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CMVchloe1204/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 08:30 AM
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chloe1204/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 04:58 PM
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It's not my thing and I don't think I would want to be with a man who wanted to fulfill what I see as my role. This was one of the many reasons why I ended it with the first guy I settled down with. We got together very young with me being 20 and him 17 and with time it became clear that he just did not want to provide for his family and he mentioned wanting to be a stay at home dad. I think at that point I was done. He got his wish when he forcibly took custody of my daughter and now I barely g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 08:15 PM
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For the most part I agree with him. However SMV for men does go up the more handsome they are and things improve greatly if a man is tall. You can't pretend that a man of 5'8 who is chubby and bald and earns 6 figures has the same SMV as a guy who is 6'2, ripped and has a full head of hair that earns 6 figures, even given that they are the same age and have exactly the same amount of charisma ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 05:58 PM
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In the USA an age gap of 10-14 years with the man being older only accounts for 4.8% of couples. Relationships like this are exception rather than the rule. However in Gambia men are on average 9.2 years older than their wives beating the rest of the world. Maybe get an African mail order bride if you want to make it certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 05:49 PM
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I think using any sort of naturalistic fallacy is a bad way to prove a point. Humans are civilized (at least they are supposed to be). We are not chimpanzees and should never use them as models for our behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 05:28 PM
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I am not saying that people usually divorce when they finally do get together, I am saying there seems to be more people who remain single and childfree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 05:24 PM
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No I don't think he does and he certainly isn't diagnosed with one. He attends college and has regular friends. He is just a bit odd socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 05:22 PM
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They like to claim it doesn't exist but the blue pill is the biggest proof that it does. Most blue pill people are middle class or wealthy white liberals and most wealthy/middle class white liberals think blue pill by default. They are the most hypergamous people on the planet and they are madly obsessed with theirs and their partner's SMV, more so than anyone else. However, it's a bit of an elephant in the room, since admitting it in a way that isn't completely glib is politically incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 04:35 PM
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The men in the TRP rarely hold themselves or the things they don't want to let go of accountable for some of societies problems. For example, many want a traditional home and want to be the boss but without the woman being financially independent on them. Many also complain about the declining birth rates, especially among whites and anglo peoples but they remain childfree and do all they can to avoid getting a woman pregnant. Instead of looking at themselves and the fact that they are obsessed …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 04:31 PM
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I notice that extremes of hypergamy is often encouraged more in wealthy liberal communities. This is why you get so many incels and cat ladies. The rest of the world seems to be a bit more in touch with reality and people usually go for partners that are similar or equal in terms of SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 04:27 PM
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There is no such thing as real emotional independence, unless that person is a psychopath and doesn't feel emotion. People will always rely on others to some extent to be happy. All of us seek validation from someone, even if it's just those close to us or we seek validation because we desire to develop relationships so we can have people close to us. These are simple instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 04:26 PM
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I won't write that off as one possible reason, however, I do see a lot of harsh things said about women in the TRP. Some of them are also untrue or blown way out of proportion but whether they are true or not they seem to upset most women and rub them up the wrong way. I think TRP speaks a lot of truths, but it only scratches the surface of many societal issues. I think many men in TRP overlook some of the real reasons there are problems in society that people have interacting with each other an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 04:21 PM
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These days you don't even have to be married to have a family with someone. A wedding ceremony is no longer beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 04:08 PM
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Recently where I last lived a bill has been passed where they have to offer single men who have been made homeless safe and suitable accommodation instead of just referring them to night shelters. I think if men have legitimate concerns about any sort of unfairness towards them the powers that be are happy to listen if they are loud enough. The issue is when idiots like Paul Elam are about as useful as a chocolate teapot and he only cares about lining his pockets and getting back at women. Men d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 04:04 PM
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The problem could only be solved if some form of arranged marriage still existed, preferably with every man and woman marrying very young with sex before marriage being a forbidden act. Then society would have to be rid of no fault divorce and social assistance programs that support single parents. If a woman gets pregnant out of wedlock, unless the Father takes responsibility, the baby will be adopted and will be raised by a married couple who cannot have children of their own, just like post 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 06:15 PM
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Yeah my Husband is that way. I am wondering if men who are circumcised have this because he is. He often says his willy goes numb and he often has to make himself finish with his hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 03:39 PM
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Depends if you can handle someone being completely reliant on you. What you are proposing might be a good idea if you can. Just to let you know I am on the other side of your wish. I spent a long time searching for a man who can provide me with a similar lifestyle to the one you say you want to give your future wife. I am a western woman but I have always liked the idea of being a housewife and taking on more traditional female roles. I was mislead when I was young by my ex into thinking I would…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 01:13 PM
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In my experience men in relationships seem to last longer. Usually when you have casual sex with a man he finishes in less than a few minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 09:52 PM
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What you are talking of seems like such a cliche. Notice all the overweight and obese women who are married/have kids and are just very average people. There are a lot of them around. I think you have let too much television and popular media spawn your imagination and now you are only seeing what you think you are supposed to see. I am a little overweight and always have been, although never by an enormous amount and my life has been nothing like you describe. I am certainly not virginal and I …
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 09:23 PM
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Yeah I live in yoga pants and leggings including underneath skirts and dresses. I seldom wear jeans because they are so uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 06:42 PM
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Masturbation and sex toys really don't do it for some women. There is nothing quite like feeling the body of an actual real male human being when you have that urge. For me self satisfaction really is not enough and if anything it's completely boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 06:36 PM
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Meet guys online for sex. However be very careful and very selective. She doesn't want to end up dead in a ditch somewhere. The risk of physical danger that women take when doing this is often one that men don't have to worry about. I always stuck to asian university students off of wechat when I was single for a while and wanted to meet random guys for company. I figured this was a safe bet since they are not likely to want to compromise their student visas and often their parents have spent ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 06:29 PM
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RPW tells women they should stick around when men are chronically unemployed video game addicted manbabies or even physically abusive. Because apparently Laura Doyle can fix it. If you become better at baking, give good head, give your man permission to engage in threesomes with your friends and you wear vintage style clothing any man you are with will become a debonair alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 09:38 PM
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Depends. A woman can be a slut whilst single but will happily be monogamous if she marries or gets into a serious relationship. Not all sluts have sex with chads either. With me it was meet ups with asian students who I met online mostly and we only did vanilla stuff together. Most of them had little to no prior sexual experience and were kind of dorky. I actually don't like chads at all and I am not into kinky sex. I find aggressive men horrible and I am not attracted to them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 09:30 PM
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No I don't think most women could either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 09:25 PM
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Yeah but then there is a big risk of him sleeping with other women or filing for divorce. I wouldn't want that. I say only go for men with equal or similar SMV who you can't see being able to improve. Much safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 09:20 PM
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That's not always possible. Some women have disfigurements and issues that can only be corrected surgically which costs money some people will never have. If that's the case you just have to do the best with what you have but you will never be above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 09:18 PM
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I have had a lot of casual sex. All of the guys I did it with I would put as having similar SMV to myself, if any higher only by a few points. Most of them were asian university students I met on wechat and most were really dorky. It didn't stop me from finding a husband either and he knows about it and doesn't care. We actually started off casually. I was his first ever relationship with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 09:17 PM
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RPW are totally about the image and little else. They want to call their man 'captain' and waltz around in ridiculous, impractical vintage style clothes and talk about how 'old fashioned' they are whilst earning their own money, having their own independence, being childfree, living with leaching/abusive/video game addicted boyfriends, apologizing for leeching/abusive/video game addicted boyfriends, calling their abusive/leeching/video game addicted boyfriends 'captain', having lesbian threesome…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 05:39 PM
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He goes to college and has regular friends, but everyone can tell he's a bit weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 05:23 PM
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No he REALLY poops his pants. He was wiping it on the walls as well until he was 13.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 05:21 PM
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It's actually an untrue stereotype that people with autism are logical thinkers. Many are actually learning disabled or academically impaired.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 05:20 PM
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I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 05:19 PM
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No I guess I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 09:35 PM
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I don't think anyone has a right to know anyone's past and no one owes any partner that information, but expect a possible confrontation if your lies catch up with you.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 08:16 PM
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He looks kind of homosexual. I guess that's OK if someone is into that sort of thing. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 08:11 PM
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LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 08:09 PM
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Guys have told me outright they prefer the opposite to what I have. It stung a bit and made me feel like a bit of a freak for sometime, but it wasn't the end of the world because I still got somewhere. I would imagine it be the same as feeling like a short guy who is married, he would rather be taller and his wife would probably like him a little more, but it's not the end of the world. I don't look at porn, so I would not know what was in porn so I really can't speak for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 08:09 PM
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I don't know. Unless you have fertility issues, it's pretty easy to get pregnant. I am pretty sure not all these women are infertile. If they are that desperate they could just go on tinder when they are ovulating and have a one night stand. Many also appear to have money. They could use the excess cash they are spending on their dogs on a sperm donor and if they are infertile adopt or use a surrogate. Heck if they are not too fussy and they are forward with men they could have a husband or part…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 08:05 PM
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This is laughable. People need to consider if the shoe was on the other foot. Would a lot of women want to date a man who had a currently pregnant ex? I am sure many wouldn't and I am sure they wouldn't be judged for this either. I have no issue with men who choose to date a pregnant woman and help take care of the child. My brother and his wife met this way and he adopted the child and now they have other kids and are still together 12 years later. I think when people feel insecure about someth…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 07:58 PM
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In more liberal societies I have noticed that there are a good number of men who are lot less productive. Often these are the men are the ones who are not getting laid any time soon. I think these men should probably be fighting for patriarchy or at least a more traditional society if they want access to women, rather than all this PUA stuff which seems pretty pointless to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 07:48 PM
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LMAO if my ex died I really couldn't imagine marrying his younger brother. He's 25 and still thumb sucks and literally poops his pants. What a gross scenario. I suppose patriarchy was the reason why men like him used to be more productive and actually got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 07:41 PM
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I suppose then men who want more sex should be fighting to bring back more traditional societies where they are guaranteed a wife and kids. I think traditional societies come with a lot more sexual equality. Everybody wins when it comes to not being alone. Women in many ways as well as men, because there will be no lonely cat ladies either. Maybe patriarchy is a sexual strategy for beta males?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 07:38 PM
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But then these women obviously don't want babies. Considering that most women are fertile up to about early 40s or so, they could easily have a baby and they have plenty of time. I mean, it's not that hard to get pregnant, be it by having sex with a man, meeting a husband or using donor sperm. It seems like these women want to baby something but without the added responsibility of bringing a child into the world. Much like how little girls play with dolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 07:36 PM
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Really? I never knew that? I would be interested to see a source for something like that. I thought most people, both men and women, in more traditional societies at least paired off young and had children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 07:32 PM
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Recent studies have actually shown that women are now even more unfaithful than men. I would argue that women are just as likely to cheat as men are, if not more so, because nowadays they have their own financial independence and social media and sites like tinder have made it very easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 07:27 PM
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When I am with someone I just don't feel the need to go off with other guys. I feel like my desires are being met. I have only been promiscuous when single to fill in the gaps when I'm feeling thirsty. I would rather have one regular partner but having several is not as bad as having none, if you get my drift.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 07:26 PM
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I have read up on this theory. I am female and my ring finger appears to be slightly longer on both hands, which is interesting, as I also have mild autism which seems to correlate with longer ring fingers in females. However, I am not good at mathematics or anything STEM and I have chosen to be a mother and housewife over having any sort of career and I am completely heterosexual. I have been promiscuous when single, but have no issues staying completely monogamous when I am in a committed rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 07:16 PM
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I am not just talking about yeast infections, I am talking about BV infections which are a bit more serious. I am pregnant at the moment and those things can cause premature labour and a host of internal infections if they are left untreated or become resistant to treatment. Douching daily is a bad idea and is likely to make the bacteria resistant. I also deal with it if I wash my knickers with bio detergent, wear thongs or use any type of soap down there. It's truly horrible and I have to rinse…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 06:28 PM
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Most break-ups seem to happen because one or more people in a relationship take everything for granted and the relationship gets neglected. Either that or one partner is abusive or unfaithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 06:06 PM
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It has been scientifically proven that women actually have smellier farts than men since their gut contains more sulfur.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 06:04 PM
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Are asian guys really smaller? Or is that just a myth? I wouldn't say I was unlucky. I was still able to enjoy sex with these men providing they lasted more than a minute. My only issue is that most men seem to only last about 2 minutes, often less. To me that's way more of an issue to me than penis size.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 06:01 PM
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I have been with 20 guys. I have never seen one in person bigger than 6 inches and that's the honest truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 05:51 PM
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Honestly I have never seen an 8 inch penis in person. They must be uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 05:48 PM
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The blue pill gives crappy advice at all angles. The blue pill just doesn't want to help people, it wants to shield them from the truth. Like every philosophy it holds a few truths, but they are exceptions to the rule in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 04:29 PM
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I would personally feel inadequate if a guy I was with kept jerking off to porn or using a fleshlight, so it's not just men who feel this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 04:28 PM
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I suppose so... Maybe my question was more aimed at women. I see a lot of women on forever alone women sit back and do nothing. They expect to be treated like pretty girls when they are not pretty girls and they play nice and passive. I tried giving them advice, saying this just doesn't work if you are not attractive, you have to be more devious and more open about having sex with guys and you have to lower your standards. I got banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 04:26 PM
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I must have a small one then because I have experimented sticking objects in there and I like men who are no bigger than 6 inches in width and girth. Anything else just will not fit at all. I think 5.5 is perfect. I have never been with a man bigger but I have tried with things like shampoo bottles and cucumbers ect and they didn't go in properly or were very uncomfortable. I am 27 and have had kids. I do believe you because my Mum and sister both keep huge dildos and they are not shy about it e…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 04:10 PM
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This guy needs to seek medical help and as his girlfriend you need to go along with him. This issue isn't just effecting him, it is also effecting you. Help him get to the root of the issue. If he refuses to budge, then you have done all you can and should probably move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 03:50 PM
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Yes I do that, but it doesn't remove all the hair so I still have some.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 03:46 PM
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If you are talking about this on a personal level, then yes I personally empathize with men. I stayed with a guy for years who had a lot of issues. However, staying with him after he became physically abusive and continued vandalizing things around the house and doing nothing in the slightest to contribute just wasn't an option any more. Along with a serious video game and internet addiction. I can only take so much from individual people before I eventually call it day. I still empathize with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 03:38 PM
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I find that people talk the same about female pubic hair and big labia. Both things I have (I can't shave or remove the hair unless I want bacterial vaginitis and yeast infections). A lot of men say they prefer a hairless innie because that is what everyone expects them to say, but more often than not they are not 100% fussed and my parts still do the job. Maybe it's the same with penis size? Maybe a lot of women idealize a big penis, but a smaller one is fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 03:17 PM
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My husband is about 5 and a half inches and I love having sex with him,
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 03:00 PM
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I can have good sex with a man of 4-6 inches ideally. As long as you are at least 4 inches I wouldn't worry. If not you can save up to have an operation to make it a little bigger. However, I do think I have quite a short vaginal canal when compared to a lot of women. I have seen women own huge dildos that I would never want to have a go with. I have never had a big guy but I have experimented with objects and know what I can and can't fit up there. So I am not too sure...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 02:28 PM
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I think a small subset of men probably feel this way. I notice that most of them lurk on the internet. I don't meet very many who are so bitter and hateful in real life although I have met a few. Sure you could say it's because they are too scared to be honest, but I really don't think that's the case. People's actions usually speak when their words don't. Most people are not especially bitter when it comes to the opposite gender and whilst they will get hurt from time to time they don't put as …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 12:44 PM
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Women are usually the ones who stay home with babies and small children. This is an important job and should not be undermined in such a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 12:41 PM
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Personal physical contact with another woman is cheating, especially if it leads to sex or sex acts. Sexting without ever intending to meet would make me unhappy, but I wouldn't consider it cheating. I also wouldn't consider paying for sex full on cheating, although both would piss me off and cause arguments because both are still a betrayal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 12:39 PM
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My point exactly. Jealousy and insecurity will ruin things in such a relationship. Maybe the other scenario is that you are also more attractive than you think you are? You just didn't see it and you ruined things through being insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 09:32 PM
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Maybe if you got to go with that woman, then you are higher SMV than you think you really are? Or your SMV was high then but things have happened to let it slip? Perceived SMV is not always the same as true SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 09:22 PM
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In every respect I think the 'just be yourself' advice is probably the best one. If you surround yourself with people who you secretly have nothing in common with and get into a relationship with a man/woman you secretly have nothing in common with the facade will eventually break. There is only so long a person can act and conflicts will come up. There is a difference between not being yourself and working to improve yourself. Your improvements however must also be realistic. I could give you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 09:03 PM
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Chances are the least attractive men in reality would not be happy if they really got the chance to be with the most attractive woman and vice verse. The insecurity that the less attractive partner would feel would usually eventually tear the relationship apart. Not to mention the personality and lifestyle differences usually evident in people lower down the social hierarchy when compared to the upper. Sure people fantasize about being with someone way better than themselves but it's not reality…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 08:49 PM
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Your standards are not the same as every other man's. There are men who are happy to go with the women you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 08:35 PM
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It's actually very normal for young children to co-sleep with their parents. It's only in our society that we have tried to force children to adapt to the wants of adults. Is your wife still nursing? If she is nursing then a co-sleeping relationship is beneficial. There are still ways for you to be intimate with your wife. You could try shower or bathroom sex, or if you are open to it just have sex on the other side of the bed whilst your daughter is asleep. She really won't know about it. Famil…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 07:02 PM
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Usually the only women who like brad pitt and george clooney are at least 30. You don't see teenage girls or college girls in their peak SMV swooning over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 06:56 PM
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If a man approaches me in public it's always to ask me where something is. 99% of the time I don't know the answer. I don't even look like a person who would know.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 06:52 PM
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Observe people outside clubs on a saturday night or groups of rowdy men when sports games are on. It's like the zombie apocalypse. Just remind yourself you are civilized and want to be in civilized society. If you want to go on a night out with people drinking but you don't want to drink order a soft drink or a non-alcoholic beer and pretend that it's something else. Simple as.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 06:47 PM
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Politeness and respect are not considered weak. There is a difference between being polite and letting people walk all over you and treat you like rubbish.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 06:45 PM
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Tell her you prefer face to face interaction and when she calls mention when you next plan to meet and cut the phone calls short. She will get the message and either start bothering to spend more time with you or she will move on.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 06:40 PM
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This is probably going to happen in any relationship you have. The novelty has worn off and you are bored of having sex with the same woman. This is common problem in 2015 when people are used to having the option of lots of sexual partners and it's seen as socially acceptable. Pandora's box opened with the sexual revolution. Staying faithful to the same person for years has never been more difficult.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 06:36 PM
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I have noticed that censorship on reddit seems to be a big problem. You can't say barely anything without getting banned from somewhere. It would be good if people could at least up their privacy settings and hide their posting history if they so choose to.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 06:29 PM
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A lot of people are standoffish about oral sex. A lot of men won't go down on women, either, in my personal experience. For me neither is a requirement. If it's a requirement for you then move on and find different partners. Either that or deal with it. It's probably nothing personal, some people just don't like giving oral. My Husband thinks going down on a woman is disgusting.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 06:23 PM
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I will try asking in red pill then. I like the advice people there give. It's honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 06:15 PM
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That thread gives terrible advice...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 06:06 PM
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No that's not the problem. I am very un-competitive. My parents have been split since I was young. My Father has never paid anyone attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 06:05 PM
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It's just me and my Husband, and I think he is fed up with me wanting to do every activity with him and wanting all his free time because I am lonely. He wants time to himself at times and I don't like spending too much time alone and I thought to myself if I had some more friends I would not need to be lonely. My ex took my daughter (long story but at the moment there is nothing I can do about it because of UK law ect and he's stopping me by force) and I am 32 weeks pregnant so of course my bab…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 06:03 PM
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How is 46 the peak SMV age? Considering that women in their peak SMV are 16-25 that doesn't add up. Most 16-25 year old women, attractive ones at least don't see their ideal in middle aged men. Do you live in lala land? This would be equal to me saying that 'I'm not fat, just curvy'. Yeah right. It's called pep talk. I do like guys who are chivalrous. I find chivalry a really attractive trait. If I am with a guy who wants to carry something heavy for me or opens doors for me or pulls me away fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 05:56 PM
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Most of them are unattractive AND superficial. Two things that don't really go together. Ugly people who chase high SMV people make themselves look like a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 05:45 PM
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It's not 'wrong' to date anyone. A lot of guys wouldn't be able to deal with dating a sex worker. That doesn't mean everyone has the same criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 05:33 PM
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Men like looks, but that doesn't mean that they will all disqualify women who don't have good looks. Women like looks too. If a woman is attractive enough to have the option to choose a guy of optimal good looks she usually will, same with men. This is why couples are more often than not evenly matched. Point is it's not the be end and all of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 05:31 PM
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I love east asian men. I like them of any body type so long they are not too fat to walk or dead. I prefer men to be under 50 because they seem to have more virility and higher sex drives at a younger age but it's not a requirement. I also prefer men to be at least just slightly taller than me (I am 5'3 so that's not hard) but that's not a requirement either. My ideal guy lookswise would be stateofdaniel on youtube: http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-DPdDHGUH8v8/UzG3-xlTDmI/AAAAAAAABJM/ZhySHWNxAF4/s1600/…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 05:26 PM
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Sex is good as long as it lasts more than 3 minutes and I find the guy attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 05:25 PM
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IMO women shouldn't be taking that stuff either. It's poison.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 04:46 PM
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Most people offline out living their lives are de-facto blue pillers. They just don't come to the internet to talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 03:43 PM
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A man with lots of sexual partners is likely to be a narcissistic player who thinks highly of himself and he is likely to be unfaithful in long term relationships. There is a likely to be a lot of female competition for him and a relationship with him is likely to be based on drama. With women it's a little different. Most women having lots of casual sex settle for it because they can't find a man who will currently make a bigger commitment to them and in the meantime they still have physical ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 03:35 PM
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Most people in the real world do seem to go by these rules. It just seems that there is a subset of people on the internet, most of them men, who expect a woman to have higher SMV than themselves and thus this is why they are chronically single and have to look into things like PUA which usually doesn't work. Usually they stay incel until they can come to terms and be content with the type of woman they realistically able to attract and maintain a relationship and possibly a family with. Men lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 03:27 PM
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Any mainstream pop song seems to relate to the blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 03:23 PM
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The main fault to such a law is that there is no way a man can prove he is the child's Father before the birth. Any man could make a claim that he is the child's Father. There is no way of knowing who the child's DNA comes from until after it is born. The only way I could see such a law working was if a woman was married, then legally the child is the husband's by default. With an unmarried pregnant woman the baby could be anyones and no man would be able to claim legal paternal status over the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 03:21 PM
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I don't see why a man should ever ejaculate in a woman if he doesn't want to get her pregnant. Pulling out, if done properly is 96% effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 03:17 PM
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If a man doesn't want to get a woman pregnant he should pull out. This method is surprisingly effective if the man urinates and washes his penis before sex. I don't believe that birth control is any good for a person's body. I will only use natural family planning, coitus interruptus or barrier methods if I want to avoid getting pregnant. There is no reason for a man to ejaculate inside a woman if he doesn't want to get her pregnant. If you don't want to get a woman pregnant pull out before you …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 03:13 PM
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Yes and wait until men feel the ill effects of birth control on their bodies, just like women have for the past several decades. I can see vasagel pushed on minority and marginalized groups of men without them understanding the risks to such a procedure. I can see male birth control being just as much of a health hazard as female birth control. Now men will just be putting synthetic hormonal and chemical poisons into their bodies along with women without being told all the risks. In America I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 02:44 PM
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He was probably going for women who have higher SMV than himself. I am sure if he was approaching HB5s and HB4s he would have had plenty of yeses. He mentioned being short and unattractive. The women who he was approaching were probably way out of his league.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 02:30 PM
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Not to mention that if you cohabit, the woman can live at a separate address and claim some welfare for the kids and have the rent paid, even if she is working a low paid job. The couple can still spend most of their time together without the department of work and pensions ever knowing. I know loads of single mothers who are not actually single mothers. Marriage doesn't really pay any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 01:30 PM
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Because women get sex and attention from men courtesy of having a vagina and they base much of their identities around motherhood. A woman doesn't even need to be remotely attractive. A woman could also be fuck-zoned and trick the man into getting her pregnant (that's if he is even being careful), if she has a baby she will never be alone again. When she wants more kids she can do the same again and rely and on the state and child support payments or get a simple job. Women have easy lives. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 01:25 PM
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Most teenage girls do have sexual fantasies, but it's unlikely that they would tell their parents and if their Fathers especially are protective enough it's unlikely they will get to act on those fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 01:21 PM
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I don't agree. I know plenty of less attractive women who would be described as weak characters. I think most women have weak characters to some extent. They are more easily abused and taken advantage of by men than vice verse. My Mother, who has never been an attractive woman in the slightest by anyone's physical standards has the weakest character one could imagine. I watched her throughout my whole childhood step on hot coals around abusive, married or cheating men one after the other. I also…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 01:15 PM
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Not ALL men treat less attractive women badly. It's just men who believe they are above a less attractive woman and are somehow more human. Women do the same to men. They call unattractive men 'creeps' when they believe they are above him, not usually because of his behaviour but because they don't like him sexually and believe they are above him because of this. Usually this sort of disrespect of people is linked with some degree of narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 01:07 PM
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Men often don't want children either. We live in a society built heavily on material gain and status, personal freedom and individualism. Many people no longer value family and children are seen as a hindrance by many. Using marriage and divorce laws are not an excuse especially here in the UK. For one a couple don't even have to marry to have a child. Alimony is also not paid here. If a man is on the birth certificate, then he has just as many parental rights as the woman. My male ex who I was …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 01:01 PM
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Low SMV males are usually content to date and even marry low SMV women. I don't know where this idea that most of them are not comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 12:49 PM
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Insecure women come with problems too. Unless you want a clingy, controlling, worried girlfriend. There has to be a middle ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 12:45 PM
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Wanting a man who is strong/assertive is not equal to being insecure. You seem to have a problem with confusing the 2. Insecure women often fear abandonment. Most don't like competition, either. A lot of red pill techniques are likely to backfire on a woman that is insecure. For example dread game, a woman who fears abandonment and competition would likely create further drama if dread game were to be used. An insecure woman is also unlikely to go after a man with a lot of female competition sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 12:39 PM
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A woman doesn't have to be obese to have a low SMV. She can have other unattractive physical features or be old.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 12:30 PM
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It is a little. Saying age holds no importance to a man's SMV is delusional. A guy in his 50s is usually going to have lower SMV than a man in his early 30s unless the older guy is exceptionally wealthy and chances are high SMV women are not going to want him because they enjoy fucking him and lust over his body (which women do BTW. Straight women actually lust over men's bodies, no that's not a myth). The most attractive women look for genetic fitness as well as provider status and an old man h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 12:25 PM
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My best guess would be that this is because men make up a much bigger proportion of the manual labour force. These jobs are usually undervalued and poorly paid. If you live in the UK you can thank Margaret Thatcher for screwing it up for working class men who want to be breadwinners by removing unions and the mining industry. Academia is also now rewarded far more than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 12:17 PM
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Not really, I just wish other people would get off my back.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 06:40 PM
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Chris Brown beat up his girlfriend and walks around with a tattoo of what he did. That's far from manly or brave. How some women could find that attractive is really beyond me. I thought women liked men who made them feel safe and secure?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 06:16 PM
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If it becomes obsolete why any need for sexual or romantic relationships between men and women? I like what makes men different to me physically and mentally. If that goes then men become a whole lot less interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 06:15 PM
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Also women often found men's bodies unattractive & ugly compared to their own body. They prefer lesbian porn more than they do prefer gay porn & straight porn for that matter. Of course there are few exceptional women that will say " Oh no but i like men because i find them attractive" but I THINK they are really in the minority there... This view is just messed up on so many levels. Lesbian porn? Are you kidding me?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 06:13 PM
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To prevent them from doing what? Eventually all empires collapse. Humans go back to their natural state and we start all over. We can already see this happening with the collapse of the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 08:12 PM
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A vast minority of people are actually technically unfit to reproduce. A person's genetic fitness is based on their ability to thrive, not to necessarily achieve optimal perceived levels of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 08:08 PM
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Yes I agree. As a rule, nothing is completely absent. There are always exceptions. There will always be people who fall outside of the norm or outside of a structure in society. But like you said, it's much less common for people not to marry and not to be guaranteed a life partner. There seems to be so many men who are incel now in our society and the number seems to be increasing. I think these men need to stop blaming their genetics, though. They need to take a look around them and notice tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 08:02 PM
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Yes I agree, feminism has ruined much of what existed between men and women, as has individualism. Feminism is a result of individualism. It's now cool and hip to at least try and be somewhat androgynous and even though it's really common place it's seen as a ticket to individuality. A majority of people in western countries thinks they are somehow unique and special and unlike everybody else. This leads to total self fulfillment, isolation and loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 07:52 PM
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I suppose you have a point. Abnormalities and genetic issues still come up in people even today. However, outside of western society incel men don't really exist. People have to have something seriously wrong with them not to reproduce and they seem to be in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 07:42 PM
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My Mother was a housewife up until I was 7 and my Father was in IT management working at a factory. I lived in a pretty nuclear family with a few instabilities. My Mother had 2 previous kids when she met my Father and she went onto have me and my brother with him. In her 30s she had a major breakdown, left my father who was devastated, became an alcoholic, started self harming and began sleeping with loads of different men. I had a very tough time from the age of about 7 or so. My parents were v…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 07:37 PM
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I wouldn't say so. I wouldn't even say that these types of men exist outside western society. Over here everybody just loves to categorize people and everybody wants to think they are something special. As I have said before, incels and cat ladies don't exist in most other countries. They are a western phenomenon. Women can't be omega in any society because women are passive, men are active. All a woman needs to attract at least some men is a working reproductive system. Unless she wants a top t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 07:28 PM
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Most of the time. I am very satisfied with the sex side of things and I find the man I am with incredibly physically attractive. That's never lacking. I am also financially supported and taken care of. However, I do often find my Husband a little insensitive and emotionally stunted and if we argue it's because he's said or done something that hurts my feelings and won't acknowledge it or even care, but for the most part I can accept this. Everybody has flaws and he just happens to be more of a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 07:19 PM
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Unless a woman wants a top tier man then appearance doesn't really matter. A woman can be a fat slob with acne and a high WHR and still get a reasonably decent guy to wife her up and knock her up with a few kids. The RP assumes that all women only find top tier men attractive. This is why they place so much weight upon female appearance, because they believe that all fat, ugly female slobs only want top tier men. Also, the fact that most RP men are white middle class speaks volumes also. White, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 06:59 PM
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It has been suggested that human females go through menopause so that they can become nannies and caregivers. Human pregnancy is very challenging and time consuming when compared to pregnancy of other species because of our large brain size. Problems can be overcome because older women can take care of pregnant younger women and their previous offspring. Human pregnancy is often uncomfortable to the point of debilitating and human infants are much more dependent and suckle for much longer than i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 05:38 PM
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I think it was only a matter of time before Paul Elam's supporters saw him for who he really is. This man is not an activist, he is a mentally unstable mess. It is evident that not only does he hold a lot of personal anger toward women as a whole but that he doesn't care about fighting for the rights of men and boys. I don't see him doing anything to benefit anyone. Furthermore he hasn't even tried to cooperate with the mainstream to get recognition of men's issues Which we all know do exist. Ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 05:13 PM
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It's only been an unmitigated disaster in the western world. You have both men and women behave in ways that would be unacceptable in more close knit, traditional communities and people all think they are special snowflakes. This is not a sign that women shouldn't have a say in mate choice, rather a consequence of western culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 04:47 PM
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Such a thing is usually a set up in countries where people are too poor to care for all their kids and they often have heavy debts to pay. Daughters come with a dowry to remedy this problem. The girl's Father will be choosing a man for his daughter that could pay off his debts with nothing else in mind. Often the girl will be married off before she even reaches sexual maturity. This is not a 'natural' set up, more a consequence of economic issues. In societies where people are not struggling so …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 04:41 PM
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the 20-80 rule is only a thing in developed countries and it's a predominantly middle class problem. Study the developing world and people in western countries of lower socio economic status and you will notice that literally everybody pairs off with someone. 'Incel' men and 'post wall cat ladies' don't seem to exist in rural India or Guinea Bissau for example. No one thinks about this BS. That is because relatively wealthy people in developed countries are individualistic. Everyone is a unique …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 04:30 PM
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Nowhere did I say I was attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 04:11 PM
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People I met in the past duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 04:11 PM
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I have never been with that sort of guy. I have had them offer though but I said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 05:33 AM
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i have tried being on top during sex and I didn't enjoy it. It is also painful for me because I have a short vagina and it made me feel self conscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 05:59 PM
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I thought plumbers made quite decent money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 05:31 PM
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Yeah but then they have to pay for it by having him screw around with other women. Every confident rich man with high SMV has attractive mistresses on the side and his wife is expected to keep up appearences. Women pay the price when they get with these types of men. You can never be truly happy with this type of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 05:31 PM
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I thought hypergamy was marrying a person of higher SMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 05:26 PM
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My lifestyle is pretty average I am a housewife. I am 7 months pregnant. I live with my Husband who is an IT engineer. I am 27 and he is 30. Very average. I am a white woman, husband is chinese. Not very average in my experience. I'm short and fat, he's short and thin. We are about on the same attractiveness level, maybe he's slightly better looking than I am. I see a lot of couples like that. Average. I have hardly any friends but I have 2 very close. I am friends with a schizophrenic guy I use…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 05:09 PM
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I probably wouldn't consider my relationships to be representative of the average female. I am really not sure about my Husband's SMV. Before we met he was incel and as much as I love him he has a lot of personality defects. I think perhaps we are on a pretty equal footing. However, I have known pig ugly women to be in relationships with good looking, well rounded men and the men seem to be in control and wrapped around the women's little finger. I am not sure if SMV really has everything to do …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 04:59 PM
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I don't know. For me personally I have a lot of respect for my Husband. I have tried to confide with him about things. However, for that he's usually totally useless. I often wish he had more emotional sensitivity. There are times when he has actually shown emotional sensitivity and I have really enjoyed talking with him and have felt very close to him. I get very upset and hurt when he brushes things off and tells me to 'just get over them' and that 'I am stupid'. It actually seems to be the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 04:44 PM
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I totally see where you are coming from. I know a lot of men who are really afraid of saying something to upset their wives. However, I have always seemed to be the one in relationships who has had the least control, so for me it's the other way around. There does seem to be a trend these days though of female dominance in relationships. Women will often just walk out on a guy who behaves like an ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 04:31 PM
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I can only speak for myself, but I have never expected men to pay for me unless they are my children's father and I am relying on them to provide for us financially whilst I commit myself physically to my kids or have been off ill from pregnancy ailments. I have had men offer to buy me things and pay for me otherwise. If someone is offering then I don't mind taking, but I don't think I would ask because I don't feel like they owe me anything. I don't think I deserve free dinner courtesy of being…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 04:25 PM
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I am already married. I wouldn't call myself completely conservative. I have mixed views on things. Also, someone can like only vanilla sex and not be a prude. Me and my Husband have a very regular sex life. We are just not into 'adventerous' things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 04:20 PM
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Yeah I can agree that men built and still build most of society. I can't argue with that. "Men have greater variance. The smartest and dumbest people on this earth are usually men. It's much easier for men to be obsessive and dedicated to something than women" 100% the truth there. However women have evolved for many years to grow and raise children and take care of the more vulnerable members of society. It's not that our role is unimportant, but most of us are not pioneers and we are generally…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 04:17 PM
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Most women nowadays work a job. Women usually only rely on other people financially when they are pregnant or have young kids to look after and who need their time which is perfectly excusable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 04:11 PM
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Now only you would say that...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 01:04 PM
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That's why I generally stay away from television and the mainstream media. It's all complete garbage. People are so cringeworthy it's embarrassing. You can see the amount of denial in people when it comes to things like this is completely evident.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 01:04 PM
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I don't care about having an alpha. I have an asian fetish and good to go with any asian guy, as long as he's not severely retarded or physically violent I am happy. Didn't have an issue getting laid or finding a husband lookswise I am honestly a 4/10. I am very happy to be a woman. Being less attractive it's a little harder but it's not a big deal. I have never felt sexually invisible to the men I want and I basically still realise I have it made when it comes to dating, sex and relationships b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 01:01 PM
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That's true. I bet however if I posted the last part about women I would get trashed. Most women are people pleasers who like to censor things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 12:56 PM
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I don't know. I just couldn't imagine myself feeling happy with a penis and wanting to stick it in women and doing a lot of things that guys do. I am very happy being a girl, even if I am not the most attractive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 12:55 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 12:53 PM
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I think if women can dish it they should take it. Same with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 12:53 PM
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I liked asians before I met my Husband. Not all the ones I met were fully decent guys but as a general rule I still liked them better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 12:40 PM
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I guess then I would still be a woman. Women seem to have it way easier. We are the passive people in society and passive people don't face nearly as many challenges.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 12:39 PM
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I am talking about criminal as in someone who is just generally really anti-social. The kind of guy who repeat offends and has no respect for people and society. These guys do seem to get a lot of sex from lower class women. I was born a lower class woman myself and don't see the appeal. My Husband has a few driving offenses and has grown weed when he was younger and has shop lifted but I would say that was pretty normal and he's actually a really well rounded guy and works as an IT Technician a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 12:37 PM
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I was born female and really don't want to/can't imagine myself feeling happy in a male body. Thus why I have a lot of sympathy for transgender people. Anyone who says they want to be born the opposite gender and doesn't have some form of gender dysphoria is lying. Either that or they want to complain and be a victim and make it look like being their gender is hard. Be glad you were born with the genitals your brain is happy with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 12:30 PM
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I have fixed my own shit. I can't fix anyone else's. I am a parent too. I worry about my kids just as much as you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 12:27 PM
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It depends on how fat. Overweight people, if they eat plenty of fruits and vegetables and don't eat too much meat they can still be in relatively good health. However, if anyone is more than class 1 obese or eats a lot of junk they are at risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 12:20 PM
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Fat guys I don't have an issue with. As long as they are not fat enough for it to heavily impact their day to day life I'm fine with it. I love food, I love to eat, I carry some extra lbs although I can't say I am obese although I do fall into the overweight category, we have something in common. Guys who keep fit and go to the gym all the time and watch heavily what they eat would probably expect me to do the same. I can't live with that BS. If that's what they like doing then good for them, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 12:18 PM
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I can tolerate incels and ugly female sluts. I actually feel sympathy for awful/pathetic people. Men who are studs and have a lot going for them are usually vapid assholes who live for the party and they constantly care about what others are thinking and doing. It all goes to their heads. I can't tolerate those sorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 12:08 PM
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Yes I frequently get told I'm immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 12:00 PM
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I don't know. I haven't been with many white men. I was with about 4 white men in my early 20s and late teens and they were all about 5 inches (they were the neckbeard or socially awkward type). 4-6 inches seems to be the norm for asian men. I have never had anything bigger. I have quite a short vagina anyway (I can take some girth though) and I would like a guy in spite of having a massively long dick rather than because of it. I have never had a long dick but I have experimented with objects a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 11:57 AM
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I have no issue with fat slobs alone. I would happily go with a fat man, and I am not exactly thin or nice looking myself. I just find men today heavily hypocritical when they are fat incels and complain about not being able to score a gym bunny. It also seems to be a middle class western thing. Ugly men in other communties seem to know their place on the SMV ladder and they are happy to accept ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 11:54 AM
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The CC means a young woman having sex with lots of chads and then wanting to settle down with a lower quality man when she 'hits the wall'. I can't say that has been the case with me. I might be sad and pathetic and I might be a slut by my partner count alone, but that doesn't mean I have ridden the CC. Women who have ridden the CC usually don't become sad and pathetic until they hit the wall. I have always been sad and pathetic and I hit the wall the day I was born. I don't think sex is some di…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 11:50 AM
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No I am 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 11:46 AM
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Yes I am married and I am 31 weeks pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 11:43 AM
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Promiscuous men suck even more than promiscuous women. Refer to my thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3o37i4/who_says_studs_are_better_than_sluts/ I don't give a fuck about a man's bedroom performance. If he has a penis and he can use it and we like each other I don't care. Sex is not something that people need to be skilled at. Even animals can do it. Sexual intercourse is not an art form like people pretend it is. It's like eating or breathing or sleeping. Also, promisc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 11:39 AM
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In the UK on the NHS?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 11:16 AM
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I guess you have a point that I can't argue with. You have beaten me in this argument. However, I am really not one for making people feel ashamed for not reporting things. I am probably more forgiving of that then you are. Also, some sexual assaults are medical. Like I said. Most of that is perfectly legal and you can't go to the police unless you want to be laughed at.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 10:21 AM
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What if it were to be the other way around? I personally can't stand promiscuous men. They are usually extroverted, use dread game, unreliable, unfaithful and have 50 or more other pussies to compare you to and if you have anything on your body that is deemed physically imperfect then expect men in the whole fucking village to know and to laugh at you and your 'sloppy used up pussy' or 'droppy tits' or 'meat curtains'. Promiscuous men are filthy, savage pigs. Most also want to fuck women in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 10:15 AM
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It's not as black and white as that. You have to have proof that something happened. That's not always possible. What's the point in going through the trauma of reporting something to the police when you know that person is going to get away with it? Plus there are different kinds of sexual assault. There is also medical sexual assault, which is often perfectly legal. You can't go to the police and tell them that a gynecologist, an obgyn or a sexual health nurse put his or her fingers up there w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 10:06 AM
0

