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Yes like he literally is a cloud of filth. These men need to be publicly shamed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 12:39 PM
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A guy I’ve recently ruled out has toenails so long other people commented on them on public. He also doesn’t wear socks or underwear. He also was unemployed after being fired and is incredibly lazy, nearly completely broke at 30. Got kicked out of his last house for not paying rent but blamed it on his roommate who was a “hateful b*tch.” Oh yeah, this same guy is so dirty he literally left smudge marks on my walls after leaning on them. He also left my front door open for an hour after we left T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:20 AM
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FWB: When I had to beg him to take me out, and he still was on his phone the whole time. When he would knock on my door at 2am wanting to come in, but was “busy” or “tired” when the sun was shining. I thought I was being cool by not demanding much but really I was just being a clown. Ex boyfriend, dated 3 years: When he said I should just wait until the end of the day so he could let me know if he wanted to see me or not, instead of us planning to spend time together beforehand. When he’d consta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:06 PM
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This happened to me and it sucks! next time make some plans to catch some live music or something fun on your own. Might as well make the most of getting all dolled up, and more people will approach you if you’re out by yourself. Good job blocking that loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 01:08 AM
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Side note, did anyone else practically scream at the fact that they alll had flip phones? Just makes me think how far we’ve come in terms of technology. And I wish Gigi would have continued to date the cousin Bill instead of ending up with Alex. She was such a pick me and still ended up with the guy, I thought that defeated the whole point of the movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 06:33 PM
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Each time I updated my Facebook status or somehow posted that I was in a relationship, the relationship turned to shit. I used to think it was me, but now I know the truth. The most I’ll do if I ever get into a serious relationship again is to post a photo of us together, maybe 6 months in. I would want him to post about me at some point because too many men have social media profiles set up as if they’re single to so they can appear available.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 06:30 PM
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I’m 32 so older than you, just be thankful you’ve been educated as early as you have! Throughout my life, I see time after time where I unknowingly implemented FDS and was better for it, but got lots of shit from other people. There were also times when I was a pick me, approached men first, and paid for dates. You live and you learn. There is HEAVY pressure today for women to do the asking out. To be soooo confident that you’ll just march up to a man, see if he wants to fuck, and go on your way…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 06:26 PM
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Holy shit, this EXACT THING happened to a former friend of mine. She is a grade A pick me too. Indian men often date white women before settling down with the arranged Indian woman their parents will pick for them. It’s because white women are known to be loose and the guys want to have fun before they settle down. My friend dated a guy from her job who was here from India. Same thing with the parents too—they hated her and said they’d never be in the same room with her because she ate beef. The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:00 PM
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Sometimes when I feel like I’m doing something too “mean” I think about the things I’ll regret when I’m lying on my deathbed, realize that cutting contact with smelly limp losers isn’t one of them, and smash the block button.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 06:56 PM
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Heh, I find myself using the terms “level up” especially last night as my friend was telling me in detail how she cleans her boyfriend’s apartment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 06:47 PM
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Personally I would, peolle get divorced for many reasons. Of course I would pay very close attention to how he talked about his divorce and ex. I don’t think I would date someone who has been divorced more than once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:50 AM
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Physically: started taking the stairs at work; my ass looks great. Emotionally: started telling myself that I am worthy of respect instead of feeling awkward or embarrassed when in certain social settings. I used to always feel like a burden if I was invited somewhere, as if they had done me a favor by inviting me. Now I tell myself that I have every right to be there. Financially: bought a new car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:03 PM
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I think it’s just because they don’t care. Once they have you sending paragraphs, they know they have all the power and they’ve already won. It feeds their ego to leave you on read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 12:46 PM
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“Today I was making his lunch” Don’t even need to read past this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 12:44 PM
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Advocating for women not treating their vaginas like a community carousel=hating men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 12:38 PM
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Same exact thing happened to me. Guy would call me on his long drive back from the military base and we’d talk for three hours. Then he’d want to go running and eat lunch together, but when I brought up dating he insisted we were friends. They just want the girlfriend experience without doing any work. It makes them ecstatic that they have so much control over you to where you’d devote hours of your day talking to them on the phone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:13 PM
