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why the fuck are you typing like that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:05 AM
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first of all, your way of wording things. can you write a readable paragraph instead of spacing everything out like this? it’s literally so much harder to read and makes you look like a 2nd grader. it looks like you’re just trying to hide your poor punctuation with weird typing quirks. you jumped into the conversation and said “well i think it’s an affront to ME to respect people so im not gonna do it” as if anyone cares about you. if you disappeared off this earth, do you think anyone would be …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:03 AM
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were you dropped on the head as a child
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:00 AM
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you literally have aids do you think you can speak on who’s more valuable in the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:58 AM
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what if she had bottom surgery? successful bottom surgery gives trans women a vulva and vagina cosmetically indistinguishable from a cis woman’s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:58 AM
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you are entirely incomprehensible. no one cares what you think
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:56 AM
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estrogen can actually give trans girls some pretty big ones
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:54 AM
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what if she’s had bottom surgery? years after bottom surgery the vulva and vagina of a trans woman are cosmetically the same as a cis woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:54 AM
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having sex with men who have sex with other men gives women a much higher chance of contracting HIV. and i say this as a bisexual myself. it makes sense for straight women to be cautious about it, as much as it sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:35 AM
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what are you waffling on about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:32 AM
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men are also much more likely to be stalkers
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:03 AM
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male stalkers because they’re much more likely to kill or harm you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:02 AM
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breaking news: women aren’t a monolith and have different opinions from other women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 08:42 AM
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if you scroll far back enough on my page you can see photos of me in the ambulance in a back brace lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:56 AM
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my parents were both HEAVILY addicted to heroin and most of the addicts i know are female so if we’re going to use anecdotal evidence i’ll use that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:52 AM
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i wasn’t sent home with fentanyl, just a fuck ton of lidocaine and some milder pain killers. i had fentanyl intravenously for the few days i was in the hospital. i have photos of me in the ambulance in a back brace lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:51 AM
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do you have any scientific evidence to support this? anything at all? are you suggesting that i was pretending to be in extreme pain to the point of passing out? have you ever broken your back?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:56 AM
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when i was 18, i broke my back. it was the worst pain i’ve ever felt in my life, and i had to be given a fairly high dose of fentanyl because i passed out from the pain. after the meds wore off in the hospital and i didn’t get any more because the nurses thought i was drug seeking, it hurt so bad that i was screaming at the top of my lungs and begging for someone to kill me. i would rather do quite literally almost anything than go through that again. i would also never want to subject anyone to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:16 AM
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saying a then 12 year old “dressed like a slut” and “was probably giving BJs to the whole school” and justifying that belief as an adult is insane someone check this guys hard drive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:07 AM
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bragging about how you spread disgusting and dehumanizing rumors about a 12 year old girl and using it to justify your claim that all women are shallow and don’t feel pain is ludicrous btw
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:04 AM
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please check yourself into a mental hospital holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:03 AM
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obviously not…but it’s not something that can be “stretched out” or sullied by something that’s frankly not very big. also this person thinks that smaller, shorter women are going to be tighter or have a smaller private area than taller or larger women which is…blatantly false
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:47 PM
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the vagina is a muscle and excessive tightness means she is not aroused, has vaginismus, or is anxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 03:15 PM
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r/nothowgirlswork you do know that the vagina is a muscle that expands and contracts accordingly, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 03:14 PM
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someone’s never heard of yuka takaoka
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:57 AM
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do you have proof for any of those claims?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:58 PM
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you’re comparing someone having consensual sex with someone violently killing people. do you see the problem here? it’s your relationship. i’m not going to tell you what to do with it. but i do think it’s pretty stupid to count someone out because of how many people they’ve had sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:16 PM
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alright, what are they? how can you be 100% sure that someone has the body count they say they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:14 PM
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i don’t personally think so, but this guy does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:13 PM
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how would you even know though? she could just easily lie to you about her body count and there would be no tells
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:49 PM
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you’re 100% supposed to clean your vulva, that’s the part that can smell bad. the vagina is self cleaning, the vulva isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:41 PM
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i also think that circumcision is mutilation and i hate that it’s so widespread
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:40 PM
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it sucks that men have to feel macho all the time and can’t express vulnerability around other men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:38 PM
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facts don’t care about your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:36 PM
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if you actually believed that mens lives matter and you should defend men, you would care more about male victims of sexual violence
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:55 PM
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okay then you’re fucking delusional lmao. you should be more fearful of men than women. you’re 230 times more likely to be raped by another man than you are falsely accused of rape by a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:51 PM
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actually, false. statistically, you as a man are 230 times more likely to be raped than you are to be falsely accused of rape. https://www.channel4.com/news/factcheck/factcheck-men-are-more-likely-to-be-raped-than-be-falsely-accused-of-rape
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:50 PM
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you as a man are more likely to be raped by another man than you are to be falsely accused of rape
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:40 PM
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as a man you are more likely to be raped by another man than you are falsely accused of rape
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:34 PM
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are you fucking kidding me? as a man, you are statistically more likely to be raped by another man than you are to be falsely accused of rape. men commit nearly 99% of rape and sex abuse. but women are toxic for being wary of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:26 PM
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as a bi woman, yes for obvious reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:59 PM
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yes why should it be acceptable to mutilate children's genitalia for aesthetic purposes it's disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:39 PM
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body hair masc presenting women buzz cuts/pixie cuts super muscular women cargo shorts bright dyed hair, typically no makeup. a lot of the "no makeup all natural" girls you see are actually wearing a lot of makeup, but you can't see it because as men you're not used to the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:49 PM
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i almost always make the first move as a woman. it works more often than not, but i've been rejected quite a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:09 AM
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there's a difference and you know it. sex work isn't a "job" it's the selling of one's dignity and body and no one should be forced to make that decision
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:54 AM
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because a good portion of sex workers are sex trafficked, forced to resort to it out of necessity, or were coerced into it. consent can't be purchased.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:46 PM
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exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:04 PM
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of course this doesn't often happen the other way around because its much more likely men orgasm from solely penetration than women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 12:38 AM
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if your partner can orgasm with other people and by themselves and you consistently don't care enough to make them orgasm, then yes. you should care about more than just your own pleasure during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 12:37 AM
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how so? it's your job to make your partner feel good too, not just yourself. if your partner doesn't have issues orgasming with other people or by themselves and you just can't make them, that's an L on your part
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 12:13 AM
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most people aren't great at sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:13 PM
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if she just lays there she either sucks at sex herself or isn't enjoying it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:11 PM
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my body count is 4, certainly not "most men." even if it was i don't see how that's an insult. it's a fact that most heterosexual women do not orgasm from sex with a male
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:11 PM
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i mean...if most men aren't good at sex, i would be picky and choose one that was.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:10 PM
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why on earth would a woman want to fuck a guy with 0 strings attached just because he's tall/good looking/rich. the rich part makes no sense bc they wouldn't be getting money from him unless theyre prostitutes? sex is painful for women if we aren't turned on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:14 AM
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most men aren't good enough at sex for that to be true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:48 AM
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im not eligible for the draft either way since i'm disabled, so i'm fine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:42 AM
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it's easier to feel bad for dudes who are unknowingly having their faces plastered on reddit while taking part in a social experiment against their consent thinking they had a date. rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:02 AM
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honestly i would go for the single dad. i like kids, but never want to be pregnant. don't have to go through adoption. win win scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:57 AM
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damn i feel bad for the poor dudes who got led on 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:16 AM
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woman here: no the fuck i would not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:43 AM
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sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:15 AM
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or we should just let people do what they want lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:25 PM
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what's your source?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:07 PM
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clock it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:07 PM
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i wouldn't care, i've done the same thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:24 PM
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im praying for them bc wtf dude
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:41 PM
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no seriously dude holy shit go outside and get some hobbies and talk to and form platonic relationships with women please
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:33 PM
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holy shit go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:30 PM
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in countries like japan and korea girls don't shave down there because they'd be seen as a slut since only pornstars/prostitutes shave down there
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:32 PM
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asian women have body hair? it's literally taboo to shave in east asia because it's seen as "promiscuous" so women don't shave their pubes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:44 PM
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any reason is a valid reason for breakup. if someone wants to end a relationship, breakup. no use staying and resenting your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:15 AM
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idk you're retarded so you'd have to tell me. faggot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:43 AM
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no one said that are you fucking retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:41 PM
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yes, but that doesn't mean it's the only or most important thing. there are plenty of other factors that make me reconsider a relationship. if someone has different life goals, morality, is cruel to children and animals, refuses to work and take care of themself, those are also important. these are also just my standards. another person could have completley different standards. there's no objective answer to "is sex the most important part of a relationship" because it differs for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:56 PM
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sex is a big part of a relationship for me, but it isn't the only important part. if i had a relationship with someone where i only felt lust for them and we just fucked all the time and didn't actually love eachother that wouldn't be a viable long term relationship. sex is important, yes, but it isn't the only thing that makes a relationship worthwhile. i could want to fuck someone and not want to have an actual relationship with them. im not interested in kids either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:02 PM
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maybe you're aromantic if you don't feel love and romantic attraction towards your partner
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 01:51 AM
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it wouldn't affect me in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:13 PM
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there is! a lot of people don't know that it exists but it's a real sexuality, just as valid as gay and straight
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:48 AM
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you don't feel any sort of romantic attraction towards people. kind of goes hand in hand with asexuality, where people don't experience sexual attraction. sometimes you can be aromantic without being asexual though, which is what this sounds like
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:41 AM
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sounds like you might be aromantic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:40 AM
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i don't think you should be in a relationship. if you don't think a loving, compassionate relationship improves your life and only see women as sex objects, maybe you shouldn't date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:35 AM
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honestly it depends heavily for me. what kind of bear? do i get to choose the man? if i get to choose the bear i would always pick bear because i could just choose like, a panda or something. they're pretty chill. but if i could choose the man, i would always choose man because i could choose my dad or a man i trusted. or is it random on both ends? because i could end up with a totally nice guy on one end and a polar bear on the other, or i could end up with a relatively placated black bear and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:38 PM
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maybe you should develop critical thinking skills
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:09 PM
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this is about physical attraction, not money or status. external factors don't come into play in the survey im referencing, just attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:47 PM
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a 20 year old woman probably won't find a 60 year old man attractive, but a 60 year old woman will probably think he's attractive. same can't be said for men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:52 PM
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as women age, we typically prefer men around our age and find them more attractive. men don't share this same tendency.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:13 AM
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he also can't even us the right of so
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:06 AM
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check his page. bro is clearly unstable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:13 PM
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i think a lot of men don't want to do it because they think it's "gross." i only date men who will eat me out because i also enjoy giving head and i want it to be reciprocal. sadly i think asking for the bare minimum in a relationship is now considered "princess treatment" by these men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:06 PM
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so...are you saying that you don't have any examples of laws changing because women were "a little but uncomfortable?" and that they are at the detriment of men? also chatgpt makes frequent mistakes, and makes up information. did you get this information from chatgpt? you should not rely on a relatively new and not understood form of technology as fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:49 AM
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eat me out (well) and then buy me chipotle. that's really all i want
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:47 AM
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it shouldn't taste bad. if yours tastes bad there's something wrong, either an infection/sti or you're not cleaning properly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:35 AM
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r/nothowgirlswork
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:30 AM
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i mean trans women face violence on a much higher level than trans men so that's definitely something to consider too. trans women are also treated as predators and people act like they only transition to creep on women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:44 PM
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arguably i feel someone who's lived as both genders has the best perspective on this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:41 PM
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trans people are trans because of gender dysphoria, which is a mental illness so
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:28 PM
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i think that this is more of a trans issue in general, trans people are treated awfully in the US, so many politicians want to outright ban transition or jail trans people. mtf and ftm people both face these issues
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:19 PM
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you'd be surprised. no one likes desperation. it's ugly on everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:15 AM
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pearl looks like she's wearing someone else's skin
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:13 PM
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they're strive for male validation bc they can't get it otherwise and resort to brain dead takes and agreeing with everything men say to get it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:13 PM
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if she likes you she truly wouldn't care she just doesn't actually like you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:25 PM
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im autistic too and i struggle with interpersonal connections and social cues, it's hard and i relate to a lot of your struggles. therapy definitely helps, it's kinda like a social situation coaching thing. specifically dialectical behavioral therapy is great. best of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:24 PM
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no fault divorce negatively impacts women more idk why you guys are whining about it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:12 AM
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and i say this as someone who lives in baltimore which is the 3rd most dangerous city in America. if you have money, you'll be fine. i've never felt unsafe in baltimore bc i stay in the nice parts
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:04 PM
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so let me get this straight, you'll listen to some people on reddit but not others?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:03 PM
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left leaning cities are fine if you have money and can stay in the nice parts. you're listing the biggest cities with very dense populations so ofc there will be bad parts. if you're not American then don't act like you know about our lived experience bc it's much deeper than what's shown on the surface
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:04 PM
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18f and im fairly left leaning with a few right leaning beliefs. im bisexual and prefer liberal men and women because i just could not date someone with wildly opposing view points as me. friends, sure, but i want the person im dating to have similar ideals to me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:56 PM
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if you think there's no point in dating unless there's gender roles you should try talking to a gay person lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:53 PM
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most of my female friends and family have a similar story. one of my moms friends was beaten nearly to death bc she rejected a man who stalked her for months
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:24 AM
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do you keep a watch for men being rejected or are people just having really loud conversations in front of you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:24 AM
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where are the statistics for that claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:23 AM
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how many men do you experience being rejected on a daily basis lmao are you a part of some club or something? i've only been cold approached 3 times and 2 of those times a man was creepy or hostile to me. all of these instances happened when i was a minor
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:15 PM
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one time i politely rejected a much older man when i was 15 and he proceeded to follow me around and try to assault me when i was separated from my mom
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:13 PM
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a man's worst fear encountering the opposite sec is being humiliated/rejected a woman's worst fear encountering the opposite sex is being killed or raped
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:11 PM
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so someone can't be red pilled unless they hate women and blame them for violence enacted against them? literally no one here agrees with you even the hardcore redpillers think this is dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:10 PM
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"this is what i've seen so therefore your lived experience is wrong because i personally haven't experienced it"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:02 PM
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were you dropped on the head as a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:59 PM
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npd is an extremely complex disorder you can't go and diagnose everyone you disagree with on the internet with it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:19 PM
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ayo wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:02 PM
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unless you're a psychiatric professional, that's not your call to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:42 PM
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dude she's not gonna fuck you no woman wants to date a man who pays a woman to exist
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:49 PM
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nah man that's cringe. stop paying women to exist and they'll stop being so entitled. spend the money on yourself, invest in a startup instead of blowing it on some girl who doesn't care if you live or die
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:47 PM
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no because a woman existing doesn't mean she deserves violence. if a man was randomly attacked walking down a shady area i wouldn't blame him either
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:37 AM
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so you're claiming that women in the western world have it easier than men. when i refute that claim it's not allowed? im confused. also there are comments with tons of upvotes under the original comment saying life as a woman is life on "easy mode" don't start lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:42 AM
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91% of adult rape victims are women. 1 in 5 women and 1 in 71 men will be raped sometime in their life. nearly 1 in 10 women have been raped by an intimate partner. 1 in 45 men have been forced to penetrate an intimate partner. 1 in 4 girls will be raped, while 1 in 6 boys will before they turn 18. (https://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/publications_nsvrc_factsheet_media-packet_statistics-about-sexual-violence_0.pdf) so far after the overturning of roe v wade, counties in oklahoma, tennessee…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:39 AM
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i didn't actually initially bring up abortion, someone literally named "abortion is murder" did. i mentioned women's lack of rights and someone accused women of murder. there are so many cases of women and children being forced to carry their rapists baby and this is just after roe v wade was overturned. the argument was that life as a woman is easier. i disputed this. am i not supposed to bring up examples?? actually if you read the comment thread i did mention this, about 3 people mentioned it…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:05 AM
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10 was a random number i made up because 10 is a measly number if you're claiming this is as widespread as children forced to carry their rapists baby. please, change the number if you want. that's not the main crux of my argument. i skimmed through the post and a lot of the examples are from other countries, and i'm focusing on the united states. if you want to include every country, we can talk about that too. but you're probably not going to want to include every country if you're trying to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:58 AM
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men are absolutely sexually abused less than women. it's laughable if you think that men face sexual abuse at the same or a higher rate than women. 90% of all adult sexual assault victims are female. 82% of all juvenile victims are female.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:55 AM
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absolutely not. rape is not a mutual act. rape is not justified. ever. rape cannot be provoked by a woman wearing clothing. if a man is in a gang, and acts in gang violence, or gets in a fight willingly with another man, he is responsible. because he chose to fight. a woman who is raped did not choose to be raped. a man who participates in mutual gang violence did choose to participate in that violence. i agree that men should be less violent to eachother. i have no reason to believe that the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:53 AM
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i do think that that case is horrible and shouldn't be a precedent. however the reason i asked for 10 specific cases is because if this was as prevalent as children being forced to carry their rapists baby, there should be at LEAST 10 cases. im not saying that little boys should have to pay child support to their rapists. i think that's awful. im saying it's not as prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:22 AM
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are you attacking women for exhibiting behaviors that you fuel? that's kinda hypocritical man. just stop simping and paying women to breathe lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:19 AM
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if you want to bring out percentages, you need a study and a sample size to do so. please show me the peer reviewed study you are gathering your resources from
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:16 AM
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can you please link that study?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:12 AM
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lol simp
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:07 AM
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narcissistic personality disorder is a clinical diagnosis distinguished in the DSM-5. it is a personality disorder, similar to borderline personality disorder and histrionic personality disorder. if a person is not diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder, they aren't a narcissist. you can call someone self absorbed without arm chair diagnosing them with an incredibly complex personality disorder. i don't even need to read the rest of this post, because your highly incorrect use of the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:06 AM
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can you please show me the law that directly states that? as well as 10 legal cases that show this outcome? thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:55 AM
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if a man willingly enters a gang and becomes part of that statistic because of it, then i blame them. most of the violence men face is brought upon them by other men and is entirely avoidable. if a man was randomly attacked with no provocation on the street, i'll feel bad. but men aren't running around NYC randomly attacking other men and punching them in the face and laughing. men aren't attacked at random, it's often for a reason. i never said that paying child support to your rapist is ok, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:55 AM
