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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERScompscihelp111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:52 AM
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REMINDER 👑compscihelp111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 07:50 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYcompscihelp111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 06:16 PM
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compscihelp111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 11:44 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨compscihelp111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 12:52 AM
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DISCUSSIONcompscihelp111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:02 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEcompscihelp111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 02:33 PM
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REMINDER 👑compscihelp111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 08:30 PM
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PICKME CULTUREcompscihelp111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:17 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF FAMEcompscihelp111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 09:55 AM
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DISCUSSIONcompscihelp111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 06:33 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEcompscihelp111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 01:46 AM
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Question For Womencompscihelp111/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:51 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEcompscihelp111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 09:20 PM
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NAH, SIScompscihelp111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 05:07 PM
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Discussioncompscihelp111/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:28 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨compscihelp111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:13 PM
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DISCUSSIONcompscihelp111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 08:03 PM
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Check back years later where they eventually come out as gay. A tale as old as time. Been in the LGBT community long enough to see this happen and my gay male friends admit the same. A lot of bi men are self hating gay men who like the status/validation of hetero relationships and years of hetero bias/socialization makes it hard to realize you’re fully gay and your attraction to women is forced. They have so much to lose when they realize they’re gay so bisexuality is a coverup for many of them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:22 PM
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Agreed. I’d prefer to date another lesbian too. And straight women preferring straight men makes a lot of sense. Bi people also prefer to date other bi people. People want those who understand them without judgment and sexuality is a big part of it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:17 PM
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I even mentioned that in my post. My gay male friends have told me that many bi dudes eventually come out as fully gay. Combine that with high STD rates and it’s no wonder straight women don’t want to date them. A lot of ‘bi men’ are self hating gay men who like the status/validation they get from hetero relationships. A lot of them just think they’re bi because of years of hetero socialization/bias in our society and it takes a while to snap out of it and realize they’re gay
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:12 PM
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That’s perfect then. Instead of shaming straight/homosexual people for having their preferences it’s better you guys stick to dating each other lol Almost every bi man I’ve met was poly or even the ones who are ‘monogamous’ occasionally expect their women to allow MMF threesomes with other men. How else would they satisfy their dick craving in the long run? Genuine question. I’m curious how this would work if they’re doing a monogamous LTR with women (and most hetero women want LTR and monogamy …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:10 PM
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Ofc it’s always better to judge people on an individual basis but it’s good to have this stuff in the back of your mind and vet carefully. I’m part of the LGBTQ community so this isn’t just me speaking bullshit. This is stuff I’ve heard quite often so it’s pretty common and a valid concern for many women. Who tf would wanna stress themselves out like this? If he’s genuinely bi (and not a closeted gay man using women as his beard/cover up), frequently gets STD tested, is monogamous, and doesn’t h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:21 PM
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Wouldn’t make sense for this to even remotely be on a straight man’s radar. If you are a bi dude then congrats you can easily get dicked down by other men who look like Andrew Tate. I’m pretty sure he’s closeted too Edit: it seems a lot of men here are closeted bi judging by how defensive they got. In a utopian society, if it was socially accepted and women didn’t discriminate against bi men, I wonder how many of them would openly come out. It seems majority of bi men say they’re straight and ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:20 PM
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I get hit on by way more bi men than I get hit on by straight men and they ALWAYS ask me randomly if I’m bisexual like out of nowhere!! Like it’s a vibe or something lol I’m not even masculine or boyish looking. Though my personality is def more boyish. And I wear a lot of plaid shirts. My lesbian online friends who are masc have also been hit on by guys who consider themselves mostly gay lol it’s quite interesting. Queer atttacts queer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:10 AM
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It seems most women who like bi men are usually bi women. They usually seem to date and attract each other quite often I’m gay (female) but people always think I’m bi for some reason and I always seem to attract bi men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:42 AM
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Damn I made a post a while ago on this sub about how I’d rather be a man than a woman lol if only it was that easy to change genders. I wonder how many of us out there would switch genders if it was that easy with the press of a button.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:38 AM
