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| 1 | Sex is different than I thought it would beSomewhere in between. I'm not pulling 9s but I also don't have sex with people who are not my type. I don't lose my sex drive but I definitely lose it for a few hours. My situation is perhaps different than most people - my health is a challenge so I see sex now as a more of a comfort on my a journey rather than a destination. If I was 25 and in great health I might have a different perspective. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/22 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Torn between maintaining a proper workout cycle and doing my 9-5 job.If you have more money than time, you can just pay a HIIT coach and do walking/yoga for mental health. HIIT can have gains for like 40 minutes of working out per week? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/22 09:46 AM |
| 3 | Where should people have conversations / connection now?That might work for dating, since a visual inspection is usually all you need, but as far as finding people likely to engage in interesting conversations, that's a heck of a longshot approaching random strangers. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Anybody else got a female overweight problem where they live?It's health as a whole that is collapsing. Physical and mental health is tanking. People are falling apart in so many ways it's rare to meet balanced people that are moving forward in a positive way or even remotely interested in exploring new ideas once they hit their 30s. People double down on whatever bullshit happens to be working for them in the moment and aren't interested in anything else. Sometimes it's food , sometimes it's their kids, etc. The net result is once people's teen youth run… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 03:59 AM |
| 2 | as an attention-giver, I'm part of the problemit's not about helping others or not helping them, it's about making a conscious choice to do develop mastery so that when some asks you for a favor you don't feel resentful about it weather you choose to help them or not, you either help them because it's effortless for you as useful member of society, or you don't help them and there's no hard feelings because they recognize your value already | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/21 01:37 AM |
| 4 | Lifting not bleeding into other aspects of my lifeLifting is an ego trap in TRP. You can't solve all your problems at the gym. Especially people who lift weights and don't do yoga ,mobility work, and especially mental health work you're just stroking your own ego and you have no interest in whole body health. lifting provides an endorphin rush that reduces anxiety and in that way it's not all that different (short term) from doing drugs to feel better about your life. You need more. you need to be honest about what you want out of life and th… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Using rage and resentment productively? Any materials I should read on thisThanks for assuming I don't work lift weights, that's very insightful on your part.Is reddit any better than twitter these days? If TRP has one big fucking failure it's that they conflate struggle with weakness. Like if you have personal trauma or failures in your life you have to hide them from the world otherwise you'll be a beta loser your whole life..... this is a fucked up perception , chest pounding nonsense Bro. Get out of your own head. There are situations that make you upset and that's… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 03:39 AM |
| 3 | Using rage and resentment productively? Any materials I should read on thisThis is a useless comment. Everyone holds grudges. Incel rage is when you blame all your problems on these incidents. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 03:36 AM |
| 1 | As A Man, You Should Not Need OthersI have no issue being alone with my thoughts, but I've become terrified of my thoughts while I'm in the process of doing something difficult. Weather it's exercising or meditating or holding a posture which causes pain, all the bad thoughts come rushing in like a wave. It's pretty crushing actually. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/20 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Honesty Is The Best Policyhis story sounds pretty plausible actually, in a dynamic of arguing with someone that you've gotten to know for a while... The stories that sound more implausible on TRP are the "oh yeah I have 20 plates but I was still sad blah blah " | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/20 05:21 AM |
| 12 | Why you should never tell your problems to women ever!Share your problems with a stranger not to people who control your home and work environment. Biased advice is useless. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/20 05:14 AM |
| 2 | "It's my responsibility" is a far better phrase, and a far better frame than "It's my fault"Excellent. I get stuck in my head with this, trying to find the what or who is at fault. Even worse, when someone casually accuses you of blaming other people for your problems. It's often the same people too. "Postive" or "organized" people. For me they are doing me a favor - without knowing it they are saying to me "I'm not interested in listening to even 20 seconds of potentially negative content in order to figure out responsibilities might be helpful at improving your unpleasant situation". | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/20 08:58 AM |
| 1 | This is why the next months of isolation caused by coronavirus may be the best thing that happened to youThere's a real opportunity to break out of patterns for everyone. Usually there's always some good reason to be doing the same thing you always did for work, outings, food etc. All those reasons are gone now. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/20 10:39 AM |
| 1 | To Those Struggling For Progress: You MUST Be ConsistentWhats also important is to clearly define and write down what you're going to be consistent about. Otherwise you do some surface bullshit like take the stairs instead of elevator which is completely useless ego masterbation. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/20 09:13 PM |
| 5 | Betas are disgustingI think you took this concept too far. People who care too much about their appearance are posers, girls can see right through that shit. Putting in too much effort on your appearance can lead to an anxiety disorder. Maybe if you're 15 fixing your hair is all girls notice but in reality nobody cares and/or every person's perception of hygiene is different. Most people have tunnel vision they only care about 1 thing teeth or hair or shoes you cant please everyone | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/20 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Betas are disgustingFunny, I associate smoking with being employed and cool. When done in moderation | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/20 12:43 AM |
| 32 | A Note on LeadershipThe typical office job today is a complex, confused animal. It's going to take years before "travelling to use a different computer and a different telephone" becomes globally accepted as retarded. The best way to deal with this is to put pressure when you don't have skin in the game. Make all sorts of requests on people (romantic, business or otherwise) just to see what the outcome is. You'll soon find out few people are not willing to do slight efforts to change their ways to help you. This he… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/20 12:34 AM |
| -1 | How to negotiate in casual situations when you have no leverage?You've missed the point entirely. This has nothing to do with respect or anger. It has to do with inefficient day to day communication. Nobody has a "respect" or "power" in most social situations. When someone comes along that does have power (i.e., a boss), the people who are in a daze suddenly have to snap out of their sleep and produce a real answer to a question. When the same "powerful" person goes to the grocery store, he has no leverage once again, and the cashier is just as disinterested… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Massively increase testosterone by exposing your balls to red light/NIRI use the rayminder UV light. I haven't looked into Red Light because its too expensive. However, you can join a gym that has the red light machine and try it. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/20 01:42 PM |
| 0 | The one immutable principle of the Red Pill—just ONEMuscles can help you get laid. But the question is, does that even matter? Maybe if your life is uncomplicated and you're out of shape. This is not the place most people are in. This is the place someone who's 19 is in. The reality is that most people have all sorts of pressures, bad social relationships, and negative thoughts in their life that limit their potential. Working out can be a catalyst to fixing a lot of these problems because of its effects on mental health and confidence. This is w… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/20 02:18 PM |
| 6 | Dealing With InsecuritiesEver notice that doctors think they literally know everything and are always right? Their confidence in medicine gives them a superpower where they think they're god's gift to the earth. Thus confirming why they are completely useless at resolving complex cases, and got into medicine just for the gold digging girlfriends. Jokes aside, this kind of attitude works great when you have get up & go and not get paralysed by overthinking. However, this mindset is also cancer in the workplace. It's why … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/20 01:13 PM |
| 3 | My case against game and against PUAA good post. My contention is that you could alienate some men with your talks about financial success. As much as people like to say "everyone can be financially successful" with enough grit and effort etc. I believe that this is a fiction, especially by the time you're 32-33. While TRP should encourage people to improve in all dimensions, most people aren't smart or hardworking enough to become a 1%er. Or they are too set in their habits. Or it's too late for them to commit to some 5-year re-e… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/20 10:46 PM |
| 3 | You're Not an Introvert, You're Just an AssholeThis behavior often isn't properly corrected by teachers and parents. THey have no issue helping a 3-year old come out of their shell, which is good, but when the kid turns 11 it's okay that he has no friends or activities, "he's just focusing on his schoolwork". A lot of social development has been sacrificed in the name of getting an "education" that will be worth less than the paper it's printed on once your kid is depressed, manipulated at work, physically ill due to social retardation, and/… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/20 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Learned Betaness; A reflection on societies failure to produce alpha maleslearned betaness is also caused by early schooling and parenting which discourages any sort of physical exertion or exercise at school. In elementary school at least some effort was made to have dodgeball and recess , once we moved to highschool any sort of organized physical activity was abandoned unless you were part of the school team. Teaches people that movement and outdoorness is not required to be healthy | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/20 10:09 PM |
