cheekybarstard Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	I finally did it. My very first cold approach ever, at the age of 34. Such an insightful post well done on taking initiative. I've been thinking too lately about how much women must feel unwanted, and left out. They're trying hard!	/r/seduction	16/02/16 04:10 AM
2	Dealing with passive aggressive texts It's a matter of fact reply. They're calling u out on your cocky bullshit. Get better lines or Be prepared for all kinds of replies. You gotta play hardball if you wanna win. If you give up this easily, it's not going to happen.	/r/seduction	26/01/16 05:56 AM
5	Text Game. Girl I matched with on dating app is a drag to talk with. When do I cut the line? Is there a general guideline for how long to stay in one sided conversations? Move on. If I get bored with a girl in text conversation I'll wait, drop her a lifeline and if she fails that, I'm gone. Next. All within minutes. Write off this investment, it didn't pay off.	/r/seduction	25/01/16 11:02 AM
3	[30M] I'm sick of women being so insulting and toxic in the dating game and that my only option is to accept it and move on. It's making me hate women. This is the one conclusion i keep coming to. It happens on both sides of the sex. Thing is, we hold beauty to such high regards that we tend to overlook really obvious red flags. Guys are more forgiving of certain behaviours because we are keen to connect. Both sides have the wrong filters in operation, and are using the wrong criteria to make inaccurate assumptions and miss out!	/r/seduction	19/12/15 12:57 AM
1	What is your best reply to a girl who jokingly says "you suck"? "I Do, and i do it well. But only after you do..."	/r/seduction	12/11/15 04:32 AM
2	How the fuck do I get girls to stop doing this? (Pic is of girl and the "this" that she's doing) Dude, she's obviously (maybe not so obvious, but look between the lines) bored, and seems depressed. Thus she's reaching out, because she's not feeling good and wants a pick-me-up in the form of external validation. Don't take it personally.	/r/seduction	12/11/15 04:23 AM
1	Narcissism and egoism will DESTROY your game Exactly the same conclusions i've come to about Narcissists. They're basically wounded and create a 'false self' as a front to the world and then try to get everyone to buy into it. The best thing anyone can do if you think you have these tendencies is to humble the fuck up and admit you have issues that need to be addressed.	/r/seduction	12/11/15 02:54 AM
1	Share your Routines: Skincare, Weightlifting, Morning Rituals and so on. Redkin sorb / glyc in the pump container? I used to get into that heaps... now i use sorb / glyc in a soap form from the health food store.	/r/askTRP	23/04/15 08:26 AM
3	Am I being ridiculous? I need a harsh slap in the face one way or the other. (LTR question) Call her instead, dumbarse ;)	/r/askTRP	23/04/15 07:11 AM
1	Advice to ignore a girl's beauty i'm 39 and still crack a boner when i'm kissing a girl, even for the first time. I just tuck it up... or hold it back with a hand in the pocket.	/r/seduction	20/04/15 07:30 AM
2	Michael Bublé chooses not to give in to the feminists Wow. This is all based on ones personal interpretation of what his 'look' means. People who take objection to this are best referring their anger back to their own selves. It's their mind and perspective that has chosen this to mean one thing or another. Basic projection plain and simple. Me? I think he's pulling a cheeky grin and her ass is kinda juicy. I would be going 'hell yeah!' As in its enjoyable to look at. But that's just me... Another perspective in a long line of varying perspectives.	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/15 07:10 AM
3	Balancing the need to improve with the need to accept yourself as you are and live life right now Absolutely. I get where you're at and have deeply explored this concept. I believe that primarily you are best off accepting where you're at and being ok with it. Then you can look to improve. But you must always accept that where you are is ok. If you don't accept that where you are is ok, you begin to overcompensate. You're working to escape yourself. It's self sabotage on top of self sabotage. If you can accept that people think you're a dick, that you're shit with women, that you arnt anywhe…	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/15 07:02 AM
8	Why are women so boring? They're not all boring. Some of them are hilarious. But i have to say, there's a good majority who are SOOO BORING. I'm in my 30's, and i tell ya, i just don't try anymore. If they're boring, i don't respond. I come off as indifferent, because i am. The worst is when you make a half decent joke, and they put you down for it. I tell them to get a sense of humour, and then ignore them. Go for the girls who actually enjoy themselves. Oh, and that involves more then YOGA. Every. Single. Girl does YO…	/r/askTRP	15/03/15 06:51 AM
1	How do you act when you see an ex? ha! depends on the ex. If it was D, i'd give her bear hug, and go have a drink with her. If it was C, i'd also give her a bear hug and catch up for a chat If it was E, i'd completely pretend i didn't see her, because she's an avoidy bitch who's weak as piss and can't handle even talking to me!	/r/askTRP	13/03/15 09:05 PM
