clutchthirty Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Experience going to court?		clutchthirty	/r/Divorce_Men	04/12/25 06:36 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How long did your forensic accountant take to give you a final report? You paid $120k just to the forensic accountant? None of that was reapportioned at trial?? Seems so wildly unbalanced and unfair.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/07/26 04:09 AM
2	Never deleting your texts Read the post again. There is no mention of an affair here.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/26 03:27 PM
4	Never deleting your texts They won't.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/26 02:36 PM
3	Entrei pro grupo 🥳 She filed those things after the divorce? Why not settle it in the divorce?	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/26 08:36 PM
4	Wife cancelled Property Division the day before. Why TF would one contempt motion cost you $15k?	/r/Divorce_Men	08/06/26 03:33 AM
10	Frustrating to finally start to see the light My former SAHW is the same. Somehow has convinced herself she did everything when the literal opposite was the truth. The delusion is insane.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/05/26 01:49 PM
2	Comparing child support in California versus Quebec Call a lawyer in both jurisdictions and pay for their advice.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/05/26 02:04 AM
2	Can my wife first leave me and then have me pay her child support for 18 years? Not for a 1.5 year marriage.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/05/26 12:49 AM
-4	Amicable split talk feels like a trap Lawyers are for dumb people or people who are divorcing dumb people. OP, are you dumb? Or can you figure out what a fair asset split, etc. would be? If you can, go to mediation. If she doesn't agree to a fair split, then get a lawyer.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/26 01:08 PM
5	Anyone else wonder how a sweet loving giving woman... I never saw her again. Lucky.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/04/26 04:38 AM
2	Experience going to court? 4 years	/r/Divorce_Men	08/12/25 08:39 PM
1	Experience going to court? Utah	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/25 02:53 PM
2	Experience going to court? I have another house I can sell to cover equity. The issue is she also wants the marital house, but she isn't the holder of the mortgage. She's just being awful.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/12/25 09:19 PM
2	Divorce made us stronger creating a stoic persona Absolutely insane and hilarious to paint the thinner skin man on the planet as a stoic. Lmfao forever.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/08/25 08:44 PM
5	Kids Summer RV Tradition Event Wife Imploded This sounds like some of the most toxic shit imaginable and I literally cannot believe you have allowed it to go on for 5 years. Stop sharing a house with her, get out now.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/25 06:23 PM
9	Is it me or are most of these divorce attorneys lazy and guiding male clients towards accepting bad divorce settlements? I don't doubt that you're right, but there is nothing equitable about giving this woman half the equity from his house that he bought with his money, all before they were married. Family law is fucked.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/06/25 04:39 AM
11	Is it me or are most of these divorce attorneys lazy and guiding male clients towards accepting bad divorce settlements? How the fuck can this be real? It's a premarital asset that he bought in cash before they got married. How could she possibly in any sane world be entitled to half of it? Half the gain in equity since the marriage less the cost basis makes sense. Nothing else does.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/06/25 04:10 AM
1	Body count? There is nothing in the article you linked proving (or even suggesting) that women with higher body counts are less able to have a long-term relationship.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/05/25 04:23 AM
-2	Body count? Pretty flimsy, imo. Only looking at divorce rates for the first five years of marriage and only looking at first marriages. Also, women with 3 to 9 partners were more likely to stay married than women with 2 partners? Of course women with only one partner stay married, they are the most likely to stay in bad marriages for religious reasons. All the way around pretty unconvincing.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/05/25 03:21 AM
-1	Body count? Churchy girls have the highest body counts, in my experience.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/05/25 02:54 AM
6	Body count? Research shows there is a direct correlation between a woman’s body count and her capacity to successfully pair bond in a long term relationship Care to link some of this research?	/r/Divorce_Men	21/05/25 02:53 AM
1	Married 10 years But in the proposal I’m going to tell her I’m skipping that even though I am entitled Do not do this.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/05/25 07:15 PM
5	Wedding photos Buddy, tell her to kick rocks. You can keep half the photos, at minimum.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/03/25 09:03 PM
