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Of course that’s all one can do.
/r/seduction09/03/25 05:15 PM
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Good numbers there chief
/r/seduction06/03/25 03:35 AM
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I actually don’t have fear of success. I’m just looking for ways to get better with women at bars
/r/seduction13/02/25 04:11 AM
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I have absolutely no fear of rejection these days. I want to get better and better and be able to approach women confidently in any setting.
/r/seduction13/02/25 03:59 AM
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That’s the goal I would rather aim for to get a number and then text later to set up a meetup. This is an interesting take.
/r/seduction13/02/25 03:50 AM
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Wonderful advice! I will implement that into my next conversations! Thanks!
/r/seduction13/02/25 03:48 AM
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I will usually see if they are in a position to have a conversation, like if they are with girl friends or just by themselves. I will usually ask about the bar itself, like if they have been coming to that bar often, I may give them a compliment, ask for a recommendation of a good bar/restaurant in the area, I will naturally insert myself into a conversation I can relate to, etc. so you are saying I need to ask if they want to have sex right away, then bring them back to my place and have sex wi…
/r/seduction13/02/25 02:53 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/seduction13/02/25 02:22 AM
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For one stop being such a misogynist and an incel!! Do that first before looking for a woman! Women hate that sort of attitude actually.
/r/seduction13/01/25 11:05 AM
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Just wanting hot girls alone by the way is very materialistic and shallow. What if a woman who doesn’t fit that stereotype comes along who likes you? You’re just gonna give up on her because she’s “unattractive” for you? Based on your post history, you’re an unhinged incel who thinks he’s entitled to women. No, that attitude will get you nowhere other than just spinning your wheels. Ever heard of the definition of insanity? That’s whats happening here.
/r/seduction12/01/25 07:34 PM
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I do all of that stuff already on the regular except climbing.
/r/seduction06/08/24 03:46 PM
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32
/r/seduction06/08/24 03:37 PM
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I live in a smaller town outside of nyc, not in nyc itself
/r/seduction06/08/24 09:07 AM
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One of the best posts on Reddit. Very succinct explanation!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:38 PM
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I actually get quite a lot of matches, that happened once I restarted my account and created a new one. I have been talking with this woman on there for about two weeks now who lives close by. We haven’t met in person yet. I was told by someone else he thought my profile was excellent and he was getting decent matches. I started wearing more designer shirts and jeans when leaving the house and no longer have the shades in any photos on hinge.
/r/seduction16/04/24 02:11 AM
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I can try the former on some of the women at the university I go to on Thursday when I go back there. There’s women I’ve wanted to approach but didn’t because I felt like I wouldn’t have anything to say.
/r/seduction16/04/24 01:17 AM
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Do you have any tricks of the trade you can pass along to me?
/r/seduction16/04/24 01:04 AM
2

You think this. This is why you can’t get a gf
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 12:04 AM
-1

What the? Get help, please.
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 11:50 PM
-4

I’m sorry but, is this satire? Cause if it isn’t you need therapy my man! There’s billions of women! Hard for me to believe one won’t love you.
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 11:46 PM
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I have yes, over time I have become more happier single and don't want to take the risks dating offers unless its with someone I can trust.
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 02:02 AM
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Change the attitude and become a positive fun loving guy. It’ll make all the difference.