| 0 | Tinder is not that complicatedYou aren’t 15% body fat or lower. Doesn’t matter if you have muscles to even some degree which you should because you’re going to the gym, most bitches will swipe right. Am I the only person in the internet that is a hard gainer? If there's such a thing as privilege, it's annoying people that think being slightly overweight is actually holding them back for anything. Or perhaps I'm actually insanely attractive to women just because I'm normal weight, and I just never noticed, and also, no one ex… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/20 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Not having confidence is selfish.There's some truth to this , but it also sounds a like a platitude that people involved in extroverted jobs (e.g. coaches) like to say. Being loud and in charge has its moments. As does bearing down and doing unpleasant work because it's your job. It's important to be confident and outgoing but this type of high-energy attitude quickly becomes fatigue and arrogance you out if you're not working on stuff that is meaningful to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/20 11:44 AM |
| 3 | « I don’t like muscles »Most people don't have the discipline to stick to an intense exercise routine. They should stick to long walks and some low-key group fitness classes for mental health and joint health. Step 0: Admit that you're a faggot who doesn't like heavy lifting instead of deluding yourself. Then maybe you have a chance at being disciplined in the gym. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/20 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Stop being your own enemyWhen I'm moving towards a goal, nobody fucking "gets it" when I ask them for something. They don't see the vision or the trial & error logic of the grander mission. I find it really hard to maintain frame when I need to ask for something that makes me seem like a lunatic or a difficult customer. I am definitely my own enemy when I try to prevent myself from being a "Karen" to get the things I need. Asking for strange stuff and avoiding fear of rejection or ridicule is a problem for me. I have to… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 12:53 AM |
| 1 | How Many "Free Meals" Will You Tolerate?I can't believe people still/ever do this. Trading meals for sex is degrading for both sexes. Not to mention commuting to some fancy pants overpriced restaurant, waiting in line, waiting to pay your bill, etc. It's everything that's wrong with what people call "outdoor plans" these days. | /r/MGTOW | 06/01/20 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Stop reading TRPMan I don't know where everyone else went to highschool. Maybe it's because everyone where I went as an overprotected immigrant family in an upper-middle-class neighborhood. Nobody got laid in highschool. Maybe 15% of people were sexually active in a significant way. All that stuff started to go down when people hit 19-20. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/20 05:36 AM |
| 2 | You are still NOT in your primeTreat yourself as though you are in your prime. Take some risk. In today's culture both men and woman have serious mental health problems in their 30s. This is why I say , live like you're in your prime, even if you might not be. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/20 05:31 AM |
| 14 | Why you should use a saunaI'm not convinced that cold showers are for everyone. I used to like it back when I didn't have problems with anxiety. When shit started to hit the fan, cold showers just became one of those unnecessary stressors in my life. It was a good way to decompress when the source of my stress was mainly frustration and not feelings of doom. Anyway, that's my 2 cents. Avoiding discomfort for the sake of avoiding discomfort gets old. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/20 05:28 AM |
| 4 | Why you should use a saunaPerhaps you're not doing it for long enough? For me the opiate-like effect on mood is palpable. It takes place after the sauna, not while I'm in it. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/20 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Stop reading TRPBeing attractive is pretty overrated for men, compared to other things like mindset, wanting to take risk, mental health, and not having toxic friends & family. Once you start to have "real" problems, highschool issues like facial attractiveness become meaningless. I've been in the place before where, because of circumstance and clothing people think I'm attractive. It's completely useless by itself. It gets your foot in the door with very slutty or insecure women. The kind you're not interested… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/20 05:19 AM |
| 2 | Stop reading TRPIt's the same problem with all self help advice. The audience is too varied and the aggressive people try to create hard and fast rules that don't work for everyone. It's become evangelical in nature and that's really bothersome to me. Same thing with self help, big pharma and alternative pharma. Everyone is so full of themselves that they can't look an an issue objectively. This applies indiscriminately to alphas, betas, incels, etc. People don't know how to be immersed into a debate and really… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/20 03:51 AM |
| 5 | Stop reading TRPThis was a great comment until that last autofellatio section... | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/20 03:47 AM |
| 2 | How to maximize the effectiveness of Doctor's appointments?It occurs to me that the same knowledge about dealing with rejection can be used here. I just have to make 10 Doctors appointments per day :P | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 01:50 AM |
| 12 | In an article unsurprising to anyone, bullies get laid more.It's all a spectrum. I bet bullies are also much less likely to be depressed or introverted. It's really hard to even define what a bully is. What I take from this is strength gets results, not bullying. Strength also combined with the wisdom of when and where bullying people is appropriate or beneficial. Even weak people are bullies when they get desperate. The everyone laughs at them. On the other hand, when a strong person does it, people tend to assume they have a good reason. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/19 02:26 AM |
| 2 | As the world declines, RedPill Men will continue to thriveI think a more positive way to see the OP's post is that , the world is changing , it's up to you to carve your way in it. As many old ideas are collapsing and people are realizing all of the problems that exist in the world, this also creates opportunities if you're awake to them, both business and sexual/relationship. You have make it your mission to find these gaps in society and see how you can be useful instead of just fitting into some box that everyone says you're supposed to fit in. In a… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/19 01:54 AM |
| 117 | Peacocking still worksi'm saving this comment for my article about how toxic masculinity has turned young black men into radical Islamic white metrosexuals | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/19 03:32 AM |
| 6 | Society's biggest mistake is to define masculine and feminine through roleplay / choreplay / careerplay. They're far more fundamental than acquired skills.Interesting. I find myself lately being quite resentful when in conversations with people. Weather it be friends, family, or strangers. 95% of the conversations they talk about are so shallow in nature and they aren't really listening or talking deeply. I don't know what to make of this. On the one hand these are loved ones and I would like to have conversations that are to our mutual benefit, but what ends up happening is I want to punch holes in the wall when I hear a syllable of irrelevant ba… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/19 11:00 AM |
| 1 | There are no more beautiful girls left in “normal jobs”. If a girl is an 8 or above, she WILL be an “industry” girl.I think your rating system is distorted. There are plenty of 8 and 9s walking around in plain sight. Unless you're talking about "all around 8 -9" including mental health and personality, yeah those are harder to find. Sorry, but even in the context of TRP, you're objectifying women too much, like a spolied kid who MUST have a hummer or mazerati. There are so many girls in plain sight that could be a "9" to you but maybe a 7 to someone else. Sure if you're hitting on the 200$ haircut and 5,000$ … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/19 01:40 AM |
| 2 | You're Not Hers; it's Just Her TurnWhat are the differences in branch swinging behavior between different types of women? I know at least 4 different types of opposite personalities and each one will implement hypergamy in their own way, with different intensity and timing I think that TRP tries to generalize because AWALT but this is not a useful analytical system for trying to understand female behavior on a case-by-case basis, especially within the scope of workplace politics, female family members, society at large etc. Examp… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/19 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson's daughter — Mikhaila PetersonI'm not familiar with this village concept as someone external to MGTOW, that makes a lot of sense. | /r/MGTOW | 23/10/19 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson's daughter — Mikhaila PetersonI have no idea if she has herpes or not, she might have been using it offlabel for rashes, or maybe she actually has herpes. but she's not on opiates, amphetamines, or SSRIs anymore. I followed her channel for a while and she does admit to having casual sex and drinking in her early 20s. Not that I can fault here there, if I was in poor health and had the amount of sexual opportunities that women have I would have done the same thing. I would assume based on her background that she's not a megas… | /r/MGTOW | 23/10/19 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson's daughter — Mikhaila PetersonShe was on all those drugs at some point (2-5 years ago?) when she was sick with autoimmune disease that caused depression, severe arthritis , hypersomnia, and skin problems. She went her all-meat diet and it cured most of it. I don't know what meds shes on now, but it's probably almost zero meds, because she claims to be allergic to the stuff they put as additives in pills. | /r/MGTOW | 23/10/19 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Repost , in honor of Jordan Peterson's daughter cucking her husband on Instagram and then dumping himshe isn't on any of those meds anymore. THat part of the story is fake news. She got off almost all her meds after starting her new diet | /r/MGTOW | 22/10/19 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson's daughter — Mikhaila PetersonFinally found the video myself, no thanks to anyone in this thread. So the drugs part is bullshit, but the leaving her husband part is real. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CRKhxBWMw3E&feature=youtu.be&t=350 | /r/MGTOW | 22/10/19 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson's daughter — Mikhaila PetersonWHERE IS THE FUCKING VIDEO | /r/MGTOW | 21/10/19 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson's daughter leaves her husbandThose were the drugs she was on 5 years ago before her all-meat diet cured her. She is on ZERO drugs now. | /r/MGTOW | 21/10/19 12:37 AM |
| -5 | Jordan Peterson's daughter leaves her husbandshe is not on all those medications. | /r/MGTOW | 20/10/19 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson's daughter leaves her husbandShe is not on those medications. Those medications she was taking before her all-meat diet. Now she's on nothing. I'm going to wait for the full story to drop here. | /r/MGTOW | 20/10/19 07:11 AM |
| 5 | People don't respect you if you are unnecessarily nice to them. Applicable to both genders; an example.Funny, I have a gym story as well. This person who's a low-taker , homosexual and incoherent rambler started standing next to me in the locker room and telling me these long winded stories that were impossible to follow. You'd get tired within 15 seconds and you'd have to lean in just to hear what he was saying, but he was so enveloped in his story that it would be rude to just turn around. Anyway, despite suffering incredibly by humoring him (he made me uncomfortable and it was a lot of work ju… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/19 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Finally Kissed a Girl at 19It gives you access to girls hitting on you at random, which is a confidence booster. Basically it's "free" pussy even if you're depressed or antisocial.I'm talking out of my ass because I'm not tall, but my perception is that women are naturally drawn to tall men, so they can be tall and do very little to increase their SMV and still have sexual opportunities here and there, which can prevent a downward spiral in men that mostly get ignored until they put in some kind of effort in their life or… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/19 06:23 AM |
