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Literally no shame in admitting that. My standards have changed entirely in the last year alone, prior anyone who showed me attention I’d fall for, today if you asked me it’s the opposite, I’m significantly pickier and my expectations have risen. We all go through the journey
/r/seduction13/10/22 12:38 PM
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If you want my advice, the easiest trick in the book is to realize getting most girls to like you is just treating them like a human being, a friend. Start off with the intention to be friends, think to yourself “she would be cool to hang with” and then once she’s proven herself good enough for that to you, amp it up, flirt, etc. a lot of girls just want to be treated normally. And another thing, I’ve had like 4-5 girls in the last year in my life I was involved with or dated. That doesn’t mean …
/r/seduction13/10/22 12:24 PM
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The reality of flirting is social cues, which admittedly some people on the spectrum struggle with severely, I remember when I had a job at a coffee shop for 3 years, several occasions where someone autistic, male or female, made me uncomfortable to socialize with. It’s really shitty bc there’s no one track answer to it, I’d recommend googling strategies based on where you are on the spectrum when it comes to dating because it’s gonna vary a lot. It’s hard for autistic girls as well, I had a few…
/r/seduction13/10/22 12:18 PM
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Oh my bad, I just took a second look and yeah totally white. I skimmed over the first time after I saw the main face, I apologize there
/r/seduction10/10/22 01:18 AM
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I’ve seen actors who look similar to you, actors who are attractive. Stop being so hard on yourself my guy. I can relate to you though, as a brown dude as well it was hard to overcome my OWN (nor saying you also have it) internalized racism and thinking I was ugly for being brown, but one day after a long journey I got here and now I look In the mirror and think I look hot every day. Not to mention this isn’t the most flattering angle for anyone
/r/seduction10/10/22 01:09 AM
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Home boy I have a girlfriend rn. I’ve never once talked to a girl, sober or drunk, who’s laughed when I said “yeah I wish I was home rn”
/r/seduction13/07/22 03:38 AM
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Bruh… that conversation doesn’t sound natural at all
/r/seduction13/07/22 01:50 AM
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Not that I disagree with seeing familiar faces when i go but do you really talk to anyone at the gym? Even for myself I’m sorta there for me and I feel like it would be rude to interrupt someone’s workout, or do you mean outside the gym?
/r/seduction03/04/22 09:09 PM
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If you are confidently yourself you are immediately more attractive as a whole. I sometimes think of people I don’t find conventionally hot but have that affect on me solely bc of their confidence to be themselves
/r/seduction22/06/21 12:32 AM
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Yeah idk aha, I spend time taking care of my skin, hair, hygiene, and body and it shows. I feel like that helps way more than people realize
/r/seduction21/06/21 02:21 AM
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I wish. Working out for 7 months has helped tremendously but I’m not ugly either. I’m average and hot on a good day. I put a ton of work into myself tho
/r/seduction20/06/21 09:17 PM
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Idk, this might sound kinda wack but once I started just being myself, and fully embracing it instead of being half me half what I think people wanted me to be, my attraction went up singificanlty, from girls flirting with me at work or rather flirting back, I’ve never felt as attractive because that fear of people rejecting me is basically gone. I feel so much more magnetic just being honest and myself Edit: and I’ve got my first girlfriend in 2 years and she’s been amazing all around, that I s…
/r/seduction20/06/21 09:05 PM
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Honestly man power to you. There was this super beautiful Ted talk called “owning my face” and you kinda showed me how just by being confident, even online on Reddit, can really improve your view of someone
/r/seduction02/05/21 02:07 AM
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like, think back to someone just randomly asking how your day was, a service person or like a stranger, and how nice it made you feel, or a random compliment that you thought about for a week straight afterwards. That feeling is super easy to recreate it, my plan was instead of being the nervous one, you just suck it up and ask how that person is doing first. Thing is EVERYONE loves to talk, and loves to be asked questions about themselves. It makes them feel special, so by asking i put the spot…
/r/seduction10/03/21 10:30 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ltdysy/a_word_of_warning_to_taking_all_the_advice_here/ ​ I actually think this would help you more than anyone else. Its my post
/r/seduction10/03/21 10:23 AM
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Honestly man, as someone who went from shy nerdy guy who couldnt speak to anyone, to 15/10 unwavering confidence and speaks to everyone and anyone, strangers or customers with ease, id say 99% of it was faking it till I made it, and 1% was realizing my value.
