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The reality of flirting is social cues, which admittedly some people on the spectrum struggle with severely, I remember when I had a job at a coffee shop for 3 years, several occasions where someone autistic, male or female, made me uncomfortable to socialize with. It’s really shitty bc there’s no one track answer to it, I’d recommend googling strategies based on where you are on the spectrum when it comes to dating because it’s gonna vary a lot.
It’s hard for autistic girls as well, I had a few try to flirt / socialize with me and naturally they didn’t understand social ques or were awkward, and that’s not their fault. It’s just how their brain functions. I promise you there are ways around it though it’s just going to take more effort to reach the goals you want
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If you want my advice, the easiest trick in the book is to realize getting most girls to like you is just treating them like a human being, a friend. Start off with the intention to be friends, think to yourself “she would be cool to hang with” and then once she’s proven herself good enough for that to you, amp it up, flirt, etc. a lot of girls just want to be treated normally.
And another thing, I’ve had like 4-5 girls in the last year in my life I was involved with or dated. That doesn’t mean I asked out 4-5 girls, I swung and missed a lot to, sometimes it was embarassing for the moment but after literally 3 days you get over it quick
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