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Most replies are pretty spot-on except one thing: vaginas aren't a static size. They get looser when the woman is aroused and then contract as she loses interest.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 10:16 PM
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It's NYE and you're trying to get an anonymous username to validate your masculinity on a porn-and-meme aggregator.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 08:04 AM
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Can we get "verified Chad" flair? I definitely don't believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 06:57 AM
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If you were Chad, you wouldn't be super sensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 06:56 AM
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My (theoretical) husband is a grown ass man. He can take care of himself better than my kids can if there's a fire. And I would absolutely not want to be with a man who would want me to save him before our kids.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/17 02:16 AM
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So you're telling me I should convince people to stop taking their medication so they're more interesting to me? Bad influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 06:56 AM
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Good taste :P
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 08:29 PM
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What? That one is pretty cut-and-dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 08:24 PM
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Sexually and as a general personality trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 08:24 PM
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In order of importance: interested in me, intractable, (very) smart, is a maverick, decisive, driven, reactionary (domestically rather than politically), spends free time instead of wasting it, high sex drive, not friends with women, volcel (until I come along, naturally), inept enough to really benefit from my help but not so much as to require it, sadistic, long hair. That's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 09:43 AM
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Women are smarter than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 05:12 PM
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Only men are dumb enough to be fooled by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 06:50 PM
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Physically I'm... okay BMI of 28 nope
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:47 PM
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You moved to another country for a woman you didn't even want to live with? TF?
/r/askTRP26/11/17 12:49 AM
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They are mothering you. They don't see you as an object of attraction, they see you as a child. That "generous awe" is the same awe that adults show children who use the potty for the first time.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 02:37 PM
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Wow, this is exactly how I feel about men. Interesting to find someone on the other side of the coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 03:15 AM
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I am exclusively attracted to men who are much smarter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 03:11 AM
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/r/transvoice
/r/askTRP04/11/17 09:13 PM
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I wonder how high your libido was at the time? Most men masturbate with enough frequency that their more latent desires don't come out to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 12:51 AM
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Men who say weird, inappropriate stuff to one girl say that stuff to literally all girls they find themselves talking to. It's not "I'm so hot that this guy got turned on by a pic of my headphones," it's "look at this fucking weirdo who's so desperate he got turned on by headphones." Some women definitely use the "creeper" thing as a way to inflate their ego but it's a lot more blatant than what this girl did.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 12:07 AM
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Everybody has some capacity to find both genders attractive and this capacity is revealed with a decrease in inhibition and an increase in libido. Women naturally have lower inhibition and are therefore more likely to identify as bisexual, men naturally have higher inhibition and are less likely. Just means the threshold is higher for men in general, particularly for some specific men. tl;dr everybody's gay, including you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 11:56 PM
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Wouldn't try to convince them otherwise, also wouldn't be their friend anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 04:12 PM
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Women's social advantage has almost always been confined to influence via male figures in their lives. Men have always done the absolute brunt of the legislating, regulating, and calculating of society, until as recently as 120 years ago, and this meant any change had to be funneled through them. Women may mature faster (modernly, this hasn't always been the case) but have been surrounded by older, therefore more mature, men, as well as more mature women who understand the balance. Again, not a …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 08:07 PM
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Those aren't "advantages over women," because real life isn't a man vs. woman contest like discourse would have you believe. It's a man and woman vs. the world contest, and women and men have certain deficits which are made up for by the opposite sex's countering characteristics. You say you're anti-degenerate but your thought process is entirely so. Nothing to say to your argument here because I feel it completely lacks a basis in reality. What you call "female biological advantages" in contras…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 06:54 PM
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If he assumed it, I would be confused and have a chat with him about why he thought that and what that would mean for our potential marriage dynamic. If he expressed that he wanted it, I would be super fucking excited. I love planning things like that and wouldn't mind the opportunity to show/tell him how much I wanted him in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 06:25 PM
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Yes, peak fertility begins 2-3 years after menarche and lasts for about 10 years. And menarche happens ridiculously early now, so peak fertility can begin as early as 13 and end as early as 20, in places like America where childhood obesity is rampant and xenoestrogens are common. Menarche used to happen around age 17, believe it or not, and this was the norm until the industrial revolution. Does this mean girls should have kids when they're 14? Obviously fucking not. You may be fertile at 14, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 10:54 PM
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Yes, I have done a lot of nannying which I unfortunately had to give up to become a full-time student and I was much happier caring for kids than I am in school, though obviously I'm good at both (not to toot my own horn!). I do like math and science and have always devoted a lot of my personal time to them. It's that I only like them as hobbies, rather than as a profession. I get a lot more joy out of caring for others than I will ever get out of a math proof, and I even find myself more challe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 10:21 PM
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I'm studying in an engineering university right now. I have never desired to go into a "field" but I am happiest when taking care of children or caring for people in general. I could see myself being happy doing anything that allows me to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 04:25 PM
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Being good at math and science doesn't mean I'm obligated to devote myself to something involving those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 01:48 AM
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It depends on how badly you want gonorrhea.
