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Discussioncode5fun/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 02:32 PM
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There are general disagreements in the understanding of male female relations between this article and the red pill. This article doesn't fit the red pill understanding in many levels but dealing with the arguments is like fighting the symptoms whereas it doesn't solve any questions regarding the fundamental problem. The question should be what is the authors understanding of male female dynamics where the answer will probably be just blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/18 02:09 PM
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This. The more you try the more you become beta subconsciously. The mindset to have is that you will be fine with whatever comes. It is paradoxical but the best way to try is to not try at all. It's the IDGAF attitude which keeps the emotions flowing, not being a hormone cook.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 08:35 AM
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The first rule of TRP is to not talk about TRP, the second rule is to not talk about TRP and the third rule is to not talk about TRP.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 08:31 AM
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What the actual fak
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 12:48 PM
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Sorri no americano englando, can you ELI5
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/18 06:12 PM
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What is there to do in case of a failed shit test leading to Contempt?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/18 02:25 PM
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If they do. Then she is already out the door. Wow that actually is a really good indicator
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/18 11:06 AM
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How can you stop the woman from doing those tests. Can you lay some matters to rest for ever?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/18 10:10 AM
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What could have stopped you if he wouldn't stand up for himself?
/r/askTRP06/01/17 09:05 PM
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This is very interesting, never knew any details about that perspective, could you tell a bit more about your motivations?
/r/askTRP06/01/17 04:33 PM
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Then go and fucking get it
/r/ThankTRP01/12/16 08:20 PM
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Cudos to you bro! Keep watching James Bond and watch wolverine and such too, everything that makes you angry and with the always angry but keeping himself from bursting out state is what will make you a champion! Also sign into instagram, create a new accound and follow all this motivation channels, they give a gread daily dose of freaking anger! Now the only thing missing is a Bond Girl!
/r/ThankTRP01/12/16 04:15 PM
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This is my answer but not what you want to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 04:03 PM
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When you are afraid you wont get enough sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 12:52 PM
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You think you are funny, you are not, Yuck, get away from me!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 10:11 AM
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caveman, back to the roots yey
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 09:11 AM
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When you feel weak and are constantly afraid that you will loose her so you have to put a mental chain around her neck to keep her. Being insecure of yourself and afraid to not be liked and ditched one day. All forms of control with abuse is a sign of own weakness. If one can't maintain a man-woman relationship based on trust, respect, love and care, you have to go back to caveman tactics. This is nothing else than that but only using psychological weaknesses. Your society is fucked up if a tact…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 09:11 AM
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What are the written rules of society for marriage? I don't know any, at least I haven't been thought yet. This wasn't the case 100 years ago, it wasn't an option to leave your man only because he didn't met your conditions for you to love him any more. You would fight and work to make it happen. If the reason 2 people get together is based on SMV+status+value and not marriage+unconditional love, they wont work together or self-improve and this is where we end up. it just isn't unconditional. ye…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 01:18 PM
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Thank you master for the strong word. I always ask myself, where is the love in this if it needs constant psychological effort to keep a women. It's like trying to tame an animal which is constantly trying to run away. Where is the loyalty in this? Don't women have the slightest of control over themselves about who they get attracted to? They act like pokemon, you need to defeat them to be with them, but with the difference of them running away as soon as you let them out of the pokeball. Societ…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 11:48 AM
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Held Frame How did your pacifism affect your relationship? There is a saying that the pacifism of WWI made Auschwitz possible in the first place. Would you say that accepting few clashes could prevent a war?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 09:25 AM
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Well, for those of us who are still in it. You said you were hard beta, what would you do differently?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 08:49 AM
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That reaction was completely illogical, like what was going to stop that thing from rolling? Her praying? And the dadreflex too, she was sitting right next to the baby. You can see how big the differences are.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 08:42 AM
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What would you do differently if you knew about red pill back then? Would you able to save your marriage or dodge some bullets?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 07:28 AM
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What a beautiful mind!
/r/RedPillWives27/05/16 11:34 AM
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“Empty your mind, be formless, shapeless - like water. Now you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup, you put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, you put it in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Now water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend.”