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Leftists are all about freedom until your preferences don’t align with theirs lol then you’re suddenly a bigot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:20 AM
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Are you a closeted bisexual male? I’m curious why this bothers you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:46 AM
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Women are def flakey and harder to pin down but it’s so worth it when you find the right one. They’re so much more fun to talk and chill with. The dudes on dating apps seem like nightmares according to my straight female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:53 AM
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But bi women are interested in women and men both so you’d be seeing their profiles as well lol Which app are you using? Maybe they only show you ugly women profiles because you’re ugly. Some apps do tailor their results like that (for ex: OkCupid)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:50 AM
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Stop coping. I went on Hinge and there’s so many beautiful women i got overwhelmed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:45 AM
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Men claim to be the logical sex but everything they do seems to be based on emotions (hurt feelings) and what their dick wants lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:11 PM
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You can’t refute her arguments so you’re trying to get pity now? Where’s the logic now bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:08 PM
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Of coarse you’re unattractive and can’t get laid so this is your way of getting back at women 😂 Thank god men like you won’t be able to spread your seed to begin with. Natural selection and natures way of telling you to back off. You’re obviously not fit to be a husband or a parent with such mentality but it doesn’t matter because you can’t get a woman to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:07 PM
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Not to mention the women would have to ruin her body, go through 9 months of pregnancy and painful childbirth. Only for OP to suggest that men should leave the women once she turns 30 which is insanely objectifying/dehumanizing and treating her like she’s not a human being but a depreciating asset/baby maker that you discard once you’re done with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:59 AM
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Some of the posts on this subreddit really make me think “are the straights ok?”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:55 AM
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Disagree. I've seen so many young gay couples on Tiktok that have the same wholesome relationship dynamic that I crave. They're like best friends and boyfriends at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:58 AM
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I mean I don't wanna be a full on dom/dominatrix I just want a relationship like the cute wholesome relationships you see between two boys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:49 AM
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Yeah I think so. Theres so many articles on it and i read about it in one of my psych classes too fml here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:33 AM
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Maybe in your generation but most gen-Z are so neurotic and don’t want kids lol marriages and childbirth are heavily on the decline. They’ll be perfectly fine in their 30s especially if they’re bi/pan and remain fit. Gen-Z is also a lot more lookist especially due to Tiktok and social media Most millennial women don’t even wear sunscreen but almost every gen-Z girl I know is into skincare and SPF
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:19 PM
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Alot of GNC women get bullied because they don’t match up to feminine ideals and I think that’s partially why some of them may feel pressured to transition to male. Society seems to get really pissed off when you break out of gender-norms unless you’re a 10/10 Kinda sucks if you’re a woman who feels like a man but don’t wanna transition to male because you know you’d make an ugly male but at the same time being gender non conforming is hard unless you’re a 10/10. I’m basically forced to present …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:24 PM
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Most Gen-Z girls nowadays love the cute/pretty boys you see on Tiktok. E-boys are all the rave. If i was reborn I would want to be a Tiktok e-boy. I have a feeling so many users here are just chronically online since they don't seem aware of recent trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:09 AM
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Dont let the users on this sub shame you for your preferences. Majority of the famous Tiktok boys are cute looking pretty boys with more feminine features lol and they're all usually 18-22. After that they start to look ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:05 AM
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I was cat-fishing/experimenting on Hinge using an attractive woman in her 30s and she got a lot of matches and genuine interest from people in their mid-late 20s,30s, and 40s lol she was slim and had a lot of hobbies/interests listed which made her profile more interesting. It seems like many dudes don't want to accept that women who are in their 30s that are slim, childfree, take care of themselves etc...still have way more options than they do lol even better if she's pansexual (and 25% of you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:09 AM
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I would fucking love to be a Chad in my major. The absolute power and euphoria god damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:11 AM
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Gosh I felt this. Everything you just wrote. I did some research on gender dysphoria after some users suggested it and I honestly think I do check off many of the criteria but I think a strong part of it is I don’t have any feminine characteristics and performing femininity just feels like an instruction manual to me. I don’t know how to do it nor do I desire it, because when you weigh the pros and cons, it just seems like high-effort and low-reward. In the end you’re just a pretty piece of obje…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:47 PM