/r/BlackPillScience01/11/23 10:50 PM
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This is all malarkey and untrue
/r/BlackPillScience01/11/23 10:49 PM
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Actually ive had a change of heart and want to start dating again. I do really think I can make it work. I will prove it to you guys.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 10:02 PM
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Thanks. I’m realizing now how the game is rigged.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 05:20 PM
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I do agree but am waiting a bit longer. I vow to never date again after that.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 05:18 PM
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Yeah I agree. I hope society changes to the point where things get better.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 03:11 PM
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I do plan to cut it off after some time if she doesn’t accept commitment after a few more dates. I just am not at that point yet.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 01:06 PM
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That’s why I don’t really date anymore.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 01:05 PM
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I am actually somewhat aware of this. I’m done with dating permanently after this if it doesn’t work out. I’m just kinda having pangs of hope things will turn around but I don’t care of the outcome.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 12:56 PM
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I only work part time and my rent is extremely cheap, so I don’t technically have to work more and I like enjoying my own self.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 12:51 PM
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I’d handle that by just playing aggressively in chess. I wouldn’t direct it towards anyone.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 11:16 AM
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She’s 35. My ex was 20 and didn’t use anything except LinkedIn I’ve found women in their 30s are mostly taken though by this point so aren’t options either. Most are already married with kids. You can rebel against the dating system by being a very positive confident guy even with no prospects. People will envy you for having such a good attitude despite being alone. A small percentage of women do care, but they are really hard to find. These women usually get snatched up fast so they get taken …
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 10:59 AM
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Not really. The current woman I’m dating uses Reddit but she seems self aware and avoids all other social media. That’s why I have hope in her and am sticking with her. She also rarely uses her phone when we chat. I find that admirable. And yeah, I agree it’s unfair for men. It needs to be equal and there is no equality right now. Both genders need to have equal chances in dating. It needs to be fair game and fair play, and then men will start coming back to the dating scene.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 10:51 AM
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Actually even some women are having trouble. My ex had no boyfriend before I did. She dated, but never had success until she met me. I gave her a shot more so than the last guys did and she still ended it. I know a friend who’s considering dating someone who’s also had no relationship experience herself. So there are outliers I agree though women have more success than men as a whole. It’s so unbalanced and this is why men go ballistic and we have shootings/suicides. Once they happen nothing eve…
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 10:44 AM
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That’s great to hear! I feel the same. I’ve found traditional relationships are very hard to find amongst the younger generation. Everything is about instant gratification/hook up culture. Due to the proliferation of social media and dating apps people can just move on to another person and not stay with one person, making finding a deep connection extremely difficult. Despite being a confident well rounded guy after years of work, I’ve still had the same issues with dating I had many years ago …
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 10:36 AM
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Why would you kill yourself though?
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 10:10 AM
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For some it is, for some it isn’t. It depends on the person.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 10:04 AM
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I understand, how did the mating process change? For me I’ve had a lifelong struggle with making friends and finding women to date. I did have a brief relationship a few months ago, but it ended. I also run a meetup and can’t get members there despite posting it on many places, advertising, etc. I just for the life of me can’t figure out what the problem is, and want to fix it so I can have that meaningful connection. I have thought maybe going to the gym and lifting would solve at least part of…
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 10:04 AM
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We met on Hinge but we’ve been meeting regularly since then, it’s just I find I have to put all the effort in while she puts practically none in. I have a feeling it’s going to crash and burn unless she picks up the communication. I had a discussion with her about exclusivity since it’s been five dates already and she dodged the question. To date she’s the second woman who I’ve gotten past the first date with, the other was my ex My ex and I made out but never got to sex because she decided to b…
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 10:03 AM
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Yes but she doesn’t communicate all that often, so it may not work out.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 09:39 AM
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Are there any hopes for society to change? I’ve been hoping this for a while, or maybe taking action myself to change it.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 09:39 AM
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Life can be worth it while single. There’s tons of stuff to learn, tons of books to read, and such. But dating? Yeah the more I try the more I realize how not worth it it actually is. Sure I am dating someone right now but if it doesn’t work out I plan to be single for at least a year, if not longer.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 04:11 AM
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lol! In all seriousness what have you tried? If you just sat home every day for the past 28 or so years then obviously there’s no way you’d get a gf On the other side of the coin, if you went out and didn’t find someone, not even one person, after all those years, yeah you clearly did something wrong.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 01:32 AM
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What did you do to try to meet women?
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 01:11 AM
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No that’s not true. I’m sorry to hear you’re dealing with that, but I’m sure someone in this world will love you.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 12:51 AM
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Doubt this is true. Explain.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 12:27 AM
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Seems like trolling. If it is then lol.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 12:08 AM
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Who?
