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Not at all. We're in a hypercapitalist world where liberalism pits individuals against one another and considers you a failure if you don't sell your soul to succeed. I think suicidality is arguably a sane response to all this. (I'm not condoning or encouraging suicide in any way; reach out to support or r/suicidewatch if you are struggling.)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/26 08:07 PM
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I still want to try and create better for us as long as we live.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/26 12:26 PM
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No, not that. I mean things like psyops to try and promote Autistic men/traits as desirable.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 08:38 PM
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Yeah, and Autistic men don't get to be viewed as 'cute' or 'quirky', and they get big mad when we point that out. They mock us for our struggles, incite meltdowns and angry reactions and then blame us for it. It's fucking exhausting.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 08:38 PM
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Exactly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/26 08:59 PM
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As it should. How many people are affected by endometriosis vs MPB?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/26 01:10 PM
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lol got banned there too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/26 12:42 PM
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Exactly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/26 05:14 PM
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It CAN happen if you're good looking or rich or happen to have accepting people around you but those few are incredibly privileged.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/26 05:14 PM
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Which sub?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/26 05:13 PM
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Autistic men deserve more from this world. Some of us go down that pipeline but that's an indictment of how society treats us. I've been banned from r/autism for saying that and attack incessantly. I don't understand how some people are delusional enough to believe that Autistic men get 'coddled'. Some Autistic women have been treated badly by Autistic men and have had people excuse them which is wrong, but it's far from a universal experience.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/26 05:12 PM
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The boom is from Autistics finding their voice. I also wouldn't rally against self diagnosis as they deserve some community support. They're not the problem but the bias against Autistic men definitely is. Feel free to PM me to talk more about stuff, I have a few initiatives in mind.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/26 05:11 PM
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Which subs are you part of? I think we need more of us to push back instead of letting them win. People who think Autistic men are "coddled" are full of shit. I got into a similar argument over at r/autism that led to the idiot mods banning me. It is super fucking annoying to see us get gaslit about our struggles. Especially when it comes to social relationships and dating. We don't get to be seen as "cute" or "quirky".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/26 05:11 PM
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Yes, I can see that for sure. Conversely I'm sure Autistic men wouldn't mind being seen as attractive. We need a balance.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/26 02:19 PM
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"Feminists" like this expect men they hate to protect them. Like why would I stand up for an ungrateful bastard who hates me? When you look at the fact that a lot of gendered violence comes from male partners, the irony becomes more cruel: these people blame good men they wouldn't look at twice, for not protecting them from the men they chose to be with.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 11:31 PM
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They can be sometimes, other times they're just rude or dismissive but not overtly hateful.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/26 10:08 PM
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I wouldn't say many are hateful but some of them can definitely be toxic or deny the struggles of Autistic men, and many tend to be hypergamous as well.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/26 09:53 PM
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We need large scale psychological interventions to make Autistic traits attractive and to enhance our social and legal status - people get away with treating us badly because we have none. I'm also studying law with the purpose of helping Autistics fight back, and encouraging us to be more litigious so people are less willing to harm us. Thank you for what you do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/26 11:42 AM
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I wish more Autistics recognized what you're saying. And you're 100% right. I wish Autistic men were seen as attractive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 11:58 AM
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A lot of red pillers are toxic assholes tbf, I support mens rights but as a more independent person.
/r/MensRights25/05/26 02:50 AM
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Hard to say, it does occasionally happen but meta censors are pretty wild in general.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/26 11:49 PM
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I don't really vibe with functioning levels, but you're still on point about how people who have more support needs or can mask less or can/can't talk at least have their struggles taken seriously [to an extent]. A lot of people still mistreat them because they think they can get away with it - but when caught they often actually do face outrage, whereas those who can mask better/speak usually have it justified.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/26 11:47 PM
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It's their group policy since they think 'men' gets people zucced.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/26 05:22 PM
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Yeah, the boycotting men/dating thing is fucking idiotic. If anything 'increasing' the loneliness of both parties is just gonna make things worse. If they really gave a shit they'd encourage actually choosing good men over bullies and shitty people, but you know that's never gonna happen. The jokes write themselves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/26 02:05 PM
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Yeah, I have Autistic friends of all genders who can attest to this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/26 02:04 PM
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If they're an actual card carrying member of incel communities that's one thing, but using it as a catch all for any opinion you don't like or even garden variety sexist cheapens the term.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/26 01:27 PM
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Yeah, I had a discussion with a fellow Autistic friend and woman who agreed that their take was outrageous.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/26 01:26 PM
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LinkedIn is liberal capitalist slop, fuck that site for real. Just there for people to jerk each other off.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/26 03:22 PM
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It needs to be an all-encompassing psyop. Universal positive depictions of Autistics, enhancing our social and legal status through propaganda, trendsetting and more.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/26 01:21 PM
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People who say that are full of shit. Autistic men don't get to be seen as "cute" or "quirky" - that's my response to those dipshits, if they wanna generalize. We are often more easily labeled creepy or weird and get severely discriminated against, mistreated, etc. Autistic men are some of the most compassionate, sensitive, caring men out there and it shows liberal "feminist" hypocrisy that they think we deserve to be alone while claiming to want caring people. We need large scale social psychol…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/26 04:05 PM
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If only there were more people into Autistics.
