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A lot of people don’t advertise that they’re ENM since it’s still heavily stigmatized outside of very liberal circles. A lot of celebrity couples are probably ENM and we only hear about the dramatic ones. It’s quite common in military couples and there’s even Christian pastors that are into it - all on the down low of course. I run in VERY liberal circles. Regardless, virtually all of the couples fall under the basic scenario I describe. I can tell you from personal experience that most poly peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:31 PM
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Hahahaha.... How can you do more of what is already being done a lot? Or perhaps you are suggesting that women can lie MORE than they currently do in dating? Well... the next time I sleep with a woman who claimed to be a fashion model only to find out she lied... I will at least pretend to be hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:22 PM
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people are too young here, they think a man lying wo a woman to get sex is something new 🤣 where do you think all this distrust for men comes from? I think you misunderstand the era. Those are examples of guys fudging their resume. Today we pretend to be an entirely different person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:18 PM
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I just explained your whole conversation and why it's pointless and why you are both wrong. It seems to have been above your ability to understand. Think on it and perhaps in time the answer will come to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:14 PM
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You see them everywhere you go. Most people end up in long-term relationships and married. So, clearly, women value other things besides just looks. All you have to do is step outside your house to observe this. What I see is that average guys get short shrift from average women when in relationships together. Not always, but in most situations. I don't really consider many of the women in my country worthwhile companions for this reason. Strength of attraction matters. I'd prefer to have someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:08 PM
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Murder is illegal because it takes away someone's life... it's theft of something. Owning guns does not take anything away from anyone. Do you see the difference? Making this analogy means you have not really thought the issue through.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:03 PM
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Thanks for the insights! While I don't agree with your response to the first part, your last sentence seems to explain a lot on to the why behind the gun-friendly culture in many regions of the US; after having developed a culture of more or less lawless land where everybody has to stick together or look for their own safety its understandable that people don't want to give that up, especially if in a region like yours where the guns seem to have worked for a long time. One incident (well, you r…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:48 PM
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In the 50s, a man would romance a woman, treat her like a queen, give her all the love and attention…and then once she had a few kids (resulting in stretch marks, saggy boobs, etc.) he would be flirting with the secretary, stuffing dirty magazines under the mattress, etc. How many guys do you think had secretaries in the 50s? These are the dudes who openly cheat now and their wives just fucking take it. Top of the top. Most guys in the 1950s were pretty fucking happy with their aging, average lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:29 PM
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If you're going to lie or "be immoral" (whatever that means) the circumstances of the market aren't going to influence that behavior. Not entirely accurate. I've personally known a lot of men who struggle with this and don't actually want to do it. To the point where they actually stop after a while. It's completely true that circumstances are pushing a good chunk of the men who do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:24 PM
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Dating in modern times is a lot different than it has ever been. So we need different answers on how to fill these things. I would assume we explore these options before we just go ahead and tank the whole thing. Very interesting perspective. This would only tank the whole thing if a huge swath of men begin to follow it. I don't see signs of that just yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:22 PM
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Omg…. stop projecting your past relationships onto other people 💀 Your wife was a liar and cheater… Those are just traits certain people have regardless of gender. Don't be crazy. All people have a hamster, however the female hamster is typically much more robust and well used. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:19 PM
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There are different types of morality. I have chosen to follow the Red Pill moral framework whereby this kind of behavior is neutral... and so are many of the lies women tell and use in dating. We see this as just part of the dance. This is counter-cultural.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:18 PM
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Thing is that once you've reached US levels it will take decades to see considerable effects. In the US the whole affair has reached the dimension of a multi-generational issue. People need to learn about responsible gun safety, and, and, and. This takes a long, long time. Bullshit. If you grow up in gun culture like I did... gun safety is a part of that. The folks who don't follow gun safety are the same people who ignore all the laws about restrictions. My sister married some former dealer dip…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:10 PM
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Bro, I’m gorgeous. I’m 38 and look better than most women 15 years younger than me. For real I’m usually the prettiest woman in a room full of random women. But you can believe whatever you want 🤷🏻‍♀️ I said usually for a reason. I've been around long enough to have seen exceptions. Monogamy is something that everyone wants from a spouse but nobody want's to give. In a relationship we give monogamy in order to receive it. Sometimes a person will allow their spouse to be non monogamous in order t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:57 PM
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Okay, and men care about looks just as much. Don't the boys lust after the cheerleaders and the ones with bigger chests? It just isn't the same. Men simply are not as picky as women in regards to looks. Now, I'm generally cool with this. I've worked on myself to a point where I actually tend to benefit from this more than not. What I find irritating is this modern female hypocrisy where anything unfair that doesn't benfit them is evil and must be destroyed, while all beneficial unfairness must b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:50 PM
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Spot on. We are talking about averages here and the average woman has far more control over the happening of the relationship than the average man. A lot of women enjoy this sort of control and are not after Chad because then they will lose the upper hand. Most women love being worshipped so a guy that has a lot more options and would be more likely to lose interest can be threatening for a long term relationship. I just don't feel like this is accurately describing what goes on out there. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:37 PM
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I’m ENM so I do get to have sex outside of the marriage. This is usually female codeword for being on the low end of attractiveness. I've messed around with more than my fair share of ENM women and it's definitely a common thread. So for me at least, Tinder and having new partners isn’t really a confidence boost. That being said, new relationship energy and getting messages from a new partner is exhilarating. It’s that butterfly feeling of having a crush that usually dissipates with time. I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:16 PM
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Switzerland is also one of the happiest and richest countries in the world. Guns in the US need to be far more regulated and far too many idiots own one. I live in one of those states that is trying very hard to restrict gun ownership. Violence has increased by 80% since they passed those laws. It takes a very stupid person to think bad guys are going to follow your rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:55 PM
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He's American so he probably thinks the solution is for the girls to carry guns. The type of American who likes to carry guns also tends to support women having their own spaces. Instead this dude is likely one of those soy boys who fears guns and thinks all the women on the bus need hormones to grow beards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:49 PM
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She’s always said in the media that she was a homebody and introvert though That doesn't make it true. My xWife always said the same shit, but turns out every time I was out of town for work she was shaking her ass at the local disco. Even found out when she was on a work trip she stripped naked and danced with other dudes in a private room. When a woman says something like this about herself... only stupid people take it seriously. Just because she stays home 25 days a month doesn't mean she is…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:42 PM
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I think I would also add pride to the list of weakness, because that's one I find myself exploiting most from men. A little humility would go a long way to saving these men from my morally questionable tendencies. Hahaha! Attempts to exploit my pride have historically been the most likely to succeed. Luckily very few women seem intelligent enough to realize this. You have a good point about fear being useful in some situations. However, men have to be risk takers in order to be successful. So, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:27 PM
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Remember back in the good old days when soldiers were from the scum of the earth and now they're seen as professionals When was this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:21 PM
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Entitlement maybe? Ostracism is the culprit. Most mammals react similar under these situations... and it's particularly strong in herd animals where one alpha male mates with all the females of the herd. The ostracized males become unstable and violent... often coming back to challenge the leader for dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:20 PM
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If we were all more selfish relationships would be more real. Women only settle down with a second choice because the man accepts, he’s not a passive party. No, it's a bait and switch. Most of these guys are entirely oblivious and many of them go to the grave never realizing all of the misery and frustration in their relationship came from lack of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:17 PM
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I should have said in my OP "have children or raise some children". Because typically in caveman days, women would collectively raise all the children of the tribe. Only at very young ages. Once a boy hit a certain development point he joined the men to be raised properly as a man. Alexander the Great was a good example of a boy who stayed with his mother way too long. It caused him to develop what other's considered overly effeminate traits... to which is response as an adult was to overcompens…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:14 PM
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Wouldn’t there be benefits of just doing it once though? It might help them change their view from water to food. It's possible, but I believe unlikely. Buying a prostitute is not that different than masturbation from an emotional perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:11 PM
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Nah. You think all women have the type of personality where they enjoy bullshit? That doesn’t make any sense. My dad was chill af like it’s going to make sense for me to enjoy a dude who is drama? The type of woman who values peace in a relationship tends to get married young and stay married. So Yes, we primarily deal with women who enjoy and highly value excitement in varying degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:09 PM
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So paying for it would still help them? Um... no I don't think so. The reason is that it's always a transaction and it teaches them to see all relationship actions with women as transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:01 PM
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Sources for any of these claims? This information is commonly available. The sky is also blue. Don't believe me?... go look.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:59 PM
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I have a female friend who does not have children at age 44. She never married and actually is still a virgin (so she says). She is tall, not bad looking, smart... and deeply, deeply religious. She has spent the last 20 years helping other people raise their children. She teaches and nannies. She is a very valuable woman to everyone around her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:57 PM
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What a depressing mindset you guys have So... you find reality depressing? Look, I don't make the rules of how the world see's me. Instead I work within those constraints placed upon me to achieve what I want from my life. It's very true that people in general do not care about my life unless I do something to make them care. Random guys go missing all the time and even their family struggles to care. I was talking to a black lady the other day who very deeply understands this concept because in…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:55 PM
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I'm curious what would you define as weak/strong men, clearly letting a woman humiliate you publicly is on the weak list so what else? I have some opinions too but you go first. I think common items are lack of emotional control... that includes anger. If you are smacking a woman around then you are weak. Lack of self control is also weakness... perhaps my biggest personal weakness. Inability to stand up for yourself is another very common weakness... a man needs to demand respect or remove that…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:47 PM
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From a male perspective... a lot of their stuff seems overly picky, but I realize they are just as picky when looking at me as they are looking at themselves. I once met a woman who used makeup to create the look of shadows to make her boobs look bigger. To my opinion that's like using a sharpie to draw on six pack abs for myself. However, I have a feeling a lot of women would prefer me with the sharpie drawings... so there you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:40 PM
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god that's so cute. it's amazing, ill bet she'll be proud of that for a long time I understand about the doxxing. I want to make sure she is good at lots of things as she grows older. I believe this will help to grow her self esteem and carry her through the times when she is down on herself. She is super competitive, doesn't get along well with other girls, and often the boys treat her poorly. She beat some boys in a race on bikes over the summer and they ganged up on her telling her that she c…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:58 PM
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I'm probably going to hell for laughing about it. I'm not even sure you should feel bad about it. Weak men have no place in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:40 PM
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If she was willing to forgive you and most people have taken advantage of her, I’m sure that’s not a woman with a strong enough constitution for you...it’s going to take a special one. Keep the faith, I think she’s out there. Thanks! I really appreciate the positive outlook. My goal is to just make sure that the women who treat me well, I treat well in return. The rest I will leave to whatever forces control such things. I wish you the very best in life!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:39 PM
