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chunckyd/r/Divorce_Men21/01/23 06:02 PM
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chunckyd/r/Divorce_Men22/01/23 02:29 PM
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chunckyd/r/Divorce_Men23/01/23 10:01 AM
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Let’s just land the plane here. We have heard she isn’t yours it’s just your turn. I personally think women have about a 2-3 year mating cycle before they get bored with you. So if you are seeing someone just be ready to jump at 2 year mark and move onto next. I know it sucks it’s not the men but this has been my experience and pretty much every friend i have talked to about this topic. Tick tick tick tick tick- waiting for the one woman on here to tell me i am the common denominator. Let’s see …
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/23 12:00 AM
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You could do a thousand things right but she will only remember the one thing that was not right. You will never win. After this one i will go solo or keep it short. Someone once told me women have a 2-3 year mating cycle. So take your 2-3 (if you don’t want to be solo) and just be ready to ditch them before they ditch you. The irony is she will beg you to stay when your ready to leave. Modern woman logic - i want the commitment but i really don’t. I want the good guy but i really don’t. Makes n…
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 02:56 PM
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if you put 304 in a calculator and turn it upside down it will say "hoe"
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/23 04:36 PM
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Got a good friend there.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/23 03:03 PM
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How many in here found the the coldness was do to the side “D” she was already involved with? In my experience they can’t mentally cheat on the side dude with there husband so they shutdown and stonewall. Also, would be curious how many of you ended it with wife and months/years later they come back after 304 phase has become old?
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/23 02:49 PM
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Did yours comeback after she was done with the toy?
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/23 02:12 PM
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I am in the same boat as my wife and mother of my two kids sets sail to find her happiness. Much like you i thought i loved her but she has made me last in her priorities and i am done. This is the thing!! If you are willing yo give up your family with to kids so you can get some new “D” i can never trust you again. Go chase the endorphins and ride the carousel but your not coming back here. I am bitter and quite frankly pissed at what she is doing. I am a loyal faithful husband that provides ve…
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/23 02:47 PM
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Well they have a box that you never get to use. So of course they are entitled. Modern woman logic.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/23 07:48 PM
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I could of written this word for word but except add a son. I have given up fighting because i know she is gone. she is caught in her emotions and your are just an obstacle to where she needs/wants to be. I waffle as well thinking she will wake ip but what I also think is how can I ever trust this woman. If she will dispose of me and our family can she ever be trusted again. You know the answer already. It sucks I fear for the future but remain calm because pissing her and starting a battle will…
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/23 05:37 PM
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Amazingly cold. Makes super simple to remove whatever positive/love you have for these she devils.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 02:13 PM
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Amazing isn’t it. I feel like I could of written this post because I am living the same lie.
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/23 03:03 PM
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Once they are done they are done. Unless they are desperate and need to USE YOU for something, they won’t be back they have moved on. Sorry.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/23 06:24 PM
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Said so many times correctly from the comments. Once she leaves for another man - NEVER TAKE HER BACK. Cut her off move on. Your her beta bitch to use. It sounds like she broke up with you cut it off 100% why waste your time.
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/23 11:50 AM
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Don’t do anything. Listen to these men. She is gone and she will NEVER return in a form that will be acceptable to you. Once a women leaves she never comes back. She is using you. Don’t be a simp. Hold your frame cut her lose and give her limited access to her children. She was willing to bail on her kids so she is a crap mother that doesn’t even deserve this. If you fold you only will regret it later. Sorry have to say it but so many women chase the fantasy until the wall and the chase no longe…
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 07:47 PM
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If you think she might be cheating watch this video. It provides the stages she will go through and give you a clear understanding of the emtional yoyo she is going through. Good luck. [https://youtu.be/Hg0oElWfGDg]
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/23 06:26 PM
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I’m sorry for you. I am in the same boat on the edge of divorce which is why I attached the video. Understand the stage she is in and understand from here out this is a business transaction. It hurts to hear it but she is gone. It is not normal for a woman to just leave her children. Something very powerful has to be pulling her in that direction and most likely it’s the chemical hit of a new relationship. Even if she did come back knowing what you know can you trust her? Protect yourself, prote…
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/23 10:51 PM
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Like others take the deal - she went to work and has found someone else (her parachute). You will never her win her back and trying is a COMPLETE waste of your effort. If you want to understand this video will explain everything. Sorry my friend but you have some tough times ahead. The good news is with the deal she offered (get that in writing) means you will not have to go to court to battle. This video describes the stages of her emotional storm. [https://youtu.be/Hg0oElWfGDg]
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/23 07:37 PM
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sure
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/23 05:26 AM
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Me to. This is another that hits home. https://youtu.be/eIdL_vI9kTc
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/23 12:57 AM
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It is a sad state of affairs for sure. Most of these women are single mothers and while there is always the possibility someone might take on the burden of another man’s children it is probably slim. Especially, with all the men waking up (there will always be simps). It all looks good right now but at the end of the day most likely just a string of pump and dumps followed by “I don’t know why he ghosted me”. You go girl - girl power.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/23 03:54 PM
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Dude appreciate your post you obviously have been deep down the rabbit hole and I am right there with you because you are spot on 100%. And not just this post all the posts of yours I have read.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/23 03:30 PM
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The first time i saw this video I was blown away. I have not seen a video that outlines so accurately. That same channel has a bunch of very good videos on the topic. Shared it with my nephews in their 20’s to prepare the next generation because it is not getting better it is getting worse out there. Even if your divorce is over this video sets the mindset for the next one (if there is one) so you know when to get out and also the importance of holding your frame and not simping.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/23 03:13 PM
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Sounds like we are in the same exact spot just it’s my wife your husband. If you ever want a male perspective on things or just to vent without judgement direct message me. Stay strong this to shall pass but not without a few scars and a lighter bank account.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/23 09:57 AM
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Holy crap you just applied logic. Are you married?
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/23 12:29 AM
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I am in the same boat right now. There is no pleasing her you are wasting your time. Once she withdraws like this you are done. Catering to her needs is a futile waste of effort. Woman never forget and probably much like my wife she will bring up shit from years ago. My wife still brings something up from 6 years ago not everytime there is an argument but i would say 60% of the time i here about this incident (it was NOT cheating or abuse to be clear). Trying to win her over will do nothing beca…
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/23 05:51 PM
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I would agree with this post. A pregnant woman is at her most vulnerable. Unless you cheated on her or beat her - her decision makes little sense. But then we are talking about a woman and I just applied logic so that makes no sense. what someone needs to develop is a female emotional translator so we at least have a clue. The fact that she will give up at this point in your relationship means this is not a good woman or a good wife. Have fun as a single mother. I have 2 kids raising a kid is th…
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/23 02:34 PM
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He is in canada not close. But day and night on the phone. My wife is indian so is he so she can freely talk another language right in front of me.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/23 05:02 AM
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I agree all the social media makes these wives think it’s super easy. Reality is she will get pumped and dumped and at some point (too late) she will realize the best option for her and the kids was the father of her children. Just to be clear I have not abused this women or cheated on her. Have I been mad as hell - yes. When someone is nagging finding fault all the time bringing up shit from years ago to throw it back in your face it is hard to keep your frame. I am a good attentive (not simp) …
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/23 12:25 AM
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I am not concentrating on the guy it’s just a really stupid choice and I really don’t want my kids around a guy that needs AM booze to just make it through the day without the shakes. Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/23 12:19 AM
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She is never yours - it’s just your time. Enjoy it while it last and move on to the next one. This is how it has been for the last 50 years - welcome to the new paradigm. Don’t fight it work within the system. MGTOW
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/23 02:04 PM
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