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Since you're a pretty involved parent, hopefully they will award you custody 50/50, but you have to ask and voice your irritation with her twice-a-month arrangement. She's not really being fair. And if you live close by to their school, why can't you have them during the weekday? Often it comes down to logistics.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/23 01:17 AM
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Ball and chain? Abysmal monster? Are you referring to the mother of your children? I really hope you seek therapy my friend, and I mean that in the kindest way possible. Also, it's strange to find that everyone is answering this question except for the person it was meant for- OP.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 12:29 AM
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Exactly, which is usually the woman.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 12:27 AM
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I'm not mocking anyone. And of course many men are great fathers. I'm just talking about how the courts see it.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 12:27 AM
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I'm not sure what you're talking about, but you clearly need to work on your reading comprehension skills. Also, I'm not the one getting divorced, lol. But I work with children and I know how the courts work. Sorry for triggering you.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 04:21 PM
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Uh, it's interesting to see the lengths people will go to try and read into what someone says. You're all getting mad at me because I pointed out how many fathers aren't doing the child-rearing. But that's the way the court works. You want your kids, you've got to be doing more Dadding. It's quite simple.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 03:03 PM
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While they typically spend more time working, they still spend less time doing child-rearing. Women, even when they are working, spend more time. I didn't realize this was about money, I thought this was about kids. And yeah, that's not how the courts see it. They award custody based on who is the primary parent.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 03:01 PM
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Damn dude, and here I was thinking I was cynical. You're cynical as fuck!
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 06:08 AM
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How much of the child-rearing have you been doing? Men usually do less. The judge will take that into consideration. Picture you life without her, and pretend you had the kids for a solid month. Just you. How do you think that would go, and what do you think that would look like compared to them being with her?
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 06:06 AM
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Usually the courts side with the woman because she is the primary caregiver of the child, and that really should be the main reason. Many men, and thankfully not as many in generations past, don't see their secondary roles as fathers, or take those roles very seriously. They leave the majority of the domestic and child-rearing work to the woman, even when she also works. Remember that sacrifice is a big part of what motherhood is. Women start off being mothers from the time they decide to go thr…
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 05:38 AM
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Some of them are, yes. We just buy a vibrator, a few cats, start drinking wine, and live life peacefully. We don't bitch and whine about how people owe us sex, or buy guns and start shooting people, or live in our Mom's basement. To be honest, the sex thing is a pretty easy replacement though, since most men don't bother getting their girlfriends or wives off as much as they get off.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 01:30 AM
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Yeah but the problem with that is that men don't actually go their own way without whining, complaining, and saying misogynistic things about women. They act like children instead of grown men. If they were did go their own way, we'd be fine with it.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 06:18 AM
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A feminist version of your non-sequitur? Also, let's not pretend that society ever said, "beauty is skin deep." Damn, your non-sequitur is just terrible. You're comparing being a decent person to fucking basketball.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:52 PM
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BINGO! Being a good person and doing the right thing is just a way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:50 PM
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I feel the same way. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:45 PM
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pussy pass HAHAHAHAHA Oh man, how did I get sucked into this shithole again! Damn whomever linked this sub!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:25 AM
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Just for the record, I would probably never be your buddy. Anyone that says this, will never get to be my buddy. If your problems all look like people have essentially been horrible to you and faced no consequence, which isn't exactly rare, you will obviously gravitate towards solutions that will either let you do the same or make the same group you see as having wrong you also suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:29 AM
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Spoken like a true incel. "I was once nice to this girl, she didn't like me despite me being nice to her, now I hate all women because being nice didn't get me what I want." You've basically just let everyone know that you only do the right thing if it gets you what you want. That's just gross. I do the right thing because it feels good, and I know it's the right thing. Not because of any reward system, unless you count me feeling good about doing the right thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:12 AM
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The ones that are like this are either sociopaths or psychopaths. That's pretty much the standard definitions. NO empathy, kind of like Jeffery Dahmer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:08 AM
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I'm not your fucking hun
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:47 PM
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Wow, that was a delayed response. Did your schizophrenia just now kick in? It's interesting that you doubt the US Census. But I guess if you don't, you just can't be reasoned with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:16 AM
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I'm not a man. And frankly, I don't really buy into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:38 PM
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I'm actually a lover of nerds, and am a bit nerdy myself. I married a nerd so I don't think less of you for saying that. Sad that she started dating him. I don't think she loves herself. Or maybe he begged her forgiveness? I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:14 AM
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Even nerd/autistic women go for jocks lmao, there's little hope. Are you sure about this? Have you seriously tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:00 AM
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I disagree. I actually know a guy who is about 5'1 and he's happily married. He has been with a lot of women before, myself included, and in the group of people we used to hang out with he is very liked and well known. My father is also 5'6 and was married twice, and had many lovers (Not that I will ever ask him about all that stuff, but I know it to be true), and my brother is 5'7 and has been married several times. He is 50 with a girlfriend in her late 20's (which I find weird but whatever). …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:46 AM
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Haha! Leave it to an incel to believe their bullshit so hard that they won't accept facts when facts are presented.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:34 AM