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no, a european but I remembered you. it's nice to see you post here again! Which country? Sometimes it's very hard for Continental Europeans to understand what goes on in the US because our cultures tend to be very different. Thanks for remembering me! My daughter just completed Ski camp and placed #1. Her times were so good she could beat almost all of the 6 year olds at age 4. She spent the last 4 months with me because she couldn't get along with her mom. Actually her mom slapped her face ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:36 PM
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So? Elon Musk makes a lot of money, but very few people drive Teslas. Most divorces are uncontested. Elon Musk is a great example. This guy was almost entirely wiped out by his divorce. So much so that he struggled to even begin Tesla because his X-Wife had used the courts to steal all his money. ​ "Proven false" is not a thing that actually exists in legal scholarship. That's why people are found "not guilty" rather than "innocent." For all you're on about divorce lawyers, it's entirely possibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:29 PM
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are you the cobra guy who has a 4yo daughter and used to post a lot last summer? Both of those things are true. Your screenname seems vaguely familiar. Are you an Australian or New Zealander?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:23 PM
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It was pretty sad and kinda funny, but some people got no self awareness. This is less about self awareness and much more about male weakness. If someone had taught this guy to have a spinal cord she would have shut the fuck up quick... and would probably respect him much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:17 PM
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The dont care part makes sense, thanks. Look, in my experience most women in western nations do not value a man unless he is either very good looking or very wealthy. They are fine partnering with a man they consider an "equal", but will treat that man like shit compared to a guy who brings more to the table. You can avoid this scenario by dating women from other cultures where they truly value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:14 PM
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and I’m actually in love with the average guy? What does this mean? I mean the discussion is about how you treat a man... not how you feel about him. Just because you claim to love someone doesn't mean you treat them well. As a veteran of many relationships... I can say honestly that women often treat me much worse once they fall in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:11 PM
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Yea but some men think it is about look and if you go from dating hot guys to dating average guy then you’re using them. Excluding a tiny handful of very delusional men, this mostly due to the woman being lazy, selfish, and stupid. A great example is a female friend of mine who about 6 or 7 years ago made sex tapes with her then boyfriend who is a very well endowed man and the father of her son. She sold these videos on adult websites and they have not come out of circulation. Now, she got a ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:08 PM
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Divorce lawyers make billions every year. Well the most recent study showed that when a claim of abuse is made during a divorce proceeding it’s proven false about 75% of the time. When an abuse claim is made in a normal situation it’s proven false just under 10% of the time. That’s a huge gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:49 PM
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I’ve known a bunch of guys just like that. Im telling you that once they get access to sex, then they start wanting relationships. It’s almost part of the red pill journey. You start out with women treating you like dirt. After lots of hard work and effort you become good with women. After a while you start to want something more than just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:45 PM
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It’s finding that one needle in a haystack to hold your attention that’s tough. Well... I hold out strong hope. I partially fell in love back in 2019, and despite the sex being unbelievably good... I still couldn't stay faithful and wound up walking away. She wanted to forgive and keep trying but I felt like I was just dragging her through the mud, so I ended it. In 2020 I paid for her apartment during the lockdown... maybe 6 months of rent, but I did that because I think she is a wonderful pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:39 PM
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and even if you didn't earn it during the marriage, if you mix it with marital money, it becomes marital assets I think it's worth saying multiple times. This only applies in rare circumstances where the woman does NOT bring false claims of abuse. Currently something like 60% of divorces where lawyers are hired... meaning people with money also file claims of abuse of some kind against the man. Of those claims it is estimated that over 75% are false claims because it is so advantageous to make t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:34 PM
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This is pure bullshit. All the woman has to do is claim some kind of abuse and the court will not only forgive hidden assets, but also fuck the dude over as hard as possible. The abuse claim doesn't even need to be substantiated... the accusation is enough by itself. I've personally seen and also personally experienced this kind of bullshit... except instead of hidden assets, I got smacked with hidden debts! Imagine you find your wife racked up $100,000 in debt taking vacations with another man …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:29 PM
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I think there's a rift between men who claim that they want to get only sex from women You are perhaps viewing these guys incorrectly. You can live 3 days without water and 30 days without food on average. The guys who are thirsty are so entirely absorbed with the desire for water that they don't realize that they also need to eat. Once they get some water... the hunger starts to set in. So, this is really about the prioritization of needs. Very few men can live happily using prostitutes in plac…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:22 PM
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So, yeah: women have better friendships than men do, statistically. This is primarily due to how our society treats men and masculinity. In my grandfather's generation his friendships were deep. They had men only spaces where they could gather and bond. Women have systematically taken all of those things from us. Even the fucking boy scouts must take girls now... so this starts at a young age. In my city we used to have all male sports clubs where you could exercise, shower, then smoke cigars an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:18 PM
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My advice is to slow down. Or perhaps just pick a woman with good qualities to stay with for a while. I think men are better in relationships with women they don’t have romantic love for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:58 PM
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I was married from age 20 to age 27. I had no trouble at that time sticking to one woman. Even after the divorce which was very hard, I was still having no issue being with just one woman. Actually, at the start dating was very hard for me at that time. Even a few years later after considerable effort in learning to date and becoming Red Pilled, I was still very interested in a long term marriage. It probably wasn’t until 32 or 33 when I had hit my peak for dating and I had a lot of experience t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:56 PM
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It also might be looked upon as similar to a porn addiction except you haven’t escalated to dating midgets lol but a type of psychological addiction nonetheless that affects an important part of your life. So what’s the solution do you think? Also have u toned back your casual sex escapades? I wouldn't call it an addiction. I know guys that were sleeping with 30 or 40 new women a year. Now, I had a few years like that when I was doing international sales. I'd say the sex was less the goal than h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 11:17 PM
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This may be an indicator of your youth. Maybe I feel the way I do because I'm old and have lost my passion for most things. Or it could be you just haven't hit the number required.... however this is lower liklihood. Just try to stay the way you are... even if it causes you pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:46 PM
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The Fremont fair event happened to me around 2006 or 2007. I’ve had men step in and help me from creeps on the street before, not sure why I was ignored then. Something about it being crowded, I’ve had issues like this in crowds before, like at concerts, where no one helps even when yelling for it. LOL... Yesterday at the playground this little girl aged maybe 1.5 was sitting on a small bench when this other little girl starts pushing the bench and making it rock... which scared the baby and mad…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:20 PM
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Dumb question to ask if you enjoyed it but wondering after so much of it how it made you feel? So by the opposite you mean not exciting anymore, mundane? Now that’s another issue…you haven’t found anyone special or interesting. Do you think the high n count caused that in some way? The only dumb question is no question. Any attempt to seek understanding is by definition intelligent. The core issue in my emotional state is predictability. I've just gotten to a point where within about 1 or 2 week…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:10 PM
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Fairly high body count Over or under 150?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 09:46 PM
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LOL... that and I think we can safely assume that all TV is fake... along with a lot of YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:14 PM
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You’re always going for that new thrill, it’s like having dating ADHD. In the end, not very fulfilling though. I totally went through that phase for a while. At my stage it's not really the thrill of the chase or the excitement of something/someone new. Instead it's kind of the opposite. You start to feel like this has all been done before and nothing is new. I've dated enough women that I've honestly got it down to memorized patterns. In the end, I just havn't met any woman that is special or p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:13 PM
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It was just at some small park in SLU. If you went back even 15 years... someone would have absolutely stopped to talk to you. If you were in Bellevue they probably would offer you a ride or bus fare too. ​ I was once grabbed by a man at the Fremont fair, a huge guy holding on to me in a bear hug and wouldn’t let go, I was screaming “let me go” while beating on him - place was totally packed, but not a single person stopped to help helped me or said anything. You actively asking for help and nob…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:06 PM
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Maybe taking a break from sleeping with people you don’t particularly care about might reawaken your ability to pair-bond? Wishing you the best with that and hope I haven’t offended you. You don't have to worry about offending me. I chimed in because I think my experience can help reinforce the correctness of your thinking. I will also note that I never bring up body count, but I also don't really lie about it although I know a lot of players who do. For me... I just kind of avoid good girls at …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:40 PM
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Incels and some MGTOW will ask this question, but we have been teaching Red Pill guys to not talk about this stuff since 2005. In fact we used to use the Fight Club quotes to drive the idea home. I mean fundamentally, the PUA community and we are the creators and primary users of Red Pill theory, we are just looking to get sex. This is a question for men who give a shit. Nobody cares how many Johns your hooker has. So, this type of discussion just means you got a guy who has some emotional engag…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:20 PM
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I’m extremely choosey about the people I have had sex with. I only want to have a relationship with someone with similar values. The thought of being with a slovenly man who sleeps with strangers makes my skin crawl. I'm a high N count guy and I think you are totally correct, but perhaps for the wrong reason. I think few high N count guys whose experience is mostly over 25 are far from slovenly... we tend to be very neat and clean... otherwise we wouldn't be doing well with women at all. On the …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:06 PM
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I wonder if it's bad that I must drink it in order to allow myself to feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:11 PM
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I learned early that sexual chemistry is the most important thing to me. It doesn’t make my relationships bullet proof, but it’s worked overall as a strategy for me I've always considered sexual chemistry as a lower priority, but when it shows up... it's like a raging inferno. Unfortunately, it seems to also burn itself out over time. Still... I think more men should choose sexual chemistry over looks. Too many guys are focused exclusively on youth and beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:09 PM
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Maybe it’s my location? I’m in Seattle, it’s kind of got a reputation for people being a bit cold and unfriendly with strangers. I'm in Seattle as well. When I got jumped and beaten it was in Kirkland. The Middle Eastern guys who helped me while everyone else walked past were Microsoft employees. Seattle is absolutely a "mind your own business" sort of place. Still... I'm a little shocked nobody stopped to ask if you were Ok or needed anything. Perhaps you were at Gas Works Park or someplace. A …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:07 PM
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If you can find the source for this experiment we could make every woman on PPD and everywhere else shut the fuck up forever. Every time they talk about toxic masculinity just post this link and metaphorically ballgag their narrative permanen The study is from 2005 or 2006 in Boston. I forget who ran it but it got a little bit of news. They eventually ran a hidden video show on the topic that confirmed it... if the video wasn't faked.. who knows about TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:01 PM
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Staaap. That study is the most perfect example of toxic masculinity I have ever seen. You are hanging round the wrong feminists if you are convinced we aren’t worshipping studies like these. ... I don't understand this comment at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:59 PM
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Let's agree to disagree on the women vs. men thing. You are right that the demographics and location matter. Also, in many ways, it's always been more of a three camp system: gifted men vs. women vs. rest of men. I don't think it's that different from the animal kingdom. Most herd mammals generally have a male that does the breeding and then others that may sometimes sneak in, but otherwise must build themselves up and then challenge the dominant male. I think this drives a lot of male competiti…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:58 PM
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The problem with toxic masculinity theory is it holds women completely unaccountable. This is essentially the primary issue with the western blue pill understanding of gender... that women are not accountable for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:50 PM
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The other. Like, negative Daniel Craig You are without a doubt... a unique woman and God Bless you!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:16 PM
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His words were 'im just here from Canada, don't want to get involved, sorry'. I've done this before. The main issue is that if you touch a mentally unstable woman you could easily wind up in prison or your life ruined for something you didn't do. I've actually got a colleague who had this happen. He lost his job... then his house... then his wife... in a cascade effect one after the other... and then they found him innocent 6 months later.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:14 PM