/r/RedPillWives27/05/16 11:33 AM
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You are torturing him! lol
/r/RedPillWives27/05/16 11:26 AM
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You are the Alpha in this relationship and you want to swap roles a little bit? Introduce him to the red pill theory and he need to swallow it. Because what you want is clearly hard for BOTH of you and it will be really awkward at the beginning. I would totally recommend doing it if you were planning to get kids in the future but at your current mindset, the benefits will be minor IMHO. I would need more details about the your wishes for the future to give you a valuable assessment of the situat…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/16 07:30 AM
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That link is golden, you should read it all
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/16 10:25 AM
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What I get from that? Society is fucked up
/r/askTRP19/05/16 06:58 AM
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Well she wouldn't agree on that one lol
/r/askTRP18/05/16 05:53 PM
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She smelt the cum not your aura lol
/r/askTRP18/05/16 05:39 PM
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I understand that but it would still need an engagement from the Alpha, it's not like women can smell the alphaness of a male. The women clearly allowed it to happen but I doubt that she made the initiation.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 12:54 PM
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I have read everything and I understand the reasoning but you have a concrete situation and might know something that isn't on the sidebar, like how she behaved afterwards or who made the first move in engaging that situation.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 10:08 AM
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banged the ever loving shit out of her on the regular and threw her out before I left for work. Why would she allow that? Was it something she enjoyed doing?
/r/askTRP18/05/16 07:33 AM
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Do you see it nescessary to always trigger emotions in a girl since they are emotional beings? In the way of keeping a balance of good and bad emotions, balance alpha and beta traits, not let it out of control so she always feels "something" or "anything" and doesn't get bored or hurt. Is this the formula on keeping a girl? Could we see emotions as a material that creates a gravitational pull to make a girl attracted to you? When is it safe to ease emotional stimulation? Maybe when the orbiting …
/r/seduction10/05/16 10:06 PM
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Where to start to read?
/r/seduction10/05/16 08:45 PM
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Give us a story!
/r/seduction10/05/16 08:45 PM
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What do you mean with that? Do you mean acting more like an alpha?
/r/seduction10/05/16 08:44 PM
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I didn't knew this was a thing. What the actual fuck. Who ever does this ever is incredibly stupid.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/16 11:36 AM
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tell her your grandma has the exact same pair of shoes she's wearing Instructions unclear, got slapped in the eye
/r/seduction06/05/16 08:01 AM
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I would really like to understand the women perspective on this points. What do you think when: he goes to the gym often makes you work out pushes you to improve yourself Good point, there is a fine line between inquisitive and distrust.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/16 08:34 AM
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Yes legal is no measurement for ethics. Doing the ethical thing is what is virtuous for me, laws are made by humans and therefore flawed.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/16 07:23 PM
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Why being virtuous doesn't make sense today?
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/16 11:41 AM
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How would you describe that man?
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/16 11:37 AM
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Does your SO know about red pill? Personally it made more aware of the difference and made me think of women as an entirely separate species. I knew there were different but I was not able to empathize with them and see the world from their perspective. All in all it made me more cautious even if I hate a lot of common opinions here, I hate red pill but it thought me a lot. But again I never was in a relationship so I can't tell how I would do.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/16 09:05 AM
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Let the OP decide what's good for her.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/16 07:07 AM
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Stop working full time. This type of a relation worked out very well in the history of humanity. The man works and the woman taking care of the house and the kids. And you have a child which you could spend more time with since I have heard that being mother is a full time job. It might also make him think of you more like a stepford wife because then you depend on him and he feels more masculine. I explain you the frustration of a man: He wants you to do something he can't tell you because he t…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/16 03:25 PM
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the outcome is often less than desirable for either Why is that?
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/16 03:01 PM
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What do you mean with goyim?
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/16 07:28 PM
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Basically animals
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/16 09:05 AM
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According to the sexual market value curve he hasn't even hit his peak yet. You are growing a good fruit lol. Does it make you attracted to him more when he is desired by other women? How would you value his ability on getting other women, how does that affect you? http://www.hookingupsmart.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/smv_curve1-1024x502.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 09:14 PM
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You accomplished what a lot of people fail at. A lot of beautiful stories don't happen because nobody wants to make the first step. You actually made it possible! I know a lot of guys which go by that behavior and never make anything because of what ever girls think when a guy doesn't ever make a move. Maybe they take it as a sign of rejection or they get turnd off because they take it as beta or they straight up don't want to take the risk of failing and what ever might happen afterwards. Life …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 08:01 PM
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This is so sweet! I get the IDGAF attitude but what exactly do you mean with mysterious? Did he not give enough information about himself? Or was he doing something pretty interesting which he didn't talked about? I work out pretty hard and people ask me why I try so hard but I never tell them my motivation, would you say they experience me as mysterious? What was the challenge, did he give you the ball of flirting?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 04:28 PM
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I don't but I have seen women who get attracted by that. They put that in touch with being alpha because it gives the feeling that they are not desperate, they can get any other women aswell and that they see the obligation of continueing the flirt with the women. Like kind of a careless flirting bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 10:18 AM
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In my enviroment it would be enough to see that a men is desired by other women to make him apear alpha and therefore more desirable. Sleeping around is considered dishonorable and there is a tight bond between marriage, sex and relations in general. I think this is a more phenomen that women need proof that men are able to get other women as well. You are basically beta if you have never chosen to get laid before.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 10:15 AM
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Well that suprises me, perceptions can really differ. Why would you ignore someone calling you sweetie to flirt with you? Because it is lame or because your first reason being condescending?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 08:59 PM
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So you actually perceived that as being sort of alpha? This is interesting, there are a lot of traits men consider to be annoying for women which woman perceive the complete opposite. This probably is why most men call alphas douches. It sounds like I might have to become someone I wouldn't like, in order to be liked by women huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 06:45 PM
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Does that count as flirting the way he said it? Do you think he intended that, I perceived it that way. Or did you see it more like on the funny talk type of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 06:20 PM
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Not really, I perceived it like kind of a pickup line of thing. Trying to make the girl like him. Why was it condescending in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 03:23 PM
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So getting laid more often is considered a positive thing from women perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 12:59 PM
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Do you perceive "sweetie" as condescending?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 12:58 PM
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Since relationships and sex can be done without marriage nowadays, it became obsolete to sign that contract. You are right in your logic since there isn't something you can't do without marriage in a LTR anymore. Religion permitted sexual relations outside of marriage but is has lost it's value and with it humanity is loosing the concept of marriage. Your logic has a very bad long term consequence because you devalue marriage and with it the concept of family dies. Your assumption is based on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 11:39 AM
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Interesting perspective, you see insecurity as feminine?