4	Wedding photos No it isn't. That's part of his life and part of his story. It is completely normal to have those photos. What if his kids want to see them someday?	/r/Divorce_Men	15/03/25 07:53 PM
3	Need a reality check Technically she’s divorcing me. Even better reason to not care whether she respects you. If I received 1500 a month in child support, I wouldn’t even know how to spend all that on the kids? By providing them a comfortable home with good food to eat, clothes on their back, and fun activities to do. Anything that's left over can go towards a college fund, if you are that precious about it. Don't walk away from the child support. It's for your kids	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/25 06:13 PM
3	Need a reality check I don’t want to be like those woman that everyone in this sub is pissed at Child support is not the problem. Alimony is. It’s like if I push for that, she loses respect for me. You're divorcing her. You should be way beyond caring whether she respects you or not. Get the child support. It isn't for you. It's for your kids.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/25 06:01 PM
2	weird charges in wifes account He's getting divorced and is presumably separated.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/25 05:27 AM
6	Guys it’s really simple. Don’t get married period! Found the guy who gargles Trump's balls.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/25 04:16 PM
29	Guys it’s really simple. Don’t get married period! I wish Trump would freakin change these bullshit divorce laws and make more “Common sense divorce laws”. Trump passed the single largest tax increase on divorced men in 2017 when he signed into law the change disallowing deductions for child support and alimony. Trump is a literal garbage can who doesn't care about us, period.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/25 03:05 PM
2	Head of household filing status proposed for elimination by Republicans I think you responded to the wrong comment.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/25 03:14 PM
1	Head of household filing status proposed for elimination by Republicans Instead of twisting yourself into a pretzel to defend your political party, how about you tell us the benefits you think this "biased" article is leaving out.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/25 06:57 AM
3	Wage garnishment for federal DOD workers And you ex doesn't pay taxes - and you don't get a tax credit for Alimony (thank the 2017 tax cut). An absolutely insane change IMO. I would vote against trump for this single issue, if there weren't a million others.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/25 08:08 PM
1	He’s right. He lost the primary, even when excluding super delegates. Educate yourself. People on the left didn't vote for him, and you think he was going to win over the insane and stupid right wing? Please.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/11/24 12:02 AM
2	Am i evil ? i just don’t have any feelings towards them which is worrying me … am i an evil person like she used to say ? You aren't evil but this does sound like a personality disorder. Some people shouldn't be parents and it seems like you're one of them.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/11/24 08:46 PM
1	He’s right. He lost the primary. That's it. He got less votes. Keep blaming the Democrat party Boogeyman all you want but it's just not true. And Bernie's point here is absurd. It implies the right didn't abandon the working class, that the right has policies that will help the working class. They do not. The Democrats didn't abandon the working class. The working class abandoned the Democrats and the country and gave us Donald trump. Again.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/11/24 08:37 PM
0	He’s right. He lost the primary. That's it. He got less votes. Keep blaming the Democrat party Boogeyman all you want but it's just not true. And Bernie's point here is absurd. It implies the right didn't abandon the working class, that the right has policies that will help the working class. They do not. The Democrats didn't abandon the working class. The working class abandoned the Democrats and the country and gave us Donald trump. Again.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/11/24 08:37 PM
1	He’s right. He lost the primary. That's it. He got less votes. Keep blaming the Democrat party Boogeyman all you want but it's just not true. And Bernie's point here is absurd. It implies the right didn't abandon the working class, that the right has policies that will help the working class. They do not. The Democrats didn't abandon the working class. The working class abandoned the Democrats and the country and gave us Donald trump. Again.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/11/24 08:37 PM
6	Trump winning the election is very bad for men and men need to be concerned about trump winning. Whereas the Trump campaign made an effort to speak directly to men. In what ways, exactly?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/11/24 07:52 AM
