stories, studies and guidelines, you don’t need to agree with everything, but if you find it resonates with you, use it.” Not everyone agrees with each other but the environment feels so safe that this leads to fun conversation rather than a mean argument. As for the actual subject matter, FDS tries to encourage women for many different facets of life. Bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 05:59 AM
1

Their relationship with porn. I’d just like to know if it’s healthy or if it has completely warped their view of women and men, a healthy relationship, real intimacy etc. And how they treat other people, men and women and others. I have a fault of not being able to see if someone treats me nicer than they treat the standard person, because their niceness to me blinds me from their behaviour towards others. So how they talk about others, if they’re judgemental or openly rude. And maybe their poli…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 05:38 AM
5

I know men who are extremely old or hideous (60+, missing teeth, wrinkled, overweight) that have hit on myself and my friends (20-30). The audacity on them is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 05:28 AM
44

THIS MADE ME CACKLE. Literally!! Men are confused. If i was digging for gold, I’d be expecting to get my own house with a pool, a car and at least some diamonds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:17 AM
1

It was a love letters page so people post anonymous letters asking for friends or about specific people they saw on campus that caught their eye or for advice, literally anything. One post was a girl looking for friends with a certain criteria that matched, so i was added to a group chat and from there I bonded with seven girls so we separated into our own chat and now we’re all very close!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:09 AM
22

my thoughts exactly 💀😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:11 PM
45

I made my feminist FDS-friendly friends through a Facebook Group. Granted, it was through our college page so that made it safer when we met in person. Now we’re all besties and are working to burn the patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:09 PM
26

It’s literally a plant, can men piss off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:07 PM
9

I’m not sure if treatment from other people is a reliable way to gauge how you are physically levelling up, because in my ugly duckling stage and in my levelling up stage, I was attracting men who I considered below and above my standards physically. A reliable way for me personally was how I felt about myself and I came to feel really good about my appearance when I did some of these things: • Diet and exercise, it’s easier than it sounds and everyone benefits no matter how you look. I will hap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 06:18 AM
1

Okay will do! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:21 AM
5

Are the childfree cat ones on reddit? If so could you please tell me the names? I love cats 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:47 PM
10

I want what you have lmao, a cat. Are they expensive to look after? If it’s not too personal to ask. I’m actually just drawing up a budget now and I think if I do it right, I might be able to have a fur baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:23 PM
2

Oop, mine was sort of a question too! But I’m not great at showing tone through text haha. I haven’t dated anyone at all yet so seeing posts like this is also helpful to me, and to see the discussion below. I hope I didn’t sound rude??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:22 PM
6

Exactly yeah!! There is honestly nothing a man can give me that I don’t give to myself and I want to be wealthy and have free time. Children will stop that lmao. Although my main reason is actually pregnancy and childbirth, it’s way too physically traumatic for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:20 PM
38

Yes! I really dislike women acting as if they’re special snowflakes when all women are multifaceted, even if not in very positive ways. She describes them as if they’re hollow rocks or empty shells.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:40 PM
55

childfree here too! Love seeing other CFs in FDS :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:25 PM
19

I do this with my mom and dad and I bet that would bother him even more LMAO. Stay bothered, boy whilst she has a blessed and blissful bond with her parent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:22 PM
3

• Empowered masculinity. I mean a man that isn’t emasculated by the idea of therapy, because I’m not about to be a therapist. A man that doesn’t think his ego will shatter if he grooms himself, and I mean nails and hair and skin. Think I’m going to let a man with crusty lips and dirt under his fingernails touch me? Someone who doesn’t act all macho as if he is above honest and compassionate communication. Basically a man whose masculinity doesn’t flinch from anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:01 PM
5

HAHAHA THIS SENT ME 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:58 PM
7

My dad is a Libra and a HVM!! Spoils my mom with love, loyalty and literally jewels. He took her on a tour of Europe before the pandemic and just now surprised her with professional singing lessons because she has a brilliant voice. His love language is definitely physical gestures and gifts, making her breakfast everyday, personally advertising her for her career, always turning the conversation to her whenever someone compliments him. I can never compliment him without him saying “your mom is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:58 PM
2

You can’t know if someone is HVM that soon surely, doesn’t it take MONTHS of consistency to find out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:50 PM
4

He’s so full of himself LMAO I bet he thinks he’s being really clever but you can tell with all the deflecting that he’s getting impatient. Why can’t he just have a normal personality?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:49 PM
20

100% of my money will be mine and mine only lmao. Cry about it, boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:25 PM
38

Why do men feel so special that they need to pass on their genetic material? First of all, it was a nut. You busted a nut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:21 PM
29

This is making me so hungry oh my, what a lovely friend! My girlfriends and I do this all the time for each other. 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:10 PM
14

Ohh, I didn’t think about the more serious ones you mentioned! Thanks! ❤️ All the comments are really hyping me up too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:18 PM
6

I see :) I also believe in the custom that whoever invites should pay! That aside, is there anything you know of that makes us the prize? I want to chalk it up to our beauty and grace and maturity but I also don’t want to reduce myself and other women to just those things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:10 PM
8

Aah, okay that clears it up! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:46 PM
20

Spoken like a bad bitch 💅🏼💸💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:44 PM
11

Ooh that makes sense actually, we put quite a lot of effort and it does pile up in expenses. Thank u x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:43 PM
14

Literally none of what he wrote is attractive, none.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:35 AM
13

Ew, what a bitter, crybaby scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:25 AM
35

Ugh, whenever I say this, the men quickly change their tunes to “why are you so cocky? you’re an ugly b*tch anyway!” Like pick a side dude!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:13 AM
2

I don’t have advice but I do want to say that I have learned from seeing other people’s experiences because I have never dated yet. I don’t want this to sound like you had to endure pain for others to make use of, I’m trying to say that yes, you have had negative experiences but by being here, by not running from your past, by expressing yourself, you’re inadvertently turning it into something positive. You’re making lemonade out of lemons for others that end up learning through it. Not that you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:36 PM
4

I’m 20 and I’ve never dated so seeing other women’s standards are super helpful. I’m not planning on dating until I graduate so 2022 and that gives me plenty of time to figure out my standards and boundaries. I need ideas. Right now, it’s the minimum standards like “please don’t be racist.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:01 PM
100

Not usually one to make comments about looks but he looks like he had a session in the toastie grill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 01:45 PM
55

THIS. Men are accessories. If a purse doesn’t add something new to your wardrobe, you wouldn’t buy it. If a man does not provide something additionallly great to your life, what is the point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:44 AM
4

I’m a short woman and I only find tall men attractive. Men can cry about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:31 AM
3

HAHA this woman is brilliant, speaking facts and so humorous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:06 AM
5

There should have been some kind of TW on this. I’m not a victim of abuse but I can only imagine how this might hurt women who are. This shocked me. Some of those wounds looked open.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:39 PM
3

This physically hurt me to watch. I love when the only substance to a person’s character is Twitter humour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:38 PM
6

Pickme’s will probably agree and say, “omg yeah!” pretty much calling all other women stupid. Did he really think that was a compliment?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:20 AM
157

Wow, immediately revealing that he’s incapable of waking up early and that he expects the woman to make him breakfast is a big tell. I love when LVM expose themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:17 AM
8

Does this actually work?? Are you kidding? I lose more and more hope everyday in men lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:21 AM
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