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Nope. These guys were exceptions Daniel Craig level exceptions?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 06:57 PM
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and everyone ignored me, except for one man - a drug dealer who offered to sell me some heroin. Why do you think everyone ignored you? I would say this is not typical. I have seen a chinese girl crying at a restaurant where everyone is white and everyone kind of ignored her. But, that's likely because of cultural fears, not disinterest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 06:56 PM
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I think trying to adjudicate which gender has a harder life is so complex as to not be worth it. It's only complex from a worldwide perspective. If you look at the modern Anglosphere the answer is pretty cut and dried. Even at work I have to be at minimum 30% better than any female colleague in order to have the same opportunities. My cousin worked at Amazon and would hire totally incompetent women and pay them way more than any of the men in order to hit gender quotas... then pass the additiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 06:51 PM
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A tribe that lost 50% of its women but retained all the men will decline by 50% plus have a lot of infighting/competition/crime from disaffected men. Generally speaking you are correct that much of the structure of society today has it's roots in much more biological realities. However, if you look at ancient societies... losing half your female population would just spur the men to war with nearby tribes in order to seize their women. The Viking age was actually famous for this due to Scandinav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:42 PM
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The boomers will perish soon enough. We will eliminate this with gen z and beyond. I think you are wrong... unless you convince every man of Gen Z to declare themselves transgender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:37 PM
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Don't let misplaced envy show through. Women do not lead a low-effort life. They have their burdens. Please do not mistake disdain for envy. The great majority of burdens women deal with are either self inflicted or things a man must deal with twice as much and we just don't bitch about. ​ The point is that there are different standards for how men should display and deal with emotions, pain and weakness. You are not wrong, but most of us were never enrolled in that class. Instead we learned sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:35 PM
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I alternate between the two but the older I get the more comfortable I am with the latter. Oh yeah! I forgot that I had a very similar experience. I was attacked by six guys outside of a bar, and although I kept them from taking my money, I received a pretty nasty beating. I had gotten rid of them by shouting that cops were coming and once one ran the others got scared and fled as well. I must have laid there outside the bar for 15 minutes before two Middle Eastern guys helped me get a cab to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:26 PM
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Why do we treat grown women like children? A grown women crying should not get such a reaction. It's simply how we are raised to react... social conditioning. Think about how many times you were told as a boy that you can't hit girls... but how many times were girls told not to hit boys? I've never heard a parent say this in my lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:13 PM
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Exactly. This is the irony of the entire study is that they had to make it a control variable and forced women’s hand to approach. If you read the abstract it seems they also allowed the women to CHOOSE WHO THEY APPROACH. The implications of that essentially break the results as put forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:01 PM
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Without information on Methods and the raw data provided... I don't think I can take this observational study seriously. The idea that making women stand up and walk while allowing men to sit changes sexual preference is borderline insane. Now, if they allowed the women to only approach the men that they already found attractive... then that completely explains how this study turned out the way it did. Essentially you can imagine the que of women waiting to hit up the good looking guys and the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 04:59 PM
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Anyhow, what I mean by “on paper” is that I can see the dude is not attractive. At all. I see other women treat him as an ugly dude In my experience most women treat 80-90% of the male population as if they look like dogshit. That's why these discussions are so easy to misinterpret. You are more than likely just referencing average to good looking men that other women just treat like shit. I'm a generally average looking guy, and most women treat me like I'm crap until I can bring the force of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 04:49 PM
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They ran an experiment where a man sat in a park and wept. Very few people stopped to comfort him, and most women went out of their way to avoid him. When the experiment was run with a woman weeping in the same park she was overwhelmed by people trying to make her feel better. This is life as a man, it will not change, so you must learn to overcome it. In doing so you will become stronger. Those who yearn for the low effort life that most women lead are mentally broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 04:31 PM
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on paper - ugly What does it mean to be "ugly on paper"? Also... it matters a lot if you are also on the lower side of conventional attractiveness. Most women I've met do not date men uglier than them by much. Of course this changes once you leave the English speaking world and go to other cultures where women value family.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 04:22 PM
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I guess the saying love is blind is true. Love is not blind. Virtually all matches can be explained by female hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 04:19 PM
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but how would they know? I'm not a lady, but just comparing myself as a virgin to once I had a lot of experience... the difference is rather large. For one thing... most inexperienced young men don't really know what they are doing and have a very nervous energy.... especially at ages beyond 16 or 17. A great example is that when I was 18... I honestly believed that length of time = success. LOL... as a college athlete I had almost endless stamina, but after 45 minutes of monotonous pounding it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:59 PM
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LOL... You prove my point by trying to use male virginity as an insult. This says much more about you than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:50 PM
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I don't know a single guy who truly likes big arses. I think that's a cope. We may like women who have big arses, but not the arses themselves. There is perhaps a cultural and ethnic component to this. I have some darker complexed friends who honestly prefer women that I would not be willing or capable of making love to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 11:07 PM
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then maybe that’s your match and you’ll have to readjust your standards. This is my advice. I see two options. First, you make yourself attracted to bigger women. The bonus with this is that heavier women also have big tits and big asses which most guys find attractive. There have been many times where I met a woman and thought "She has the Tits and Ass of a Goddess, but the stomach of a long haul trucker." At the end of the day a certain amount of weight can just be overlooked. Your second opti…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 10:40 PM
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sure there will be some people that think she is a slut and liar They can think it, but saying it publicly would likely cause you to lose your job. This cannot be overstated in importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 08:09 AM
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Did you type this from the 1950s? Well, it's currently 2021 and you wouldn't believe the changes! Turns out that in my time period women can make allegations and everyone must publicly believe them or be pilloried and attacked... even if their story is rather ridiculous or unbelievable. Further more, women can now receive cash money in the form of settlements often in the millions of dollars if they keep allegations out of the papers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 08:07 AM
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Haha... what a great movie. But what if it's actually the Taliban that represents freedom? I mean if I'm an Afghan dude... do I want the US rules where wives rule over husbands and men are second class citizens, or do I want the Taliban where natural order is restored?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:14 PM
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It's not about that, nobody is simply willing to die for liberalism, whereas plenty would gladly die a martyr for the cause of Islam. Afghanistan proved that progressive politics has no futur, no matter what delusional drivel it's proponents will spew. I think this is wrong. Because the Liberal Progressive movement is more dangerous than radical Islam. The underlying point to all the drivel they spew is the desire to violently take possession of everyone else's money. Motherfuckers will happily …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:10 PM
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I spend quite a bit of time out in Rural America and this just isn't true. Almost everyone knows that Afghanistan is next to Pakistan and that Pakistan is Next to India, which is in turn bordering China. You have to straight up hang out in a trailer park or ghetto to find people who just don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:01 PM
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In my case, he was probably busy and didn't feel like talking. Most guys when they have a GF or wife that they like or love, they won't bother going out looking for other women because it's a pain. I do it because I'm ADD and get bored with partners extremely fast. But most guys aren't like me, they won't bother cheating unless another woman is straight up chasing them. Have you ever gone through a Crucial Conversation training? It's typically used for business, but it works fantastic for interp…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 05:49 PM
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Yeah. I tried that. 3 guesses who didn't pick up, or text back, or even let me know he was alive until way way past bedtime. This is actually why I don't plan to get married ever again. I spent like 6 or 7 years thinking that if I just found the right lady I would want to pick up the phone, but eventually I've just come to realize that it's just me. Sometimes I don't want to talk to anyone and thus far I've failed to meet a woman who is Ok with that long term. So, while I don't really know what'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 05:11 PM
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I was mad my husband didn't call me goodnight and talk to me like a normal damn husband. Yeah... I would consider this as game playing. You decide that you want something from your husband and then go about enforcing your will upon him using carrots and sticks. When I'm dating someone, I call them and wish them goodnight when I feel the desire to do so. If I don't, then I won't. Attempts to enforce me to do things are met with cheerful disregard. With all honesty, this typically makes women real…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 08:16 PM
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For me it's about 50% personality, 25% looks, and 25% status. The biggest issue is that in order to cut through all the bullshit and even get a chance to display personality traits, I have to focus heavily on status and looks. Otherwise you are stuck doing things the old fashioned way and relying on social circle... and you can't fuck and chuck those women with the same level of dispassion as the ones you just met off an app. Also... the idea that a woman must "give up her life" to raise kids is…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 06:42 PM
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Did you ever wear something and you don’t like colour and you change into something else you prefer? Most women won’t care if you’re wearing a colour you don’t like. No, this never happens to me. If it were my choice, I would dress like one of those guys from Duck Dynasty... baggy camouflaged clothes. The only reason I go through the effort is to attract women. If you didn't give a shit how men view you, then you wouldn't be changing colors. Instead you would be wearing the same shit you would a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 06:35 PM
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Especially the soccer playing types.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 06:29 PM
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In my case, and if you want my opinion about other women? We actually don't play games, except the ones of us who actually have personality disorders or other unhealed problems. This just isn't accurate. Most women play some kind of games whether they acknowledge it or not. Almost every woman I've ever dated made the claim that they don't play games, which turns out to be bullshit. You should sit down and think about the last 24 hours. How many emotional decisions did you make during that time p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 06:24 PM
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At yet our generation have all seemingly landed on our feet. Two things. First dating in the US is becoming much more cutthroat, feast or famine. Technology combined with economic disparity is primarily this issue so we know it wont go away. Women under 30 outearn men under 30 by something like 25%. This trend is increasing not decreasing because fewer and fewer boys attend college, the gender gap in some places is like 65% women and 35% boys. That's having a huge impact. So, if you get your boy…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 06:18 PM
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You still haven't said where you went that would make her angry. One example? Ok, a real life example. I once went to a bookstore for 2 hours to find a book for a vacation I was about to go on. When I got back to my apartment it was a huge fight because evidently I should have been helping pack her stuff. Women always want to manage your time... especially in relationships. I don't know why this idea is so alien to you. It's so common that comedians make jokes about it. You just told me you have…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 09:30 PM
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Very true, I guess the one I’ve seen were just very aggressive in the way they came across? I've dated in multiple countries. In some places a guy has to be more aggressive than in others, but that doesn't mean the same thing to you that it means to me. Charm is always required. Being aggressive without politeness is a recipe for failure in most places. True but that’s just from my personal experience, someone else could say we have the shittiest. I just know a lot of people who found partners i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 09:23 PM
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If he wants to play wow full time and drop out of uni then I'll stop that from happening. But you can only really do so much TBH. My xWife had two sisters. Their father essentially had your primary belief... that there isn't much a parent can do. On the other hand I watched multiple family members slide down the drain via bad dating choices. So, I'm much more of an interventionalist. One sister got into trouble and came to live with my xWife and I. I put a lot of effort into helping that 16 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 09:16 PM
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How does society encapsulate young men that "women are wonderful"? This has to be a joke. Even I grew up completely surrounded by this stuff. I mean look, I watch Peppa Pig with my daughter and the police are cute and funny. Then my friend who is a police officer points out how they are portrayed as dumb and useless. Now I watch it and it just jumps right out at me. I see the cops acting stupid, walking into light posts, and eating donuts all day. I saw it before but never thought about it. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 09:08 PM