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Yup I agree. I HATE femininity and anything to do with womanhood I’m absolutely repulsed by it. Especially repulsed by how we’re viewed. I excessively spend hours every day fantasizing about being a handsome man it’s making it hard for me to enjoy my life in the real world because it’s so much better in my dreams where I can be the person I want to be. I hate that I’m trapped in this body and viewed by everyone as a woman it genuinely makes me want to off myself and I have raging envy towards at…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:18 PM
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Handsome poor men can become handsome rich men by getting a CS degree and using their looks/charm to get better job opportunities in that field. No one is born dumb. You have to work and study hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:45 PM
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What do you enjoy about being a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:41 PM
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I was referring to women switching bodies with a man. They can still continue their attractions to other men if that’s how they were previously lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:40 PM
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I mean even if you lock down an LTR, your husband is still going to desire younger women and other pretty woman out there. That won’t guarantee loyalty lol and 50% of couples divorce On the other hand, if I was an attractive man I’d be having the upper hand because all women would desire me and want commitment from me which I can choose to give or withhold. The world would be my oyster and I wouldn’t be restricted by a short timeframe and spend high effort into looksmaxxing Asking out women isn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:09 PM
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Thank you for your brutally honest point of view. I’m also majoring in CS and I always knew if I was an attractive man it would be so much fucking easier to get by. Not to mention having power over both men and women as you mentioned. It sucks because I’m a woman but i always dream about being a handsome man and having all the incels in my major envy me and the confidence boost from knowing I have power over everyone :( Sigh. Maybe in another life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:53 PM
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What do you enjoy about being a woman? No hate I’m just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:35 PM
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Yeah that’s why I said I’d rather be a HANDSOME man than a pretty woman. Yes I do go to the gym 5x a week and eat healthy diets :) If men think going to the gym is hard then imagine the maintenance routine women go through loool the amount of razor cuts I get on my body from trying to shave is just a small example and laser hair removal costs 5-10k a year for full body
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:08 PM
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Well Stacys are still treated as sex objects while handsome men are desired by all women for long term relationships and women want commitment from these men which puts them at a major advantage because they have the upper hand
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:07 PM
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Why not though Assuming you have your same conscience/soul but you’re just switching bodies with a man (while still retaining your identity and memory of your previous self)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:58 PM
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But I thought you guys said Chad’s get multiple women on tinder if they’re the top 10-20%…now you’re contradicting yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:38 PM
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Men can literally grow facial hair, get a nice haircut and hit the gym and they’ll outcompete most guys
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:30 PM
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Idk. I just hate looksmaxxing and taking care of my looks the way women have to. Makeup, skincare, anti aging treatments, keeping your body model thin, hair removal etc.. Attractive men are just naturally attractive and all they need is an occasional haircut and gym membership. They can spend all their leftover money on recreational stuff like video games while I have to spend it on laser hair removal. They can spend their free time doing hobbies and hanging out with their bros while I have to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:26 PM
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But if you had the option to switch bodies with an attractive man why wouldn’t you? That’s like the biggest upgrade lol Being an attractive man is far superior than being an attractive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:23 PM
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Bruh that’s not the point!!! Being pretty means nothing when it’s temporary, you have to deal with insane amount of competition , and you’re treated as a sex object lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:11 PM
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Most bi men are closeted though and they do get sex from women (while being DL with the men they hook up with)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:46 AM
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I’m friends with a woman who’s looks like a tomboy lesbian (but she’s straight) and she gets hit on WAY MORE by other girls than she gets hit on by men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:44 AM
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You wouldn’t be able to tell who’s a lesbian couple for the most part because they tend to not display affection in public (due to fear of harassment) or they just come off as female friends since a lot of women are naturally very touchy with each other so you can’t tell if they’re dating or just close friends. I’ve seen a handful of lesbian couples who I initially assumed were just good friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:42 AM
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Probably perception bias because you would assume the bi women who are dating women/prefer to date women are lesbians and you wouldn’t be able to tell that they’re bi since they’re in relationships with women? Most lesbian couples I see on Tiktok, usually one of them is bi but they don’t revolve their identity around it so you would just pass them off as a lesbian. I also find that bi women who are in hetero relationships always have to let people know that they’re bi so they don’t come off as s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:36 AM
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I find dicks and hairy balls to be extremely unappealing to look at. Male bodies are very gross to me. I’m very much aroused by female bodies though. Tits and pussy turn me on more than anything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:33 AM
