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LIFESTYLEchowchowfluff/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 03:09 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with sharing your location via the Find My app or similar if it’s a trusting relationship between adults. My partner and I share location using the app - the difference is that we are in a healthy relationship. OPs situation is toxic, big difference.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/23 01:31 AM
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I LOVE Maria!! I wish she was my friend IRL or my sister lol she’s great, love watching her videos.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/22 08:21 AM
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Please listen to everyone here when they tell you - you are so young! At 25 you can easily bounce back from a relationship and still have so much youth left. Work on yourself. Build up your mind, body, and surround yourself with good people and good things. Know that it’s ok to feel your feelings - they are just feelings. Align yourself with the kind of values that you believe will attract the kind of man you want and checking out the RPW community toolbox is a great place to help you with these…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/22 05:36 AM
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I’m sort of in the very early stages of realizing infertility may be an issue for us. We’ve been in the “if it happens it happens” camp since I’ve been off birth control for a few years and last year was when I started to keep a loose eye on my ovulation and comparing it to when we were having sex (still not really “trying” on purpose). The last 3 months I have been trying: temping everyday with a tempdrop, testing LH with test strips for the days leading up to ovulation, timing sex near my ovul…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/22 05:59 PM
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Your worth is not your virginity, let’s just get that out of the way…you don’t become a worthless women just because you’re no longer a virgin. Emotionally Intelligent people would recognize their pain, the cause, and learn from it then move on - becoming smarter in the process and continuing on a healthy mental path of respecting themselves enough to not jump in bed with someone else just to heal their wounds. The relationship vetting process that should be happening prior to sexual activity wo…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 11:55 PM
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I was raised sort of quasi-red pill. My mom would say red pill things every once in a while and we were very involved in church things but the problem was that my mom did things that were the opposite of the things she would say. She would pick battles with my dad and not practice letting her captain lead, she decided to go back to work when I was 12 even though me and my siblings (4 of us - I’m oldest) could’ve really used her at home. She was also very sweet and nice as a person in general but…
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/22 10:39 PM
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If the man doesn’t want to take care of his part of being a man of high value then he’s not a high value man. Red Pill Women are encouraged to vet men and choose ones that are high enough value that the types of issues you’re mentioning would be less likely. That or they aren’t the types that are wanting the kind of commitment that a Red Pill Women should be looking for. Boiling it all down, Red Pill itself is mainly just a philosophy that builds upon the evo-psych nature of gender roles and our…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/22 07:41 PM
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You’re welcome! The advice I just gave is a way to help get yourself out of the situation once you’re already in it of course. Meaning, when you’re in that mood already and need a quick way to diffuse. It does help. Ultimately you will want to instill the habits and tools that will prevent you from getting there to begin with of course, that’s one of the harder things for us ladies with ADHD, we just have to work a little harder at time management and brain organization. For that reason I try to…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/22 08:55 PM
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I too have mild ADHD, was diagnosed in my teens. I tend to get worked up and flustered easily which then turns into anxiety and irritation. I totally know what you mean when you are talking about being “in the flow” and super focused on your work and wanting to power through the productivity. Communicating to your man in a feminine way and being honest about how you are feeling with respect to him goes a really long way. “Hi honey! gives kiss I’ve got a really good flow going on this one project…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/22 05:22 PM
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Sure, people can state the obvious but I’ve never run into anyone that says “by the way - I can’t have children because I’m sterile and I do have a dog but I just want you all to know that I still think children are more important than pets” most people would agree that it’s obvious children are superior to pets. The people that don’t think that way have an unnatural view of the world and probably have other issues. Single motherhood is definitely not “revered”, and if it is somehow then I’ve ne…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/22 08:40 PM
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Pets aren’t superior to children. Some people choose not to have children and some people cannot have children - is there something wrong with those people if they chose to have pets in those circumstances? The permanence of having a child is not bad, but it is permanent and it does require a lot more responsibility than having a pet - you are always a parent but once you no longer have a pet you are no longer a pet owner. I also don’t know anyone who is bragging about being a single mother, the…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/22 05:55 PM
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Just finished The Empowered Wife by Laura Doyle, great read! Currently reading: Non-fiction: Fascinating Womanhood by Helen Andelin In The Flo by Alisa Vitti (on Kindle) Superhuman by Dave Asprey (on Audible) The Male Brain by Louann Brizendine (on Audible) Fiction: Anna Karenina (on Audible) All great books that I’d recommend!