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but then don't argue that porn is taking over and men get more knowledge of the female nature through porn or res pill theory when women refuse to interact Why are women refusing to act with you? That's really the question here. What can you do to change yourself? And also, have you interacted with them? Have you ever gone out to a bar and tried to talk to one of them? Have you ever gone out on a date? Have you ever complimented one of them and sincerely meant it? Do you have any friends? Do you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:32 AM
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Okay, so you're talking socio-economics here? Yes, I think I can see that. That is why women should make their own money, and when they aren't able to men should help around the house. That way, all is well. Men should also stay at home when it makes sense for them to do so, and be super awesome house husbands. In a divorce, there is typically a lot more to think about then whether or not a person can get another partner. There are financial things to think about (if you get a divorce, your spou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:07 AM
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cultivate an abundance mindset Example?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:00 AM
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Firstly- IT'S NOT ON WOMEN TO SATISFY MEN'S LUST. And no, I don't think they were that horny. Also, I don't care if you watch porn or not. Fap away dude. Nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:56 PM
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I wasn't attacking you. I was giving you some advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:54 PM
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Flirting does not indicate that you would like to have sex with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:26 PM
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Okay, fine. I agree that the height thing is a hard one to change, and women are really hell-bent on it. But if my 5'6 father managed to pass on his genes, so can anyone else. Develop other endearing qualities and eventually you'll find a girl that doesn't care. HINT: Sitting at home on this sub won't help your dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:09 PM
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I would have jealousy if my husband had sex with, or got physical with someone else. I never said I wouldn't. But they are different things to different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:06 PM
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So what?! I'm bisexual and came out at a time when it was NOT cool to be anything but straight. I also grew up super fucking poor and didn't have parents. I didn't let that stop me from doing anything. What's the difference between some guys on here and me? I love myself. If you can't love yourself enough to have confidence about anything, then you can't ever love anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:04 PM
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Well, I think they are both true. You've got to get noticed first, and then when you are noticed, just be yourself. Who else are you going to try and be? Besides, the people that notice you and give you a chance, probably want to get to know you. That's your time to shine and charm them out of their panties, if you so wish. You cannot feign it. I don't regularly quote George Constanza, but he once said something like, "It's not a lie if you believe it." You have to believe you're awesome. You ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:59 PM
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Washing your face certainly wont help LOL, this made me chuckle. I cannot deny this is true. My point was is that he had confidence and (My Dad met him a few times, so I know this for a fact) he was actually a really nice guy. But confidence, that's key. I know all these people are huge celebrities, but they also all had something that got their foot in the door in the first place. They didn't start off being celebrities. A lot of guys on here just don't have any damn confidence at all, and it s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:56 PM
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Have you ever been in a long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:50 PM
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Neither one of them started off being rock stars. That's my point. But they probably started off being confident, and that in turn allowed for them to get their foot in the door. Sorry, but a lot of guys don't do very basic grooming. I've seen it! I wish I was wrong here, but most guys don't take much or any notice of their appearance at all. They throw on whatever is clean and bounce out the door. Then complain that women aren't attracted to them. I guess my comment about hair was directed at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:49 PM
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I don't really think verbal cheating is really a thing, because it comes along with emotional cheating. In order for a person to make lewd or sexually suggestive comments, they'd also have to be cheating emotionally to arrive at the point where they would do that. No, I don't think flirting with others while in a monogamous relationship is okay. But I'm also more forgiving of it because after so many years of being with the same person, it's bound to happen at some point. You don't just turn off…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:44 PM
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It also indicates that she doesn't value herself, or has some self esteem issues. Not uncommon. In fact, I think it has less to do with his power, and more to do with her own issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:20 PM
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And that speaks to your own insecurities. She didn't ever do anything with you that took a physical turn, nor did she ever seriously come on to you, or try to. Therefore, she's done nothing wrong. If you two didn't work together and she was asking you to lunch, then I could understand why her boyfriend might not like it. But you work together and are friends. Again, there really isn't anything bad taking place here. Sometimes people in relationships get feelings for others. As long as they don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:17 PM
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But what if there is no one partner that "needs" another to benefit their quality of life? Lots of women make their own money, and some men stay at home. Yet some couples both work and don't want any kids. Certainly not all relationships fit this mold.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:14 PM
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Yeah, this is all bullshit and I don't agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:11 PM
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Both. Some women don't care. And some women would date a guy despite that. Women aren't all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:09 PM
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Bowie was certainly NOT conventionally attractive. Have you seen his teeth when he was younger? No way. He was never conventionally attractive, he just wasn't ugly. Bowie had a lot more things going for him though that made him attractive. Namely, his confidence. Uh, yes. Grow out your hair. Get some nice, well-fitted clothes. Take care of your hygiene. Wash your face, and your ass. Trim your beard or whatever. Fuck, paint your nails black and sport some eyeliner. At least it would get you notic…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:03 PM
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Okay, so being in love makes you less powerful? Or, loving someone just makes you a chump? Is that what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:58 PM
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I'll give you that a lot of women want taller men. I don't happen to be one of them, but I know that it's a bit unfair of women to automatically eliminate men that are average, or even short. There's still a lot of things you can do to make yourself more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:57 PM
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That's why I'm asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:55 PM