I see women do that all the time. Most seem to say whatever they can that they think will please people at the time, totally forgetting what they said before. Women frequently do it offline as well. I am honestly going to say I prefer incels as long as they are east asian men. However, I don't class myself as most women. I have yellow fever/an asian fetish and that's all a guy needs to present to me for me to like him. He can be the biggest loser on earth and as long as he's asian and doesn't ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 09:52 AM
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"A criminal is far above an incel guy" I would honestly disagree with that. I would rather marry or have sex with an incel guy over a serial criminal low life any day. Most incel men by my definition are OK. My Husband was incel when we met. Could be because I have some degree of autism so I can relate to these men. I can't say I fit in with most other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 09:39 AM
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It's embarrassing and humiliating. It's not something that people want to even begin to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 09:35 AM
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My husband has a major nerd cackle. I think it's cute. It's also probably why he jumped through so many hoops for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 09:33 AM
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I have known her for 7 years (she is 25 and I am 27). She has a learning disability and OCD she's really, really sweet. She doesn't live independently. She has mental health carers live with her most of the time and her parents support her a lot. Her parents are lovely too. She has a long term boyfriend. In all honesty I don't like him, but she gets very attached to people and doesn't particularly like meeting new ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 09:28 AM
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Before I was married I used to meet chinese guys I didn't know off of wechat, invite them back to my house after 7pm and have sex with them. Sometimes we would eat together and spend time together as friends afterwards. I am hardly extroverted or attractive. I am probably a point above the woman you showed a photo of but honestly not by a tonne. I would class myself as ugly and so would most people. All I needed to get these men interested was a vagina and not even a particularly nice one either…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 09:24 AM
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The only reason hot women are not usually sluts by notch count is because the find the minority of men attractive enough to sleep with. Their minds work the same. Men just have to play harder and offer them more to get them into bed because they fancy themselves more than they fancy a majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 08:56 AM
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Men encourage each other. Women tend to like chad charisma thundercock. Chad charisma thundercock tends to be part of the in crowd and the in crowd tend to dictate what the most popular way is for people to behave. If that's hot wiring cars, selling smack and woman beating then what chad does. If that's being a smart ass liberal hipster pussy who listens to shitty music and wears problem glasses that's what chad does. Women don't dictate behavior to men. Remember that males are the dominant gend…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 08:53 AM
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Men in this society are no better than women. They need to stop pretending that they are. A lot of RP men are so deluded about themselves it's funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 08:48 AM
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People who want censorship are boring. People should be allowed to say whatever they like and people should be allowed to challenge whatever they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 08:46 AM
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Yes, but then again so are modern western men. Modern western men are mostly kinky ass bandits who prefer a woman's butt hole to her vagina and who watch a tonne of porn and drink, smoke and party too much and don't have a family orientated bone in their body and can't be trusted at all. They'll compare you to 50 different other pussies they have had in their head every time they have sex with you and you won't matter any more than the rest. They will try and pressure you to do kinky shit they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 08:14 AM
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BPers give crappy advice. End of. Then again so do a lot of RP men. Loads of RP men are deluded about their ability to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 08:11 AM
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I'm a woman and have had around 20 partners, however, I prefer to be with non-promiscuous men. Simply because these men are easier to hold onto and less likely to get the opportunity to form personal relationships with other women. They also have fewer experiences to compare you to. I have been with quite a few virgins and my husband apart from me has only ever had sex with a few prostitutes and he was almost 30. I don't have to worry about him using dread game on me or finding someone else. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 08:04 AM
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People in western countries as a rule are individualistic and selfish. It's a consequence of our culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 07:59 AM
0

