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I'm in a very similar situation to OP and this post was really helpful, thanks.
/r/seduction11/08/14 11:54 AM
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Is this a quote from something? I like it, it makes sense and is a good piece of advice.
/r/seduction06/07/13 03:05 PM
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Well since you're getting a lot of the "good job on not helping a girl cheat" i'll be the devil's advocate. You should have done it. Here's the deal, if a girl is contemplating cheating on her boyfriend their relationship is already on the rocks and waiting to come to an end. Don't believe me, check out the section about it on Models by Mark Manson (arguably the best piece of reading material for any modern day man looking to improve his game). To add to this, there is a guy out there, likely si…
/r/seduction03/07/13 02:56 PM
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But to add to that, these guys are attractive somewhat for how they look, but a hell of a lot because of who they are. At the bars, who is it with the hottest chick, the scrawney guy with twig arms, the guy with the beer belly, or the guy who takes care of himself? The rock and Hulk Hogan are extreme examples, check out some of the more aesthetic physiques. https://www.google.com/search?q=aesthetic+male+physiques&um=1&ie=UTF-8&hl=en&tbm=isch&source=og&sa=N&tab=wi&ei=7G67UYuABceLOd__gNgL&biw=1600…
/r/seduction14/06/13 07:29 PM
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/r/gainit
/r/seduction14/06/13 07:26 PM
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Agree with this, I went from 135-155 recently and the response has only been positive.
/r/seduction14/06/13 07:04 PM
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I think that physique can do a ton for attracting whoever you want to attract. Bodybuilding does become a bit of a fetish at a certain point, but many high quality women prefer a guy who is strong with low body fat % to someone who is either skinny or chubby. I recently went from 135-155lbs and have gotten a ton of positive attention from girls. Also, a lot of my friends/family have noted that I've been a lot happier and seemed more confident since I put on some lean muscle. IMO, getting a lean …
/r/seduction14/06/13 07:01 PM
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This could be true. I haven't had much success lately but haven't had any failures either. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction01/05/13 09:11 PM
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Interesting watch, guy is not my cup of tea though. Thanks for the reply.
/r/seduction01/05/13 02:38 AM
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Thanks
/r/seduction29/11/12 04:09 PM
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So, you're saying justification is necessary, just before asking for the number. Like, getting the number requires a mutual intended purpose.
/r/seduction29/11/12 03:41 PM
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Beautiful, thanks.
/r/seduction29/11/12 03:21 AM
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Do you feel like one would be better for certain situations? For example, when i'm out drinking it's easier to just say, "let me get your # before i get out of here." But I feel like in day game a justification might make getting the # a little easier.
/r/seduction29/11/12 02:34 AM
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These girls must be young to be playing games like that. I don't think it's a bad thing, it hows she's talking about you. I would probably laugh it off and ignore them as she said. It's not worth making a big deal about.
/r/seduction25/11/12 02:25 AM
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Good examples, thanks.
/r/seduction23/11/12 03:33 AM
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You have a dent in your chest. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/13jbo2/game_on_part_1_an_amputees_seduction_experiences/ ^ that guy is missing a leg. He has some interesting input on physical abnormalities. edit: don't hate me for not hyperlinking
/r/seduction23/11/12 02:52 AM
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Be familiar with the people that you are around. While in group conversation, smile and laugh. Don't fake it, but give off a generally happy vibe. Bragging, no. When applicable, mention your achievements and passions. I personally am very excited for an overseas trip i'm taking this summer, but I won't bring it up unless the subject winds that direction. If not, i'll talk about a different interest or ask a girl about hers. Having a good group of guy and girl friends might be best for this. A fr…
/r/seduction23/11/12 02:46 AM
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Could you give an example of showing social value being counterproductive in terms of attracting women?
/r/seduction23/11/12 02:42 AM
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Bad. Your attire shouldn't speak for you. It should make you look acceptable to talk to, but not overbearing. 99% of shirts with any words on them are a bad idea. Your shirt does not need to talk.
/r/seduction23/11/12 02:20 AM
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Throw out some negs, do a little push/pull and kino. Kidding, ignore it. Not worth your time.
/r/seduction22/11/12 03:27 PM
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More of a joke than a neg. It's important to not over-apologize or apologize for something that you didn't do. It's more about how you say it, make sure you have a sarcastic funny tone to it.
/r/seduction22/11/12 12:11 AM
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It seems like you did pretty good at giving off vibes to the surrounding people. I wouldn't have apologized for the hb2 bumping into you, I probably would have said something like "you better be sorry, im gonna have a bruise now" with a grin. Not that the hb2 matters, though. Other than that, the whole thing sounds pretty good. Keep updating FR's especially about solo stuff.