| 2 | The Fallacy of self-evaluation based on tiny sample sizes of social interactionpractice exposure therapy. visit multiple stores in the same day | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/19 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Views of the world after coming off red pill rage.Dating apps have almost always been a shitshow. Arguably they only exist because men throw money at it and women can use it to find a man quickly. As far as being a wholesome place to meat people, nope. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/19 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Views of the world after coming off red pill rage.great advice, tell someone to put their life on hold for 2 years, that'll work out well. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/19 03:02 PM |
| 4 | The Fallacy of self-evaluation based on tiny sample sizes of social interactiongood point, but in that case you probably have more meaningful relationships with people to begin with, and aren't subject to trying to "massage" your brief interactions you're subject to a completely different set of issues, in summary | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/19 02:49 PM |
| 8 | Women Manipulate Men - and that's okayIt still is among older people. My grandma is always dissing useless men who can't take charge and useless women who don't clean their house or cook. Half the shit she says is redpilled. I nearly died last week when she was raving about a homosexual couple who kept their house super clean and she turned into a discussion about how most modern people are useless slobs | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/19 12:27 PM |
| 5 | The Fallacy of self-evaluation based on tiny sample sizes of social interactionmy post has nothing to do with sex, or very little... | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/19 12:23 PM |
| 1 | A Supplement Guide For The Modern ManI did the DUTCH Adrenals test. I was given DHEA and Pregnenalone suppliments. Do you know anything about these things? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/19 02:47 AM |
| 21 | How To Get Your Shit Together: A Guide For 15-to-25-Year-Old Pieces of Shitarrogance on reddit and/or TRP is a big issue. People are always putting others down and baiting them into revealing details of their life that are irrelevant, then starting a back & forth bitchfight about it. We're wired up to avoid embarrassment so people just keep their distance and their guard up, which makes the entire experience much more sterile ... the opposite of what an anonymous network is supposed to be | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/19 10:17 PM |
| 1 | I need to be more assertive with myself and with medical service providersLegal action in Canada is unlikely to be effective and doesn't put me any closer to a solution. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 03:59 PM |
| 2 | I'm not lazy but the thought of working makes me sickI would suggest that you decline the offer and find something that better fits with moving forward. I suggest a job with more physical labor or at least some kind of movement or interaction, versus some shit soul sucking office job. In life there is always choices, especially and you go out of your way to look for choices. It's just that 95% of people act as if there aren't choices and you "must" for example accept the offer you were given for the summer job. There are really 4-5 choices when … | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 09:22 PM |
| 9 | CH: Women Would Rather Be Miserable Than Bored | “I am finally dating someone who is kind, and smart, and likeable and attractive, and great, and the sex is awesome.” But…. “He’s emotionally available…and actually likes me.”Female hypergamous behavior is on a spectrum but don't say it to loud, the AWALT concerto is lurking on the corners ready to drop the bass | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/19 07:00 PM |
| 13 | Science study on low female libido hits Reddit front page. Typical advice get top comments.Who gives a shit about the things that excite women? Is your goal to be a fuckboi for the masses?Must be nice to have a life so free of problems where your main concern is being charismatic and likeable. All of these "articles" about what men want and what women want are stupid. People should focus on what they want and what would be best for everyone, not on little nice things that people like that are useless | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/19 08:41 PM |
| 0 | Just because you struggle to do something doesn't mean it's difficult.Everything is difficult when you're in a tought spo or inexperienced or unwilling to commit a lot of time and/or risk failure. The fact that it's difficult for you inherantly has value because it means it's an undiscovered area that you've probably been avoiding, that you don't know if you should continue to avoid or explore, precisely because in avoiding it you don't see enough detail. For some people the best they can do is attempt things that are not difficult but are difficult for them for… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/19 11:54 PM |
| 3 | Everything here confirms my dad's mentalityeveryone who has endured any kind of measurable life struggles has "redpill" knowledge in some way. Intuitively, the basic struggle of life is survival, chasing resources that provide some benefit and avoiding dangers that provide some harm. The problem is that all these core values and concepts have been watered down by our world's vast complexity. Then there's the increasing number of people who have not faced enough character building challenges , some of which seem to be doing well anyway, o… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 12:13 AM |
| 1 | The guilt of being red pilledWell, there are bad, repetitive jobs in every domain, that cause health hazards, joint pain, etc. But I think if most people had to start over they'd look for something more outdoorsy or engaged, and psysically meditative versus a sterile office | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/19 11:02 PM |
| 10 | The guilt of being red pilledit still is. My grandmother is redpilled as fuck. It was a different time for immigrants. She grew up with 5 kids in a strange country, working 40 hours a week and then doing ALL the housework and meals after. She has no respect for the "current generation" of people who basically do nothing , through no fault of their own really, everyone is trapped in horrible office jobs versus physical rewarding work | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/19 07:10 PM |
| 3 | You will never be ready.This go hand in hand with "try everything" "get out of bed early and take action". If you only attempt 1 thing per month then your "waiting for the right moment" is actually justified, fwiw, that's the death cycle, you're reinforcing that perfectionism is important, because it is in the optimal strategy for making sure 1 thing works out. However, the real game is making sure you attempt 10 things in ways that vary in effort from half-assed to well-executed such that 1 to 3 of those things pan ou… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | If something about you doesn’t get you laid, get you liked, or get you paid, stop doing itInteresting. It would also follow that you should always be getting out of bed to explore new ways of getting you laid , liked or paid, without giving a shit what others think about your plans. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/19 07:27 AM |
| 1 | How to talk less and say more? Escape meaningless bullshit?this is an interesting idea but its far too general. Although, I do realise that annoying conversations are usually only unbearable when I've got some unresolved issues that I've been avoiding. Still, I'd like to find ways to take more action without increasing my level of frustration with noises and people. The bottleneck doing shit consistently is that negative pressure that builds up from a low signal to noise ratio when dealing with people. I can't picture myself overcoming this problem in o… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 10:26 PM |
| 1 | How to talk less and say more? Escape meaningless bullshit?Thank you for reminding me to ignore stupid comments and just patiently wait for the correct answer from someone who's read the question. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 10:15 PM |
| 1 | How to talk less and say more? Escape meaningless bullshit?what kind of jobs today aren't in "open offices" type environments? Other than being a road warrior salesman/contractor, that seems like an endgame that I'm currently ill prepared for having worked in offices my entire life | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 10:14 PM |
| 1 | How to talk less and say more? Escape meaningless bullshit?I already have a therapist.Experiencing fatigue in noisy social interactions isn't something that is resolvable with therapy. It's a problem many people have and it's just magnified for me because of my hearing problem. This a problem that requires more depth and cannot be resolved with simple exposure therapy, as I'm afraid of accumulated social fatigue, I'm not afraid of individual interactions themselves. As for your highschool comment; anyone can provide insight no matter what their life exp… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 09:12 PM |
| 5 | How to talk less and say more? Escape meaningless bullshit?TRP could really someday become mainstream psychology for men, but this type of "lol bruh" attitude is really what holds it back. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 08:45 PM |
| 165 | Billionaire incel dies during penis enlargement surgeryI really don't think this is an example of anything except a sad mistake by someone with more money than sense. Penis envy is retarded... once you start having real adult problems penis size becomes the last thing you ever worry about. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/19 08:38 PM |
| 14 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitThis doesn't apply to everyone. I can't speak for everyone but I'm perfectly content wasting my life away without video games or pornography. This is why all these movements about "lifting", "nofap" etc. all over-reaching virtue signaling in many cases. You need to figure out what causes you to not have any motivation to pursue your goals, period. Everyone fixating on porn or videogames does no help to someone's whos already built a lifetime of avoidance coping, he'll just move on to something e… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/19 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Why I Love HypergamyDid you really wakeup at 5am to jerk off and then not go to work, then go to bed at 10pm? I know you're exaggerating for comedic purposes, but I think most people have a much more passive addiction to porn and entertainment. Who the hell even gets up at 5.a.m. unless they are already super determined to make some changes. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/19 05:01 AM |
