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Conversationconnro5/r/seduction29/08/21 02:35 PM
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When you understand you'll never be "good enough". That you're already enough, and that it is a never ending process of "improving" (more like modifying) and learning about your self
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:08 PM
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It for sure does. Everyone is built differently. It's tremendous what some time and room can do for one's headspace.
/r/seduction02/11/21 01:08 AM
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Respect the space she wants. Could be some cold feet. I know I get that way when things move in a certain direction. The absolute best thing you can do is to show her you care enough to grant her the space, while also continuing with your life. Sometimes people need to get away to really clear their heads.
/r/seduction02/11/21 12:53 AM
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Humility. Most attractive thing is a man who doesn't need to be validated about who he is, and builds people up alongside him. Also being really communicative is so sexy
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:39 AM
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I completely forgot to include but I am actually the woman in the situation. Not sure if that changes anything
/r/seduction05/09/21 03:20 PM
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Yes I agree. I am pretty secure in it I'd say, but for some reason I wanted other people's thoughts. I will still do it and plan to refine my skills and confidence in the process
/r/seduction29/08/21 03:29 PM
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Interesting thoughts. I do happen to be a woman with a more masculine core, and find myself naturally drawn to men who are more feminine. As far as the moves go it doesn't bother me a ton because it makes me feel somewhat in control and that I can make things happen on my own terms, which is relieving. It's also best because I can be sure whether he is interested too or if it's just me
/r/seduction29/08/21 02:29 PM
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Good point, I forget that many guys feel that way. My guy friends talk about it all the time how they don't wanna come off as creepy so it makes sense
/r/seduction29/08/21 02:27 PM
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That's a good point. It really doesn't matter as long as interest is mutual.
/r/seduction29/08/21 02:26 PM
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No need to reopen old wounds. Take it from someone with experience. It's truly not worth the hurt in the long run. There will be another person you click well with who you won't have baggage attached to
/r/seduction24/08/21 07:14 PM
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No.
/r/seduction24/08/21 06:56 PM
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Good thinking. A show or movie would also take pressure off of talking. As for touch though that's hard because I am not a physical touch person at all. I will reciprocate if my friend is super touchy but I know he is not, so hopefully that doesn't matter much.
/r/seduction23/08/21 11:09 PM
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Definitely something going on in her own head. Insecurity possibly, fear?
/r/seduction23/08/21 10:41 PM
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Sounds like she was interested and for some reason is no longer. Don't take it personally, especially since you aren't close or anything. People can think they are into someone and then are put off by something random
/r/seduction23/08/21 10:36 PM
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Man I tend to be direct with my friendships, I just feel so shy around him omg. But I think getting to know him more and just spending more and more time with him will loosen us up, hopefully to the point of me (or him) bringing that up. Perhaps this crush will go away soon though!
/r/seduction18/08/21 02:26 AM
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I would try that but sadly he lives an hour away from me so that makes it difficult. I could possibly try it though when he comes to visit his other friends
/r/seduction18/08/21 12:54 AM
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Solid response. I don't have anything to lose by just chilling with him really.
/r/seduction18/08/21 12:53 AM
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Definitely a FWB crush. I was thinking the same, but really have NO clue how to go about initiating anything with him. Especially because whenever it's just us the air is so thick with tension, and I can't tell if it's purely sexual or like insecurities as well.
/r/seduction18/08/21 12:52 AM
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