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also by saying you would have it easier as a woman you are 100% perpetuating a competition about who has it worse so don't act all clueless
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:50 PM
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men are more likely to be victims of violent crime because they're more likely to get themselves into dangerous situations. a lot of that statistic is made up of gang violence which is initiated by both sides. men are not more likely to be randomly attacked on the street for doing nothing. im not saying men dont have to deal with negative aspects of life, and even if men underreport that can't makeup for women being the majority of SA victims and men being the perpetrators. you are more likely t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:49 PM
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if a 10 year old gets raped she shouldn't have to give birth. sorry, but that's just my view. i will always prioritize an already living woman over a clump of cells
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:07 PM
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also women in red states literally can't even leave their state because of the possibility of them getting an abortion how is that not tyrannical
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:06 PM
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our opinions differ then. i don't believe a fetus has personhood and thus, doesn't constitute as a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:06 PM
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saying most white women are spoiled or entitled is just the same logic of saying most white people are racist
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:33 PM
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yes, everyone faces sexual harassment. but if you think that women and men face rape and sexual assault at the same rates you're lying to yourself. men are more likely to be offenders, women are more likely to be victims. disproportionally, might i add. im not saying men aren't sexually assaulted, but you're much more likely to be assaulted by another man than you are a woman. in some states in the U.S pregnant women literally can't travel out of state because their governments are paranoid abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:32 PM
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yeah totally easy to have your rights taken from you and face constant sexual harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:11 PM
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you literally said it would be practical for all women to stop working and having the same opportunities as men so that men have an advantage in the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:24 PM
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how is it a hypothetical when you expressed you think that situation is practical
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 01:09 AM
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really? it's practical to you to force half of the population to stop what they're doing and bend to your whims?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 12:08 AM
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what's the study showing women are more likely to study abroad, and where's the perspective from? women from lower opportunity or poorer countries will definitely be more inclined to study abroad in places like the U.S because of better opportunities, for example, my college has a lot of female chinese exchange students. are you talking about women in the U.S studying abroad? because most Americans study abroad in European countries, which tend to be safer than the U.S. you don't see too many pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:37 PM
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please show me the study that you're getting your "facts" and "statistics" from
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:34 PM
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so you think women shouldn't be allowed to have a career and the same opportunities as men because you want men to have more of an advantage in dating? do you realize how insane you sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:32 PM
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first of all, bitch is a misogynistic slur. it's used commonly and we're desensitized to it, but a man calling a woman a bitch is never okay. there are absolutely racist echo chambers online, mainly on twitter and 4chan. they exist. but also, these echo chambers don't operate in the same way as 2X/women's subs. women's subs are designed to be safe spaces for women to talk about anything about womanhood. they're not designed specifically to complain about men. a lot of posts are centered around b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:10 AM
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there was ONE female candidate. one. she won the popular vote and lost the electoral vote, if im correct. i was pretty young when that election happened so i don't remember all the specifics. men are more likely to be in danger BECAUSE of other men. they're not targeted for their sex. it's because they get themselves into more dangerous situations, if you're referring to homicide rates. men are more likely to be gang members, criminals, drug dealers, etc. women are more likely to be raped, kidna…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:07 AM
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generally speaking you're likely right, but that doesn't mean there's not an epidemic of violent men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:04 AM
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find me an incel forum equivalent for women. no, not FDS. they don't want to kill and rape women. you can easily find huge swaths of men who want to kill and rape women for not having sex with them. there is no female equivalent. women can also be misogynistic, it's called internalized misogyny. a patriarchal society will obviously influence some women into hating their gender and acting out for male attention. it sucks, but it exists. are these women as much of a violent threat to women as men …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:03 AM
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i don't think there's any studies done on this, but with the rise of andrew tate types and "dating gurus" as well as violent porn being so normalized, i'd argue men are becoming more violent and disrespectful which is more dangerous for women. the issue is that this rhetoric is leaking outside of the echo chamber
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:48 AM
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yeah that's bullshit dude. if you want to compare a woman being left leaning to an incel wanting all women dead for not fucking him you clearly lack brain cells
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:47 AM
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the algorithm is a crazy thing. if you interact with content, you'll be shown more of it. i promise you the internet is not full of "endless man hating tiktoks." if that's what you interact with, that's what you'll see. tiktok is not a concentrated algorithm like reddit, so it's the absolute worst example in this case. FDS is basically just redpill for women. men got pissed about it because women started doing the same shit they do. it's not even radical feminism lmao. why did you put misogyny i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:47 AM
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that doesn't mean women aren't in danger. most violent crimes are committed by men, you'd be stupid to not fear them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:40 AM
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bitchy? are women not allowed to talk about negative experiences they have with men now without being called misogynistic slurs? are women supposed to cater to the feelings of men hatescrolling in their spaces? "oh this guy catcalled me today but i still love men! not all men!" do you seriously expect women to tiptoe around your feelings? are you personally offended that not every woman wants to be your bestest friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:38 AM
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i think these men just have very limited life experiences and are bitter because of that or are just very gullible and listen to what their gymbro podcast overlords tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:37 AM
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"wokeness?" do you mean being left leaning? is having basic fucking empathy for people "woke" now? how are women having autonomy and choice radical? is every view that's not "women should stay home and clean and have babies" woke now? when men are radicalized they think women are evil for not fucking them. women are radical for...being left leaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:35 AM
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sorry i phrased that weird. what i meant is, women aren't made more violent and radicalized due to more internet usage. at least not at the rate men are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:27 AM
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the upsetting part is that most of this subreddit is the pessimistic posts. and they're almost always targeted towards women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:21 AM
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if they're "women's only spaces" you shouldn't be mulling around with the intent to get pissed over it. it's not a women's only space
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:21 AM
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it's true that women do this too, i think everyone is too online nowadays. but women are far less violent as a result of it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:11 AM
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you're allowed to, but is it really a female only space if men can just waltz right in and yap about "muh feelings" in them? i'd argue they're a mixed gender space more than anything because there's no regulation on who is allowed to post. yes you can be curious, but if you know women sharing their negative experiences with men and comforting/sharing with eachother is going to tie your panties in a knot then why read it? do you enjoy making yourself angry? if you want a "male only" space then by…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:36 PM
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i'd argue fds wasn't even close to radfem and it got deleted, also terf ideology is inherently anti-male
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:18 PM
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that's because most men can't sexually satisfy most women. most women can't cum solely from penetration, and a lot of men can't (or won't) make women cum. women also face a lot greater risk from one night stands (fear of rape, sex trafficking, pregnancy, etc.) it's safer for women to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:17 PM
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that doesn't change the fact that it leads people to think this sort of violence is desirable or normal and it desensitizes men and boys to these violent acts. radfem content isn't allowed on reddit. countless radfem subreddits have been banned. you don't see women roleplaying how they want to brutally rape and torture men. it's another form of violence against women and shouldn't be allowed. and yea, misandry isn't as bad as misogyny. women don't go around killing and raping men because they ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:11 PM
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you really think that? rape porn is allowed on here but radical feminist content isn't lmfao don't act like men are some persecuted group on here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:28 PM
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why are you in these women only spaces? they're for women, yes? why is it fueling the "gender divide" if men aren't supposed to be reading it or involved? why are you going into women only spaces knowing it'll upset you? they're not for you. not everything is for you. go do literally anything else. read a book. watch a movie. paint something. go for a walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:27 PM
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i've only been cold approached once, and i didn't go out with the guy (had a bf at the time) but i admired his confidence. i've cold approached guys in public and they've all seemed taken aback but i've never been turned down. seems like guys aren't really cold approaching. which is fine for me, because i prefer meeting someone naturally anyways and getting to know their personality/be friends before considering them romantically
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:15 PM
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because they are forced to cover up in order to excuse men's lack of control. they don't make this choice, they're pressured into it either by their families or the law. women are killed and raped for not wearing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:17 AM
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it's the objective truth. it's not a child, it's never lived
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:43 PM
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technically? no, no they're not. would i say that to the face of a woman who just miscarried? absolutely not because that would be rude. but no, i don't believe so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:17 PM
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birth control can literally cause a stroke what
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:10 PM
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birth control can give you a fucking stroke condoms are just slightly uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:09 PM
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that's a personal belief (and one coded by a religion not everyone believes) and not objective fact. the objective fact is that a "child" "baby" or "kid" is an already born child. anything still in the woman's womb is not referred to by these terms. you can have your feelings about a hypothetical woman's hypothetical abortion but that doesn't mean you get to say something blatantly false and act like it's fact
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:59 PM
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a "kid" is a child who has been born. you cannot compare the two. calling an unborn fetus a "kid" is an illogical appeal to emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:01 PM
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that is such a rash and blatantly false generalization. thanks for the laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:16 PM
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coming from someone currently in highschool, it seems to me like the girls with similar aesthetics and fashion tastes will group together. not really the "pretty" or not pretty girls. if you like stanley cups and lululemon and you're bleach blonde, you hang out with those girls. if you have dyed hair and wear all black, you hang out with the alt/emo girls. if you smoke weed and wear those palazzo bell bottoms then you hang out with the fake spirituality girls. doesn't matter how pretty you are. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:34 AM
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how is that at all the same? at work im valued for my skill and intelligence that i've built up for my entire life. im not objectified or valued based on my body or how i can service a man sexually. also what do you mean an employee number lmfao do you work at a fucking concentration camp? we aren't numbered at my work do you live in a prison or something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:58 AM
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so are you not going to actually respond? you're just going to troll? you're aware of the negative effects of porn (assuming you got off your ass for 2 seconds and looked at the multiple sources i sent you) and still consume it and attack anyone who tries to dissuade people of doing something objectively harmful? yikes. i see where your priorities lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 11:02 PM
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there are countless studies that show that porn is bad for everyone involved. this isn't just a matter of "don't jack off" or some purity culture bullshit. porn is harmful to everyone. you refusing to acknowledge the legitimate concerns of women by simply ignoring a valid argument is just your way of avoiding guilt for partaking in the porn industry. sources: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6571756/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9922938/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:53 PM
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because porn addiction leads to violence against women. i don't care if a man has high expectations for women or expects them all to look like instagram thots. that's his business, and his standard. he'll have a tough time finding that, but i don't care because i wouldn't date someone who's not attracted to me in the first place. porn is not a good thing. porn is inherently harmful for women, the majority of women in sex work are not doing it of their own volition. porn is damaging for your ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:25 PM
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you realize the vast majority of people don't think or speak like this right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:06 PM
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dude go outside holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:05 PM
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i don't see myself as a product to be traded and "valued" at a set price. im a human being with complex thoughts, emotions, and ideas. i don't exist to be valued by men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:00 PM
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you're right, that's on me i typed von instinctually
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:44 PM
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when i look up "highest iq" i see marilyn vos savant as the first result and picture
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:12 PM
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literally the first result on google shows Marilyn Von Savant has the highest recorded IQ
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:34 PM
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the reason men dominate the early years of invention and innovation is because women weren't ALLOWED to do things. women weren't allowed to invent things or work, and if they did their work was either discredited or a man took the credit. women being allowed and encouraged to work and be innovative is still a fairly new concept which is why innovation and stem seems skewed towards men. women were systemically oppressed for centuries, the playing fields are nowhere close to even. do you really th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:32 PM
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i think women are better than men. the person with the highest IQ ever was a woman, women are typically more rational, less violent, and less likely to commit crimes than men. we are less driven by anger. if we got rid of men a lot of societal problems would disappear
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:26 AM
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if a guy acted like that when i told him i was feeling insecure i would immediately ask him what was wrong and why he was acting like that. the appropriate response is to ask why and reassure your partner if they're feeling concerned. acting like an immature child is not the solution. if you act like a dick, im blocking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:33 AM
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i've passed on quite a few men who i find attractive because of habits like drug use or having multiple women in their profile. i think if i was just interested in looks, my body count would be a LOT higher. most women aren't going to be interested in a guy who doesn't align with their personal beliefs, even if he's attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:56 PM
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define what "works." please, i'd love to hear your excuse for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:37 AM
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so we should just bring back those jim crow laws that were still in place in the 60s right? you're just A okay with racism?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:12 PM
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i actually like my work and my studies, i enjoy doing it and i enjoy knowing that ill be financially secure without needing someone else to constantly support me. only staying in a relationship for the money is unfair to both sides and instills a weird power dynamic. i get in relationships for love, not what material objects they can give me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:01 PM
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if we were in 1965 marital rape would still be legal and gay people wouldn't be able to get married, what's your point? should we just revert back to all of the laws of the 60s? because that's a very slippery slope, my friend. additionally, anyone should be able to divorce anyone for any reason. otherwise it could create unsafe or unsavory situations for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:56 PM
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i've literally seen 12 year old girls buying retinol because they're scared of aging. RETINOL. 12 YEARS OLD. beauty standards are evil
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:01 AM
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yes. my dad drove 6 hours every day to see my mom and wrote her love letters, my mom got sober for him and they have an amazing relationship that had stood the test of time. they'd survive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:00 PM
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r/menandfemales
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:46 PM
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fun fact men buy more dildos than women do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:09 PM
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womp womp go outside and touch grass loser
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:29 PM
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you're weird and you need to go outside and get a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:16 AM
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you can't make me weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:38 AM
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you're being so emotional, calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:34 AM
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i've been rejected plenty of times. it's not that big of a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:32 AM
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sometimes i've had men refuse to back down after telling them im not interested. i then either tell them i have a boyfriend so they're less likely to mess with me or that i'm a minor and im going to call the police
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:31 AM
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if i didn't have a boyfriend, i would just say something along the lines of "im flattered, but im not interested. have a nice day." since i do have a boyfriend, i just tell them that i have a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:30 AM
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i was 11 the first time i was made aware that men saw me as a sexual object
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:02 AM
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it seems like they are. that or they're extremely mentally ill recluses with nothing better to do than objectify women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:39 AM
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sorry, i thought it was 50. my point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:27 PM
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my aunt was followed around and harassed by a man recently in a "good" part of town. she was picking me up for my therapy appointment and came early and wanted to walk around. we don't walk around that part of town anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:04 AM
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why are you so inclined to believe every woman is lying to you? that every woman is the enemy? i know you probably don't get any pussy and that's why you're so resentful towards women, but you need to get of your convoluted moral high ground and talk to an actual woman. get some therapy, dude. it's not good for you to stereotype 50% of the population because of what some guys on reddit told you. fucking weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:55 AM
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yeah but that wasn't the question? the question was asking women what the average sex life of a woman was. no one is saying that women can't get sex easily. fyi: most women don't want to go around getting fucked by a different guy every week, because most men suck at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:29 AM
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fairly average woman here. i have a body count of 3 and i plan on keeping it that way. im pretty sure i've found my future husband and we're in a strictly monogamous relationship. we have (very very good) sex multiple times a week unless i'm on my period/sick. despite what reddit incels think, i don't fuck a different guy every week and im not secretly cheating on my partner. i am loyal to one person and one person only. i don't have a history of being slutty or sleeping with every guy i've met …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:25 AM
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if your only argument is a south park clip then i think we're done here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:42 PM
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usually being the key word. meaning that's not the only way that phrase can be used. so if people see her as a woman with big boobs and no one would know the difference otherwise, why does it matter if she had small boobs? if there's no clear physical distinction between a woman with large natural breasts and her, what's the difference? to anyone who doesn't know she has surgery, they believe they're natural. she has them now, so who cares what they were before? same logic applies in my opinion.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:13 PM
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funny that you say that, nearly every official medical resource supports transitioning as a cure for gender dysphoria. i'd go out on a limb and say those doctors who have studied for years know more than you do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:04 PM
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chromosomes can't be, sure. but if chromosomes define gender, then what the fuck is going on with intersex people?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:02 PM
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and why do you as a man get to decide this? you don't know the slightest thing about femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:36 PM
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does a woman with smaller breasts who gets implants to get bigger ones not count as a woman with big boobs? does she stay as a woman with small boobs because she had surgery? i believe that your way of thinking is outdated, people CAN change. and if you would never know the difference, why do you get to decide such a huge part of their life for them? no one is trying to replace women, it's not like whenever a trans women transitions a cis woman is kicked out of her spot at womanhood. both can ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:36 PM
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and what is that? trans women can undergo the same surgery to make their outward appearance the same as a woman. sure they can't give birth, but so can millions of cisgender women. so what's the big deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:57 PM
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trans women are women. conversation over.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:41 AM
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my body count is 3, and when people ask i either tell them the truth: 3, or i just tell them it's none of their business.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:09 AM
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yes, i would date him. i don't care about peoples sexual past as long as they don't have any stds. someone's past partners aren't my business (UNLESS they dated and supported the actions of a past partner who was a bad person)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:02 AM
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how is it doxxing if they're posting information that doesn't lead to their home address/phone number/personal important information being found? if they're recounting experiences and just screenshotting public dating profiles i would hardly call that doxxing. unless you have evidence of peoples addresses, phone numbers, etc being doxxed and other proof that you couldn't find that on the internet anywhere than your argument holds no weight
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:50 AM
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nice attempt at grasping for straws, did you take them from the straw man you made earlier?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:45 PM
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i know what the halo effect is. you aren't understanding my point (or maybe you're just ignoring everything i say and refusing to believe me because of my gender.) there is no way to prove to you that i don't find my male friends attractive short of showing you pictures of them, which i'm not going to do because it's a massive breach of privacy and very rude. i'd rather be friends with someone who's funny, smart, and interesting rather than an attractive jerk. im aware of the fact that you won't…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:47 AM
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don't throw statistics around if you don't have anything to back them up, that makes your entire argument look stupid. it just looks like you're trying to pretend like you know what you're talking about. and why do you think that? why do you think that attractive women are all mean? why can't people who are attractive also be nice, genuine people? why do you think that every single woman is out to get you? are there any scientific studies posted to back up your bullshit statistics that justify y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:36 AM
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they absolutely would not be, trust me. if i was searching for friends by attractiveness, i wouldn't have chosen any of my guy friends. no offense to them or anything, but i don't find any of them attractive at all. im friends with them because i had most of my classes with them and got to know them through that, and they're all funny, interesting, and supportive people. why are you trying to press a preconceived, and frankly misogynistic notion onto me just because i'm a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:44 AM
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why are you trying to tell me what circumstances i have had happen in my life? you don't know me, you've never met me. you don't know what's happened in my life and there's no way you can tell me what i've experienced. i didn't respond to your comment because i responded to someone else who said the same exact thing and it would've been counterproductive to copy and paste it and have it show up twice in the thread. scroll up if you want to see it. im only friends with one woman (who is a very bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:41 AM
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i havent. there has been no circumstance in my life where a man i find unattractive has tried to be friends with me and i've turned him down, the only instance of that ever happening is because he called my friend a bitch after only knowing me for a few days and i don't stand for that shit. i don't know why you assume every single woman is an evil conniving person. we aren't a hivemind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:05 PM
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why are you telling me that i have a "looks barrier" for friends when you don't know me at all? ive never purposefully made an effort to not get to know someone or be civil to them because of how they look. no, i probably wouldn't date someone i didn't find attractive, but i would still be friends with them. im friends with a lot of people i don't personally find attractive and that doesn't stop me from appreciating them and spending time with them. what do you mean the "last time a short awkwar…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:53 AM
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physical- 1. taller than me, i like having them at least eye level, but not super tall. like he shouldn't have to bend down a ton when he goes in for a kiss. preferably over or at 5'5 (my height) and under 6'2 2. i don't care. as long as it's not hideous face structure isn't too important to me, it's more facial features but again idc that much 3. i don't like muscular men or men with super masculine traits, so a skinnier guy or guy with a slight dad bod would be nice. 4. 6 inches or under bc an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:55 AM
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woman here, ive never not been friends with someone because of their looks and no woman i know has ever acted like that. all my best friends are guys and not people i would consider attractive or ever want to date,,,and im friends with them because they're cool and supportive and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:47 AM
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i WISH dude i wish
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:59 AM
1