/r/seduction10/03/21 10:19 AM
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his seem insanely high to me...a date a week? thats crazy
/r/seduction06/03/21 09:57 AM
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Yeah, I’m saying that stuff IS what I truly enjoyed doing, and that I changing my entire life just to be more attractive was a hollow experience
/r/seduction03/03/21 10:46 PM
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My bad, I apologize. I appreciate it regardless!
/r/seduction01/03/21 12:27 AM
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Appreciate it brother. I’ve always tried my best to be self aware. Like I said empathy and sympathy was my strongest ability pre all this, that included for myself I suppose.
/r/seduction01/03/21 12:25 AM
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I didn’t use books and most of the content I meant was a mix of charisma on command / gentleman’s game. The irony is common sense is usually the right view of things. The rest was my own opinions and experiences.
/r/seduction01/03/21 12:24 AM
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Yeah this perfectly summarized how I feel. You worded why it kinda sucks to look back and be like, “yeah, I was right, I wasn’t attractive”. And unironically I wanted to get into guitar again, I used to be able to play by ear and self teach myself so I hope I still have it in me. It’s been years tho haha
/r/seduction27/02/21 05:35 AM
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Don’t be scared by this post, this is something for guys who like me lurked for months and months. Avoid red Pilly stuff and you’ll be golden
/r/seduction27/02/21 05:15 AM
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I agree. That might be the crisis I had recently, was I went from one side to the extreme otherside, and now im taking a step back to find the healthy middle.
/r/seduction27/02/21 02:35 AM
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I think gym fishing isn the hot. If they say no it’s kind of weird since you both go to the same place, also going to the gym to pick up chicks shouldn’t be someone’s motivation
/r/seduction14/01/21 07:19 AM
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Hey love the post man! Can I ask how did you improve physical escalation? Thats the one thing im seeming to lack even if my confidence is at an all time high currently.
/r/seduction15/09/20 09:22 PM
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I mean I wont type up my full life story just to save time here but I totally get where you are coming from. I still feel to this very day constantly out of place, ive been rejected before, and I did spend most of my life alone, up until recently when I made a good friend group, or rather they let me in to theirs a year ago. Heres the mental switch that made me change my perspective and my life. ​ Have you ever had someone just come up to you and ask how you are, or how your day is going? I work…
/r/seduction05/09/20 08:43 AM
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Appreciate it all brother. Very kind words to live by
/r/seduction23/08/20 03:16 AM
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Le what? Seems like a weird suggestion to be an incel lol
/r/seduction21/08/20 11:35 PM
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Yeah it does. It makes me feel literally invisible, and I don’t even just mean attractive girls, I mean any girls. It would be a nice boost and make me want to approach.
/r/seduction17/08/20 08:20 PM
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I feel awful because I know I can do the other steps but honestly I never get IOI’s so I never can make the first move
/r/seduction17/08/20 08:10 PM
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Just because I think I understand why gay men can do it, is it because the girl knows it’s not serious and they don’t want anything? Should I have a similar mindset of not showing sexual interest.
