ciaowdy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	The red pill ruined my mental health and has nearly ruined my relationship Gorgeous turn of phrase.	/r/ExRedPill	18/03/23 01:02 PM
1	is it just me or men sometimes prefer less feminine bodies? Frankly, looks are not high on my list of priorities when dating. I see beauty in all sorts of people. My ex was a tall string bean. Current guy is short and on the chunky side. Different, and I find them both attractive	/r/AllPillDebate	09/02/23 04:14 AM
1	What is the point of having a relationship with women when it usually ends with the women monkey branching or cheating? Yep. This is anecdotal, but the relationships I've witnessed dissolve over someone cheating have almost all been the men cheating, in some cases both parties. My dad cheated on my mom, two of my boyfriends have cheated on me, my best friends marriage ended in divorce because her husband was cheating for years with another lady. It's projection. Men want to cheat, so they assume women are unfaithful too. Obligatory 'not all men'.	/r/ExRedPill	21/10/22 09:20 PM
3	I did it Tbh, for what it's worth, I would massively appreciate a letter from my redpilled ex. He messed me up.	/r/ExRedPill	04/10/22 11:25 PM
3	New to ex Red Pill-is hypergamy even the norm? Do women love cocky Dbags? Is any of this stuff even true? Here is my story. Good comment. Just wanna say..........same.	/r/ExRedPill	04/10/22 12:57 AM
1	How can I learn to accept myself as a beta male? I'm a lady and I feel this way at times. I try to think about what I want in a partner, and become those things. First and foremost for myself, but also so that people who are on a similar wavelength, friends or potential partners, will be drawn to me. Like attracts like! Work on your confidence. Therapy has been tremendously helpful, but if there are financial barriers, journaling and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) techniques are great too.	/r/ExRedPill	09/09/22 02:45 PM
2	How do I humanise men again? Redpill content and mindsets are common throughout Reddit, TikTok, 4chan and other platforms. I think it's contagious like a disease. Some people who subscribe to the ideologies may not even know the term Redpill. Regardless, I believe it's way more common than you think. Yes FreshAndFit has 1 million subs. There's overlap in subscribers of course, but combine that with the countless other Redpill content creators, and you get a FUCKTON of dudes. Shit, I even had a conversation at work recently …	/r/ExRedPill	18/08/22 10:15 PM
2	How do I humanise men again? Can confirm that a fair number of my guy friends IRL are redpilled and try to convert the rest of them. 3 are definitely without a doubt. 1-2 I suspect because I've heard them use some of the lingo.	/r/ExRedPill	17/08/22 10:13 PM
19	Why do feminists try to downplay the effects of autism? I understand where your frustration is coming from. But frankly, I haven't seen any feminists downplaying this issue. Intersectional feminists in particular are concerned with the varying ways that our identities and experiences are shaped by gender, sex, race, income, disabilities, mental health, and physical health. I am an autistic woman who considers herself a feminist. I understand my situation is not the same as yours, but my brother is also autistic and we've talked a little bit about his…	/r/ExRedPill	17/08/22 02:45 PM
1	I’ve accepted and finally came to peace with RP I see where you're coming from on this, but I disagree. I have broken up with boyfriends before because they did not treat me like an equal and they were unwilling to show vulnerability. If I'm with someone, I want to truly know them. That takes hard work, and it's scary for everyone involved. I don't fault these men for being afraid to open up because a lot of cultural messaging and past dating experiences gave them the message that it's unsafe. But at least for me personally, authenticity, vul…	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/22 06:14 PM
31	Do women truly prefer men with high body counts or who have been with alot of women? Absolutely not, speaking for myself and lot of my gal friends. I don't speak for everyone, and I don't think it's necessarily a negative trait on principle, but I find that a lot of guys with high body counts make bad relationship and sexual partners. It speaks to a misalignment with my priorities and time not building skills required to maintain relationships. But I'll overlook a high body. It is something I am wary of to be honest. I don't mean that to be offensive to anybody in any way becaus…	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/22 06:06 PM