/r/seduction21/01/26 06:36 AM
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Do you really want a woman who gives a shit about shallow bs like that
/r/seduction30/11/25 07:47 AM
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So in other words, we should work to create a better world, or else we can't really complain when everyone just becomes selfish and deceptive.
/r/seduction20/11/25 09:53 PM
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Too bad their actions often contradict their words.
/r/seduction20/11/25 09:52 PM
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Because women are 100% honest all of the time.
/r/seduction20/11/25 09:37 PM
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Eh, if people find that they can't get the good things in life by being good, then it's inevitable that they'll become bad. I've been facing the same moral dilemmas as of late. I don't really blame good people for turning bad as a result. It says more about the world we live in than anything else.
/r/seduction20/11/25 09:36 PM
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Maybe, but many of us don't even get our foot in the door or the chance to practice. More importantly, it says a lot that virtuosity doesn't play a role in getting into relationships. Funny how abusers always find people to abuse.
/r/seduction20/11/25 08:54 PM
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This.
/r/seduction20/11/25 06:57 PM
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That's the point we're making. Yeah, 'be attractive and you'll get people' is common fucking sense m8. But posts like this imply that you 'just have to be a good person' and get intimacy is bullshit. There's plenty of proof of dark triad traits and other things being seen as 'attractive'. It's not a fair game.
/r/seduction20/11/25 05:11 PM
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Beggars can't be choosers. When you try to be genuine and kind and people still push you away then you have no other options.
/r/seduction20/11/25 04:16 PM
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I can definitely confirm that isn't the experience of a lot of people, especially Autistics.
/r/seduction20/11/25 04:15 PM
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Confidence comes with positive reinforcement and if you're consistently hurt/rejected and discarded, good luck.
/r/seduction20/11/25 04:13 PM
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The point of the just world fallacy is the false notion that people get what they deserve and that good deeds are rewarded and that bad deeds are punished. It's a psychological phenomena and a cognitive bias. Just world theory. Look it up.
/r/seduction20/11/25 04:13 PM
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Exceptions exist, but a large majority of said people including Autistic men do struggle. I do think things can be improved in that front, but that also includes large scale psyops improving the desirability of Autistic traits.
/r/seduction20/11/25 04:12 PM
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I'm not entirely sure how to answer that question. All I can say is having no influence led to me basically being ignored and walked all over or worse, when I try to climb the social ladder, I get dunked on harder. My sense of justice is a curse that keeps me down. My devotion and kindness and love, as genuine as they may be, are taken the wrong way and made to be seen as scary. I am interested in large scale psyops to try and change the way those traits are perceived by the world in general. If…
/r/seduction20/11/25 07:12 AM
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The solution, in my opinion, is to chase social status and power at any cost, and to learn Machiavellianism - ruthless pragmatism. It's not that you want to be a jerk, but rather than you want to be ruthless in the pursuit of your goals. Study and learn psychology, especially social psych and behaviour modification - this is what helped me the most as an Autistic, and what actually helped me get what little intimacy i did.
/r/seduction20/11/25 07:04 AM
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I don't even think it's that crucial and important when you see how many abusive jerks are in relationships and how many good people aren't.
/r/seduction20/11/25 06:55 AM
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That second sentence is another example of the just world fallacy and all the cue I need not to take you seriously. The world isn't a fair or just place. Yes, you can make mistakes, but let's not act like the world/life and people are fair and just. Especially when, once again, awful people get more while good people often get less.
/r/seduction20/11/25 06:54 AM
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The notion that "anyone can find a partner if they're just good people and pure of heart". It's demonstrably false, and hopelessly naive.
/r/seduction20/11/25 04:02 AM
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That's a fair point.
/r/seduction20/11/25 03:59 AM
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Was with you till the "I'm x and still get to know them because I'm confident/make them comfortable" That's called the just world fallacy. Plenty of good people struggle, plenty of bad people don't. Anyone who uses the just-world fallacy should be dismissed.
/r/seduction20/11/25 03:57 AM
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None of those are deceptive. And you don't know shit about what holds me back. Maybe I tried to be good, kind and honest and found it didn't help.