| 5 | Fat old woman being extremely picky on TinderThat's never going to happen. Best we can hope for is for prostitution to legal and orgies to be de-stigmatized. If an abundance of safe sexual liberation would be less "bartering for sex and money" which is what dating is today most often. The price for sex and affection is too high in certain cultures which creates an epidemic of MGTOWs, incels, and gold diggers. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/19 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Shit Test your overprotective parents before it's too lateMy theory is that there isn't much wrong with most types of overprotective parenting until the kid is about 17. it's usually a better choice compared to under-parenting. Every situation is different. One point that I probably didn't hit home well enough is to look for signs and symptoms that the over protection is being done without logic. If you over-control your kids and you're also balls-deep into their success, being aware of what they are doing, how, and why, that's not necessarily optimal,… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/19 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Be Excellent, Then Be Goneor at least ability to fuck other women , which admittedly is hard to fake. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/19 12:22 AM |
| 0 | Joining an INCEL Group is Fucking Retarded. There is no Black Pill.in a situation like this I would suggest find legal ways to pay for sex / erotic massages. It's not healthy for men to move around life without physical affection semi-regularly (everyone is different, but almost no one can go for several months without physical contact of some kind and stay sane) I think that incels need to find some way of getting that physical component out of the way and then they can have more genuine emotional relationships with women that they know since there's no over… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/19 10:22 PM |
| 5 | Joining an INCEL Group is Fucking Retarded. There is no Black Pill.This story seems to have some wisdom in it but I'm really confused? What is your advice for ugly people? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/19 10:17 PM |
| 6 | Approach. Because it's getting sad out there.I always remembered as kid I was shocked at how people keep to themselves on public transit. Same thing for wal-mart and other busy places. It's a bad habit that we all just learned even before social media and computers. Maybe it's something that's more common in large cities that have a melting pot of difference cultures and language barriers. I think that a lot of the isolation we experience stems from that - the default mode to ignore people you encounter unless you're in a tiny room with th… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/19 06:33 AM |
| 11 | [25m] my girlfriend[24f] told me she had only slept with 3 guys, her best friend[24f] blurted out that they slept with a guy every city in Europe they visitedStories like this show a really contrarian viewpoint as to who has "privilege". One gender can have the time of their live in Europe in their 20s while the other has to struggle to make ends meet. I can't do anything other than admire above average attractiveness women who are low in anxiety and live their 20s like this. Must be a hell of a ride compared to everyone else, kind of hard to have low self worth after 5-10 years of that. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/19 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test your overprotective parents before it's too lateYeah that's true. A better way to handle this would to come up with 50 "red flags" and if you check off at least "10 boxes" then you know you have a problem. Every situation is different. When I was growing up, if I slammed a door or stomped my foot in frustration, I'd be grounded for a week. If there was an issue with my homework or grades, that would blow over in a couple of hours. If some other kid tore my clothes in a fight they'd make a federal case out of it. These are the kind of "incongr… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/19 05:16 PM |
| 1 | As a Woman the Wall is Inevitable, As a Man your Wall is a ChoiceThe wall is a bullshit concept. We have an epidemic of poverty, low self-esteem isolation,body dysmorphic disorder, chronic pain, depression, and anxiety. These are the real walls people face. Everything else is just a game. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/19 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test your overprotective parents before it's too latedo you live in some Italian family with plastic on the sofa? Strawman harder If people goals are truely to get somewhere in life they don't hyperfocus on preserving the shine on their furniture. It's choosing beggar behavior which people need to wake up to. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/19 09:38 PM |
| 12 | Shit Test your overprotective parents before it's too lateIf you think this post is for people who are 18, then it's no wonder its content doesn't resonate with you. There are able-bodied people in my extended family who are 50 living in the apartment upstairs. This is not the exception, it's the rule. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/19 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Shit Test your overprotective parents before it's too lateexactly the type of advice that would be useful to someone who is 20. Someone's who's set in their ways at 30 will quit after day 1. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/19 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Shit Test your overprotective parents before it's too latehave you seen what happens to people who discover opiates in their 30s instead of alcohol and weed in their 20s? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/19 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Shit Test your overprotective parents before it's too lateThis is a collection of ideas it's up to each person to decide what it means for them. No one can tell you how to deal with 20 years of family dynamic over the internet, just a warning that life is short. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/19 05:33 PM |
| 15 | Shit Test your overprotective parents before it's too lateThere's nothing wrong with being financially dependant on your parents in your 20s. I'm not saying be a hero. I'm saying be real careful about the safe path because you could be fucking yourself and everyone around you. You parents want you to be successful but they don't know how to help you, they only think they do. Some are worse than others, some people need to press eject others need only to make some major course corrections. This isn't all about money. It's about survival of mental health… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/19 07:29 AM |
| 1 | The Benefits of HypergamyThe problem with a mindset like this is it doesn't draw a difference between getting sexual action and overall lifetime success as a man. I feel these things have been badly mixed up and it contributes to confusion and anxiety in men. There's a big difference in what is the best strategy for a brief exploratory relationship with women and what should be your path in life to ensure you are successful with women for 10-20 years. These two objectives are inter-related but fundamentally very differe… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/19 09:53 AM |
| 8 | Hypergamy doesn't care - University editionOne point that TRP often misses is that these are good examples of what shitty people do, but the concept being discussed is more subtle as it applies to most people's lives. There are pleanty of women who are too insecure to branch swing and content to merely create problems & stay with the dude they are with. This the trap most people are likely to fall into, or at least the one I see most often in my subcommunity of more traditional values where women don't have 34 sexual partners in their 20… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/19 04:54 AM |
| 12 | Always strive to be the most dangerous man in the room.true. but let's be honest - the 5'7" with the "sleeper" chiseled body, fighting skill and accompanying discipline and confidence from having gained that skill, is a Rockstar with most women and men once they get to know him just a little. That fact that many women will pass on a first impression is somewhat irrelevant at that point. And he's miles ahead of 90% of people. He might still get ignored as a first impression when he has his clothes on and isn't in a confrontation... but people will fe… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/19 01:57 PM |
| 5 | Things I learnt from hands on experience.#5 Has been useful for me. When in doubt, just go. Don't ask irrelevant people their opinion - just try it and learn something. You have nothing better to do. If you have a big todo list, that's not an excuse. It means you have 2 problems, you've been neglecting your todo list, and using it as a excuse to not try something random. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/19 02:26 PM |
| 2 | The Feminist Reaction to Day GameIt really depends on the person's character. Like 80% of men have considerable approach anxiety and will never even try the 100 approaches thing. Not all of those are dudes undatable ogres or future beta bucks providers. Some of them legitimately just don't know how to get things started. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/19 07:25 PM |
| 1 | The Feminist Reaction to Day Gamealso I don't think anyone should be enjoying the decline that nihilism and resentment, you play the cards you've been dealt by society - but you try to make things better as well as your main goal. this includes making things better for women. Their bad collective behavior doesn't mean you shouldn't want the best for them when you're able to provide it - as along as it is not at a cost to your needs or values. It's not us vs them all the time, only some of the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/18 10:45 PM |
| 11 | The Feminist Reaction to Day Gamethe hitting on 1000 women thing is how you get started it overcome approach a anxiety. it's step 1. you don't keep doing that after, its like you said improving your craft. the system that works when you're in a rut is not the one you keep trying to use, you move on to phase 2 with more wisdom | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/18 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Game creates the perception of a high value male. Becoming red pilled makes you one.I wish people wouldn't humblebrag on this site about spinning plates 5 years ago "before the redpill". It seems to happen a f lot on this sup and I guess it's fine if makes you feel better but it adds nothing of value to people reading your post who are having a hard time. It reads something like this - "I used to be average but now I'm great" is a very demoralizing statement to read for someone starting at the bottom. It showcases a path that is at not at all within their reach - even if the de… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/18 02:07 PM |
| 9 | Harshest red pill you had growing up before discovering ‘trp’?That overprotective aunts, mothers, grandmas, and school teachers are a good guide on how you should live your life, full of avoidance, zero risk taking. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 06:33 AM |
| 1 | A question about Monk Modethis is not useful information. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 08:54 PM |
| 1 | A question about Monk ModeI don't think I explained myself properly, I'm not resentful of useless people, but I've maintained too many shallow relationships and people treat me to much like their buddy instead of as their ally in life | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 08:53 PM |
| 1 | A question about Monk ModeI don't think this is accurate. I think 10% of people are great or have the potential to be great. cutting everyone out is not a solution | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 08:52 PM |
| 1 | To all the young guys out there.Yes and no. If you combine the amount of people living with their parents, on sick leave or disability, depressed, severely under-employed, that's probably 35% of young adults. None of these people got there by eating burgers and trans fat or skipping the gym. The gym could be a starting point to fix things - but I don't think it's how people end up here. They got here because no one told them taking risk is very important. I think that everyone gets sick in their 30s regardless of habits, but t… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/18 05:38 PM |