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 10:43 PM
-1

No, it’s not real lol it’s some made up construct born out of incels.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 10:23 PM
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Why?
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 10:18 PM
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There is no such thing as a chad! It’s some made up malarkey. Where did anyone come up with this stuff? I really just don’t keep track of this, like at all. Dating should be fun, it a drag where you think every girl has a “chad” on their arm. So not true.
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 02:38 AM
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yep, exactly.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 10:10 PM
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Let's see what happens really.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 10:10 PM
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Yeah why do that? That’s not going to get them anywhere. Don’t blame anything or anyone except yourself. Society has always been complicated. Nothing has changed. No need to blame or generalize a whole gender.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:30 PM
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Yeah men really need to change their attitudes. Its so much easier to get a date nowadays. Back in the day you would truly not have a lot of choices.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 08:59 PM
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I am not so sure about that, I mean online maybe it is true, but in person seems like a totally different story. Even still, regardless of what it is, I refuse to take up the blackpill mindset as its more of an internet movement. Women may on average get more matches online, but what about the quality of those matches? I think once women start getting down to figuring out the quality of the men they matched with that is when women also start to falter. Meaning, they can get their foot in the doo…
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 08:20 PM
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Why do you visit all those subs?
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 04:46 PM
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I do know how hard it is but I hope that some of you can realize there is a way to be happy. How to find that happiness is the question. Personally these days I look at the little things to be happy. Helping people and listening to them also makes me happy, and my hobbies do also. I do hope your life takes a turn for the better and becomes happier
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 04:29 PM
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I am sorry to hear that, I hope things get better for you. Your experiences are valid. I also sympathize with mens issues as well, but believe the blackpill is harming them more and they are better off just being simply upset and depressed if need be, but not blackpilled. I personally myself have had some success with dating. I had an ex gf earlier this year, but yeah dating is more or less a numbers game.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 04:24 PM
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Society Only hates you if you let it hate you. If you are happy and don’t let it get to you, life becomes better.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 04:04 PM
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So believing in the blackpill does something? I beg to differ. It doesn’t even exist! It’s just an online movement. Nobody I know in person has ever even known what blackpill is whenever I say it they look at me cross eyed. They shouldn’t pretend to be happy but need to find a purpose other than a relationship if that’s not in the cards. Maybe try to help the climate change effort for instance. Donate to a good cause and actually help to better the world. Drugs alcohol and porn won’t help either…
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 03:28 PM
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Life is what you make of it
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 03:23 PM
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I’m not inherently against it but I don’t want to see men suffer, and the black pill makes them nihilistic and negative. It’s better to be positive rather than negative. I don’t even think there is such a thing as a black pill. I hear my friends irl and they never discuss such things. It’s only discussed online. My best friend is single and he doesn’t mind. He’s never had a gf and has never mentioned the word blackpill once.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 03:18 PM
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I hate that it’s spreading and want it to stop spreading because it’s negative and unhealthy. I hope it’s not as contagious as covid!
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 03:08 PM
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Looks get your foot in the door but they fade and don’t last forever. Personality is also important.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 02:49 PM
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Stop thinking that way! That mindset will not help even if you are saying is indeed true which cannot be proven. What do you expect to do? It is in no way true average women have it easier with relationships. They may get more dates but when it comes to the relationship part that’s where they struggle. Everyone does equally. There is no such thing as a chad or Tyrone it doesn’t exist. That’s just something you heard off the internet. Who in real life calls people such names? Even if you make min…
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 02:46 PM
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So you want to be a nihilist then?