1	I can’t be the only one who loves strong women Mommy bangmaid	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/22 04:01 AM
2	What is the RedPill Women’s views on men wearing nail polish? Tbh I love it	/r/RedPillWomen	25/07/22 07:37 PM
2	Who else used TRP to appear big in order to not feel small and insignificant? Not exactly answering your question, but.......Better yourself, focus on yourself, FOR yourself. Try to live authentically. Work on your communication skills (I recommend the work of Gottman and Brene Brown). Develop strong friendships with men and women. Pursue your hobbies and your dreams. Annoying cliche, but love yourself first. Develop gratitude and an abundance mindset. Be interested in other people's thoughts, interests, and lives.	/r/ExRedPill	30/06/22 04:34 AM
1	Realistic Red Flags? Interesting. My own list is almost opposite of yours. I am open to dating religious and non religious alike. I personally am loosely Christian, bordering agnostic. I do think it's pretty important to be close to your partner in terms of religious beliefs especially if want children. I find it extremely attractive when people defy gender roles. I tend to me drawn to more androgynous types, regardless of sexual orientation. With you 1000%. It's not right to generalize people I'm a feminist persona…	/r/ExRedPill	18/04/22 11:01 PM
1	How redpill videos made me feel insecure as a woman Late to the thread but I found redpill because I was trying to figure out why the guy I was dating started treating me poorly. I was hurt and trying to figure out why the guy who was so sweet when we were friends (for almost two years!!!) was treating me with utter contempt once we started going on dates. I binged a bunch of content on YouTube, lurked on forums. Turns out a lot of his behavior was straight from the play book. Redpill content has helped me understand the mindsets of some men bett…	/r/ExRedPill	28/12/21 09:28 PM
1	Being a successful PUA isn't worth it Prioritization of homosocial relationships	/r/ExRedPill	28/12/21 07:27 PM
1	Modern dating advice? If they're truly rejecting someone over something as silly as an emoji, they definitely won't be able to handle a relationship for very long. If someone rejects you for something like that, they're saving you time and heartache before the the relationship goes any further. I'd be surprised if it was really over an emoji though. Maybe if she was a teenage girl, but I can't see any adult woman rejecting someone for emoji usage.	/r/ExRedPill	11/12/21 11:01 AM
1	If red pill is not the answer what is? I'm really sorry for how you've been treated in the past. You didn't deserve that. Nobody deserves to be cheated on or mistreated. Including you. Please don't internalize the way people treat you as a reflection of your value, or that women are evil. Don't blame yourself for their behavior either. You're really young. Young people are still learning social and relational skills, and at the end of the day, people hurt each other. I think the best thing you could do for yourself right now is enrol…	/r/ExRedPill	11/12/21 10:49 AM
3	Do you have to keep your life up to a certain standard the hotter a woman is that you're dating? People value all sorts of things. I've gone on dates with tall men, short men, conventionally attractive men, conventionally unattractive men, fit men, average men, fat men. I've gone on dates with guys who are funny, who are serious, who are shy, who are confident. I've dated nerds, and I've dated athletic dudes. Rich, poor, career-oriented, artistic, all sorts. The people I ended in long term relationships with all had a few things in common. They were empathetic, generous with what they were …	/r/ExRedPill	11/12/21 10:29 AM
1	Modern dating advice? No one owes anyone a relationship of any kind. It sucks to be on the receiving end of it, but people have the right to end a relationship for any reason or no reason at all. Just as you have the right to reject these girls for their supposed 'irrationality', they have the right to reject people for an emoji. Women aren't a monolith. Maybe take a break from dating and assess whether you're ready for it or if it's something you actually want. It sounds like you feel a lot of contempt for these gal…	/r/ExRedPill	11/12/21 10:01 AM