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/16 10:57 AM
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I think being aware of the hamster is the key to self improvement. Not just for women but for every human being
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/16 09:06 AM
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What do you mean with "insecurity is better"?
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/16 09:03 AM
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Very strict analysis, gj mod
/r/RedPillWives29/04/16 06:54 AM
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life long relationship
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/16 06:47 AM
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None of this is true. IMHO your situation is worrysome but you are fine with it. I wouldn't call your mindset particularly healthy. You don't love any of the 2 guys or any guy at all. You turned relations into soft of a game.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/16 09:37 PM
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If you always think that you are doing the right thing, you never learn
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/16 06:24 PM
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I've dated and slept with several others since I've known both of them. I'm available. This breaks my hearth, where is the love in this, how can you be into someone and then still go and sleep with someone else. Is this what society has turned into. From my perspective, you are unable to love. Treating men like shoes, classifying humans like alpha and beta then looking down to a certain group, what is wrong with you. For me this entire thing is just an other expression of racism, no hearth invol…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/16 02:08 PM
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You gain more self control by not giving your body everything it wants. You are a soul and a body. Your body is an animal and your soul is an angel. The one you feed gets more control over you. You need to weaken your limbic system (emotions and desires) and strengthen your prefrontal cortex (executive control). This is how you gain more self control and overcome procrastination. The way you do that is meditate and tame your body (no porn, popcorn or chocolate). Allow your mind to be quit and st…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/16 01:20 PM
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This article is a slap into the face of society. The 3 day rule sounds interesting, what kind of a game would that signalize?
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/16 12:56 PM
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Yes, in a society whit no honor code where everyone could sleep with everyone, you can expect to be sexual rival with everyone. At the current rate, in future this will also count for same sex relations. Try to be more passive with their husbands, act cold or like you are not interested in them as a person. In fact, if you make their husbands talk cold about you with your girlfriend, your relationship with her will get better. Don't outshine your friends in front of their SO. Act like Carla Brun…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/16 12:48 PM
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The problem is that everyone has an other interpretation of this topic, like you have, so when 2 people met, 2 individuals, 2 entities of life, it becomes very probable that they have very different understandings of the same thing. This is where the thunderbolts happen and where people get separated. There is no general definition for a "relationship" or "marriage" or "sex" anymore but we know that it takes 2 people to run this things. This 2 people grew up in different cities, went to differen…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/16 12:35 PM
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There is a much bigger game going on than you think. Western society is being pushed towards a group of loners because loners are easier to control than strong people which grow up in a family. There are very few strong personalities emerging from situations which are accepted nowadays. An institution as old as humanity itself, family, is shown as boring and worthless and you are under the influence of media which is just a tool of this powers. Everything is supported and well spoken but family.…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/16 11:32 AM
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What do you mean with reapproved
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 09:48 PM
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I have read it somewhere and agreed with it pretty much but don't remember where it was now, I will search up the source if you want.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 08:37 PM
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Well you have to set priorities at some point. If there is no relax in sight at your job you are essentially giving up your irreturnable lifetime for it. I guess you guys won't be on the street if you take a break to search for a better job or education to rank up. Quality of life isn't always money, it's happiness. You might be able to take it because you are young but it'll get harder more and more when time goes on.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 08:04 PM
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Ok
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 07:58 PM
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So true...