/r/seduction17/08/20 05:48 PM
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This is literally me haha. I know my best trait is how funny I am and flexible my humour is, I have a talent for making anyone laugh, and consistently laugh after. I think I do the same with anyone, I just love making people laugh Edit: I didn’t read that last sentence right, I haven’t experienced that yet, but I’ll try to keep an eye out for it from now on, because I never really look at others for when to stop, I generally feel out the vibe
/r/seduction17/08/20 05:42 PM
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Height is a rough one because some women will care, but the reality is there are things some women Just consider a hard no. Some hate tattoos, others hate dogs. Your taste in music could just ruin it for a girl. The list goes on because reality is some girls care about really specific things, and you can let that stuff get you down. Being rejected for a really specific reason definatly sucks, and height might play apart in that for sure more often than not, but I’d hold your head high. Also ther…
/r/seduction28/06/20 05:49 PM
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She told me she would be coming back every night to study as she did tonight. Not sure if that was her just being honest because of the Corvid epidemic or her hinting at me. That’s lowkey why I asked her name to begin with
/r/seduction17/03/20 12:26 PM
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Appreciate the feedback, like I said I wasn’t flirting very hard and honestly I only kept it going because she played along with it (a little too well because I actually did want to go take out the trash). Asking for her name that late was really shitty tho, but I think making mistakes at the beginning is how you learn not to? Plus, I usually sense if people arnt comfortable, she was laughing about how she wouldn’t do good drinks and stuff. Regardless I appreciate it
/r/seduction17/03/20 11:50 AM
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I hate that you are right
/r/seduction07/03/20 04:17 PM
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Question, how should I have answered? I went into this whole thing feeling pretty confused so I had prepared myself for either outcome, and I feel like just accepting the fact someone doesn't want to go on a date with you is okay, but im genuinely curious how you would answer, maybe its better. Im pretty shit at these things.
/r/seduction26/02/20 10:40 AM
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What do you do if it never goes past the first look
/r/seduction26/02/20 07:20 AM
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Actually I think im pretty awesome honestly. I just need to not give a fuck. Its just seeing those really thirsty creepy guys chasing girls and grinding on them when the girl is uncomfortable and trying to get away that makes me paranoid. I am going to be an awesome guy, and people are gonna feel im awesome when I talk to them and make them laugh record amounts. I appreciate you getting back to me
/r/seduction25/01/20 09:50 AM
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I feel like I got the personality and look average if not good, but I have an inner paranoia that ill be creepy or come off weird talking to a girl I havn't met, wether thats on campus or in a club with my friends. How do I get over that? Im very hygienic and clean, dress well, etc. I know I'm not one of those guys but I dont want to scare a girl.
/r/seduction25/01/20 09:20 AM
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My ex was crazy attractive and I thought she was beautiful :)! But we ended in july, after 3 years. Albeit she was very insecure about her body
/r/seduction18/01/20 12:30 PM
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Hey! Sorry, I didn't realize how this might affect people. Dont take it personally! I also dont consider myself a model. I put a lot of effort into my grooming and outfits and started going to the gym, I recommend that a lot, it helps a ton
/r/seduction18/01/20 12:19 PM
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Honestly I put in TOO Much effort into my outfits/working out, hygiene etc because I know I cant change my looks, so I just majorly focused on that. Theres a running meme in my friend group that I always smell amazing (so much work!) Im going to try arguing with myself though, because some days I wake up hot as fuck and other days I think "eh". I just need to always argue that im the former. Lastly, my friend gave me the exact same advice and I plan to follow it, no more low balls. Edit: I actua…
/r/seduction18/01/20 12:17 PM
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For context, Im a 21yearold student, who got out of a 3 year relationship. I realized pretty quickly I am DUMB when it comes to girls. I feel like a ghost to them, even if its just in my head. I dont think people flirt with me but honestly im sure they do without me realizing it. It only hit me recently where I started thinking about why I felt like I couldnt score or do well with more attractive girls and I looked at my track history. I dont know if it was a lack of confidence or a major sex ad…
/r/seduction18/01/20 12:15 PM
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I think this is the most reasonable and easy to understand thing that I’ve needed to hear. You are totally right aha. Thank you
/r/seduction15/01/20 09:28 AM
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I love your name honestly. Thanks for the pep talk I needed
/r/seduction18/12/19 04:22 AM
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Maybe you are right. The trick is to just send it. Who cares if they find it funny. The times im the most comedic are the times where I have no restrain
/r/seduction18/12/19 04:04 AM
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Im currently trialing adhd dosages to find one that works. My GP suggested we solve one at a time, bipolar is next. I've just noticed my friend saying I need to slow down or dial it in when it comes to women. Sometimes I get too happy or esentric about a talk that leads no where.
/r/seduction12/12/19 05:07 AM
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