chmkl Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	An (Long-winded) Analysis and Discussion on How to Improve Seddit		chmkl	/r/seduction	06/03/13 10:04 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	21 year old, completely stuck and sort of depressed Im glad to hear that you love what you study. Its super important. In terms of appearance, no offense, but I don't really care what you look like. The question was designed to get you to realize that its your self image that's important. Its not about what you were given in life, but what you make of it that matters. I can sympathize a lot with being stuck. My only advice is to focus on yourself, be the person you want to be. Honestly, everyone on seddit will just tell you to just go out and mee…	/r/seduction	24/04/13 03:48 AM
4	21 year old, completely stuck and sort of depressed Ok buddy, lets do this! First of all, you are 21, just like me. Which is fucking awesome, because being 21 rocks. Seriously think about it. Why are you thinking about this girl? You don't have time for this shit. This is YOUR journey, YOUR self improvement. Its up to you. You are in college, this is the best time in life to make the shit you want to happen happen. I really hope you like what you study. Holy shit theres so many cool fields out there. Don't study just because you need some bullshi…	/r/seduction	21/04/13 01:58 AM
1	If coffee and bar dates are your thing. A more "assertive" approach seems to work for you and you own it and are honest about it. Good for you and im not sure why you are getting so much flak. But in terms of a seddit post, I just thought the post could use another less assertive perspective, because this technique is very flexible. Thinking of how different techniques can be used in different approaches and writing about the limits of a technique helps me up my game. Usually bigger discussion = better post and less people get caught …	/r/seduction	21/04/13 12:13 AM
8	If coffee and bar dates are your thing. While this kind of people watching can be great on a date, you need to be careful with it. It can lead to a very "negative" frame (as shown in her text). People watching and joking around is one thing,talking shit is another. The danger is that you are not demonstrating your value, you are diminishing other people's in order to look good. This approach will also generate tension between you and the girl. If you are analyzing everyone else in the room using PUA tactics, she will immediately think…	/r/seduction	19/04/13 05:07 AM
1	Any Sedditors in Montreal? Not really experienced, but down to meet some new people from a fellow english university and just have fun. Feel free to PM.	/r/seduction	18/01/13 04:14 AM
1	People (and sadly, many ladies) bore me. How do I end his? I seem to have mis-represented my point in my post. I have no intention of critiquing your knowledge or intelligence, as I know nothing of them. I will apologize for the word "ego" as it inaccurately describes what I have been trying to say. I never said that you thoughts or opinion are not well thought out. I am very confident that they are, however, the fact that you do not feel connected to people is likely linked to the fact that you view relationship from an intensely logical perspective. I…	/r/seduction	20/10/12 01:06 AM
7	People (and sadly, many ladies) bore me. How do I end his? Just going to throw this out there man, but I think you are confusing your intelligence with your ego. Now im not questioning that you are smart, I am sure that you are. The problem here is that you cant see the inconsistencies in your OWN logic, and are thus not willing to deal with the inconsistencies in other people logic. All people are logically inconsistent, its what makes us human. So if you ask me your ego is just getting in the way of you showing your actual intelligence. An intelligent…	/r/seduction	19/10/12 05:47 PM
3	I need dating advice! Like Tofu said, just calm down and be outcome independent and focus on having fun! When I am in doubt of whether she wants me to pay or not I prefer to pick up the tab. If she says she wants to pay, I respond with "well you can pick up the bill next time" which also gives a nice bridge for figuring out another date.	/r/seduction	31/01/12 04:10 AM