–	Former President's callout to Black men touches a nerve among Democrats. Is election-year misogyny at play? With my reply getting rid of the Electoral College, Won't happen but it definitely should. The EC is a disaster for democracy. packing the Supreme Court McConnell already did this. Democrats are trying to reverse it. The supreme court has twice as many conservatives as liberals in a country with more liberals than conservatives. You think that makes sense? Lol. repealing the 2nd Amendment, Love to see some evidence of this. Won't happen anyway. Also, trump banned bump stocks while Biden did nothing. censoring…	/r/MensRights	13/10/24 03:39 PM
–	Former President's callout to Black men touches a nerve among Democrats. Is election-year misogyny at play? With my reply This, but unironically. Trump is trying to end our Republic. That's why dozens of his former staffers, cabinet members, even fucking top military brass (who notoriously do not get involved in this shit) and openly against him and fighting his re-election bid.	/r/MensRights	13/10/24 03:12 PM
3	Pre-trial recommendations from the judge . OP made the decision as much as the ex did. That's the point. OP made the decision just as much as the ex, but who bears all the risk and responsibility now? The man. It's not right.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/10/24 11:36 AM
–	Pre-trial recommendations from the judge 27F married for 30 years to look after 2 children. Can't get a job because no consistent experience for the last 20 years, and have to rebuild life at the age of 57. Unless he forced her to be a SAHM, those are all choices she made and almost certainly wanted. She got all her financial needs taken care of for three decades. Why does he bear the burden of those choices now?	/r/Divorce_Men	11/10/24 11:01 PM
2	Ok, I'm getting kinda sick of this The appeal is to get (scared) women's votes. You almost had it, but fumbled. The idea is to get scared men's votes, which is why no major party is promoting actually doing this but there are fear mongers out there acting like it could actually happen (it can't). The fact that OP posted this and that he was scared Harris is going to do this is proof that it works on some simple minded fellows.	/r/MensRights	08/10/24 10:53 PM
15	Kamala Harris doesn't acknowledge that the draft controls men's bodies. There's no agenda toward alimony or visitation reform. Nothing about financial liberation for men for unwanted babies. If anything, they want no abortion rights which means no financial relief rights. And Trump's tax cuts made it so alimony is taxable to the payer instead of the recipient. The worst tax provision ever passed.	/r/MensRights	08/10/24 12:50 AM
16	Kamala Harris doesn't acknowledge that the draft controls men's bodies. Meanwhile, the other guy dodged the draft and attacks fallen soldiers and their families.	/r/MensRights	07/10/24 10:19 PM
3	Trump is doing poorly with female voters, Kamala is doing poorly with male voters so why is the narrative only that "Trump has to win over female voters"? The USA aren't a democracy Ugh, I wish this idea would die. Yes, the United States is most assuredly a representative democracy.	/r/MensRights	05/10/24 03:12 PM
2	Trump is doing poorly with female voters, Kamala is doing poorly with male voters so why is the narrative only that "Trump has to win over female voters"? A democracy was described by the founders as "2 sheep and 3 wolves voting to decide what's for dinner." Not the exact quote but close enough. The problem with this framing is that it makes one group evil (the majority wolves) and one virtuous (the minority sheep). A better analogy would be two wolves and three wolves deciding what's for dinner. Should the two wolves get to decide what the three wolves eat? Nope. Dude, you think you know the history of the EC. You don't. It was borne due to the f…	/r/MensRights	05/10/24 03:11 PM
5	Trump is doing poorly with female voters, Kamala is doing poorly with male voters so why is the narrative only that "Trump has to win over female voters"? New York City and LA should not determine what Boise, Idaho, or Bismarck, North Dakota have to say. Boise, Idaho and Bismarck, North Dakota should not determine what new York city and LA have to say. See how that works? It's almost the same kind of thing as what the Senate (2 per state, regardless of population in that state) is meant for. You still have a house of representatives scaling with population - but the senate is 2 per state, period. Yeah, and this system is stupid AF. North Dakota ha…	/r/MensRights	05/10/24 01:57 PM
2	Trump is doing poorly with female voters, Kamala is doing poorly with male voters so why is the narrative only that "Trump has to win over female voters"? you’re never gonna accept you’re wrong Cause I'm not. The EC is a disaster for democracy. What's worse than the tyranny of the majority? The tyranny of the minority. Rural states should not get what equates to more votes simply because they have smaller populations.	/r/MensRights	05/10/24 01:53 PM