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I'd say the gym rate for men is double that of women... which probably means about 1% of men. LOL. The obesity rate is damn hard to measure for guys because we use BMI, which is an outdated system. When I was a college athlete with 5% body fat and six pac abs... my BMI said I was overweight. Today I've got just enough muscle and fat to be listed as obese despite the fact that I look healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 05:22 PM
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I will have to read that book. I wonder if domestic violence increases with pregnancy in all countries. Is it possible that the problem is the way we structure financial supports? Wait... black women primarily date black men. Are you saying that black men tend to view black women as less human? Or are you saying this is a cultural issue that just filters down? I will definitely take a look at that book. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 05:19 PM
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His parents didn't teach him about dating. They let society do that instead and so he wound up unprepared. I knew him at age 18 and he was fully encapsulated by the 'women are wonderful' social belief. They are your boys. Teach them or don't... but understand that if you don't, someone else will.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 05:14 PM
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I’ve seen a lot of videos with generalizations which I don’t buy into that. Even if the majority says one thing there’s always outliers. Generalizations can be helpful, but it's important to not take them too seriously. Not In the US and I can’t say for certain because I’m not on the dating scene. Most people I know my age already have a partner for a few years, are married or have kids. I just personally don’t know many single people right now. That actually suggests a healthy dating market. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 05:11 PM
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Are you selling drugs? Dating other women? What imagined innocent place leaves women to feel angry with you? Give an example of how if you told the truth she would explode. If I'm selling drugs or gambling in midget races it doesn't matter. If you date enough women you will quickly find that they have strong preferences regarding how you spend your time and where you go. I say this as a veteran of more than 20 relationships ranging from 10 years to 2 months. Any place? Does your girlfriend flip …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 05:08 PM
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Do you know what percentage of American women use the gym regularly? It's below 1%. So what the fuck are you talking about? We are talking about a group whose overweight/obesity rate under 40 is pushing 50%.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:32 PM
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No, that's not entirely true. A narcissist with good frame is not the same as an emotionally healthy man with good frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:30 PM
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It seems like it's pretty hit or miss if lots of the people who receive the message end up as single incls/MGTOW though. By internalizing the ideology they end up in worse places than they started. The Incels and MGTOW are not the originators of the Red Pill. They just showed up one day because they can warp the belief set to fit their self defeating worldview. If not the Red Pill, then they would choose some other belief that allowed them to pass blame and be lazy as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:28 PM
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I think it's more important to teach my sons to be social, confident and physically active. They can figure out the rest. This is just fucking lazy. I've got a buddy named Jimmy whose parents did just what you suggest. He just found out that the child he has been raising for the last 8 years isn't his. As a parent it's your job to prepare a child for the world. When you cede that job to society they will brainwash the boy into stupidity. Don't fail like Jimmy's parents did!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:24 PM
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Maybe, but look at the differences in dating strategies. The Red Pill answer to most dating woes is battling instincts to self improve. My instincts tell me I really want to eat that fucking donut, but I have to override that. Women on the other hand just lean harder into using instincts. They never tell fat girls to lose weight. Instead they just tell them to screen men harder and rely more on you gut.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:16 PM
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Is that jump primarily due to healthcare concerns or intimate partner violence? I know for fact, because I sold the testing devices that US healthcare tends to treat certain women like 3rd class citizens. I'm unfamiliar with the full numbers or scope of violence against women, but I struggle to believe that black women just date/marry more violent men. The numbers for this are likely to be very similar between black and white women and the mortality difference is a healthcare gap. At least I ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:12 PM
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Why would you avoid them? Wait... you arent in the US. How is dating where you live? Here it's like an arms race, where we keep evolving strategies and counter strategies!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:06 PM
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Yes, narcissists have amazing natural frame. Study it, copy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:04 PM
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If your experience of existence is being a slave to your instincts, that's fine, but that is not the case for many, many people. LOL... philosophical waffling! What a wonderful phrase. Look, brain scans can now predict what people will think before they think it. As I look around me the human capacity for change is very limited, and I feel only a tiny fraction of the population rises above the instinctual level. I find that in particular women who have fantastic instincts almost never bother to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:03 PM
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Why were you someplace that would cause a big fight? Even asking this question makes me feel like you don't understand women or relationships. Any place can cause a fight. This is a control question. If the genders were reversed I would actually tell a woman to run from a guy like this depending on the tone of voice used. What I find particularly interesting is that you would give frame quickly to a man who asked this question and automatically assume the role of a subordinate. This may seem nat…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 03:59 PM
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That's because Alexander Grace doesn't understand "game".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 03:51 PM
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I’ve never heard of most of these schmucks but it’s very common among this group to make videos with paid actresses. The original guys few know. AnonymousBosch, WIA, and so many others. Actually AnonymousBosch was an Australian rockstar in the 1980s. Perhaps one of the greatest red pill writers out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:42 AM
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Biggest point you make is money is being made. Some people will say anything to make money. Always heard if you say something enough times you’ll start to believe it. The guys making money from this rarely come up with their own ideas. Instead it's the original thought leaders who move this stuff forward. The money making is just a side show.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:31 AM
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actually most have been tested through animals, and virtually all of the theories themselves were originally developed in the field of animal behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:28 AM
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If men weren't murdering women, our maternal mortality numbers would be on par with Europe (5 per 100,000) and being a pregnant woman would be significantly less dangerous than being a cop. First... Holy freaking crap... I had no idea that maternal homicide rates were so high in places like Maryland. The numbers are kind of staggering. Why isn't this a national crisis? I mean the number of unarmed people of all colors killed by cops last year seems to be lower than the number of women murdered I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:18 AM
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... congratulations, now you are in a big fight. It's not a dance. It's a way of being.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:05 AM
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First, emotions are reality to the vast majority of the human populace, probably yourself included. Logic and reason are just tools we use to try and cut through the emotional fog, or sometimes to simply justify our emotional decisions. So, frame is reality in this sense. Second, you seem to think allowing others to control your emotional frame has no consequence, but I promise you that most abused women get trapped by the man's frame and that's what keeps them from running for the hills. In the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:02 AM
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Being a black woman in america who gets pregnant means you have a 37.5 in 100,000 chance of dying in the next year or two. I spent at least 2 years of my life working my butt off to lower this number. It does not need to be this high and it's caused almost entirely by cost cutting measures by government insurance! Which is why Black women suffer the most because they are the most likely to be on these shitty government health insurances. I mean I literally sold the machines that can be used to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:06 PM
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It's a nebulous concept to us women, who consider "strategies" only if nothing else. Frame is a nebulous concept even within the Red Pill communities. Most guys just seem to think it's the projection of whatever they view as Alpha traits... and to be fair that's kind of how we talk about it. But when it comes to real world application frame is all about reality. For example, if I come home and my GF says "Where have you been?", there is an underlying projection of her reality within that stateme…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:01 PM
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It's a matter of knowing how it all can end, and trying to control the ends for the best possible outcomes. Absolutely incorrect! Men come to the Red Pill because they are frustrated and struggling to attract women. Studying just the population of men who already have relationships is essentially excluding a large chunk of the "nice guy" population and any results should not be extrapolated to these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 09:45 PM
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Well, this is actually a very well reasoned statement. Most of the research on Dark Triad traits came out within the 2014 and 2015 timeframe. Most of us Red Pill guys bought into it right away because it helped explain things we were all collectively experiencing in the dating market. The hallmark trait of Psychopathy is varying degrees of callousness. Now, we have been essentially emulating this trait to attract women for literally two decades... and it works. It doesn't work long term, however…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 09:39 PM
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I think the entire point just went way over your head. Let me summarize. Regardless of what Nice Guys want… they struggle to get dates and form relationships. That’s their primary complaint! This study focuses specifically on men who are in relationships, therefore the Nice Guy types will be greatly underrepresented.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:39 PM
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We don't actually and recycled Internet anecdotes get dismissed out of hand. What exactly is your claim here? That women do not find these "dark triad" traits attractive? I think the scientific evidence lines up directly with lived experience on this one to prove you wrong. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913012245
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 07:57 PM
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And it contradicts the whole idea of TRP and MRP about "keeping the frame" and manning up. Maintaining Frame is actually very important technique. The more you do it, the more authentic it feels. Think of it like creating an alternate reality and then bringing someone into your reality and making them believe in it. Some of the best guys I've ever met at maintaining frame were Religious leaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 07:52 PM
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Just look around the sub, a lot of ussers (usually men) say that improving one self is useless unless you have perfect bone structure, are tall, or whatever. Fucking Incels. These are just lazy pricks who literally value zero effort laziness above all other things in life. They should be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 07:47 PM
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This study does not support the claims you are making about it. First of all, it focuses on relationship outcome, not relationship formation rates! The "be yourself" bullshit is actually not entirely bad advice once relationship formation has occurred. However, you have to be a total dipshit not to realize that most nice guy types are saying they don't even get the opportunity to form relationships with any kind of frequency. We all know men who are total narcissistic psychopaths, and they have …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 07:45 PM
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True. But for what it’s worth, you should be not just Ok with your body but happy with it. I can assure you that will likely never meet a man who sees it as a negative and much more likely to meet a man who finds it sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:26 AM
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Things are expensive where I live too, it’s just I haven’t been a renter for nearly 20 years. I don’t see why anyone outside of a few circumstances would want to rent rather than buy. Over a decade ago I spent a year living in the most difficult situation so that I could save up to buy again after getting entirely wiped out in a divorce. The bottom line is that if you live in the US not one of the state governments that is overseeing a housing crisis cares to alleviate it. So, you better buy as …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:22 AM
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Seriously? Most people I know have more money than ever before. I saved up so much money last year that I plan to buy another house when the market cools down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:37 PM
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I totally get it, but not all body issues are the same. No matter what you look like downstairs it won’t prevent you from being able to pleasure a man. It’s true there will likely be some guys who don’t like it, but not many and most of them are probably heavy porn addicts anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:36 PM
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It’s usually about $6,000 or more. I’ve been in so many breast augmentation procedures that I’m just kind of numb to it. The price is generally affordable if you want it. Much less than a new car for example. No real procedure exist for male genital enhancement. If there was the demand would be insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:32 PM
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That’s exactly what I’m saying. It’s just an insult and almost meaningless because they haven’t seen you naked and so it’s random. Could have picked your hair color instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:22 PM
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Where do you live that it’s not?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:20 PM
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Well if they don’t know then they can’t really be talking about you in particular. If they do know it’s much more likely they are just trying to hurt you with whatever they have available.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:20 PM
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I ignored boobs and ass because it’s so cheap and easy to get them surgically enhanced
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:18 PM
