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Shouldn't be angry at women. Should be angry at the ideology that promotes cunty behaviour and hatred of men. It's literally why men are turning right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 11:00 PM
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Well bubblegum and picnics ain't turning women on XD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:49 PM
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Hate and love is the same thing to women. They'll still be attracted it don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:41 PM
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Same goes for women. I went on a date with a girl who just broke up with a guy the night before. The date was in the place the guy WORKED. He was fuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:36 PM
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Saying you're looking for casual is a good way to get blocked. Even by a woman who is looking for something casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:29 PM
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I've never shared this but when I was in year 4, I think I was about 8 years old, a female primary school teacher grabbed me and picked me up while I was walking in line to class. She 'kidnapped' me as a joke and I think the teachers were in on it. I remember her making me wear a blindfold and stand in the corner. i think she was single woman and really sad she didn't have kids but still weird as fuck and I still remember it.
/r/MensRights12/07/25 11:01 PM
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A lot of women in western countries hate men. But they also hate most other women too. It's really unpleasant.
/r/MensRights20/10/24 12:13 AM
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You keep going until it hollows you out inside and you don't care anymore. Then you get success, but commitment becomes meaningless. That's the trade off.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/24 03:25 AM
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You work on yourself hard and also lower your standards if you want to get as many women as possible. You're not gonna attract lots of attractive high value women unless you're a celebrity/very important/wealthy though.
/r/seduction22/09/24 10:02 PM
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A top 20% man in his 40s is doing better than an average guy at any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:49 PM
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Most. When I was 16-18 the girls were obsessed with a good looking teacher who was in his mid 30s. Women in their 20s aren't looking at an attractive guy in his 30s and thinking "ew, too old".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:43 PM
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If you're successful and attractive (looks/personality/confidence) women could not give a fuck about age. Only thing I've heard women complain about is if a guy is too young for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:25 PM
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Well many quality ones are gonna be married or partnered up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:00 AM
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I think for many women in their 30s+ it's also the first time they start facing serious rejection. Like going on a date and the guy just doesn't want anything to do with you, even sexually. Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:57 AM
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Yeah they get quantity of dates but if it's with some guy who is unemployed, doesn't shower or speak in full sentences isn't that still an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:28 AM
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He is not lying. Make a profile on a dating site, "Bob", 35, average looks, accountant, present yourself as a respectable human being. Rip your inbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:19 AM
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Life is hard for everyone but it will always be more beautiful and more complex than the internet makes it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:48 AM
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It's wasted effort worrying about women who make poor choices. It's their life and they can ruin it as much as they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:59 PM
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"It's disgusting what gay men want." "It's disgusting what straight men want." One of these phrases is totally socially acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:45 PM
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Lots of women don't realise that men have incredibly high standards for serious relationships. Everything about you will be scrutinised. Voice, looks, background, history, attitude, sex life,clothes you name it. Married women know this very well, but they're not gonna tell the competition how the world really works lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:25 PM
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If you chemically lowered every man's sex drive there would be total societal collapse. If you chemically lowered every woman's sex drive the reality would be incredibly dark (god help them) but life would continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:34 PM
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Guys need to understand if a woman doesn't like you or respect your attention it's not the end of the world. Just never acknowledge her ever again and find one who actually does.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:10 AM
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I'd say if you can't have a basic social interaction without making people uncomfortable then dating is a step too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:59 AM
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I'm from UK. A night out on the town without extreme aggression, misogyny and vulgarity is a dull affair indeed. Sometimes even the men participate too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:20 AM
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Yeah it's complete bullshit. That's what they want and not what they're attracted to. There are actually plenty of attractive guys out there who also respect women. They're married. Their wives locked that shit down and left the other women to complain about men on the internet lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:00 AM
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"Healthy level of masculinity." You're implying masculinity needs to be moderated. Getting that feminist garbage out of your head is how you attract women OP. A man hating on men for acting like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:43 AM
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You're trying to rationalise attraction. Attraction isn't logical. You can hate everything about someone. They could even be an objectively terrible person and still be attracted to them. You can genuinely like someone. They could be an all around amazing person and feel absolutely no attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:36 AM
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Men get stuck in the "friendzone", women get stuck in the "fuckzone". No sympathy for people in either, stop being so naive and have some self-respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 11:13 PM
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The irony is if you're attractive enough to be very successful on dating apps, you don't need them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:22 AM
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Women on dating apps are literally the bottom of the barrel. If a woman can't get a guy in real life then there is usually a BIG reason. Every guy they know offline went "NOPE".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:12 AM
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I've never had a bad attitude from a genuinely attractive woman ever, even if it was pretty evident they had zero interest in me. 2s,3s,4s, insulted to my face many fucking times. I swear it's like they're trying to neg you and bring you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:38 AM
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I've definitely dealt with the "how dare you be hitting on me" bullshit. Why is it the less attractive women act the rudest and are the most entitled? In general (not always the case) I've found the more attractive they are the better the personality lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:19 AM
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I guess it comes from lack of rejection/experience. Like my mind was blown when I first started seriously applying for jobs and was getting a 99% rejection rate. Obviously used to it now but when I was younger I had unrealistic expectations and couldn't really process it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:07 AM
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Mindset is everything. Joe Pesci is 5'4 and yet I'm intimidated by him when I watch him in Goodfellas. Why?