Elliot Rodger was a false flag. I don't believe for a second he was even real. I mean, look at the fake crime scenes and all the bad crisis actors. It's obvious. However, talking about the principal, it was totally his fault. A guy like that isn't going to have any luck with the type of girl he was always after. He refused to lower his standards or even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 07:54 AM
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Sluts are not necessarily of low SMV. These days most women are sluts to some degree. Incels however are always of low SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 07:53 AM
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Yeah I have met a lot of strange men on the internet in times past. However, at least if you are not in a situation where you and they are drinking alcohol you can figure them out before you do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 07:49 AM
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Then he's going to have to deal with being alone. Not everyone can improve themselves enough to get what they want. We all have to be realistic, women as well as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 07:48 AM
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Rejection sucks. It's OK to feel hurt over rejection. Really there is no blanket piece of advice I have for this guy since I don't know anything about him. I guess my main piece of advice would be to have realistic standards. In all honesty don't go for women who are more attractive than you and have lots of higher SMV options. Abandon those women and start dating women on your level. I notice a lot of men end up single because they are under the delusion that they can score a HB6 or more and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 04:12 AM
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I can't say I am so desperate living in a western country in 2015 I would ever feel the need to do that. Maybe if I was caught in extreme poverty which it seemed like the only way out I could feel pressured into doing such a thing, but I would not feel good about it and it would weigh heavily on my conscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 04:06 AM
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MRAs are more often than not liberal egalitarians and many are also socialists. I can't see how they are part of the red pill in any possible way. I have met self identified feminists are MRAs who have exactly the same goals and beliefs. From what I have seen on Yahoo answers I think a lot of self identified MRAs are realizing that Paul Elam has his own agenda and they are distancing themselves from him. I truly think he is losing face because I can see many MRAs not wanting to associate themsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 03:50 AM
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The men you describe are chads. They are usually socially popular, white and conventionally handsome. That's all a guy really needs to be chad. Very few women get with a man hoping he will be aggressive or cruel to HER. If she stays with an abusive man it's in spite of those things, not because of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 02:05 AM
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My favourite bands are probably neurotech and paradise lost. I also like modern day vocal trance, futurepop and EBM music. I also like metal music like scar symmetry, Ihsan and insomnium and I like a lot of underground goth bands. I can't stand anything remotely easy listening and I hate rock music if it's like Nickelback or Bullet for my valentine. I find a wide range of music actually gets on my nerves. Music is very personal to me and for me it's not a social thing at all. I tend to listen wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 01:46 AM
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I think the most important thing of all is why they did what they did and whether or not these things are still troubling them/still an issue in their life now. People will change their behaviour and they often do. In today's individualistic society where people often lack the best role models and the right guidance and direction past behaviour isn't something that should always be heavily judged. People these days often have to learn on their own when in times past their parents and elders held…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 01:30 AM
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I'm not blue pill but I think it's best that people stay away from the party and club scene and meet their partners elsewhere. This is where men are most likely to meet the most insane women who have drink and drug problems. With the internet and sites and aps like pof, tango, wechat and tinder people have no excuse to go out clubbing to meet sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 01:28 AM
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A high number of the African American community is killed by abortion. That's how the numbers are kept down. Black women are also often fitted with implanon and take the depo provera, up to 2 3rds of the women who take these contraceptives are black. The depo provera can cause long term infertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 01:11 AM
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I have no idea what that pic is of.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 01:01 AM
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Toxic masculinity as you put it is caused by large numbers of men being unemployed and having nothing meaningful to do. When men have nothing constructive to do all day they are likely to turn into criminals. Men are built to have some kind of physical or mental activity to do. You just don't see it in men who have gainful employment, or in the majority of men in tribal communities who are always busy. Men are not generally like women. Most of them can't sit around all day looking after children…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 12:59 AM
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Women do not award men for this behaviour. A subset of women, from lower socio economic backgrounds feel forced to put up with it because there are a lack of men around them who do not conform to this stereotype. The pressure generally comes from other men. Why do you think men become worse when they have been to prison? They certainly haven't been around women and if they know they will probably be going back there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 11:14 PM
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No but the man shouldn't have to contribute anything to the child's upbringing or have any type of legal parental responsibility if he wants to opt out. Whether the woman carries the child to term or not does not matter. I think whether or not the woman gets to raise the child depends on the circumstances. Say a 30 year old female teacher has sex with a 15 year old boy pupil for example then that isn't exactly pedophilia but it's still illegal and still statutory rape and the boy is still too yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 10:59 PM
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I have no idea what that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 01:11 AM
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I'm female and I was born female.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 12:44 AM
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I have to agree. I have been banned from mumsnet and netmums time and time again for this very reason. I seem to get excluded from a lot of female dominated spaces. I can't completely put my finger on why as I am not unkind to people or anything. I believe I probably just don't care much about my social standing and I am not bothered about saying things which others will find controversial. I only have one really close female friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 10:07 PM
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Yes but then there is abortion. A woman in our society doesn't have to go through with a pregnancy unless she wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 09:53 PM
1

Cuckolding is a completely different thing to a woman being single with kids and looking for a new partner or husband and asking a man to take on her kids. Men have the option to say yes or no to that and it's certainly not cuckolding because these men are fully aware of their choices and they know that the children they are taking on are not theirs. If they say yes then they are hardly victims of anything, it is a conscious decision on their behalf. Men are not so stupid and helpless that this …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 09:51 PM
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I think she just has more confidence and feels happier. She is making the very best of things and she is young and single and is putting herself out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 09:36 PM
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I like it when men show chivalry. Even if it's a man completely unrelated to me. If a man opens a door, or gives his seat to an old or pregnant woman, or I see a man offering a woman his coat or walking a woman home, or a man offers to carry something heavy for a woman I always feel very happy to have men around. I also like to see a man providing for his family and spending time with his wife and kids. I personally like doing things for my Husband. I like doing his laundry and cleaning the hous…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 09:31 PM
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Sometimes it stings a bit, but then I remember that my Husband is a very proud man and thinks that most people are stupid, so I then take it with a pinch of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 09:24 PM
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I am somewhat a traditionalist but I do recognize that we will always need things like female doctors, midwives, gynecologists, nurses and support workers and carers for the disabled. Women seem to fill a really important role in some careers, just as much as they do within the home and family and society would struggle without some of these women. I think it's beneficial to society that at least some women have careers. I personally usually choose to see a female doctor. However, the rubbish ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 09:21 PM
1