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The name of that Facebook group is amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:48 AM
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I would just reframe it as, this is the point of dating, to see if you are compatible. If there isn’t a connection, then no harm no foul. It would be worse if you kept stringing him along knowing you weren’t interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:09 PM
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I don’t care what men say, they do NOT like it when women pursue them. They think they do, because what they really mean is that they would like for a woman to show interest which would give them more confidence in approaching her and thus reduce the chance of rejection, but in theory this never works. The men who say this are most likely fat, unkempt neck beards living in squalor who repulse people for miles, so of course they say they want a woman to approach them since none give them the time…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 03:53 PM
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I had a friend who dated a man from India and this exact same thing happened. He was living in the states, they started dating, and were still together as he got a plane and flew home and married the woman his parents had arranged for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:39 AM
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A Prius!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 11:25 PM
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I think they raised their sons this way on purpose because they didn’t get their emotional needs need by their likely LVM husbands, so they figured their sons would be a stand in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:52 PM
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Picking up women at a toy store like a true clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:47 PM
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Spoiler alert: he won’t. The best you’ll get is that he will dangle that as an option when he senses you’re pulling away, but it will still just be a ploy to keep having sex. Ask me how I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:49 AM
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Not quite, but right before finding this sub I had ended things with a guy I met through online dating because he was doing the slow fade and I called him out. We agreed to be friends. I found this sub a few days later and realized that a passive low effort guy did not deserve my friendship. He’s texted me twice since then, and I’ve ignored him both times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:21 AM
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I’m sorry you’re feeling that way. Dating is definitely a grind. I know it’s hard not to focus so much on it, but it’s really one part of a fulfilling life. Also, mixed signals mean no. If you get them, just save your emotional energy and move on immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 03:55 AM
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I would replace the word sideline with “focus on improving yourself” and then it won’t matter if men are interested in you or not. By pursuing hobbies, interests, building friendships, traveling if possible, and staying healthy, you won’t need to be so fixated on others for approval.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:58 AM
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The thing is, we all know this is true but we just don’t want to admit it. Admitting that men want to pursue means that as a woman, you need to accept that any time a guy isn’t doing this, it means he’s not into you. This can be hard to reconcile with all the new age stuff encouraging us to state our needs and be assertive. Men say they want women to make the first move, but what they really want is a woman who indicates initial interest so that he feels free to make the first move without the r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 09:30 PM
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Agreed. You have chemistry with hundreds of people, but if you aren’t truly compatible then the sex will fizzle our eventually. Also I view sex as an ongoing part of a relationship that can improve through honesty and communication, not some performance that has to wow me the first time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 12:28 AM
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It’s ok, I actually don’t really feel traumatized by it or anything. I recognize now how dangerous and wrong it was, but fortunately it has not affected me negatively.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 10:43 PM
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Yes, when I was 13 AOL instant messenger was really popular. I regularly chatted with a guy who said he was 19. I would send him photos of myself and he would send me videos of himself jerking off. I remember liking the attention at the time because I was unpopular and no guys ever paid attention to me. It was years later when I realized this was hugely illegal and he could have been imprisoned. He lived in the same state as me and once he drove to my town and he called me and was describing my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 08:03 AM
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We didn’t send nudes, but I allowed a man I thought was really into me do the slow fade until I called him out on it. That was before I found this sub, and I realize I should not have been so upfront with my feelings (I liked him and told him this). We got along really well and at first he was making an effort to see me, would bring me small gifts when we saw each other, was talking about taking trips together...I spent the night at his place and turned down sex twice with him and then after tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 07:59 PM
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My mom likes to tell me things such as I was a miserable person who would make any man miserable and that she felt bad for whoever ended up with me. This wasn’t dating advice per se but as you can imagine it’s had quite the negative and profound impact on my dating life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 04:07 AM
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