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I’ve been with women like that before and it’s more of a turn on than a turn off. It just depends on how sensitive they are. The really sensitive ones are fantastic!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:17 PM
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How the hell did they even see it? Do you show it off to random guys? Look if we are talking personal experience… I’ve had nothing but fantastic experiences… but it’s because I’m on the better side of the scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:14 PM
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Some of this we know from studies. The 20% of women Preferring men significantly bigger than average shows up in multiple studies on sexuality. The men who care about vaginal visuals… I’ve never seen data on it. I’m guessing if I did It would be a very low percentage. Do you have some studies on this? Because I don’t think it’s even a big enough issue to have been researched.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:12 PM
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If you even try you will be better than almost any other woman. I’ve lived over 40 years and I rarely see or hear this happening. Women are simply judged primarily on other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:09 PM
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It’s possible but a guy like that is probably one in 10,000. Whereas size queens are about 20% of the female population.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:05 PM
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Ok listen, vaginal openings vary, vaginal length varies… neither of those things relate to tightness. Women are essentially built like balloons inside but the walls of that balloon are instead made of muscle. Get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:03 PM
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Meh… I’m using a cell phone and I’ve only got a few minutes. The point is that even if this insult is accurate to you it won’t limit who you can date. Not even a tiny bit. It has no impact on your beyond your own imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:01 PM
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… yes and all done from a “what’s best for women” perspective. Which is fine, but the Red Pill does this for men in a much better way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:58 PM
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Any woman who wants to be tight can be. It’s just a muscle. So this doesn’t compare at all. The term beef curtains is not entirely derogatory, nor is it used as an insult to your very value as a human being or your quality as a female.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:56 PM
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Haha… Ok whatever you say! My point is solid though. Most women learn this by experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:41 PM
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Exactly! Dr. Ruth is fucking dumb. The only people who give a shit how a vagina looks is the woman who owns it. On the other hand women judge men a lot based on genital size and that fact should not be glossed over or ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:40 PM
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Example
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:35 PM
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She once told a guy who felt undersized to jerk off in front of a mirror to resolve his body issues. That works fine for women because nobody is really judging you, but for a man that’s just dumb shit advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:32 PM
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What you said is true, but it’s only half the answer. That’s the issue I’ve always had with Dr. Ruth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:30 PM
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Give me an example where her advice is good for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:28 PM
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Yes, but how do you know that? See you know this because you’ve fucked loads of random dudes and it wasn’t great. That’s the whole point of this post. Consumerism and feminists sell the idea of sex with random hot dudes to every girl in the nation growing up. They don’t figure out that it isn’t great until they have tried it a bunch. Am I wrong in this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:11 PM
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Dr. Ruth is one of those blue pilled old ladies that gives advice entirely from a female perspective and for the benefit of primarily women. I once saw her give advice on penis size issues and when it was done I just realized that she is totally fucking clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:07 PM
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And you are still single?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:20 PM
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I do photography at the anime conventions. I have some friends that can do amazing stuff with photoshop so cosplayers will sometimes pay huge money to get cool photos made. Anyway, I'm taking photos for this 18 year old girl and just kind of chatting when she suddenly tells me she isn't into older guys. I just laughed really hard and told her that I'm glad because I was hoping she would introduce me to her exceptionally good looking mom who spent the entire time we were doing photos managing wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:40 PM
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I was extremely poor during my divorce, but that’s it. Maybe 2 years of my life I had to take a huge lifestyle hit, and it was generally fine. Living in my car for a few months sucked, and saving $50k for a house down payment was difficult. But looking back was also a lot of fun because I lived in a rental house with 9 international college students, and one other lady a bit older than me. Rent was $300 a month, I got one room and we all shared 2 bathrooms. I’m still very friends with 2 of my ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:59 PM
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Lol… in my high school the anime nerds where the guys even other nerds didn’t talk to. I had to hide my friendship with them. Association would make you radioactive to girls… they wouldn’t even make eye contact with you afterwards. The funny thing is that all of us weird/nerdy guys grew up to be extremely successful. Meanwhile the popular guys are all kind of lower middle class. Actually the biggest bully in the school is now a teacher. I think 5 out of 6 of my friends makes over $200k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:13 PM
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I was raised to take pride in anything I do. My grandmother was a housewife, and she had ironclad control of the family finances. She took a lot of pride in her family and how well she managed the money. Looking back she was a God Damned genius. They never took out a mortgage even once, buying all houses in cash. At one point she had 3 rental properties going as well that made almost as much as my grandfather’s job at the time he retired. So I just don’t look at this kind of thing as rigidly as …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:08 PM
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My parents never divorced and it was my father who kicked my ass and got me working. I graduated from college and the lure of Weed+Video games+Porn was very tempting to just numb my life away. My father is a hardass and I’m his only son. I’m 40 and it’s still hard to date women my age. I usually go down about 5 years. I watch anime and game sometimes and this just pisses off women my age who would greatly prefer I spend this time doing their hobbies instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:00 PM
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Again… it’s because you have mad trust issues. I think you should just accept this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:43 PM
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How does the world change so much in just a few years? When I was in high school not one girl played video games. It was considered a masculine but nerdy hobby. There is a cutoff point right about age 35 today where the women above that don’t play and the women below often do. This guy’s father totally failed. I’ve known a lot of divorced guys who fail their kids because they get caught up competing for affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:39 PM
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It’s because you have hard conditions in places that are more selfish than most. To each their own. I’m just saying your attitude should not be strived for or considered healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:32 PM
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Lots of guys get stuck in cycles. The fact that he was effeminate but wanted to be masculine says he probably had family issues and his father failed him. How big is the town you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:00 PM
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I’d say you just aren’t capable of loving someone. I would not go through life assuming everyone should be like you. I’ve seen people in abusive relationships who were the single source of income. Abusive people will be abusive regardless of who makes the money. People either choose them or don’t it isn’t a money issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:57 PM
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He can’t fix himself if he doesn’t know what’s wrong. I had this issue for years where I was pushing myself in the wrong direction thinking that being softer and less masculine was what women wanted. Had someone been honest probably would have saved me years of heartache. If homeboy wants to Kill himself that’s on him, unless he is under 18. I think anyone under 18 shouldn’t be dating because they lack maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:47 PM
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As a big rejecter of people, I have found that the way you reject someone often determines their response. Although I will say that it may help that I look big and dangerous to most people because I have solid amounts of muscle, but then again I dress like I’m headed to the yacht club.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:41 PM
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I’m sorry but this dude needs brutal honesty. It really sounds like a masculinity issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:37 PM
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Since you are asking… my belief is that if women gave up the AlphaFux/BetaBux mating strategy most of the guys out there who are salty would go away even if they got no love. The fact that women do this drives the vast majority of bullshit in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:32 PM
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So if you got together with a guy who wants to stay home with the kids or has a period of unemployment, you plan to make him ask permission before spending money? I’ve been in relationships of all kinds and I believe your viewpoint is unhealthy. If you are with someone who cares a lot about who makes the money then I think that is going to be a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:26 PM
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This is a solid point. There are some guys who are so unattractive that even hookers say No… but Weinstein doesn’t fit that bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 08:22 PM
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You seem like the kind of person who keeps score in a little book. Relationships shouldn’t feel like a power struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 08:15 PM
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Hahahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 08:07 PM
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Because it creates a massive imbalance that has ripple effects that essentially hurt everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 07:49 PM
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Fucked up worldview, but we men often do similar
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 07:48 PM
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Let me put it another way. Weinstein wasn’t going to get laid without some form of force or coercion. This is probably even true with his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 07:47 PM
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Disagree. I know so many personal examples that I simply know for fact that this isn’t true. It’s also a very… cynical way to understand love.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 07:46 PM
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100% true. Many fat people just have more efficient metabolisms, which is an excellent trait for survivability.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:10 PM
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No. Ugly men can be rich men and get beautiful wives (see: Harvey Weinstein). Actually... that dude had to rape women, so bad example.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:08 PM
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Earning and controlling are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:07 PM
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In my experiences the dinner date sex was always followed by brunch date sex with the same person, but I’m naive that way. ... They let you stick around until brunch? Isn't that shame walk more like between 6am and 8am?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:04 PM
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Look, I think if you actually did a study on this you would find that 3% of guys do this shit, and maybe 1% of women.... but that 12% of women are shagging that 3% of men. Does that make sense? I mean we teach red pill guys how to run harems, and it fucking works like magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:03 PM
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That isn't sneaky... that is compassionate. You essentially took in the most persecuted groups. If the UN had come and asked the US to take in 500,000 Syrians, but mostly just women and children... there would have been very little pushback. Instead the UN left the women and children to get raped in Turkish camps while sending the men on to Europe and the US to soak up social welfare benefits. In Germany they had over 1,000 German women raped in 1 night. You really think Canada is doing things w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:59 PM
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Those who are of Caribbean descent came as construction workers in the 1970s, largely working-class. Again, I bet if you look their rates of criminality and violence will track pretty closely to that of their nation of origin. Not every Caribbean Island is as bad as Haiti or Jamaica. If there is a large gap between criminal activity between nations then I would say it's very likely that Canada has just done a fantastic job of screening out bad people. My whole point here is explaining WHY there …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:54 PM
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No, I'm ranting, because this topic just pisses me off. There is a ton of common ground between a Trump voter and one of those dipshit Bernie Bros. Hell, the only reason Trump won the first time is because tons of people who liked Bernie more voted for him. He is just wrong about that. The problem is that our media is entirely focused on stoking outrage and controversy. Most of the division is manufactured, and relies on people believing things that are not true, like Wage Gap shit. This idea th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:49 PM
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I bet if you segment out crime rate by immigrant group then you will find Russians as the most violent of Europeans.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:31 PM
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No. Rates of crime are much more related to national origin than poverty. This poverty/crime theory has been debunked since the 1990s. I mean the whole idea behind welfare was to prevent crime by lowering poverty. It had the opposite effect and exploded crime for around 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:26 PM
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Simple. Your black folks are more likely to be highly educated and more likely to be African rather than African American. This is just another example of well designed immigration policies that screen out violent assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:22 PM
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I know tons of half Japanese people. If you like Japanese culture you don’t live in the west you live in Japan.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:20 PM
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While differences exist when it comes to crime these places all have similar rates. We have lots of studies that show criminal behavior percentages of immigrants generally match the cultures and nations they come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:19 PM