"is it immoral to fall out of love with your SO who still loves you and leave them, devastating them emotionally and depriving them of the object of their love?" It's a far from ideal situation, but if 2 people are not married and don't have kids, they don't really have that obligation to stay. There are also extreme circumstances where a divorce is better than staying together even if the couple has a family to think of. People don't generally fall out of love for no reason. Usually it's becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 09:06 PM
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I don't think that anyone is ever denying that there are narcissistic women. Just look at Tinder, ask.fm and Facebook and look at the amount of female posers who are on there 24/7 and are seeking constant validation from everybody. Cliquey women also tend to be narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 09:03 PM
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It says I'm a defender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 08:59 PM
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MRAs are usually liberal egalitarian socialists. I wouldn't even call them part of the red pill. I have met self identified feminists and MRAs who basically have all the same beliefs and ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 08:57 PM
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I don't get too heated when people have different opinions to me. I'm probably more likely to start ignoring replies if they get nasty or personal or if they drag something out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 08:54 PM
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I don't know, I have found the men's red pill groups to be a lot more welcoming even if I am posting openly as a female. It just seems to be something about RPW. They seem to have a major inferiority complex or something and they seem incredibly uptight around men and misogynistic of their own sex. They don't even stand for traditional gender roles like they claim to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 08:50 PM
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It's annoying at times. I know he doesn't just do it to me so I can't say it's extremely hurtful. If he did and it was something he just did to me I would find it upsetting and personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 08:49 PM
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The wall does exist. There does come an age where women's looks start to fade, however, it's not really a huge deal as TRP make it out to be. Plain and even less attractive women still have options. It's only a problem if a woman won't settle for anything less than chad thundercock. There are plenty of men who are not low lives who don't have high standards for wifing a woman up. Women are only chronically single if they make a choice to be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 08:34 PM
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I would bet that all women who are single at that age are single completely through their own choices. They could still find a man if they wanted to and prioritized it over other things, although women who are older than their early 40s usually have run out of time to have a baby at least naturally. Women never have to be single, at least not forever. There is no such thing as a forever alone woman unless she makes choices that lead her down that path. I am plain, dumpy and nothing to look at. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 08:19 PM
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Most of the people in medicine, science, infrastructure and technology are male. Do you really think that their focus is to 'bang attractive women?' or to contribute to society? which the foundations are built by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 08:11 PM
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RPW claims to be a self improvement group, but it's incredibly cliquey, vapid and bitchy and I can't stand it there. Say one thing 'out of line' and you also get a ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 08:08 PM
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Yes I completely agree. Even my Husband makes remarks I don't like sometimes about my choice to stay at home. He often meanly compares me to his sister, who owns loads of takeaway shops, 3 houses and is studying pharmacology and is able to have an 'intellectual conversation'. Both me and his Mother have never worked since having kids at least, and he calls us 'stupid' all the time to our faces. Yet he completely contradicts himself saying he wants a big family and a good mother for his kids? Des…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 08:01 PM
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Not really. You see loads of less attractive couples with a few kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 07:28 PM
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I am starting to think this is an American problem even more so than one in other western countries. Here in the UK most people don't have such high standards but a few guys still get left out of dating and sex simply because they are too picky. These men don't seem to be in the majority. Women never get left out of the opportunity, but I do know cases of women who keep turning down guys and ending relationships and are chronically single.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 07:28 PM
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Yes that's true. I know women who are single and childless in their late 30s and 40s and they really don't seem bothered about it despite the fact that they haven't planned to be that way. It's kind of scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 07:26 PM
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I agree with the RP. However, it will only take some people so far. They still might not be able to find their ultimate fantasy partner if their requirements are high.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 11:29 PM
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That's only because our society is so vapid and people are taught to be individualistic and to have a high opinion of themselves and to think they are special. In other countries this isn't a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 11:28 PM
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Maybe try and compromise with her. Maybe compromise and find clothes that are both feminine but comfortable and practical. Wearing pink in itself shouldn't be a problem and finding attractive panties that are both comfortable and feminine should be a good compromise. Thongs are not something that can be worn by every woman. Does your wife have a labia that hangs out at all or quite big lady parts? If she does then I can totally see why she would not want to wear thongs. With some women they dig …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/15 10:44 PM
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No I don't think that sex is a privilege that should be reserved to a minority of men and this mindset that people should be denied family life and intimacy is disturbing. This is primarily a western problem. There are plenty of less attractive and plainer looking women that exist. These women should be encouraged to go with the men who have less charisma and are not tall or conventionally good looking and have issues with being incel. These men should also be encouraged to work on themselves an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 10:24 PM
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I think unless a man has natural charisma (and height and looks certainly help too) then he's not going to get the type of woman that every man dreams of. I believe that incels just need to work on themselves, take their responsibilities seriously as men and lower their standards a little when it comes to how physically attractive and popular the women they go for are. In my experience men are only incel when they won't settle for anything less than a 110lb blonde fitness babe. What is so wrong …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 10:07 PM
0

At the end of the day I actually think it's up to men to decide over, have and control guns. I'm a woman, so I shouldn't be allowed to make the final decision anyway regardless of what my opinion might be. Guns, weapons, politics, the economy and war are men's affairs. All I see is that muslims are not so much a threat as people say they are. Yes they are populating Britain at a high rate, but it's up to British people to have bigger families and it's up to men to make sure that their wives carr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 08:28 PM
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Look at the evidence for yourself...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 06:56 PM
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Muslims are nowhere near as much of a problem as people make them out to be. Especially in the UK. The twin towers and the london bombings were government set ups. Sharia law will never become the norm in the UK and many of it's customs are dying out here. Many muslims are even refusing to live by it over here. I know this because I used to live in a community full of sunni muslims.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 06:30 PM
3

Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 06:26 PM
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Women who work are way more likely to cheat and way less likely to be satisfied with their husbands. Divorce is much more likely to happen when a woman has a job outside the home. These days women are even more likely to cheat than men. You are risking things. Why would you not want more kids? Don't you want a big family? I think a big family is the best thing anyone can have. Imagine being surrounded by your kids and grand kids when you are old. It will also bring you and your wife closer. What…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/15 03:20 AM
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Really I think it would make only a marginal amount of difference if anything. Most incels want women to find them attractive, they don't want to have sex with prostitutes and will only do so second to having a girlfriend or lots of willing sexual partners. Prostitution is legal here in the UK and incels are still pretty miserable. They don't however carry out mass shootings but that's because guns are really difficult to get hold of over here unless you have shady contacts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 03:11 AM
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Easton in Bristol is pretty terrible. I'm not making it up. I'm glad I don't live there any more. It's full of gang violence, criminals and druggies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 03:08 AM
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I grew up in easton in bristol. It's a pretty rough place. Lots of prostitution and gang violence. I also frequented st Paul's and I lived there for some time. I have also lived in Withywood and a lot of my family live in Knowle. Never any mass shootings. These are some of the worst places to live in the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 02:57 AM
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Where did you get those statistics? If anything they are probably to do with the rising population rather than more people owning guns. I am 27 and lived in a UK ghetto until I was 18. I only ever saw 1 gun in my life in the flesh (and it was broken and had no bullets) and there has never been 1 recorded mass shooting where I lived and I grew up in one of the most notorious places in the UK. There was a lot of knife crime and a friend's brother was killed but it tended to be between gang members…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 02:49 AM
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Why didn't you just get her pregnant again? Men who demand that their wives work are losers IMO. Being a provider is a man's job. Just knock her up again so she is occupied with another baby. Either that or demand she homeschool your existing kids so she has something to do. Work is no place for a wife and a mother. It won't be long now before your wife probably meets a guy who takes her fancy at the office and cheats on you and it will be your fault for asking a woman to provide for your family…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/15 02:39 AM
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I honestly don't understand other women. This would make me deadly insecure and I would probably cry and piss my husband off all night and it would end up in a row with me having a huge panic attack. He wouldn't be getting better sex in the morning. I usually starfish during sex whether I am enjoying it or not. I just don't like moving around. Women are not built to thrust like men are.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/15 02:29 AM
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I think this woman is acting really inappropriately. You and her are supposed to be dating and all she can talk to you about is another guy. There are 3 people in this relationship and that's you, her and scott. Unless you can deal with him in the picture I would be out. I would suggest you find someone who respects you. This woman obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings and she has made it clear that she is obsessed with this scott. You sound like you have feelings for this woman that…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/15 02:17 AM
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The government is responsible for the bombings and there are no mass stabbings that have made it to the news recently. Usually if there is a stabbing it's a 1 on 1. I also believe elliot rodgers was a false flag. A lot of these shootings in America are fake too, but I still feel safer living in a country where police and civillians can't carry guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 10:44 PM
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Most of those are false drills.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 10:43 PM
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I think I would find it impossible to completely disown a child that I had raised even if they did terrible things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 09:03 PM
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I'm so happy I live in the UK. No mass shootings here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 09:01 PM
1

My husband is chinese.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 08:52 PM
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Look, you are only denying this because the idea of having a gaping hoo ha even temporarily after having a baby makes you feel insecure. You want to think that your body as a woman is miraculous, well it's not. Human females are inadequate when it comes to pregnancy and birth when you compare them to other mammals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 09:10 AM
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Some men can't get the women they really desire so they settle for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 09:05 AM
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That's because many medical professionals don't disclose everything so bluntly. It's not politically correct to tell a woman she will have a gaping hoo ha if she doesn't do exercise after having a baby. Usually doctors will just tell you how important it is to 'exercise your pelvic floor' but they won't bring up the subject of vaginal tightness specifically. It's a very taboo subject, just like circumcision. Doctors won't usually tell men or parents of newborn boys in so many words that circumci…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 09:01 AM
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It does happen nearly always. Talk to any honest doctor. Childbirth will always temporarily weaken the pelvic floor muscles. As I said the head of a human infant is much larger than that of other human mammals and can barely fit through the vagina. 9 times out of 10 a woman will at least have some minor issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 08:49 AM
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And yes, a woman's vagina will more often than not be the same if she doesn't do kegels. Human infants have very large heads and the human body hasn't evolved fast enough to give birth to heads of that size.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 08:48 AM
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Just do some research. I have also given birth and I have experienced temporary pelvic floor weakness and I have had doctors and midwives tell me this information. I also wouldn't ask other women about it, many are too embarrassed and won't be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 08:46 AM
3

There are actually women who orgasm when they are given pelvic exams?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 08:34 AM
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5 inches isn't particularly small. Some women are perfectly happy with 5 inches.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 08:32 AM
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Childbirth nearly always does some reversible damage to the muscles and every woman who has given birth and has not done kegels will have a different vagina than she did before, even if men won't say anything to her. The human body is somewhat insufficient at giving birth because of human head size.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 08:25 AM
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Childbirth does actually do damage to the muscles that determine the tightness of a woman's vagina. This damage is naturally reversible but only with kegels and most women can get back to their pre-baby state if they start doing them at any time after they have had a child. However if a woman gives birth and doesn't ever bother to do these exercises regularly, and I have learnt that a lot of mothers don't, then chances are she won't be the same as she was down there before children and will be m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 08:11 AM
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Randomly making sexual comments towards someone on the street is rude and creepy and women find it particularly threatening in a way that a man just can't understand. It doesn't just happen to attractive women either, it happens to literally every woman under 50 from time to time and you don't need to be dressed provocatively. Another thing is that men seem to pick the worst possible times and settings do to do it, like late at night, on empty trains or buses ect. It has never happened to me in …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 07:56 AM
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I am fine with submitting to men in non-sexual ways, so I don't see why that would be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 07:41 AM
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Just to mention I have never had a guy fall madly for me, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 07:41 AM
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I honestly think it would be the same in any marriage or relationship I had. I am the problem, not my husband. I want at least 4 children and I only have sex with asian men. Most asian men are too scared of disappointing their parents not to pull out or use a condom. I found myself lying about being on the depo a few occasions and this only worked with about 2 guys and I couldn't get them to see me often enough. It's also not something I feel that good about doing. Being with my Husband is bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 07:39 AM
1

I just lay there and let them get on with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 07:24 AM
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What makes you think that all women have buckets for vaginas? I am perfectly satisfied if a man has a 4-5 inch penis and I am 27 and certainly not a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 07:23 AM
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My Dad quite a lot. He is from an upper middle class jewish background. However, he's really unbalanced and didn't do as well as his brothers and sisters and he drank a lot and took drugs. My Mother has no education. She got pregnant and dropped out of school at 15 and she had 2 kids by the time she met my dad. My parents are no longer together and my Dad stupidly quit his job managing IT in a factory and now can't find any work. My mother has never had a legit job. Both my parents are neglectfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 07:21 AM
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No I just find asian men irresistibly physically attractive. They drive me crazy and when I see them they make me melt. No other type of man can compare to them for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 07:17 AM
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My husband is really OCD. He won't even kiss with tongues and he's terrified of bacteria. I don't think he wants to do me up the ass. He is rude and insensitive and says things to piss me off all the time and he really doesn't care. If he wanted to bang me up the ass I think he would say so. Yeah you have a point. They probably saw I was white and automatically thought I would be more open sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 07:11 AM
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Yes I honestly considered it for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 07:09 AM
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To me all asian men are extremely attractive. It doesn't matter if they are over 50 and balding or a complete dork. I am not attracted at all to any other type of man. You could say I have a fetish and a guy is high value for me by default of being asian. With a few wild exceptions of course e.g he was really mentally retarded and had some kind of chromosome problem, was under 18 or was so obese he couldn't get out of bed. That's literally the extent of my fetish. I even had the chance to meet u…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 07:06 AM
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He tolerates me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 07:05 AM
0

My chinese husband did red pill stuff and he has never had any luck with hot women. However, he's never been very charismatic and he naturally has no clue how to act socially. He knows how to fake all that stuff but it never gets him past the first few dates and it's never gotten him into bed with anyone. I think men with natural charisma and men who are naturally positive, confident, assertive and friendly do better with women. You can't fake these traits around someone forever and over the cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 08:02 AM
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I guess. I have never had a gift worth thousands exactly, but I did meet my husband on the internet, who financially supports me and I don't have to work. I'm not what most people would call attractive or extroverted. All I had to do was get pregnant by him for all this to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 07:56 AM
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I never did that stuff with any of those guys. If they gave me an ultimatum or got forceful with me I didn't see them again. Luckily I was never assaulted. I am a white woman but I only sleep with east asian men. A majority of these men were actually chinese and I met them off of wechat. My Husband knows pretty much everything there is to know about me and I have had this conversation with him several times. He has the same opinion, he thinks men have an unrealistic view of sex because of porn. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 07:50 AM
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If a woman doesn't go outside there is something called the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 07:46 AM
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Worst case scenario a really unattractive woman could still get pregnant (this is excluding women who have fertility problems and yes I know they exist), even if she can't find a man she likes enough who will stick around at least she can still be a mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 07:44 AM
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I don't know, I think all guys are capable of pumping and dumping women. Not all beta type guys want a serious relationship, some are only after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 07:42 AM
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Yeah I kind of agree. I went on pof and used a picture of a very unattractive woman in her 30s who was fat and had part of her face missing and I found 2 guys willing to have sex with me within 15 minutes. One was a really cute asian guy, the other looked nice and normal, although kinda docile but I don't see that as an issue personally, I did it just to see if the thing about women not being able to be incel was true and it looks like it is. The girl's pic I actually used was also an ex GF of o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 07:35 AM
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I have been stalked by some terrible guy on facebook now for years. He stalks several other women as well. Including some much younger overweight girl with very greasy hair and some girl in a wheelchair and he keeps posting their pictures up all over his pages and he finds their other social media profiles and he takes screenshots of their photographs being saved onto his computer. He would even post screenshots of sexually explicit conversations he has had with these girls in the past all over …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 07:23 AM
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It's not my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 07:09 AM
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No matter how much I was attracted to a man, I would not do those things with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 07:09 AM
1