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 02:21 PM
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There is no such thing as a chad. No one is a Chad. That’s some made up construct which is very loony and has no merit Who in this world is perfect? You’re just assuming these “chads and changs” get laid hundreds of times which is not true at all. All you are simply doing is basing self worth on whether or not you have a relationship. You need to love yourself first before you can love someone else.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 02:20 PM
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Women can do whatever they choose as long as it’s not illegal. Onlyfans is fine for them, they can make extra money doing it and it does seem like income to me. I actually think women who do onlyfans are more unique than women who don’t, but all women are unique in some way, in fact all people are. I used to have the same mindset as you did but now I realize it’s not all bad for women to do that. Some perfectly empathetic women who would be great partners (and some are) use onlyfans.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 01:01 PM
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That’s creepy when you start out dating. Most women want to meet at a public place first and then once they trust you and are invested and know you’re safe, they will go to your place. Inviting a girl over to your place first date is asking for a lot of trouble.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 12:53 PM
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I’m a guy and won’t ever admit it’s true. Real life is not like what they think.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 12:52 PM
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Yeah I really appreciate your opinion, and I am so happy for you! Finding that kind of relationship is rare and hard to come by. I wish you and your fiance all the best! Sure I am not going to listen to those buffoons who preach blackpill. It’s nihilistic and negative. So many of these men hate women. For me I love talking to women and getting to know them when I get the opportunity, and hey being single isn’t bad either. These men need to stop ruining their lives and being brainwashed by malark…
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 12:37 PM
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I know that there’s still definitely women out there looking for that, I don’t deny that for a second. I have tried to convince all these guys to snap out of this unhealthy mindset as it will get them nowhere and they will be grumpy lonely old men without a wife. I think you for your kind words. I do hope that we can see a shift where men don’t think this way anymore. I also want a life partner and a healthy relationship myself. I am not going to be subjected to listen to insane blackpill rhetor…
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 12:05 PM
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Of course. Height is meaningless.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 11:41 AM
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Yeah of course that sounds good!
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 11:10 AM
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Doesn’t mean that I can’t have hope about it.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 11:08 AM
1

But why? Why do people believe the black pill? What’s in it for them? I mean this mindset is poisoning the minds of a lot of innocent people who could live happy productive lives without thinking that billions of women aren’t interested. That’s all just hogwash, there has to be someone.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 11:04 AM
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But I don’t want to keep believing that’s true, and even if it was, I still wouldn’t take the black pill because that would be nihilism. My whole life would get ruined and I would not enjoy it.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 10:58 AM
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That’s a good thing that women have autonomy and choice now, would you rather a woman be stuck with someone she despises because she’s forced to?
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 10:46 AM
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Bull crap. Maybe those stats are wrong. Stats have been wrong before. I am not giving up finding a relationship until I am a skeleton. I don’t know about anyone else.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 10:10 AM
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But I still wouldn’t want to just take the blackpill and suffer. That’s not a good way to live. Where is all this stuff coming from? 2023 should be the best time to be alive, not the worst but that’s what everyone with a blackpill mindset thinks. News flash it’s the attitude. Women don’t want guys who are negative and have constant pity parties. Does anyone even know how to have a happy healthy relationship, one where if you argue you calmly talk things out and not resort to violence?
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:56 AM
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I am not going to believe some malarkey Andrew foolhardy Tate or someone else said over the internet.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:53 AM
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According to your post history you have a bad mindset. That’s just a disgusting mindset to have and that’s why you’re single buckaroo. I’d get some therapy. Most guys who say that stuff don’t want to work on themselves to be the best partner they can be to someone. Trust me, there ARE loving relationships that last a long time. It doesn’t matter what anyone says.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:50 AM
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Yeah there’s still a high chance. You can find love at any age. I’m autistic and have had many women interested in me. I think there is definitely reason for hope. Reason for optimism. You will find your love one day.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:48 AM
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I wouldn’t choose any of those, all are malarkey.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:44 AM
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Bud I checked your post history, there is a reason why you’re single.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:43 AM
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I will never subject myself to that mindset! It’s just nihilism. You can be happy and love yourself without a relationship, and then be loving when you get into one. I don’t think that blackpill guys enjoy their lives, that’s more giving up and nihilism than anything else
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:36 AM
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But I don’t like the blackpill anyway. It makes you crazy.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:29 AM
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But we can change these things. It doesn’t have to be that complicated to do so.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:28 AM
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Huh? In what ways? The blackpill is just toxic malarkey. It’s not indicative of real life, instead guys who follow it are not getting laid for a reason. They should know what this reason is.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:25 AM
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Exactly what they are hearing is malarkey, it’s wrong.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:04 AM
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Why do you think men are not equal? This is just simply whining and complaining about your life and other men if they do this with get laid. There is a reason for it, it’s mindset related.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 08:58 AM
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But I’m still not blackpilled due to that. I still want a life partner. What type of male intervention?
