For context i'm in college. I've been out of a 3 year relationship for about a year now. In that one year period I've had 1 f-close and 1 other k-close. The f-close was somewhat steady but not a relationship by any means. I took some time away from seduction to work on myself. Hit the gym, got some other things in line, but haven't had much luck with girls in awhile. I feel like i've lost my touch a bit and don't really know where to start when it comes to getting back into the swing of things. I also notice that I'm having somewhat of a longing for a real connection with a new girl.

The real problem begins when i'm out in social gatherings. I seem to be apathetic to the idea of hitting on chicks when i'm out at a party or anywhere really. But then when I look back on the situation later I regret not making any moves. It's almost like i've gotten used to not bothering making moves as I took some time off, so now I just don't bother at all. Any related stories or suggestions would be cool.