/r/askTRP29/04/17 01:38 AM
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Growth relative to the baseline. If men went from about 69 to 82 suicides per 100,000, there's around an 18% increase, and if women went from about 17.5 to 24, there's about a 37% increase.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/04/17 10:47 PM
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guys who are the closest to being an alpha, are also more likely to spend cash on women Yeah, I think the same. I never understood how RP guys got it in their head that spending money on women is bad strategically. By "dating with any guy that fits the description," do you mean dating either an alpha guy you just wanted to have sex with or a beta guy you just wanted for the money? I don't think I know anyone who's ever done this to a noticeable degree, either, especially not myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 03:38 PM
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I wake up in the middle of the night, hard with my friend trying to give me a hand job. What the fuck. I would have decked her in the face. I'm sorry that happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 02:17 AM
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Statistically, women are less promiscuous within and outside of a relationship than men, or about the same. I'm sure you don't care though.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 05:09 PM
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He was a pretty attractive older guy, too, except for the schizophrenia, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:36 PM
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I'd post a picture of my boyfriend but I don't think he would approve. A distant second is Terence Tao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 07:02 PM
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I now want to know about you even less.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 07:06 PM
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I know nothing about you. There are plenty of people who would say that in earnest. When people don't laugh at your joke, it's your sense of humor that's bad, not theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 06:47 PM
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Attention like this is embarrassing, not gratifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 06:37 PM
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She doesn't exist. NWALT. You picked a literal clickbait "look, women are crazy!" article to try to support your view. I'm not going to try to change it because you've already proven that you're not a logical or critical thinker.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 05:25 PM
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Sure, imagination is a feminine domain. It was women who imagined the design of the Pyramids and conceived of Euclidian space. And a woman wrote Lord of the Rings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 12:55 AM
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So no one actually read that third article? I'm assuming not, because it contains the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. 2. DAB ON SOME ‘NATURAL PERFUME’ “If I’m at a club or a bar and want to attract men, I’ll just go into the bathroom, stick my fingers up between my legs, swirl my fingers around up inside my kitty, then dab the moisture behind my ears and on my wrists. Works like a charm every time. Don’t believe me? Try it.” What the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 12:45 AM
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Coming kind of from the perspective of your boyfriend, telling people (men) I'm in a relationship and I have boundaries because of that is a struggle. There is always the same reaction. "Your boyfriend won't let you get coffee with your male friends? Seems controlling and unhealthy to me." And my reaction, at least mentally, is "fuck you, don't talk about my boyfriend like that." Your boyfriend's reaction was "she's not THAT bad, please still be my friend." On top of that: your boyfriend cheated…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/17 12:35 AM
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Squats and deadlifts also aren't going to get her the ass he wants her to have, unless he wants her to have equally large, muscular thighs.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/17 12:09 AM
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I'm not really sure what your point is. I think the language barrier is a problem.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/17 05:59 PM
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That statistic is bullshit and if you actually read the study it was from, you'd probably agree.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/02/17 07:33 PM
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Until I see brain scan evidence of this, I'm going to say that's orgasm hocus pocus and not actually true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 12:31 AM
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Again, you're a woman, not a man; it doesn't make sense to compare your own situation with the male parallel. I also disagree that a "quality man" necessarily has a high n-count. I totally relate to your "inadequate and anxious" feelings with your ex. It's naturally to feel that way, and for men, the feeling is even further amplified from what you're feeling. What it feels like you're telling me is that because it hurts you when your partners have high n-counts, you think you should be able to h…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 07:09 PM
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You chose a really bad picture of her, and I guarantee you if she had an average and not incredibly-stellar body, nobody would give a shit about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 06:59 PM
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Because I'm sure you understand why, you're just repressing it so you can justify pursuing what you think you want. "Red pill MEN are okay with being promiscuous, so why aren't red pill WOMEN?" Well, for starters, you're not a man. You're a woman. You're biologically, emotionally, and mentally different from a man. Maybe you feel like your desire for sex is rare among women, and because of this, you feel more similar to men than to women. This is misguided for two reasons. First, it is totally n…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 06:53 PM
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This is awesome advice. You deserve your flair.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 06:39 PM
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It's not going to make you happy. Buy a vibrator and keep your pants on.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 06:35 PM
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Nobody wants you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 06:25 PM
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As a woman, none of these women seemed above-average pretty to me except Ana Ivanovic and Rachel Riley. You chose really badly. I do think it's funny that neither Ana or Rachel even got rated an 8/10, because I think they objectively are around there, but none of the other results were surprising or even indicated pickiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 06:22 PM
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Would your future husband like it if he found out the frequency with which you've discussed your "best friends'" penises with them? You're not their girlfriend. Their dicks don't matter.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/17 08:29 PM
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The women here clearly are not pursuing men like you, so why would they care about your advice on how to win you over?