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 08:55 AM
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But I’ll never subject myself to the blackpill. I don’t know I want to be more optimistic about dating and think this isn’t so. I think that men with this mindset that no woman will want them is launching them deeper into a depressive pit of despair.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 03:27 AM
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Makes sense, thanks for the insight! Oh yeah I think I did mess that up with the 66% of men are sexless, I meant to say single. As for the likes part some people do base their worth in likes. It’s shallow of course and I think now that you had mentioned it, close friends irl and a loving partner are most important. Likes are meaningless in the scheme of things but for some it can be tricky to think this way. I do hope we can start interacting more in real life again and watch less porn. I will a…
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 03:25 AM
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That’s not what the guy below said, he says he sees it in real life also
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 02:53 AM
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I refuse to be negative due to such a reality and hope that things pan out for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:40 AM
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Says who?
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 02:36 AM
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Wait. So you’re saying, in a college you teach, that there are a lot of men, even in person, who believe in this mindset? Seriously? I would never go and stoop that low. I am never giving up on finding love. I will keep looking until I am a skeleton. I until then plan to indeed improve, as best I can. Why are these guys getting brainwashed by what is most likely malarkey? If they could pull their heads out of their ass and get their head together I am sure at least one woman would be interested.…
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 02:29 AM
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That’s such a shame. So terrible. I really wish that something could be done and I would hate to see society go down. I’m not a picky person. I’m still one of few men left (I assume) in the west who wants an actual life partner. I absolutely hate hookups and think they are very shallow and meaningless. I try to accept everyone equally. I just wish things were different.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 02:23 AM
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Well we knew one another for 6 months. We were together for two of those,
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 12:57 AM
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two months but we had fun.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 12:40 AM
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Girlfriends can be awesome, sure they can be drama sometimes but who wouldn't want someone you can also have fun with, laugh with, and go on experiences with? Having a relationship can also be a very fun, fulfilling experience.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 12:19 AM
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I would not have any idea about that as I don't follow that ideology. To me, pills don't exist and its malarkey made up by some know nothing person.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 12:05 AM
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Not necessarily, there is a lot of encouragement from people in those cases to improve and get better. Plus, without failure, we would never grow as people or learn anything. If we were to hypothetically get rid of all failure in this world, the world would be much more boring and people wouldn't know how to become stronger and prevent failure. I often see it as a net positive.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 12:05 AM
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why though?
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 11:32 PM
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Sorry about that. It is likely just bad luck.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 11:32 PM
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I not only like it, I LOVE it! Its fun and I enjoy getting to know new people, and rejection is a part of life.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 11:31 PM
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why do you think so
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 11:11 PM
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Dating is hard for everyone not just the autistic but I have seen you in the past take on a blackpill stance.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 11:00 PM
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Having aspergers or autism is in no way a death sentence, and does not make it harder to find a relationship. Your attitude is the issue my friend. You will not get laid trying to force others to be friends with you or date you. Just live life and let everything come naturally.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 01:47 AM
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Do you really think all women are narcissists?I mean seriously?
/r/MensRights13/12/22 02:07 AM
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Buncha incels here. Don’t expect to get laid fellas
/r/MensRights13/12/22 01:51 AM
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You guys generalize women and think they’re all narcissists that are out to get men. This is not true. True there’s some married people in here but y’all talk badly about your wives. This is why we have a lack of healthy and loving relationships.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 01:47 AM
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No you turned her off with your beliefs. How do you expect to find a woman like that? This whole sub is just people circle jerking off one another.