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WHERE DO YOU LIVE LOL THIS SOUNDS LIKE HEAVEN FOR ME I do notice the majority of women on Tiktok are either bi or lesbian though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:28 AM
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Yeah there was a meetup group for INTJ's in my city and I was reluctant to join for this very reason. If you're an INTJ woman you're walking on eggshells because everyone is going to try to dismiss you because "INTJ women can't exist!". These men are extra agressive and will try to quiz you and analyze you nonstop. They'll gatekeep and police you around as well just to disprove you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:02 AM
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It's also a sign of a man who probably spends too much time on a misogynistic platform and internet in general. The men who obsess over MBTI are usually INTJ, INTP, INFP, or ENTJ. These are the types who probably spend a lot of time on Incel and Redp*ll forums too. You're right though. Any guy who's obsessed with psychology is usually red flag because their intentions are to use it to manipulate women and excuse their asshole behaviours. In real life, if anyone asked me my MBTI, I'd act very clu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:00 AM
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INTJ has both Te and Fi in the second and third slots, which makes them balanced when it comes to relating to others and themselves, which makes them soft, empathetic and sensitive, so I don’t get where this weird INTJ stereotype comes from. It's because of the subreddit. It's filled with emotionally stunted loser men with no friends who cope by thinking they're dark mysterious genius masterminds who are too good for this world. They unfortunately ruin it for the most of us who have well develop…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:57 AM
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INFP and INTP men are the ones who circulate around incel forums the most. They're both so whiney and most likely to be depressed. They hardly have any goals or ambitions too. INFP men are very solipsistic too and genuinely think they're wounded sad boys 😂 These two types are also obsessed with anime and cosplay and childish looking girls. Their anime girl crushes look like 6 year olds lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:54 AM
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So full of men pretending they are the smartest ever and feeling superior for being shitty humans that possess no emotional intelligence and treat women like garbage. They're very pretentious and identify with 'badass' anime characters 🤮 They seriously think they're dark and mysterious genius masterminds. They're so cringe and emotionally stunted I had to leave that subreddit because the majority of it is posts by the male users talking about how much they hate other people and how brilliant the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:53 AM
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I would never date an INTJ man. They just seem like pretentious assholes with a god complex but most of them are loners with no friends or social life hence they cope by thinking they're superior in intellect 😂 Majority of them are social rejects who spend too much time on the internet being cynical and pessimistic. I've met INTJ men at my workplace and they look like inc*ls but take so much pride in being assholes with low emotional intelligence. They're also ugly neckbeards like Elon Musk. ENT…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:50 AM
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“who hate the idea of suffering alone” This is so true. It’s why misogynists target and abuse women while women who dislike men just avoid them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:33 PM
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I have female professors in their 30s-40s who look younger than the balding scrotes in my program. It’s confusing honestly. Why do men look so ugly and weak these days? I’ve had zero men I’m attracted to in real life. Zero. They all repulse me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:23 PM
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Scrotes are as loyal as their options lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:21 PM
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Yeah a revenge fantasy for all the all the women who’ve rejected them and will continue to do so as these scrotes lose their remaining hair and sanity 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:20 PM
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HAHAHA I made a post about this earlier! I’m in University and there’s virgin men losing their hair and going bald hahah it never began for them 😂 These are the same scrotes who go on the internet and preach about “mEn AgE lIkE FiNe WiNe BrUh 🤪”. They cope so hard lmao I got so many men triggered by that post. I wonder how much hair they lost reading it 🙈 For reference, I was looking at the manosphere groups on Facebook and decided to create a male profile just to get accepted into the groups an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:17 PM
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LMAO this is one of those shows you just love to hate-watch to feel better about yourself. Me and an online friend of mine just recently binge watched Too Hot To Handle and it gave me a similar vibe to the trailer of this show. The only dating reality show that’s FDS approved is probably love is blind because of Cameron/Lauren.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 11:14 AM
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Ugh this hit hard :( I’m in computer science and on the first day of class I also heard some men sitting behind me making rape jokes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 07:43 PM
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Yeah at least half the guys had anime girls as their laptop desktop pics. These anime girls literally look like 10 year olds...There’s honestly something mentally wrong with CS men. I’m just glad most of them will die alone even pickmes don’t want them lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 07:47 AM
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Men would be so outraged if the age of consent worldwide increased to 20. They’d throw a fit. On the flip side, they’d be celebrating internally if the age of consent lowered to 14. I remember a group of guys in my CS classes were talking about what’s the youngest age they can date 🤢 These guys were like 20-24 and talking about if it’s okay to date 15-16 year old girls since it’s the legal age in Canada. So you’re totally right that they’d go lower if they can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 12:46 AM
