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Outer Game christopherames/r/seduction13/10/21 06:53 PM
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Was it just one group or different girls/groups?
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:54 PM
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How long did you talk with the girls?
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:28 PM
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While I don’t agree with OP’s endorsement of polyamory, I think it’s inevitable with the rise of a female dominated society. It’s going to suck for betas but society already doesn’t care about them. Men will be shamed for not “being man enough”to let his wife have sex with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:41 PM
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My observation has been that people who tell you to improve yourself and the women will come are either women, men who married young or men who are very attractive/have low standards.
/r/seduction20/01/22 10:41 PM
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My observation has been that people who tell you to improve yourself and the women will come are either women, men who married young or men who are very attractive/have low standards.
/r/seduction20/01/22 10:22 PM
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You definitely need to lose weight; not only for women but your health. I recommend the keto diet and intermittent fasting. Keto will reduce your hunger and only eating 1 or 2 meals won’t be that difficult. Keto wasn’t sustainable for me (after like 10 months) and now I’m a calorie and macro counter and am lifting weights to gain muscle which is ultimately what women want physically in men. Also very impressive that you cold approached 30 women while being overweight. I need to develop that I Do…
/r/seduction18/01/22 10:01 PM
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100% this. I would like to add many men hit on waitresses, baristas, etc. because they fear cold approaching.
/r/seduction08/01/22 02:03 PM
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I think women do it for both attention from men (even if they don’t want to get approached) and to check themselves out in the mirror. It’s basically the same motivations as posting on IG
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:56 PM
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Ok I’m in. I am not attracted to overweight women. Other than that, I don’t really have any standards. The problem is this disqualifies 80% of women. It’s not ego or about what other people think. It’s about physical repulsion. I’m not overweight. My question: how do you lower your standards? I’m not looking for platitudes or judgment. I’m looking for specific actions. I have looked for books or resources to lower my standards and I can’t find any.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:41 AM
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99.9%
/r/seduction29/12/21 02:27 PM
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Number 1 is golden and something I recently figured out
/r/seduction21/12/21 06:40 PM
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“Overall, 91% of custody decisions do not require the family court to decide.” Exactly my point. It’s sort of like the stat that 90% of criminal cases don’t go to trial because of plead deals. It doesn’t mean 90% of defendants are actually guilty. It’s about strategy and determining how likely they think will win in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:43 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:45 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:37 AM
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How do you determine “if the father wanted it”? Aren’t divorces usually settled out of court?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:54 AM
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I don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:49 AM
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I’m sorry. I thought this was a seduction subreddit. I guess instead it’s a place to call guys trying to develop day game weirdos, desperate, etc. Good for you for approaching 75+ women, OP. I would try to just change up the venue if possible.
/r/seduction13/12/21 10:13 PM
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From my research, Colombia doesn’t enforce alimony and child support payments. One of the reasons I’m looking to relocate there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:04 PM
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100% right
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:35 PM
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Resurrecting the thread. Does anyone have data about who receives the most welfare by gender? I can find it by race and I see statements that it’s mainly women that receive welfare but I can’t actually find data on it.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 12:06 AM
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How do you know it’s your race and not something else? Is it just because you are 6 ft, athletic and have your own place or do the women mention race?
/r/seduction01/11/21 06:24 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:07 PM
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You said you have a minimum wage but you can support yourself on it? Are you sure about those numbers?
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:03 AM
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What are your plans for getting a job that you can support yourself or save up money while living at your Dad’s?
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:49 AM
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100% agree with other posters. Going to a therapist is essential here and I relate to your issue a lot. Also if the first therapist(s) don’t work out, try others. You might have to try multiple therapists before finding one that clicks.
/r/seduction30/06/21 01:29 AM
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Let’s put this into perspective. You tried to kiss her because you thought she was interested. She wasn’t interested and she pushed you away. Also it sounds like she rejected you in a bitchy way (she could have just said not interested like a normal person). Why are you apologizing deeply? Sure you can apologize as a social nicety like if you bumped into someone but YOU DIDN’T DO ANYTHING WRONG.
/r/seduction28/06/21 11:42 PM
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OLD and the obesity epidemic are the two biggest reasons why dating is harder for men than in the past. This topic doesn’t get as much attention on TRP as it should.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:52 PM
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I think there are a few things that might be good for you. First is joining a support group or a 12 step program. These places can provide unconditional love and personal growth, if used effectively. Second is trauma therapy/EMDR (I just started that). Third is treatment for social anxiety. I am in the middle of reading Overcoming Social Anxiety and Shyness by Gillian Butler and am realizing that SAD is a key reason for having problems with women.
/r/seduction18/06/21 01:53 AM
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I am considering if this is the case for me as well. I live in Houston and can relate to a lot of what you are talking about. Are there any neighborhoods in San Jose or the surrounding areas that skew younger and more single? I also recommend doing day game and attending meetups in the cities you are thinking about moving to before making a final decision.
/r/seduction13/06/21 02:14 PM
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How much do you want to torture yourself by not approaching her? That’s the real question.
/r/seduction09/06/21 01:07 AM
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I recommend learning a trade over college for most people. Specifically Electrical, Plumbing or HVAC. Part of my job is I do invoicing for a construction company and we pay $125 just for one of these guys just to show up. We’re on the lower end since we’re residential. They’re always in demand. Also once you have some experience and are licensed it’s not hard at all to pull six figures in a medium cost of living place by starting your own business. Starting your own business is competitive, righ…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 11:36 AM
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You are approaching with a mask? That has to affect your numbers. They can’t read your face and/or they are worried about Covid.
/r/seduction24/05/21 08:05 PM
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Keep an open mind. If you date a bunch of 18-21 year olds and it’s not satisfying then you can reevaluate. You’re imagining how it will go with no information.
/r/seduction24/05/21 07:51 PM
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Very well thought out post. It summarizes a lot of the conclusions I’ve come to about dating. I’m also going to try day game and just see how it goes and not be obsessed with the “stats” (approaches, close rate, etc) at first. The only problem I see currently with day game is everyone where I live is still wearing masks so I’m curious if you or others have opinions on approaching women wearing masks. I’m hesitant to do it because they are clearly still concerned about Covid. I’m not really conce…
/r/seduction23/05/21 01:58 PM
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