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 01:57 PM
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Not her but I think they're the only ones worth pursuing.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/17 10:48 PM
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Idk sis, he left her for you so there were probably still active feelings when you got together. I'd say it's a red flag and not worth it to keep trying.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 04:28 AM
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My social conservatism means I hate the red pill as much as I hate feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 04:52 AM
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Would you die for your man? If you put two buttons in front of me right now, one to kill me and one to kill him, I would press the button for myself. I don't know if that would change after we have kids. I want to say it would but I don't think I could ever do it. Do you expect a man that loves you to be willing to die for you? Nope. Self-preservation is a much stronger priority for most people than love. It isn't really for me, but if it is for him, then I don't see how that could mean he doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 06:37 PM
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Being categorically worse at writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 06:16 PM
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Oh and she gave up her bastard kid she had at eighteen with some Chad when she decided to go for my commitment cause she knew I would never commit to a single mom. Lol go to church
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 06:10 PM
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TRP, at its most effective, will enable to you sleep with a few low-quality women. It selects for neurotic, unintelligent, promiscuous girls who are incapable of caring about you or actually serving any role in your life besides "living onahole." TRP works for that. I happen to think that "that" is ultimately unfulfilling, unhealthy, and immoral, which is why I'm against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 05:55 PM
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Females in harems benefit more from the females/children surrounding them than the male they're mating with. The male is crucial to the group dynamic but his direct actions are not what protect the females. Women are more childlike, by necessity to society, than men. When a woman hits a man, it's like a child hitting a parent. When a man hits a woman, it's like a parent hitting a child. Guy A is only wrong in his thinking that we "infantilize" women. Women are naturally infantilized.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 05:37 PM
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Wow as in "wow, you couldn't be more wrong," or wow as in "wow, you couldn't be more right"? Probably the former, considering your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 03:42 AM
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Most men are lazy and weak and if that weren't the case then feminism wouldn't be as successful as it is. Most women are dumb and selfish and if that weren't the case then feminism would never have happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 06:32 AM
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"God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference." Part of anyone's value comes from their physical beauty. Part. That doesn't mean an ugly person is of no value to others. If you are incredibly ugly, rude, stupid, and selfish, then others may not value you as much and you may be sad because you never feel validated. But if you are ugly, kind, bright, and selfless, then people are quick to validate you …
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 03:00 AM
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I can certainly see how that could complicate your search, but I wouldn't get caught up on it. A shared native culture can be a huge source of stability and comfort in a relationship, but it's not the only possible source.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/16 04:11 PM
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"The perfect wife is five years younger than her husband. She is from the same cultural background. And, please stare at this very carefully: she is at least 27 percent smarter than her husband. Yes, 35 percent smarter seems to be tolerable. But 12 percent smarter seems unacceptable." Sure, it's just one study, but it's one study vs. one study. If you want to be a successful speed date, of course, make yourself look pretty and forget the rest. If you want a happy relationship, acknowledge what i…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/16 12:59 AM
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To you, your last name represents people who you don't care about. If you thought highly of them, you'd want to propagate and embrace the name. Well, to her, your last name represents you. Put two and two together.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/16 12:52 AM
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Neglect isn't game (even when people call it that). If he wanted to make you happy, he would be doing things that make you happy instead of ignoring you and meeting other women. As it stands, why would you give your energy and affection to someone who doesn't want to make you happy?