| 1 | To all the young guys out there.sounds like you need a meditative retreat or a mushroom trip | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/18 11:20 PM |
| 37 | To all the young guys out there.The problem is that many adults, parents, and teachers. don't explain getting old properly. The problem is that life changes. Many people get sick in their 30s. They start to develop 2 or 3 "old people" diseases, like insomnia, anxiety, acid reflux, back pain,or drug addiction. and that's what makes changing habits almost impossible, you fall into a holding pattern that you feel is protective of further degeneration and you lose will to become great at lifting, or your job, or with women. No o… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Tinder Game with Amateur PhotographyHaving a bunch of photos of yourself will probably also get you a better job, so there's that. it's not just for tinder... | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/18 03:33 AM |
| 1 | What matters to you is important, even if everyone thinks it makes you stupid or betayes, I think my concept mostly applies to decisions for personal matters, being a stubborn prick for decisions that affect other people greatly is a bad strategy EDIT: I think also a large number of people who are struggling aren't functioning in society anyway, and conformity to pretend to function isn't a good idea | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/18 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Why people give you shit and how you should handle itOne way to not "buy" into the frame is to comply consciously and carefully even when the other person is being silly. It gives you more credibility than someone who just says "No" all the time to work that is assigned to them. Most of the time when we reject someone's stupid request it's because we'd rather be doing something else, usually nothing. The pain of doing something stupid is higher than the pain of doing nothing so we fight people who ask us to do useless or counter-productive work. P… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/18 10:05 PM |
| 2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI think that humans react to the situations there are put in. Society itself has a lot of flaws today and it brings out the worst in people. People don't co-operate anymore in large communities - many people live and work in these little urban silos with terrible sedentary (or overly physical) jobs and bad commutes. Everyone has chronic health problems and the medical system bends people over and in their early-to-mid 30s people begin to see their opportunities to really live the life they want … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Thank You Red Pill. I'm Departing.What's the best way to take action when taking any action reminds you of how behind you are? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/18 01:28 AM |
| 1 | A Simple Path To Success For Those Starting Outat first while reading step 1 i thought you wanted me to fuck fat girls and eat comfort food to spiral out of misery and depression. needed those lulz tonight | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/18 07:12 AM |
| -1 | Habits, routines, daily activities and you.Obsessing over getting good enough sleep is a dangerous road to follow. There are many high performing people that get by on 6 hours, especially when they need to grind jobs, gym, and other engagements. The most important is to be disciplined and stick to a regular routine. Organized people just collapse when it's time for bed and wake up easily because their circadian rhythm is locked in. Drifters go to bed whenever, have trouble falling asleep and are tired all the time. But hey, they get thei… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/18 07:05 AM |
| 8 | " But Muh Genetics! :'( "A good point. This post reminded me of why many self-help books / blogs are hypocritical. Very commonly, midway through the book the author shares a story of a "tragic" point in their life where nothing was going well in terms of their health, finances, depression,etc. Except that, very often, their "mediocre" life is defined by being a college graduate with medicore-but-functioning jobs, medicore-but-functioning-relationships, and mediocre-but-functioning living arrangements. These books and st… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/18 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Advice on my tinder profile pics & profile.I think people are exaggerating with their improvement ideas. Other than the creepy personal message about breasts and the lack of outdoor photos with other people, that profile is half decent | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 05:30 PM |
| 1 | I want to hear a success story - of someone who made overcoming anxiety their big goalI've been putting myself in the wrong situations. Being uncomfortable just for the sake of being uncomfortable doesn't work. You can break the ice and accomplish anything by overcoming step 1 or step 2 or step 3, but eventually you run out of gas and wonder if it all matters. This is why I asked for the success stories | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 05:25 PM |
| 6 | We (Men) Played ourselves.I scroll down now before reading to see if OP is talking about his wonderful life with 15 plates and a 6-figure salary and then I hit [x] | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 11:29 PM |
| 5 | Time's precious. How long do you think you've got? Not much at all. 3800 weeks / 900 months / 27000 days. And they're are gonna fly faster than you think.I would encourage you to follow Jordan Peterson's lectures, you're right in the perfect age group for that. He discusses pursuing a trade as a highly valuable and rewarding career path, as opposed to a very general university path. Maybe do his future authoring program , or see a psychologist to figure out what you want. The short answer is your need to specialize. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/18 05:44 PM |
| 37 | Time's precious. How long do you think you've got? Not much at all. 3800 weeks / 900 months / 27000 days. And they're are gonna fly faster than you think.I'm gonna provide a dissenting opinion here, hindsight being 20/20, I wish I had squandered my 20s drinking and partying. It would have been a far better use of my time and a good self-medication strategy. Instead I was a part-time student with no direction and no mission. Most likely, I would have had several epiphanies in a drunken state or in a state of hangover regret, that would have been able to steer the boat towards some goals. There are really 3 choices for people in their 20s 1) Build … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/18 04:21 PM |
| 1 | I've surrounded myself with clueless idiots at home and at workyou're right. I'll just be direct. Either they redefine their expectations immediately and transition away from me smoothly, or they cut the cord and they screw themselves picking up pieces from lost knowledge transfer for the next 6 months. Put the ball in their court. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 10:42 PM |
| 1 | I've surrounded myself with clueless idiots at home and at workno amount on initiative will change things in this shop. It's allergic to it. There's a small group of controlling people that change their mind every other week as to how things should go down. It's unclear who is making decisions, but it's clear that it won't be anyone outside that core group. I certainly don't have the energy as someone in OPs and not competent in their main business activities to wage war on how they operate | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 09:56 PM |
| 0 | How to you respond to postural domination at work?Get over yourself. I'm not here to reveal my card deck or be criticized for apparent deviations in my story | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 11:54 PM |
| 0 | How to you respond to postural domination at work?This advice isn't very good because it doesn't apply to a wide variety of situations where someone is passively aggressively undermining you. If I have to have 3 systems to deal with disrespect, one for senior-members, one for co-workers, and one people who are below me, that's not sustainable. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 09:42 PM |
| 0 | How to you respond to postural domination at work?So I should suck his dick because he's been at the company longer? Great advice! Maybe I should dedicate my entire life to becoming better than him based on a few interactions where he's undermined me. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 03:41 PM |
| 1 | How to you respond to postural domination at work?You can't exactly ignore a person who's allowed to assign you work based on the company hierarchy. That's not really a good strategy. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 02:46 AM |
| 1 | When women complain about their problemsIf you had more problems yourself, you'd quickly see the futility of listening to someone complain who refuses help and advice. Don't wait until your life becomes complicated to practice rejecting useless conversations. If it happens then it'll look like you're rejecting them just to be bitter | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Most of you are too fat to have High SMVAs someone who doesn't put on weight , I'm tired of this kind of advice. Being overweight is a fucking easy problem to solve and isn't an SMV dealbreaker at all for men. Come back to me when you have cocktail of crippling health problems that have absolutely nothing to do with weight, then tell me about how being fat hurts your SMV.... Jesus christ stop eating sugar and bread and do IF the info is out there; it's not fucking hard compared to what lean people have to do to get ripped. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/18 12:58 AM |
| 1 | High SMV, but hate socialising, especially bars, clubs, parties etc. I know it's important to do well socially but I just can't stand itit sounds like you hate the type of activities that you most commonly get dragged to. Just say no and find people who you actually want to talk to. There's very little value most outings / social activity, as you le discovered, except as a way to avoid staying indoors and stuck in your head. Start actually planning the things you want to do and never go out again for more than just a short meal with people that bring no value but small talk pleasantries. Join something on meetup.com or carpediem… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 05:35 PM |
| 4 | Those magic 4 lettersGood stuff. I think what happens here is you bypass the heavy load of society's expectations when you connect with someone on something unusual. It's like discussing sports teams among men. (or how women are, lol, e.g. half this entire subreddit) You'll shoot the shit with anyone, bond with even homeless bums over these kinds of topics. You don't care that you'd otherwise never speak to this person, it breaks down the barrier. Much in the same way I think, if you connect with someone on a specif… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/18 03:45 PM |
| 1 | 24-35? Your insomnia/sleep problems are a warning, not a catastrophe.The improvements in this area really are incremental, and affected by so many variables. Addressing vitamin/sunlight/exercise deficiencies is important , as well as medicating to break the loop. The last 20% though, is aligning your life properly with a plan, orienting your whole purpose toward this mission, and accepting that sometimes you'll get less sleep. Once your live your mission, your mission stops being to get enough sleep and paradoxically you get enough (with sleep hygene help, of cou… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/18 02:30 PM |