2	Trump is doing poorly with female voters, Kamala is doing poorly with male voters so why is the narrative only that "Trump has to win over female voters"? the states should have a relatively equal say in sho becomes president Perfectly demonstrates how wildly stupid the EC is. States are not citizens. Citizens are. Why TF should people who happen to live in underpopulated states get a larger vote than someone who lives in rural California?	/r/MensRights	05/10/24 01:52 PM
-15	Trump is doing poorly with female voters, Kamala is doing poorly with male voters so why is the narrative only that "Trump has to win over female voters"? This is such a stupid talking point. No, what it means is that millions of people are disenfranchised simply because of where they live. LA is a city with millions of diverse people. It doesn't vote and wouldn't decide anything. People who live there vote and conservatives there get their vote nullified due to the EC.	/r/MensRights	05/10/24 12:01 PM
-21	Trump is doing poorly with female voters, Kamala is doing poorly with male voters so why is the narrative only that "Trump has to win over female voters"? No. Land shouldn't vote. People should.	/r/MensRights	05/10/24 11:10 AM
7	What advice would you give somebody considering a divorce? What do you wish you would have known? Would she be able to give her vaccines without my consent? I fucking hope so.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/09/24 04:00 AM
1	Glamorous mugshot of woman, 18, arrested after crushing man under wheels of his own Porsche Remindme! 6 months	/r/MensRights	21/09/24 03:23 AM
1	Glamorous mugshot of woman, 18, arrested after crushing man under wheels of his own Porsche Remindme! 1 month	/r/MensRights	21/09/24 03:22 AM
1	Feminists hate rapper Robbie Tripp because he loves his wife too much and because he’s Mormon Feel free to point out anything in my comment you think is subjective, because from where I sit these are all facts.	/r/MensRights	09/09/24 11:31 PM
1	Feminists hate rapper Robbie Tripp because he loves his wife too much and because he’s Mormon Buddy where to start. the adults all act and think like emotionally stunted 13 year olds. They can't watch rated R movie or drink coffee cause.. Jesus? they require tithing payments from broke people while hoarding hundreds of billions of dollars in property, cash, and investments. "If you have to choose between groceries and tithing, choose tithing and the Lord will provide" is an absolutely disgusting and manipulative Creed. they lie and cheat and steal, just like their conman pedophile founde…	/r/MensRights	08/09/24 09:33 PM
8	Feminists hate rapper Robbie Tripp because he loves his wife too much and because he’s Mormon It was aggressively, almost purposefully, bad. Also, fuck Mormons.	/r/MensRights	08/09/24 02:38 AM
4	Do I have to pay a future ex wife alimony if I am already paying my first ex child support and alimony? I guess the lesson learned is never get married. You should've learned that lesson the first time, TBH.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/08/24 07:42 PM
-27	Mother took her 14-year-oId son to the doctor and gave the doctor's 12-year-old daughter permission to stay in the room while her son was being examined completely naked despite her son not wanting the girl to be in the room. The son was belittled for being upset by what happened. It got like 9 upvotes. Let's not make a mountain out of a molehill.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/08/24 07:13 PM
5	Responses to married men are more happier. LMFAO. My kids would indicate otherwise. Good try though!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/08/24 12:56 PM
3	Responses to married men are more happier. I'm saying you never really know what the other person is thinking, only what they are telling you and how you are interpreting it. Maybe you'll find this out someday.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/08/24 04:48 AM
-5	Responses to married men are more happier. is my wife happy? I don't know, and the truth is, neither do you.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/08/24 04:15 AM
5	Responses to married men are more happier. Everything.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/08/24 04:14 AM
1	Janice Fiamengo: Women in politics Can you give us a couple examples of Harris using her "woman card?" Thanks.	/r/MensRights	10/08/24 12:45 AM
1	Hating Men Is Now The Democrats' Campaign Strategy. Bill Barr rescinded the cole memo and went after marijuana users under trump. All states that currently have legal marijuana are run by Democrats and those that keep it outlawed are run by Republicans. Your assertion that republicans don't care about pot is demonstrably untrue and insane.	/r/MensRights	08/08/24 05:27 PM
-2	Hating Men Is Now The Democrats' Campaign Strategy. Do Republicans care if youngo to prison for smoking the devils lettuce? No LMFAO. Tell that to Trump and Bill Barr.	/r/MensRights	08/08/24 04:41 PM
-7	Women can avoid sitting next to men on this airline Literally any source, dude. How about this one: https://www.nytimes.com/2023/06/02/opinion/india-women-rape.html Or this one https://bmcpublichealth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12889-022-13182-0 Or virtually any article or research paper on rape in India. Why are you denying that it's a problem in your country? Wake up. If someone said obesity was a problem in America, I wouldn't deny it, because it is. So it is with rape in your country.	/r/MensRights	08/08/24 02:59 AM