/r/MensRights12/12/22 10:24 PM
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I appreciate the suggestion but I’m not at all into men, only women, and I personally feel as though I’m at my level emotionally. I’m 30 and feel 30 emotionally, so I want to be persistent and keep trying with women. I do not at all think that women are going to be seen as my mom unless I am doing something that would force her ti do that I.e. not pull my weight in the relationship.
/r/seduction14/10/22 12:20 AM
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Only hiki and here there isn’t anyone registered
/r/seduction13/10/22 07:06 PM
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It’s always all guys. I attend a weekly game event and it’s amways all guys.
/r/seduction13/10/22 07:01 PM
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Wow that’s a negative perception.
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:18 PM
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Well I was diagnosed with autism in 2002.
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:45 PM
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I collect toys and diecast cars, play chess, read books, like traveling, and studying weather.
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:41 PM
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I have struggled to find a job, and have asked people to hang out and have tried to make friends but other than 2 people nobody’s interested. I do have hobbies I enjoy.I also don’t have much family.
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:35 PM
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There’s nobody around here on hiki. I’ve never had success there.
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:33 PM
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If you want my advice, the easiest trick in the book is to realize getting most girls to like you is just treating them like a human being, a friend. Start off with the intention to be friends, think to yourself “she would be cool to hang with” and then once she’s proven herself good enough for that to you, amp it up, flirt, etc. a lot of girls just want to be treated normally. And another thing, I’ve had like 4-5 girls in the last year in my life I was involved with or dated. That doesn’t mean …
/r/seduction13/10/22 12:37 PM
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I’m still willing to keep trying and not give up, but I’ve heard that autistic people get a negative perception in this world by a lot of people, even nowadays. Sure the acceptance is certainly better overall say than it was 40 years ago, but a lot of people don’t even know what autism is which I find very strange. Some of my closest friends have disabilities and they are incredible people, so I think that when I’m trying to make a friend or get a romantic partner I just tell myself they are mis…
/r/seduction13/10/22 12:17 PM
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Well when I speak to women and ask them out after some time of getting to know them, they claim they have a bf or just want to be friends. I’m not sure why, as they don’t give an explanation.
/r/seduction13/10/22 09:40 AM
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To me I’d enjoy having a better quality relationship with a woman and having less sex than having none at all. I’m more of a person who likes LTRs and not so much short term stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:47 AM
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Do you think reopening r/lonely_men is a good idea, or would it get overrun? That’s my subreddit. I’ve kept it private for a while because I don’t want it removed, but I eventually want it to become a healthy place for men to talk about their dating issues. I know dating is hard nowadays, especially with covid. I was thinking of starting a texting support group on there (it wouldn’t be live, but more of a chat room sort of thing). I want to make sure my group stays intact, so I need to be carefu…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 02:36 AM
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What if you’re only considered average by societal standards? What would you do in regards to dating then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:10 PM
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This is like the third post you made in regards to this. I think people here have already told you what you needed to do. Unfortunately, its up to you to do it.
/r/seduction23/12/20 12:57 AM
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I mean I don't see the harm in meeting her if you do it outdoors. She may feel uncomfortable on the phone and wants to meet in person instead. Just take the necessary precautions (wear a mask, meet outside, etc) and you will likely be okay. A good tip is to see if she's hung out with anyone recently who might be infected.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 12:49 AM
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Thanks man, as always, I can take a joke!
/r/seduction02/02/20 11:52 PM
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Lol 😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/seduction02/02/20 11:50 PM
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Lol, and while you’re at the bingo hall, why not get her some croissants as well
/r/seduction02/02/20 11:48 PM
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Bingo!