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I agree that that kind of talent is rare. But it still goes to show that not all women are turned on my stereotypically "masculine" men. Think about all the artistic guys in the world, think about all the guys that reject sports and competition. The truth is many women have a wide range of men they can be attracted to. Some women have a type, and some types of men will always be eye candy to women. But that doesn't mean that women don't date other types.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:54 PM
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Are you sure she was flirting with you? Give us an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:32 PM
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I have yet to discover anything on this forum that is really productive. Unless, you count "stirring up hostility between the sexes" as productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:30 PM
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It still follows a pattern that goes against what he is saying. And all of these celebrities were popular BEFORE they were celebrities. Bowie had a revolving door of women, as did Prince, long before they put out any music to the public.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:29 PM
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LOL, so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:27 PM
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Hold on, hold on. What about guys like David Bowie, Prince, Eddie Redmayne and BTS? None of them are stereotypically masculine or "testosterone-fuelled". And yet, they, and men like them, have/had absolutely ZERO problems getting laid or being in a relationship. And if women love masculine men so much, why are so many of them into K-Pop? I'll go out on a bit of a limb here and also say that guys like John Bon Jovi aren't exactly super masculine either. All of the 80's hair bands were hugely popu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:16 PM
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you will be the one with the power in your marriage What exactly do you mean by "power" here? Power over the wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:07 PM
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They aren't the ones that scare me. This incel "movement" (for lack of a better word) was created by men and is overwhelmingly male.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:00 PM
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Honey, porn is a relatively new thing. The closest your Grandpa got to seeing it was probably some pin-ups, or maybe later on in his life, Playboy magazine. You don't need it. You want it. Also, stop blaming women for your shortcomings. It's not our fault if some of you are unattractive. Go make yourself attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:58 PM
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I am a bundle of joy, actually. Grows a pair? Yes, yes, if my husband isn't dominating me every second, he has no balls, lol. Clearly you don't know what the fuck you are talking about. Please stop pretending you know anything about women, relationships, or marriage. sexist attachments (Im not your servant/mother/slave) I don't understand what the hell you are talking about here. Do you even know what sexism is? You also seem like a really swell guy. I mean, wow- any girl would be lucky to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:56 PM
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I cook and clean, but I am certainly NOT submissive or traditional. I think your stereotype is bullshit. It's just a part of being an adult, actually. Plus, I enjoy cooking, but not cleaning. I'm glad that I held out for a man that cleans and sometimes cooks. I would never want to be someone's fucking mother and their lover. Fuck that. Most women don't want that either and will run when they realize the man isn't pulling their weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:40 AM
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Maybe there's another inexperienced autistic girl out there for you. You never know. Netflix has a dating show with just autistic people. It's pretty interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:36 AM
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Haha! It's interesting how you immediately jump to the worst conclusion possible. Misogynistic much? Having sex with someone when you're dating them, is just that. Typically most people are actually dating to find someone to have an LTR with. I guess some people date just to date, but I don't. I dated to find someone I wanted to be with. So, if I had sex with them in pursuit of a LTR, it just means a LTR was the end goal, or I was seeing if I wanted it to be the end goal. It could also mean that…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:30 AM
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No, YOU!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:21 AM
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Divorce in America has been falling fast in recent years, and it just hit a record low in 2019. For every 1,000 marriages in the last year, only 14.9 ended in divorce, according to the newly released American Community Survey data from the Census Bureau. https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-us-divorce-rate-has-hit-a-50-year-low Experts think that the pandemic brought couples together. It's just about the only silver lining of the lockdown I can find. It varies from state to state, but overall divorce …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:20 AM
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Then how do you explain the fact that so many couples are getting married, and divorce rates are down? Your logic is fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:19 AM
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Yes, but I don't doubt they will go and take out as many women as they can before turning the guns on themselves. Men with nothing to live for are dangerous. I am not afraid of them on an individual level, just as a collective. Being in here and other forums like this just makes them worse. They get worse and worse and worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:17 AM
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HAHA! Then get a new name, Peachfuzz. Fuzzy fuzzy peach. Peachy fuzz. Nice fuzzy peach.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:24 PM
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huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:22 PM
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Okay. It does make you an asshole though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:21 PM
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No, they don't. But even if that is the case, that doesn't make them any less scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:20 PM
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Lots of guys want relationships. Don't pretend to speak for all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:18 PM
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No, it's not. There were no incels in the 80's. Not in the same way there are today.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:16 PM
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Because they are scary to me. Most of them are unhinged people, and also have a lot of rage and hatred directed towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:15 PM
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Ah yes. Clearly you're the "expert" here, because you've obviously been in lots of relationships and have lots of experience with women. You must know them so well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:07 PM
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There are enough incel murderers for them to still scare me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:05 PM
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many secular people only want to engage in physical intimacy within the bounds of a committed, long-term relationship. You didn't say LTR, you said marriage. Wanting to "save yourself" for marriage is a religious thing. If I recall correctly, even in Islam and certain denominations of the Mormonic "church", men that are allowed to sleep with multiple women at a time have to be married to them. That doesn't matter. They're still fucking other women, period. And sorry, but anyone that "marries" an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:02 PM
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Women's Shelter's are there to aid women that have left their abusive partners. Yes, some women stay. But eventually they leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:43 PM
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Perhaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:07 AM