i mean it's not like i'm "taking pity" or anything as people have suggested i just usually don't find the popular dudes attractive and prefer nerdier "loser" men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:02 PM
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im definitely not chadsexual. all my boyfriends have been fucking losers (and i love it), im losersexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:15 AM
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im bisexual can i just not have close friends in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:19 AM
1

no....i've only been hit on a few times in public and a lot online (but i don't count online bc it's just guys trying to get nudes.) the illusion that most women have men lined up at their doorstep is false and i honestly have no idea where anyone got that from. the women who say they do experience this are either extremely attractive, exaggerating, or just lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:57 PM
2

like what everyone else is saying, the g spot is where the clitoris is closest to the vaginal wall. about a finger in and upwards. are you seriously telling me, a woman, who has found her g spot and knows how her vagina works, that it doesn't exist because no one can prove it does? spoiler alert, stimulate it on a woman and that should be proof enough for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:30 PM
2

yea...women have more of a risk when hooking up, that's true. birth control isn't always 100%. honestly i think it's down to the individual because according to everyone here men are more horny but ive met other women (including me) who are definitely hornier than any guy they've been with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:43 AM
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...i'm a woman. i have a g spot. i think i would know based on my literal body anatomy. you wanna learn how to prove its existence? have sex with a woman. talk to women. interact with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:14 PM
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this absolutley not true and not rooted in any fact. your source is a book review that contradicts your point. im a woman and absolutely seek out bonds with men. have you ever interacted with a real woman before?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:13 PM
2

i mean i've hooked up with people i didn't have an emotional connection to before so
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:02 PM
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the g spot 100% does exist and a quick google search proves you wrong. also, im a woman. i have a g spot, i know because i have found it on myself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:31 AM
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i've been at least ten times hornier than all of my male partners, so i can confirm
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:29 AM
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women don't feel love??? so 50% of the population doesn't feel a human emotion? huge generalization there dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:26 AM
1

body shape (waist, hips, shoulders, etc) and weight distribution
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:14 PM
2

one time a dude asked me to use him like a toilet, and then told me his detailed fantasies of wanting a woman to shit in his mouth. i stopped talking to him after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:36 AM
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one time a dude asked me to use him like a toilet, and then told me his detailed fantasies of wanting a woman to shit in his mouth. i stopped talking to him after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:34 AM
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i met this dude off of ig after knowing him for a bit to hang out, dumb idea i know. anyways we kissed and were flirting and shit (that was my first kiss) and then he took me behind this shed/bathroom thingy and shoved my head down. kind of traumatizing first sexual experience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:31 AM
0

literally how would you know unless she told you??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:28 AM
0

yea. they missed that not all women are a hivemind and we aren't all out to get you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:40 PM
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do you even know what gaslighting means? or did you just see it on social media and decide to throw it out everywhere. im telling you this as someone who is a woman and who has been flirted with and dated women. it's clear when someone is flirting or when they're being nice. they're small signals sometimes, but it's clear. not for everyone of course, but most people can tell. i think you're just socially oblivious because a majority of people can tell the difference between flirting and being po…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:22 AM
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flirting is NOT the same thing as being nice, there's a huge difference between being friendly as a human gesture and flirting with someone. are you autistic? most ppl can tell the difference. im not using it as an insult, just genuinely curious because it's very clear what the difference is unless you're socially oblivious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:22 PM
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what?? if someone is nice to you, you immediately think they want to fuck you? dude. get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:59 PM
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just because "most guys" are good doesn't mean we shouldn't be wary. and being polite to a man is not leading him on. if you take nice as being interested in you, that's a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:28 PM
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but it's not bad advice. young girls do need to watch out for men. even our own family members. they're capable of hurting us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:27 PM
1

personally, J.D from heathers the musical gets me going
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:57 AM
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r/MenAndFemales
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:25 AM
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in my experience they absolutely do care. it's more than just awkwardness. weird interests, tics, caring a lot about things others think don't matter, not wanting to be touched, having crying meltdowns when the lights are too dim or it's too loud, stimming, depressive episodes, not wanting to take care of yourself, and much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 06:53 PM
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dogs are way more likely to kill or severley injure you than a cat will though. ill take a crazy cat lady over a pitt bull owner any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:20 AM
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oh? and what studies have "proven" that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:15 AM
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yeah, i have no sympathy for weirdos on the internet. no one is as attracted to you as you think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:11 AM
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just telling you the truth. they aren't into you, you're creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:11 AM
2

calm down with the ego dude. you're not all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:09 AM
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no one is silently crushing on you. you have self proclaimed severe BPD, a history of not being able to attract women, and you aren't very physically attractive. they aren't playing hard to get, they just aren't into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:06 AM
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seeing as your looks are kinda lacking, youve described yourself as having severe mental illness, you seem like kind of a douche, and the fact that youre trying to attract alt girls despite being a trump supporter (alt people are 99% left leaning and most alternative subcultures require you to be so) you're not gonna have much luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:04 AM
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because it really wasn't relevant. someone airing their grievances with members of one party for shitty behavior should be allowed to do so without "WELL WHAT ABOUT THESE PEOPLE FROM THIS GROUP WHO SOMETIMES DO THIS" when it wasn't what i was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 04:29 AM
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which is what im referring to. "low value" men who pretend they're interested in a relationship until they have sex, and then they leave after getting it. that's what i have an issue with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 04:28 AM
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that's called be a selfish and manipulative asshole. do you have no empathy? why are you telling on yourself like that? you're a bad person, full stop. if you want to actively be a shitty person and do shitty and manipulative things and cause people harm, then people are gonna have problems with that. i don't see why you're punishing innocent women who have nothing to do with the girls who try and get free food or drinks. your logic is flawed and frankly, you're a bad person. don't try and justi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:02 AM
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and that's why i tell every man i'm interested in that i want a relationship and wait to have sex. if you tell a woman who tells you she's only interested in relationships that you're interested in one just to get sex and dip because you just wanted to fuck, that's manipulative and shitty behavior. unless someone specifies they want a FWB or just sex then you should assume that's not what they mean. you don't take a FWB on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:00 AM
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then that's different than ghosting them intentionally after lying to get sex. i don't know why you would conveniently lose romantic interest right after sex, but you can tell them you lost interest instead of ghosting them out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:58 PM
1