/r/RedPillWives10/02/22 09:56 PM
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Not gonna lie, this post definitely gave me a jolt. January was the first month I have started truly tracking my ovulation with an OPK and trying to hit that sweet spot of ovulation sex. Just started the TWW today but to be honest…I’m 33 and my man is 42. I’ve been off BC for 5 years and we’re not, and haven’t been, having protected sex. Yesterday morning I called a local fertility clinic to ask about pricing and scheduling to get an idea of what I might be up against as a worst case scenario an…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/22 02:49 AM
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I get what you’re saying about wanting to scurry away in social situations, I definitely can be that way sometimes too. Just whenever I have the opportunity to host I really enjoy it. I don’t think I could ever go to a bar(pub) alone though. I barely enjoy going there with friends lol.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 07:38 PM
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“We’re basically retired grandparents in young bodies” 😂 I mean, I feel you there. We are as well I think. We like to choose peaceful togetherness over going out 90% of the time unless it’s a special occasion for friends or family.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 07:25 PM
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I second this! OP, also check out The Empowered Wife by Laura Doyle. Although you are not married, that book applies to LTRs and live-in partners as well and has a lot of practical tips on approaching communication and boundaries in your relationship in a RPW way.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 05:11 PM
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Have you been friends with the same RPW group for a long time or are these RPW couples ones that you’ve met since being involved with the RPW community?
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 03:44 PM
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It’s fun to get dressed up for a nice out every once in a while but honestly staying in with my man and relaxing, maybe cooking a nice dinner for us and just having a chill night together is so much more enjoyable in my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 05:00 AM
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That sounds nice! Do you and your man like to stay in or go out when you enjoy time together?
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 04:45 AM
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Fun! Bowling and ice skating seem like good ideas for an “active date” night too, I’ve never considered doing those with my man, maybe we will try them sometime.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 04:43 AM
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That sounds lovely! We like to watch movies, shows, and enjoy playing video games together. We recently picked up a couple of Nintendo 3DS consoles and spent an evening playing Mario Kart 7 🤣. We had a blast! I love hosting as well, it’s a gift of mine I think and I thoroughly enjoy that too!
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 03:40 AM
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This should be an interesting story to tell her next BF: Him: So why did you and your ex breakup? Her: He bought me cookies on my birthday and I ghosted him for it. Lol. What? If I was friends with that girl I would have told her she was being a petty brat.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/22 10:32 PM
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I know where you are coming from, I’m learning this one still and I still have a difficult time not feeling totally attacked when my man airs his concerns sometimes. Not always, but specifically the times he’s airing concern over something that was related to a past hurt. If something triggers him from a past hurt in a new situation his tone and way of broaching the topic are usually very direct and it’s always been hard for me not to react or get defensive. He is very outspoken and will bring s…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/22 07:08 PM
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I’ve never heard this but am curious why this would be?
/r/RedPillWives21/01/22 12:08 AM
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I wanted to follow up here with you too because I am listening to the book “The Empowered Wife” by Laura Doyle on Audible and she just got to chapter 8 where she talks about using the phrase “Whatever you think” with your man. She talks about how, since a man has such a high drive to make his woman happy he will ask her things such as “what would you like to eat tonight?” And a good response is to provide him your preference “I’d love Italian food tonight!” so he can be “your hero” by making you…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/22 09:18 PM
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You’re welcome :)! I understand wanting him to lead but yes he spends a lot of time leading everything else in his life too. However, my opinion is that this isn’t one of those times that is a make or break thing on a man like this leading. If he’s a good Captain he will lead in all sorts of ways, big and small. My man leads his and my life together in all of the most import aspects and makes all kinds of decisions as my Captain on a regular basis. In my opinion it’s nice that he is also conside…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/22 10:31 AM
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In my experience, the high status startup/CEO/entrepreneur types are like this. He lives a busy life. You mentioned in a comment that you felt like him asking for a date 2 days before was a bit last minute but most likely he didn’t even know if he would for sure be free on Saturday until he text you and asked if you wanted to do something today. Guys like this typically aren’t the flake types so he would most likely have wanted to be absolutely sure he was free before committing to a date. Him a…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/22 09:55 AM
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Hey, no worries - rant away! I just wanted to say I’m really proud of you :). Your friend put you in a bad situation and then gaslit you about it when you brought it up. His actions were disrespectful and selfish. You agreed to go to the party NOT put up with all of the other crap that came along with it, you are not at fault at all. Your friend seems like a narcissist that was using you to be compliant with their agendas under the guise of “best friendship”. That is 100% toxic and you have ever…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/22 02:34 AM
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You’ve got some good advice already from the other ladies here regarding how men deal with this kind of thing. I’ll reiterate that just being there for him and continuing to display RPW values will help with providing him some peace as he deals with what he is going through. Acts of service such as bringing him meals/cooking for him or offering that if he needs anything from you as a way to serve him during this time that you’re available. You are not at fault, it’s just an unfortunate situation…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/22 08:48 PM
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I’m in too! I’m currently doing a self paced follow along of your book club for Fascinating Womenhood from 2 years ago too lol. I’ve never read Anna Karenina either but always love a good classic!
