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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
70	My ex joined my hobby group. I'm thinking of leaving it. :(	FDS RESCUE MISSION	coincoin_	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/08/20 06:21 AM
24	Blocking ex on OLD?	FDS RESCUE MISSION	coincoin_	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/06/21 11:58 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
43	FDS: From minimizing dating disappointment to averting life-derailing disaster - Or the power of sticking the hell up for yourself. This is 100% the hardest part. You need to love you the most, no matter who joins you for the journey. You cannot love your memories more, you cannot love the potential fantasy (if he changes) more, you cannot love him more. You have to choose you. I just ended a 7 month relationship with a guy who seemed really sweet and thoughtful. But after meeting his parents for Christmas, the thoughtfulness just...vanished. He started asking me for gas money, when I said no he said "well cars don't drive t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/22 04:22 AM
3	Blocking ex on OLD? Yes, this! Thank you	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/06/21 01:17 AM
5	Blocking ex on OLD? That hurt to read! Another friend just told me something similar. Sis does not have my back here. I did leave the hobby group and I've got some new hobby friends now! With the app, I feel I can control access by blocking, but I'll probably end up deleting this soon enough. Field report incoming!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/06/21 01:15 AM
6	Blocking ex on OLD? LOL it could be?! I was really doubting myself 😞 I haven't told her I'm on FDS but since I found this sub we've been disagreeing more and more when it comes to men and relationships. Since childhood I've been the socially awkward nerd and she's the cool girl so I've leaned on her a lot when it comes to dating advice. We're both grown ass women now and I'm trying to set boundaries but I do feel shamed out of having bad gut feelings around her. I used to look up to her (guess I still do, I'm still…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/06/21 01:01 AM
7	Blocking ex on OLD? I'm gonna reread this every time I second guess my blocks! Thank you! 🥲	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/06/21 12:36 AM
2	Asian Men and their hypocrisy Laughing at this because I've been told to by my Asian girlfriends to date white men because it'll be less dramatic! I wish more Asian men understood the insane cultural expectations that are placed on Asian women and that yeah, a life without that particular cultural baggage can look really attractive. (Side note - this world knows no peace, LVMs come in all shades) I'm half Asian/European and when my parents got divorced, it was so maddening to watch everyone in the community blame my mom. The…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/03/21 02:43 AM
72	The few times I heard about crazy ex bfs stories, the victims were brutally assaulted after they got stalked, their faces were burnt with acid or they were just murdered and their bodies left to rot in a ditch. But scrotes don't ever raise voices against such violence, they think she wanted it. This gave me shivers! It's been over a year but I'm still scared of running into my ex (he threatened me with a knife). What I hate is how much the burden of proof rests on me. So many of my male acquaintances will have a good laugh and take a couple jabs at the crazy ex girlfriend stories without explaining why she was crazy. When I mention my ex and how afraid I am, they need proof. When they get the proof, they go quiet. They say "but not all men" and "you need to trust again". These are the …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/20 05:42 PM
13	On Disclosure: Your Past is None of His Business I wish I understood this before covid hit. I'm an essential worker and the shit my team has been through trying to work in a pandemic has been crazy. Went to my boss about it and he was all ears and seemingly sympathetic... but now the fact that I spent any amount of time at work struggling is being used to deny me a raise and promotion. Your last paragraph is something I'll try to live by at my next job, there's nothing to salvage here but a paycheck.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/20 10:36 PM
2	My ex joined my hobby group. I'm thinking of leaving it. :( I will report! This needs to be my new mantra. I can't let this slide ever again. One of the hardest parts of recovery is forgiving myself for not reporting at the time...I'll get there. Reaching out here and to the emergency helplines has been a really important step in that. The helpline operators told me they understood why I didn't report it then but that they are there to support me and now that I'm ready to report if something happens, I will follow through and get the cops involved. Every…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/20 12:55 AM
3	My ex joined my hobby group. I'm thinking of leaving it. :( That's what my gut says too! :/ I have a bad habit of minimizing those gut feelings but even the operator for the women's emergency line told me to listen to it. I've decided to cut ties with the hobby group, I just don't want to chance having an encounter with him. There are other groups and I'm nervous to restart but I will try joining those instead :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/08/20 04:07 PM