Really? I actually feel better about being sexually intimate with my husband when I feel like me and him are on the same level in that sense. Some of the best times we have had sex is when he has acted really needy towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 07:08 AM
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Said guy probably needs to lower his standards and talk to more women. The only men I have met who are incels are usually too shy to initiate anything, don't have any natural charisma and want women whose SMV doesn't match their own. Men who are not naturally charismatic are not going to end up with a really hot woman. Some men have trouble accepting this and you either have it or you don't. My husband was incel before he met me because he has no charisma and he would always hit on conventionall…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 02:21 AM
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But if they didn't know about it, they wouldn't like it or have a preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 02:14 AM
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I don't believe this to be true. People (usually men) obviously get the idea to do these things from somewhere. They are not a naturally occurring part of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 02:09 AM
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I think women under 25 know they are at their most attractive and are not forced to settle. After that age a lot of women relax their standards some especially if they have had kids and don't look as great any more. The best looking women usually want the best looking men vice verse. 9 times out of 10 ugly people or old people tend to end up together. It has always been this way when people have been given the choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 02:06 AM
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I am personally a housewife and my marriage has a more traditional dynamic to it. However, what I pointed out is my observation of many other women. I don't take birth control and I am having a baby with my husband and I am planning to be a stay at home mother and be constantly pregnant or breastfeeding until I am unable to do so any more. A lot of women these days do have a chip on their shoulder when it comes to traditional gender roles. A lot of women react to me quite negatively when me and …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 01:39 AM
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What I don't get are these so called traditional relationships especially on RPW where the woman has a full time career and does kinky bedroom activities with her husband. I think that most of these red pill women are more into modern day BDSM rather than having a traditional relationship where they have to give up their personal independence and let their husband have the final say when it comes to everything. Not that I want to stop people from doing this if that's what they want but they coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 01:34 AM
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I wouldn't count on her to be a traditional wife if that is what a man wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 01:28 AM
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I don't think you can compare male and female behaviour. Women and men usually do things for entirely different reasons. Women often don't want to take men's surnames because these days a lot of women fight with an inferiority complex and it's the in thing for women to try and be as equal to men as they possibly can be. Men don't generally have an inferiority complex and don't have the same issue. The woman is probably fighting with idea of getting married and being a traditional wife because wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 01:23 AM
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Most men I know are a bit slobby. I have never met a single man whose mother doesn't do his housework at least who lives in a completely sanitary environment He can be the most well put together guy and 9 times out of 10 there will still be pee on his toilet seat or grease around his oven hobs or on his kitchen counter top.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 01:15 AM
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Smoking is very bad for others. It's all OK if he wants to hurt his own health but it's not fair for him to risk giving his family cancer. I think his wife was being reasonable. Me and my brother constantly had chest infections and asthma and were always in hospital as small children because both our parents smoked frequently all over the house. Not to mention that smoking wrecks the house. My Mother still smokes indoors and her house is yellow and sticky and all her clothes and furniture stinks…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 01:11 AM
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I would ask him why. Seems kind of unusual. Why does he even want to have a marriage ceremony? It's not the same as it was 100 years ago. A couple can do everything whilst cohabiting that they can do whilst married. It sounds to me like he doesn't really want to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 01:07 AM
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Most teenage girls are not attracted to much older men and don't appreciate being forced to have sex with them. More often than not young attractive girls who have sex with much older men don't do it consensually. It's fine to have a fantasy but unless you are justin bieber or harry styles 14 year old girls are unlikely to find you attractive especially if attractive women your own age don't even like you, unless they are very obese and ugly or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 06:25 PM
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9 times out of 10 when a much older man gets with a young woman the young woman is either obese or physically unattractive or he is loaded with money and has exceptional status. When you get older and uglier your tastes in men will more than likely evolve. People usually go for those with similar SMV to themselves. Exceptions do exist yes but they are not the general rule. You will deteriorate as you age and chances are you will eventually be attracted to men who are wrinkly and balding.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 06:09 PM
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If you really had that experience then I won't dismiss it. However, speaking for myself personally, I do like it when my husband opens up about his insecurities. It makes me feel less terrible about my own because I know I am not the only one out of the two of us who has them. It also proves to me that he values me enough to be concerned about losing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 06:00 PM
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Liberal radical feminists hate women more than anybody and they are full of self loathing. They have penis envy and they hate the fact that women are not like men physically and mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 05:55 PM
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You admire women with masculine personality traits and aspirations and you seem to despise femininity in women. You seem to have exactly the same views as a liberal radical feminist, but you are much more honest, blunt and forward about your view.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 05:52 PM
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Yes I think you have a good point. A lot of red pill gurus are the ones that seem really rude and obnoxious. No less rude and obnoxious than the women they claim to have a problem with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 05:41 PM
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I have met some rp men who are really obnoxious and insensitive. I wouldn't want my daughter dating someone like heartiste or roosh v. I would like my daughter to be with a masculine traditional man however and I would hope he was a gentleman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 02:55 PM
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I'm not homophobic I still think gay people should have the personal freedom to be gay without being harmed or persecuted. That doesn't mean that being gay is perfectly normal though so I'm not going to pretend it is. It's in line with every other mental issue, brain disorder or disability. Plus I won't have that problem you are talking about for much longer because I'm going to get a labiaplasty next year. Yeah, labia that stick out are also not normal. I don't know why people like to pretend t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 10:21 PM
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I love my husband but tact is not his strong point and I think he really regrets saying it now. In my experience men often pursue sex, relationships and marriage with a wide variety of women, even when they claim they won't settle for anything less than conventional beauty. I just don't listen to men's opinions too much anymore. I have seen so many men for example harp on about fat women and how hideous they are but then I see them besotted with their latest love interest who is a big whale. Per…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 08:23 PM
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To get the vagina back to normal after you have had a baby you have to make a commitment to doing kegels each day, otherwise it does stay permanently looser. Women should be doing kegels each day anyway. I'm completely lazy and I hate anything athletic but I have no problem doing them because they are so easy and after a while you do them even without thinking. Childbirth weakens the pelvic floor and anyone who denies this is denying medical fact. Moneyoversluts always talks out of his bum. I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 08:12 PM
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Gyneas probably say that to flatter their clients because America has a private healthcare system and they want to keep their clientele. It's good salesmanship. I couldn't imagine a doctor or medical professional of any sort making any type of personal comment here in the UK where we have a socialist healthcare system. Over here you don't get to choose which doctors or medical professionals you see.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 08:01 PM
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I think most women are certainly innies. I have one which is very much an 'outie' and I have had a few sexual partners tell me that mine looked different. One told me I had 'a special pussy, that he has never tried before' another one said 'it looked like a big pretty flower' although most of them don't mention it, probably because they worry about being rude. The only slightly negative comment I had was from my Husband he said in exact words 'I prefer innies, but outies are not a dealbreaker'. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 07:56 PM
1

From a conventional point of view I have always had what a lot of people would describe as unattractive lady parts. Mine have been that way since puberty, even before that at age 7, I got self conscious and stopped attending swimming lessons because we all had to dress and undress together and the other girls used to point out that I 'had a big fanny'. My labia have stuck out since I was very young and I have quite a fat majora and I have had what anyone would consider 'roast beef flaps' since p…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 07:28 PM
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I like how a lot of men are simple. They don't always ask for much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 07:18 PM
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It was in a forensic pathology text book for university a level so it was correct. As I said it doesn't darken to a heavy degree and it's not something that someone without medical knowledge is likely to notice. A woman with a neat innie isn't going to transform into roast beef when she loses her virginity. Mine looks the same as it did before I had my daughter. The inside was a little looser for a while but kegels got it back to normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 09:54 PM
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I have a friend who studied forensic pathology and he said it changes somewhat after a woman has began to have sex, but it wouldn't be such a dramatic change for a woman to develop extremely dark ones unless she had that feature somewhat to begin with. I can speak for myself and I have what most people would call roast beef and I have never had a neat looking one, not even as a 15 year old virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 08:05 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 02:36 AM
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Each to their own but to me that would be creepy. I did have one lesbian friend but she wasn't interested in me in the slightest and her personality was very feminine, so I could relate to her just like any other girl. She was also only 4'8 and 35kg and really tiny and non threatening so she really didn't bother me at all. I also had a nice teacher who was a lesbian and she had a very girlish personality and I had another lesbian teacher who was a first class bitch and I didn't like her. It's th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 09:55 PM
1

I know this question only applies to women having a high n count but I don't think a high n count is good for either men or women. Ideally both sexes would save their virginity for marriage. Having a high n count can make some people less likely to pair bond. I have a high n count but I didn't set out to have one. I had sex mostly with different men because I was lonely and because usually when I would see one guy getting hold of him and getting him to see me again or on a regular basis was diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 09:48 PM
1

One thing I have learnt is that there seems to be exceptions for every rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 09:38 PM
1

I am in the UK. However, I have only had 1 white sexual partner. All the other guys I have been with have been east or southeast asian because that's my preference. Most of the asian men liked the thought of anal sex as much as my white ex even the ones from mainland china. I also saw a malay man who wanted it up the butt from a man but he liked women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 09:36 PM
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I have had sex with a few extroverted men that have had alpha traits, but the majority of men I have had sex with have been the bookish, nerdy and intellectual type. I am not that fussy. For me to find a man attractive, he just has to be east or south east asian, not be seriously mentally disabled or anything and be at least 18 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 09:31 PM
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It's obvious. Most people in the BDSM kink community are liberal progressives and most of the women are pretty independent. You can't tell me you haven't noticed this? Plus anal sex was illegal in the USA in some states up until 2003. Anal sex was illegal everywhere until modern day progressiveness took off. Look into sodomy laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 09:22 PM
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30s is still young and fertile especially when compared to George Clooney who is basically an old man. By getting an attractive woman in her 30s he is doing better than the average guy his age. Most women are still fertile until about 42-45 years old and fertility does not rapidly decline usually until then. There is a lot of hyperbole about women in their 30s being too old to get pregnant. Just take older generations for example. Birth records state that most women in the 1800s gave birth to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 09:17 PM
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I can't be bothered to dig it up. I am sure both of these things are on google if you would like to look for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 09:11 PM
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I mean the only autistic female I have come across, apart from the girl who gave both her kids up and got her tubes tied. Being gay is a neurological defect which persists in other mammals and in birds as well as humans. In fact, there was an instance in china a while back where factory fumes turned loads of unborn baby boys gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 09:09 PM
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Actually, I can think of one other girl who had 2 babies who has worse autism than I do, but both of them got adopted and are not with either of their parents and she ended up making the decision to get her tubes tied.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 09:03 PM
1

Actually, being tall and being gay are not comparable. Height does not impair a human's ability to reproduce, or have anything to do with that person's social functioning. If everyone was gay and we didn't have modern technology to assist reproduction then the human race would go extinct. Same if everyone had autism (I would call myself an exception for being an autistic person that has actually gone on to reproduce. I went to schools and residential places for autistic people all throughout my …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 08:57 PM
2

They don't. Take Amish, islam and mormon women for example. They like being dominated, but I am sure they don't engage in kinky sex acts with men. Kinky sex is actually a modern thing and women are less submissive now than they ever have been in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 08:40 PM
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Because it's like my autism for example, it's caused by a congenital impairment of the brain (and I am the first one to stand up and say I am abnormal in some circumstances). Most people are straight, most people are not autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 08:38 PM
1

OK so look at it from this perspective. Amish, Islam and mormon women are submissive to their Husbands, but probably wouldn't do kinky sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 08:36 PM
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But you still don't know because you have never tried it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 08:34 PM
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I have mild autism. I also have a brain disorder. If being gay makes people freaks then having autism makes me a freak. However it doesn't make people less human or less deserving. Being gay is like anything else that isn't normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 08:33 PM
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Most guys I have been with have cum fine in my lady parts and don't last very long so that can't be it. My Husband however has delayed ejaculation and admits he has less feeling in the shaft of his penis than most men (he can only cum if he jerks himself off at the end of sex or sometimes in doggy) but he's not interested in anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 08:29 PM
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I have met a significant number of men who won't go down on women either. My Husband said he would never do it. I have had quite a few sexual partners and I only had one who seemed really enthusiastic about doing it to me. Then again I have never asked men to do it to me either. I have only allowed it to be something that they would ask to do or initiate as receiving cunnilingus is not something I am that into. It's something I am entirely neutral about and I don't really get a tonne of feeling …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 06:59 PM
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I like old fashioned male domination but I only like vanilla sex acts. I think modern kink is a bit perverted and I feel like today it's almost something that is expected of people in a relationship. I can't tell you how many times I have had guys break it off with me because I wouldn't do freaky things with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 06:50 PM
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I could say the same to you about a billion perverted things, like for example you don't like rimming elderly men with piles because you have never tried it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 06:44 PM
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Gay people have a brain disorder. I am the default norm for being a woman liking men, so by your logic gay men are straight women. My point is is that I just don't think it's healthy for people to be having anal sex. It's weird and perverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 06:42 PM
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I'm a 27 year old hetero woman. But I only sleep with asian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 06:37 PM
1

Yes because you are doing sexual stuff with another male.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 06:36 PM
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Gay men are the abnormal ones rather than me so I am the default position. As much as I support their freedoms being gay is a brain disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 06:35 PM
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Yeah I agree with that. However deep down I don't think most men really feel that way. They are conditioned to put up with it. Maybe anal is a consequence of people becoming more androgynous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 06:33 PM
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No because straight women are normal. Gay men are the abnormal ones. Anal sex is also abnormal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 06:32 PM
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I wouldn't know I have never tried it and I never will. I have been with 2 men who tried to force me. My first serious boyfriend was obsessed and kept trying to put his willy up my bum and his fingers up there and I used to yell at him. I also was seeing another guy, a north chinese man, who kept doing that as well. His english was terrible but I think I was able to make it clear to him that I would not do that and he used to try and force me it was gross. I wish men would quit the obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 06:32 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 06:28 PM
0

It does come across as a bit gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 06:27 PM
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It's the domination and variety aspect. When you're fucking a girl anally you feel like a conqueror. You see I really don't get that. I also don't see a person's anus as a sexual body part. It's basically there for waste disposal and I thought gay men did it because they have nowhere better to put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 06:27 PM
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I'm quite submissive but I won't do anything I consider kinky.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 06:23 PM
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It could be a setup, but then again I have seen many examples of these types of relationships in real life. Even before modern feminism in the 1950s my grandfather who had never married before and had no kids married my grandmother who was 6 years older than him and had 2 kids by 2 different men and they went on to have my mother. He wasn't a bad catch either. He was ripped and in the army. They spent the rest of his life together until he died in his 60s of cancer. So it happens I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 06:18 PM
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I thought it was something that mostly gay men liked, because they have nowhere else to put their willy. Not that there is anything wrong with that, I just can't see how a man would want a woman's bum hole when he can have her female part.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 06:09 PM
1

In my experience most people are. Many BP people feel uncomfortable with submissive women (and I am not talking about kinky bdsm submissive, that doesn't appeal to me at all. Most of them are OK if you mention kinky stuff).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 06:01 PM
2

Still a man and not a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 05:57 PM
0

Sounds like she is just looking for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 05:52 PM
1

Moving just makes someone seem like the dominant participant. I'll change position but I won't generally get on top or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 05:49 PM
0

Yeah that can be kind of scary as well. If you say something they don't like they get really mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 05:07 PM
1

I am quite submissive and moving makes me feel too dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 05:04 PM
-3

Still no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 05:02 PM
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I don't have an age minimum or limit. Guy just has to be 18 or over, east asian and alive for me to consider a date with him. I am 27 myself and am married now but when I was single I chatted to and saw men from 18-62.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 05:00 PM
-2

All the women you sleep with are probably liberal hippies they are all bi or lesbo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 04:52 PM
-3

Ew no I actually have a phobia of lesbians especially the butch kind they are so creepy. I believe in gay rights and stuff and would never want to limit someone else's freedoms but just don't try any monkey business with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 04:51 PM
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I'm actually a real life woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 08:41 PM
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I am a woman and I disagree. Women don't even have to put much effort into having sex. The man generally does all the thrusting. The woman can lay there and fall asleep if she wants to. There is obviously a deeper problem in the relationship if a woman is declining sex on a regular basis. I think the main reason why women decline sex these days is because of gender equality. Women over time don't find men attractive if they are given masculine responsibilities in the home and if their husband ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 08:17 PM
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People who bully fat people don't generally care about their health, it's coming from a place of superiority and disgust. They are not usually doing it in the interest of the person who is fat. Also, it's something to mention that clinically overweight people don't suffer too many health problems when compared to people that are of a healthy BMI (18-25). It's obese people that do (BMI of 30+). I see a lot of comments geared towards people who are clearly not obese or even overweight. Calling som…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 07:47 PM
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There are some things here you don't mention. Does your wife work outside the home? Married women who have a career are much more likely to cheat than married women who stay at home and look after the children. I believe that allowing a wife to work outside the home is a bad idea. It also takes some respect away from you as a man. If you are providing for your family your wife will honor and look up to you. Another tip: don't be afraid to get sexually aggressive (In a playful way) with her from …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 07:29 PM
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Internet history. Make sure you delete it and that you close windows. You made a really bad move by allowing her to see that. Now she is afraid of not being able to trust you and she is worried you will leave her and the baby in a difficult situation. Women crave security. When she read your post it made her feel insecure. Never, ever make a woman feel insecure. Some damage has already been done but I am sure you can self improve and salvage things. The advice I always give to men is that women …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 07:12 PM
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Your girlfriend is not showing you a lot of respect. Do you really want to marry a woman like this? A woman who will disobey you and oversteps boundaries with the opposite sex when she is already courting? If she has to have male friends then she should be allowing you to be her chaperone each time you see fit and you should have the final say in who her friends are. If she doesn't allow you to do this then she isn't wife material. Maintaining her social life is obviously more important to her t…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 07:02 PM
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I am a white woman married to an asian man myself so I thought I could give you some advice. You can take it or leave it. For a start, why is she returning to work after having a baby? It is your responsibility as a man to provide for your family and her responsibility to care for the baby. Why are you allowing her to leave a young baby to go back to work? This isn't red pill. No wonder your wife is stressed. She will have to juggle career responsibilities along with family. Take this load off o…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 06:37 PM
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If you are good looking try Tinder or POF. You could very well get somewhere and couples do meet on those websites. I met my husband on POF.
/r/askTRP20/09/15 06:12 PM
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Thanks. I think you gave one of the best answers here.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 05:36 PM
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I don't know but I love asian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/15 05:31 PM
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I don't have anything against lesbians at all as long as they don't try any monkey business with me. I'm all for gay rights ects but the idea of another woman trying it with me creeps me out so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 09:42 PM
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Ew lesbians and bisexuals. Gross. I have a phobia of lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 09:26 PM
0