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You mean they don't want relationships? Maybe in their early 20s, sure. But the older they get, the more their tune changes. By the time they hit their 30's and their friends start getting in LTRs or married, they typically want that too. Casual sex can be extremely empty. It's natural to want more at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:45 AM
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Good looks with get your foot in the door, but you can't keep a relationship or lover if you're an asshole. And the older people get, the less we end up caring about looks. Especially when we start to age. Looks fade. Personality does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:17 AM
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There aren't any consequences. I'm doing just fine. Most men don't think women should be punished for being sexual beings. But then again, most men aren't 30 year old virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:15 AM
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Personality without looks = friend zone end of discussion I go by experience and facts. This statement would suggest you have been friend zoned before.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:05 AM
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I'm fine. You've made plenty of assumptions based on nothing. That's what red-pillers do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:04 AM
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Listen. When you actually get a date, then maybe we can discuss it. Do you have any dates lined up? Have you even expressed interest in someone yet? Did you talk to anyone recently that you are interested in? Have you gone to a bar or nightclub and met anyone new?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:00 AM
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I think it really depends on why you are doing it. If you think she is a piece of trash just because she has had a rich sex life, and you reject and judge her based on that, then yes. It also points to your own insecurities and jealousy. But if you're a virgin and you simply want to experience sex with another virgin, because you want it to be special or something intimate, then most people can understand that. I get that part. But mostly on this thread, that is not the reason. That is not what …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:57 AM
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Imagine thinking you know more about women than women do themselves. Especially when you have most likely never been in a relationship or have had sex. Imagine!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:50 AM
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THIS! I just spent several hours on another thread saying this, but I was shot down to hell on just about every point I made. The hatred against women that have various sexual partners, or had, is really strong. Some guys were advocating that she didn't deserve to be treated with respect, and that she was disgusting. They also called me disgusting, and one guy said I would likely cheat on my husband soon, lol. We've been married for 6 years, been together for 7, and I have never even thought abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:49 AM
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It's always a woman's fault. Always. No matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:44 AM
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I love your username, Peachfuzz. You sound like a snuggly kitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:42 AM
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Wrong. Also, responsibility for what? If you're talking about taking responsibility for men, then yes, that's true. Most women don't want to be your mother and your sexual partner. We'd rather not have to clean up after you and wipe your asses for you like many of our Grandmothers did.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:41 AM
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Personality does matter but its vastly overrated. The fact that you believe this is probably why you keep getting friend zoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:38 AM
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This is so not true! I have dated both men and women they were totally average. A few that were really not good looking at all. It was their personality that won me over, and the way they made me feel. Getting someone to feel good about themselves when you are with them, or because you are with them, is really key.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:37 AM
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They might get laid, but if they are assholes, they don't get to keep the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:34 AM
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No. Most women don't and won't continue to date a guy that hits them or abuses them, regardless of how good looking he is. Good lucks will get you a chance in some cases, but they will only get you so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:33 AM
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What about men's obsession with porn? They are the ones consuming most of it, and they are the ones mostly making it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:28 AM
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I love this list.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:25 AM
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Most incels scare me. They have attacked people and murdered people in the past. They need to be watched by the FBI at pretty much all times. They are the new Hate Group to watch out for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:23 AM
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LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:17 AM
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These stupid generalizations about women are really just stupid. The only thing that you can honestly saw that all women have in common are these two things: 1) We bleed each month 2) None of us are alike. I would never date a "rogue" if I were single. And also, there is Mr. Right, and there is Mr. Right Now. Rogues don't fall into the relationship category, because they are rogues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:17 AM
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Pardon the double post, but also, I said I would never sleep with a virgin because he'd be an inexperienced, terrible lover. But some of you in this thread have actually said that women with high "bodycounts" (who the fuck thought up that language) shouldn't be treated with respect and are in fact, disgusting. If you don't want to be judged for being a virgin, stop judging others for being sexual people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:14 AM
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Maybe. But I don't think that men take as much heat for being virgins as you all are giving out to women that have had a rich and diverse sexual history. You hypocritically cry about how you're being judged, then turn around and call women "toilets" and say how untrustworthy they are. This is all based on a handful of studies you like to cite, some of which were published over 50 years ago! Also, historically, women have been really oppressed due to perceived "looseness". Nobody has ever gone ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:12 AM
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Actually not really, no. I was here due to an earlier thread I saw and curious to see what incels had to say about it. Also, on occasion I like to amuse myself with how they pull random facts about women out of their asses, like some sort of experts. The irony is lost on them, and that is always good for a laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:03 AM
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I don't know what the fuck you are talking about Dude. I'm married. Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:54 AM
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I'm flattered that I'm so important to you that you go on to try and figure me out. Also, "failed at X amount of times to get a partner?" I've had no problems finding partners- in my bed or in my life. I'll bet you can't say the same. I'll bet I've had sex with way more women then you have. It's funny that you also blame the woman for "failing." That says a lot about what kind of person you are, if you can call yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:57 PM
1