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Partially correct. I grew up in a heavy immigrant area. It has tons of murder and crime just like South/central America.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:16 PM
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Toronto from the 2016 census. European (47.7%) South Asian (12.6%) Chinese (11.1%) Black (8.9%) Filipino (5.7%) Latin American (2.9%) West Asian (2.2%) Southeast Asian (1.5%) Korean (1.5%) Arab (1.3%) Aboriginal (0.9%) Japanese (0.5%) So, 90% of the population is from ethnic groups where violence and criminality isn't extremely common, and you think this is some fantastic display of diversity working? If you look at the US, you find that those Asians, S.Asians, Arabs, Filipinos, West Asians... e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:19 PM
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... This is because of where the immigrants come from. If you live in Vancouver and are surrounded by wealthy Hong Kong folks, your going to feel a lot more kinship than if you live in Los Angeles and you got immigrants robbing your house every week. How do you miss this fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:07 PM
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No offense, but there is little to no compromise between the Alt-right and BLM activists nor the "build that wall" and "DREAMERS are Americans too" positions and there's no way in hell these people from these spectrums would ever form a successful relationship. This is bullshit. There is tons of room for compromise between these belief sets. Just because you want LEGAL immigration doesn't mean you also want people raised here who don't even speak Spanish to be deported, and just because your par…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:03 PM
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No… she just had a hookup so she is not using it for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:55 PM
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Virtue signaling requires virtues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:52 PM
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The lowest money period of my life was not due to unemployment but instead caused by a divorce. I actually had to live in my car for a time. So divorcing over a short term money issue just seems dumb to me. I mean it’s really not that stressful to be poor. I’m sure it’s a little more difficult with kids but my daughter is actually very cheap. All of the primary expenses for her are voluntary on my part… like she does karate and has an upcoming ski camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:21 PM
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I’ve never met a man who mentioned long well painted nails as a primary attractive feature of a woman. I just feel that while female beauty standards do require some money and effort… 90% of what women do is targeted at other women. Although this has changed with some items. The explosion of porn among young boys has pushed some new standards like bikini waxing. Women with money do tend to look better, but this effect is much stronger over time! A poor 20 year old is often just as pretty as a ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:14 PM
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It’s not just makeup. Cardi B also benefits a lot from photoshop.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:09 PM
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Cardi B is essentially just a hooker, which is why a lot guys like her. What she lacks in beauty she makes up for in perceived availability.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:07 PM
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Why do money issues cause divorce? That seems ridiculous to me, because incomes go up and down so frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:06 PM
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Women have controlled every election of my lifetime. I think that you can see clearly by polling data that if women stopped voting completely most problems faced by the nation would begin to get resolved. Instead we see places like California which have become complete disasters that have failed entire generations and are almost entirely dominated by female voters brainlessly voting for policies that are proven to fail. I mean if we lived in Russia it would be a different discussion, but the US …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:01 PM
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What is a permanent pouch? I mean some of these things are temporary like hair loss. My daughters mom enjoyed being pregnant so much she was talking about being a surrogate last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:45 PM
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This is both true and not true all at once. Yes red pill guys with options can be a little pickier, but still most of us put up other things above looks. Like I could often bang better looking women, but sometimes pass on that if it seems like too much of a pain in the ass. Also, I greatly prefer freaky women who enjoy sex over frigid women who just look nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:41 PM
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We can really lay this issue at the feet of our horrible public education system which has created an ignorant nation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:37 PM
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Well, then where do you plan to move? I know several cultures that off the top of my head are way better, but they each have other downsides.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:11 PM
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What… you mean death? It’s pretty rare in the west at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:09 PM
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I look forward to the day!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:08 PM
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Well, why would you worry about what people think that have no relationship to you and otherwise don’t affect you in any way?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:07 PM
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Haha… That’s just how I talk friend. Im just chronically rude. Don’t take it as meaningful. Also… I’m not chasing land whales. But women with up to 50 or 60extra pounds is totally in my wheelhouse
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:04 PM
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Are you suggesting that American society is vain, effeminate, and immature? Lol… I’d say you have that entirely correct. But you don’t go on a date with society, and you don’t marry a culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:02 PM
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I’m about as red pill as you can be friend. Women are picky as shit about looks. Men simply are not unless they are low T soy chuggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:59 PM
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Meh, if you don’t like it then stop fucking around with young boys and immature men. I mean seriously I haven’t been turned off by c section scars and stretch marks since I was a teen. The reason being I started lifting and ever since I just focus on what turns me on about a woman and the stuff that wouldn’t just doesn’t matter. Now 20 some years later some of those things actually turn me on… hahaha!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:57 PM
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Actually you are probably low T. To be honest if you raise your testosterone up it won’t make you find obese women sexy, but you will find that a woman with a little extra still gets you hard. Being overly picky is definitely an effeminate trait. Check your diet for soy products, that can cause issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:50 PM
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Those guys tend to be very young. I was kind of like that at age 20 too, but grew out of it by 25 or 26. It’s just a maturity thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:21 PM
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Don’t be an idiot. There is a difference between a partner that gains 20 or 30 lbs and one that is chronically obese. But yes If you are obsessed with your partners weight then you are a vain cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:13 PM
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I think these things are an issue if you are hyper vain and plan to date/marry effeminate bitch boys. Most guys like me don’t give a shit about a few stretch marks or tits that don’t defy gravity as they once did. A few extra pounds only matter to vain guys insecure men who want a trophy bitch like some loser showing off his prize winning poodle. Who I fuck doesn’t define me and I don’t need people to desire to be me in order to feel successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:08 PM
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It’s our hyper progressive tax system where 53% of Americans essentially don’t pay federal income tax. It makes them feel like it’s not their money, despite the fact that the tax is built into everything they buy. That gallon of milk and that PlayStation gets taxed they just don’t see it or think about it. They assume rich people pay that shit not stopping to think that they are the ones making rich people rich with their purchases.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:35 PM
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Once you got the girl you have to really suck ass for her to take a risk on other guys. I think a lot of American guys make the mistake of thinking all women act alike, so they think that no woman has a morals or values honor. This is stupid thinking. AWALT is bullshit in all but a tiny handful of situations. You meet a woman from say Malaysia and bring her back to the US. You are going to quickly find she is repulsed by the amoral attitudes and whorishness of standard American women. She will g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:07 PM
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You are entirely wrong in this. Men essentially do what’s required to get a woman not the other way around. Like male birds that build nests, or do a dance, or fight to protect territory. In all of nature the secondary male struggle is always in attracting a mate. You cannot deny this. So if there is a shortage of family quality men, it’s because women are not looking for these traits in a mate. Indeed, quality father traits are crazy low down the list of desired traits American women search for…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:59 PM
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The kind that never leaves you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:37 PM
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It’s about family formation. That is the shared goal of most men and women. Yes, we have been asking women how happy they are in their marriages and life since at least the 1940s. 2020 marks the most unhappiest US women have ever been in the history of the survey. Married women match up pretty well in happiness through the generations, but single women and in particular single moms are the most unhappy they have ever been that we know of and there are more of this group than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 10:33 PM
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A gay club? Another silly and foolish comment! Since when did men become able to get pregnant and carry a baby? What do you think the function of sex is? The goals of men and women are different, that is true. Yet women seem ridiculously bad at achieving those core goals as compared to previous generations. I don’t view this issue as a pity party for men. I think women are giving themselves just as horrible a time as they are men by acting almost entirely on instinct rather than reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 10:19 PM
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You are just comparing the difficulty of getting what you want while he is talking about the difficulty of getting anything, which just makes you look foolish. You are like the overweight American tourist in a starving nation bitching that the food isn’t up to your standards. The guys here are looking at you like “bitch, shut up! You still gettin ta eat!”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:47 PM
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Meh… only the government puts a gun to your head and says pay me or I will do violence to you. We use Amazon because we like the service and bitching because they sell too much is dumb. Also… the only thing that busted unions is mass immigration of low skilled workers. You can’t have great social safety nets and high pay while also importing half of the third world to compete for jobs. THIS is what busted our unions. Government worker unions have used their violence of taxation to fund marketing…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:38 PM
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It’s very easy to convince people to eat cake every day. It’s damn hard to convince them to eat vegetables. But which one is healthier?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:52 PM
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Fairly close. I’m over over 30 for sure… mostly Scottish, but raised by anarcho-communist parents in a super blue state… like insane blue. I worked for the Democratic Party in both paid and unpaid positions for 10 years. I know how shit works. You mistake both how and why governments first formed. You see once people started farming they began producing extra food and the people around them wanted to kick their ass and take it, but defense required coordination and every asshole doing his own th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:50 PM
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Well you need to market yourself differently. This means getting an idea of what the women In your area want and then showing pictures that match. A picture of me bow hunting tells a different story than a picture of me doing jumps on a dirt bike or water skiing. Whatever it is… it should show off how fun your life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:06 PM
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Don’t be dumb. I’ve been all over and it doesn’t work like that. Every culture group has different beauty standards and though you may be fucking ugly to some you will be at least decent to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:03 PM
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That sounds like single moms using their sons as husband substitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:01 PM
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Student debt in the US just hit 1.7 trillion. I don’t think Bezos’s 180 billion will even make a dent… and that’s supposing you could sell all his stuff for that much money since all his wealth is estimated on paper. Shit I think his salary is only $70k a year. Anarchy is a shit show. It eventually grinds all human progress to a halt and people will sell whatever civil liberties they have for safety. This is actually how Hitler and his Nazis took control. The people were happy to sell their righ…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:00 PM
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Well, the women are a bit chubbier on average, but also tend to have more disposable income and be less materialistic. It helps a lot when rent is $1200 a month vs $4,000. It’s also a lot easier to meet someone in person since a town of 40,000 to 80,000 is going to create more opportunities for crossing each other’s paths. Lastly, the competition is greatly decreased. Big cities have the women absolutely bombed with wealthy, handsome men that aren’t really available, but the ladies think this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:08 AM
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I’m on a cell phone so that graphic doesn’t really work well. What social ills are we talking about solving? Because the main issues we have are drug addiction and criminality. The last time I checked the most effective way to solve those issues would be to stop paying single moms to raise kids in poverty and without a father. Socialism is a pipe dream. It can work OK in small doses and coupled to otherwise capitalist systems, but invariably the people running things set themselves up as kings a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:56 PM
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Go overseas. The women are better overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:03 PM
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Yes. You just have to market yourself properly. For one thing, when most of the men in an area look and talk like Larry the Cable Guy… you can do very well by being different. Also in my area the small towns are packed with hot Latinas. Learn a little Spanish and a whole new world unlocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:01 PM