Believe it or not I'm real.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/15 09:21 PM
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I am not particularly fat (don't know why that gets mentioned so much, being fat is fixable), wasn't fat before I got pregnant (although I do have wide shoulders and a big ribcage that doesn't get smaller with weight loss). He doesn't like the fact that I am short and my bone structure (has said so) and he doesn't like my physical abnormalities (has said so). The things he dislikes I cannot fix.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/15 09:11 PM
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My husband is from china which is the 3rd world and still does not appreciate me. I am only attracted to east asian men. I don't like other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 08:57 PM
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I don't need professional help... I just need my husband to truly want me and love me then I would be happy and I would want to live.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/15 08:54 PM
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I don't want a career. I just like having babies and looking after my children. Maybe I could be a WGTOW single mother who just uses men as sperm donors.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 08:52 PM
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East asian men. I like them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 06:59 PM
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What option is there for women? Women can't be MGTOW. What if that woman is already married and her husband doesn't like the way she looks and the things he doesn't like about her she can't change?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 06:55 PM
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What if that unfortunate person is a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 06:50 PM
2

The only thing I can find close to this is Milo Yiannapolis.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 06:31 PM
1

Maybe it's the same phenomenon as small dog syndrome. Women are generally weaker, not as threatening and less intimidating, so they get away with the behaviour more as people don't take it seriously?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 10:43 PM
1

Your wife may have genuine issues shaving. I had to stop removing my public hair because I have quite big labia and they would rub against my panties without any hair there for protection and get dry and sex was effected. The labia thing makes me too embarrassed to even try and get it waxed professionally and my Husband won't pay for a labiaplasty. I would probably also encounter the same issues with it rubbing and chaffing no matter how the hair was removed. I also kept getting BV infections (w…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 10:31 PM
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Have sex with her in the shower until she can have the operation.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 10:11 PM
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Betas generally make better providers because they are more likely to stick around and care for their families. They are also more likely to be monogamous. Alphas go around taking multiple women. They are a liability to any woman. I stay away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 05:07 PM
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"If you were in a new relationship with someone, found out they had slept with almost every other one of their partners with little delay, but wanted to make you wait much longer... knowing little to nothing else about their sexual past/reasoning... would you be ok with that?" I'm female and this would annoy me. I hate having to wait for sex. I think it's a basic part of an adult romantic relationship. If there is no sex after several dates then I begin to wonder if the guy really likes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 05:01 PM
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I think it's a personal choice. I hardly wear it. It makes my face feel sticky and horrible and I have to keep remembering not to rub it. I only wear it when I go somewhere important and when I do wear it I use clinique because it's the least uncomfortable brand. I have quite blotchy skin and sometimes I have break outs but I still can't bear to wear make-up all the time. I still cleanse and moisturize daily and I care for my skin best I can. However I do pretty much always have painted nails. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 04:42 PM
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Because women are put on a moral high ground. We are expected to be the ones who are more sensible and less risk taking and the ones who know better. This isn't always possible because today women lack good role models.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 04:34 PM
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I can't speak for other women but I would never say or do anything to make any man I was with feel insecure. One thing I have learnt is that men get jealous and insecure just as much as women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 04:30 PM
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If I make him feel inadequate and jealous by openly admiring other men then it's my fault for not taking care of him emotionally. Same vice verse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 08:30 PM
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That's nothing to do with me but I think they are being mean and hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 08:24 PM
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I wouldn't do that to my husband it's cruel and I would not want to make him jealous or give him low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 08:10 PM
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I am pregnant at the moment so better than it was. When I wasn't pregnant I lived on monster assault or relentless apple and kiwi, cake, pizza, cookies and pasta and I didn't eat a lot of food. I do not like meat much. The only thing I like with meat in it is either KFC, big mac or burger king whopper and I eat those things every month or so. The only really healthy food I love is avocados or lentils. I don't cook meat or eat meat at home. It grosses me out when it's raw. I just got tested and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 08:05 PM
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Because women don't like their men oggling other women. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 07:56 PM
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My Husband doesn't really pay me compliments and he admits he doesn't like certain parts of my body. I think if I had more validation from him I would be happier but he still thinks it's all in my head. It's not the internet that bothers me. It's more women in public places who look great because I can see they are real people. I get especially angry and jealous when my husband looks at them and it causes fights to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 07:40 PM
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I did and it made the rib cage big but the breasts stayed average to small. There is also no option to create a saggy post baby belly either. It's not completely accurate but I suppose it somewhat looked like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 07:35 PM
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Yeah I don't care about what famous people look like. They have millions to spend and it's to be expected that they will look good. It's ordinary women I feel threatened by.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 07:34 PM
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Mine turned out pretty much like me. Not thin or fat and quite short with stumpy legs, square and dumpy with no waist definition. There was however no option to give it droopy F cup breasts so not fully accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 07:31 PM
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I think peers are much more of an issue than the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 07:24 PM
1

