codbatter Archive

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5	It started i have no advice to give. all i can say is im sorry it happened and hope you get thru it. im younger anyway, 37, im a baby to you... my life experience is nothing compared to yours. my ex wife left me and we got divorced. she took the kids as well, went to a new country. i now never see them. and i dont know how to move on. its been 1.5 years and i am still broken and cant seem to get anywhere. feels like i will be alone forever, i feel such shame. who would want to be with someone like me... i …	/r/Divorce_Men	01/04/24 11:10 AM
5	Lucky im 37 and i envy you. i have to go thru the majority of my life still, with this shit hanging over my head, feeling like a failed husband and father, and i no longer can see my kids cos the ex left and took them abroad. you're 59, even with good health you only have about 20 years left. i have about 40 years left. you dont have to start over. you can just plod along and before you know it you're life will be ending anyway. only way my life ends sooner than yours is if i jumped off a bridge.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/03/24 07:06 AM
1	Sitting sick at home its been 1 and half years for me. i dont see it ever getting better at the moment. ive made my peace with it, just waiting to die.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/03/24 04:01 PM
3	Sitting sick at home same here. my hobby now is to binge tv shows and lie in bed until my legs hurt, and moving from there to my desk on my laptop. when i get tired enough i just go to sleep. ill sleep for an excessive amount of hours just to waste the day. if im at work im alright cos i need money obviously to live, but outside of work i do literally nothing productive and i dont want to, i feel shame and guilt even if shes the one who left with the kids. i cant go out and do anything without even a slight smile or…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/03/24 03:26 PM
3	The more I think about it .. yes. but its too expensive and its not easy, i can only do it if i take holiday time off work. i saw them twice last year, across only 9 days. first time was absolute hell. the ex kept leaving the apartment in the evenings to go fuck with her new bf, who she was also having an emotional online affair with at the time she asked for a divorce. so im sat there in the house with the kids asleep, trying to sleep myself, and the person who i thought was my whole life was going out to get her pussy dri…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/03/24 10:16 PM
8	The more I think about it .. my ex wife left the country and took our kids with her. she now lives in norway with her extended family, in a tiny village where the only job she can do is be a carer for the elderly, and she moved there without even having a plan for a job to support herself or the kids. she now supports them with government welfare money and her carer job, and relies on her dad to babysit the kids. the place they live has absolutely nothing for the kids to do. no shops, no activities, nothing. the closest lar…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/03/24 06:59 PM
5	Daughter has become distant. Anybody else deal with this? my ex wife left me within 3 months of asking for a divorce to another country and took our 2 kids. that was almost 2 years ago. my daughter is now 6 and although we talk on video calls, she is quite distant. she will show me what new things she has mostly, or want to play some kind of game, but she wont talk about anything. i will ask her how school was, what she likes or dislikes, and it's like she's blank - she doesn't know how to respond or im guessing she knows but doesnt want to talk much. …	/r/Divorce_Men	05/03/24 10:07 AM
-6	Dating advice Basically how do you even start dating at this point again? I sure miss intimacy in any sense sadly or having someone caringly ask about my day and life. https://dreamgf.ai/ you want a real woman? forget it. AI is taking over and if you're online most of the day, you would have heard this by now. and it is absolutely true. i tried it out on a trial and sex / getting her clothes off is locked to subscribers but the standard girlfriend experience of feeling connected with someone and talking in ge…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/03/24 10:51 AM
7	Fella’s I need your help! Guys, I’ve been working hard on saving my relationship. For the past 3 months, I have been fighting hard. you're wasting your time	/r/Divorce_Men	04/03/24 10:42 AM
1	MI - My ex is dating a convicted sexual predator does she know her book says she will go to hell for divorcing you?	/r/Divorce_Men	03/03/24 09:04 AM
1	Men getting fucked in divorce bitch	/r/Divorce_Men	03/03/24 01:19 AM
3	Please tell me it gets better No. I don't lie anymore, im honest with everyone. It will "change". It wont get "better" but it will change. this is now a stain on your life and there's nothing you can do about it, you're gonna become 85 years old with hypothetically another 2nd failed marriage, more kids, and a 3rd marriage to some other old woman next to you that you never planned on ever being with and you will still sit in your armchair and think "my first marriage, what a shame that ended, it still haunts me after all the…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/03/24 12:17 AM
2	Is movie style enmeshed romance a masculine ideal? You can get that... you just got to pay something like £500 a year and have a phone. https://dreamgf.ai/	/r/Divorce_Men	02/03/24 12:29 AM
8	Dating a Divorced Man he likely had a very rough divorce and past relationship with his ex wife. it could have given him trauma he is still finding trouble moving past. he may still feel like he is a failure of a man because of the fact that he is divorced. he might be wondering why he deserves you, or why you are with him and what is it about him that you are attracted to. he might be nervous that you too one day will hurt him and he doesn't want to be hurt badly again so he is keeping himself held back. if that's t…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/02/24 11:11 PM
4	Don't give up on being happy all i want is a lady to give me a hug and a kiss on the forehead and to tell me im gonna be ok. doesnt even have to be a relationship, or a date, or even a one night stand. but i can dream.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/24 06:30 PM
8	Don't give up on being happy i gave up tho. im glad tho that someone who is worse off than me physically and mentally has managed to make it. well done op.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/24 06:10 PM
1	Tom Brady was cheated on too reddit removed it. the woke left wingers didnt like that.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/24 10:16 AM
3	Is this the right group? UK yes	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/24 10:01 AM
4	Really low https://chat.whatsapp.com/EzvkrF1pqejLbsQ9YEA7dv your friends are here	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/24 10:00 AM
20	Tom Brady was cheated on too [ Removed by Reddit ]	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/24 08:07 PM
11	Advice for potential divorcee nahh... i cant let it go. you... married her, with cerebral palsy? she aint got a job... well i wonder why? and her parents... died? and now you want to throw in the towel? idgaf that this is for mens support... you imo are being a total prick. a vow is a vow. "in sickness and in health / for better or for worse". are you really gonna come here and act like the majority of all the women doing the exact same shit to their husbands, who are on here, looking for genuine support? gtfo	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/24 09:04 PM
1	I think I have officially lost. Join this: https://chat.whatsapp.com/EzvkrF1pqejLbsQ9YEA7dv and ask to speak to the owner moderator Andrew. it's a group for divorced men who need support in real time chat. there is also an off topic chat of the same group for things not related to divorce, and there is a discord altho that is not commonly used by most.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/24 09:36 AM
5	How long do you keep a pissing match going? it stops when you stick to a schedule on a calendar that you both have on your phones shared between you, and you stop all forms of text or verbal contact with her. you turn up when its your day, bit early or on time, get the kid, say absolutely nothing to her, and drive off. drop the kid back when its time to do so, say nothing except bye to the kid, drive off. if she calls you its only for emergencies to do with the kid, like the kid ended up in hospital. thats literally it. no calls or texts …	/r/Divorce_Men	24/02/24 09:25 AM
3	Hearing about AP from daughter its child abuse. kid grows up thinking of normal life / family etc, now kid is being told by mother that dad's worth nothing and can be replaced. and downvote me if you want idc, but kids growing up follow in their parents footsteps. this is only setting the kid up by the mother, to repeat the same toxicity. when she's grown up she will also likely have affairs, marry and divorce, etc. my ex wife did that to me and her mother also did it, and her grandmother before her also did it.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/02/24 08:52 AM