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/16 12:20 AM
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Beautiful. Nothing like statistical evidence that someone is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 11:43 PM
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It depends on what you and your girl are comfortable doing. If I were you, the next time she got a text, I'd answer it telling him he's embarrassing himself/that he's upsetting her/not to talk to her again. Having her block him passively or having her address him is probably a no-go because she doesn't want to be confrontational or aggressive enough to actually get results.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 06:00 PM
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She gave you attention because you appeared out of nowhere to make her feel attractive and interesting. As you got to know each other, the effort began to outweigh the validation, or she just valued it less coming from you as you became less mysterious. Because you didn't actualize texting into meeting early on, you set a bad precedent for the relationship. Just get to know her face-to-face next time.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 06:11 AM
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She doesn't care strongly enough for you to stop having sex with other guys. "Practicing" on her and whatever marginal enjoyment you get out of sex with her probably isn't worth the emotional fallout for you when that hits you in the face and you need to address the disparity in feeling between the two of you.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 06:00 AM
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Oh, they're bogging you down? I am so sorry, I didn't realize that your kids were inconveniencing you. How judgmental of me.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 05:42 AM
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"Frankly, spending time with my children is boring as fuck." Yikes.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 04:32 AM
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No one can tell you why you feel that way but the solution is pretty obvious. If you view him as a threat, be proactive about removing this guy from both of your lives; if you don't, tell her to stop bringing it up with you. It seems pretty clear that the guy is being predatory so if I were you I would take the former route.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 11:08 PM
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Because all of the history of humanity has been based on love, sex, and the family unit. Familial and romantic forms of love are immense sources of joy and stability for those who enjoy them. Of course if you don't experience those forms of love then you aren't as happy as you could be. Is that not obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 10:45 PM
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I'm horrified by that too. I'm not any more forgiving of men who do this than I am women, OP just happens to be a woman. There are ways to be honest that are forgiving and respectful and ways to be honest that aren't. I'm of the opinion that one should at least extend the courtesy of the former to their spouses, if not to everyone. I would say OP is erring decidedly on the side opposite of "walking on eggshells." If you disagree, then you disagree. Oh well.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/16 01:46 AM
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You know what it's like to be a bi man who whores himself out on Grindr. You know nothing about what it's like to be a girl and you never will. Delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 12:38 AM
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Nobody is promoting sex positivity as a way to get undesirable people laid more often. It's openly about permissing people who already were/already could have gotten laid to do whatever they want to do, and obliquely about them doing those things without the love and respect that used to be a given.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 12:33 AM
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I don't see how you can describe yourself as "unable to talk to women" and cite sex positivity as the reason for your aloneness in the same thread. Is it not obvious that the issue is with the content of your character, and not with modern woman as a whole?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 12:25 AM
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Not here to CYV because ofc women aren't afraid of this (98 percent of women probably don't even think about it). Personally, I have no worries because any man that would prefer to replace his partner with a sex robot has no value or appeal to me. Why would I care about the habits and desires of men who are as degenerate as that? Of course there's the possibility that there are no remaining bastions of masculinity and that in the future, there really won't be any respectable, attractive men, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 10:34 PM
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I can make women cum 10, 20 times in a fuck sesh No you can't. You're either deceiving yourself or being deceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 10:27 PM
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I can't tell you if, by your own standards and virtues, you should get a divorce. I can't tell you if it would make you happier or your life easier. No one here can. That's something you need to arrive at yourself (or, ideally, with your husband). What did your marriage mean when you entered into it? You say that the man you once "liked" (hopefully loved) is gone. That's not true. You are married to him. Over a year, change is inevitable, on the part of both you and your husband. The idea of mar…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/16 02:00 AM
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This post is horrifying, and I don't mean that in a sympathetic way. This is a man who you swore love and loyalty to, and all you have to say about him here is insult after insult. Certainly, you've made your husband look bad here, but you've made yourself look like a disrespectful shrew, which is far worse than "mama's boy," at least to me. My only advice to you is that you take whatever shred of tenderness that led you to give yourself to this man and use it to temper your emotions before you …
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/16 11:00 PM
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It might be a shit test, for guys like you. If a man's reaction to me saying I'm on my period was "that's nasty and I don't want to be around you," I'd GTFO. OP, you can still probably get laid if you were going to in the first place. Make her feel sexy, ignore the blood, get her in the shower, "get your nut."
/r/askTRP09/07/16 10:48 PM
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A woman has no obligation to bring equal finances to the table if she doesn't desire that dynamic, or to stay involved with a man who thrusts that dynamic upon her. What messed up world do you live in where a good woman cannot desire a relationship where she may channel her energy into homemaking and supporting her man, instead of into financially/professionally dominating him?
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/16 08:09 PM
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I exclusively use cold cream to remove my makeup. It can be a little messy but it's way better for your skin/more effective than most makeup removers. Definitely try it if you haven't.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/16 11:38 PM
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moved states to be near him (even though she says the reason is they have a daughter together I would have been entirely sympathetic to your post if you hadn't said that. He's the father of her child. Of course she wants her child to be near him. That is her fulfilling an obligation to her child, not to him. It sounds like what you are really bothered by is the fact that she has a history with this guy, not its current manifestation (which doesn't seem like much more than blowing him off in a ca…
/r/askTRP29/06/16 12:42 AM
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