| 1 | 24-35? Your insomnia/sleep problems are a warning, not a catastrophe.I appreciate everyone trying to help,, but I mostly wanted to share a psychological cause. I do daily half naked walks in mid-day sun, hell yeah it makes a difference in Canada | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/18 05:36 PM |
| 6 | 24-35? Your insomnia/sleep problems are a warning, not a catastrophe.Thanks for sharing this story. A lot of the points resonate with me. The part where, the moment you start to have responsibilities with a schedule, your brain starts to fight you because it wants you to conserve energy and work towards your real value structures. Your brain is okay with you doing nothing, but it freaks out when you've got your time and energy tied up in things that are not aligned with your ultimate purpose. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/18 06:08 PM |
| 3 | 24-35? Your insomnia/sleep problems are a warning, not a catastrophe.Yeah I manage my nutrition and health so it does sound similar. I was feeling a lot better in summer because I'd make it a point to walk outside in the blazing sun for 30 minutes without a shirt on to get my vitamin D and sleep in check. I'm itching to do that again, that's one thing that's going to help for sure. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/18 04:20 AM |
| 3 | I do not care about women or sex.Most people will eventually become very unhappy if they do not have some sort of physical and emotional relationship with other people for months or years. Most men, going without sex for a month or two, then getting touched by a woman by accident products this ridiculously strong response. You can repress this response but I think comes at a high cost to your mental health. This response means one of the systems in your body is being neglected and is on high alert all the time, which is bad for… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 02:27 AM |
| 10 | I keep Blue Pilling myself. Short story and rant.You probably should have done something of a sexual nature in that 10 hours. That was your error. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/18 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Who the Fuck Do You Think you Are?People don't stand up for themselves because they think it's better to not rock the boat, stay under the radar, avoid arguments, avoid getting fired. This technique of being overall compliant and agreeable does work (the nice guy) to an extent, people are more likely to help you out. But it's a very small gain in comparison to walking the line between nice and respected. If someone's going to threaten you to the point of you getting fired when you make small mistakes, standing up for yourself wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/18 05:10 PM |
| 0 | Testing your own self-confidence & attractiveness. Young men, pay attention.Some gyms have free tanning beds. You want to be careful with these as they can be bad for you as well. Look into it, research. If people tan for 6 minutes, try it for 1 minute. UV is needed even if you take Oral Vitamin D3. You can actually safely take 4,000 IU of D3 per day according to Dr. Rhonda Patrick; perhaps even more for men. You can also take up to 50,000 IU in one shot (!) to bring your levels up. You can ask your doctor to see where your levels are in your blood test to see if your s… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/18 11:34 PM |
| 4 | Are you a fat ass in denial?As someone who can't put on weight, I really don't give a fuck about fat people struggling to lose weight. I've never been fat but I really don't think it's a big deal for men. It's not fucking hard, stop eating sugar, or fast. Anything that requires doing nothing I can accomplish 100% of the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/18 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Do Not Tolerate DisrespectI wrote a post about this a while ago. People need to be reminded of your value in a semi-regular basis. If you don't (carefully, after some thinking) correct people who've blamed or disrespected you, you start to look like a loser and it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Letting someone tease you is one thing; letting someone bother or blame you "casually" is another. The goal is to manage your interactions with people, not fight with them or have passive aggressive behavior. If you make a mi… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/18 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Brutal TRP wisdom from Arthur SchopenhauerI bet she was involved in her community though, even if it was just bingo, the garden , and the church. We need things like this today which have been replaced by netflix and facebook causing people with a role to rot | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/17 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Brutal TRP wisdom from Arthur SchopenhauerIt would seem to me that women who do only this would feel useless and resentful of their role and begin creating problems for men. They would be better off having some active role in the community especially after the kids grow up | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/17 05:00 AM |
| 14 | Youtuber Boogie2988's Divorce Orchestrates Insane Levels of TRP Theory (AWALT)I don't know that it's productive for the RP community to analyse celebrity relationships at length. Big sums of money change everything, this is common knowledge. When there is a gap in attractiveness or wealth, in a marriage, there will be problems in the future, I hope that's what people take away from this. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/17 03:46 AM |
| 5 | Brutal TRP wisdom from Arthur SchopenhauerIf we accept for granted that this is the role of a woman from 20 to 40, what is her role from 40 to 70? In order to accept a brutal truth like this I need to know the whole story. What should a woman be doing past her prime? Clearly in modern times it's more than just raising children and cooking. A good woman should continue to contribute to society in some positive manner. What might that be? If women discard men who have lost earning potential, how might men in turn decide which women beyond… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/17 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Take Action- NOWThe best first step you can take is commit to a morning routine. Ignorant and manipulative people use this all the time - they show up first to compensate for their lack of talent or merit. And it works. You want to change your life? Wake up at 6 am and go for a walk. Start with that. If you can't do that, you're going to be struggling indefinitely. If you have no job you can start with walking at night, but you're going to have a hard time shifting gears after so it's risky, but its better than… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/17 04:24 AM |
| 46 | Ketosis, The Ultimate Test of Willpower.I'm more of a fan of a "keto-ish" diet. Sure if you have to lose 70 pounds you might want to go hardcore, but lets not forget all the men on here that really only need to lose 0-20 pounds or just gain, or improve their mood and energy. There's absolutely no need to go "ultra" low carb for those people, and it might even been inadvisable. Intermittent fasting is also a strong test of your will, and combined with low but not ultra-low carb + high veg it's trending to be the perfect diet IMHO. Just… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/17 04:18 AM |
| 6 | Shortcuts, Self-Improvement, the Present, and YouHowever, I would add that looking for "shortcuts" on how to learn things faster (speed reading, gratitude, not burning out, etc.) is very valuable indeed, if not essential. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/17 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Does it make sense to "spin plates" when no one you know is doing this?No, there's a lot of diversity in my city and there are plenty of people of other ethnicities , including regular white Canadians who move out at 20 into some apartment and do the whole partying/studying/cock carousel thing. I'm not oblivious to the fact that this lifestyle exists, I just have nearly zero male friends who have followed this path, no role models to back me up. As far as my career goes I'm in IT and I don't feel 'connected' at all to those people either, as most of them are either… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 04:14 PM |
| 3 | How to get rid of Brain Fog?Check out Dave Asprey's material, in particular his book Head Strong. A lot of his advice is tied to selling vitamins and books but that doesn't mean it's not good advice, definitely a good starting point, especially with regard to willpower energy management. Some people have had great success with Keto or intermittent fasting to improve brain fog. As for right now, you need a temporary solution, since obviously the exam session is adding a layer of stress that is making you to think that perha… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 03:15 PM |
| 5 | The women who denied you will come to resent you when you surpass them in the SMP.There's also opportunities for both sexes to decline with chronic health problems. What's my point? Trends are useful to recognize but you can't fixate on them. It's a tough world out there for everyone who isn't following a good path, which includes weak men and useless women. There the underlying element of life's' challenges that isn't discussed enough in this sub. It's not clear to me how people should deal with getting old, men or women. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/17 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Can I be alpha with acne?It's very hard. Some people do it but they are usually 6 foot tall basketball players with other redeeming features. Accutane works. It's something like 90% effective. You can "demo" what accutane would do without hurting your liver much by going for a low-dose treatment. In low-dose mode (e.g. 20 or 40mg per day), the acne still goes away but it's not permanent, it comes back when you stop taking it. But, this allows to 'preview' what will happen to your hair, skin, liver without taking a huge … | /r/askTRP | 28/11/17 01:53 AM |
| 1 | You'll Probably SettleSettling is vague as fuck. There are some things you can't actually change right now, or that would use up too much of your energy to change. A big part of TRP is making emotionally/socially difficult changes that yield a high return in a relatively short amount of time. So yeah, potentially, you're deciding to "settle" in a few areas that aren't worth your time. In the case of women, yeah, latching on for dear life with the first relationship that somewhat works is an example of settling, espec… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/17 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Lay One Brick at a TimeThis is true, but I think establishing the daily schedule, e.g. waking up at the same time every day and getting better quality / enough sleep is something that needs to happen pretty much at the start, regardless of other factors. You can't fit incremental improvement into a "slot", it has to become you, which is controlled by a schedule that opens up multiple timeslots for improvement, not just 1 or 2 things. You want to create a situation where many times per day you think "I'm up, I've bough… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/17 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Good news: no one gives a shit about you.This is true, after highschool. Also, there's no shortage of people who like to run their mouth giving all kids of advice that isn't useful. People DON'T care about your well being, but they DO LOVE giving cookie-cutter advice, because it makes them feel good. These are usually friends and family, and these are fucking dangerous people, because they like parroting over and over again, and steering you towards a path that they feel is valuable for you; unfortunately in 90% of cases their interest… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/17 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Getting Sex: Women have it on easy modeIt's a complex matter and I agree with you. Women, even below-average, constantly have at least 5-6 men they know, perhaps unconsciously, that they could get with if they wanted to. Women walk around all day (or spend all day on social media) continuously receiving feedback from men that is strong or lukewarm at worst. The just KNOW, since they've been 14, that there are men available, interested in them, at all times. They may not know that they know this. This is how things have been for them … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/17 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Minimize Expensesabsolutely agree with this. Saving money is important, you have to be wise. I'm a cheap fucking bastard with no incentive to invest or build anything, because I've spent my entire teens getting everything free on the internet and everything for 1/3rd for the price on craigslist. You can seriously fuck up your incentive to work by focusing on how to get little pleasures for free. And spend hours of time trying to fix something that you need, instead of buying a new one. Think big. Nothing wrong w… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/17 05:31 AM |