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I’ve met athletes that were ugly as fuck but totally fit the description of Chads. The lookist incels are the worst fools around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:59 PM
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Either that’s hyperbole or you are terrible at math. Bezos’s entire net worth would run the US government for about a week. A guy who is worth at max 100 billion vs a government that is on track to spend 5 trillion this year. This is why I struggle to take you guys seriously at all. Most of the stuff you are complaining about are serious issues that need to be addressed but not by dumb ideas that are proven to be worse. Actually, they have been holding that over our heads for generations. We Ame…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:57 PM
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Disagree. Some of the best dating in the world can be found in rural to midsized cities. LA is a shitshow, and so is NYC. The main issue is that if you have more options… she will be seeing double or triple what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:51 PM
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Foolish question. How many guys are failing to achieve orgasm because of a low effort woman? Not many.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:47 PM
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No, we will just shag fat girls and pretend like we enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:44 PM
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I’ve seen handsome guys that are terrible with women, but I wouldn’t describe them as Chads. It’s part of the reason I hate that term.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:41 PM
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That’s the reason so many people hate capitalism. It requires work and offers no guarantees. Pretty easy to sell someone on the idea of not working.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:39 PM
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I said eliminating, not eliminated. Key distinction. If we measure poverty by wealth gaps, it’s impossible to eliminate. However if you view it as a process and compare standards of living across generations, then middle class Americans today live better than Rockefeller 100 years ago. That’s just a fact. But also what kind of dipshittery is “patriarchy”…. Like it’s some mythical beast or some secret skull and bones society. We can debate economic systems all day because nobody runs a straight c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:37 PM
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Are you even serious? Everywhere from China to Chile capitalism has lifted millions out of poverty and created a middle class. Compare Brazil to Venezuela. Brazil dropped their poverty rate from 50% to 19% and has continued to reduce it. Chavez at his peak had his poverty rate at about 25% down from 55%, but unlike Brazil all the gains were temporary and now the Fuckers don’t even have food to eat. How do you not know this stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:30 PM
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Capitalism and patriarchy? So the economic system that has been eliminating poverty worldwide for 500 years and a made up myth used to justify hate groups. You my friend need some help.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:09 PM
4

They never finish with chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:39 PM
3

I probably would have been the same if I was raised without a father. So you are confusing a symptom with the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:39 PM
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… so they are overweight? I mean technically the girls are just as heavy if not more so if you go by the statistics. Or are you suggesting that moms are essentially feminizing their boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:37 PM
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That’s a joke. My ex wife won big and she made the same as me and we had no kids. I feel like that argument looks Ok based on data but fails to take into account the bias and discrimination by judges and the system as a whole. I think it’s true that women don’t prefer manwhores but it’s pretty clear they are willing to put up with it when the guy is attractive enough. Not many pro athletes are faithful, but the line of women wanting to marry them isn’t shrinking. It makes sense that certain wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:16 PM
1

Stardust is seriously old school. I walked through it back in 1993, but never stayed there or hit up the pool. I was just a kid back then. I don’t know when they demolished it but I remember how the old sign looked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:09 PM
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Look, women suffer very little in divorce. Usually it’s like winning a mini lotto… especially if the guy makes decent scratch. In addition men rarely initiate divorce proceedings. So high N count men not only leave at a lower rate… they also don’t typically take your income with them. It’s also important to note that high N count men have many qualities women want whereas sluts just provide easy sex. So we are really talking about totally different types of people. Regarding average number if se…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:38 PM
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I miss the old Vegas. That time before everyone started buying $80 salads. I have plenty of money but even still it just seems ridiculous to me. I ate probably 50% of my meals off the strip. I actually found a Vietnamese place that was amazing. But yeah… only old timers like us remember how cool the Sands used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:28 PM
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Hahaha. I do like the Plaza. But last time I was there I was at Mandalay Bay and the Palazzo. I liked the Palazzo most, but despised their pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:34 AM
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Sure there are lots of average women with low N counts that aren’t virgins. They just tend to have either gotten married at age 23 or live in other countries. Let’s also not pretend that high N count men present the exact same risk as the women. It’s more than your average Joe, but nowhere near that of a slutty woman. The thing is that we love sluts. We just know not to marry them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:32 AM
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I forget the exact location of this statistic, but some dude went through and calculated it based on publicly available data. Women pay less into social security and Medicare, yet draw way more out. Also they soak up the vast majority of poverty benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:28 AM
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Why do butt ugly fat women demand tall handsome rich boyfriends? Because nobody needs to be realistic in dating! I mean look, I’ve been around enough that I can tell when a woman doesn’t have a lot of experience… or when she has a ton of experience but just with one guy. Even Religious women don’t really give a shit how many I’ve been with. They are mostly just in desperate need of a quality guy, and a huge chunk of the male population are just rabid incels. Now I’m not personally interested in …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:53 PM
2

Where are you staying that the ladies are so big?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:44 PM
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Hahaha! Fuck yeah! I was there back in March and hit up a 200lb Latina at Mandalay Bay. Yeah she was chubby, but also had huge tits and a big ass. I love Las Vegas!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:07 PM
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These answers go hand in hand. You can’t tell how experienced a woman is unless you yourself have a lot of experience. As for when you stop spinning plates… it me different with each situation. Generally, once you commit then you stop. Also most women will lie about numbers like trying to make you think they got by 5 dudes when it’s actually 50, but very few will lie about being a virgin unless they are in a deeply religious community… which can allow you to request medical certificates. Most Mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:04 PM
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Hahaha! This is so dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:57 PM
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Untrue. Male virgins over the age of 18 are heavily mocked and insulted by everyone. It’s generally assumed that a mans qualities as an individual are measured by their success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:56 PM
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It should astound you that the number is so low when you think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:43 PM
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Feminism didn’t start with the right to vote… it ended with the right to vote. For those 100 years feminists worked to make the world a better place for themselves and their families culminating in the right to vote after the most dreadful war in recent history. The last 100 years modern feminists have been melding their ideas with communist/socialist ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:04 PM
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Amber Heard was in a co-abuse situation at best and a liar at worst. We don’t really know, but physical abuse has been illegal since before your parents were born. Brock Turner was given probation because they were unable to prove that a rape occurred. So his victim list is very likely zero. Even the woman involved was unable to say what actually happened. Kobe Bryant likely raped more women than Bill Cosby. There were rumors about him for nearly a decade before actual allegations came out. He h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:50 PM
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A handful of people who are free thinkers can’t overturn the direction of a nation of lemmings. They eventually get shoved off the cliff with everyone else. Feminism has been building for nearly 200 years. They absolutely dominate education today, and they absolutely indoctrinate kids. You cannot be a feminist and a free thinker at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:38 PM
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This is an interesting point. I will generally believe a victim until an investigation is completed and the facts are established. Belief in the alleged victims claim is shown by investigating the claim. In this way your stance should mirror the justice system. We have had so many high profile cases of false allegations that suspension of logic should never be done. Also… regarding the light punishment of rapists… that’s a bad idea. We are talking about a small segment of the male population who…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:27 PM
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Except Feminism isn’t about equality… it’s about special rights. I’ve know guys who had fantastic GPA and MCAT scores but didn’t get into med school because they give bonus points to mediocre women. Fact is that your going to wind up being a wage slave to these ladies anyway as they just vote for the government to take it from your paycheck by force. As we type this the average woman takes out more than $200,000 more than she puts in for taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:17 PM
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No, I’m the one better off. My x is a shitbird and I feel bad for the guy currently trying to put up with her. Yeah your theory works great when life is easy and when nothing changes. But when life smacks you in the face, what are you going to do then? I knew a beautiful girl who got hit in the face with a loose board from a truck at 22. Her face is very badly damaged and she nearly died. Her fiancé didn’t walk away and didn’t go cheating with other women. He married her and they have 5 kids tod…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:10 PM
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No people do what they are taught to do. North Koreans actually believe Kim Jong Whatever is a God. Women are taught to follow feminism whether it’s good or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:59 PM
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I’m 41 and still playing the game long after all my red pill buddies have settled down to raise kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:01 PM
2

The last 20 years? I think the clear answer is… nothing. The last 100 years feminism has been very important for women… but achieving nothing recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:47 PM
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That statement is so generic I have no way to respond. Feminism told you why you were abused? What kind of abuse are we talking about? Because I’ve never seen feminism explain anything even close to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:43 PM
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It could be very interesting. I’m one of the few old guys on here from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:39 PM
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Yes because it’s just fucking “magic”! I’m not going to argue this point with someone whose preference is ignorance. Also you make a commitment to someone that isn’t a commitment? You seem to view your cell phone contract as more important than your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:38 PM
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When you commit to someone, then you DO have an obligation to find them attractive and to maintain it. I was married years ago and when my xWife gained weight, I failed to work on myself and stay attracted to her. It made me generally unhappy at a time when everything in my life was going well. Today I would never have this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:17 PM
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Because human attraction is just “magic”? I’m so tired of people refusing to take responsibility for their actions and attractions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:58 PM
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Most of the ladies who participate in this discussion are significantly older than the males here. I think it’s likely that younger prettier women just have better things to do than bitch at teen boys and incels online.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:46 PM
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… for all but the supermodel looking folks average should be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:37 PM
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What is that even supposed to mean? I’d bet that on average a guy can’t tell Low effort sex with any reliable certainty until he has had 4 to 10 sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:37 AM
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That says more about you than them. Most of the guys on here are pretty normal. The women are slightly below average as a general rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:32 AM
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It takes quite a bit of experience to be able to tell the difference, so your average guy simply can’t tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:28 AM
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This point kind of underlines a difference between red and blue pillled people. More women are blue pill therefore more women are likely to say this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 10:40 PM
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Well… No law requires me to respect such men. Luckily for them… thats what gets them off. Actually, I think a lot of these guys need counseling and help rather than to dive into fetishizes. Of course the bisexual men are a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 09:29 PM
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True but the study shows the effect is almost universal. I’m pretty sure it even works on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:06 PM
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Negging works on women of all attachment styles. This has been known since the original study in 1966 and confirmed again in 2003. Attachment style does not directly play into whether the technique works or not. Instead the only thing that matters is whether the subjects self esteem is temporarily lowered or not. I’ve personally found this to work better on secure attachment style women than anxious. The reason is that this technique requires the Neg to be delivered playfully and with an air of …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:07 PM
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You probably don’t know any red pill techniques, so it’s hard to take your opinion seriously on this. I not only know them, but also use them to remarkable effect. Some of them actually work better on mature women who have great self esteem than they do on insecure college girls who are essentially the target group for most guys. You are wrong. A great example is the of technique of “Negging”. The technique itself was actually based on a psychological study that showed when women felt more insec…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:52 AM