/r/RedPillWives27/04/16 06:28 PM
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And also read this: http://web4.uwindsor.ca/users/w/winter/Winters.nsf/0/088d079afb58d6688525709a000567b4/$FILE/surrendered.wife.natpost.pdf
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 06:10 PM
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Yoghurt with strawberry jam and fresh baguette!
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 06:05 PM
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Who knows in which circumstances she was raised. I can't imagine what her mother told her when she was not happy with the meal. But it gets better from generation to generation. I'm sure you have learned from your mother and won't do the same mistakes. It is hard to change such hardwired things on grown ups. People are like concrete, once they dry it's hard to change and everything leaves a trail while it is not dry yet. Kids are often getting stepped on while struggling with life.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 05:40 PM
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Which shows how important it is to cook well. In my army time I have learned that good cooking is not tasty for you, it is tasty for the ones who will eat it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 04:41 PM
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Huh that sounds easy, didn't expect this kind of things to be considered alpha. That gives hope! Could you give some examples of men which you would consider as alpha? e.g would you consider Richard Feynman as alpha?
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 02:11 PM
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Well that one I call a story you can tell your kids!
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 02:08 PM
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I understand, good point. What for example are alpha traits that would make a man marry-able?
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 11:14 AM
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Why did you congratulate her on "landing" a husband? Because it is hard to land a husband or because it is a difficult call she committed to and you hope that she made the right choice from the beginning?
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 11:03 AM
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1. Food is the way to a man's heart. not really, I eat everything but cooking shows that you care about family 2. Put yourself first. yes, and tell him what you want, men are not good with figuring out your puzzles 3. Save money. yes, wasteful behavior is careless behavior 4. Don't talk bad about him. yes, gossip is betrayal and if you do it about your SO you are killing of your own relationship 5. Kiss him often. yes, even if we act all tough, we still melt with kisses (jet kisses can't melt st…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 10:55 AM
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Fuck that behavior. Gossip never did anything good but this is another level of betrayal.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 10:21 AM
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But it doesn't work if you have more muscles than him tho
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 10:18 AM
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I will give you a quick gem right here: Make him feel stronger than you. Like being unable to open a can and let him do it. Or being unable to carry the groceries and comment him for his strength while he is doing it. Even if it's acted and he knows it is, it will be such a turn on for the man. We are still animals and we are hardwired to our stone age selves and pushing up his confidence will make him love you more and in return his confidence will make you attracted to him more. It is a cycle …
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 10:10 AM
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If a relationship is not for marriage and living together for ever than what is it even for? I think marriage should be the ticket for a relationship, a starting point, the reason to start with. There should be no package before marriage at all. See the struggle of human beings with this topic, with no 100% commitment it's doomed to fuck up from the beginning.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 10:04 AM
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What a gem! That's a person worth dying for.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 09:58 AM
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It comes from a mindset that women are generally hornier than men and that this is the reason why men which emphasize sexual behavior more upfront get to get it much likely since they give women what they want anyways. In my opinion this is a false interpretation of the fact that women are more attracted to alpha males. In stone age women needed the protection of men against wild animals so they tended more towards stronger males. In later ages this tendency shifted towards agricultural skill so…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 09:03 AM
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It means that he wanted a little bit of time for himself over a long period but never said anything because he thought he might hurt you so this situation pushed him to a point were he couldn't take it anymore and he reconsidered his choices. The relationship was taking his energy and it was an effort for him because he didn't feel well which is probably not a healthy thing at all. Talk to him about his private time where he is all alone and can enjoy loneliness. Man are like fish in a tank. The…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 08:49 AM
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Cooking and eating at home is an anchor in life. A set meeting to take a breath from everything and be together makes you remember what a home means. Doing cleaning yourself instead of outsourcing will give your SO the feeling that you care and it teaches your children that they might have to do things in life which are necessary but they don't want to. Since we are at children I want to share an experience I maid seeing my little sister grow up. She went overweight because my mother didn't cook…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 08:42 AM
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God gave you 1 tongue but 2 cages. Your lips and your teeth. So you think twice and talk once!
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 08:12 AM
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Never stop trying to do the right thing, even if it doesn't fit your momentary codex. Without dynamic rules you can't change yourself. Don't be slave to your own rules!
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 08:10 AM
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Yeah pluck eyelashes, wax that shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 07:45 AM
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It is very thoughtful for both of you to care so much for each other. I don't think it is unattractive to not have female friends, I don't think it is attractive either. I think he is worried that you might be in some kind of depression because your situation is unimaginable for him as for him being an extrovert. You should just talk to him about how you feel exactly and that you are alright being like that. It is important to say it directly since guys are not good at solving your puzzles, espe…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/16 08:46 AM
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