then why offer it as a "gotcha?" especially when it had nothing to do with the conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:56 PM
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yes. yes it is. i don't know why you think i would disagree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:15 PM
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the problem is that if you lead a woman on with the clear promise of a relationship and then ghost them after sex, that's manipulative and shitty behavior and that's the reason why women don't fuck on the first date. you're shooting yourself in the foot here dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:49 AM
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autism is never truly accepted. all the non autistic people online saying they're "autism advocates" and what not are just virtue signaling. even if you're an attractive person being socially awkward and/or having verbal or impulse issues is going to drag you down. not all autistic people are gonna be sucky people in relationships like the 1 autistic girl you dated. but autism can contribute to that behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:06 PM
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i mean luckily i'm not that far onto the spectrum and i can mask pretty good, but yeah if i was any more of an autist it would be a lot harder to find people. and i've been rejected and dumped before because of my social struggles. what this guy is complaining about isn't just a "women hate autistic men" thing (assuming every single woman he's ever interacted with is NT which is pretty weird) it's more just a society thing in general. society shuns autistic PEOPLE not just autistic men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:42 PM
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women are more likely to buy vibrators than dildos. women aren't the only people purchasing dildos....and are less likely to buy them than gay dudes in my experience. most women can't finish from penetration alone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:38 PM
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a slight curve is good but the g spot isn't that far back so a slightly smaller one with a curve is chefs kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:31 PM
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most women can't cum from penetration alone. as long as it's not huge or medically small it isn't an issue unless you're with a "size queen." girth matters more than width, and if you know how to use your fingers and mouth then you'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:12 PM
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laughs in autistic woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:37 PM
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0 because i don't talk to people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:35 PM
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that's all you have to say? stupid cuntface. at least i'm not a retard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:33 PM
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oh and the "i dont believe you" bullshit? really? do you think i would lie about my preferences on a public forum to screw some random guy that i don't know or care about over? are you retarded or were you just dropped on the head as a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:47 PM
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this post is literally asking women how they want to be approached. the entire POINT of the goddamn post is to ask individual women how they like to be approached. so yes, my input absolutely fucking matters because the OP wanted my opinion. i don't know what you're trying to get at here. i am staying relevant to the question, and you come in here with this "no women want cold approaches you don't know what you're talking about" bullshit. guess what sherlock, women aren't a fucking hivemind. wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:46 PM
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you've yet to realize that women are not a monolith and what some women think one thing, others can have completely different opinions. women are not a hivemind that are only capable of one opinion. women have different personalities, preferences, standards, etc. why do you fail to realize that women are also complex human beings just like men? why? why do you believe we are only capable of one collective viewpoint? your stupidity and willful ignorance amazes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 05:25 AM
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go for it. im a minor though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:24 PM
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i have 0 idea. it's very confusing because it wasn't really my type until 16 when i started dating. i would choose a pathetic, skinny, nerdy dude with dark hair and glasses over a tall ripped chad any day. maybe it's because i know my niche isn't super popular and i'm scared of other girls stealing him away. maybe it's because 9/10 times im out of their league and i know any competition won't be as hot as i am. i have 0 idea. something about a loser nerd with dark hair and glasses just gets it g…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:26 PM
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100% i love it but im also more dominant sexually in general
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:17 AM
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dated a guy who was 6'10 once, that was fun. but honestly other than height and build i wasn't super attracted to him. he was (still is) a basketball star with a posse of popular kids at his disposal, and im a hot nerd who likes pathetic looking men with glasses. it was more a sex thing than a relationship thing, but if he wasnt so tall i likely wouldnt have gone for it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:02 AM
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i dont have an exact number height standard. i really like tall guys, but if a guy is over my height (im 5'6) then its fair game. but height definitley makes a dude much more attractive. if hes shorter than me, then i wont go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:56 AM
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i dont think you understand how this works. like, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:46 AM
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its almost like...women aren't a hivemind and have different beliefs, ideas, preferences, and personalities. its almost like we're humans that dont exist for male pleasure.... crazy....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:42 AM
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human trafficker + romanian mob boss
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:23 PM
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i live in the US and in my experience, only very attractive women have "simps." ive had friends who don't get any male attention who are at least a 5 because they weren't outgoing and dressed plainly and modestly. and they weren't obese either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:26 PM
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that's false on so many levels and a huge generalization. ive had friends who got 0 male attention and they were at least a 5. just not outgoing and not stunning. i got 0 positive male attention until i glowed up and made myself more attractive. you clearly no nothing about women. please get out of your internet echo chamber and talk to real women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:25 PM
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really? because most average or below average women i know get 0 positive male attention. until i glowed up and got more attractive, i got 0 positive male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:23 PM
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i was talking to this dude i liked, and we got into some deeper emotional shit. he started talking about how no one ever liked him or believed him, and when i said that wasn't true and that i liked him and thought he was a good person he got into this spiral of self deprication and went on about how no one could ever like him, despite me telling him i thought he was a good person that i enjoyed talking to. and idk, but it just pissed me off hearing him not listen to me and just sit and pity hims…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:56 AM
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im not. i have trauma around that stuff and it scares me. even if i didnt have that trauma i doubt i would like it. i dont want sex to be scary and stressful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:48 AM
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do you have any data or reason to support this, or are you just biased?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:09 AM
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honestly, in all of my relationships and the relationships ive witnessed, women have been much more attached to their partner and more devastated when they broke up. i think it depends on who broke up with who, not a gender thing. and the average woman doesnt have "simps." only incredibly attractive women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:07 AM
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this has to be a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:24 AM
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haha, im definitley a bit young but im glad you fit the standard. most women just want a polite, brief interaction, so you're on the right page
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:23 AM
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i'd like someone to go up to me, say something along the lines of "hey you're cute, can i have your number?" and then after getting it (or not getting it if im not attracted to them) walk away and let me do whatever i was doing in public. i'll text them when i get home. just be polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:17 AM
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immediate dealbreaker. i would never date or marry a man that couldnt commit to one woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:11 AM
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get good at makeup! looksmaxxing will help a ton, the r/vindicta subreddit is helpful and gives a lot of good tips. also try online dating, i met my first bf through a hangout/dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:37 AM
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and how would you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:33 AM
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this has....nothing to do with what we were talking about, but okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:42 PM
1

Definitely Dario. I prefer men with lower N counts as I hate thinking about my partners past exes and I wouldn't be able to stop comparing myself to Mario's past hookups. Also, I would rather go with Dario because he is capable of holding a LTR and doesn't cheat or sleep around. Mario either has had a shit ton of short relationships or hooks up with people a lot, so it shows that he isn't as capable of holding a relationship, or he just isnt interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:34 AM
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show me the oh so trustworthy sources that completely disprove this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:40 AM
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that all women get "resources from betas and fuck alphas" when that isn't even remotely true. the whole "alpha beta" shit is so outlandish and conspicuous it hurts. they seem to think that women will dump a loving partner with average looks to get with a tall guy who's conveniently attractive, when in reality this doesn't happen. women aren't as visual as men are, yes women are visual but not nearly as focused on looks. another one is the idea that only model-attractive men are in relationships.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:31 PM
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having a preference for something doesn't mean you rule out the other entirely. i prefer tall guys, but i would still date a short dude. the amount of women saying they want someone exactly over 6' is overblown for the laughs, most women don't care about exact numbers and just want a guy that's taller than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:23 AM
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no?? ive only slept with a guy i wasn't dating once, and i didn't talk to anyone else during that time. im in no way "getting resources from betas" you are fucking delusional and you assume all women are out to get you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:21 AM
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not your fault if women aren't attracted to you actually, i did answer your question. right there. you're generalizing an entire gender because of the fanfiction you've written in your head to justify why you aren't getting the attention you desire. coming from a sexually active person, the shit you claim happens doesn't fucking happen. sex feels good, and people can have sex with people they don't want a relationship with. ive fucked a dude that i never wanted a relationship with, and i told hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:52 AM
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first off, girls dont give a shit about "narrow shoulders." not your fault if women aren't attracted to you, but digging yourself into a misogynistic echo chamber and generalizing the entire female gender is absolutely your fault. if you get jacked you'll have way more chances than if you're not. always something you can do to improve yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:40 AM
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yeah, i highly doubt youre a reliable person to go to for any sex or relationship advice, youre a self proclaimed "low value male"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:32 AM
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so does that mean you dont have any? so let me get this straight, you have no sexual experience and no sources and essentially no reason to believe this. dude, get out of your reddit echo chamber and look at the real world. you're essentially just writing fanfiction to justify your overgeneralization and frankly, hatred of women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:31 AM
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maybe if you went to the gym and got out of your "alpha beta" bullshit echo chamber and developed a personality you would. so lemme get this straight, you have no sexual or relationship experience, yet you believe this outlandish bullshit for what reason? you could make life better for yourself, yet you're choosing not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:29 AM
3

what resources do you have to support this idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:21 AM
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exactly. these dudes are either delusional virgins or traditionalists
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:13 AM
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yea, ive fucked a guy that i didnt want a relationship with. but i also didnt talk to anyone else or lead anyone one. maybe get some bitches instead of over-analyzing the sex lives of others
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:11 AM
4

okay that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:07 PM
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over 10 is a bit much. i met a guy who had 20 and it was....weird. how do you do THAT many people in 16 years? he wasn't super attractive either
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:27 PM
10

what happens if you get a decimal...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:26 PM
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it absolutely does happen, at least in younger women. as a teenage girl i would say i think i have some experience on this topic, most of my girl friends and most girls i know would go for the skinny eboy over the chad. we dont give a shit about "respect from other men" i dont know where you got that but 99% of the time we dont care if other men think our man is respectable or not. ig it depends where you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:31 AM
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i think it depends, theres no clear cut answer for this. it depends on the vulnerability youre sharing, it depends on the time and point in the relationship youre sharing, and the manner you share it in. if you want to express a weakness (for example, an insecurity about a physical attribute) with a girl its fine to do so but you need to evaluate your relationship beforehand. were you both talking about insecurities or did you bring it up out of nowhere? how long have you known her, and has she …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:34 AM
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oh em gee i forgot ty
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:07 PM
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all woman do is instagram, eat hot chip, and lie
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:00 PM
1

no, i love being a woman and i wouldnt want it to be different. if i was a man i would have gender dysphoria to the max because i love being feminine and i find that being masculine is awkward for me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:25 AM
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r/agedlikemilk
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:16 AM
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and im assuming that you've talked to women in real life and formed fulfilling relationships with women who have told you that, and thats why you think this. right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:13 AM
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im gonna be all encompassing and say that higher risk of rape, sexual violence, and sex trafficking is our disadvantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:42 AM
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are you seriously implying that men have less reproductive rights than women while roe v wade is being overturned and women are being forced to carry pregnancies no matter the circumstance. are you seriously implying that women have it easier in this scenario while people are being forced to carry the child of their rapist? you're kidding, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:39 AM
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im 99% sure this is a troll but if it isn't holy shit dude get out of your echo chamber
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:23 AM
-5

r/menandfemales
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:41 AM
6

r/thatHappened
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:03 AM
1

i usually think about my crush and everything works itself from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:09 PM
2

oh trust me, women are very interested in casual stuff. you just suck at meeting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:04 PM
1

one is real. i don't know how people can live with themselves knowing that their partner doesn't actually love them and is just in it for money, it's an awful feeling to be used by that. wouldn't you rather be loved for who you are? wouldn't you rather be loved for real? is sex the only thing you care about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:58 PM
2

i compare myself a lot too, to pretty much everyone ive ever met. it's a really hard habit to break but once you do, if even for a second, it feels so relieving. im still trying to break that habit, and it's a tough journey but very worth it. i really recommend getting back into counseling as having a professionals perspective and help on these things helps tremendously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:55 PM
2

i don't understand your point here dude. would you settle down with someone you aren't attracted to in the slightest? why is it bad for someone to need mutual attraction to be in a relationship? are you suggesting that women are selfish for not settling down with someone they don't like? why is women having standards seen as a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:59 AM
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i get that a lot too and it sucks, talking about it with my therapist helped a lot so if you can afford therapy i would really recommend it. remember that your partner is with you for a reason, and their past doesn't mean that they'll love you any less. they chose you, if they wanted someone else or wanted their ex they would go back to them. different people have different sexual experiences and a lot of things influence that, social status, social skills, looks, upbringing, location, etc. you …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:57 AM
1

what the fuck is a sapiosexual
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:02 AM
1

*raises hand*
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:49 AM
1

i want to be treated equally. just treat me like a man, i am not some strange creature. i am a human being, just like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:26 AM
4

distance is an issue for most people. most people do not want a long distance relationship and want to be able to meet their partner in person. vast majority of people will not be okay with long distance
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:43 PM
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the thing is, most of us don't want to drive 1+ hours to see an S/O and reddit isn't exactly the best place for meeting a partner. depending on your area this is highly impractical. this isn't the own you thought it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:40 PM
2

yes, attractive people get attention. regardless of gender. but attraction is not going to help you maintain a loving, long relationship if thats all you have going for you. looks fade.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:46 PM
3

