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Read the best one that fights it. Fyodor Dostoevsky. Start from the Karamazov brothers
/r/askTRP26/01/19 11:51 AM
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IMO giving your jacket to a girl is not a problem by itself. You could be an Alpha and do that. That said, providing is a Beta trait - Beta traits are not bad, just not appreciated. (that's why in order to succeed in the sexual market place you need to show more Alpha traits). Unfortunately it's a really thin line nowadays seperating the "nice guy syndrome" from showing compassion as human being. You should do what feels right to you, while having always red pill awareness
/r/askTRP14/01/19 03:57 PM
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If you are struggling with Nihilism, you should read Fyodor Dostoevsky. Brothers Karamazov, Crime and Punishment, Demons etc. His novels are brilliant works of art that are made just to counter nihilistic thoughts. In any case, just cause you might not be able to share your life experiences with one person doesn't mean neither that your life experiences don't matter in the first place nor that you can't share parts of them with different persons. If you have to share them exclusively with one pe…
/r/MGTOW09/01/19 08:50 AM
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you're talking more about the PUA crew than TRP. I am not. Incels claim that are part of the MGTOW community , while they are not. Pussy slaves claim that are part of the RP community, while they are not. I just made a point, not to judge MGTOW's based on some incels. If you don't believe me , check the posts in asktrp, how many of them are about pussy slaying and how many of them are actually for self betterment ?
/r/askTRP23/11/18 10:47 AM
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For all I know the equivalent of a bitter mgtow is a 'red pill' guy spending incredible amounts of time chasing pussy. Trying to get a self esteem boost from his notch count. Which means he still puts women on the pedestal. Which means he is still not focusing on himself, on his hobbies & his business. As in the MGTOW communities there are incels , in the Red Pill community there are pussy slaves . Everyone that is capable of opening his eyes to the truth should be respected. The way of solution…
/r/askTRP23/11/18 09:46 AM
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I have mended my relationship with my father as well. Still, regardless of how much he wants the best for me, he was never 'qualified' to teach me what it takes to be a man. Never had the man to man talk. I had to figure it out myself the hard way and make no mistake this is a never ending journey. Mothers cannot fill this gap existing within us. They will never be able to replace our fathers, women who believe that are disgusting. Their ego is bigger than their love for their child. Of course t…
/r/MGTOW23/11/18 09:39 AM
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Men have same access to sex with women that are 4 SMV points behind them.
/r/MGTOW21/11/18 11:27 AM
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Amen
/r/MGTOW20/11/18 01:00 PM
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None of it is toxic. Masculinity can be used in a harmful way the same way femininity can. As a matter of fact, if anything, femininity is much more harmfully applied. I am offended when they say that parts of my core being are toxic. They really urge to apply my masculinity in the worst way possible, just to have 'em get a glimpse at what they are talking about. We are men. I am not going to apologize or repress any part of my nature.
/r/MensRights20/11/18 09:40 AM
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Read the tactical guy to woman by Shawn T Smith
/r/askTRP19/11/18 03:45 PM
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As a society we are much closer to change the doodle for an International Toxic Masculinity Day rather than Men's Day. Gender bias at it's finest, can't believe that International Pet's Day is celebrated more. Then they say we are not conditioned. Fuck you Google. Feminism is Cancer.
/r/MGTOW19/11/18 12:15 PM
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I went through the same phase and vented to my 'close friends'. I was called misogynist and traumatized lol. 95% of the people are not receptive to Red Pill truths. Speaking to them will just backfire. Focus on yourself, leave the past behind and if you encounter anyone along the way that is genuinely frustrated with society and the way the world works, try to introduce them to the Red Pill.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 09:24 AM
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You are wrong my friend. Introvert is not a bad trait. There are social introverts. The fact that you appreciate your private time, doesn't mean you can't socialize. I'd say that it's even a good trait. Because the time you devote to yourself can be way more constructive than screwing around with AFC's. Neurotic and agreeable is another thing. Assertiveness is a masculine trait and women do dig it. Be careful with the JP content, I am a big fan and he is brilliant , however he is blue pill to th…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 08:59 AM
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Women point the finger to us and want to erase most of our masculine traits. Like they have a right to tamper with the core of what characterizes us as male beings. Like they have a right to dictate what we are supposed or not supposed to be. I just find it extremely sad how guys can accept this. I don't care how thirsty anyone is, self respect comes first. If that's not toxic femininity, then I have no clue what toxic means.
/r/MGTOW19/11/18 08:52 AM
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You may think it’s great social proof to have some hot friend endorse you as a good lay for her other friends, but women talk. In fact it’s all they do most of the time. Your status as a friend gets transferred to her girlfriends. Why? First, if she was a prior target for you who turned into a LJBF, you already have that as an association of your friendship. Any of her girlfriends that would subsequently date you will know that she was your primary interest initially – not them. Secondly, assumi…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 08:29 AM
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She found out you fingered another girl during her birthday week , while you never even told her happy bday? I think it's time to call it a day with this one.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 11:26 AM
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The Medium is the message. Women communicate covertly not overtly. High interest level won't buffle you. There are only so many fucks you can give.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 09:56 AM
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You are the average of the 5 persons you hang around the most with. Let that sink in.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 08:47 AM
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If she thinks you are an Alpha you will get the lay regardless. Even if her father is a tyrant, Hypergamy cant afford losing a chance mating with an Alpha. Given that she will break any rules to fuck you, you can give a provider frame. It will only strengthen the interest. ( Even if you shouldnt care since you can fuck her already) BUT if she thinks you are a Beta , she will get pissed if you dont buck her. And you wont get the lay regardless. So as a good rule of thumb dont buck deez bitches
/r/askTRP17/11/18 10:25 AM
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I usually have invites to plans, but most of them are for drinking and clubbing. Not something I like, with people that I can't relate. What I do is focus on my self. Make the most out of my time. Dive into your hobbies. Personally I read books, collect vinyls ,study guitar and hit the gym. So I dont need anyone to fill my time.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 10:20 AM
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Men are biologically hardwired to be turned by physical traits. Noone gets a boner because a girl is showing traits of her personality. You exclusively get a boner from her appearance. This question is a proof that we are feminized from society. What behavioral traits make a girl LTR material is another thing.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 03:39 PM
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Lol thats a manosphere 1.01 question to a MGTOW community
/r/MGTOW16/11/18 03:33 PM
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Masculinity is not required anymore. The weak are aplauded for bravery and the strong are being shamed for standing out. Therefore it's easier for people to sit their asses home and not struggle to become better in terms of being a man.
/r/MGTOW16/11/18 10:42 AM
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But women don't need men to buck them or protect them anymore - society does it for free. They don't demand men serving them because they need them. They demand men serving them because they want to keep us manipulated.
/r/MGTOW16/11/18 10:39 AM
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The Bright Triad ; Clarity, Maturity, Stability. Check "The Tactical Guide to Women" by Shawn T. Smith.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 08:19 AM
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Fuck her harder lmao
/r/askTRP15/11/18 10:53 AM
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Her boyfriend died and now it's pay day for Arianna. Throw out a couple of songs and chicks are going mental about it. Of course it's the number one song . Women can fucking relate to that hoe-ish behavior.