/r/seduction02/02/20 11:44 PM
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Awesome job bro! As I always say, you have absolutely nothing to lose when it comes to this type of stuff. I recently approached a girl last week and felt extremely confident afterwards! The tips on this subreddit are amazing. They are literally helping guys who may not have had confidence in the past become more confident and approach women easier! I know I definitely want to get better at this myself, especially since I’m going to a meetup that has mostly girls on Thursday and I want to get wa…
/r/seduction02/02/20 06:07 AM
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I personally would only text to set up dates. The best content comes when you’re both together in person. If you text the girl too much she’ll get bored of you and not want to see you again. This is especially true in the early stages of dating.
/r/seduction02/02/20 04:41 AM
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I know that also. I generally enjoy coffee dates as a first date because they are quick and no pressure, and in the event the date goes sour you can leave the situation quick. Plus it’s a great opportunity to see if you have chemistry with one another and what you have in common width each other, and it’s a great time to have conversation.
/r/seduction30/01/20 02:50 AM
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I do live near NYC and have been dying to go there for months, so that wouldn’t be a bad head at all!
/r/seduction30/01/20 02:37 AM
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And you end up coming out on top and win.......EVERY TIME! When you think about it, a lot of people put themselves in poor positions and don't think of the consequences. For example, spending too much money on stuff you don't need and not creating a solid savings fund so you have a safety net. You never know when an emergency can all of a sudden develop. Or dating someone you clearly hate, but want to be with them anyways because you would be lonely without them. Its always better to be single t…
/r/MGTOW23/01/20 02:27 AM
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Why would he allow himself to take that bullshit from anybody? Even if a friend did something like that to me, I still wouldn’t be a glutton for punishment. I think this guys desperate enough that he wants to get tortured despite the fact the woman is clearly treating him poorly. A clear problem I have seen with many people is they refuse to stand up for themselves out of fear that whoever the other person is will be offended and they will lose a social connection. Well, if the person is bullyin…
/r/MGTOW23/01/20 01:57 AM
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Well said! I have also tried developing social circles and entering them because I know its a good way to get introduced to women who may want to date you, but so far it hasn't happened yet.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/19 09:37 PM
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I also have autism as well, can relate, and would like to date/eventually have a relationship with a partner, as well as make more friends. I have been tricked into going into the manosphere ideologies myself and get out of it every single time because I know I won't have a chance in hell to meet someone if I kept following their teachings, and I feel PUA isn't a good way to pick up women. I have also tried entering social circles to no avail, and I can't make my own because I don't have enough …
/r/ExRedPill20/12/19 09:36 PM
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Thanks for this. I will take the advice posted here. I like how you went into detail on the situation that is exactly going on. One of the main things I want to work on is dramatically improving my social skills.
/r/seduction04/12/19 01:27 AM
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I am also Aspie and this is very inspiring to me. You have instilled hope in most autistic guys, including myself, who have a hard time with shyness and social skills. I may want to send you a pm to get some tips and tricks on how to get laid on the same day. I also liked that you mentioned instadates. I may give that a shot the next time I approach an attractive girl. I also need to be more proactive on when and how to escalate, as I always screw that part up. I also have to increase my self-es…
/r/seduction28/11/19 01:10 PM
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I like Corey Wayne’s videos, I used to watch him a long time ago, but stopped.
/r/seduction28/11/19 11:27 AM
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I already read Models actually a few months ago. I plan on reading it again soon. What you have to realize is the advice that people give won’t necessarily help a guy on the autism spectrum because he has trouble reading non-verbal social cues and thus he may seem unintentionally creepy to women without meaning to do so, he takes things literally, is too blunt and honest which is a turn off, has self stimulation issues and other weird mannerisms, and for the most part is socially awkward. My aut…
/r/seduction28/11/19 03:27 AM
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I needed this, thank you.
/r/seduction10/11/19 03:04 PM
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I like the sending memes idea very much also, though I am not a Snapchat user, so it would have to be done through Instagram.
/r/seduction08/11/19 02:13 PM
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I would keep it that way also if that was the case.