HAHA! Okay, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:32 PM
1

I'll agree with you there. This is a very unique opinion, but I don't think it will get you downvoted if you explain what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:36 PM
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Poindexter didn't hate women. Many incels do. Not all, but many.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:26 PM
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Nah. It goes far beyond that. Many of you have some serious insecurities and really misogynistic attitudes about women, and this is just the symptom of a great problem. I'll no longer be responding to the bullshit in this thread, as I really have better things to do with my time. Also, your opinions of women don't really matter to anyone but you, because many of you will never have the chance to actually be in a relationship with one and will probably die virgins. I'm glad that you show your hat…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:20 PM
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From your study: But the surprising thing, Wolfinger said, is that women with exactly two premarital sex partners have consistently higher divorce rates than women with three to nine partners. Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:57 PM
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disrupting chemical balances Alrighty. I see you've figured it all out and clearly you are the expert. Good for you. No just mother nature and God and formal traditions since dawn of man. There is no "God", and formal traditions don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:34 PM
2

The shittiest choice I made so far was to come in here. Nothing else about my choices have been shitty. That being said, I'd rather have made shitty choices, then be a shitty person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:31 PM
-1

One more time: "Slut" shaming is sexist because it is only used against women. It is based on their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:08 AM
0

I think you are responding to the wrong person. I don't have any such filters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:06 AM
3

You're attacking women with your sexist views, and trying to pass them off as "facts." That's not debating either! Come on dude. I don't hate women. I just understand why women being with a lot of men is looked down in our society. You mean, why YOU look down on women. Most men really don't care. But there aren't a lot of men on here with normal relations with women. Most of you on this sub and others like it just have no idea about what is going on in society when it comes to dating and sex, as…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:05 AM
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It is stupid, because I'm not the one complaining about how women don't find me attractive and won't have sex with me, then turning around and judging them for having something I can't have. Sorry, but that's pure hypocrisy right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:55 AM
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I agree that it's different, but just about everything else you've said is based on your own tired sexist and misogynistic ideas of women. You hate us and probably don't respect any woman regardless of how many partners she's had. Also, I'm married. But I'm sure you're going to start saying how I'll cheat on my husband soon, right? LOL. I can't debate with someone that has his head up his ass. I really do have better things to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:50 AM
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"Slut" shaming is sexist because it is only used against women. I'm shocked that you're so out of touch with reality that I have to tell you this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:41 AM
2

I said the comparison is stupid. Which, it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:39 AM
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It's just not desirable for a man to be in a serious relationship with a woman that has had many partners because that says nothing positive about that woman. THIS is not fact. It's just your opinion. And your opinion is sexist. ​ f sexism was what you and many not so intelligent people nowadays think it is, then you wouldn't be able to state any particularity about women, unless it was positive. Huh? WTF are you even talking about? At this point I'm convinced that you don't know what sexism is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:34 AM
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ad hominem Maybe, but I'm not going to debate religion with someone that is religious. I just have better things to do with my time. Period. Too bad if you don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:28 AM
1

This is the stupidest comparison I've ever heard. Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:25 AM
1

What don't you get? Are you asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:23 AM
1

Your #1 is the same as my #2, because most normal people don't think that sex should take place only within marriage. Only religious people think that way about it, because they inherently think sex is bad. That is what the big 3 teaches us about sex. The woman needs to remain "pure" for her husband, who is in charge of her body and her sexuality. Except in Islam men are entitled to have sex with more than one woman at a time. Non-mainstream Mormons as well. That proves my point completely. I ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:22 AM
2

No, that's not what I mean at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:14 AM
7

It's not sexism It's the very definition of sexism, pal. You can try to justify it all you want, it's still sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:13 AM
1

And yet, most incels don't believe that. Also, I don't actually believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:10 AM
2

I think a lot of men expect it, and a lot of women do it to please them. But also, hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:09 AM
3

Well, I invite you to tell them that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:25 AM
5

Most men on this forum disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:20 AM
1

