chef516 Archive

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5	Ironic reason for visiting TheRedPill I was at the train station the other day, standing next to the doors inside the train because all the seats were taken. There was a man talking to my buddy, and a girl who I assume was his next to me. I never seen her before. The first thing she said to me while holding an empty mcdonalds bag was "Can you go throw this away out there for me"? The garbage bin was about 10-15 feet away. I told her to screw off somewhat politely, 5 seconds later the doors close. I would have had to wait 3 angry hou…	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/16 04:21 PM
2	Game Guilt It gets easier with time. You need to recondition your brain to rid yourself of the fantasy and accept reality. People are so opposed to it because it goes against everything we learned, everything we know. The sexual reality of this world isn't easy to digest. “Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.” - Oscar Wilde	/r/askTRP	18/03/16 04:01 PM
1	Vegetarian girl date Overthinking it bro. For short term, doesn't sound like a deal-breaker, yet. But having to compromise on going out for food constantly is something I couldn't give up for only sex and intimacy.	/r/askTRP	18/03/16 03:54 PM
2	Best way to deal with increased SMV? Recognize your new value. Engage with women who show interest, disregard the others. Girls are literally double taking and approaching you. Want them to carry you back home and lay you down in bed too? You need to show sexual interest as soon as possible, something many guys have trouble with. Then its about reading body language and escalation.	/r/askTRP	18/03/16 03:40 PM
1	I've ran into some "unique" problems with physical self-improvement sure, I'll be around today	/r/askTRP	18/03/16 02:53 PM
2	Nervousness around women How should I own it? Actually, can I ask you about an insecurity you had that you eventually owned? Check my last post I wrote, it was basically outlining what I have dealt with. Its just accepting that people say whatever they want, and you either confront them or shrug them off. You need to value yourself from the inside. I used to gain all my self worth from other peoples opinions or thoughts about me. Now, I know my own worth, I accept my uniqueness, my individualism. Stand up for yourself, …	/r/askTRP	18/03/16 03:51 AM
7	I've ran into some "unique" problems with physical self-improvement I know it's a very low likelihood that any of you will be able to relate to much of my situation, You couldn't be more wrong, brother. I was 300~ lbs in high school, and I dropped to 185 within a year or so of time. I had horrible amounts of loose skin from loosing weight so fast. I was doing crossfit, working construction and eating right and that shit flew off me like an HB9 denying you in your most beta of days. I was forced to wear compression shirts, the strongest, tightest one available. S…	/r/askTRP	18/03/16 03:21 AM
2	Nervousness around women Being around white people made me more approachable to white people, and less black towards everyone. The education mindset would have also made my mannerisms more 'white' if you will. TRP is about truth, and the truth sucks sometimes. You need to be either a black stereotype or you aren't black anymore. Those are the two options black men seem to get. All cultures are different but god damn is the black community judgmental about this shit. Everyone just expects black dudes to be aggressive and…	/r/askTRP	18/03/16 02:38 AM
3	Nervousness around women So you would get teased about being black, in advanced classes? "Look at him, being so white", that's the harassment I am imagining. You went to school, did great, got a job in the field you wanted (I assume). That doesn't sound like some one with a lack of experience or knowledge. So what if you don't follow the Kardashians. I can't fucking tell a G note from a B note from a C note, I don't even know if there is a G,B, and C note. What is a cool hobby to you? You just assume people think you ar…	/r/askTRP	18/03/16 01:40 AM
5	Thoughts on asking before making moves? Damn, I'm gonna start doing that. Usually by the time we kiss, she is so receptive its like she was waiting anyway. If you get rejected, act like its nothing, joke about it, and you'll get it eventually. She knows you will try again and her body language will be more telling of the situation because its on her mind.	/r/askTRP	18/03/16 01:15 AM
9	Nervousness around women Girls only talk about guys, relationships, guys and guys. They are horribly judgmental, aware of their sexual power and willing to use it. My friends girlfriends only talk about other people when they drag them along, just who, what and when. They interrupt the whole conversational dynamic we have going on with their nonsense. For woman, men are the most important, and interesting thing that can happen to them. We like woman mostly for sex and intimacy. They need us to to be provide for them, to…	/r/askTRP	18/03/16 01:09 AM
1	On and Off girl in my class? Sounds like she is using you for extra validation, or doesn't want to be seen talking to you in class. She knows you have a GF, could deter her showing interest. Or maybe you didn't show enough interest, only "friendliness" which leads straight to friendzone lane. Sounds like you are just getting attention from an attractive girl when you didn't have that attention before, and seeing the opportunity getting farther and farther away is messing with your head.	/r/askTRP	18/03/16 12:57 AM
8	How do I respond to this text? She is, I know it may be hard to stop yourself from trying to contact her, but she just did you a huge favor. Stalking her social media, and keeping in contact with her won't help you get over it. You need to transition from BP to RP away from her, she will never understand what is "happening" to you, and her remarks won't let you fully develop. She wants to drag you back in by withdrawing attention. Show her you truly don't care and she will be messaging you eventually. She won't be able to bel…	/r/askTRP	18/03/16 12:46 AM
3	Novice Seeks Cure for Oneitis Haha, I wish I could have seen her face when you told her that. She fills the position of "ideal woman" in your head. Being as this is semi-recent it still lingers more than ever. You got a lot of your own validation from her, and now its gone, and that sucks. But unfortunately you can't just remove things so quickly from your mind, especially things as eventful as the woman who opened your eyes for you. The regular response is make a life for yourself, including women, not revolving around them…	/r/askTRP	18/03/16 12:39 AM