/r/MGTOW14/11/18 11:02 AM
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The conditioning we are receiving to suppress our Male sexual strategy is immense. - It starts within your family, because we are not the first generation to be fed that lie. Your own parents will teach it to you. - The Disney movies you will watch as a kid will teach it to you. Princes marrying zeroed out girls that have ONEitis for. - Then you will go to school and all the teachers will let you know how you should be a gentleman. By 10 years old, before you can even get an erection, you alread…
/r/askTRP14/11/18 10:56 AM
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Society says we have to serve women and accept every responsibility, but not only we don't get to have any kind of authority over them - the crazy part is that we are even oppressing them. It's like babysitting a child , while you have to do everything it says otherwise you are a child hater LMAO.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 09:06 AM
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You are not cool. But you can't overtly threat her cause that's mate guarding and shows lack of power. What you do is demonstrate power. She goes out, you go out, she comes back and you are not at home. You act you don't negotiate. They need you to Just Get It.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 03:48 PM
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Our burden of performance is heavier than ever. It's a cold war against male society in a deep psychological level. However, once a man realizes what is going on it brings out his most masculine traits. Males are designed to sustain and fight back - that's why we will win. Keep spreading the Red Pill and witness Kings rise again.
/r/MGTOW13/11/18 11:28 AM
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In order to stop hurting you have to go and hit them in the gym again. Regardless, you will grow to love that shit. Look forward to it. Pain makes you grow.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 11:20 AM
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Being in a dead relationship is worse than being alone. Best case scenario it's the same from a sentimental point of view and better from a financial one. I could point out that even if it could work, there is a huge risk entering in a marriage - but the issue you have to address is in your mind. Regardless, whether you want to connect with women or not. You have to be content without them.You have to set yourself as the prime source of happiness man.. Give anyone the right to make you depressed…
/r/MGTOW13/11/18 11:09 AM
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The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place. — Robert Briffault, The Mothers, Vol. I, p. 191
/r/MGTOW13/11/18 09:32 AM
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" Negotiated desire only ever leads to obligated compliance " Regardless of the reason; claiming that she wants to see your phone (or having any kind of demands really) in order to touch your dick, is not something you can accept. "who knows what vile things you're hiding in there..? " I guess you should joke around this one. Say that you have hundreds of chicks sending you nudes every second lol. But the point here is to covertly refuse her to negotiate desire. If she even thinks about not touc…
/r/askTRP13/11/18 08:54 AM
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I’ll admit it is unlikely, but you definitely can have a good LTR before 30 if you’re RP and take it for what it is. You have to ask yourself why would you want an LTR that early. Sure you might want to have kids , but why bother doing LTRs during your 20s? You can have kids during your 30s. The Male Sexual Strategy is to spread the seed. That's our default instinct.So what's making you want to stick to a girl? Well, it's the conditioning from the society. It's because it serves Hypergamy. LTR's…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 10:43 PM
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Ok this is a huge chapter and I will encourage you to read the Rational Male, however I will try to give you a short answer on why LTR's are a bad idea before you hit 30s. Women are having a free pass by society to spin plates while being in a relationship. They have many orbiters available to fuck any day they want. Options is confidence. Confidence means she needs you way less than you need her. Means she holds the power in the relationship, she holds the frame. Guys are jumping into LTRs whil…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:50 PM
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Exactly! NNN is stupid man. People are following this to get motivated to go out and approach. You have to be able to approach and Game without being desperate to get off. The result of NNN is people being horny af and serving the feminine primacy. Chicks chilling at the bars while high value guys throw themselves at them because the won't get off. Fucking Hypergamy man, can we even do it easier for them? We are the ones that need to pick the chicks. We need to approach and let the girl prove he…
/r/MGTOW12/11/18 02:23 PM
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" so I never really had a father figure " Most of the fathers nowadays are feminized so people rarely adopt masculine traits from their upbringing. " My best friend is my girlfriend " There is no such thing as a girl friend and you shouldn't be in an LTR unless you are 30 years old or more. " I always feel like I am not really masculine " That's cause you are not. Trust your gut moving forward. The issue is in your mind, in order to be more masculine you have to be in a position to define what m…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 02:13 PM
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There is nothing wrong with porn. Excessive use of anything is bad.Respectively, having to go out every time you want to get off is equally counter productive. You have a life and women should not be the focus of it. While you certainly have to Game women irl cause that's our nature and sexual strategy as males, it's no lie that we don't have the same access to sex as they do and that's 100% socially constructed. So going out, spending money and time approaching is counter-productive - cause the…
/r/askTRP10/11/18 12:21 PM
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Gentleman is a scheme, chivalry was developed a long time ago during the Middle Age - a completely different society than today. Back then knights had all of the authority and therefore all the responsibility to be a gentleman. Now women have all of the authority but still expect us to bare the responsibility of being a gentleman and serve them. It just doesn't work like that anymore. You simply become a slave to the Feminine Imperative. The gentleman scheme is like the 'Man up' scheme, it's jus…
/r/askTRP09/11/18 09:30 AM
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Love it that everyone around here feels sex is overrated. Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 09:05 PM
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It only takes one Alpha to fuck up a woman. You dont want to mess with Alpha widows.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 06:36 PM
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She knowz what she wants - Gangstarr
/r/MGTOW08/11/18 04:16 PM
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Roosh V is a PUA, but once he got his books banned from Amazon and got ditched by his gf, he is preaching the Red Pill. His forum the Return of the Kings is the reason why thousand guys opened their eyes. He is one of the three R's of the manosphere.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 12:13 PM
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Jordan Peterson is blue pilled. And lately became a part of the system . If you are Red Pill and anti - feminist you are not famous. Do yourself a favor and check Roosh V or Rollo Tomassi or any other guy. Stop listening to what the media promotes. It's just loads of crap. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jcFE1zh8r_M ​
/r/askTRP08/11/18 12:09 PM
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It's 100% normal wanting to make a family in the future. I think many men have a strong need to become fathers.However, that shouldn't be in conflict with the fact that you want to bang chicks at the moment.(If you don't want to fuck, check your testosterone levels. )You should only consider LTR after 30's.(Check the sexual market values for each gender.) Hooking up with girls in a club is meaningless.If you have ambitions in your life, wasting a night and probably half of your next day to recov…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 11:58 AM
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Can someone point out to this poor guy that no chick is going to blow him for being a feminist?
/r/MGTOW08/11/18 09:46 AM
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AWALT They get off the cock carousel ( Must have slept with at least 50 guys after we broke up ) when they hit the Wall ( My 27-year-old ex girlfriend ) and all of them say that " Told me that she's different now, " " Never fall victim to a wicked woman's ways "Why son?" She's trying to get paid, check it One: She said she wanted to give me a son Two: She said she didn't like my crew Three: She never ever cooked for me Four: She was my cheri amore -- YEAH RIGHT It was all hype, I needed more ins…
/r/MGTOW08/11/18 09:38 AM
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For every man destroyed by a woman, we are one step closer to a fucking revolution. Red Pill is spreading like crazy. Joke is on us for now, but there are only so many men they can abuse before everybody wakes up and we drag them back to the kitchen by force.