My Husband didn't have kids when I first met him. Me and my daughter moved in with him and I got pregnant again. My daughter went to stay with my ex and he would not give her back to me and my Husband made me leave her there, saying she is better off with him and if I want his support and want to be a family with him I need to leave my daughter with my ex. My ex is a good father (even though he was a terrible partner) but I still miss my daughter. Sadly there is not a lot I can do. I don't want …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 07:20 PM
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I already had a child when I met my Husband. She does however live with her father most of the time now because my ex dislikes my husband and there has been a very big dispute and both my husband and her father made the decision that my ex have main custody. I miss my daughter very much however I rely financially on my husband who has a lot more power than I do and am expecting another child and I don't want to be a single mother again so there is nothing I can do. I just try to see my daughter …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 07:10 PM
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I am sure it doesn't make your life 'better'. It's just a very frivolous convenience. I really like monster assault, but I am sure I wouldn't care if it didn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 05:40 PM
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Of course it means something. It means being useful. The people who created computers, indoor plumbing and medicine have obviously benefited humanity. The people who have built roads and motorways have benefited humanity, simply because they have made our lives more comfortable and easier. Pepsi is a fun but useless invention. If we had pepsi instead of medicine for example the outcome would not be good. That's the obvious difference between something that does and doesn't benefit humanity and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 05:00 PM
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I think most people like soda. However, it's still not a product that has any benefit to humanity. It's an invention that has created profit, but it's not an admirable achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:32 PM
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I guess, but I can't see being the CEO as much of an achievement. Pepsi doesn't do anything that is of any benefit to humanity. It's a pointless product.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:28 PM
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At least up until now people have been able to find solace in family and community. Because of individualism this is dying. This is going to be made much worse by automation and transhumanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:26 PM
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Pepsi is hardly something remarkable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:24 PM
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Sara Josephine Baker was a very remarkable lady. She improved pediatric medicine for newborns. I don't know why people worship Margaret Thatcher so much. She helped create the british underclass and the class divide that exists today is partly because of her failure. She ended the trades that gave many working class men jobs so they could support their families. Now there is an underclass in Britain and it's full of social unrest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:20 PM
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As we come up with more and more technological advancements the richer people the less they will desire love and family. We are seeing some elements of this already. Individualism at a huge scale. Fewer and fewer wealthy people are choosing to find a spouse and have a family. Love and companionship will die out especially among the upper classes. Humans are becoming more and more vapid and materialistic every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:14 PM
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People are going to become more and more vapid and narcissistic with the advancement of technology. Love simply will not exist any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:09 PM
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There will be mass genocide of the people who no longer serve a function to humanity. These people will make up the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:07 PM
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The robot revolution will create an underclass of men who are no longer employable and they won't have the status or money to buy and maintain female robots. A vast majority of women will be breeding with these men and there will be plenty of them. The underclass will breed at an alarming rate and the rich will destroy them with genocide.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:02 PM
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I think if robots could do this they would replace not just low SMV women but all women within the rich class. Women would flock to men who didn't have the money and status to buy to these things. These men would be likely unemployed and part of the underclass that the robot revolution has created. The underclass would then be breeding at a very alarming rate and the rich automated class hardly at all. Much of society would be living in 3rd world conditions. There will be 2 classes of people, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:56 PM
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My worry is that there will be a huge underclass of people who are no longer employable. They will be living in 3rd world conditions and the males of this class will be rioting and creating crime. These underclass males and females will also be breeding at a much higher frequency than the rich automated class and starvation and disease will be rampant. The only solution for the rich to get rid of the poor will be mass genocide and it won't be pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:48 PM
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Yes. Simply because if robots become that powerful they are going to not just take over the sexual market place but the world as well. They will sabotage humanity. Tranhumanism should only be allowed to go so far. If Robots were created simply to be advanced masturbatory aids and nothing else I can't see them being a real problem. However, if the technology becomes advanced enough to allow them to care for children, do basic tasks independently and be companions then I think the human race is in…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:21 PM
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I don't think that any man can attract women through appearance alone. Women are very different from men. I find all east asian men attractive physically, but I wouldn't date every single one. He would have to want children and have at least some ability to provide for a family. He could be fat or 55 years of age and those things wouldn't bother me. However if he said 'I don't want kids' or 'I want an independent woman that has her own career' that would end things right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:10 PM
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I suppose I can see your point. If it's definitive that you don't want to get pregnant again and you are prepared to take the risks then I suppose I could see why. However, I don't think hormonal BC is a good idea in general. I suppose the pros are it allows a woman to have sex at any time she wants and gives a woman the option not to have a period, but does this outweigh the cons?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:22 AM
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Not less likely it's actually impossible to get pregnant if you are not close to ovulating. I would suggest looking into it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:15 AM
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Yes that's a win. Many women don't want to see being supported by a man and being a stay at home mother as an option today. I think for me it was the best one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:14 AM
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That is why using the length of your cycle is not reliable enough. That means your period would have been earlier or later that month. You should have been tracking things like cervical mucus as well. Also, not every method of contraception is foolproof. NPL has a 96% success rate. My Mother and sister got pregnant on the pill whilst both taking it correctly, so even if you were doing everything right it could have been that you were just unlucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:13 AM
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I am extremely introverted. I believe a lot of the people on internet discussion websites are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:10 AM
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You were not doing it properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:08 AM
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That's actually a huge myth. A human egg only lives for 24 hours and sperm can only live for 5 days max. A woman can only ovulate once per cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:08 AM
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I think when robotic sex toys become advanced enough to replace real people we are in trouble. That means that robots will be advanced enough to do almost anything. Why would anyone want to employ a human when they can just employ a robot? No one will have work, humans will become useless to the economy and civilization will fall. This is far more serious than something that will effect the sexual market place. Replacing people with highly advanced robots is very dangerous territory. Robots don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:03 AM
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It's not just through water that is contaminated by female contraceptives. It's through BPA in plastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:53 AM
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The most aggressive men I have actually met here in the UK are white. White lower class men tend to be worse as husbands than all the other men here. I don't know what it's like in other countries but over here many black men are climbing to the top and going to university.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:50 AM
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I am a housewife soon to be a full time mother and I am female.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:49 AM
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I have some mild learning disabilities and a diagnosis of autism from about age 8. I didn't really attend school properly or anything and my Husband supports me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:45 AM
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Moody men also have fewer children and studies suggest that women like men who are extroverted and friendly: http://sciencenordic.com/personality-traits-important-male-fertility However, this wasn't the case a few decades ago, because people years ago would all be forced to marry at a young age. They had no other option and they had to stay together. Nowadays people have more freedom sexually and marriage and childbearing is not an expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:39 AM
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Yes, charisma and social standing are huge things that seem to attract women. I was watching a documentary on YouTube. It was about men in Britain who go have fathered 10 or more children by different women. One thing I noticed about these men was that their personalities were all similar. On top of this some of them were also less choosy than others, giving them a high n count. There also seems to be a genetic pattern with these men's sons being equally successful breeders. I don't think howeve…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:30 AM
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More often than not though most teenage brides even in 3rd world countries marry men and boys who are not that much older than themselves. In those countries men marry when they are young too. This is with the exception of men who have considerable wealth and take on multiple wives. There are also a few much older men that can pull younger women because they have a lot of natural charisma, but these men are in the minority. Not to mention the infertility rates are high in these places anyway. in…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:13 AM
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I have never actually come across men who do that and I have never had a man I have had sex with take a photo of me. Could be again because I only have sex with asian men, so it could be a cultural difference. I also had sex with 2 who knew each other at one point and neither of them knew the other had done anything with me until I told one of them. It turned out that one was married. Most of them were university students and were only in the UK for a limited amount of time. In the end I met my …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 02:54 AM
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There is going to be a huge economic collapse soon anyway. Civilization in western countries will get much worse before any of that can possibly happen. If what has happened in Greece happens in the USA, UK and other western countries I can't see asian women interested in marrying white men. The collapse won't have the same catastrophic effect on developing countries. China probably won't be seriously effected.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 02:45 AM
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I don't use dread game on my husband either. I would never want to worry him or hurt his feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 08:38 PM
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I think that romance is something that women genuinely appreciate. I think if a man is romantic then the woman will certainly admire him and look up to him and respect him more. When women choose to be with a man they want to be an object of his desire. If they are not then it damages the relationship. It's a key point in female sexuality. Don't all men want to be admired and looked up to by women? If a woman doesn't admire and look up to a man that can also damage a relationship, as being admir…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 08:06 PM
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Asian men can always go for asian women. They are more attractive than white women anyway. My Husband doesn't like them but he is quite strange. I also didn't say my face is busted. My face is OK and I have nice hair that I keep very long. I said my body and my teeth (they are white just very crowded and I have some loose skin and sagging from having kids and I used to be a cutter and it's up my arms and legs and on my chest a little).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 06:52 PM
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No I'm not a troll. Although when I talk about liking asian men I often get called one. I have mild autism, so that could perhaps account for my special tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 06:19 PM
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Whenever my Husband wants it, which is usually about 2-4 times a week because he is often busy working, although I give him short blow jobs daily. If I had it my way it would probably be every other day but my husband works long hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 06:16 PM
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I like betas and omegas because they just generally treat women better. They are sweet and loving towards women. They make nice gestures more often and they are more faithful. I find these traits in men appealing and sexually attractive. Many are also very helpful to their mothers and this seems to be trait with asian men as well, which is something I always like to see in a man because it's reflective of how he will take care of me. I feel safer with men when they are more reliable. I also like…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 06:12 PM
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I think east asian men are very handsome and have lovely skin and lovely facial features. I like them of all different ages, shapes and sizes. They are also very masculine but in a very non-threatening way and it makes me feel safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 05:58 PM
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There are some black women and asian men dating groups online. I would suggest looking at some. Do you live in the USA? There is quite a community of blaisian couples there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 05:31 PM
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I am a white woman and I happen to really like east asian men more so than men of other races. I find them incredibly masculine in their disposition. They are generally hard working and respectful. I don't think a man is any less masculine for being shorter or having graceful features as you put it. Considering that he is still male and thinks and does things like a male nonetheless. I would think it were the same for a woman. Certain traits are universal among both genders. Women can be born wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 05:11 PM
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SJWs are the worst. Everything anyone says makes them angry and they want to ban everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 04:07 PM
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They probably like the fact that it makes those men look intelligent and thoughtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 03:52 PM
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Men go gaga over 18 year old cheerleaders and no way do me and many other women I compare to one of those. It's life. People like attractive people. To deny that there is SMV is stupid. "If there existed an account for random women on trains, women would complain about their privacy being violated and how "creepy" it is to take pics of them" I think this is an example of women feeling more vulnerable around men than vice verse. Male and female sexuality are not the same. I am pretty sure most me…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 03:47 PM
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Yeah that is a worry, however, I think never being a mother is worse than being a single mother. At least if you are a single mother you have your child or children and you are not going to die lonely in an old people's home. I worry about being a single Mother too and I was there for a while with my daughter from my previous relationship, however, there are worse things that could happen. It's also difficult to meet another husband but by all means not impossible, referenced by all the women th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 03:28 PM
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I don't know about that, exceptional people have always achieved amazing things. Otherwise we wouldn't have the society we have today. Individualism in western society has only been around since the 1950s or so. Remarkable men and a few remarkable women too (even though feminism wasn't a thing) achieved things before this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 03:20 PM
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If a man didn't want children that would be a definite dealbreaker for me. I think this man needs to give his wife an ultimatum. Either he goes or they have a baby. Lots of women have miscarriages. It's extremely upsetting but it's really not a massive deal. Chances are your wife will go on to have a healthy pregnancy if she wants one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 02:59 PM
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I just don't understand how a woman or man can be masculine or feminine because of his or her race.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 02:55 PM
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Yes incels exist. Women generally don't have a variety of sexual tastes like men do. Find any type of woman and there is a man who will tap that. However, it's not the same for men. If a man is unattractive to attractive women then that is going to be the case in general. I have to say I am an exception when it comes to most women. I have an east asian omega male fetish. I also like men with beta personality traits. I have an OK face but my body and teeth are busted so I would put myself at an H…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 02:44 PM
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Most of them believe it or not don't have money. Most are in their mid to late 20s and their parents have been saving up for years to send them to the UK. Many of them were from farms in rural china. Only one I met did have money and his parents and grandparents were government officers and funnily enough he was the most depressed also (tried to kill himself) I didn't sleep with him in the end because he studied too far away and I met all of them online. The rest were pretty poor and they were o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 02:33 PM
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Yes I agree with you. I would personally rather vaccinate my children. My daughter from a previous relationship is vaccinated. However, I am not really in a position to go against my Husband. He is also the type of guy that can't be argued with by anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 07:19 PM
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Yeah I sort of agree. I am expecting a baby and my husband doesn't want any vaccinations, however, arguing with him is useless. He's extremely paranoid about drugs or doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 07:03 PM
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Individualism is something that I really dislike about western culture. It's toxic if you ask me. It's just part of the reason why I love asian men so much. Individualism isolates people from each other and causes everyone to be vapid and narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 06:54 PM
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This is why I hate political correctness. If you feel insecure about something that's not politically correct you have nowhere to really vent about it. People just brush you off and pretend the issue doesn't exist. I can confirm that asian and indian men do have problems attracting white women. My husband is chinese and I am white and before he was with me he had only ever had sex with prostitutes. He wasn't attracted to asian women either so his options were kind of limited. In the end he met m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 06:49 PM
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Yeah well, I don't fully agree with him, but he makes most of the decisions in the household so I just go along with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 06:31 PM
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Your SMV doesn't automatically just peak in your 30s if you are a man. You have to work hard for it. An unemployed drug addict with a string of convictions in his 30s for example is probably going to have the lowest SMV possible, simply because he made all the wrong decisions in his life and has failed to work on himself. You don't just automatically get high SMV for approaching your 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 06:26 PM
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I am married now and my Husband doesn't allow vaccines.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 06:23 PM
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Most of the guys I met up with were practically virgins. Most of them didn't last more than 3 minutes and they all seemed pretty desperate. I am sure if they had a life of pussy worship and money they wouldn't even bother meeting me in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 06:19 PM
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I can't say that's been my experience but then again I'm not most other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 06:18 PM
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I can't really bond with men much through social interaction alone because I am not a person that talks much or likes social settings. To develop feelings for someone I have to have sex, and even then it doesn't always happen if I can't see them wanting something more afterwards. I can stop myself from developing feelings for people. If I don't want it to happen it doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 06:16 PM
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Some of you guys just don't seem to get it. There are some women who will never be open to trying anal. You can be the highest SMV guy in the world and it wouldn't matter. It's an extremely acquired taste and it's classed as kinky sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/15 06:12 PM
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Love takes a while to develop. It takes months in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 06:00 PM
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You don't mention how old your wife is. If she is around the same age as you tell her she had better start trying for a baby now. Also, male sperm quality and motility declines with age as well. Older eggs mixed with older sperm might not work out well. Remind her that she doesn't have all the time in the world and tell her that she has a biological clock.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/15 05:58 PM
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I'm a woman talking about men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 05:41 PM
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It is. You can catch HPV which can lead to cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 05:41 PM
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What if she actually enjoys sex with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 05:40 PM
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I think men are more inclined to keep in shape. Men are more likely to be physically active and involve themselves in sports. Most female orientated job positions are also pretty sedentary and women are more likely to eat for comfort. Also, if you look at communities where most of the women have a lot of kids and stay at home fat women outnumber fat men by a long shot. I think people are dumb for denying this. I'm a woman and my weight has gone up several times.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 12:22 AM
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For sex never unless I have had sex with the guy before and wanted to see him again. For long term relationships endlessly, before I met my husband. I have also had men ignore my messages on dating websites. I don't usually approach new people offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 12:16 AM
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It's true. The model used for measuring levels of obesity is flawed. You can't tell whether or not a person is fat going on body weight alone. With men especially because BMI doesn't account for athletic men or men with extra muscle mass. Women on the other hand don't tend to build a lot of muscle so if they weigh a lot it's likely to be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 12:07 AM
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"Men on the manosphere frequently complain about how Western women are unkempt and fat, conveniently ignoring the fact that a larger proportion of men are overweight and out of shape and that the average woman puts more time, effort, and money into grooming than the average man" I can't agree that there are more fat men than fat women. This is quite simply a myth. All the statistics are based on weight alone and we all know that muscle weighs more than fat and men as a gender have a lot more mus…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 11:51 PM
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Yeah asians as a whole are generally less promiscuous and they are cleaner. I have had unprotected sex with and blew off a lot of chinese international students (I am a woman and they were men) and never caught a thing. I guarantee that if I had been raw dogged by or sucked off that many british men without a condom I would have caught something nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 11:24 PM
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I am not a man, but why risk doing that in a casual relationship? You could end up with herpes in your mouth or throat cancer. There is no way to protect your mouth like there is your penis (with a condom). Unless you are having sex with women from a culture that doesn't promote promiscuity. In western countries too many people have diseases to take a risk like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 11:22 PM
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That's not the point I am getting at. However, what I said in a way was probably flawed and there was some lack of thought on my account. What I should be saying instead is that these men are probably jealous of men who have a high n count (as men and women are rarely truly jealous of each other. Competition between the sexes isn't a regular thing) and they assume that men who have a high n count are getting all the sex. So they are unhappy with women who have lots of sex with men who are not th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 11:16 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 11:13 PM
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Guys will only find a way to share that info if they are in the same social circle, or if the girl is dumb enough to have a facebook and put selfies up all over the internet and to share her name and number on social networking sites. Also, I found it an advantage to meet with and date chinese men only. Most of the men I had sex with were international students from mainland china I would meet indoors and were not familiar with all the social networking stuff or posting things online. If I hadn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 10:49 PM
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I am not talking about men wanting to be gay. I am saying that some men would be jealous of a woman's ability to get casual sex, and they wish they had it that easy obtaining it from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 10:42 PM
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I agree with you and that is what I did with myself. I found a husband in the end, but it was still a lot more difficult finding one than it would be if I was a HB8 rather than a natural HB4.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 10:41 PM
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I am married now, but it took me time and effort to find a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 10:39 PM
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"Big risk there. If a woman has a high N, he'll find out eventually. She'll say something to give it away; or one of her friends will" What makes you assume all women have friends? Some women don't have any friends or a social circle. There are also a few women who are very elusive with their friends and don't share anything of the sort with them. There are women who know how to be elusive in general and just don't bring that thing up. "Even if a woman lies about her N, it manifests itself in ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 10:35 PM
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I don't know if I am a rpw. I agree with a lot of rp philosophies, but I don't like the vapid or narcissistic element that shows up a lot in the movement (although you do get the odd rper that isn't that way). I am also somewhat a traditionalist. However, I am not against other women being independent if they want to be. I just prefer for my husband to be in charge. It takes the pressure off of me and I enjoy the feeling of having him to look up to and admire (I guess you could say I am quite pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 10:20 PM
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Do you perhaps see worse in terms of who comes across as the more pathetic one? I am personally inclined to disagree with that stance. A person being pathetic doesn't necessarily make them bad in my eyes, but I guess we all look down on different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 10:06 PM
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She doesn't necessarily love them. I don't think love can grow that quickly. However, yes she is only having sex with men she would possibly have a relationship with. "Are her standards that low?" I don't think so. This is probably why she is having casual sex. I think men at the very bottom of the pile are the thug, waster or junkie type. These men will go with anyone. I think that all women should stay away from these men, no matter how unattractive physically they happen to be, no one deserve…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 09:57 PM
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Personally, I can't agree. The fact that my husband has seen other women naked and has put his penis into women with vaginas that have probably felt nicer than mine makes me feel more insecure about my body. I often find myself wishing he was virgin when he met me and I would be happier with that. I often find myself getting in a bad mood or even depressed because of this. Especially since he has pointed out to me that most of the prostitutes he had sex with 'have innie vaginas and mine is an ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 09:41 PM
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Slutting won't affect her future relationships? I beg to differ. A woman who's spent years learning how easy it is to find sexual partners knows she can walk out the door at any time and find another. I don't agree. Why would a woman leave a committed relationship she looked so hard for just to have casual sex again? "When she finally lands a boyfriend/husband, she'll be grateful? Why? Are all men interchangeable to her? I mean, the one man who finally decides to commit his life to an ugly slut …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 09:34 PM
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However, I can completely understand this logic. I would be insecure about a man who had a high n count for similar reasons. My Husband has never had a gf before me, but he used to pay for sex and this in itself makes me insecure. I worry I don't compare to the women he has paid for sex with. However despite the fact that I feel I can't compare physically to these women, I can live with it because they haven't had sex with him voluntarily, I think I would find it very tough if he were a guy with…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 09:28 PM
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Not necessarily. Look at it this way. Her husband will be her number 1 because he chose to commit to her. He gave her something that none of the other guys did and she appreciates him fully for that. Once she finds him, those other guys don't mean a thing, because they only gave her memories, whereas he cares enough to give her a life with him. He is the one she respects, admires, looks up to and wants. Also, don't men compare their sexual experiences with past encounters to their experiences wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 09:23 PM
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I don't agree, since things like attractiveness and opportunity as well as traits like narcissism and vanity are important indicators of how a person interacts and conducts their relationships. If that is your definition of a slut then so be it, but you can't say all of them are made equal and all of them remain an equal hazard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 09:18 PM
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Some women are still unattractive even after getting down to an acceptable weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 09:16 PM
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Yes I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 09:15 PM
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I actually think it does make it more excusable. My Husband even agrees with me and he is a man. It makes it more excusable because a woman who has casual sex for fun is more likely to cause drama and upset in a relationship. If an ugly woman has a high n count due to lack of choice it won't effect her future relationships with men or how she treats them. It won't make her a less reliable choice when it comes to being a wife because that's all she wanted all along and she's probably grateful to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 09:09 PM
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Women can be low SMV and not be obese. Non-obese women can still be genetically ugly or suffer from disfigurements and disabilities which make things harder for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 09:07 PM
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If losing weight was the only problem to me that would be easy. However, what about a woman having low SMV because of a really ugly face, a disfigurement or a really bad overall appearance which has nothing to do with her weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 09:06 PM
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I don't agree. It took me ages to find a man who was stable and hardworking but was OK with a low SMV woman and wanted children (which was a must for me. I don't want to die childless and women don't have forever to procreate). It might have something to do with me exclusively liking asian men, though. There are fewer of them around in general. That's probably what I am basing my experiences on. Would a low SMV woman open to being with a caucasian man have more options?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 09:04 PM
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I am not saying women should be rewarded or want to be rewarded for having casual sex. It's not about who and who shouldn't be rewarded. Accepting that someone has it more difficult and giving them some leeway is not a reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 08:56 PM
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I also don't think a woman necessarily lowers her SMV by having a high n count. She could very well keep that a secret from any guy she obtains commitment from in the future and he would be nonethewiser for it. Not all women have a facebook page and not all women's sex lives are traceable. It's not something that a guy necessarily has to know about, and not all women have issues remaining elusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 08:53 PM
