congee Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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30	Going to a nightclub alone tonight, any tips/ideas for ugly idiot who isn't that great at starting conversations? 1 change your mindset. If you think you are an ugly idiot, you will project ugly idiot behaviours. No one wants that. Since you're going to the club, you need to have a mindset that fits in: loud (not quiet), fun, in-the-moment, flirty.	/r/seduction	16/11/13 04:44 PM
4	I have studied, read, and prepared. Tomorrow it's put to use. this is not the Matrix, read and then suddenly you're a kung fu expert. You gotta practice. Only advice at this point as don't be outcome dependent, don't have the GOAL of MAKING her go out with you. Just enjoy talking to her, adding value and asking her out. Otherwise you'll be too wired and in your head = creepy.	/r/seduction	31/01/13 04:23 PM
6	A girl I'm talking to is really into forensics, and wants to major in forensics in college. I want to be able to have genuine conversations with her about her passion, so what are some things I should know and some conversational ideas? instead of trying to impress her about what you know about this topic, why don't you ask her WHY she's passionate about it; how did the interest start; how does she FEEL about it; and what her dreams and goals are in the future?	/r/seduction	12/01/13 03:32 PM
2	I am 15 years old. Should I be reading these? Yes. It never hurts to learn how to be a man, especially if you don't have a strong masculine influence. Not implying anything about your dad, since I don't know your situation, but these days/generation, men are brought up to be so PC and non controversial, they lose the masculine essence. In addition, girls around this age are learning about their feminity and influence. I watched a family friend grow up and around 12 she started learning about her impact on men and by the time she was 16 she …	/r/seduction	08/12/12 06:31 PM
17	Hey r/seduction, I've created this study on text message response time in young adult women and would like your feedback (details inside) I feel like you're missing the point. Texting is not the end game, its only a tool, and not a particularly important one either. Girls are not all the same, although patterns can be observed. Don't try to distill it down to a formula - whats the end result? "be sexually agressive at a 67.3% ratio, and then text her 3.75 hours later, no earlier than 3:52 on a weekday?" key for women is your personality and attitude. If you want to measure anything, measure that	/r/seduction	01/09/12 03:59 PM
0	Male PUA tips applied by female, 21. 1st Test. you're awesome	/r/seduction	22/08/12 03:13 AM
3	Amazing opening tip I learned from an experienced PUA. If you tell a girl she's friendly, she will be. living at home, w/mom - doesn't mean you can't date, meet fun women having a shitty job - doesn't mean you can't date, meet fun women hating yourself - well you got to get over that. But doing nothing isn't the solution. Really the core of 'pick up' is improving yourself, and bringing value to other people around you. Believe it or not, 'getting women' becomes secondary. Get out there, make some (female) friends and improve your situation.	/r/seduction	15/03/12 10:00 PM
2	Amazing opening tip I learned from an experienced PUA. If you tell a girl she's friendly, she will be. protip: just start doing it now. There is no perfect time to wait for (i.e. after getting your life in order). Great skills are made up of micro practices.	/r/seduction	15/03/12 06:29 PM
9	Idea for a first date - TO BEFRIEND AN HB9 you want to befriend her? take her to coffee, and ask/dig about her problems and then sit there and be her sobbing rag. You'll be her best friend and 'brother' in no time flat.	/r/seduction	30/01/12 08:17 AM
9	I am sitting in a coffee shop, working, right now. A female came in and we keep giving each other a "look". well for crying out loud, get up and approach her. say this: "Hi, I know this is kind of random, but I thought you were cute and wanted to say 'hi'". [slight pause] What brings you here?" PAY attention, then continue the conversation. Don't think. Do it now.	/r/seduction	29/11/11 04:33 PM
0	I want to learn how to dance. Club dance, bar dance whatever, but I just don't wan here ya go: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8sKX4ejf68A&list=PL444ED5598898F003&index=110&feature=plpp_video	/r/seduction	21/11/11 11:38 PM
7	Things that attract women. A friend often told me women want a penis made of chocolate that ejaculates money	/r/seduction	09/11/11 01:24 AM
1	How to handle when a girl you like talks about a guy SHE likes right in front of you? why even address the other guy situation? just change the topic. "So anyways, [topic B]"	/r/seduction	28/10/11 04:33 PM
19	A badass story about hitting on many women to get laid by being absurd. Written by a dating coach from Vancouver. the key take away is not that he was absurd, but he was in a great playful state and then it doesn't matter WHAT he says. Girls pick up on great state and fun vibes. I remember hanging out with one PUA who made out with a girl by only barking like a seal and NOT SAYING A SINGLE WORD	/r/seduction	20/10/11 07:56 AM
2	Asking the older redditors (late 20s+ or anybody) for advice I will most likely be down voted for. totally agree. Dating a great girl now, but wished I didn't sleep with her so fast.	/r/seduction	12/10/11 05:48 PM
2	Planning on texting a group of girls that "stood us up"... background story inside how about: "Hey, we're going out to this awesome bar that <has a fun vibe/funny drunk ppl/great music/awesome food etc>, you should come with us, it'll be fun" Forget about the "m/b we'll find each other" stuff. You're broadcasting how hurt/sad/dependent she made you. Big turn off. And don't ask. Lead, or invite. not "wanna do something?"	/r/seduction	04/10/11 10:52 PM
3	Planning on texting a group of girls that "stood us up"... background story inside too needy. Just invite them out to the bar/club next time. Don't mention missing them last time/hopefull/I wish/You broke my heart.	/r/seduction	04/10/11 10:34 PM