/r/MGTOW08/11/18 09:05 AM
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That's how men lost the plot. After the sexual revolution we thought that we would be released from our burden of performance. That women will love us for who we are and not for what we can provide them with. That's why men allowed all of this to escalate the way it did. There would be no feminism , no 'toxic masculinity' , no biased gender based decisions, no pussification of the western male and no open Hypergamy, proactive cheating, open cuckoldry. Society is the way it is, because men are th…
/r/becomeaman08/11/18 08:59 AM
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A girl that has daddy issues, won't appreciate what you bring to the table as a man. While growing up she either didn't have any connection with her dad or she was in conflict with him. So, she either grew up without a male influence and therefore doesn't have the capacity to appreciate your masculinity (cause she never experienced it before). Or, she will despise masculine traits, because of her dad. There is a chance that she will be missing a manly figure in her life and will latch onto you, …
/r/askTRP07/11/18 09:27 AM
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Read the Rational Male and the Way of Men
/r/askTRP07/11/18 09:10 AM
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Looks Money Game. You need at least two out of three to get regular lays.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 08:47 AM
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Yeah you shouldnt be the first to send a message after the sex date. You are the prize to be won.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 03:49 PM
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The medium is the message. You shouldn't send her to begin with. If she was highly interested she would have send you regardless. Anything else than a fuck yes is a hell no. You shouldn't settle for anything else than a fuck hes. Ghost her.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 03:44 PM
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'kk' would be a butthurt answer only if you go back. If you show that you have zero fucks to give for her, 'kk' means you are not willing to be her girlfriend. (if you are not fucking her, then you are her girlfriend) Yeah she rejected you and then you showed that you don't care , which is demonstrating higher value and she is just trying to shame you. Girls do that all the time, with their back against the wall in an argument , they will resort to social-shaming 'is that the only reason you are…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 02:56 PM
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Arguably, pair bonding has been a primary adaptation for us that has been species-beneficial. It’s fairly obvious that humans’ capacity for both intra- and inter-sexual cooperation has made us the apex species on the planet. However, the Feminine Imperative’s primary social impetus of making Hypergamy the defining order of (ideally) all cultures is in direct conflict with this human cooperativity. A new order of open Hypergamy, based on female primacy (and the equalist importance of the individu…
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 02:42 PM
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The rule of thumb is that you consider committing to an LTR only after your 30s. Reason is based on the Sexual Market Value of each gender. However, even then, you have to know how to properly vet a woman.You don't want to commit to a crazy slut that just hit the Wall and got off the cock carousel.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 02:33 PM
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" Haha nah, but nice try. " The medium is the message. Regardless of what she tells you, she turned down the invitation. High interest level will never confuse you. Yes , that's a shit test. I would agree and amplify, however since she already declined , I think it's time to ghost her.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 02:29 PM
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Many guys can go through monk phases. It's not bad or abnormal. Women, regardless whether we are talking about one or many (plates), are not supposed to be the focus of your life. You can go through some periods alone. Just focus on your goals , your values and move on. It's normal to feel angry and reluctant to approach again for now. You don't have to. There are only so many fucks we can give to worry about a crazy girl.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 02:17 PM
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The Red Pill questions everything a man is conditioned to hold dear. It questions his emotional investments and his life choices. Why would anyone make a U-turn in his beliefs unless he is not traumatized or completely frustrated? I understand why they won't listen to it. The criticism though comes from denial. If a guy sees nothing wrong with his life, you can't point out why everything is wrong. He will go in denial mode and call you misogynistic. These are basic reflexes. You need a traumatic…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 08:39 AM
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Well.. we start searching for random Greeks, in every Red Pill/forum we are active. Once we found 3-5, we appoint a meeting in real life. Then we take it from there. I guess we could create Greek youtube channels, facebook groups, forums and talk to guys. 90% will call us sexist pigs , 10% will wake up. Then the knowledge will start to spread though. Preach the Rational Male haha
/r/askTRP05/11/18 07:09 PM
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None. Κανένας δεν έχει ιδέα. Είναι όλοι πρόβατα. I guess we could start a Greek group with the purpose of spreading some Red Pill truths in this country. I was the guy saying the quoted part. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/11/18 06:59 PM
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Four characteristics of being a fucking man . Strength, Courage, Mastery, Honor. You go to the gym to become strong. To shape your body in the masculine way it was meant to be shaped. Side-effects; More testosterone, more confidence, chicks dig it, healthy lifestyle, better mindset. Don't be a fucking pussy and go lift heavy shit. Our ancestors used to fight with fucking bears and people today can't handle even going to the grocery store for fucks sake.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:57 PM
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Pook says that indeed and it's a good rule of the thumb for newbies. However, you have to learn that women are just a compliment of your life and not the focus of it. Take it a step further from Pook and learn to be self reliable in terms of your own happiness.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:52 PM
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You don't have to fuck her to be a plate. You just have to be able to fuck her. BUT , if she is giving you LMR that's another thing. Means you tried and you can't. So, she is shit testing you and maybe you are the orbiter . Genuine desire cannot be negotiated.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:47 PM
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Yeah it's called a plate.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:41 PM
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Well, the cold hard truth is that you should cut out all the Betas and try to find Alphas. Of course if you ever need a break from what you are doing in your life, you can use them (given that you have no other options). Creating a tribe with Alpha males though is necessary to express your masculinity. Personally, I face the same situation. I always found it hard to relate to people, because no one had ambitions or any kind of drive. So, since I got the RP it's even harder. I was always focused …
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:16 PM
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That has nothing to do with evolution. That's just a mere result of the way today's society works. Your masculinity is being oppressed, your testosterone is decreasing, you have little to no access to sex and you are conditioned to serve women - trying to find your ONEitis. You are conditioned to respect obey and serve them any way they want. On the other hand, they have a free pussy pass for everything, they have orbiters , they are globally accepted to be better than you in both masculine and …
/r/askTRP05/11/18 09:39 AM
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There is nothing wrong with women in terms of biology. Men are taking the Red Pill and are going their own way, because they respect the idea of how the female sex should really be. Maybe monogamy is a societal construct, but humanity has been settling down to exclusive relationship for a really long time. That's not the problem. The problem is that women have been granted authority by voting, by making free abortions, by intruding male exclusive spaces, without baring ANY responsibility at all.…
/r/MGTOW05/11/18 09:09 AM
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You are the average of the five people you hang around the most with.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 08:50 AM
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Guys bear all the responsibility without having any authority. Women have all the authority without bearing any responsibility.