| 9 | Some of My Personal Life Lessons For Those Under 30yes, its still social media, but I think it's 80% less bad as facebook. Facebook isn't geared toward self-improvement or knowledge sharing and has addictive properties. Perhaps if you sum up all the self-help sources and combine that all together, you can reach an amount of time wasting equivalent to 1 mainstream social media website... my 2c | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/17 06:53 PM |
| 38 | Some of My Personal Life Lessons For Those Under 30reddit and forums are really not the same as places where you have your real name and all your highschool friends. totally different animal | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/17 06:39 PM |
| 3 | How white knighting will leave permanent scars (literally)or just try to diffuse the situation from afar , or call the police. Or invite other foolish people to intervene. You con't get an upgrade on your masculinity by taking on dangerous drunk men. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/17 11:17 PM |
| 7 | Always do what you want to do.A precursor to doing what you want is figuring out what you really want/need for your life, in a deep reflective way. This is the first draft of a non-static, continuously evolving mission. Once you've crafted out a plan for how to live your life then you can decide an all the 'what' daily micro actions that make it happen... Otherwise you're just an impulsive angry prick. Which might be fine, some of the time, if defined in the execution of your plan. tldr; Always do what you want , but let you… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/17 10:40 PM |
| 6 | Wear your makeup, guysEvery man should probably have at least tinted moisturizer in their arsenal, for spot fixes. You don't have to wear it all the time, for some people its for minor confidence boosts and emergencies. How many guys with minor to moderate skin problems choose to stay home because skin treatments take months to have an impact. Makeup is a buffer zone that allows you to keep being social while you explore dietary, topical, and drug solutions to any skin problems you might have. Sometimes its just real… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/17 10:26 PM |
| 12 | Stop liking/favoriting her pictures.Social Media is garbage. Robs you of your thirst for meaningful activities. Delete your saved password, email notifications, and login for 20 minutes per week maximum. If you're going to like and comment for attention, play the numbers and just like everyone's stuff. It will also make you appear less hungry if you're liking everyone and not just her stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/17 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Improvement is maintenance - strive for excellence or fall to mediocrityincremental (sometimes passive) improvements in all areas as a habit large, audacious, measurable improvements in a few Major areas that you've defined as very important for your life | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/17 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Take the first step... Go lift.The key is to go almost every day. even if you're lazy and don't push yourself while there, just showing up everyday and doing a little will cause you to raise the intensity pretty quick. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/17 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Don't allow people to disrespect you when you've made a mistake.In the case of inappropriate grudges and scorekeeping, I would just keep written record of these incidents when they occur (inception... keeping score of others who keep score too much...) . You may need to drop people or jobs out of your life if they are constantly refusing to let things go. Your question is basically "how do I fix something when others think I've fucked up and won't bend at all" . That strategy will vary, I would say the best tool for solving that varies a lot. In the case of … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 07:43 PM |
| 5 | How to actually start waking up early (5AM) without feeling tired.Dave Asprey has a lot of interesting ideas on sleep. Also, the book "The Morning Miracle". If you're a person who needs a lot of sleep to function, try to get better, deeper sleep using an wide arsenal of experimentation with habits and supplements. Once you build confidence in sleeping better, you won't be afraid of having to wakeup earlier, it's a virtuous cycle. If you need your 8h beautyrest start by cutting 45 minutes and compensating with better diet and mild stimulants. Keep on incrementa… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/17 08:12 PM |
| 4 | Why it's important to Forge Your FrameWeak people live the entirety of their lives in other people’s frames. Indeed, many people live their life while infrequently forming well-articulated virtues and goals. Then even worse, once they've figured out to a >90% degree of certainty what they should strive for, they get deterred from their mission by bad planning, temptation, other people's whims or interference, ignoring their previous exhaustive reflection. The worst part about living in other people's frames is people will blame you … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/17 05:06 AM |
| 3 | Don't allow people to disrespect you when you've made a mistake.Helping people on the fly who are disadvantaged is an automatic human reaction for most people. However, you should be charitable by doing the best you can for someone, intentionally, not just because you feel guilt in the moment. You don't want to be a enabler. What is the best way to help this person move forward? Are they a repeat offender, being stubborn beyond their disability? Will they have their hand out for you forever despite their potential? Does the handicapped person really care tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/17 04:09 PM |
| 4 | Don't allow people to disrespect you when you've made a mistake.Being late in the workplace was probably a so-so example. Punctuality is hugely valued in the workplace and it's very difficult to maintain frame when you're on the verge of being fired. The idea I was going for with regards to being late, is in a another situation where it's not a huge deal, for whatever reason, e.g. punctuality is not expected, major unforeseen circumstances. Someone who has it in for you can still try to gain the upper hand by making you feel bad for a fake transgression. And… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/17 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Don't allow people to disrespect you when you've made a mistake.Thanks for the concrete scientific input, very insightful. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/17 12:21 AM |
| 34 | Don't allow people to disrespect you when you've made a mistake.You should allow people to lead respectfully within their domain of competence. A problem occurs when that person then comes to believe they are more competent than you at everything, which is an easy mistake to make once the relationship starts on that foot. They point to how little you know in one area and try to extend that to control everything. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 11:47 PM |
| 21 | Don't allow people to disrespect you when you've made a mistake.Yes, people will shit-test you when they catch you in mistake. My post is the best approximation of a long-term reaction I can come up with. What you do in the first 5 minutes when someone is shitting on you is somewhat less important, feeling bad about it and letting the other person unload (without admitting major fault) might be just fine, but those 5 minutes aren't the most important. Sitting there and taking it without apologizing profusely or proposing reparations in a panic might actually… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Hypocrite Chickbruh, are you from Montreal? I'm get this "french billingual" vibe from the way you write. Of course the "massages" thing is a tipoff too. Anyway she probably got offended about your Facebook because she's insecure and feels the need to check out guys' background before going any further. Probably training from her past as a massage girl. No need to analyse it any further, she doesn't trust you because she's untrustworthy herself. She needs to sort herself out and make some better friends, she s… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/17 09:23 PM |
| 1 | The forced positivity around in this world is cancerousWhat gets to me are accusations complaining or whining. It's such a basic bitch move and people often get away with it coming out looking like the winner. Complaining for me is a form of problem-solving. I do venting of a specific problem in the best manner I can articulate, to try and draw suggestions and solutions. Yet all someone has to do is accuse me of being negative, being picky, or resort to a personal attack "well you wouldn't have these problems if you had more money / listened to me e… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/17 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Nobody Gives a Fuck About Your ListIf you don't cater your advice to your audience you're just talking to yourself, which helps no one, not even yourself, since ever day is about learning something from everyone, even people below you The point is not about dumbing down your advice or making the horse drink after bringing them to the river, it's about positioning your advise such that it is not easily dismissed by circumstance or can be applied immediately with a feedback positive loop rather than some long-haul shot in the dark.… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/17 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Dude at gym can't take a hint, frequently see him there due to schedule & he always asks me heaps of questions, tried everything. TF do I do?There are some people who can immediately end conversations that are of no interest to them. I'm sure you've met one before. Be like them in a situation of useless people. High value people know how to cut someone off. Most professionals cut of rambling patients and customers within a few seconds of any useless rant - even though these people pay their bills. By enabling a talkative, oversharing person, you're doing them a disservice. They are wasting their own time as well as your own. If you n… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 05:18 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck is wrong with me?you sound like you're in a chronic stress feedback loop. You won't be able to figure out what is wrong with you because everything is being clouded by misery right now. There's too much negativity in your head and it's going to be hard to even identify what you need to do next. Go for a 1 hour walk every day while listening to motivational podcasts. Get a massage. Phone a friend that you haven't see in years. Seek help. In a few days ,once you can go a few hours without ruminating over your mise… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that beta males are contempt with their state of being?The vast majority of people are fucking stubborn. It's as simple as that. They are often unable to pay attention to intelligent people - just waiting for them to stop talking so they can either say something cliché, or run away. They refuse to make even simple changes to their life until things get very dire. When they do, they refuse to stick to the changes because they don't see the purpose, or seek the comfort of their previous habits. Most people don't believe that they can make big changes … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Two Aspects of Self-ImprovementGeneral passive self-improvement is important. There is a lot of low hanging fruit here. I agree that the most important thing is to focus on the goals that are most important to you, and keep yourself accountable as to completing them, however general self-improvement, can free, as in free of effort, which is huge. I started modifying my diet without a specific goal. I followed a few podcasts and books related to eating/exercising/habits, like Brian Jonhson, Dave Asprey, and Rhonda Patrick. You… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 04:46 AM |