I wasn't talking about you here, but about your brethren in general. I see you didn't comment on that at all. Probably because you know I'm right. ​ he men that actually attract women/have a successful dating life have to do exponentially more work, and had to work much harder to become the sort of guy women want to date. A woman just has to show up and look good. I've been on dates with some fairly attractive girls. And god damn would they be screwed if they were an average guy. Women have zero…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:19 AM
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Also, who said anything about cock? Most of my lovers have been women. I've slept with way more women than I have men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:56 AM
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According to OKC's study women find 80% of men unattractive. Yeah, that says a lot about fashion and how much of an effort men make to make themselves look attractive, doesn't it? Have you ever seen men from the 1930s and 1940s? Did you ever notice how they dressed? Mostly in fitted, tailored suits that showed off their best physical assets. The same can be said for just about any other period in our past where fashion consisted of more than just a t-shirt and jeans for men. In the 18th century …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:50 AM
1

I mean, if you want to continue believing that, you're free to. Let your insecurities guide you, by all means. The world will be fine without your genetic contribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:21 AM
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Oh yeah? Try the entire Baby Boomer generation. User name checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:18 AM
1

The fact that you wrote, "slutty" makes me realize the kind of person I'm talking to. I've also come to the conclusion that it's probably best that I not waste my time any further. If your goal was to make me leave, you've succeeded. I'm going to go snuggle up with my husband now, and enjoy the intimacy of a relationship that most of you will likely never find, and some of you don't deserve. Also, you cited something from 1953 by Kinsey. Please get some new material to justify your bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:09 AM
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Wrong. I don't care if you judge me. You're free to do that as much as please. You're right, people have always been insecure. Especially incels and adult virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:58 AM
1

Okay Mr. Misogynistic asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:54 AM
2

"Lure" them? No. You are twisting my words greatly. You're operating with the assumption that men don't want LTRs, and many of them do. Please reread what I wrote, because honey, that was not it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:51 AM
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Yeah, okay. We'll just leave it at that then. I'm the stupid one. I'm the one throwing out "facts" on topics I've never even come close to experiencing before.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:47 AM
1

Prove it! I want some actual studies on that! References please, Mr. TopExpert
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:44 AM
1

You forgot "high body counts equals unable to commit" talks. But yes, agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:43 AM
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You're assuming all women give all men blowjobs. LOL, this thread is just getting weirder and weirder. Also, are you saying a dick is equal to shit? Man, you must really hate yourself and your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:41 AM
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Is it different for women? How do you get so desensitized to it? That depends on quite a bit. Emotions play a big part, and expectations, desire, all that. Normally if two people are dating they typically have sex to see whether or not they are sexually compatible, or if they want to express the way they feel. But then it doesn't always work out, and sometimes hearts get broken. I don't think moving on with someone else means that you've "replaced" that person. It just means you have put your ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:39 AM
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And not all men are the same either. A lot of people with many past lovers have dry spells. I had a dry spell of 3 years once. Not because I couldn't get sex, but because I didn't want to be in a relationship and wasn't interested in the people I met.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:27 AM
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You know very well, and so do I, that it's a generalization whether you say "all women" or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:25 AM
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LOL, why are you in the sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:24 AM
1

Thanks, but it's not like that part about it is really being explained very well. If it was, I think most people would agree that it's pretty normal to want that, and to want it to be special. We were all virgins once, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:23 AM
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Women and men with more partners in their lifetime will have less value for intimacy as it’s too easily replaceable for them, so there’s no real “love.” How about once you actually get into a relationship and have sex, we'll talk, okay? Because it's strange that you think you have this all figured out, without actually experiencing it. It's similar to me being an "expert" on a city such as Belfast, even though I've never been there. Also, here's a news flash: If you love someone, they are never …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:20 AM
1

I don't enjoy being insulted. WTF?!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:17 AM
2

And then there’s women like you pushing for the idea that it’s okay to have high n count and that men shouldn’t treat them as a lesser value. It's like you don't even hear yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:16 AM
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Yeah, it's really not. You're pretending to know why all women act a certain way. But the truth is, we aren't all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:14 AM
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Having a preference for a low number is not the same as treating someone like shit for not having a low number. Many in this sub are advocating that. more chance to be someone who prefer LTR Here's what will make your head spin: Many women with a high amount of partners actually wanted a LTR, and had sex in pursuit of that. That's actually how the world works when it comes to sex and dating for most people. They have sex because they like someone and want to be in a relationship. Sure, this isn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:12 AM
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think they’re absolutely disgusting That's a gross generalization right there. The fact that you think it's okay to treat them poorly means you clearly have issues. You should really go see a therapist. Like really, really really.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:08 AM
3