4	How do I respond to this text? Used to be your oneitis? Bro, she still is. If you didn't care about her or what she thinks, you would just drop all contact. Unless you see her in person and need to be civil for work/school purposes, she needs to go. You need other sources of female attention to feel less shitty. Good luck	/r/askTRP	18/03/16 12:19 AM
3	Should I give her a job opportunity, or release her back into the wild? That is exactly what she wants, be it subconscious or not. "I really like her" She knows she is being a "perfect wife", you get drawn in knee deep and it gets harder to escape when you try.	/r/askTRP	18/03/16 12:16 AM
4	Should I give her a job opportunity, or release her back into the wild? +1 Pretty much what I was going to write. See how long she can keep this up, and then see if its still worth your time and energy. Every western girl will share similar qualities such as attention seeking, partying, medium+ N counts, ect. Just don't let her slow you down you growing as an individual.	/r/askTRP	17/03/16 11:57 PM
1	Struggling to make life improvements due to depression Lol, why? Do people get rewards now for referrals? You got a link for me?	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/16 07:41 PM
3	How can I develop abundance mentality as a 5'6" Indian guy? Well, at least you know you have the cards stacked against you. People say lift only because there is nothing more noticeable when you first meet a woman than the time you spend in the Iron Temple. If I saw you, would I think you workout or play sports? How do you dress? Are you social? You are Indian, aren't you like a doctor or pharmacist anyway? If you know you can't rely on your looks to get you women, you better be rich or powerful. They will never love you for who you are. Changing locatio…	/r/askTRP	17/03/16 07:39 PM
4	How do you deal with all this anger? You can and you will take a whole fucking life time of it, I promise you. The anger "phase" is debatable. Some say it is a phase, and others (myself included) think it is never ending. You are newly unplugged, no doubt the most unbearable, tormenting truth you could ever imagine has been laid out before you. Your conditioned brain begs you to brush it off, push it away. But you know, and you know based on your own life experiences that this isn't another lie, when you want it so badly to be one.…	/r/askTRP	17/03/16 07:00 PM
1	Any RP Men gotten back the girl you fucked up with? Is it good? No one can really answer that for you. This depends on how bad you "fucked up". If you displayed neediness, a weak SMV and bad frame, it is not as bad as going full stalker mode, singing songs outside her window. The only way to remedy the weak SMV displayed is a period of absence from her life, no messaging, not letting her see your social media, and then inserting yourself back into her life a changed man. Having more muscles, a better style for yourself, and actual confidence with…	/r/askTRP	17/03/16 06:39 PM
1	Struggling to make life improvements due to depression Yes, I masturbate and watch porn. But when I go multiple days without either of them I do notice that I am more dedicated pursuing actual women, and I feel better about myself. Maybe a subconscious reward for refusing instant gratification?	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/16 04:14 PM
2	Any RP Men gotten back the girl you fucked up with? You want someone to tell you yes. Yes, it is possible. And if that's the motivation you need to get your ass to the gym and better yourself, use it. But its a slippery slope like other people are suggesting.	/r/askTRP	17/03/16 03:03 AM
1	I fucked up [FR] Sup bro. She was definitely DTF. So we know she is interested, or at least was. Now, these windows of opportunity don't last forever so you will need to make your intentions clear asap. She might feel rejected from the last exchange, and she may not show as much interest again to preserve her ego but that doesn't mean its over yet. But if she is still acting the same, definitely escalate accordingly and get a number/setup a date. SHE CALLED YOUR NAME OUT! and you waved, aw man lol. Imagine how s…	/r/askTRP	17/03/16 02:44 AM
2	Struggling to make life improvements due to depression This might come off as "suck it up" but I have only my best intentions in mind, and some personal examples that could perhaps show you that suffering is a part of life and everyone suffers. I hate even saying that to you because we are all solipsistic and have a hard time feeling other peoples pain through their personal senses. Plus its cliche as fuck. First of all my back is somewhere in between a phase 2 and 3 fuck up, I can't even stand up straight without the lumbar part of my spine hurting…	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/16 02:23 AM
13	Textbook example of blue-pill Facebook post, gets praised by hundreds of women. This reply is literally useless, and its starting to become a thing that gets annoying when I read posts here, which is less frequently these days. People offer no advice, nor anything positive. So this guy isn't banging HB9s twice a day, or he spends time with a girl even if he isn't getting laid, so fuckin' what? Everyone thinks they can read TRP for a while, maybe get a fuck or two, and automatically become "all knowing" and "aware" and talk down to others when they read a couple hundred word…	/r/TheRedPill	15/12/15 10:49 PM
1	Did I do the right thing ? This should probably be in ask trp but whatever. Don't ask a girl questions like "Am I wasting my time?". You put pressure on her and made her slightly "above" you in that moment giving her too much power, so she didn't know what to say besides "huh". Also more pressure was applied when you questioned her on where things would go. Her liking someone shouldn't deter you. And if it didn't work out, no sweat, just don't show it to her. All after one cardio session though. Too quick, so it sounds ne…	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/15 09:06 PM
67	Woman talks to police about guy who groped her on a date. After the DA refuses to press charges, she wonders whether she should give the guy another chance. "He made me feel uncomfortable. I'll ruin his life, that will show him."	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/15 05:58 PM