/r/seduction08/11/19 12:05 PM
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I do agree that you should only text to set up dates initially, then once you're in a relationship you can text more. If you don't the girl loses interest.
/r/seduction08/11/19 12:03 PM
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I’m trying to do that. I’m off all of the dating apps now as I feel they are a waste of time. I would like to go to an extra event at temple Wednesday’s, but in order to do that I’d have to free up my Uber mileage that week. I agree with the 80/20 rule when it comes to dating apps, I feel it is very accurate to a T.
/r/seduction07/11/19 03:43 AM
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Thanks for the advice. Would a Jewish temple count for the church part? I attend one and go to the Shabbats once a week. I would like to try to get over there more but my Uber mileage has been capped for this week and I can’t get there any other way. Due to my Scheuermanns Disease, it’s very unlikely I can become jacked. My back is curved which makes it look as though I have a hunchback.
/r/seduction07/11/19 03:36 AM
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Hookup culture perpetuates those hookups though and not genuine relationships, hence why there’s so many single people nowadays. I am actually appalled at the number of people who just want others for sex alone, I feel like it would be meaningless and like you were just going through the motions.
/r/seduction07/11/19 03:22 AM
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I am sorry to hear this. I hope things get better for you.
/r/seduction07/11/19 01:46 AM
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I definitely don’t intend on doing it to solve my issues, I want to do it because In a lot of cases it’s fun and enjoyable and you get to create memories that can last forever even after you’ve broken up as long as it was amicable. I also want someone to join me through the ride called Life and go on the adventure together. Has nothing to do with solving problems. Only one of the issues you mentioned applies to me right now: not having an intimate relationship. I will soon however have the secon…
/r/seduction07/11/19 01:01 AM
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This post makes me think you focus too much on sex.
/r/seduction07/11/19 12:57 AM
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I need to know this, I’m so clueless with women.
/r/seduction07/11/19 12:53 AM
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I’m trying to figure that out myself, I always constantly feel insecure and think that there’s nothing I’d have to offer to a woman then I realize it’s probably being too nihilistic.
/r/seduction07/11/19 12:36 AM
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Excellent advice, couldn't have said it better myself actually. I won't lie, I wouldn't date a girl who smokes or even vapes, either. Its just not my thing and I am in no way crazy about it.
/r/seduction07/11/19 12:26 AM
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Actually dude I feel exactly the same as you only I am 27, but I am a dateless (well, for the most part lol), kissless, hugless, and sexless virgin. I have recently come to the striking realization that I am not getting any younger and would like to at least have the experience of kissing a girl. I always worry about talking to girls because I am so concerned I will come off as creepy or off-putting, and I keep thiking that women don't want to date anymore nowadays and that all of them will reje…
/r/seduction07/11/19 12:15 AM
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I fap generally once a week but haven’t been on a date in around a year. I want to cut down on fapping even further so I can increase my confidence more.
/r/seduction06/11/19 11:21 PM
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Those people should be ashamed of themselves because they won’t allow people to have lives outside of their relationship. This is why men are backing away from pursuing women. Not saying all of them are like that but the ones that are just ruin it for the rest of us.
/r/MensRights04/10/19 02:00 PM
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No shit....this whole society is sick. The late 90s time period was a healthy, stable, meaningful society. Now we are left with a decline.
/r/MensRights04/10/19 01:59 PM
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Denial is the issue....whenever I try to tell people there is a fundamental issue like this they break down, and surprisingly have no explanation for there problem. We are people too, we shouldn’t be disregarded like trash on the street. It’s not acceptable and not right.
/r/MensRights04/10/19 01:59 PM
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The 90s.... that my friends was the best time to be alive. Social media has destroyed the fabric of friendships/relationships and our standards for success are too high. The 2010s suck. This is proof right here. What can we do to fix it? We at least won’t take the necessary steps unless people stop denying it, that’s for sure.
/r/MensRights04/10/19 01:57 PM
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