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You’re 100% spot on. Most men ARE pedophiles and if society had no law regarding legal age of consent, I bet you that the vast majority of them would go for girls even as young as 12.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 12:41 AM
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“A lot of men want the same relationships they say their families had but never thought to ask were the women happy”. THIS. Holy shit. This is what gets under my skin whenever men talk about how relationships were so much better in the past. Better for who? You? It was certainly not better for your traumatized and scarred grandma. Scrotes can only ever see things from their own opportunistic point of view. Ask a man why he wants a relationship or what he likes about his girlfriend and it’s alway…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 04:31 PM
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They want to put in no effort with their looks but expect us to always remain hot and put together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 01:37 AM
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I’m sorry that happened to you. Tech men are at the bottom of the barrel and majority of them are inc*ls so of coarse they’re the loudest when it comes to spewing manosphere crap. It’s the only way they can get their “power” back. In my program, majority of the girls don’t even interact with the guys. We find them REPULSIVE lol the girls huddle together and avoid the guys. As for the CS men who actually normal, even they want nothing to do with the rest of the CS dudes 😂 They make friends with c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 01:35 AM
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Overdoing any cosmetic procedure is always gonna have consequences but subtle amounts of preventative Botox can really help slow down the aging process!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 01:20 AM
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I’ve seen too many men in my program cope with hats and beards 😂 One of them was wearing a beanie and then it fell off and I saw his balding head lmaooooo 😭 It’s getting worse for them I swear. Back in the days men didn’t bald this quick did they? Must be the universe’s way of humbling them 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:08 PM
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Bald men are REPULSIVE lol have you heard of beardfishing/hatfishing? They’ll use Vin Diesel and The Rock as examples of men who look good bald but they’re literally jacked and are 6ft above. The average bald boy looks like a thumb LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:59 PM
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So many women are only starting to realize how having kids with LVM seriously age you like crazy. I’m so thankful for FDS and TikTok and I really hope this generation of women don’t have kids with LVM. Though I’m glad many of them are into skincare, religious SPF wear and Botox.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:55 PM
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Men are becoming more and more useless with time. Society doesn’t value them as much as they used to and now they’re crying in their basements and blaming feminism lol 😝 Most women nowadays don’t need to rely on men financially, can cook and take care of themselves, go to therapy to fix trauma, bond with their girlfriends and use sex toys for pleasure. What do men have to offer nowadays? Most of them can’t make you orgasm, have low EQ, too much baggage and destroy your inner peace. Most men are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:05 PM
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They’ll always find a way to change the narrative. I’ve had one guy tell me that many women love dad bods LOOOOL they’re honestly reaching. These same men say women only want the top 20% of men but at the same time we like bald men with dad bods? Pick one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 10:28 AM
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Ey fellow INTJ :) And girl same here! I can’t WAIT to see the reality hit these delusional men when karma hits them and they start to lose all their hair! It’s gonna be so much fun watching them lose their hair and their confidence simultaneously! HAHA I’m honestly gonna live for this. The fact that I still get mistaken for 16 and men in my program look like 30 year olds gives me sooo much life. These men really need to start saving up for hair transplant than waste their precious time hating wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:12 AM
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Yup I was honestly shocked at the amount of men who have TERRIBLE hairlines, thinning hair and bad posture in my University! These men are so young yet look at them 😂 Reddit men cope so hard but most of these morons live on the internet and can’t even see the reality unfolding. I can tell these losers don’t go outside and interact with the real world. Studies have shown that most men in Uni can’t even get laid and have trouble forming relationships and cope with excessive porn consumption but th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 08:57 AM
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Pure projection lol it’s men who hit the wall and look nasty these days so they wanna bring women down and shred their self esteem. If these men can’t level up they’ll try to bring women down. They know this deep down but cope is one helluva drug. Women don’t hit menopause till they’re 50s but most men will have ED by 40. I was binge watching the show Sex/Life and the girls husband already has ED despite being so young and rich and fit LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 08:52 AM
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This book should be mandatory for ALL WOMEN and also "The Gift of Fear".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:36 AM
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Why only blame his mother though? That itself is kind of misogynistic way of thinking. His father should be equally responsible but anytime a man does wrong it’s automatically the moms fault just lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:06 AM
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his lifeless eyes give him away. You pretty much nailed why i felt so uncomfortable looking at this guy. Dead lifeless eyes...I tend to like guys who look more warm and eyes have more emotions/expressions. Yeah she's just gonna be his forever gf during this lockdown and afterwards he will ditch her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 09:00 PM
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Also...I think shes deleting comments from FDS users. I saw a few comments that expressed concern for her and she deleted them -_-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:56 AM
8