This is a non-sequitur argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:05 AM
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Oh, come on! People change, and grow up. I'll bet a lot of women you know had high numbers of lovers at one point. Especially if they are baby boomers. Let's use that generation as an example, shall we? They were all having a lot of sex, doing a lot of drugs, and probably most of them had so many partners that they lost count long, long ago. The 60's and 70's were really very wild times. Yet, once they hit a certain age, they all settled down and most of them stopped partying, stopped having lar…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:04 AM
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Prove it. Show me some solid numbers about all this, instead of just pulling it out of your ass. Behind close doors, when it is just us guys talking, the truth is on full display with how they feel I think it largely has to do with what kind of guys one is talking to! Incels love to regurgitate "facts" that aren't actual facts. I remember reading a post an incel made about how women have orgasms when they are giving birth! That one was the stupidest one yet. Just because it is not asked to you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:55 AM
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Yes, that's true. I did generalize. Just like you are generalizing about women that have had many lovers. Also, I don't really care what men want. The only man that really matters to me is my husband, and he's never even thought about my number. Most men don't care unless they: 1) Are insecure about their ability as lovers 2) Are religious and think women's sexualities and bodies should be controlled by others 3) Are jealous of women 4) Want to control women 5) Have hang-ups about sex itself I s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:48 AM
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Firstly, it's based on a puritanical and outdated views on sex, and most specifically, women that have sex. The idea that women are somehow tainted or contaminated for giving in to their biological desires, just like men do, is sexism in itself. Yet excuses are commonly made for men that do the same thing, and they are seen as "Gods" by other men. Words like "slut" "thot" "chicken-head" and "ho" are all used to keep women terrified of exploring their own bodies and being free to explore their ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:44 AM
1

Then why don't they ask more often?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:34 AM
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The forum is called Purple Pill DEBATE.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:33 AM
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especially if the woman is the wrong door What the actual fuck?! Women aren't doors!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:31 AM
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Yes, yes, clearly you've got it all figured out. It's a shame you can't figure out how to put these "facts" to use to get you a girlfriend or lover.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:30 AM
1

Don't be jealous of couples that have what you don't and probably will never get. Please go bury your head in the sand and cry some more about how nobody loves you, because nobody does.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:28 AM
0

But you're using it to define sex, sexuality, marriage, dating and regurgitate these "facts" when it comes to people. None of which holds up, and typically just serves as an excuse for you to continue to make excuses and justify being sexist assholes nobody wants to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:26 AM
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The meaning of sex? There is no meaning unless you want there to be. I'm not going to sit here and debate with some zealous bible thumper though. You lot are just a waste of time because you cannot think logically. You all hate logic when it doesn't align with your views on faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:23 AM
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I stopped counting actually. Most normal people do, because it really doesn't matter to them or anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:20 AM
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But wanting that, is in and of itself, sexist. It's based on old ideas about purity, and inherently the idea that sex is bad, and women that have it are somehow tainted. Also, if you passed up a woman that was absolutely your ideal, but she had had a lot of past lovers, you'd be a fucking idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:14 AM
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I want a virgin but I can forgive a girl if she has 1-2 bodycounts and she didn’t do anything crazy. There's nothing to "forgive." You phrase it like she's done something wrong, but the truth is it would be strange if a woman in her 20's was a virgin. I think on some level you might be a bit jealous. You wish that you could go through a whore/ fuckboy phase, but for whatever reason you feel you can't or won't. Yet clearly you are mad at these women for doing just that. Although I will add that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:10 AM
0

Please cite some statistics or references. Stop throwing out these absurd numbers without backing up your shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:55 AM
1

Then why aren't so many men asking about it right off the bat when they start dating women? If it's just a huge concern, there would be evidence of that more, and there's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:54 AM
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My experience is fine. I just want to find a daycare for my daughter a few days a week so she can play with other babies, and I'm not able to. Other than that, I have no real complaints, except inflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:52 AM
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I have a huge number and I am happily married with a baby. I think you won't make a good partner since you are shallow, sexist, and judgmental in a way not seen since the 1950's.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:46 AM
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There is nothing to be ashamed about from having a lot of lovers, or past lovers. I've slept with many women, and many men, and most of them I cared about and had a great time with. Some of them I really loved, and a few of them I almost married. There were a few selfish asshole guys in there that I regret ever sleeping with, but not because they added to my "bodycount", but because they weren't worthy of me. Sometimes desire makes us make bad decisions. Such is life. I'd gladly share my past nu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:43 AM
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Agreed. But again, if she has slept with more than 100 men, that's pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:34 AM
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That's a big huge gap. Also, most women don't sleep with 67 men unless they are getting paid to have sex. To find a woman with that many past partners is pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:32 AM
0

With the past two years in a pandemic? Yeah, right dude. What's your body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:30 AM
3

Ah yes, the expert on women is back. Well, I disagree. I'm certainly not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:29 AM
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LOL! I can't tell if you are joking or serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:17 AM
4

Incels are not very good at maths.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:16 AM
1

LOL! You mean while riding the "cock carousal?" HAHAHAHA!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:15 AM
1

Pareto principle. What a fucking joke. I cannot believe you guys buy into that bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:14 AM
8