7	[FR] They will attack you at any chance they get I've found myself in many situations where I've made it very clear that what a women States about me isn't true. Then they insist it must be true! No. Then they argue. No. Then they get pissed off. Goodbye! smirk they live so far inside they own reality, they know what reality really is...	/r/TheRedPill	03/03/15 05:38 AM
5	Did I lose frame with my sister? What should I have done differently? Agree. Just shut her down, repetitively, until she complies. At this age, she's a walking nutcase, hell bent on rage and evil. You're gonna need to train her, it's going to take a while!	/r/askTRP	05/01/15 11:38 PM
1	How is it really like being a single male in your 30s? Pro's and Con's really. I'm now 38, and it's a challenge. Need to loose some weight, i've lost 7, got about 13 to go to get to optimum, so there's that. What really puts me off, is the quality of women. Online, say OKCupid and Tinder, it's really low. Sure, there are some clear winners - girls fit, still have the looks, etc, but there's more so overweight girls, girls with kids, girls with clear issues, etc. That, AND they're super choosy, which is fine. I see the same girls on OKCupid 1 year la…	/r/TheRedPill	05/01/15 11:11 PM
1	'Give her your jacket' - 'No' Like someone else has mentioned, but with a twist. Keep a old hoodie in your car. It'll be uniquely yours, and she might even like wearing a bit of 'you'. So, keep your jacket, give her the hoodie 😄	/r/askTRP	10/11/14 04:33 AM
0	The double standard where men are allowed to be whores and women aren't double standards are everywhere. They're essential when you have two differing parties that interact under a different set of rules. When you have converging systems that contain their own unique ways of operating, you require a "double standard" for things to mesh. The double standard is just a silly human expectation that all things are equal. They're not.	/r/TheRedPill	07/11/14 04:53 AM
1	women systematically break up with me after making out 3 is not the best sample size. Are you a good kisser? Do they enjoy it. Do you tell them 'if this keeps going, I'm going to want to fuck you... But I like to be a gentleman so I'll wish you goodnight' or similar - create a leadin for the next date?	/r/seduction	04/11/14 01:48 AM
0	Ugly girl laments miserable time out at club. Hamsters console her; "Men have it much easier" Bullshit. I've met sassy overweight girls who totally owned the place. I've met gorgeous overweight girls who pushed all the right buttons. I've also met bitchy overweight girls who held stupid standards, rejected playful conversation and just dug a really deep hole that was impossible to get out of. I've met the same types of girls in skinny fit frames but overall the chubbier ones owned it. It's all about how they hold themselves.	/r/TheRedPill	26/10/14 01:03 PM
1	So many women are just searching for a man to plug into their equation for life Absolutely correct. I've met heaps of women online, and dated some who I could very easily tell we're looking for a formula, a particular image and style of man. Forget the connection and fun we had, none of it meant anything because I didn't fit their logical ideal. They want someone to fit into their "partner" peg hole. Sad part is they're missing out!	/r/TheRedPill	26/10/14 07:30 AM
3	Can y'all explain this girls behavior? Girl from work goes cold. This this this. You rejected her harshly by saying she's less then other girls and that would have wounded her. She wanted you to say "yes, I am using you to make the other girls jealous" , before taking her to end and fucking her ;)	/r/TheRedPill	26/09/14 12:20 PM
2	I Was Divorce Raped. Don't Be Me. Marriage is really "throw it in, stir it around, and when you're done, you get half'	/r/TheRedPill	11/08/14 10:57 PM
1	Ran into my ex the other day... "Please forgive me for being a complete bitch so I can feel better abut myself" I believe is the subtitle. Your response of "no" is heartless, cruel, and the best thing you could have done ;)	/r/TheRedPill	11/08/14 08:14 AM
1	I Was Divorce Raped. Don't Be Me. Yes, it's not therapy, it's just a fucked up coping mechanism for not having a interesting life.	/r/TheRedPill	11/08/14 08:00 AM
2	I Was Divorce Raped. Don't Be Me. Yup. This times 1000. Sorry dude.	/r/TheRedPill	11/08/14 07:14 AM
1	I Was Divorce Raped. Don't Be Me. I still cannot understand how the woman in a divorce walks away with so much? In a 50 / 50 parenting split, why does the woman get so many $$$ ? It boggles the mind, and completely turns me off marriage.	/r/TheRedPill	11/08/14 07:04 AM
2	Getting girls invested in you? Hmm.. Me thinks something else is going on here. What's behind her trying to impress you still? Her need for validation? Perhaps she's trying too hard to get. I've had girls seem so keen, so into me, and the bonding during a hook up, only to completely flip. If the comfort isn't there, they split, enjoy the sex, and then work out a way to rationalise why you're no good for her.	/r/seduction	06/08/14 08:13 AM