/r/MensRights05/11/18 08:40 AM
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The Red Pill is not a guide and has nothing to do with PUA. The Red Pill is cold hard truths, that everyone utilizes in his own way.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 10:43 AM
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The Rational Male was the starting point for me
/r/askTRP03/11/18 11:48 AM
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The best TRP way is to work for yourself and achieve the 'fuck you' money. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xdfeXqHFmPI
/r/askTRP03/11/18 09:56 AM
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Even through these most unfair and oppressing times, it's still great to be a man.
/r/MGTOW03/11/18 09:52 AM
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She unsettles the frame. Genuine desire cannot be negotiated. - Rollo Tomassi
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:56 PM
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Society spoils women. Now, spoiled kids never really become adults , do they?
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 09:54 PM
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- Why do my eyes hurt? - Cause you've never used them before.
/r/MensRights02/11/18 09:51 PM
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This is a social convention mainly created by two reasons. 1. At a young age, boys are playing physical games while girls immediately start making social circles and play psychological games. Later when they grow, society shames guys for maintaining that masculine mentality while encourages women to keep their own feminine strategy. 2. The educational system is feminized. It's not suitable for boys. That's why girls are doing better. Boys are becoming less masculine and are trying to compete wit…
/r/MensRights02/11/18 03:47 PM
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So, just out of curiosity; I literally got zeroed out socially after taking the Red Pill. I realized my friends are a bunch of Beta orbiters , slaves to the system. (Tried to wake them up but I got called sexist and traumatized) However, - You are the average of the five person you hang around the most with. - To express your masculinity, it's essential to belong to a male exclusive 'tribe' - with people who share the same values as you. In Athens 2018 creating a 'tribe' with Alpha guys seems to…
/r/askTRP02/11/18 12:39 PM
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The medium is the message. If she doesn't call back, that's the answer.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 11:51 AM
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I assume that's referring to some of the first dates with a potential plate or a cold approach. Paying for her is a Beta move, it shows that you are immediately trying to negotiate desire by playing the provider card. You lose the prize mentality and you are entering her frame. Sure you might be making more money than her, but you shouldn't be out on an extremely expensive restaurant. A simple drink in the bar should do the trick. That said, if you ever offer to pay and she refuses. That's a sig…
/r/askTRP02/11/18 11:30 AM
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There are no platonic female friends . " All of this isn't to say that you cannot have female acquaintances, or that you must necessarily be rude or ignore all women with contempt (that is binary thinking once again), but it is to say that the degree or quality of friendship will always be limited due to sexual differences. " - Rollo Tomassi https://therationalmale.com/2011/11/30/intergender-friendship/
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:15 AM
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Why would you?
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:10 AM
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Sure alcohol helps , however; - it's a rejection buffer. Learn to approach and Game without necessarily being under the influence of alcohol. - Having Red Pill awareness means you are making women a by-product of your life goals and aspirations , not the focus. It doesn't matter if it's one girl (ONEitis) or in your case many (Plates). Four times per week going out drinking is a lot, spend your time doing more productive things, hobbies , business, degrees. Taking the Red Pill means I am trying …
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:06 AM
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I live in Greece as well. " These guys have no game, not good posture or extremely good looks or money and stuff yet these girls are with them. " I agree there are some cases like that one, but that's a minority. Two reasons come to my mind;- Girls with really low confidence caused by trauma.- Girls who have not been raised in Athens or Thessaloniki are inclined to more conventional stereotypes . The problem with these chicks is that once they come to Athens they will completely make a U-turn to…
/r/askTRP02/11/18 08:45 AM
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The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. The Way of Men by Jack Donovan.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 03:48 PM
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Manosphere 1.01 For girls it is socially acceptable to spin plates. They all have orbiters ready to jump on her. It's called Open Hypergamy. The fact that she told you about it, it's a shit test and shows big notch count/low value.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 03:45 PM
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"So now despite us being best friends we have contrasting goals especially when it comes to social life." In my opinion, for a guy to have the potential of being a friend he needs to fulfill two prerequisites; Share similar values with you + Enjoying doing things together. Seems you have a problem on the first. " One of my current goals is putting together a high status social group while he doesn't care about that at all " I can totally relate to your goal. You are the average of the five peopl…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 11:56 AM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 09:13 AM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait. Iron Rule of Tomassi #8 Always let a woman figure out why she wont fuck you, never do it for her. An integral part of maintaining the feminine imperative as the societal imperative involves keeping women as the primary sexual selectors. As I’ve detailed in many prior comments and posts, this means that a woman’s sexual strategy necessitates that…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 08:56 AM
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They are not Alpha dude. We are all conditioned to be Beta (there are really few natural Alphas). If you constantly get pussy thrown at you , you will never have the chance to see that something is wrong, update your belief system and become an Alpha. As you can see Hemsworth and Momoa are not just Betas, they got owned by the 'Man up' convention and some cougars that decided to get off the cock carousel. Hypergamy at it's finest, like Prince Harry and Meghan Markle.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 08:51 AM
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Yeah I can align with that feeling. I have had my share of dates which were mostly successful.The thing is, after having red pill awareness and not being a Beta, I genuinely don't give a damn anymore about listening to every bullshit a girl has to say. You know not to take what they say seriously, you know that they are full of themselves and you know that they are shit testing you to compare your value to their orbiters. You know that at the right time with the right person every girl will act …
/r/askTRP30/10/18 01:15 PM
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I’m sorry to break this to you, but there is no such thing as a long distance relationship. That’s correct, you have no relationship. An LDR simply does not meet the criteria necessary for it to be considered a legitimate relationship. There is no reciprocity of anything more than words passing over a phone line or an IM text. Understand me here – you have no relationship. You have self-assumed accountability, self-assumed liability and internalized responsibilities to be loyal to this person. Y…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 12:06 PM
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I believe that the Red Pill community would say ; Unless you are dressed like a clown , it doesn't matter
/r/askTRP30/10/18 11:46 AM
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Dude asking about your SMV on reddit shows insecurity. Regardless of how you look, insecurity lowers your SMV a lot. You can choose whatever look you like. Not what chicks like, be confident and your SMV will be optimized in regards of the looks. You can look like Brad Pitt and your SMV will be shit without being an Alpha.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 11:36 AM
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Women are sluts, but they won't accept it OVERTLY. Just spin her without commitment and you will result in a fuckbuddies situation naturally.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 10:37 AM
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Well that's what guys do. 'Bullying' and banter. First you have to embrace it and have fun, cause in a male social circle you will always have some shots coming at you. You are always the target because it affects you. Guys can feel this and will feed off of it, cause you are an easy target. Fix your self esteem in order to not get affected by people judging you , then fire shots back and have fun .
/r/askTRP30/10/18 10:35 AM
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Dude you are spinning two other plates so NEXT her. You could get the lay and leave afterwards, but the thing is it's a shit test and you will show thirst. She wants you to be able to NEXT her because it shows higher value - so when a chick openly provokes you like that, she expects nothing less from an Alpha than to ghost her and chase him probably. ​
/r/askTRP30/10/18 10:29 AM
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You should look for that pain. You will grow to love it and embrace it. It is a direct proof that your body is responding to the work you put in. Results will follow. Keep up the good work!