depends on the woman. there is no "cure all" for getting female attention, it differs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:14 PM
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"women have so much hivemindedness" "i don't like the women who post on here"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:09 PM
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i feel like this is a man larping as a woman...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:48 AM
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why are you all so shallow? marry someone because you love them and want to spend the rest of your life with them, not because of age. you guys are so superficial i stg. and women are called shallow constantly here? gimme a break
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:49 AM
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there are birth control pills for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:00 AM
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im sorry but that's ridiculous. any normal person can have a conversation about their fears and how they affect them without being accused of "fear mongering." if someone talking about their personal fears sends you into a spiral and leads you to be afraid of that thing, then that isn't the fault of the person taking to them. im not the unreasonable one here. my fears aren't unfounded. i've had bad experiences, and now i have developed fear due to it. that doesn't mean i'm generalizing all men j…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:18 PM
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im attracted to men and i fear them. ive admitted that this is an issue im working on so why frame it as if im some indecisive, evil woman? im not generalizing all men, and im not saying that all men are bad or abusers. but i am scared of them. its not a rational fear, and im fully aware of that. nice straw man, though. women can be rapists, i never said they couldnt. again, youre putting words in my mouth. but ive never had trauma or bad experiences with women so im not afraid of them. if someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:48 AM
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the thing is, im not saying that its everyone elses problem. im aware that its a me issue and as ive said multiple times im going through therapy to work on it. i dont hate all men, and i never said that i hold animosity towards men for their gender. youre putting words in my mouth. also why is taken advantage of in quotes? what are you insinuating? if someone is afraid of women because of past abuse and seeing women being abusers then im not going to attack them for it. it can be a valid fear, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:44 AM
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so me saying im afraid of something is fear mongering? are people just not allowed to admit that they have fears now? if i told people that i had a reason to be afraid of all men and that they should be wary, that'd be fear mongering. if i told people i had reason to be scared of my male family members, that would be fear mongering. but im not doing that. you are, by definition, incorrect. idc what you or men think. if me having fears and going to therapy to change it makes me toxic, then so be …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:52 PM
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if i was fearmongering i'd be encouraging others to be afraid of men. im not doing that. im admitting my fear isn't fully rational. the definition of fear mongering, defined by Oxford Languages, is: "the action of deliberately arousing public fear or alarm about a particular issue." is that what im doing? no. so drop the fearmongering bullshit. if i say im afraid of spiders, im not fearmongering and trying to get other people to fear them, im just admitting they scare me. i haven't said one nega…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:03 PM
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im a bisexual woman, i have dated a bisexual man in the past and would be fine with dating another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:44 AM
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what the fuck? stop turning my trauma into a sexual thing, youre gross. im scared of men because ive been harmed physically and mentally in the past and am fucking terrified of rape. its a valid fear to have. im in therapy and working through my issues. you, however, need to take some therapy to develop basic human empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:21 AM
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i dont give a shit if you or anyone agrees with me. im scared of men, because of past issues where ive been taken advantage of and abused. i dont hate men, and i dont think all men are bad. but they do scare me. i know most of it is irrational, but that fear isn't unfounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:19 AM
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you're a condescending douchebag. don't try and play down my fears and victim blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:18 PM
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but that would be lying. i am scared of men. im not just scared of a small selection of men, i can't be alone with a man without feeling anxious and unsafe. i don't feel safe even around family. i can't sit in the car with my own father without being scared and on edge. stop trying to tell me what i feel. i am scared of being alone and vulnerable with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:17 PM
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how are you going to tell me what my view of men is? and im not fear mongering, im not encouraging others to fear men. im simply saying that i'm not going to risk pregnancy with this law overturned and that i have more reason to fear men with this law overturned. i don't care if all men think women are gold diggers, it's their own fault for believing stupid biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:13 PM
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that's true as well, im terrified for the future of lgbt rights and lgbt adoption with conservatives in this country plowing down anything they don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:16 PM
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sounds good to me! not sure why you're being sarcastic that actually sounds perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:15 PM
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im on birth control and always use condoms, but mistakes happen and with roe v wade likely going poof, birth control access is next on the list to go. im bisexual and still attracted to men and have bad relationships with them, but ive had experiences that make me wary and scared of them. this is kind of just the final nail on the coffin for me. it's not like i'm hurting anyone with my decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:15 PM
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agreed! every wlw relationship i've had was much less toxic than any straight relationship i've been in
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:13 PM
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i dont "hate men" but im scared of them due to past negative experiences. and why is me refusing to have sex with men "man hating?" it's my body and i set my boundaries. it isn't worth it for me to have sex with men at this point, so i wont.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:13 PM
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you do realize how the morning after pill works... right? it prevents pregnancy... it isn't an abortion pill. it does nothing if you're already pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:00 AM
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i don't have casual sex in the first place with men, but i honestly might stop having sex with men altogether at this point.. im more attracted to women and even though im on birth control, it isnt worth the risk. ive always been scared of and wary of men, and this happening has only worsened it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:57 AM
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women orgasm consistently much more in lesbian relationships to... should tell you something
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:30 AM
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if someone was raped and panics anytime sexual contact is had, it's gonna take them more than a few fucking weeks to heal from an incredibly traumatizing, painful, and violating experience
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:00 PM
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honestly? ive met way more interesting, not shallow, and witty women than i have men. most of the toxic stereotypes men here apply to women i've experienced more with men. maybe its because im a woman so i relate to them more, but i always find my relationships with women are much more enjoyable and fulfilling than my relationships with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:58 AM
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"i dont think theres any trauma so bad you can't work through it in a few weeks" words spoken from the mouth of a man who has never had anything traumatic happen to him in his lifetime and doesn't bother to understand how serious trauma affects people. you gotta be fucking joking
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:35 AM
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did you also want to kill yourself when you were single?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:25 AM
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yes. i dated someone who had trouble getting hard for a while and it honestly wasn't an issue for me. i like sex and have a decent sex drive, but it isnt a requirement for me to have a fulfilling relationship, and i like no sex a lot better than someone constantly pushing me for sex. it doesnt matter to me if they want to have sex or not, if i love them then i love them. plus, i can make myself feel way better than anyone else can, so its not like i'll be lacking stimulation. i hate how many com…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:23 AM
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i honestly think the first girl is way more attractive than the second one...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:49 AM
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why is FDS gone and not the red pill when it's essentially the same thing? shows me just where the moderators priorities lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:43 PM
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everyone goes for their ideal. you're telling me that you don't go for your ideal type of partner? why are women "shallow gold diggers" for wanting to date someone they like? are you telling me that men try and marry women they have no attraction to whatsoever as pity? if you had the choice between your ideal partner or someone that doesn't meet your standards at all, we both know who you'd choose. why is it a bad thing to have standards and turn ons and want to go for them? that's how the work …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 01:46 AM
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woman here: i don't want a 6'4 millionaire chad. why do you assume that you're right instead of getting experience by talking to and dating women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 01:37 AM
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yep, multiple times! results have definitely varied though. haven't ever wrote it down on a note, just went up and got to the point, said they were cute and i wanted their number. ive only been rejected when the guy said he had a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:40 PM
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and that is somehow better than the actually study proving you wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:32 AM
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tinder profiles of a few select women do not prove that ALL women cheat. the mental gymnastics are unreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:27 AM
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no. no it isn't. netflix movies made by big producers that have FICTIONAL CHARACTERS cheating aren't valid sources. if i gave you examples of movies where men cheat and get away with it, you would scream "THE MEDIA IS MAKING US LOOK BAD HURR DURR ITS LYING." anything that doesn't support you; you deny. you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:27 AM
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2 hours, 2 minutes, and still no proof! shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:26 AM
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dude. go to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:25 AM
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you can't use netflix movies as a source. that's not how this works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:24 AM
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that isn't a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:24 AM
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"reddit adultery" is not a valid source. it's a bunch of people on a single social media platform talking about cheating. that is not a source. they don't check to see what accounts are fake either...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:22 AM
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so you said you had stats, and then you backtrack and say "THE STATS R SKEWED HURR DURR" when you don't have any and only have a blog to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:21 AM
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can you prove that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:20 AM
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IM biased? you're funny. you have 0 sources to back yourself up, you've been shot down multiple times and you're spewing the same bullshit about "women are liars" with nothing but gender bias on your side. you're hilarious, really. and im laughing AT you, not with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:20 AM
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just because women have easier access to sex doesn't automatically mean they cheat more? you have 0 valid sources backing your claims, no one has reason to believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:18 AM
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do you have sources or not? you've provided 0 facts, just biased takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:17 AM
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you're generalizing big time here dude. 20% of men and 13% of women... remember that. still don't have any of those sources you claim to have
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:17 AM
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it's been an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:14 AM
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proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:11 AM
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it's been an hour bud
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:09 AM
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no it isn't. you have provided 0 proof. you have been shot down with valid arguments multiple times. for the love of god shut the fuck up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:09 AM
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really? how do you know that? prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:07 AM
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you keep saying shit but never back it up...methinks this is bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:07 AM
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men statistically cheat more. unless you can somehow prove this to me without some bullshit like "women r manipulative whores" or some other gender biased bullshit i ain't listening
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:03 AM
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53 minutes now...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:03 AM
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or just don't cheat?? you can't be blaming women for being cheated on....this is just victim blaming at its peak. there's no justification for cheating. are you saying women somehow deserve to be cheated on if they have low libido or just aren't as affectionate as others? the mental gymnastics is atrocious. the root of cheating is cheaters. not anything else. you shouldn't have to "keep" someone loyal. if they cheat on you "because" of something chances are they'd do it to you regardless. why eq…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 10:10 PM
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thats really not how it works, coming from a young person in the dating scene. plenty of guys i know who get hella pussy aren't even close to "top 20%" you dont know anything about OP's looks or lifestyle, stop projecting onto him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:56 AM
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condoms arent fullproof
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:53 AM
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i think you'll regret that as you get older and want to find someone to settle down with
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:52 AM
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what does that have to do with anything? why bring that up in a conversation about age as a "gotcha?"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 06:10 PM
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because the majority of women are straight and not attracted to other women and would feel uncomfortable dating a woman. if men are hornier and typically prioritize sex, why not date other men? if you're straight you're not gonna consider dating the same sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:27 PM
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any man that even hints at wanting an "open relationship" is immediately off the table
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:53 PM
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so youre saying the average incel goes to the gym multiple times a week and does sports regularly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:09 PM
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im around 5'7 and work out and lift weights regularly, as well as play sports 5 times a week. i have a good amount of muscle and am more fit than half of these men. i could take them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:09 PM
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probably because its mainly men here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:20 AM
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i think i attract the wrong type of guy. maybe its that, or maybe i just dont vet enough. but i always seem to fall for the ones that hurt me. even my most recent one, who was very different from my other exes, still hurt me. its always "it isnt you its me." maybe its because im young, but all of them hurt me or leave me in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:20 PM
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no one said it wasnt...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:14 AM
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we think those things, we just dont verbalize them because we know what that feels like and a majority of us arent assholes. we're just respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:12 AM
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all of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:02 PM
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im 99.9% sure that the linked FDS server is a parody. and a damn good one too, its hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:12 PM
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care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:54 PM
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i wish this was true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:55 PM
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no, they complain that men assault and cat call them. which anyone could complain about because its gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:55 PM
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reading through this subreddit makes me really grateful that im attracted to women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:37 PM
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red pill men don't want loving, long term relationships. they want to control their partner. there are no benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:19 PM
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depends on the circumstances and how they looked, im attracted to slightly chubby girls but not as much in guys, so that would matter too. if they were starting a new medication or had something bad happen i'd stick with them, but if they just let themself go and i wasn't attracted to them we'd break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:15 AM
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glad u liked it boo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:36 PM
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i made an entire power point. https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/18WO67wLsrunwJEcA3amafsUEoOtsbFAi6LZKRqBXWOM/edit?usp=sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:08 PM
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spoiler alert: just because you don't see something doesn't mean it doesn't happen! weight can be genetic due to thyroid and hormone issues (not saying someone can't be healthy with them.) why do you think eating disorders are mostly diagnosed in women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:57 PM
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take a look at any incel subreddit. "wah wah im fat women don't want me" "wah wah im under 6 foot so women don't want me" "wah wah women only want gigachads" your perception of the few women you've seen online doesn't represent all women. who runs the weight loss industry? women, thats who.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 12:56 PM
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oh yikes, not the old russian lady coming after a little american girl! you're not special for coming from a shitty country and scamming a visa from an american guy :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:59 PM
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read this in a thick russian accent with a snotty nasally ass tone. it fits you!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:09 PM
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not you acting like you personally did shit lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:00 PM
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i don't sleep around, ive only had sex with people i've liked or been in relationships with. i don't think a body count of 2 counts as sleeping around. thanks for assuming that though, it adds to my point because you're doing exactly what im talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:20 PM
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the most common form of human trafficking is sex trafficking, by about 79%. sex trafficking effects an estimated 40.3 million people globally. i know people who have been sex trafficked. my mother was almost sex trafficked, and she knows people who were victims of it. the fact that you don't need to worry about it and avoid it shows me that you are incredibly privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:54 PM
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doesn't mean that abortion isn't traumatic in and of itself, and many places are banning it or placing tight restrictions on it. https://www.wcsap.org/help/about-sexual-assault/how-often-does-it-happen because rape and sex trafficking happening to women frequently isn't enough for you to take it seriously, heres a source on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:50 PM
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after observing my life as a woman, i say i'd rather be a male who can't get laid than be raped
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:47 PM
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women are MUCH more likely to be victims of sex crimes and sex trafficking. Women, at least in the U.S, are often treated less seriously, or we have our skills doubted (we haven't had a female president yet, and recently we just had our first female vice president. wouldnt the roles be reversed if women had it better?) women attempt suicide more than men but aren't successful, but men tend to succeed more often. both attempt at about the same rate. why do women have it so well? explain every asp…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:47 PM
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ah yes, because worrying about pregnancy, rape, sex trafficking, and a plethora of other things is definitley better than being a man and not being able to get your dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:47 AM
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grass is always greener on the other side, isn't it? you assume women have a better life until you live our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:46 AM
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i really love long hair on guys. i dated a guy with hair past his shoulders (longer than mine at the time) and i had SO MUCH FUN just playing with it and doing different hair styles on him. he loved it too. im just generally not as attracted to shorter hair, and long hair is my weakness. this isn't a MUST by any means, but if a guy has longer hair its 10 extra points. i don't date overweight people in general, or people with poor hygeine. if they don't take care of themselves, thats an automatic…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:44 PM
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what do you mean by that? im against poor people being forced into dangerous jobs as a whole, not just for prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:58 PM
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poor women DO make up the majority of prostitutes. no wealthy woman is going to willingly be a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:35 PM
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Thank you. Men want women and children to suffer for their inessential pleasures and it's disgusting. They don't care who they hurt as long as they can get their dick wet. Rich men prostituting poor minority women? Feel sorry for the guy, its the womens fault for not liking him! Men make me sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:34 AM
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American citizens are not the pinnacle of amazing choices, them being split on the ethicality of prostitution is not the point you think it is. In countries where prostitution is legal, women of racial minority and low economic status make up the majority of prostitutes, suggesting it is either forced or an act of desperation. "The sheer volume of foreign women in the German prostitution industry suggests that these women were trafficked into Germany, a process euphemistically described as facil…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:06 PM
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Wrong! Australia and Germany have their fair share of sex trafficking due to legalized prostitution, Take a look. https://www.abc.net.au/religion/australia-outsourcing-sexual-abuse-to-asian-women/13284728 Prostitution targets women in poverty and women of minority races. "One argument for legalizing prostitution in the Netherlands was that legalization would help to end the exploitation of desperate immigrant women who had been trafficked there for prostitution. However, one report found that 80…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:01 PM
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https://catwinternational.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/Ten-Reasons-for-NOT-Legalizing-Prostitution.pdf Great source for this topic. Prostitution is abusive and dangerous and should not be made legal under any circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:51 PM
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One study with data from 150 countries found that those with “legalized prostitution experience a larger reported incidence of trafficking inflows.” (Does Legalized Prostitution Increase Human Trafficking?: pp. 76) Another quantitative analysis similarly reported that sex trafficking is “most prevalent in countries where prostitution is legalized.” (The Law and Economics of International Sex Slavery: Prostitution Laws and Trafficking for Sexual Exploitation: pp. 87) Regulated prostitution increa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:48 PM
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no politician in their right mind is going to allow prostitution to be legal (thus increasing the ongoing issue of sex trafficking and women feeling forced to sell their bodies for money) so a few men can get laid and "fix the dating market." thats ridiculously outlandish, stupid, and it amazes me that anyone could think that this is a good idea. the link between human trafficking and prostitution is very obvious and difficult to erase. why must women suffer immensely, gain trauma, or possibly d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:38 PM
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dude you literally have the black pill tag
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:33 PM
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yeah men are doing that and its a problem, but that has nothing to do with women wearing whatever the fuck they want at the gym. women shouldn't have to hide themselves because of mens objectification. funny how you're in these comments calling women whores and then immediatley blaming your internalized misogyny on men and feigning concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:02 PM
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how do you know? did you take that EXACT dance class with that EXACT dance instructor at that EXACT gym they went to? no? then you can't say they're lying about a specific situation they were in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:06 AM
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you know youre in the wrong when incels are agreeing with you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:17 AM
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thats so back-handed, dude you're giving off real pick me vibes rn
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:10 AM
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you're going to have a very limited love life from now on ig
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:17 PM
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literally this meme goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:58 PM
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LEGIT i could beat a good chunk of these men in a fight
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:58 PM
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its true, and it sucks. dont disagree with you on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:03 AM
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this "captainquestionasker" guy SUCKS, i have experiences with him commenting gross shit on my posts. best to block him and move away
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:06 PM
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not completley, but you can work on it as an elementary school kiddo i was weird asf, ran around on all 4s and barked at people, bit other kids, tried to escape multiple times, the works. the other kids could sense something was wrong with me (i was later diagnosed with autism) and bullied me into oblivion. when you think of severe bullying you definitley don't picture 3rd graders, but those kids are fucking nasty. i had kids take stuff out of my desk and throw it at me, social rejection, mean n…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:04 PM
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if you self identify as an incel you should get off reddit and get in an intensive therapy session
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:48 PM
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good job, soldier
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:35 PM
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men: women will fuck anything also men: *insert variety of animals, bringing syphilis into effect for humans*
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:30 PM
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definitley don't starve yourself/purge to achieve that, i like em a lil chubby too. cute ass squishy tummies r just as cute as bony guys. i struggled with that and it fucked me up, my hair fell out and i passed out all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:38 AM
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im not active on that account parents strictly monitered the account and didn't want my body in anything when it was active
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:47 PM
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false- i like em to be skinny as a skeleton and look like they're on the brink of starvation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:28 PM
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it makes no sense thats the fuckin point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:15 PM
1