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But the fact that he's a virgin might not be his fault, so he shouldn't be blamed for that either. It's only his fault if he's aiming too high, like in the case of a guy like that Elliot Rodger character.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 08:50 PM
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I am saying some women feel threatened by men who are delinquent wasters (who will always go out with low SMV women) so they compromise by having sex with men who are more straight edge but who won't bother giving them commitment. These men might not necessarily be attractive or desirable to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 08:49 PM
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I am not even necessarily talking about wanting attractive men, just men who are not total wasters with serious mental issues or violent or delinquent. I see ugly women settling for these men all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 08:41 PM
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I'm talking about less attractive women who find it difficult to obtain commitment from a mentally stable, non delinquent guy. There are a certain subset of men who will always go out with low SMV women. These men are usually dangerous people or a lot of trouble mentally (usually been in jail, are violent, have substance issues, have serious mental health problems. I don't think anyone who is straight edge and wants a drama free life deserves that in a partner no matter how physically unattracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 08:34 PM
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I guess you have a point. I think ugly women who will only have sex with charismatic good looking guys who are generally popular with women could certainly qualify as sluts. However, that isn't what I am talking about. I am talking about women who have sex with men who have a relatively low SMV as well or have a hard time getting a girlfriend themselves and often not even they will have relationships with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 08:28 PM
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"There are tons of thirsty, desperate FA men who would gladly get into a relationship with any woman who throws them attention" Actually that's not true. I have been with FA/incel men and men who are virgins in their 20s who didn't want to make any kind of commitment to me. Men who are incel don't necessarily want a girlfriend and some have unrealistic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 08:23 PM
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The problem is when the sluts ride the cock carousel with basically zero effort when young, and then later try to "settle" for a serious relationship when their looks begin to fade. The same women should consider see things from guys perspective on why such a behavior might be unattractive to men (because for men, it's much harder to casually sleep around). This isn't what I am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 08:18 PM
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What if the guys she is having sex with are mostly FA men? Or men who are shy, nerdy or socially awkward and have a hard time getting women into bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 08:17 PM
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My husband goes out to work most days. He is an IT engineer. I am heavily pregnant and unemployed and I stay at home. I tend to do pretty much all of the domestic stuff. My Husband handles all the finances. If I want something I have to ask for it. Want certainly doesn't mean I will get. My husband hates spending money, on himself as well as me. When it comes to household decisions I have input but my husband has the final say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 08:14 PM
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I am not talking about attractive women in this thread. Your worldview is tiny. You seem to think attractive and charismatic people are the only people that exist, either that or you are obsessed with them. I will bet the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 08:06 PM
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Stacy and Chad seems to be code here for 'extroverted normalfag people who have a circle of friends and go out and stuff'. Those are not the kinds of people I am talking about. Low SMV people tend to lack charisma and social skills, women often do as well as men. The extroverted low SMV women in my experience seem to settle for the delinquent or mental guys and are happy with them. They also seem to have better self esteem in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 08:05 PM
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I honestly think a lot of men on here are quick to shame and ridicule women for the fact that they have high n counts alone because they can only see things from their own perspective. In their own minds they are jealous of the fact that such a woman can get casual sex so easily and it makes them angry, resentful and upset. To them being able to get casual sex easily is an ability that they truly wish they had. However, for a woman who can either accept casual sex or nothing at that moment in ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 08:02 PM
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You are also again using these archetypal vapid 'stacy' and 'chad' characters as examples. People on this reddit are obsessed with them. These are not the kinds of people I am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 07:52 PM
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You seem to think all women are having sex with the same men. It's really not true. You seem full of anger and resentment and I think because of it you fail to see things as they really are and you see everything in black and white terms. Yes it does actually make a difference if a woman is a slut. True sluts are more likely to have mental issues and to be narcissistic and unfaithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 07:46 PM
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Stacy is obviously an extroverted person with a group of friends and everyone she knows is in the same circle and they all have expectations of each other. That's more likely to be the case of relatively high SMV people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 07:45 PM
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Not every girl has a facebook or a particular circle of friends that know everyone she sleeps with. I certainly don't. Plus some girls use the internet to meet guys, instead of going out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 07:39 PM
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But you have to admit, I have a point and you haven't done anything as of yet to disprove it. I don't know how my post comes off as 'sex positive'. It's just the culture we live in. People don't get paired off and married young anymore and the expectation to marry is not really there, which for less attractive people has it's downsides because no one is guaranteed a partner. It's obvious that people are still going to have sex, whether they are married or not, whether it's a good thing or a bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 07:37 PM
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I don't believe men are more overweight than women. These studies are based on BMI alone and men have more muscle mass than women so they would weigh more on average with athletic men often wrongfully falling into the overweight or obese category. I would actually believe it to be the other way around with women being fatter than men. Men are naturally more physically active than women and their bodies require more calories than women's do. I think BMI is a terrible system for assessing men as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 07:27 PM
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I haven't seen this considered before but it totally depends on a woman's SMV. I think low SMV women with high n counts should be given a bit of leeway. It's way more difficult for these women secure commitment from a man who isn't either a delinquent or is seriously mentally ill (and no one wants that) and chances are she would rather have that then be sleeping with multiple guys. Of course it's not impossible to find a normal half decent guy if you are a low SMV women but they don't come aroun…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 07:17 PM
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I'm a white woman and I am actually more attracted to east asian men. People on here have said it's because I myself have low smv (I am about a HB4) but for me this has nothing to do with it. I could get a man who is white way easier than I can attract an asian man. In fact, I had to put extra effort into finding one that wanted me as anything more than a plate. Asian men are not overtly picky when it comes to spinning plates, but most of them want a woman who they can show off. I could easily f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 11:06 PM
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Low smv women often approach men and if they take the effort out of it for them men are more likely to say yes, even to long term arrangements. If a low smv woman starts approaching men, even online, her luck will improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 01:06 PM
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Yes I notice extroverted men seem to have an easier time with women. Extroverted men however cannot be trusted and I would never have one as a boyfriend or husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 12:27 PM
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That's the complicated question. My answer is, I don't know. I am guessing it's because women invest more biologically when choosing a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 12:15 PM
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Why do people always use that as an excuse for things?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 12:04 PM
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I am genuinely attracted to asian men over white or black men. I did have a tall good looking asian bf at one point and I broke up with him because of his mean behaviour. He didn't really have an alpha personality, but he was 6 foot tall and very handsome by conventional standards. There also poses a lot of problems with having a good looking husband especially if he has an alpha personality. You have to constantly work to keep him. Everyday is a competition with other women. Quite honestly I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 11:58 AM
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Most of them are not housewives or stay at home mums. They idealize that type of lifestyle without ever wanting to make the commitment to live it. Most of them are child free by choice and have careers or they are in school.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 03:02 AM
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Most of them are not housewives or stay at home mums. They idealize that type of lifestyle without ever wanting to make the commitment to live it. Most of them are child free by choice and have careers or they are in school. They also hamster like crazy. Bring up anything that makes them insecure that they don't have an answer to and you get a ban. There is no freedom of speech and everything there is incredibly censored. Offend one person and you are out.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 03:02 AM
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There is literally no point posting on that sub. They ban almost everyone and they get butthurt over everything.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 03:00 AM
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From personal experience most men won't make the effort to approach a low smv woman. However if a guy is forever alone there is a chance he might. That or if she takes the effort out of it for him and chases him in the beginning he can at least be content with her. Online dating also makes things a lot easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 02:04 AM
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From personal experience most men won't make the effort to approach a low smv woman. However if a guy is forever alone there is a chance he might. That or if she takes the effort out of it for him and chases him in the beginning he can at least be content with her. Online dating also makes things a lot easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 02:04 AM
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Sounds believable. Red pill women are deluded. I guess women have to be deluded to some degree to be happy with their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 01:56 AM
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Peak SMV women rule the dating market. To say they rule the world however would be a very big stretch. People with money rule the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 01:55 AM
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Nope sadly I'm real.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 01:54 AM
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Chloe isn't my real name however. I don't like using my real name online. I am a girl and I am not lying about anything else though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 01:47 AM
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Believe what you want but this is all real, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 01:44 AM
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I don't really believe that, since around half of western women are overweight or obese. WHRs have also increased. Maybe it's just going on facial beauty, which would be believable I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 01:32 AM
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I have never had sex with a 'chad' type guy. I'm ugly and very introverted and we would have too little in common and I don't really like extroverted people. I have had sex with a lot of shy asian men, though who didn't want to take things any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 01:25 AM
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Are you kidding me? It seems that most people having kids these days are ugly, dumb obese women, since the higher a woman's intelligence, the fewer kids she will have and education and intellect is tied with attractiveness. The most successful and intelligent people are actually reproducing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 01:20 AM
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My Husband is deffo not a chad. I am the only woman he has ever been with romantically and I met him when he was 29.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 01:19 AM
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I am guessing it could be because ejaculation makes you feel tired and cranky. Most men seem to fall asleep after ejaculating. It could also be that you are no longer horny and feel zero need to interact with these women any further after you have gotten your fix. It's a bad idea to cuddle or spend time together anyway if you don't want to pair bond or you don't want your partners to.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 07:35 PM
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The state simply doesn't want to support divorced housewives or their children so things are probably not going to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 07:30 PM
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Chads are really not the only men who do that. Trust me, I know from experience.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 07:22 PM
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People do these things because they can and it benefits them. That's their reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 07:17 PM
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She certainly doesn't look bad for her age, and she was really attractive when younger. She could have easily found a good quality man if she wanted one, but it seems she didn't make the time. She could probably get married now as well like a lot of middle aged women do, but if she is in her 40s already she is probably too old to have kids and she risks dying alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 06:56 PM
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Your assumption about obesity is most likely true. Although most people evolved with a tendency to want to eat a lot and gain weight (it worked to our advantage when food was scarce) if they are forced to eat fewer calories and don't have the choice their BMI will lessen to a normal level. Most people around the world have to eat food sparingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 05:41 PM
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It does seem though like the more successful people in first world countries are having smaller families, if they choose to have children at all. It seems that today high birth rates are either an indication of religion or poverty. It seems like the most healthy and intelligent people have lower birth rates overall. Studies have also linked intelligence in with attractiveness, since intelligent people are more likely to look after their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 05:40 PM
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I don't think I agree with you. I am personally for traditional gender roles. I don't personally understand how a woman can go out to work and come home and see her husband doing the dishes and changing the baby and still want to have sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 05:28 PM
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I don't know why you would want to give me one of those. I'm not that special. I just love asian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 05:20 PM
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I don't get the credibility of a study of women getting more attractive. Does this study just mean facially? What with most women in western society becoming overweight or obese and women's WHR has gotten way higher in recent years. Also, even if attractive women have more daughters, it shouldn't really effect things, as men can pass their genes onto their daughters. I would also like to see the evidence that attractive women have more children. From real world experience it doesn't seem to be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 05:07 PM
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Angela Markel is married to joachim sauer. Has been for nearly 20 years. I don't think she has kids though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 04:57 PM
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However, even if a woman has a high n count without riding the cc it does say negative things about her. Maybe she is physically unattractive and has trouble keeping one man around for sex (which is something that can't always be helped and doesn't necessarily exclude women from being LTR material, especially if you are guy who cannot afford to be picky). It might also indicate that such a woman has little impulse control. However, there is no way of knowing about someone's past, unless they tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 04:53 PM
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Just because a woman has had that many partners or even many more than that it doesn't mean she has ridden the cc. The cc is when women don't want a serious relationship so they have casual sex with all the most popular and desirable men in their prime and they fail to think about landing a husband. A woman can have a high n count under totally different circumstances. Not all women who have had a lot of partners have ridden the cc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 04:45 PM
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Seeing that I know of a lot of really good looking women who are feminists (look at kate bolick and femethiest divine on youtube). They must have a reason for doing it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 04:41 PM
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I don't know but I am white and for the past couple of years I have only been attracted to east asian men. I can't seem to find any other type of man attractive. Before that my taste in men was also pretty limited. I liked nerdy/neckbeard types of all races. If a woman was this way with 'chads' I would imagine it would be the same and I would imagine that like me, they couldn't help it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 04:18 PM
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I don't agree with either extreme. Tbh I find that trp nearly always sides with men and blames women for everything. Really people need to quit being so biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 04:13 PM
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I personally don't think it's OK for my husband to comment if he doesn't want to pay to fix the problem. I have no idea why he wanted to marry me if he thinks that (him being a complete failure with women before me might be something to do with it and feels he can't be choosy). A lot needs resolving and I thought I could come to your reddit for advice, since most women were telling me on other online spaces to 'dump his ass' which I didn't think was constructive. It's not just cosmetic it's an a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 03:58 PM
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I don't see what is wrong with me saying that. I have a physical health problem that possibly needs correcting with surgery. Like a lot of women probably do. I was asking for advice, doesn' tpw say that people should ask for advice? A woman with the same problem could tell me something useful, which in turn I could use to improve my situation. Having large labia is a health problem, otherwise doctors wouldn't treat it. So are BV infections. Are women not allowed to discuss that sort of thing? Gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 03:48 PM
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I don't do it any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 03:40 PM
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'there are tonnes of different women on our sub with their own preferances'. Doesn't seem like it, you censor the ones who don't fit your contradictory worldview of wanting patriarchy but then wanting their feminist freedoms at the same time whilst men have zero patriarchal responsibility. Also, I don't see what is gross talking about my lady parts. I had a health problem and was asking for advice. Women have vaginas and women give birth. Graphic things happen regarding women's health. Are women…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 03:35 PM
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It's also not right that you expect your husbands to do housework. Housework is degrading for a man. I would never ask my husband to tidy or change and child's nappy and no way in hell is he going to ask me to get a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 03:32 PM
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So what is it about? Because to me it seems to be about giving men the benefits of patriarchy without all the responsibilities whilst society is still under feminism? You can't really dress your thread up as anything less contradictory because that's what it is. If RPW want to really serve their men so to speak, they should give up their jobs and stay at home and have children and they shouldn't be allowed their own financial independence, they shouldn't be allowed to have control over their own…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 03:18 PM
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Everyone who disagrees with you over anything seems to get banned from your reddit. Simply calling me 'argumentative' for not agreeing with you is just proof of your level of censorship. There is no freedom of speech. You are are all deluded and contradictory. You want men to have all the benefits of patriarchy without any of the responsibilities. At the same time you also want to live in a feminist world and you want your own independence. There are some of you that blame every marriage or rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 03:14 PM
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I'm white.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 12:32 AM
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I like asian men, maybe I'm an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 08:50 PM
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I guess. Not to mention that they are all white men with black or brown hair mostly. I have to say that's not my type, but it does seem to be most women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 08:44 PM
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I suppose that true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 08:33 PM
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What about me then? I love east asian men. I love them of all ages and body types. I am 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 08:22 PM
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I don't react well to medication. I try and stay away from anything pharmaceutical (apart from things like antibiotics which are sometimes beneficial. I would rather find a more alternative cure for things). I tried anti depressants a few years back when I was nursing my daughter and they were the only ones I can take apparently. They made me sick and gave me headaches and vision problems I just wasn't willing to put up with it. I also intend to breastfeed my child for at least a year. My husban…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 08:18 PM
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Yes it's true that they do get a lot of female attention, there is no denying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 08:12 PM
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What about all the girls who fancy guys like Justin Beiber and all these emo, scene and boy band types?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 08:09 PM
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I find it even more strange that they insist you must like this kind of guy, and if you say you don't you are lying. It's like they just don't believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 08:00 PM
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Just to note I also have a daughter from a previous relationship (she now lives with her father, it's a long story between him and my husband). I didn't have any issues after I had her, despite the fact I was unhappy with my ex (long story). I am not worried about post partum depression, just external issues that are going on in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 07:57 PM
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Wow. That sounds like post partum psychosis. I heard it's something to do with changing brain chemistry after giving birth? I think if things got that bad, my husband would most likely notice and do something about it. I have never suffered any type of psychosis, mostly just low moods and feelings of doom occasionally. I don't know if I qualify as PPD. From what I have read, it doesn't sound much like me and I don't seem to have many of the symptoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 07:53 PM
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No I don't think he's lying to me, but after discovering the red pill I am finding it tough to trust men. It seems like they all want one type of woman. I am not that type of woman. I feel like if he improves himself and can do better I risk losing him. It's not like I can ever compete with many women out there, regardless of how much I improve myself with the choices I have available to me for doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 07:35 PM
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I don't know, I just don't get the whole rpw reddit. They claim to want patriarchy, yet they are still wanting to remain childfree and have their own money and independence as well. Not only do I think that women can't have it both ways, but being the stepford wife and being expected to hold down a career and to be 'one of the boys' (which is something else, subconciously that rpw seems to be for) is an unfair expectation to be putting upon women. It's like men get out of their patriarchal respo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 07:31 PM
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I don't really want to go to anyone about that kind of thing. I don't want social services involved with my baby or to be on medication. I find that medical professionals in the past have worsened things for me, not made them better. For the most part I think I can cope at this moment in my life. I have good days and bad days and things are not the very worst they can possibly be. I think it would tip me over the edge if my husband left me or cheated, but that hasn't happened yet. Just because I…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 07:26 PM
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I have an extremely high sex drive. I have never turned down sex with my husband and I am always up for it. It's even me that often initiates things. I guess that's one plus. He doesn't really like to eat home cooked food. He has very odd eating habits. He prefers to heat up ready meals and is an extremely fussy eater and anything I make he isn't really interested in. I do do all the housework. I think that's my duty since he works all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 07:18 PM
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I got banned from there for disagreeing with some of them. These women also lie. They tell themselves a tonne of lies to keep themselves happy. They are well and truly deluded. They call themselves traditional women but most of them make their own money and have careers and most have chosen not to have children. I don't really think it's a traditional women's reddit like it says it is. The whole reddit is also extremely boring because it's so heavily censored.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 07:00 PM
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I can't. I am covered in self harm scars, I have wonky teeth, saggy boobs and my Husband doesn't want to pay for surgery because according to him it's not important. I am also very top heavy with big shoulders and a flat butt. There is only so much that clothes and make-up and even weight loss can do for me. I am not even that overweight, maybe by about 10lbs or so when not pregnant. I have been of ideal weight and it still didn't improve my appearance much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 06:59 PM
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Yes. Any teacher of any gender who is having sex with students should not be allowed to teach.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 06:57 PM
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If I am willing to fulfill my traditional role then I think it's OK to expect a man to fulfill his. Women who are modern and have good careers and who preach feminism should put their money where their mouth is and should probably pay on dates if they don't expect a man to support them in future.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 06:55 PM
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I don't think we should be blaiming meghan trainor for her song lyrics. Most of these pop stars are under the control of the illuminati and they are manufactured and have their songs written for them. They choose what they think will be popular or cause a stir, then they add subliminal messages into the music. Btw before you ask I am not a christian. I merely think that god and satan are symbolic of things rather than having a literal existence. They are also often included in the subliminal mes…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 04:27 PM
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Physically I think east asian men are really attractive. They are also intelligent, hard working, manly, polite and reliable, in my experience. I have also found them to be incredibly chivalrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 04:18 PM
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I wouldn't have asked them to pay child support. I don't think it would be fair, considering the moral dilemma of what I did. All I wanted was a baby, not the guy's money or resentment. Here in the UK welfare programs cover child living expenses quite enough anyway, if the mother is in or out of employment. Plus, they would have gone back to china once their education was over, so legally they would have not been obliged to pay it anyway. It's not the best way to do things and I am glad now that…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 04:09 PM
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Yes I have noticed that about a lot of asian men looking for white girls. I got turned down for a date with one because I have dark hair and green eyes instead of blonde hair and blue eyes. I don't see many white women with asian men apart from me and my husband, but most of the ones I have seen include blonde women. However, a very large number of women do actually highlight their hair to be blonde, so it could be just coincidental. The few white women I have seen out in public with asian men h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 04:05 PM
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I have noticed the opposite with asian men. They love it when a white woman has an asian fetish. Especially if you tell them how much more you love asian men than white or black men. It always seems to really boost their ego and it seems to lift them up. I really enjoy that aspect of things and I love making them feel manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 04:00 PM
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My hubby is chinese. I am white. However, before meeting me at 29 (He met me a month before I turned 27), he hadn't had any previous gfs or anything. I'm also plain looking at best, a little overweight and I had a daughter from a previous relationship when we met (who now lives with her father most of the time because my ex and my hubby dislike each other and my ex took my daughter and won't give her back), so it's not like he scored a hottie or a unicorn or anything. Apart from my first bf and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 12:09 AM
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I would rather be with a niceguy over an alpha. Alphas can be pretty mean and aloof and I find that difficult to deal with. Most of the men I have been with can be considered beta niceguys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 12:04 AM
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Yeah you have a point roosh wouldn't last an hour in jail. A big part of me thinks that he would be too scared to break the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 12:02 AM
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Like I said before I think roosh lies and exaggerates. I know lots of men who do it. My own hubby did when I first met him and told me he was some kind of stud, then later on confessed he hadn't been with anyone but 2 obese women who didn't want to see him again. I knew it didn't make sense because he is with me and I am not exactly hot stuff. I think roosh is bullsh1tting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 12:00 AM
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Whether he actually did any of this stuff though leaves a lot to be desired. Part of me wonders if roosh lies or exaggerates things. I wouldn't be surprised if he's only had sex with a few average looking women. A lot of men lie about their sexual conquests. There is even more motivation for him to lie or exaggerate the truth if he can sell books. On the flip side things might be even worse than he said they are. He might be even more of a rapist than he claims to be. He could have even done wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 11:50 PM
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I'm not even blue pill, and I can tell you that roosh is a rapist if the accounts in his books are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 11:47 PM
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My hubby is chinese and was born here and is pretty whitewashed, but until he met me he still had problems getting white women. idk. I'm a white woman from a lower class background.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 11:43 PM
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Ramesh should look for a wife in India. He's likely to find one there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 10:41 PM
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I'm white and I love east asian men more than white men. I am not most men's idea of a really attractive woman, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 10:39 PM
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Yes I agree it's annoying. Casual sex just doesn't make up for sh1t. People can hate me all they like but I really wanted another baby (I already have a daughter that I gave birth to when I was 24) so I began lying about being on the shot, because all men wanted was sex, including the most beta of guys possible. Most of the men I fibbed to were international students I met on wechat and I only met these men 3 times in total. That didn't go on for long though, maybe about 1 month and luckily I di…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 10:30 PM
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I have had sex with around 20 guys. None of them alphas. I wanted a relationship but they didn't. I just kept having sex with guys until one wanted to wife me up and I put all my free time into meeting guys. I got someone in the end. In fact, I had two suitors to choose from, both beta asian men. I asked them very outright questions and I chose the one willing to have a baby with me soonest, because I am 27 and want a big family and don't have all the time in the world. I think less attractive w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 10:15 PM
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Do what men do, if you feel that way marry a man from a different culture. I struggled with the opposite sex too so I got myself an asian man. There are a few who grew up in western countries and due to lack of options will settle (I am talking about east asian. Indian and pakistani men will almost always be very religious and their families won't approve of them marrying a white or black woman). Not saying they are unattractive at all, I personally really like them, but most other western women…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 09:58 PM
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