/r/askTRP30/10/18 10:25 AM
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You don't have to tap her to spin her. Plates are also considered chicks that can be potentially spun at any moment. Pretty much what girls are openly doing with orbiters. So yeah, no harm to keep her around.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 10:22 AM
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Why are you sick of yourself? There was no way in the world you could ever find the Red Pill without screwing up and getting hurt. It's necessary to go through a trauma in order to decide to update your belief system. In any case, personally, I am proud of myself that I had the courage to see the world for what it is. You should be as well - many guys don't have the balls to move on from the social brainwash and remain Beta for the rest of their lives. What happened to me though is that girls ca…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 08:15 AM
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Women are just a by-product not the goal. Prioritize yourself, your business, your hobbies and then spin as much as you can afford.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 02:44 PM
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" Now she is 26-27, she does not look the same as before. Aged quite a bit. But now she wants to come back and tells me she loves me etc etc. She wants to get married. She is still a virgin. " Crushed on the Wall. Why would you even consider committing to a woman after she had rejected you during her party years. Curse her out? Beta af. Just ghost her.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 02:42 PM
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It's so stupid.. Chicks like guys that other guys aspire to be and women want to fuck.That said, due to egalitarian equalism mindset, they believe that that's same for us as well. In reality, it is just a shit test and a red flag that indicates high notch count. It's a turn off and an L. I would change subject, not interested in that shit.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 02:37 PM
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More red flags than a Chinese communist parade. She must have a huge notch count. Get the lay then get the fuck outta there.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 02:29 PM
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Gotta have perfect looks , a lot of money and solid Game. First two will get you lays, Game will make chicks come back though.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 10:03 AM
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That post has to be by a troll
/r/askTRP29/10/18 10:01 AM
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You can fuck a lot and be a Beta. As a matter of fact, think about a guy that has great looks naturally and/or a lot of money and/or social status ( i.e plays in a band). Women will throw themselves at him , while he could be beta af. Be sure that if that is the case, he would have a crush with them most of the times, they would fuck him once and then jump to the cock carousel again. Because they are looking for an Alpha.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 10:00 AM
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You shouldn't give a fuck , you should spin more plates and not put all your eggs in one basket. A girl wouldn't cheat on an Alpha that doesn't give a fuck . (Alpha widows) She would cheat on a Beta though with a punk Alpha. You are a Beta. High interest level won't confuse you.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 09:50 AM
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'Nothing is more threatening yet simultaneously attractive to a woman than a man who is aware of his own value to women.' - Rollo Tomassi.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 09:45 AM
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Sleep a lot. Watch your diet. Vitamin D. Engage masculine activities. Cold approach.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 09:43 AM
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"she's probably a 5 or 6/10 but I'm probably not any better atm " - Chicks fuck up. You have no chance going in with that attitude. At least DHV. Iron Rule of Rollo Tomassi #9 Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance. This is a Kiss of Death that you self-initiate and is the antithesis of the Prize Mentality. Once you’ve accepted yourself and presented yourself as a “complete douche” there’s no going back to confidence with a woman. Never appeal to a woman’s sympathies. Her sympathies are giv…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 09:41 AM
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Straight up."Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks. Lick on deez nuts and suck the dick." - Snoop Dogg
/r/MGTOW29/10/18 09:26 AM
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Become the best version of myself, while remain unshackled from social brainwash as much as possible.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 08:53 AM
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I am in Greece. There is no Red Pill community here yet.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 08:22 AM
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Social status , money , look. Chicks marry up.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 02:35 PM
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There is none. It's one thing that society backs feminists and it's another thing that it oppresses men (testosterone drop over the years).
/r/askTRP28/10/18 02:34 PM
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Having yourself as your own mental point of origin..
/r/askTRP28/10/18 02:31 PM
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This is so Beta. She wouldn't leave you for the world if you were an Alpha. You can tell her that it was bad of you to say something but never straight apologize. Alphas don't give a fuck. Sure it's not nobel but chicks fuck punks not princes.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 02:29 PM
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0 advantages.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 02:24 PM
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Cougars that missed their party years.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 08:46 AM
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She feels her friend is oppressed and through that she is also exposed to other 'oppressing' social issues like feminism. She think she is rebellious while she is just another sheep. Fuck her but NEXT her.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 08:44 AM
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Dude that subject really hurts. I have 0 red pill friends and really few blue betas with serious goals in their life. I avoid hanging out too much with them cause they dont really 'offer' anything. Its unproductive hours - drinking and discussing about chicks in a blue pilled way or going to clubs and wasting the following day as well due to hangovers.. Its true that you are the average of the 5 people. Men are feminized af. Cant relate to anyone, which sucks and is a huge disadvantage.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 08:40 AM
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Women cant let themselves go because ; they dont have many things to do in the first place. They only have to restrain themselves from eating a lot of food and dicks - then society calls them unicorns. they have their orbiters and are always asking themselves 'is that really the best I can do?'. They are always ready to jump on the cock carousel again.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 08:35 AM
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You havent killed the Beta yet. Its a trap that many guys fall into. They get the red pill and then try to get back their ONEitis. Well, - There is no ONE. - She is not yours, its just your turn. - Women love opportunistically - We are the real romantics. - She left you because one of her orbiters is a better prospect. - Women wait on the finishing line and fuck the winners. - They dont care how you got there. They dont appreciate your efforts. - The girl that you think is a unicorn, is fully ca…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 08:30 AM
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The medium is the message. If you are talking for 2 months and nothing happened , you are an orbiter. High interest level never confuses you.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 08:22 AM
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Before even considering someones critique , ask yourself , Would you want to be him?