/r/seduction20/11/25 02:06 AM
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I'm not being deceptive. You don't know shit about me or my life. I'm always kind and compassionate in my personal life and always try to be supportive and loyal, and it has always bit me in the back. Always.
/r/seduction19/11/25 11:36 PM
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Elaborate?
/r/seduction18/11/25 07:00 PM
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Yet another indictment of them.
/r/seduction18/11/25 06:01 PM
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Lol you don't know shit about me and are just projecting. It's cute how you expect men you wouldn't look at twice to protect you from the consequences of the men you chose to be with. What a joke. I don't exhibit deceptive/manipulative/abusive actions. That's probably why I struggle, lol. I clearly see things more clearly than you do. I'm not "using" anyone. If I did I'd probably get chosen more, lol Yes, deception is deceptive - but y'all are the ones who claim to have infallible intuition.
/r/seduction18/11/25 04:23 PM
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Gaslighting? Y'all are the ones who insist that your intuition is infallible, and that you can just "sense" if a guy isn't pure of heart or holds inner resentment at how they've been treated. "We can sense you're bitter about being ignored despite being good, that's why we don't like you" - well, where did that magical radar sense go? Why do some of us have to be "pure" in thought to have a chance, and better yet, why discard the ones who are good in the first place for those who aren't? Fun fac…
/r/seduction18/11/25 03:50 AM
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Yes, masking is exhausting and can backfire or just leave you drained and socially rejected. It's hard too though because I'm fairly openly Autistic in my life; I don't talk about it but I do a lot of neurodiversity advocacy so most people find out one way or another - but I am hesitant to just say it in person out of self-consciousness. I'm not really sure if it helps or hurts your chances when it comes to dating - the stigma seems to be lowering a bit, some people are starting to see Autistic …
/r/seduction17/11/25 11:24 PM
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I mean it sucks but I can't say you're wrong. It says more about them that they go for people who deceive them while ignoring good men.
/r/seduction17/11/25 11:07 PM
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I wish we Autistics could start a group chat to talk about this stuff. I struggle too, I get attached and emotional easily and other than that I also get anxious and awkward and as a result end up staring off into space or freezing up and that makes me come off as creepy. Both have caused me issues, even in law school. And once the well is poisoned it's hard to recover. It helps to an extent that I studied psych in my undergrad and learned general social tricks. I'm hesitant to apply them to dat…
/r/seduction17/11/25 10:54 PM
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Did you use ChatGPT to write some/all of this?
/r/seduction14/11/25 04:04 AM
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Try replying to their stories with some funny shit. Or offer a genuine compliment about their content
/r/seduction13/11/25 05:34 AM
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Oh, yeah I learned that pretty quick. One of them had... issues, to say the least. We stayed friends (with occasional benefits), but she kept going back to an abusive BF she "still had feelings for", and he used her phone to threaten me because he believed we hooked up again, and she still defended his actions and got mad when I said I was considering contacting his school and telling them about the threats (I know some people will think that's petty, but he was studying policing, and do you rea…
/r/seduction02/05/25 05:44 PM
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Eh. I've gotten some of these and still hooked up, on occasion, though yeah when it comes to relationships it's accurate.
/r/seduction02/05/25 04:00 PM
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Yeah, I agree on that. Idk if she's a 'cougar' per se, tbh she didn't pay me much mind until I presume she saw me eyeing her nervously for a while. By her energy she was more like someone who was open to some fun but wouldn't seriously go for a younger male.
/r/seduction16/02/25 05:13 PM
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Plenty of 'success' stories here that involve kissing or making out but doesn't lead to sex for a reason. And hey, we all gotta start somewhere, right? I've been to bars/clubs before but nerves/anxiety always got me and usually people picked up on it and avoided me. It's still a big step IMO. Thanks.
/r/seduction16/02/25 05:12 PM
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I live with family lol, but yeah I should have booked one.
/r/seduction15/02/25 10:30 PM
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He ain't wrong though, at least in my case I'd say my 'tastes' are unconventional. I often find myself going for vibe and personality more than looks. Idk if that makes me weird or not.
/r/seduction06/12/24 02:29 AM
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I don't really like to rate people this way, but probably 3-5 ish. I tend to have unconventional tastes, though, as I've been told by a lot of male friends.
/r/seduction06/12/24 02:28 AM
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I feel the same way. It's brutal for us Autistics.
/r/seduction27/09/24 07:48 PM
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A piece of feedback I got is to stay good, but don't be afraid to express myself/my opinions truly, and to not seem to fabricate an image of a pleasant mild-mannered fellow I often inadvertently do. In other words: don't be a Palpatine.
/r/seduction21/09/24 01:54 PM
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I hate how they prey on lonely/vulnerable men. Sometimes I wonder if Jack the Ripper was onto something...
/r/seduction08/08/24 02:07 PM
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