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Red pill techniques work on almost all women. You have to adapt it to the culture you are dealing with and that can take some thought, but in the end it almost always works. The data essentially proves this true. When we are talking about hypergamy it’s very important to understand it expresses itself differently in different women. Sometimes money, sometimes looks, sometimes social status… etc. however it’s always there in a way that it simply isn’t for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:13 AM
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I have to say that chubby middle aged Asian women are some of the best partners around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:52 AM
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That represents a tiny portion of foreign brides. The guys who get scammed are usually men from their own culture…. And frankly these guys should know. Let me just say I’ve dated both. Depending on the culture, most foreign women are not that complicated. I’d say they get scammed by American men much more than they do the scamming. I think you are very naive about what goes on in American marriages. Our culture is like battery acid when applied to morals… it just slowly eats away at them until y…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:19 PM
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Lol… Because American women don’t cheat constantly and treat you like a wallet? I hear what you are saying and I’ve seen it happen once or twice… usually to men who are shitheals. But, compared to the general population these relationships are way better on the average. I’ve dated a huge number of American women over the years. I’ve been married and divorced to them… I know the system in and out. They have some positives but also deep deep negatives… especially for traditional men. You have to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 12:17 PM
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100% true. However, you have to recognize that a mediocre woman in say Malaysia or the Philippines… or essentially most of the world is WAY higher quality than a mediocre American woman. It used to be that the American ladies could play the higher earning card, but they suck at even that today.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 11:58 AM
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Are you kidding? They are going to rule for decades maybe even centuries with AI surveillance possible in the future. Meanwhile we can’t even make our streets safe for fucks sake!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:07 PM
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I’d say they have a higher likelihood of fixing their issues than we do. Americans are much more interested in who gets to piss in the ladies room.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:05 PM
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I’m talking about centralized one party rule supported by an enormous surveillance state. M
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:05 PM
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I know several fat rednecks married to women from other countries. Fact is that a lot of times a woman from say Peru is just looking for something different in a man than say a woman from LA. I totally agree that most high quality international women want to marry within their culture. However… they have a lot more quality women than we do and men can succeed by playing the margins.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:05 PM
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I think your skepticism is well placed. These tech moguls are greedy bastards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:34 PM
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Actually… I don’t think western women prefer western men. I think they just don’t have other options. I see them chasing around men from other cultures and ethnicities all the time they just always lose because those guys have a great sense of what’s valuable in a woman. I know a lady who married a guy from Kenya. They had a baby, he got his citizenship papers and that was the last she or the child ever heard from him again. As for non western women adapting… they do to a degree but not often en…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:20 PM
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It won’t. US Culture is a failing model. It will have some impact, but eventually will be destroyed by a more successful model… like what China is doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:08 PM
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Please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:07 PM
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Oh Snap! This is a great point. However, the prime difference is that western men are still high quality compared to guys around the world whereas western women are very shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:44 PM
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You need to get out of the US for a bit and see the world. Most places are saying Yes to US tech but saying No to US culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:39 PM
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There is a lot of truth in this statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:16 PM
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The more they have the more a woman can take in a divorce/child support setting. You should acknowledge that a lot of this isn’t driven by artificial societal rules and laws not biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:33 PM
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New York has been an expensive place for a long time. Your grandmother was just one of the small number of ladies who worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:31 PM
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Yeah… our grandparents generation had a 75% stay at home mother rate. Also… if you are stressing over money and need a woman to come bail you out then you already fucked up. Sure broke ass dudes want a sugar momma. But I think for most Of the guys our age..: we’ve never made so much money as we have the last year or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:13 PM
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Just because you don’t understand an idea doesn’t mean it’s wrong. Calculus exists and works to describe real world actions whether you passed the class or not. It’s true that men do not particularly care about social status in a sexual partner. However, it is a prediction of red pill theory that massive marriage penalties plus required large investments in children will predict men being much more attune to a woman’s income when it comes to child rearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:09 PM
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It’s not about fun as much as it’s about social status to my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:03 PM
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The dichotomy is stronger in women as far as my experience goes. Which makes sense from a biology standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:59 PM
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So insecure guys should just date women with dementia?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:37 PM
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Sure… I also need to apply the caveat that I know next to nothing about lesbians in other countries besides the US. So nothing I say applies to other cultures. I disagree that those are masculine traits. Most of them primarily apply to low confidence, low self esteem people… not masculine folks. Now, there are traits which do tend to be masculine but they are stuff like self reliance, and tightly controlled emotions. A good study would be this one which is fairly famous. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:04 PM
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What are you talking about? I’m not making blanket statements about anyone, just talking about my experience and making sure to say it doesn’t include everyone within that community. Which, by the way is the opposite approach of the other poster who is clearly making hateful stereotypes about men without bothering to acknowledge exceptions. So who is violating TOS?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:41 PM
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I think it’s well known that when you get too personally involved in a community you lose the ability to really observe it or understand it from an objective standpoint. You may know more about the lesbian community than I do, but you clearly understand it less. I guarantee I’ve dated more women than you have and they do all the same shit you accuse men of doing if you date the wrong ones… which is my point about men. Stop dating abusers and suddenly you stop getting abused… funny how that works…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:35 PM
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Ah… and fatness deserves its own post. Yes Americans are fat, but those under age 40 tend to stack up well against other similar nations in terms of size. Do fat American women get sex easily? Yes. Do they get relationships easily? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:28 PM
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I think it’s because lesbians tend to be made while gay men are born. I mean if you are fat and ugly as most lesbians here are… you simply won’t be able to attract a decent man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:25 PM
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Comparing lesbians to men is difficult. Male asshole behavior is typically physical, while lesbians seem to engage in reputation destruction which does more lasting damage. I’d rather be punched any day. Another point is that men who are assholes seem to be like 1 in 5, whereas lesbians are much closer to 60% or 70%. I mean generally if you want a good experience with men it’s damn easy to find. Now, I live in an area with lots of lesbians so some of the issues you list which come from being in …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:21 PM
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That’s not really how women work. Haven’t you ever got into a situation where you did something that you didn’t originally intend? I’m willing to bet that a full 2/3rds of the women I slept with on a first date came into the date with the opposite expectation. Not many people today have any kind of self discipline where we live. Also regarding SKorean guys. Hell yeah they are expected to be faithful. That’s why they greatly prefer prostitutes to tawdry affairs. Sex workers don’t talk. When these…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:24 PM
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I assume that means your first marriage failed for sexual reasons? Don’t get me wrong. If I could go back in time I would have an insane amount of sex. However, I have to acknowledge that the way things unfolded created who I am today… so I can’t say that I have regrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:11 PM
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Would having lost your virginity earlier made any kind of difference in the outcome of your marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:56 PM
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I’ve dated in a lot of different countries and the key difference is in the attitude towards marriage combined with how divorce laws work. In our country women are greatly protected in divorce and marriage isn’t well respected. That combination makes it a viable option to try and take someone else’s husband if you aren’t finding what you want among single men. The thing you need to understand is that very few women step into a situation openly trying to be a homewrecker. However, they also don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:53 PM
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People don’t really change much… so this type of thing is a change in tactics, nothing else. I think we kind of can agree to disagree on Tinder. Most places women greatly prefer not to mess around with taken men. America is kind of where this flips. A lot of us will wear fake wedding rings to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:26 AM
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We aren’t talking about her changing. We are talking about her treating men differently. In virtually all of these situations it comes with a drop in physical standards and a reduction in sexual chemistry as a valued dating metric. It’s like taking your riding lawn mower onto the freeway… it’s just dumb. People who get Does it matter if your ultra handsome one night stand has a GF or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:09 AM
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One is a genuine woman and the other is a hustler. Design matters a lot. I once almost killed myself trying to tow a boat with a truck that was too small. Relationship formation doesn’t work well when based entirely on shallow things like looks. People use them because it’s WAY easier for these companies to make money off men. Take a moment and consider their business model. They are selling hookups to men… women are basically the thing being sold. Does that sound like a great model for meeting …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:44 PM
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A woman who doesn’t want hookups and has never done hookups is wildly different from a woman who has done them and now claims she wants no hookups. Most apps like Tinder were never designed for dating. In fact, the very lack of any kind of profile information and that decisions are made almost entirely based on photos would indicate to a reasonable person that this isn’t for serious dating. I’d go so far as to say anyone looking for true love on these apps are idiots! If you are going to be dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:45 PM
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Don’t worry, we like you more because of it!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:09 PM
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The definition of “genuine women” is debatable. Most women looking for something serious should not be using a hookup app. When your gender does something shitty in dating you automatically get tainted by it. That’s how life works. Men have to deal with so much bullshit because of all the nutty weird fuckers out there that you just need to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:07 PM
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Haha… Now everyone knows what you’ve been up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:04 PM
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I consider both of those as dates. Technically a hangout/date is not the same as a specified hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:54 PM
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It’s not seen as a challenge so much as it’s seen as bullshit. Unfortunately you have to deal with the fact that all the other women are generally lying about not doing hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:50 PM
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The only women who post “no hookups” are the ones who have done and will do hookups. Also… asking for a hookup is dumb. Instead a hookup is the result of a successful date so ask for that instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:15 PM
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In places like Texas it’s like $3000 a year. I spend that much at Starbucks. My problem with free is that people don’t respect free shit. Most of community college is taught in high school in other countries. To my opinion the big problem we have isn’t cost… because there seems to be an unabating tsunami of fools willing to pay. Instead it’s in standards and workloads. Kids should be separated by age 12 into college and vocational tracks. Kids who don’t do well in school need to be given a path,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:13 AM
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How do you feel about making college free?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 11:31 PM
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$80,000 isn’t very much. Especially, when you can borrow that money at super low interest rates and pay it off over a 15 year period. Let’s be honest… a $40,000 degree is only a burden if you are stupid and got a degree for a career that doesn’t pay well. My cousin paid $60k, for a math degree and works as a programmer at Amazon. He made north of $300,000 last year. He paid his loans off in 2 years. Meanwhile my female friend who does low pay social work is drowning in her loans… but that’s beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:33 PM
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