chickenofalltrades Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	What have you learned about yourself?		chickenofalltrades	/r/Divorce_Men	16/03/24 08:11 PM
15	How did you level yourself up?		chickenofalltrades	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/24 03:57 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How are you guys with the exes family. I reached out to my BIL and I told him that I love him; and goodbye. I knew his sister was digging in her heels and that I’d likely never see him again. I cried, but I got over it. My SIL and MIL, however, I hope God has a special place in hell for manipulative intrusive women like that. Manipulated my wife for over a decade; and they finally got what they wanted.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/24 04:46 PM
4	How are you guys with the exes family. Same here brother. Same here.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/24 04:41 PM
1	My kids will never have dad in their home again Us men always gotta be strong, right? Get out of our sub	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/24 08:29 AM
2	What have you learned about yourself? I feel all of what you said as well 😆 I cried when I was told I was ADHD- suddenly; I made more sense to myself. And I realized I was not the awful person my stbxw kept telling me I was. The struggles I had that I couldn’t quite articulate - they were real. Despite what she kept telling me. Despite the decade of demeaning… I accepted myself for the first time. Much love, brother.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/03/24 03:53 AM
1	What have you learned about yourself? I am glad that you realized you are a great Dad❤️ I wholly believe that many of us were better Dad’s than they gave us credit for!	/r/Divorce_Men	23/03/24 03:49 AM
1	What have you learned about yourself? I feel that very much!	/r/Divorce_Men	23/03/24 03:48 AM
4	What have you learned about yourself? It’s amazing, isn’t it?	/r/Divorce_Men	18/03/24 02:39 AM
3	Seriously, what goes on in their minds? Omfg 🤬 I am so sorry for you and your kids	/r/Divorce_Men	04/03/24 01:33 AM
1	The light switch affect.. Dude, what is that , for real? I too have seen this	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/24 03:33 AM
2	Narcissism We all have varying narcissistic traits - but MOST of us do not have narcissistic personality disorder. My stbxw had me believing I was a narcissist too. She had told me I was. I’m not; I am self-aware, humble, and I consider my humility as one of my strengths. I don’t view people as pawns; I don’t want anything from anybody. Etc. Turns out she believed I lack empathy. Which; I may, to a degree; but I think the real sticking point for her was; she wanted me to feel her feelings. Which I could no…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/24 03:29 AM
2	Claiming Alcohol Issues (CA, US) Why did your attorney suggest the assessment? And did that burn you in the end? I too loved beer. Similar claims	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/24 03:45 AM
12	4th week The real dark feelings started to hit me 8 weeks post separation. Got diagnosed with “adjustment disorder” which is just aka you’re going through some traumatic crap disorder. Suicidal ideation started to occur for me between weeks 12-16 tbh. I shook that off pretty quick but the depressive and betrayed feelings still remain. I’m like 6 months in now. Get a therapist, one that isn’t a feminist preferably. Therapy was designed around women and the way their mind works; so sometimes it can be frus…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/24 05:58 PM