/r/askTRP28/10/18 08:19 AM
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Everyone has to compensate for his deficiencies - it's called burden of performance. We all have deficiencies. So it's not about being short, extremely tall, bald, too hairy , or whatever. Each and everyone plays his hand based on what he has, not what he doesn't have.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 11:14 PM
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Men Imperative; We want to spread our seed. Once we encounter a woman , subconsciously we are evaluating her ability to bear a child . How do we do that? By checking her body whether it's strong and healthy . That's why you get a boner. Don't listen to the bullcrap about porn being detrimental. Excessively using anything is detrimental.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 11:12 PM
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Read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 11:05 PM
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To be honest , that was my wake up call. I was the definition of a Blue pilled Capn'SaveaHoe AFC. A girl I had some feelings for, used me for sex and then she was gone. I felt like shit - but it led me to The Rational Male. It's funny how everyone says 'Great'. Society is structured for having guys thirsty and fuck down, while stupid fat average sluts fuck up 8s and 9s.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 11:04 PM
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Looks, Money and Game
/r/askTRP27/10/18 10:58 PM
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In my opinion, not masturbating for a few days just to be more horny when approaching is a solid tactic and should be used. That said, the new trend/social convention that says NoFap at all is good for you and porn is detrimental is a big bullshit of the Feminine Imperative. Society is fully behind hypergamy and cuckoldry. What they want to do is, deprive every guy from sex in order to be thirsty af and get picked by any women without evaluation of her SMV. They want to take away any alternative…
/r/askTRP27/10/18 10:55 PM
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Yeah. But we shouldnt blame porn for that. Porn is just a solution for guys born in a sick feminized society. Its like stopping casual medicines because some guys overdose . Not claiming tha porn is anything close to medicine. However, these are alternatives that are required for a man living in this sick society
/r/askTRP27/10/18 03:52 PM
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Men are masturbating too much indeed, but that's only because they have no easy access to sex.You literally have to take the Red Pill, become the best version of yourself then study a Roosh V book and then go out and practice like 100 approaches - just to get regular lays. But even then, random fat chicks will have easier access to sex than you do - plus, you will only fuck down 99% of the times, while they are fucking up on the SMV. So it's only natural that guys will start jerking off excessiv…
/r/askTRP27/10/18 11:52 AM
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In my opinion, not masturbating for a few days just to be more horny when approaching is a solid tactic and should be used. That said, the new trend/social convention that says NoFap at all is good for you and porn is detrimental is a big bullshit of the Feminine Imperative. Society legislates open hypergamy and cuckoldry. What they want to do is deprive every guy from sex in order to be thirsty af and get picked by any women without evaluation of her SMV. They want to take away any alternative …
/r/askTRP27/10/18 09:56 AM
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No worries mate. I have been through this and I know that the transition is hard - but it will only make you a more strong & solid character . You are what you are, don't bother evaluating the shape of your head. What if we were ginger or blonde or whatever? - it doesn't matter. Some chicks will dig a specific haircut and some others not. What all chicks like though is masculine features/Alpha traits. You can have these regardless. I am sure you are already familiar with Rock , Bruce Willis , Vi…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 09:12 AM
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Iron Rule of Rollo Tomassi #4 Never under any circumstance live with a woman you aren't married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 07:38 AM
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You are not even close to hit the peak of your SMV. I started losing my hair when I was 23. Never thought that this could happen to me and was literally shocked once I realized it . I know it directly hits you confidence massively. I personally struggled around two years to settle this in my head. So I can relate to your story. That said, I want to point out few things; - Once you restore your confidence , chicks will dig it. Being bald , is masculine, shows stability (ability to provide). Losin…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 07:30 AM
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Social construct that optimizes Hypergamy. For women, its like an auction of SMV's . She owns some bids (orbiters), and of course she always wants to find a highest bidder (i.e hot and social and fun and interesting, the guy who approaches her to bring good times and high status and make her life more fun. ) Cause THAT way she is optimizing her hypergamy. But she couldnt care less if it's you or me or anyone in particular. She has literally INFINITE available bids (Women have easy access to sex,…
/r/askTRP25/10/18 02:02 PM
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the vibe didnt feel flirty and felt more like a good conversation You met a girl from a dating app and it feels like a good conversation(?) Setting aside that girls on dating apps are sluts. Familiarity kills arousal. Texted her the next day saying that I had a nice time and would like to get together again if she was up for it Wrong move. You are an orbiter , NEXT her
/r/askTRP25/10/18 01:53 PM
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Dude, you will never have girlfriends. Manosphere 1.01 there is no 'friends' between a guy and a chick. Read 'The Rational Male' by Rollo Tomassi. It will change your life.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 01:48 PM
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LTR at 17 , sigh.... Take the Red Pill.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 01:45 PM
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Frame is having yourself as your own mental point of origin. ​ ​
/r/askTRP25/10/18 01:43 PM
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Fight Club
/r/askTRP24/10/18 02:08 PM
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No problem man. Its good to have access to a Red Pill community that shares the same values. In real life, I am surrounded by feminized Beta idiots who I cant relate to.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 01:49 PM
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Manosphere 1.01
/r/askTRP23/10/18 01:41 PM
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Well many things could have brought this result. - Age , maybe she looks for Beta bucks. - Personal upbringing details. There are BPD girls that are literally crazier than others. - Frame. this dude might have been an Alpha but if he didn't NEXT her when she denied having sex with him. She got the frame. - Maybe he did NEXT her, and she couldn't afford getting NEXTEd from the fat Beta bucks AFC. Etc.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 01:37 PM
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Good. Women would rather share a high value man than be saddled with a faithful loser - Pook Hypergamy cannot afford losing a chance to mate with an Alpha. They will fuck now and rationalize it later. Check 'The Rational Male' by Rollo Tomassi.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 01:13 PM
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Fuck No Women who have high interest level for you, won't confuse you. Women communicate COVERTLY , we communicate OVERTLY = Don't hear what she says, observe what she does.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 01:08 PM
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Unless it's cleared out that you are in an exclusive relationship , you can fuck whoever you want. Social convention will say that you are an ass, but that just serves the Feminine Imperative and Hypergamy. Women can talk to a hundreds of orbiters, prepare their next hypergamist choice while we commit and fuck them exclusively. Guess who gets the social shaming - we do. P.S Why would you ever commit to monogamy? Spin plates.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 01:05 PM
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Well if we are talking about a virgin , you could play the White knight and wait 'til she is ready' or you could distance yourself , spin other plates and cause her competition anxiety. Regardless , there will be a guy who she won't make him wait. Not worth the trouble.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 12:57 PM
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That's a rejection buffer. With a solid Game you can do well against many women regardless of the weight. Rejection is a huge step towards success. If you are not going to fuck them you might as well get rejected. Plus you are trying to rationalize what chicks want - they have a huge ego boost and are messed up af. Going only for fat chicks won't even guarantee a good success rate. ​
/r/askTRP23/10/18 12:52 PM
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Count to 3 in your mind and do it. Make a bet with yourself that you won't be a pussy next time that happens. I had the same issue, pretty much every Beta guy had it. Understand that you are doing this girl a favor even when you consider kissing her.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 12:46 PM
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Well, why would you ever say no to a blowjob right? The thing is that it holds you back.These girls are either virgins and sex is a big deal for them (highly unlikely , because there is no social shaming anymore)orthey are giving you 'just enough' to keep you around. Sex should be a chemical reaction, a natural instinct , not something to be discussed and negotiated. Familiarity kills arousal. It's not worth waiting for the lay. Be certain that at some point if not already, these girls will ONS …