Yeah i first thought it might just be how brits joke around but that was too much tbh he kept undermining her and making it seem like she's the desperate one and he's all cool and indifferent. She kept giggling and laughing but you can tell shes so uncomfortable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:27 AM
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Could u tell me what the passive aggressive comments are? I’m not too familiar with British etiquette I was under the impression it’s how they joke around :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 10:33 PM
8

Interesting...here in Canada brown refers to south Asian/desi
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:50 PM
7

Wow that was an amazing analysis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:45 PM
24

word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:12 AM
28

Yup. She's been isolated for years...living alone with no friends...she craves love and connection. Prob romanticizes it all because theyre both "loners who are deep thinkers" :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:44 AM
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10,000 AUD is INSANE. That’s ALOT of money to meet a guy you interacted with online let alone in the middle of a pandemic. She’s also risking her health holy crap. Tickets typically cost $1000-1500 during pre COVID but she just couldn’t wait. Makes her look so desperate. He could literally be a creep or ex convict for all we know 😭 How can she be this reckless and stupid at 24!!!! He saw her video where she talked about being lonely and depressed and he was like “perfect target”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:26 AM
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ok he actually looks a lot older...i would've guessed 40 🙊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:35 AM
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It is soooo messy because she completely exposed all her emotions and anxiety issues on youtube and he knows her so personally. It makes it easier for him to manipulate her. He also looks a lot older than her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:32 AM
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Thoughts? Do you guys pick up red flags from this guy? If so, list them down!!! What are your thoughts on meeting men across the world like this? ​ She probably thought they had a connection because they're both loners with anxiety. ​ EDIT: CAN SOMEONE TRY TO EMAIL HER OR REACH OUT TO HER???? Tell her the red flags and send her this thread please!!!! i cant find her email :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:20 AM
2

Sorry. It just makes me so angry and frustrated seeing women of my religion like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:52 PM
0

Same. I wish all women were based and browsed FDS but unfortunately so many of them are brainwashed pickmes with zero self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:20 AM
7

I wonder if it’s Jennie from black pink
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:34 AM
3

Are you talking about blackpink Jennie?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:34 AM
8

The status of the world depends on if their pee pee is happy 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:51 PM
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Amen. These dumb fucking scrotes dug their own grave. Convincing a whole generation of men to hate women will only make women seek companionship elsewhere whether it’s with their girlfriends, cats, dogs etc... Men won’t survive a sausage fest. They need women for emotional comfort and sex and women don’t even need them for that. They can seek emotional comfort from their friends or cats and that probably triggers men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:46 PM
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Yup. I can definitely see that happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 09:39 PM
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It’s crazy how they’d rather do all of that then just change and be a good person lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 08:50 PM
46

Step 2 would be to get more women to value independence, hobbies and other female friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 08:33 PM
1

I disagree about "all women" doing it. Many women and young girls are good at seeing through manipulative bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:20 PM
4

Thanks for posting this queen 👑 But I only see PDF and not Ebook version ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 05:16 PM
20

Now THIS is strategy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 11:34 PM
3

Yes, thank god I am able to detect desperation when it comes to men 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 08:38 PM
6

Glad you found someone like him who wanted to level up. Most men in CS are proud of lacking social skills LOL they think they’re too intelligent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 08:37 PM
9

It is pretty hard especially since most trashy men who are porn/gaming addicts who spend all time on Reddit are generally introverted :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:58 PM
9