/r/seduction21/11/12 08:58 PM
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That's good that that works for you but I don't plan on calling a girl a retard anytime soon. Not a big fan of the word and if I was a chick in that situation I'd probably think whoever called me a retard was the true retard. I appreciate the feedback and suggestion though. /2c
/r/seduction06/11/12 02:56 AM
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Thanks for the advice. Practice is my new weekend hobby. I stopped the videogames and other crap and stick with this. So far I haven't done many routines because they didn't seem genuine to me. I could never see myself going up to a chick and reading her palm in the middle of a party. If I find routines that I like more I am open to trying them. I don't mind messing up and I truly don't give a fuck when it comes to that, but I would like to just generally remember technique when I strike up a co…
/r/seduction05/11/12 07:31 PM
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Noted, this is my first day writing in seddit and that was my first mini-mini-fr. :)
/r/seduction24/10/12 02:09 PM
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Force yourself to start talking to everyone. Be more approachable, walk and sit with a good posture, smile more. Force yourself to do something self-improving every time you think of her, like 20 push ups or an equivalent.
/r/seduction24/10/12 02:50 AM
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I've got a similar mindset of focusing on making the most out of every opportunity rather than keeping score of k/#/f-closes. It's easy to keep yourself motivated with that mindset. I really like what you did with the girl who you #-closed. You left the situation pretty quick, had a little joke, and she was probably interested as to when you might come back and how the two of you would continue your conversation. Quick question - does your library not let people use fb? The library on my campus …
/r/seduction24/10/12 02:01 AM
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Can't say I've seen it :P
/r/seduction23/10/12 09:07 PM
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A random text joke won't exactly change her mind if beforehand she won't give you the time of day, sadly. I'm just offering another option of using humor in a text aside from a joke you found on google.
/r/seduction23/10/12 08:55 PM
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Unless you live in Antarctica, there are plenty of girls that are not long distance that you could be talking to. Even if you live in Antarctica, i'm sure there's some hotties in an igloo somewhere nearby. If you'd like to keep contact with girls who you may be seeing at some time in the future, that is smart, but make sure to keep the conversation short and express a willingness to hangout in person when you're in their town. Until then, work on getting numbers from girls in your vicinity. If y…
/r/seduction23/10/12 08:53 PM
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I did secure a date/time with her in the following two texts. I usually start off texts to girls I haven't seen in awhile with something like "Hey stranger". Pretty often I will get an instant text-back. As I said in another comment, I already f-closed with her but haven't spoken with her in a few weeks. She seemed really receptive and happy to hang out again. I appreciate the advice and will keep it in mind for next time.
/r/seduction23/10/12 08:51 PM
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I'll be seeing her Thursday night :)
/r/seduction23/10/12 08:48 PM
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This is a girl that I've already f-closed with, but haven't spoken to in a few weeks. She wasn't just some random number from my contacts.
/r/seduction23/10/12 08:48 PM
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Once you've built attraction and the party is dwindling down, take her hand, look her in the eyes and say something like "let's get out of here". Taking the lead is always a good move. She'll likely ask something like "where are we going?" and that's where you have options. You could take her to to another bar/party before taking her home if you're not feeling particularly gutsy (this will also build trust), or you can be more straightforward and say my place. Depending on your personality you c…
/r/seduction23/10/12 06:38 PM
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her- "My dads a lawyer" I do like this idea a lot though.
/r/seduction23/10/12 06:10 PM
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Worse comes to worse you stick to your guns and plan an in-person meetup. A joke over texting isn't essential, it's more about planning to meet in person. But if you can sneak in a joke using your own sense of humor, it could help you out a bit. Much like flirting, the wittiness in terms of jokes can come with practice and over time will become natural.
/r/seduction23/10/12 05:14 PM
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While I love that mask, I wouldn't recommend it for going out and picking up girls on Halloween. It could work, but it can complicate things when they can't even see your face in it.
/r/seduction23/10/12 05:01 PM
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An alternate to just texting a random joke out of nowhere would be to begin a conversation and make a joke based off something that she says. It sounds less like some joke you found on the internet and makes you seem more witty. And it really doesn't have to be that witty, just something simple that shows you have a sense of humor and keeps the conversation from being more than just the facts. For example, an excerpt from a recent text convo I had. me- what are you up to these days? her- nothing…
/r/seduction23/10/12 04:49 PM
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