/r/askTRP23/10/18 12:42 PM
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Take a break. Vacations or smthn. Stop whatever you are doing for 1 or 2 weeks in order to focus on yourself. By taking the red pill. Made myself my own mental point of origin. Hell yeah. But you are free now to focus on yourself. Sky is the limit. You are not confined by society lies anymore. Take the red pill. Read the rational male / the way of men. Do what you love. Focus on yourself. P.S it seems bleak now , but you are really close to break free from all the shit 'they' are throwing at us.…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 09:35 PM
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Yeah , you have to worry about the line - it establishes frame. I have seen many PUA artists opening with a beauty compliment - could be successful to get a phone, definitely not worth it though. " Or does he see something he likes and has the confidence to just say so? Do you think the time of day separates that man from the thirsty suckers? " You try to point out the fact that it is a masculine trait to exercise approach and you should be separated from others that don't. While this is would b…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/18 07:31 AM
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'Approach with the intention of evaluating her. ' Feels like that way you could hold your frame a little bit in check while cold approaching. Makes sense. Cause you can always resort to the power of NEXTing - the best tool to DHV. However still, Hypergamy counts on us hitting on them. Especially day approach shows a lot of thirst. Maybe I sound like a MGTOW , while I fully respect their position - I am not.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/18 06:37 PM
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Its like an auction of SMV's. She owns some bids (orbiters), and of course she wants you to be the highest bidder (i.e to be hot and social and fun and interesting, the guy who approaches her to bring good times and high status and make her life more fun. ) Cause THAT way she is optimizing her hypergamy. But she couldnt care less if you lose either. She has literally INFINITE available bids. On the contrary, why would a successfull Red Pill guy invest his valuable time on a girl that all she doe…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/18 02:57 PM
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After getting the Red Pill, I am not sure if you want to LTR a chick that's more than 28 years old, regardless of the number. Most of the guys coming here should already know about 'women hitting the Wall', leaving the cock carousel and her Party Years behind to find God and the 'right guy'. We all know how that ends; best case scenario; miserable sexless wedding. worst case scenario; divorce rape . I would only consider LTR if am 30 years old plus and I have a young high value / no drama plate.…
/r/askTRP18/10/18 01:26 PM
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From the side of your relationship with your ex ; You shouldn't give a fuck. From the side of your relationship with your friend; There are many more girls for this dude to hit. Why would he go consider going there? (unless she thrown herself at him - which means she wants to hate fuck him just to prove a point to you. Still he shouldn't get involved.) If he considers it, he clearly doesn't have other options. These are Beta friends, he already prioritized the pussy over his friendship. It's you…
/r/askTRP18/10/18 12:43 PM
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Why would you 'rebuild' a plate ? There is no such thing. You let it break, that's why it's a plate to begin with. You don't hold the frame, regardless whether you will answer her not. It's not about answering a text , it's about giving a fuck. She doesn't = She has the power = She holds the frame. She is not an LTR material, she is shit testing you tons and she already perceived you as a Beta. The most powerful way to restore frame and manifest your Alpha traits is by NEXTing her. You show that…
/r/askTRP18/10/18 11:30 AM
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Girls find you the most attractive, when you are making these choices based on your own personal preference and not give a fuck about what they think.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 11:21 AM
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Well Open Hypergamy.. what's so weird about it?
/r/askTRP18/10/18 11:01 AM
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NEXT her bro. She has BPD.https://therationalmale.com/2012/01/20/borderline-personality-disorder/ There is no question what you should have done differently. She will make your life hell. Even if she wasn't crazy, she physically attacked you. That's a deal breaker PERIOD.Accepting it means you have no other options , means she controls frame but nonetheless fuck all of this. Next time you will physically defend yourself she can accuse you of domestic violence or some shit. Get the fuck out of th…
/r/askTRP18/10/18 10:50 AM
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More Red Flags than a Chinese communist parade lol. Well, you shouldn't reschedule for the next day. Show that you have no fucks available to give 'for that pussy'. Become the dude she is chasing to fuck - not the other way around, cause she is shit testing you to get the frame. Spin more plates.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 08:01 AM
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As good as we want to picture women, everyone of them has 20 orbiters begging to fuck her all day. Surely she wants you to win, but she doesn't care that much either. She can always go on with her life and more guys will hit on her.The fact that a man has to fulfill a huge list of what he 'must have' (be in shape, have money, know game, be social , funny etc.) while women just have to resist eating a lot of food and dicks - is disgusting. Only looking at the prerequisites of what you must posses…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/18 07:36 AM
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I'd say to keep track on her menstrual cycle. Depending on whether she is on her follicular or lutheal phase, she should behave differently. During the follicular phase (between day 7 to 14), she has serious urges to get knocked up by an Alpha. It's the phase were they manifest their 'inner slut' - so she could try to tease you by sending pictures. If it's that, you will spot more changes in her behavior
/r/askTRP18/10/18 07:22 AM
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So , "Never had "the talk", but she said she has "feelings" for me" while, "I always initiate meetups - she never asked me once if she could come over" The medium is the message. Don't care about what she says, she what she does. Once she created some distance, you immediately showed neediness; Last week I told her to come over , This week I proposed Wednesday or the weekend . Ask yourself who controls the frame. Because regardless on how you entered this FWB, at the moment it feels like she doe…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 01:37 PM
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- You shouldn't LTR unless you are older than 30 years old. - If you are not sure about holding the frame and you just 'feel' it, it's not a good tell. I think she is shit testing you a lot by crying and ranting. Girls will do anything to mate with an Alpha and then make him a Beta provider. They ruin what attracts them in the first place. - You said you still have a bad beta personality. You might have not internalized the Red Pill yet. If you don't get the psychology behind women, you are just…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 12:48 PM
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It happened to me as well a couple of times. A guy with 'higher social status' once tried to publicly shame me, so I didn't put up with that shit. I raised my voice and dismantled him in front of a lot of people. I was so pissed and relieved at the same time, that by the time I finished my rant, my hands were shaking. After a few days this guy apologized to me (males respect masculine traits). To get my point across , when you feel oppressed and have a huge outburst it's normal to have these phy…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 12:13 PM
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It's a tough fucking pill to swallow. Eventually he will have to though. Holding to these Blue pill idealizations and being in a state of denial is a downward spiral. I have a childhood friend like this. He called me a sexist. Cold hard truth; You save whoever you can and you read the last rites to the ones that are in too deep. ​ ​
/r/askTRP17/10/18 11:41 AM
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Introduce him to the Red Pill, through 'The Rational Male' by Rollo Tomassi. That would help the core of the problem. He probably won't read it , but you can only try by showing him the way. Other than that, time will 'heal' everything. Stick by his side and at some point everything will fall back to place. Nonetheless TRP is the answer. If he doesn't take it, he will eventually end up in the same situation. These times, when you are hurt and traumatized, are the best to update your belief syste…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 11:31 AM
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Hypergamy is the core behavior of all women.It's part of our humankind evolution; men had to fight, women had to survive. Women had to have kids with the conquerors and go on. There is nothing wrong with it. It's part of our nature. The issue is that today's society feminizes men and legislates Hypergamy , proactive cheating and open cuckoldry.(in contrast to the past where there have been social structures controlling it i.e wedlock , social shaming and patriarchy) Prior to the sexual revolutio…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 10:05 AM