Great idea. I suck at public speaking so I could develop my soft skills all the while meeting other people who want to improve themselves. Thanks!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:49 PM
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I mean I stay at home most of the time and don’t really socialize so that’s probably why I don’t get asked out often other than from men who are in my major who I have zero interest in. Most of my surrounding are a LVM cesspool I find most men utterly repulsive :/ I guess I have to force myself to be more extroverted and go outside of my home to increase my chances of meeting a decent guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:46 PM
12

I love books so that’s a good idea. I did join a book club once but it was all girls and a gay guy lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:43 PM
8

I think I might be the same. I’ve never been in a relationship but I’m very curious about it lol I want the experience of dating. I’m def not gonna date during COVID but maybe in a few months... Right now I’m focusing on improving my looks and personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:29 PM
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True. I know how to avoid LVM but how do I find a HVM boyfriend? That’s the hard part. Online dating seems to be the only way for introverted people who don’t go out much but it’s full of LVM trash bags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:16 PM
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There isn’t many threads about finding a boyfriend as an introverted girl who’s not big on the social scene :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:15 PM
1

Yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:48 PM
1

Soft boy doesn't mean overly emotional lmao I dislike anyone who's super emotional too. It's hard to explain but the soft boy i mean is usually chill, romantic, dreamer type of guy. I'm either I or ENTP but I'm weirdly attracted to INFP/ISFP/ENFP boys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 06:45 AM
2

It seems most women in this subreddit are more traditional than i thought
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:57 AM
1

Yeah I’ve also had a bunch of “soft boy feminine” men in my classes hit on me for the most part. But they weren’t attractive like the guys I listed. Also, after this post I had a bunch of dudes DM me as well...They automatically assume you wanna spank them in bed LMAOOO these dumb fucks 😂 Everything is about sex for them. Like chill, I’m not into that BDSM crap I just like the chill friendly PRETTY BOYS. I’m the opposite. Seeing hot pretty guys cry turn me on but if they’re frequently like that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 08:52 PM
1

Yup, we have the same taste almost. I’m with you girl...these guys are hard to find. They’re mostly in Arts programs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 04:13 PM
2

Is he masculine in looks? I think he is. https://i.pinimg.com/236x/4e/68/e4/4e68e46da3466b93a03099015d083d92.jpg His character in Elite is a total crybaby with anxiety and I find that super hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 07:43 AM
1

No, I have a clear vision of what type of guy I like. Hence I’m not drawn to the men I went out with because they don’t fit into the image I have in my head and I’m super fucking picky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 07:36 AM
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Whatever you say lol your post history makes you seem otherwise. I’m almost 21 and yeah I’m extremely cautious and hyper vigilant. I’ve been on tons of dates but I can’t really connect with any guy and the chemistry isn’t there. I automatically get bored of them within days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 07:24 AM
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Ok maybe not the best example I only watched the first movie lol but Katniss def wore the pants in the relationship ;) No I’ve never been abused or treated badly by anyone thank god. It’s just I’ve always been extremely cautious and intuitive from a very young age. My parents were extremely paranoid having 4 daughters that they sent us all to martial arts lol I’ve been black pilled since childhood that the world is a scary place if you’re a women and to never see things through rose coloured len…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 07:11 AM
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Examples of soft boys I like: -Jonas from tv series “Dark” (soft boy who likes adventure, decision making through his feelings for his love interest) -Ricky from the new High School Musical series -Polo from Elite (watching him cry nonstop and have breakdowns turns me on so much)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 06:38 AM
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Same reason why you like masculine men. Polarity attracts. And it works both ways. In Fifty shades the masculine Christian likes Anastasia who exudes femininity and vulnerability. Similarity, Katniss from hunger games has more masculine traits so she’s more drawn to feminine guys like Peeta. You probably don’t like soft boys for that same reason. I’m not against masculine men though they’re fine in my book but I’m more aggressive, assertive and typically outgoing so guys who are the opposite are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 06:34 AM
1

Not a dumbass question in the slightest. It’ll help with self reflection or maybe you can teach the younger FDS users to avoid making such mistakes? Just a suggestion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 06:01 AM
2

“You also did not need to ask me about my history” Well the great thing about the internet is you don’t have to answer it if it makes you uncomfortable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 05:55 AM
3