-5	Women can avoid sitting next to men on this airline Adult males even today are not considered victims of rape legally. Right, just one of the many reasons your little infographic is meaningless. Marital rape isn't even illegal in your country, for God's sake. Rape is exceptionally high in India. That's a fact. https://www.nytimes.com/2023/06/02/opinion/india-women-rape.html Thanks, bye.	/r/MensRights	08/08/24 02:50 AM
-9	Women can avoid sitting next to men on this airline LMFAO, totally meaningless. Rape is wildly underreported in India, not to mention different definitions, etc. Sexual assault is extremely common in India, to the point where they have different train cars for women.	/r/MensRights	08/08/24 01:53 AM
6	The Common Thing Between The Left, Feminism and Islam is Hatred LMFAO, no. Ever heard of intersex people? And also what does that have to do with anything?	/r/MensRights	27/07/24 11:01 PM
20	The Common Thing Between The Left, Feminism and Islam is Hatred The left is based on hating and demonizing the rich. The right is based on hating and demonizing the poor (welfare queens, remember), the queer, the trans, every minority, the left.. pretty much everyone, actually. Good try though kiddo.	/r/MensRights	27/07/24 10:47 PM
-3	Students accused of sexual misconduct deserve a fair trial before suspension or worse: what Project 2025 has to say If you think project 25 isn't conservative ideology, then you have less than no understanding. Calling liberals the "Looney left" exposes you as a rwnj, or at the very least someone who listens to their talking heads. Trump is a garbage human who has no policies at all except gaining more money and power for himself.	/r/MensRights	26/07/24 04:07 AM
10	Students accused of sexual misconduct deserve a fair trial before suspension or worse: what Project 2025 has to say She seems like the type to push extremely anti-men policies. Sorry, if you want me to vote for the worst president in history who is actively tearing our country apart, you're going to need stronger evidence than your feelings about what she might do.	/r/MensRights	26/07/24 03:47 AM
10	Students accused of sexual misconduct deserve a fair trial before suspension or worse: what Project 2025 has to say Trump is FULL of pro-trump ideas and big macs and very little else.	/r/MensRights	26/07/24 03:38 AM
-13	Students accused of sexual misconduct deserve a fair trial before suspension or worse: what Project 2025 has to say Yes, this entire sub is basically r/the Donald lite. It sucks because mens rights are important, but we'll get nowhere with these chuds making it all about conservative ideology (using that term loosely because today's conservatives believe in very little) and the worst president/garbage human being on the planet.	/r/MensRights	26/07/24 03:09 AM
-3	Students accused of sexual misconduct deserve a fair trial before suspension or worse: what Project 2025 has to say Lol	/r/MensRights	26/07/24 03:07 AM
33	Students accused of sexual misconduct deserve a fair trial before suspension or worse: what Project 2025 has to say This particular thing is fine. On the whole, project 25 is shit smeared on paper.	/r/MensRights	26/07/24 03:06 AM
-4	How about men’s right to their own money? Child support is fine. Alimony is the problem.	/r/MensRights	24/07/24 02:46 PM
4	Notice how nobody cares about the man who was killed in the Trump assassination? he would be speaking to her again in the coming days and weeks. Probably just after he delivers his healthcare plan that's two weeks away.	/r/MensRights	18/07/24 11:53 PM
3	Narcissism seems to be the new buzzword today. Did or are you dealing with that in your present or past divorce? It was used when you started saying no and stopped being controlled by her. So true. My ex and her family called me controlling when I stopped agreeing to her purchasing every single thing she wanted. If men have an opinion, it's called controlling.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/07/24 04:14 PM
–	Alimony Lol no.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/07/24 02:28 AM
6	Can I be a dick with her lawyer ? So it's about your pride. You need to let that go for now.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/06/24 04:56 AM
4	Can I be a dick with her lawyer ? What do you think you will gain from this? Answer: nothing.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/06/24 04:02 AM
14	Thinking of leaving Harsh but true. OP seems to think he's going to be crushing interesting and attractive strange as a 50 year old dude and it's just not reality at all.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/24 12:27 AM
–	How much did it really cost you? and it goes down by 40% if she remarries It doesn't go away entirely? Wut	/r/Divorce_Men	05/06/24 05:58 PM
4	Conservatives are right to keep women out of the draft I feel there's room to work with conservatives LMFAO	/r/MensRights	31/05/24 10:34 PM
-13	Former NFL Defensive End Accused of Rape…in 1994 Too bad this sub has to be right wing nonsense. Men could really use a place where they can discuss issues affecting them without the terrible stink of rightthink.	/r/MensRights	23/11/23 02:56 AM