| 6 | Are You A Wimp And What To Do About ItThere's some good concepts here but some missing information, IMHO. We live in a world where many people are mostly already very self-involved and asshole-ish as a default (maybe moreso in big cities). They might be beta in their salary negotiation, with women, and with disrespectful neighbors, but by default if given an opportunity to be an asshole "secretly" where they feel there are limited consequences, they are gonna push on that button real hard. They might be an asshole all the time when … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 11:30 PM |
| 0 | Are You A Wimp And What To Do About ItOfftopic rambling: What's dangerous is the corporate asshole who also has skills and work ethic. It's good for their career, it's bad for everyone else. People who are naturally hardworking and skilled, but learn how to play "games" in the corp world, I have much disdain for. They are untouchable because they are difficult to replace due to their skill and work ethic, and they keep getting promotions because they throw everyone else under the bus, and suck manager dick, as explained by the other… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Start A Meditative/Repetitive Morning RoutinePerhaps you've got a very busy life with an already constrained sleep schedule, which would justify your actions -but are there many truly like you? Most people who do the "I need the extra sleep" thing just end up going to bed 30 minutes later and then showing up late for work to catch an extra 15 minutes of sleep. Speaking as someone who's been a slave to trying to get "enough sleep" at the expense of a morning ritual, I think that a large number of people are cutting corners and starting off … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 06:13 AM |
| 13 | Neediness, not giving a fuck, and abundance mentalityWhen becoming an adult one of the things you realize is most conversations, are quite useless. Some people have some ability to function and some talent, but a great number of people are useless at many things including having interesting philosophical conversations or pursuing ideas with enough vigor and drive to see them though. From that you can carve two conclusions, the first is that life is meaningless except for the top 5% of people who are not useless, the other is that there is a lot of… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Girls do not give a fuck about their orbitersbeta pity/hate isn't super productive. there are people who don't even get out of bed/basement until it's time to do groceries. Simply talking to girls, even as an orbiter or whatever, could be a step 1 for someone. Does judging them accomplish anything? I see a lot of "OMG what a cuck beta faggot" on TRP. Maybe if there were less threads like this those of us who come here for self-improvement wouldn't be put off | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/17 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Ask yourself, do you really deserve what you want?Praise management. Don't go on cloud 9 for too long when good things happen to you, and don't be in the dumps when you have a bad day. Running your life based on how people react to you is really dangerous. Undeserved praise will make you lazy, and undeserved scolding makes you afraid of pursuing risk and adventure. This is harder than it sounds especially if you have stubborn friends & family, who applaud you for meaningless achievements, scold you for minor mistakes, and WORST of all, provide … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/17 06:02 AM |
| 2 | If You Aren't Training a Martial Art You Should Be.I think the best approach with TRP is to grab a few ideas and commit to them, and ignore most of the rest; then revisit your list every few months. Unfortunately posts are positioned as "you MUST do x or you suck". I imagine most people here are already having trouble lifting on a regular basis, if you're one of those people I don't think starting a sport is realistic, just my 2c. Of course you should try everything and keep an open mind, but sometimes I find it overwhelming the variety of thing… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/17 05:43 AM |
| 1 | The ACTUAL real reason hot girls make you nervoussoliciting prostitutes is safer? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/17 05:32 AM |
| 2 | The ACTUAL real reason hot girls make you nervousErotic massage parlors are everywhere. It's not quite going all the way but it's a damn good start. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/17 08:23 PM |
| 5 | Nice - The worst compliment you can receiveNice is a very broad term. If someone describes you as nice when they've only met you once, it's usually a positive thing. It's an initial impression that generates curiosity. Everything is context. Nice gets thrown around a lot, as long as the other high SMV "adjectives" are also around "nice" is not always a bad thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/17 06:19 PM |
| 1 | A Permanent Virgin is the Male Version of a Rape Victiminteresting. I can't take any of your post at face value, but its a an interesting thought experiment. I think this can mostly be said about all people who are unsuccessful or abstinent, men and women. It's just that men are more vulnerable because no one is touching men below 7 who are not proactive. also, the people who tell shy men to just get laid are seen as a bad influence, and the people who tell unattractive women to get out there and find a man are seen as positive figures. both sexes h… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/17 07:45 PM |
| 5 | 20 Ways To Be More ProductiveI started with the Optimize Brain Johnson podcasts (specifically the ones where he interviews a book author). From there I discovered interesting books which I generally grab on audible. Eventually I discovered other interesting people, Dave Asprey, Joe Rogan, Louis Rossmann, Rhonda Patrick, Jordan Peterson. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/17 06:23 AM |
| 13 | 20 Ways To Be More ProductiveGrab some audiobooks on productivity, success, health etc. and listen to them while going for a walk. If you're stuck in a dark place mentally; where the internet has sucked out your attention span for reading, and your willpower for exercising, I'm not sure there's another way that exists to at least get the ball rolling besides this one. And yeah, the morning thing is so important. If you don't get shit done in the first half of the day, you can't get anything done, ever. Because you'll always… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/17 05:57 AM |
| 2 | How to accept that every girl you meet is settling for youthis. The only way there are lots of people better than you, is if you're average in a lot of things. Just like in business its the "competitive mixture" that gives someone the edge. People with lasting success are rarely exceptional, the concentrate on being quite good at a few important things while not being complete morons at everything else. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Beware Male Shit TestsThere's a lot of ignorant people with bad advice, men or women. Filtering advice doesn't begin or end with jealous or skeptical men, it's everyone and for the rest of your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/17 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Get out of your style comfort-zoneMixing up your wardrobe is a form of embracing discomfort for many people. A lot guys fucking hate shopping for clothes, or even just sorting their clothes and trying things on that they already own. Not to mention, the misery that goes with potentially trying on 13 pairs of pants that don't fit right in front of attractive store staff. And then regretting what you do end up buying. Especially if you live with other people, sitting in your room trying on stupid shit you haven't worn in years can… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/17 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Bitching about women makes you look like a bitchThere's nothing wrong with venting, it releases endorphoins and can spark an interesting conversation. But it doesn't belong in discussion forum about self-betterment. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/16 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Low BF beats sizeYeah I agree. If you've been 15% BF your whole life going down 10% probably isn't going to do shit for you. That's my 2c anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/16 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Every Red Pill Man Needs To Travel SoloExcellent Post. A solo trip could also be called a "grand gesture". There's too much advice out there focused on how to change your comfort zone while staying in your existing life. As if blowing up your comforts while having the same life is supposed to accomplish anything substantial. You are who you are today mostly because your environment is nudging you constantly towards the decisions you're making. You can't will yourself to be a totally different person without putting yourself in differ… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/16 09:48 AM |
| 4 | To the young man I saw at the gym last night:This post added nothing to my life. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/16 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Veganism Is NOT The Healthiest DietPursuing the "best" diet is stupid. Follow universally accepted rules as a baseline (eat less sugar & carbs, more vegetables, protein, healthy fat, vitamins) and tweak it from there with the foods that work best for your energy and behavior. Subtract & add foods for month and monitor your body's reponse. Ignore fad or absolute diets and combine the best information from all of them | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/16 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Clean up after yourselfI think being clean is important once you've committed to improving other shit in your life. It's not the first thing I'd tackle personally. I'm not a pig who lets dishes or clothes pile up but I do have clutter here and there. It's really not going to improve my life at all to raise the bar, and the work is going to be un-done by my roomates. While I get some therapeutic benefits from cleaning, there's no way I generate enough momentum from it to give a shit about the stuff that really matters.… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/16 03:45 AM |
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