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If you want to get lays check PUA. TRP is all about improving yourself for the sake of you and your goals not chicks. You have a Beta mentality. Thinking that you will go to a chick and offer her a six pack and a couple of other things (which you are trying to figure out) in exchange for sex is dead wrong. Genuine desire cannot be negotiated - Don't help a woman figure out why she wants to fuck you. There are two types of sex ; transactional and validational. Transactional with Betas , Validatio…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 09:37 AM
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It depends on your relationship lifestyle and your own individual personalities. Personally I would ghost her. If she ever comes back questioning my actions, I would overtly say that this is a deal breaker for me. Showing that I don't need her , become the prize she has to work for , instead of the other way around. Work on other plates , in order to gain confidence/power and be able to unsettle her frame. Work on yourself to increase your SMV. She will never stop spinning plates because it's so…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 08:15 AM
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I faced a similar situation while finishing my studies and started a regular 9-5 job. It's hard to find people you can relate to, especially after taking TRP. TBH that's a slight form of depression. You should find productive hobbies that make you happy and stop expecting that from friends/girls. Even if we lived in a world where social relations suffice for someone to be happy , you apply incredible amounts of pressure to the people around you.No one wants to be accountable for your well being.…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 08:07 AM
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There is should be no 'SO'. Don't LTR, you have ONEitis. Plate spin and get experience. Get rid of the low quality / high drama plates and have fun chasing your life goals. There is no friendship between the sexes. Unless we are talking about her brother, these are orbiters. All of these dudes are potential plates for her, so she is spinning while you are here calling her 'SO'. Every girl spins plates because it's socially acceptable and that's why you shouldn't commit to LTRs and do the same (w…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 07:55 AM
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It really depends. She could be embarrassed to publicly show some light interest - women have different social relations than men. They are covertly judging one another to increase their social status - what we do through sports and shit, they do it through words & psychology. Regardless you shouldn't put up with this. There are only so many fucks you have to give . You shouldn't care why a chick is not saying 'Hi' half of the time. She doesn't and that's it. You are not important enough for her…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 07:42 AM
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Sounds like she wants to cuckold you. You don't have to next her yet, just get the frame back. Women have they keys to sex and men have the keys to relationships. Just create some distance, be indifferent , spin more plates and she will be back. Maybe she thinks of you as an Alpha and tries to make you Beta. It's a shit test.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 07:14 AM
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'Whats missing here? Im a fucking pussy. ' - You haven't yet internalized the Red Pill. (Never self deprecate yourself. It's not a masculine / Alpha trait.) This is not a PUA guide. If you want to practice approaches check Roosh V. However i suggest you fully digest TRP first. You are not losing weight, hitting the gym and trying to be successful for pussy. You are doing it for yourself. Kill the Beta inside of you that is still looking for a 'quality' girl. You will develop ONEitis and get thro…
/r/askTRP16/10/18 08:04 PM
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" she doesn't even play a sport or workout: she just naturally has a great body. " that's low standards men have conditioned to accept - while the girls demand six packs, nice back, big arms and small waist. Don't care about what others think. Pretty sure that 99% percent of the guys that would give you shit, would fuck her without a second thought given the chance. Don't let AFCs pull you back - it's just their Beta Game to give shit and try to show they are special. No one is getting his dick …
/r/askTRP16/10/18 07:23 PM
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the pussification of the western male...
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:55 PM
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blowjob is 10% technique 90% enthusiasm. Maybe the problem is not technical. If so, either comply , next her or try to create competition anxiety by unsettling the frame.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:54 PM
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You are not training for looking jacked at social gatherings. You are training for yourself. You are only 16, you can increase your lifts. Plus even if that's the body you want. stopping the gym will only make it worse. Don't do shit for women. Be the best version of yourself. Women are just a by product.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:50 PM
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Trying to figure out how am I going to create a "tribe" as pointed out in the book 'The way of men'. So fucking hard, men are more pussies than women nowadays. I told that to a childhood friend of mine, and he said that he doesn't have enough male friends to form a solid tribe, however he has many female friends - so he could do female tribe. So fucking embarrassing.. As AFC as it gets..
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:40 PM
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YES , especially after getting the Red Pill, I feel like I can't relate to people at all. Almost everyone is Beta feminized brainwashed. No one is driven and has any kind of ambitions. As hard as it is, I believe it's not worth the sacrifice to give your time to these kind of people. Go instead and hit the gym or read a book. You are the average of the top five people you hang out with the most. That's why they are slowing your life.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:54 PM
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Hypergamy is inside of every woman. Depending on the way she grew up and the experiences she had, she will be more or less susceptible to it.Even if she marries that Beta guy, he won't maintain frame, he won't have himself as a his own mental point of origin and therefore eventually she will love him but won't be in love with him. Regardless, there are always the two sides Alpha fucks/Beta bucks. Maybe she had some traumatic experiences and she needs the Beta nurturing side now. If that's the ca…
/r/askTRP16/10/18 01:53 PM
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Regardless of the number, you shouldn't give full disclosure. If you are not spinning her for a long time it's weird that she is so persistent. The fact that she is OVERTLY asking you several times means she is in desperate insecurity and lacks control. You can tell her that the past shouldn't matter and that you are not willing to discuss about it. If she can't take a polite no then NEXT her. By your numbers I assume that spinning plates isn't a problem of yours.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 01:44 PM
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It's a massive shit test! She is trying to maintain her frame after you pulled the rug under her feet. Focus on the Red Pill, becoming the Alpha you were meant to be and having yourself as your own mental point of origin. If she is not down with that, she has to get NEXTed. Stay clear of ONEitis syndromes and spin plates to gain confidence. Once you break free from the Feminine Imperative, you know have options and sky is the limit. Hit the gym , set your goals and go after them. Women are just …
/r/askTRP16/10/18 01:34 PM
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Don't listen to what she says , observe what she does.She is not shitty with her phone, she is just not interested.I am pretty sure she chats with her highest value orbiters. If you keep chasing here you approach from a mental point of scarcity , showing low value and neediness. NEVER comply with that , you should next her.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 01:27 PM
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Most of the times, if not all, society is wrong about everything. So fuck them. If anything you are entitled to your opinions. Never fear judgement, if you do, you start changing your personality bit by bit until you are just another brainwashed sheep. ​
/r/askTRP16/10/18 01:21 PM
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Burden of performance - you can't show weakness. You are conditioned by our society (the Feminine Imperative) to believe that it's masculine to 'just be yourself' and give full disclosure to women.It's not , avoid it at any cost. Best case scenario she will love you but won't be in love with you.My opinion is that you should separate dealing with your illness from your game. If you haven't already read the Rational Male asap. (https://therationalmale.com/2014/09/23/the-burden-of-performance/)
/r/askTRP16/10/18 01:12 PM
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If you have really internalized Game and therefore can maintain frame, spin more plates , not develop any form of ONEitis etc. Maybe you could go on with this girls, however she clearly has more red flags than a communist parade. If you are new to the Red Pill , you should definitely NEXT her imo. Regardless, there will be plates with better value to spin. Watch out for BPD, if she is BPD NEXT here regardless of your game.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 01:02 PM
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Sounds like you are facing this from a mental point of scarcity. Any of you should step back and there is always another girl on the way.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 12:50 PM
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