dude my mom would kill me if there was even the slightest hint of cleavage
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:15 PM
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yea i don't do that either... i just have a flair related to the fucking community. dude how dense do you have to be. if you act like an incel, im gonna call you an incel. if you say blatantly homophobic shit, im gonna call you homophobic. never said i didn't like men, but the men on HERE act like fuckwads. ive dated plenty of men in my life and loved them. don't make assumptions about my life. i really don't want a boyfriend at this time in my life, ive got too much shit going on to pay attenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:20 AM
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its my flair because this is a subreddit about dating and relationships. it is relevant to mention what genders i date in a subreddit about dating. its not that hard of a concept to wrap your head around. if my flair was "straight man" you wouldn't be complaining. "its not much of a surprise that youre bi" "lmao of course a bi girl calling everyone incels" wanna tell me thats not homophobic? nah im bi cause i like tits, don't go on some homophobic spcheel. dude, go outside and interact with some…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:43 PM
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substitute victorian era for american colonists ya fucking nerd, point still stands
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:39 PM
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literally how does my sexuality have anything to do with this... your homophobia is shining through dude!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:17 PM
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incel=lol u get no pussy also ur a sad sack of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:03 PM
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never said it wasnt. both are bad, that doesn't refute my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:02 PM
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damn, i hit the spot, didn't i?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:34 PM
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r/wooooooosh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:33 PM
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wheres my money? if you give me $20 ill delete the post. do it. gimme money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:01 PM
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ah yes, because telling incels who hate women that they hate women is misandry. and i was being sarcastic with "you are all pigs" nice job missing the joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:00 PM
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and you're the incel that i clown, get off your high horse
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:59 PM
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i posted that first comment ever after a break up, so i was going through a rough time. kind of weird for you to weaponize that after stalking my account. dude, you're an adult man making fun of little girls on reddit. if anyone needs to get a life, its you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:25 PM
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and you're a hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:24 PM
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virtue signaling: the action or practice of publicly expressing opinions or sentiments intended to demonstrate one's good character or the moral correctness of one's position on a particular issue. "it's noticeable how often virtue signaling consists of saying you hate things" an example of virtue signaling would be saying you support a movement, while doing absolutley nothing to actually help that movement, instead just saying you support it. me offering my two cents on gender and sex related i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:23 PM
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i literally never said it did..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:19 PM
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moi? dude im just bored lmao, i have a healthy sexual and social life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:18 PM
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you misused the term virtue signaling...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:57 PM
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you're very welcome. im getting a fuck ton of karma and a fuck ton of entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:55 PM
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im southern lmao its a habit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:54 PM
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dude its purge week and im just ranting for fun, not about to use proper capitalization lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:53 PM
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if you have a male body but feel female and want to be female, i suggest looking into trans and genderfluid subreddits! live your truth girly :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:52 PM
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i literally have nothing better to do bro
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:51 PM
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show this comment to someone in the victorian era and their head would explode
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:48 PM
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QUEEN HI OMG
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:48 PM
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good luck dude
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:46 PM
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don't hate men, actually love most of em!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:46 PM
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the way you censored woman... go outside, interact with some real life women, and make some friends. get a social life, then we'll talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:45 PM
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if you hate women because of what youve read on an incel subreddit you need to a. go and touch some grass and b. get some therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:44 PM
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im a teen, im exploring sexually and have a shit ton of hormones, most teens are gonna end up having sex. its a normal teen thing. except not for you, because you're still a 40 year old virgin :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:42 PM
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i literally cannot see how this has to do with me at all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:40 PM
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every girl i've had sex with/dated has been pretty cool ngl, if one of my girlfriends was crazy and mean i'd simply dump her. cheers!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:38 PM
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THANK YOU. these guys cant see sarcasm if it slaps them in the face with its massive sweaty balls
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:35 PM
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im on winter break and bored as hell dude i literally have nothing better to do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:31 PM
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shut up andy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:31 PM
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okay now you're just misusing terms to sound smart. its not working dude. i have a healthy sexual and social life, seems like you don't have either of those. i'll bet that i've had more human interaction in a week than you have 6 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:29 PM
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thank you. these men are 30 living in their moms basement and think they have more insight than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:25 PM
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you 100% did, glad we see eye to eye
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:23 AM
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sorry bout that. how can i help you feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:23 AM
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live your truth bud
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:22 AM
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ah yes, me knowing the definition between two words you implied you knew the difference between is me being a nerd. dude. im a 16 year old girl besting you in an argument. i just said bested. wanna see me say it again? BESTED. ill shove this bested right up your ass. dont worry, its loose enough now that i anal fucked you with my foot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:22 AM
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THANK YOU goddamnit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:08 AM
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you're grown up and bantering with a little girl? don't you have anything better to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:07 AM
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dude, you turned a legit argument into ad hominem because you lost. you got bested by a little girl. L
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:06 AM
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misogyny is the hatred of women, sexism is the belief that one gender (women in this case) are subservient/less than. you'll be subservient as hell when i shove my foot up your ass, itll be rough though as you're clenching it from getting bested by a little girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:06 AM
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im pissed at the men who act like this, and i have a right to. "you are all pigs." is a nice and logistic argument, so sorry for responding to your scholarly debate with sarcastic banter. happy new years!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:04 AM
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i have a right to be pissed at the male entitlement and sexism ive experienced my whole life. dude youre a grown man getting bested by a child, take the L.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:02 AM
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people put their pronouns in their bio cause thats how they wanna be referred to, i don't see how it has anything to do with this. this subreddit discusses sex and relationships, so offering my two cents as someone who dates guys and girls make sense, no? okay dude, what makes you more qualified to be here than me? go on, ill wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:01 AM
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im a 16 year old girl. i am a child. although, this child is besting you in your argument (that you've swiftly turned to ad hominem.)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:00 AM
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i disagree in treating sex like a transaction, so we're on the same page
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:58 AM
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calling out men on their entitlement and misogyny is not "misandry." nice try tho. if you aren't exhibiting the behaviors im talking about then im not talking to you. god gave you a brain, use it dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:58 AM
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all this "little girl" talk is giving me the creeps, is that your kink or something? nasty man. go drive out to some shoddy liquor store and drink until you kill your organs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:56 AM
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dude, how old are you to be talking like that. if youre over the age of 35 i feel bad as hell for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:55 AM
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i am not throwing around the words because they apply to what im talking about. im a woman and i know what sexism is because ive experienced it my whole fucking life. my entire life ive experienced male entitlement, and if you're a man im gonna go ahead and say that i know more about this than you do, cause ive experienced it firsthand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:54 AM
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what, vs you being an adult and being a stupid fuck on the internet? sucks dude. im just a teenage girl whos bored with nothing better to do, if you're an adult thats this dedicated to reddit you need to go outside. how about taking a look at the real world, yknow not the internet, and realizing that there doesn't need to be one gender leading the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:53 AM
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is there medication for mental retardation? you should get on that dude
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:51 AM
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ah yes, because revealing my sexuality on a subreddit that discusses sex and relationships=parading! good job, amazing logic there buddy. you don't have insight if i dont have insight dude, fuck do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:51 AM
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jokes on you i take zoloft ya fuckin needledick
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:48 AM
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as opposed to no one being subservient to anyone?? are you retarded or just dyslexic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:47 AM
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yea, i posted that after a rough breakup, i was in a bad spot at the time. nice job stalking my profile btw, that totally discredits my entire argument!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:46 AM
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at first i felt bad for them and wanted to help out, but after getting multiple death and rape threats any ounce of pity was washed away. yeah im a 16 year old girl, you expect me to be in an arranged marriage or something? of course im not gonna have a stable relationship, im a mentally unstable teen surrounded by other mentally unstable teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:45 AM
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thanks boo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:44 AM
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LMAOOOO okay
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:44 AM
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my parents and teachers wouldn't be appalled that im standing up against sexism. they shouldn't be, im not the type of person to let that shit fly. if i was an older man saying this same shit you would respect me a hell of a lot more and not throw my argument aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:43 AM
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you're that old and being a sexist piece of shit to teenage girls on the internet? bro... believing that women are subservient to men is the textbook definition of sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:41 AM
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not even going to both googling that because i know its some completley absurd example thats going to be used to justify mens bad behavior. im not saying men are bad for not approaching me, but men shouldn't be attacking me for having the audacity to complain about the same shit they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:40 AM
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no im calling this man LITERALLY SAYING HE IS ABOVE WOMEN sexism. thats the textbook definition of sexism. CAN YOU FUCKING READ HOLY SHIT
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:39 AM
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im a girl thats experienced literally everything im talking about... yeah ive got a fuck ton of insight
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:38 AM
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no...you assume the women you interact with online are indicative of the entire female gender because you need to go outside and touch some fucking grass
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:18 AM
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im saying "you" as a general callout to the people who act like that. if you don't act like that, its not directed towards you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:17 AM
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women on this subreddit don't represent the entire female gender
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:14 AM
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literally just don't be sexist. its not that hard. you can critique women without being sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:14 AM
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if i hated men as much as they hated women i'd still be a virgin, maybe if men stop being misogynystic they'll get a girlfriend.. nah, thats impossible for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:13 AM
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thanks dude
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:12 AM
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im 16, and im on christmas break tyvm :) misogyny is your hobby? dude if youre over the age of 40 and on here i pity you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:11 AM
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heres a thought: women are not a hivemind! i do not represent every single woman ever! we are different human beings with different experiences. i dont know why you refuse to see women as human beings. all women don't have the same experiences. shocker! if a guy im not interested in approaches me, i don't get mad at him or act like he's a bad person. i just turn him down politely. you're seeing a "mean girl stacey" stereotype that you see men on reddit talk about and applying it to the entire fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:11 AM
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you look about 45. dude, go get a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:01 AM
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jokes on you i gotta 7 inch strap on
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:59 AM
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its confusing at best
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:59 AM
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imma cowboy baby
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:58 AM
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sick background, wheres the picture taken at?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:57 AM
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mwah ilyyyyy <3
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:56 AM
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really? im sure as hell not subservient to some incel reddit man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:55 AM
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woman here: i definitley feel love and i am a human being, just like you. i suggest you go outside and touch some fucking grass. go outside dude. get a hobby. it aint that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:41 AM
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dude just go to a porn site instead of being weird
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:39 AM
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what is this, the 60s?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:34 AM
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you're*
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:34 AM
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yep! anyone can be a rapist, and anyone can be a victim of rape. women can rape men, women can rape women, men can rape women, men can rape men. rape done by anyone to anyone is bad, end of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:33 AM
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just like i obliterated ur moms pussy last night
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:31 AM
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as a conventionally attractive woman BRO I WISH. it would be so cool if i could just do whatever i wanted and get away with it. too bad thats not how this works :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:16 AM
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yep, this is what i mean when i say this subreddit is just watered down incel posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:14 AM
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im conventionally attractive, doesn't mean i get male attention that easy. i almost never get approached in public. me being 16 probably has something to do with that, but i've had guys think im 21+
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:12 AM
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you can go without sex and physically be fine. asexual people, monks, and other religious persons go without sex and are fine. if you stop treating sex like a necessity and get a fucking hobby, it'll stop being one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:04 AM
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most of it is watered down incel content, slut shaming women, and red pill content.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:08 AM
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yea this subreddit is mostly watered down incel content and slut shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:06 AM
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this doesn't feel like a gender issue and more you ranting...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:49 PM
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im fairly young (16) so i don't get approached by older men most of the time. i don't have a job (covid also im young) and the only places i frequent are school and the barn where i keep my horse, and i don't get hit on any of those places. the few romantic/sexual partners ive had were met on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:44 PM
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im single and hot but i am NOT a good person by any means, im also self aware so i dont put myself on a pedestal, my standards are fairly low
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:29 PM
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no the few guys i have dated were absolute bums i CRAVE attention im not picky
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:28 PM
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im single and hot and i tell you it is not by choice
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:17 PM
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ive always approached guys in public and im usually the one who initiates hanging out and interaction all the time, it sucks cause i want a relationship thats 50/50 but im the one putting in all the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:16 PM
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nope, had multiple men lie their number down to me and my friends. had a guy with a body count of 20 tell me it was 3 before fucking me, and then immediately tell me the truth after. men do that shit to get with women all the time. all the fucking time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:26 PM
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abortion is always an option for unwanted pregnancies if you're not ready for parenting as well, but if i bring that up it'll end up being a debate on personhood and the ethicality of abortion which i don't have the energy to debate, but as of now in the U.S its an option. a lot of guys will leave you the second they hear you're pregnant, which is a down side to that. if you think you can handle the consequences, then you can have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:44 PM
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how does being in a commited relationship lessen the risks? if you use protection the std risk is about the same, as is the pregnancy risk. any sex is risky. its none of your business what women do with their bodies, it isn't hurting you, and you really can't do anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:18 PM
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any sex leads to that if you're not careful. you might as well start judging sex out of wedlock with that perspective. but that wouldn't benefit you, would it? no, slut shaming other women benefits you, so you do that. all sex has risks (STDs, pregnancy, etc) so why have sex at all? because the benefits outweigh the risks, at least for the indivuals. no one is saying you need to have casual sex, but you should mind your damn business instead of shaming women who want to have casual sex. (nevermi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:25 PM
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okay, and i'll go ahead and say the same for men. theres no proof that women as a whole lie about their body count more than men, i'd disagree with you and say men lie more. so why only address women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:54 PM
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and why is their sexual activity any of your business? why defend men who judge entire groups of people based on the actions of another? if a woman wants to have casual sex its no ones business but the two people engaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:53 PM
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misogyny is the hatred and strong prejudice against women. why do you hate an entire gender? i would argue that hating an entire group of people just for their sex, something they can't control, is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:52 PM
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and do you agree that the people who judge an entire group based on the actions of a few are hypocritical and close minded? if you hate men because a few were mean to you, you would agree thats close minded, yes? but when its the other way around its suddenly fine. women who do whatever the fuck they want with their bodies are not the ones disadvantaging you, its the men who assume all women are liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:50 PM