I don’t think most people really get what I mean by soft boys...It’s still a relatively new concept.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 05:52 AM
2

No I mean the ones that are aggressive and forceful on you. Why did you date or attract such men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 05:51 AM
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Never said it’s scientific. Psychology itself isn’t a scientific field but it’s still good for personal growth and development, that is if you answer honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 05:39 AM
3

Also, why are they your exes then? If they’re such great men? From your post history it seems you’ve been used and abused by them. Maybe it’s time to reconsider your preferences lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 05:25 AM
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No I mean soft boys in terms of looks and more gentle personality. What you’re describing is just what’s expected of men in general. Who the hell doesn’t want a boyfriend with those qualities you listed? Hell I’d love it if he cooks for me and gets things for me while my lazy ass is in bed LMAO You seem to be very traditional lol this post is definitely not catered towards you. And if you invite your friends over, it’s either your husband loses the games or their husbands do. Wanting him to win …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 05:25 AM
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Protect you in what ways? Most men are likely to harm women then try to protect them. Better to learn martial arts and safety protocol to protect YOURSELF. Also, this question was for more dominant leaning women. Read the title lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 05:13 AM
3

Yes those traits are very attractive too! If I dated the male version of me we’d rip each other’s heads off loool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 04:19 AM
5

The “no muscles” part reminded me of this song: “I like really really skinny guys like super super skinny and tall like the more they look like Gumbi the better like no body fat no muscle I just wanna date a spaghetti noodle!” Lol but yes misogyny comes in all form you have to always be on the lookout. My brain detects red flags instantly cuz I’m a pessimist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 01:37 AM
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Yeah those red flags can exist in anyone though I’d assume the soft boys relate to women more. It’s kinda cool he’d be like your boyfriend and best friend at the same time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 12:36 AM
1

That kinda goes against the soft boy archetype though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 12:32 AM
1

Yeah I guess shy guys who can’t stand up for themselves LOL the sadist in me wants to pick on them just for fun. But it’s honestly because I like em ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 12:32 AM
0

Good point. But there’s something about passive men that turn me on. Like I kinda wanna tease them and see how much I can get away with. It’s not good for long term relationships you’re right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 12:14 AM
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You’re spot on that these men are more high in EQ and surprisingly good at reading others. They’re also more in tune with their emotions. In my program, I’ve only attracted these types of soft boys and I’m attracted to them too. Now I’m wondering if I should date them. Damn your response was so useful and definitely aligned with many soft boys you see on TV. The whole idealistic and projecting fantasies is annoying as fuck hopefully they’ll grow out of it. And your insight was the most helpful s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 12:08 AM
6

I thought I was alone lol most girls who like these soft boys are 11-14 but I'm 21 smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 11:46 PM
15

QUEEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 11:34 PM
21

You should make a tinder dating guide on what worked best for you and post it on this subreddit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 11:32 PM
5

Yeah there's no way i can date a man with a strong personality. We'd clash too much and I'd make it a competition. Is that also why those types of men prefer traditionally feminine and soft women? Probably the same reason why i like chill and passive soft boy types. ​ Its hard to see red flags when they're sooo cute i totally get that lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 11:30 PM
4

Someone didn’t like their results I see
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 11:04 PM
3

Ah I guess I’m alone lol where do I find such soft boys to dominate 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 10:58 PM
5

Still it's kinda hard to find red flags from these types of soft boys. Like you can instantly find red flags from overly macho or fuckboy type of men but these flower boy types are so good at hiding it. Ugh :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 10:47 PM
6

Is that all you got out of this? LMFAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 10:41 PM
28

Stop this Earth. I wanna get off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 07:41 AM
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Pedophiles use the “girls mature earlier” excuse to date young girls but if women do mature a lot quicker, shouldn’t that mean that they should be in leadership and positions of power more often? You don’t see men channeling the same energy for that 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 06:24 PM
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“That’s why when I was 17 I only dated 40 year olds” “That’s why I only date older man” If he’s truly mature, then why would he EVER consider dating teenage girls??? Can these girls not comprehend this? The more I go on TikTok the more I CRINGE. It’s full of blue pilled pickme girls. I really have no hope tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 05:09 PM
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