chefayellen Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Going through a lot, need to vent and get some answers maybe.		chefayellen	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/19 12:27 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	What music did you listen to during your divorce? Delta sleep	/r/Divorce_Men	31/03/23 10:55 AM
7	A wound that doesn't seem to want to heal. I'm 2 years in and going through family therapy because of my son failing this semester. It's hard being told you're great co parents when you're trying your hardest to stay away from someone who doesn't want you happy.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/03/22 05:48 PM
1	I called off work today Just bought a membership 2 weeks ago best investment for me. It has become my therapy.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/01/20 01:52 PM
1	Talking to the kids on the phone My son is at that same age and I was having a difficult time in the beginning. What I did was tell him how important he is to me. I would remind him about all the things we did when he was a kid and i let him know he is my happy thought. Also start talking about your hobbies with her, my son and i love doing everything together and we talk about that as well. Keep your head up.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/20 01:09 AM
1	Feel like a fucking loser I'm moving my stuff out now man and I feel the exact same way. It's not helping me that she's on the phone with her bf telling me "I don't hear you packing" in a sarcastic tone. I want to destroy something beautiful right now.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/11/19 04:23 PM
1	Going through a lot, need to vent and get some answers maybe. A fogged up head can do a lot to someone. I ask myself that almost everyday. But my kids are my world and I wouldn't trade them for anything. I made a huge mistake and it's made me a man who thinks before he judges now. I'm not perfect and I make shit mistakes at times. Maybe one day I can write a book about my bullshit so I can get some clarity out of my decisions. Cheers.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/19 02:36 AM
1	Going through a lot, need to vent and get some answers maybe. Thank you it feels great. And yes I started my own account and I told her i'm only paying for bills and whatever the kids need. She called me yesterday asking for gas money. I told her no that i'm the last person she should of called even then it's a no. Let Oklahoma pay for gas.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/19 01:56 AM
1	Going through a lot, need to vent and get some answers maybe. Yeah I was a heavy pot smoker and I've been sober now for the last 4 months. And I don't want to be with anyone because i'm not over her.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/19 01:27 AM
2	Going through a lot, need to vent and get some answers maybe. Thank you. Posting on here has helped lift the fog that I'm in a little.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/19 01:20 AM
1	Going through a lot, need to vent and get some answers maybe. Yeah I knew that from the get go. Thank you.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/19 01:19 AM
2	Going through a lot, need to vent and get some answers maybe. Right now I'm on a business trip and I have a hotel that I'm staying in till September. So I'm only staying at the house 2 days out of the week, mostly taking the kids out. I might move in with my uncle.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/19 01:07 AM
1	Going through a lot, need to vent and get some answers maybe. I have a appointment for next Monday but I need to reschedule because I my grandfather is dying. I was going to see him first. I don't know how she is going to afford anything anymore. I guess her mom will pay for it.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/19 12:55 AM
1	Going through a lot, need to vent and get some answers maybe. You're right. I need to look for a place, I was going to move back in with my mom but she's a hoarder and the house is unlivable until I clean it out. I'm still paying the bills, can I just stop and leave?	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/19 12:52 AM