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exactly. they sound just like this, they hate women and want any excuse to shit on them, even for things they themselves do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:47 PM
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okay, and i could say the same for men. men lie about their body count too, ive seen it happen to my friends and had it happen to me. but you're blaming women as if only women do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:46 PM
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"ah yes, because a random girl on the internet is part of the female gender, so she is definitley lying because some girl lied to me in college and now im TRAUMATIZED :(" this is what you sound like bro and men do the same shit lying about their body count, had it happen to me multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:44 PM
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there shouldn't be a "primarily." if men automatically assume you're lying about your sexual activity its on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:32 AM
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maybe the men who assume you're lying about your sexual activity are at fault here... just a thought
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:28 AM
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i think that its none of my business what other women do with their lives, and no one should be dicks about it. is it hurting you? no? then shut your mouth. women do the same thing men do and are the villains. every. single. time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:27 AM
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dude look at her page. then decide if this is a person you want to defend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 05:02 PM
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dude just look at yourself. you're desperate for male attention and its sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:13 AM
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thanks boo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:42 PM
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genetics are a blessing! im built like an anime girl and pretty happy about it, you have to make yourself hurl to get anywhere close to me, and it still isn't enough, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:09 PM
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and yet, one look at your profile suggests you whore yourself out for sweaty neckbeards!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:07 PM
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im stuck in the house with covid, and this is hella entertaining to me. continue whining about being different and "not like other girls" though, just more laughs for me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:07 PM
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sweetie... you've got a classic dog face. your face is too wide and masculine to be remotely pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:10 PM
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25 inch waist with a fat ass and F cup titties here, its not impossible :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:09 PM
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and yet you go online and grovel for male attention. you're such a sad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:08 PM
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also the funeral directors choice, girl you're hanging onto deaths doorstep!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:53 PM
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sweetie i know that the anorexic fetishists tell you how good skeletons look, but in the real world men want curves. look at the top porn search results, sure as hell not "near death skeleton girl"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:53 PM
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movie stars and rich men go for women with money, not by their body types. and look at the kardashians, they used to be skinny and now have their fame from being thick, look at melania trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:50 PM
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you should wear makeup, only surgery can fix that ugly dog face you've got going on, but if you slap on some mascara maybe you'll look slightly prettier
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:47 PM
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no one wants to fuck a bag of bones, runway models perform for other women and gay men in the fashion industry, people want curves and tiny waists. i must be lightyears younger than you, and my tits and ass are about 10x as big as yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:46 PM
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in this day and age, gold standard is small waist, fat ass, and big tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:00 AM
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the fact that you've accepted it... you've got the face of a 50 year old woman and the body of a 10 year old boy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:00 AM
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fuck is an LMS? talk normally and stop living online.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:59 AM
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ew i took one look at your profile and you're actually anorexic. yikes! hope you work through your issues and stop starving yourself for male approval. i feel bad for you, i really do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:11 AM
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of course not all women prefer it, i don't speak for all of us. but a large majority of women do work out, and we do it at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:10 AM
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if someone was to choose between a thicc girl with thicc thighs and nice tits or an anorexic looking skeleton of a woman, the sane persons choice would be obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:09 AM
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girl, you're a bag of bones, you look malnourished. fancying yourself isn't helping. if you're lucky maybe you'll be used as some pedos fantasy or a beard for a gay man. if straight guys wanted sticks, they'd go for other guys. as someone who's attracted to women, bony girls are a huge turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:07 AM
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let me tell you something. "red pill" isn't a threat to anyone. OF creators don't see one man saying "simp bad lol" and go shaking in their boots. you aren't powerful, you aren't a threat. chill and get off your facade of a power high. no one is scared of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:59 PM
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it really doesn't, it makes him unattractive in my eyes. i don't want to bother with competing against his "girl best friend." if i really like him i'll get insanely jealous, but i am mentally ill with trust issues so maybe thats just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:53 PM
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oh sweetie, the men fawning over you just want something that they can pretend is a child. hate to break it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:42 PM
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nah only the pedophile types, the normal ones like women with meat on them. the only people that like the anorexic types are either pedos who want a flat girl, or male anorexics. no one wants to fuck a skeleton.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:41 PM
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girl shut up you a whole stick
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:37 PM
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thats because we prefer working out at home to public gyms. i used to work out at public gyms, until i caught a man sneaking pictures of me and watching me really weirdly (i was 14 at the time) and now i work out in the comfort of my own home. i hate having people look at me while i work out, cause then i'll get self concious. just because you don't see it, doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:29 PM
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i don't see why this is framed as womens fault... its the men who fetishize fat women and give them attention, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:25 PM
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I highly doubt that, and I hope you figure out your sexuality and maybe go to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:25 PM
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This teenager has better grammar than you, maybe work on that sweetheart
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 12:17 AM
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I have not deleted one comment on this post. Moderators have removed this as well as multiple comments (mostly comments agreeing with me, hmm wonder why!) But i have not deleted one comment. If your comment was deleted, it was done by a moderator. You're a man. You'll never understand because you've never had to go through this shit. Your comment may sound patronizing because it is fucking patronizing. Just because you're older than me and a "skilled internet debater" (lamest fuckin self-awarded…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:38 PM
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thank you so much. this subreddit has a lot of promotion of rape culture and other disgusting shit. its basically a watered down incel forum at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:44 PM
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maybe you're the issue, dude. you're the common denominator. if women hate you, EVERY woman hates you, then its something you need to work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:44 PM
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are you talking about reproduction? we're overpopulated, so not an issue. im biased because im saying that sex is not crucial for survival... okay then. answer me this, straight on, honestly, can you go your whole life having sex and not die FROM not having sex (not counting suicide, ive been over that bullshit take already) the problem is men treating sex like a transaction and thinking they are deserving of it. i assure you PLENTY of men think they are owed free domain of womens bodies, a few …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:43 PM
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you know what? if this is cruelty, then so be it, i have the right to be cruel. because when i'm nice about it, no one listens. when women are nice and sweet and polite, shit doesn't get done. if me not walking on eggshells to spare mens feelings is cruelty, so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:40 PM
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thats not what this post is about, so quit chalking it up to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:39 PM
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im blonde with green eyes... not that it matters? at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:38 PM
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the post states that women don't owe you sex. you're disagreeing with the post, so you disagree with my statement. all im saying is: you are not entitled to free domain of womens bodies just because you are a man. being born doesn't mean you "deserve" sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:37 PM
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i never said it was. i said the simple statement, "you are not entitled to womens bodies."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:36 PM
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yea it is my opinion. and as a woman who's had men become irate with me for rejecting them kindly, i did nothing wrong in rejecting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:35 PM
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because it is. you do not need sex to survive. you can go your entire life without sex and live and be healthy. plenty of people do it. it is not something you need to live a healthy life and i am firm on that. you can want sex sure, but you don't deserve it for simply existing. if you get mad because someone doesn't want to fuck you, im gonna go ahead and call you a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:32 PM
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yeah you CAN get mad, but that doesn't mean your anger is valid. get as angry as you want when Becky doesn't want to fuck you, just know that she's well within her rights to decline. your feelings of anger in that situation are not valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:29 PM
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okay, now you're being ridiculous. can we agree that comparing sex to food in terms of necessity is fucking ridiculous, right? sex is not something you need to survive. plenty of people go their whole lives without sex. women do not HAVE to give you free domain of their bodies. that is my argument. women don't HAVE to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:27 PM
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i think it certainly is a reason and its sad, but reasoning doesn't excuse them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:22 PM
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agreed. second i'm old enough, im buying a gun and a tazer. and i'll use them whenever i feel threatened.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:21 PM
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no.. it isn't. its just saying that women don't owe you sex. do you think women owe you sex? thats gross dude. im not attacking anyone, i'm saying that you aren't entitled to free domain of womens bodies. my own small life experience? this kind of behavior and thinking is what gets people raped, it's what happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:20 PM
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that has nothing to do with what we're talking about, don't go off track to twist it around. im not buying your evil society joker shit, if someone doesn't want to have sex with someone else, they don't have to. you are promoting rape, that is what you are doing. don't twist it around to make me the bad guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:18 PM
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Okay then, you're a shitty person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:55 AM
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I'm not talking about guys I willingly go for in this post. I am talking about countless GROWN MEN who act like this to me. I don't go for grown men, they go for me. Trust me, I've tried to give the "losers" a chance, didn't work out how you think it did. I've never hooked up with or dated a "jock." Surprisingly enough, all women don't act like the ones that rejected you in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:54 AM
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I don't think you understand what I'm saying. I'm talking about manipulation, he knows its manipulation, he knows what hes doing, she doesnt. Stop bringing up examples that I'm not talking about. You're dodging the crux of my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:52 AM
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Well if I decline the things that men give completley unprompted, guess what? I'm a "bitch" I'm "cold" I'm "jumping to conclusions" and "narcisstic" all things I've heard myself when declining mens advances. We can't win. If you don't want to lose your shit, don't give it out completley unprompted. Easy fix, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:51 AM
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A lot! Look through these comments, a lot of them think they're entitled. I've talked to a lot that literally endorse rape. In this post. It's not hard to find them. I don't think EVERY man thinks that, obviously I dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:47 AM
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By "help themselves to it" you mean rape. If you "help yourself" to a womans body without consent, that is rape, and it is a crime. There's no social duty to have sex, unless you're talking about reproduction. (We're overpopulated if anything, so not an issue.) Your comment is incredibly rapey and concerning. Yeah, society SHOULD prevent you from raping women. What the fuck is wrong with you. I can choose who I want to sleep with because I don't have to sleep with people I don't want to. No one …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:46 AM
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It isn't biologically a cost. You're just not doing it right. Sex is incredibly fulfilling for both sexes if done right. A good portion of men have no idea how to please women, or simply don't care. If your partner views sex with you as costly, then you're bad at sex. I don't know what else to tell you dude. You're bad at sex. Asexual people can be in relationships, they just need to communicate it. If you're asexual, then you should communicate that to your partner. Dude, just don't date asexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:42 AM
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Plenty of religious occupations forbade sex, and they are content. What you're arguing is a complete appeal to ignorance, you're being difficult for the sake of it. Yes, food and water are relevant comparisons. It's a fucking comparison. Please learn how to competently debate before wasting everyones time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:40 AM
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I think the government should prioritize feeding citizens, not the citizens themselves taking charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:36 AM
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Do you have evidence to support that, enough to say that ghosting needs to be done? Because theres copious amounts of evidence that alcohol effects men differently than women, men often become more belligerent. If you agree with my statement, why argue with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:35 AM
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I'm not complaining, I'm stating what is FACT. You are not owed free domain of womens bodies. Also, I was raped by a man who couldn't take no for an answer. The mindset that men are owed sex by women leads to this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:33 AM
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If they did change their mind then fine, different story. Thats not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about doing that with INTENT.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:31 AM
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I'm not saying that no one should have sex ever. Have sex with whoever you want, so long as they consent. What I AM saying is that you are not OWED sex. You can have it, but it is not women's problem if they don't want to have it with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:30 AM
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I agree with your first paragraph. No one is owed anything, that is my argument. I started this "argument" and if I wanted to get out of it, I'd delete the post. If you disagree with the statement "women don't owe you use of our bodies" then you disagree with me. Otherwise, I don't understand why you're arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:29 AM
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Sex is not equivalent to family, shelter, and emotion. A celibate person still needs to have emotional connections with others. I don't understand why a simple statement such as "you are not owed free domain of womens bodies" encites this much debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:27 AM
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I never said they didn't. I'm only 16 and I have more of a sense than grown men, which scares me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:25 AM
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I'm allowed to speak on this, I may be 16 but I've had enough men treat me as if I'm an adult. If I'm old enough for men to treat me like a piece of meat, I'm old enough to stand up for myself and other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:24 AM
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And treating others like shit helps change that...how?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:22 AM
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It's upsetting, and even more upsetting that I'm not surprised whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:20 AM
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if someone dies because they didn't have sex (which has never been recorded and is highly unlikely) then they are a medical anamoly and their case shouldn't be treated as normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:16 AM
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plenty of people go their whole lives without sex and are fine. you can go your whole life without having sex and not die. you cannot go your whole life without food and water. that is the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:38 AM
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okay, let me put out a scenario. im a kid, its christmas, i want a certain toy. i don't get the toy. i die because i didn't get the toy. is it my right to have the toy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:37 AM
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exactly, thank you! a lot of the men in these comments believe sex is a human right, its terrifying. they prioritize their pleasure over our pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:36 AM
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again, every relationship is different. if you view sex as a "cost" on your partner, then i feel sorry for your partner. sex should be a benefit, if sex is so unpleasant for your partner that they don't want it, you should communicate about what you can do to make it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:35 AM
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no, thats not what im saying at all. no one is owed anything by anyone. got that? doesn't matter if you're attractive or not. don't turn this into "attractive vs unnatractive" because my opinion wont change. i never said women only don't want to have sex if the guy is unattractive, i never came close to saying that. people don't want sex for multiple reasons, and every single one of those reasons is valid. i am not "attacking and shaming" men. i am telling the men that believe they are entitled …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:34 AM
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theres a big difference in telling men that treat women like objects that they arent entitled to our body and telling starving people they arent entitled to food. sex isn't a human right. sex is not on par with food and shelter. no one has died from lack of sex. you'll live.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:25 AM
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different relationships have different boundaries. if you need sex in a relationship, then fine, but don't date someone that doesn't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:23 AM
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no one owes you sex. if you want to have sex and they don't, break up with them. but you can't force them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:22 AM
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i think you just don't like women then. (that and your generalization and hatred of women is concerning and sexist) just dont interact with women, we don't want to interact with you either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:22 AM
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i don't think you should have sex with someone, tell them you want a relationship and that you love them, and then use them for sex. if you have a respectful hookup or FWB, then its fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:18 AM
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take a good look at the comments, a good chunk of the men on here believe that sex is as much of a human right as food is. im American, and in my experience, a lot of them take it anyways when told no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:17 AM
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that doesn't constitute leading on if you're explicitly FWB, but why are you arguing that with me? i dont disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:16 AM
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i agree with that. if you want a relationship and someone else doesn't, then you should talk about it instead of expecting it to come with. i don't know why you think i'll disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:58 AM
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im 16, and i've seen it both online and in person. and ive seen a lot of posts implying it, many men won't say it outright. (although scarily enough, some are comfortable enough to say it outright and they get little to no backlash!) please read through the comments, because people here think that sex is a human right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:54 AM
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you're right, no one owes anyone anything. and men don't owe us a relationship, i agree. i never said they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:53 AM
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im sorry i came across that way, i think anyone leading anyone on is shitty. but i don't think you understand the definition of leading on. if a woman is nice to a man, unaware of his sexual intentions, that isn't leading on. if shes just sitting there at a bar and a man walks up to her and pays for her drinks, then she can accept it, or she cannot. she didn't start a conversation, she didnt coerce him into paying for her, he did it out of generousity. if you want sex as a transaction for drinks…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:52 AM
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why do i care? because at 16 ive experienced this shit way too many times than i should. its effecting me negativley, this mindset is hurting me and every single fucking woman out there and i have a right to be pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:47 AM