Exactly. Who the fuck cares? Only incels and sexist men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:13 AM
5

o they end up being very controlled and selective; or, they just don’t enjoy casual sex all that much to begin with and rather just have one solid FWB, or at least that is what I was told by some friends at Uni I'd say most of your uni friends are correct, but not for the reasons that you think. Women, on average, don't sleep with a lot of men and have casual sex because most fuckbois don't care about getting us off. If you randomly hook up with a guy you barely know, the chances of him taking t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:12 AM
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Yes, this is all true. But for anyone to really care about it now is silly and foolish. Also confirms the fact that you don't view women as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:01 AM
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Most men don't want virgins! If I like a guy and we proceeded to date, and then I told him I was a virgin, he'd probably freak the fuck out. Especially if I was 25 and said that. You incels want virgins because you are insecure and also you really just don't respect women. Let's be honest about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:59 AM
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HA HA! Why the hell would I want a virgin boyfriend? He'd probably cum in his pants the moment I touched him! Or, worse, cum in 30 seconds as soon as he takes it out. No woman wants that. Some of us already have a hard time getting off. We want GOOD lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:56 AM
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Some of them, sure. But they more care whether or not their partner will cheat. Not an overall count of sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:54 AM
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Exactly. In fact, I've NEVER been asked about my past partners. Who cares? Only incels act as if women have some sort of intrinsic value attached to their vaginas, some absurd idea of "purity." I'm not sure if it is because they then get to paint themselves as "pure", or just because they are insecure. I'm pretty sure it's a bit of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:44 AM
5

You should maybe spend less time with incels and more time in the real world. What? A majority of men with upper middle class income do care. Show me some actual evidence. You incels love to just talk out of your asses as if you have figured everything out, as if you are experts! It's hilarious! Next you're going to tell me that women's bodies get worn out, right, if we have a lot of sex? HAHAHAHAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:41 AM
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You would be correct about me not being originally from the USA. I do live in the usa now. Austin Texas, one of the hottest and expensive markets right now. Where I bought my first home. So, you're probably a rich immigrant, most likely from Asia. And undoubtedly you had help from your parents in buying your first home. Good for you either way. Is 100k minimum good enough to have a home, keep a family, and live a good life? Yeah. Specially if you are smart and wait. You're dreaming here. Maybe i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:36 AM
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I know, it's very sad. And the gay community seems to foster this idea that bisexual men don't exist. That they are somehow "halfway" there in their journey towards homosexuality. I wish that more women found bisexual men appealing, but I think there is still a huge stigma around it more than there is with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:23 PM
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Yeah, they're really not. Most men don't even ask, because they don't care. And also, if it was a red flag to you, then you were never normal to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:21 PM
1

When I tell my sister you can choose to become anything you want, I also tell her if you want to become a house wife is fine, but better find someone who makes at the bare minimum 100k a year. Hopefully more. LOL! Based on your English and the way you type, I'm willing to bet you don't even live in the US, or are not originally from here. After you mentioning 100k, I'm convinced you don't live in the US at all. If you do, it's somewhere very, very cheap. ​ I don’t see why anyone would want to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:15 PM
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I believe that sex is a very intimate thing that should only be shared between two loving, long-term partners - a promiscuous woman clearly doesn't view it the same. Now that, I can sort of understand. Does it mean that you yourself have a very low count, and don't want to have a high partner count? Do you subscribe to some religious idea about purity? Do you also want to be "pure"? You're thinking very short-term here and assuming everything just boils down to sex. Actually, you're the one maki…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:06 PM
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That still doesn't explain why. And no, most men don't have this preference. It actually doesn't really enter into the equation for "normie" men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:01 PM
5

LOL, not a femcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:01 PM
5

I loved dating bisexual men and women!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:00 PM
4

Much of it would. Some of it wouldn't. But the world would be so much more fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:42 PM
6

I'm a woman, and I am bisexual. I love being bisexual. When I was single it gave me more to choose from. I wish everyone was bisexual, or that more people would come out as being bisexual. Especially men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:40 PM
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In other words, the same way men value low partner count in women for a long-term relationship, women value earning potential and education in men. Most men don't give a shit about that. They view women as people, unlike you. In fact, many, many men want a woman that is experienced and knows what she is doing in the sack. Why exactly do you feel this way? Are you insecure about how you might compare to her other partners? Do you subscribe to the absurd idea that vaginas "wear out" with use? (An …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:33 PM
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I didn't say it didn't exist, just that it's pretty rare. Only upper class women can afford to have someone help them ALL THE TIME. And your original comment basically didn't take this into account. You posted that pretty much, this is how it is, even thought you're so off the mark. Open your eyes dude. Most women, myself included, can't even get our children into day care or preschool because a ton of places closed during the pandemic. There are large waiting lists to do so, and childcare is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:24 PM
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So, because your Mom had that lifestyle, all SAHMs do? Also, did it ever occur to you that when you were small, you were a lot more work than you are now? Your logic is flawed. If it were that easy, ALL WOMEN would want to have children. And clearly, that isn't the case. Your experiences don't trump experiences of real women doing this. Helping out a family member is not the same as running your own house and being all alone. Sorry dude, but NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:23 PM
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You're an idiot if you think that is what stay at home mothers do! I am a STHM and I work my fucking ass off. I have no time for all the shit you just mentioned above. You're living in a fucking DREAM WORLD if you think that is what the life of a SAHM is. Obviously you don't know shit about children either. I'd love to see you get into a room with a 2 year old, or newborn baby, and have to care for them for about a week. The reality of how stupid your statement is would hit you like a slap in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:16 AM
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