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/22 02:54 AM
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I believe in the biological differences of men and women and what those entail when it comes to relationships. I believe we should be true to our nature as women and embrace our femininity. I believe we should respect men and masculinity. I believe my man should be the captain of our life and I will gladly stand by and support his lead as his first mate. While at the same time make sure I am intellectually and emotionally equipped to assist and manage whatever is required of me as a feminine wom…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/22 06:34 AM
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Could you explain how it was anti biology and anti human?
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/22 05:15 AM
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First wave feminism had a lot to do with equal human rights for women. Although it did lead into women’s right to vote and own property as well, a lot of the underlying framework of the first wave was actually just women advocating for being recognized as humans rather than just men’s property. Property can’t vote or own anything because property isn’t “a person”. As a women, I like being considered a person lol.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/22 04:14 AM
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Hmm, could you explain more what you mean by “a beautiful and loving women will inspire a man to greatness”? In this context based on the OP comment, the man previously had a job (assuming it’s a 9-5 where he has a boss) but assumingly decided to play video games instead of taking care of family needs. I’m concerned that the poetic “inspire a man to greatness through femininity” gets lost in application in a scenario like this one. I’d only advocate that the women not take some sort of proactive…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/22 07:36 PM
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This is an interesting perspective that I’ve never really thought through to the extent that you just extrapolated, thank you! In my case, I’ve been in situations where SO took time “off” to play video games (we’re business owners though so, slightly different than someone with a 40 hr work week). However, we have more than enough of what we need to support ourselves so it’s never been an issue. In times like those I am supportive of his need to “decompress” in the way that works best for him an…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/22 06:18 PM
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That’s wonderful, I’m so glad to hear that! Sometimes it’s hard for the “do-it-all” types, especially men in business situations like this, to delegate and ask for help - this might be what is going on with your husband too. It’s great you found something to offer up help with in the way that you did because it also puts a little thought seed out there that can get your husband considering better ways to organize, optimize, and delegate the business stuff in a healthy way and it shows you are th…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/22 01:22 AM
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Quitting smoking is HARD and when you’re trying to quit, the struggle is real. I would not be surprised if he was highly irritable, over sensitive, and moody for this reason alone - nicotine withdrawal would amplify even normal everyday stuff by 10.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/21 04:53 AM
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I agree OP shouldn’t try to manage the emotions of her BF but she should also not invalidate his emotions or roll her eyes at him which comes across as disrespect and to men, disrespect is a cardinal sin.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/21 04:40 AM
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It sounds like he has a lot on his plate but also sounds like he has a lot of drive to make a successful life for his family. It’s only been 3 months since you guys moved and although you did make a major life change, 3 months is not very long. Is there something that you can do to help with the Canada business while your husband is trying to learn and establish a place in his family business there in Pakistan? Even if it’s just keeping things organized or taking some minor housekeeping style ta…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/21 11:22 PM
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I just wanted to say that please don’t let what anyone else thinks change what you feel strongly about doing for your life. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be a homemaker. People bully people that they think are different than them. It’s not fair and it makes the person being bullied feel terrible. When I was in my teens (now am 32) I wish I would’ve had the same kind of conviction about what I wanted as you seem to. Instead I tried to conform because I was bullied for one thing or anothe…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/21 02:46 AM
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