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you can date whoever you want, and you shouldn't be attacked for it. i disagree that men are "failed" if women don't accept them, and im sorry that you were told that. your value as a human isn't equivalent to your approval by the opposite sex. however, that doesn't make that behavior right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:46 AM
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I'm not entitled to it, you're right. But it would be nice if everyone treated eachother with basic respect and care, wouldn't it? You're allowed to be sad if you get rejected, but getting angry at women as a whole for it isn't the right way to go about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:41 AM
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surprise surprise, just because you don't see something happen doesn't mean it never happens!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:09 AM
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You're not going to be able to fuck anyone you want. That isn't how it works. People have free will, and they can choose to not have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:08 AM
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If a woman led a man on with verbal promises of sex in return for material objects, I'd agree with you. However the reality of the situation is that men will approach women completley unprompted, offer us things completley unprompted, and then get mad if we don't have sex with them. Sex is not a transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:06 AM
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Look at this comment section, and then come back to me. They absolutely act like they deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:04 AM
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Ah yes, the most prime example of human suffering, men not getting sex whenever they want it. Alright then, how do you suggest we "cure" this human suffering?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:03 AM
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And who do you think will suffer because of legal prostitution? Women in financially tight places who have to resort to selling their bodies for sex. Legalizing prostitution would support human trafficking, sex slavery, and organized crime. Is all of that worth you getting laid? Heres a source for the human trafficking and prostitution link. https://2001-2009.state.gov/r/pa/ei/rls/38790.htm If you want to fund cosmetic surgery research, you go right ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:01 AM
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Believe it or not, what you think is morally incorrect, others don't!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:56 PM
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You're right, I'm not owed a job. I don't see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:55 PM
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People commit suicide from a lot of things. I could commit suicide because I didn't get a specific toy I wanted. Does that mean I'm entitled to it? Does that mean it's a human right? If you're that lonely, talk to friends and family. You have connections that aren't sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:54 PM
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I'm going to confidently say that plenty of men have been given free things from both women and other men. If no one wanted to have sex with me for some reason, I would first try and think of why and try and fix the "problem." Then I would buy myself a toy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:53 PM
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Okay, do beggars represent the entire female population?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:51 PM
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Like backcourtjester said, nobody has died from lack of sex. Nuns, monks, and asexual people are all perfectly fine! Sex isn't a basic need. You need food to stay alive or you'll literally starve to death. You can go your whole life without sex and be completely fine. It's concerning that you think this way. Plenty of people never have sex their whole life, and are completley content. Sex isn't a right, you will be fine without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:49 PM
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Thank you! A lot of men not understanding this terrifies me. They put their pleasure above our pain and distress.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:46 PM
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The use of "normies" is sending me back a few years. Dude, get out of your internet bubble and go outside. You're allowed to be upset about being rejected, I've been rejected plenty of times and been sad about it. But I was never angry at the guy for not reciprocating. Because you can't force attraction, and they didn't owe me anything to make me happy. It isn't a womans fault that you misread her signals (there were probably no signals, it was just you getting ahead of yourself) it makes no sen…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:46 PM
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I don't know who the fuck Maslow is, and I don't care! How do you suggest we go about "giving" sex away as if its a material object. It involves two people. Do you suggest women have sex with people they don't want to for pity's sake? Not racially discriminating against people is just common decency dude. Oppression is the mistreatment of an entire group of people by a government, organization, or some group with the power to control them. Women not pity fucking guys they don't feel attraction t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:41 PM
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Honestly, it seems like it is for them. A lot of them think that they're entitled to sex, they compare it to food and shelter, they act like women NEED to give it to them. It's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:29 PM
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We aren't entitled to a relationship, but it's pretty shitty to lead a woman on without clarifying you don't want a relationship, use them for sex, and then leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:28 PM
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No one owes anyone kindness, you're right. But it's basic human decency to treat others with kindness. Nobody owes me a job, correct, but if I have the skills to qualify for that job, I can earn it using what I worked for. No one owes me friendship, but I have the social skills to make friends myself. If you get in a monogamous relationship and agreed to commit to only your partner... then yeah you kinda do owe commitment. Houses, healthcare, and food, are necessities that people will die withou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:27 PM
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If men were in the same situation (which they often are) wouldn't they accept free things given to them? Would you? A lot of times in situations like that, we are scared to decline things because some men don't take no for an answer, and thats scary. Treating sex like a transaction (I payed for your drinks completley unprompted, so now you HAVE to fuck me) only worsens the same problem you're complaining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:24 PM
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Did you just compare sex to literally necessities like food, shelter, and healthcare? People will die if they don't eat, people will die if they don't have shelter, people will die if they don't have healthcare. You won't die because Becky didn't want to have sex with you. Buy yourself a toy, you'll be okay. Why does racial discrimination get brought up... treating everyone the same regardless of their looks is human decency. Hate to break it to you, but people choosing to have sex with people t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:22 PM
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I... don't? Because no one DESERVES sex. It isn't a human right thar you're entitled to, why is that such a difficult concept to grasp? I don't go to clubs as I'm a minor, first of all. Second of all, I think you can "go after" whoever you want, but you shouldn't get mad when people don't want to fuck you. Because no one owes you sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:18 PM
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im gonna be honest, when i got boobs. men ignored me completely as a kid (i was NOT an attractive preteen-teen. i was the embodiment of a chubby, nerdy otaku. it was bad. i have photos if anyone is interested.) then when I turned 16, I discovered makeup, I grew a few inches and my figure slimmed out, and I went from a 34A to a 34DD. (now an F that ive gone on birth control.) all of a sudden, guys were interested in me, and wanted to talk to me and treat me like a human being! a lot of women are …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:12 PM
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i said unattractive women, not plain ones. as a woman, ive seen a lot of average looking forgettable white guys getting heaps of attention from women. I was an "ugly duckling" as a young teen, and i wasn't treated nearly as well as you're implying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:07 PM
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this post says that women can easily prostitute themselves, im assuming this discussion is referring to the post, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:05 PM
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if an "ugly" man becomes "attractive" and a woman who wouldn't have sex with him when he was "ugly" will have sex with him when he's "attractive" then... what's wrong with that? yes it could be perceived as shallow, but only if she was rude to the guy beforehand, and nice after he got hot. if women aren't turned on during sex its physically painful. do you think women should just... have sex with people they don't want to out of pity? why are women to blame for "ugly" men being virgins? no one o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:47 PM
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attractive women can, what about the "ugly ducklings?" i don't think most women can get laid whenever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:38 PM
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also, Texas will prosecute women that leave the state to get an abortion and return.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:32 PM
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you just compared a health procedure and prostitution as if they're the same level of necessity...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:31 PM
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yes, so telling women to be prostitutes in an illegal situation where its dangerous for them totally adds up, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:30 PM
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"Prostituting yourself for easy money" isn't as "easy" as you think. it'll consume and ruin your life. and being used only for sex sucks, it really does. the feeling that you're good enough to use for an hour and be treated like shit, but not good enough to be loved is shitty. having men tell you that you're "hot but not my type for a relationship" feels awful. it's intimacy sure, but you do it because you think they'll love you and be there for you, and instead they laugh in your face at the id…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:27 PM
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yeah okay, im done with this. you know youre wrong, and youre an adult male arguing with a teen girl on reddit. im noping out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:46 PM
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"statistically" dude show me the statistics. wheres the statistics. i wanna see em. wheres the statistic that says all women only want buff guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:10 PM
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attacking? calling me and my "female peers" out? yikes, not you acting like all women are a hivemind. and what are you even "calling my female peers" out on? for not finding a certain type of man attractive, when men do the exact same thing? different people have different standards of beauty, and not everyone will be "ugly" or "beautiful" to everyone. to someone you'll be attractive, to another you won't be. what am i doing thats evidence that men are oh so disadvantaged? please, enlighten me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:10 PM
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again... facts are backed up by concrete evidence. not facts unless you have those. funny that a little girl has been calling you out on your bullshit. you must be really bored if you're an adult and on this subreddit, huh? i almost pity you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:11 AM
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i don't know why men think women are so obsessed with buff guys and muscle. we're not. just dont be obese and take decent care of yourself and we're good lol. most of us like them to be tall and skinny and look like theyre dying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:01 PM
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ah yes, because one woman doing something means every single one of us thinks and acts the same way! i totally forgot, women are a hivemind and we all make the same decisions!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:23 PM
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i am. what, are you a fully grown adult male arguing on the internet for the sake of your insecurities? dude, thats sad. why are you so worked up about this in the first place? why is your lack of bitches suddenly everyone elses problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:22 PM
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what facts? just because the popular girl rejected you in high school doesn't mean that women only like tall, muscular guys. hell, i don't like guys with a ton of muscle. i like em to be tall and skinny and look like they're dying. thats just me, though. how am i being a hypocrite? you put words into my mouth over and over again. you sound bitter as hell dude, go get some bitches or something. fuck do you mean "idealism?" dude. just because a girl on reddit doesn't think you're hot doesn't mean …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:07 PM
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yeah.... never said that either
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 08:51 PM
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there were literally 2 women who preferred short chubby guys... and "ugly" isn't a recognized standard, beauty is in the eye of the beholder dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:30 PM
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sounds like you're projecting your insecurities onto others. there are at least 3 women in this thread with polar opposite types, but because ONE woman has a type that you don't fit into, suddenly its "what almost every woman desires in a man?" give me a break
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:16 AM
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someones projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 11:41 PM
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i find him attractive my friends approve of him hes taller than me or the same height as me hes either the same age or older than me he isn't bigoted in any way he doesnt talk to a ton of other girls he isnt friends with his ex NO FRAT BOYS NUH UH hes funny and makes good conversation he isnt judgemental he treats people with compassion hes less than 30 minutes away, if hes over 30 mins he can drive we can be honest with eachother i dont have to hide my interests or feel like im "cringey" around…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 11:37 PM
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i never said all republicans were a hive mind... dont put words in my mouth. this isnt a grammar lesson, dont divert the argument to fix grammar mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:38 PM
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thank you! most posts ive seen on this subreddit are either promoting rape culture or incredibly accusatory of women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:35 PM
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sex isn't just to get your rocks off, its a form of intimacy. if you come at it from a purely physical angle then your relationships won't be worthwhile. giving oral to someone else isn't physically stimulating for the giver, but they still enjoy making their partner feel good! fun fact, men have a "g spot" in their ass called the prostate that feels good when stimulated. if BDSM and non-vanilla sex is "revenge" to you, then i feel sorry for anyone that has to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:29 PM
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hey heres a writing tip, words have implications and don't always mean what is said at face value! you don't acknowledge that you're guilt tripping because that would admit that you're a shitty person. you might not even know its guilt tripping! but either way, the tone is incredibly guilt-trippy and pressuring
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:26 PM
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surprise surprise, just because you see a small amount of women on a social platform act a certain way, doesn't mean every single woman shares their sentiment! doesn't matter whos posting what, my point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:22 PM
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fuck is that supposed to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:20 PM
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i would talk to him, one on one. i wouldn't be aggressive with him or scream at him, i would try and explain to him that he doesn't have to go down that road and that there are plenty of amazing girls out there. ask him how he got this way, who taught him this? tell him that his struggles dont mean he needs to jump into the deep end, he can rough it out. if it doesn't work, if he's persistent, maybe i'd get more aggressive, or bring his dad in to try and talk some sense into him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:27 PM
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geez, your life really sucks. i feel sorry for you, i really do! just settle down with a man whos on the same rock bottom level as you!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:23 PM
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1st of all, im bisexual. nice try with the homophobic thing, but thats not gonna work. 2nd- physical pleasure isn't the most important thing to us during sex. emotional and mental stimulation is just as- if not more important. if it turns us on it doesn't matter if we feel it physically or not. (if it really does turn us on we'll feel it anyways!) its not revenge, its a sexual act, like any other. if being pegged makes you uncomfortable no one is forcing you to try it, but you shouldn't force yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:22 PM
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you didnt say those exact words, of course you didnt. thatd make you look bad! you just implied it. if your partner doesnt want to have anal, then that doesnt mean you try and convince them to try it. it means you drop it and you dont do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:12 PM
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ofc! honestly just whenever i feel up to it, but when im upset or just not feeling it ill make it super clear what i want and dont want. i was sexually assaulted before so when someone gets even slightly pushy with me i start to panic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:10 PM
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women are not a hivemind!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:07 PM
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spoiler alert: women are not a hivemind! shocker!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:07 PM
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as a woman, i dont have a ton of "immediate turn offs." being rude and disrespectful to others, making degrading comments about other women, constantly talking about their ex, and having more conservative political beliefs are some.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:04 AM
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all the time. i know part of it is my mental health issues talking, but ive turned down a lot of guys asking for my number because i assumed it was a joke. i was a bit of an ugly duckling as a kid, then at 16 i got taller and skinnier and got boobs overnight, and suddenly everyone wanted to talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:02 AM
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its hard to find guys who respect me as a person and not just a sex object, and who respect my boundaries. im sorry, but its true. im sure there are amazing guys out there, but every guy ive been with has pushed my boundaries to the extent of making me uncomfortable, or just used me for my body. i just want someone who wont pressure me to have sex if i dont want to. or just someone who likes me for my personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:56 PM
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nope! i dont have a boyfriend now, but the 2 people ive had sex with ive done the same exact stuff with
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:51 PM
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hey, why dont you try getting pegged? why don't you try fucking a guy? you havent tried it, dont be such a baby. oh, you tried and you dont like it? nobody likes it on their first try! flip the tables and see how it feels
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:48 PM
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snowboarding isnt painful and stressful. i can try something 0 times and decide i dont want to do it. if she says no, that doesnt mean "guilt trip and pressure her until she says yes." no means no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:46 PM
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since when is being respectful of someones boundaries a bad thing? all of you live in some fucking fantasy world in which you get dating advice from 40 year old neckbeards living in their weed dealers basement. youre not "traumatized" and "disadvantaged" because some girl broke up with you in the freshman year and got with someone else. you're making it harder for yourself. for the love of christ, go to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:42 PM
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as a girl this post is terrifying. if ANYONE says that they're not comfortable doing something its not your job to force them to do it. if your girlfriend doesn't want to have anal because shes tried it and didnt like it, then she doesn't have to. if you think you need to harass her and push her boundaries to get her to do something, then you SUCK. if your partner doesn't consent, thats the end of it. don't try and pressure or convince them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:39 PM
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say it sister!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:31 PM
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oh sweetie no, you look like a Swedish divorcee who owns 4 cats. you look extremely constipated. let all that negative energy out hun. also, I wouldn't be nearly as confident if i was as flat as you! what are those, -As? so disappointing that you're so sexually unappealing that you have to be a doormat. get well soon!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:02 AM
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okay... and a million men have tried to bang me. doesnt mean im on par with fucking kylie jenner. someone needs to humble you, because you're not all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:57 AM
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maybe youre just ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:38 AM
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i pay attention to both, but if i had to choose one more it would be actions. how someone acts shows me all i need to know about them. however, both matter and both are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 02:43 AM
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16 year old female, not sharing my city cuz i dont feel comfortable, but im in the United States. I'm in high school, and talking to someone (I think??)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 04:02 AM
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as a woman with bpd this feels like an attack
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 04:00 AM
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as a woman, if someone i was dating/talking to didn't validate me or show me any signs he liked me, i would assume he doesn't like me and move on. don't listen to straight men for advice on dating straight women. ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 03:59 AM
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not a man, but a bisexual woman who has dated women and is attracted to them. i like people i feel safe with, and trust. if i feel belittled by that person or feel like i have to hide personal details or hobbies because they'll make fun of me, i won't date them. looks don't matter to me too much (although i love slightly chubby/thick girls)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 03:57 AM
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in my limited dating experience (as a 16 year old girl who hasn't kissed anyone yet) i think people that make you feel secure in yourself are amazing partners. if you always feel safe with a person, you trust them to stay loyal to you, and never feel like you have to change anything for them, they're the one. this doesn't mean dating a total push over, though. i personally get a ton of anxiety in relationships, so i need something secure and safe so i dont go through emotional hell. i always go …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 03:47 AM
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