/r/seduction07/04/23 11:50 PM
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A lot of people need to work on their social skills first before they even think about approaching. They should start by having normal conversations with strangers first and work their way up. If you're not socially aware to begin with and just start approaching random women you're gonna have a bad time.
/r/seduction07/04/23 04:51 AM
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Be the best version of yourself and focus on things you can change.
/r/seduction07/04/23 03:52 AM
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Gym, dress better, carry yourself better, self-reflection. Many ways to make yourself more attractive.
/r/seduction07/04/23 03:47 AM
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Do that 10,000 times and imagine how good you will be. People see the success at the end and never the grind.
/r/seduction07/04/23 03:43 AM
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A pleasant rejection is a win-win situation. You gained confidence and learned something while at the same time made people happy.
/r/seduction07/04/23 03:39 AM
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Being nervous and doing it anyway is part of being a man. Straight women are attracted to men. Be one.
/r/seduction07/04/23 03:36 AM
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It won't be entirely because of earnings. It's mostly going to be a mix of "I'm attracted to them" + has some money and status. Even if you're fun and attractive watch the standard of women drop (possibly to zero) as you become broke/unemployed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:52 PM
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This post is talking about women being attracted to men. Men don't care about how much a woman earns.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:42 PM
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Money is everything. My brother is good-looking and good with women but he would not date the girls he does if he didn't make six figures. They're not golddiggers and have money themselves it's more about status. If you make minimum wage unfortunately you have very low status, which is also inherently unattractive regardless of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:34 PM
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Money makes you more attractive to everyone. It carries status and respect. There's not a single aspect of your life that money doesn't improve. A 5/10 multimillionaire beats a 10/10 guy making minimum wage. You wanna fly on a private jet and see the world or share a grimy one bedroom flat trying to keep the lights on while your boyfriend flips burgers lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:21 PM
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Well I don't sleep with many men, just my bf and I hope he does
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:39 AM
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That 'pussy' is attached to a real person with feelings...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:35 AM
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To be honest I'd say it matters quite a lot. I consider myself attractive and want someone to match that.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/21 12:15 AM
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I mean if he told you to not mention it then it's best not to bring it up I think. I probably would but I'm not always on my best behaviour lol.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/21 04:35 AM
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I'd advise you not to approach single girls alone, it can be really intimidating.
/r/seduction06/07/21 04:10 AM
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no way lol, if he's interested he should pay
/r/seduction10/05/21 11:13 PM
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Ya and then never get called back...
/r/seduction10/05/21 09:15 PM
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ok
/r/seduction10/05/21 09:07 PM
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Haha why does everyone think I'm glued to my phone
/r/seduction10/05/21 07:31 PM
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I always switch my phone off, sounds like you had some bad experiences
/r/seduction10/05/21 06:04 PM
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Like knitting? haha
/r/seduction10/05/21 05:52 PM
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You make it sound like it's easy to impress lol
/r/seduction10/05/21 05:35 PM
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I try and avoid being too physical on the first date usually, don't wanna seem too eager.
/r/seduction10/05/21 05:18 PM
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hmmm... so should I try and be more talkative or less talkative? I don't wanna just sit and stare
/r/seduction10/05/21 05:11 PM
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I'm attracted to guys that are kind and respectful, not so much into the whole 'big dick and abs' thing.
/r/seduction07/05/21 01:19 AM
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