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But I can't guarantee that I will manage to pull her to the AirBnB. So checking in in advance would be a waste of money, no?
/r/seduction09/07/17 02:33 PM
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I see. But my key question is, how do you phrase/convince a girl to go to an hourly hotel with you while still giving her plausible deniability? If you have your own place you can say 'hey lets go over to my place and i'll show you some music'. But for hourly hotels, there isn't a good excuse you can use. Also what do you say if she starts asking 'Where are we going?' - do you just say 'A hotel'? This response would seem to cause her ASD to kick in. Help please as I have a date in a few hours!
/r/seduction31/05/17 08:36 AM
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Casual, short term.
/r/seduction29/05/17 01:57 PM
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Alright I'll try to be more relaxed and make girls more comfortable. Thanks for the advice especially the advice specific to HK girls. I'm Asian but studied in an international school here. I don't just hit on local girls but also international girls (Asian/Caucasian girls who studied also in international schools, or from overseas, normally the former). I can't bring them to my place since I have family members at home. Also my home is in a rather remote region making it inconvenient. THese rea…
/r/seduction28/05/17 07:59 AM
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1 ----- "The girl will come with you to the "sex location" if she's comfortable and into it." --> But how would you spike up her buying temperature such that she's 'into it enough' to come with you to the sex location (hotel)? I understand the comfort part - I'll definitely slow it down next time. But how do you get her 'into it'? I always thought that to get her 'into it', you must build sexual tension through physical escalation. Also, I've always thought that you need to be constantly escalat…
/r/seduction27/05/17 12:36 PM
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Again, thanks for more detailed feedback, I'm taking it all in. 1 ------ I texted her: "Hey had fun hanging out last night, when are you free to meet up again?" - I think that's a decent text; if she was interested in me she wouldn't have replied with 'we'll see'. 2 ------ The reason why I aim to escalate in public is to arouse her such that she is in the mood for sex, making it possible to pull her to a sex location (a hotel, since normally we can't go to my place or her place due to various re…
/r/seduction26/05/17 02:55 PM
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Dude thanks so much for taking the time to break down my field report. This is actual detailed feedback that's helped me to clearly see where I went wrong and thus improve my game. Update: I texted her the next day for a 2nd date and she said 'we'll see' to which I just said 'Alright I'll take that as a no, had fun tho!'. Basically, she wasn't down to go on a 2nd date. If she was interested in me on this date, surely she would've said yes? I have a couple questions though: 1 ------- "Going to th…
/r/seduction25/05/17 02:53 PM
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Insecure about what exactly?
/r/seduction23/05/17 07:15 PM
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I know exactly what I did wrong on the date, nevermind that. I don't need analysis on what I did wrong on the date. I just want to know what significance 'requesting to follow my instagram profile (my profile is private so she can't see my photos unless I accept her request) after a failed escalation' has. Is it a second chance or what? Why would she want to see my instagram pictures?
/r/seduction14/11/16 02:41 PM
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... when did I say that LOL Quote me
/r/seduction13/11/16 12:29 PM
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btw you wrote up there that " but inventing reasons just so you can show her how alpha you are about her txting is the most non-alpha thing i think i've probably ever read." My question is, when did I even invent a reason? I just asked her 'Is this what you do when you hang out with people' - not that that's the best way to get her to get off her phone, but there isn't even a reason being invented, what you on about lmao
/r/seduction12/11/16 01:08 PM
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Haha yeah I admit I was overthinking 'theory' too much during some points of the date, like trying to think of an answer that would build more intrigue. And yeah definitely overgaming, need to be more natural/honest, I agree with you on that. I feel like she was interested because I met her on this hike prior to this date, and I definitely showed intent - made flirtatious comments and what not. And besides, having high social intelligence as a girl, I'm sure she knew I was interested and hence, …
/r/seduction12/11/16 10:01 AM
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Hahah I see. Well yeah I admit I was super into this girl. But nah during the interaction it didn't seem like I was trying to 'win her over' I don't think - like, I wasn't leaning in excessively, or supplicating to her, or agreeing with her excessively. We had pretty good conversation, and I enjoyed the meetup. I was just so afraid of missing escalation windows, hence felt a sense of haste to escalate, the reason being because I felt like our dynamic was not sexual enough and was too 'friendly/s…
/r/seduction11/11/16 02:07 PM
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Uh, yeah, but it was frustrating to not be able to close. But yeah the conversation was good. She was super cute too, half Peruvian half Dutch chick. Why do you ask?
/r/seduction11/11/16 12:59 PM
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Ohhh I see what you mean now, thanks. Hmm, why do you think she said 'I need to go before 11'? Do you think it was her cue to tell me to speed up the escalation (because things were relatively non-physical at this point)? Because that's how I interpreted it, and hence why I escalated (too) aggressively. That statement can't be an indicator of disinterest right? Because she still agreed to come with me to the park, when she could have just made some excuse and said she had to leave.
/r/seduction11/11/16 11:12 AM
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Also, bear in mind that when she took her hand away, I cooled off for a bit and focused back on conversation. But then again it is possible that I didn't cool off for long enough and jumped right back in too quickly. Besides, wasn't the fact that she rested her head on my shoulder when I said 'you have permission to rest your head on my shoulder' a signal that she was ready for more escalation??
/r/seduction11/11/16 10:31 AM
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Appreciate your feedback. I see your point, but why do you think I did NOT subtly escalate throughout my date ? For example, as it says in my field report, I: Held her by the wrist and moved her to my right side at the very start of the date Touch her shoulders and neck region while on the escalator Placed my hand on her lower back to gesture to her to sit down while we were waiting for our coffee order Placed my hand on top of her thigh at the very start of coffee (albeit only for a brief momen…
/r/seduction11/11/16 10:20 AM
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Thanks for the feedback Turnup. I'm gonna repost my reply to quinntuplets here because I want your point of view on the exact same matter as well, as you seem to have a deep understanding of seduction. Actually, I feel like I did spend quite a lot of time just chatting to her and getting to know her. We talked a lot about her interests, and each other's views on hooking up, drinking, drugs etc. We talked about how liberal some cultures are with regards to these things compared to others, and I m…
/r/seduction11/11/16 09:19 AM
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Hey man, thanks for the feedback. Actually, I feel like I did spend quite a lot of time just chatting to her and getting to know her. We talked a lot about her interests, and each other's views on hooking up, drinking, drugs etc. We talked about how liberal some cultures are with regards to these things compared to others, and I made a lot of cold reads about her personality (e.g. she seems friendly but repressed at the same time). The reason I started pushing hard for the escalation once we got…
/r/seduction11/11/16 09:18 AM
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