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it literally described the usage of the world personality by people, but because it clearly disagrees with you, you decided to call it autism. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:02 PM
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if definitions don't matter, than elephant inferes tardigrades advancing pickles
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:01 PM
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then you have a """""""bad personality"""""""" because you can't learn to enjoy analyzing assembly operation costs and vintage mtg combos to entertain me. and have a bad personality because you can't learn to enjoy discussing rare stamps' edge features to appease my stamp collecting friend. absolutely ludicrous thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:44 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:37 PM
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no one uses the words "morally good to be romantically succesful", but they do both use "improve personality" and "become a better person", and what is "better person" supposed to be understood as by people? a morally reprehensive storyteller? I don't think so
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:37 PM
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so moral people have a bad personality. okay thanks for having educated me in the english language. but just for your benefit, here's an english native source "Personality describes the unique patterns of thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that distinguish a person from others. A product of both biology and environment, it remains fairly consistent throughout life. Examples of personality can be found in how we describe other people's traits. For instance, "She is generous, caring, and a bit of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:53 PM
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are you arguing that ugly autistic men with no money who are optimistic are very desired men for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:51 PM
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" Personality describes the unique patterns of thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that distinguish a person from others. A product of both biology and environment, it remains fairly consistent throughout life. Examples of personality can be found in how we describe other people's traits. For instance, "She is generous, caring, and a bit of a perfectionist," or "They are loyal and protective of their friends." The word "personality" stems from the Latin word persona, which refers to a theatrical m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:49 PM
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but nothing of "improving my personality" makes me more attractive. what makes me more attractive is to improve my skills and endurance in pretending i'm someone else, and in behaving in manners contrary to my morals - sensitivity - empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:46 PM
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my country is all about soccer. so men who are mildly into soccer are considered more fun than men who are not into soccer (and fanatics for non-fanatics). so what's the advice here? that you "improve your personality" by becoming a person who's into soccer? how dafuq is that "improving personality" and in what world is that even possible as a thing, to change what you're into, or how much your thinking is analytical? how is improving one's stage act "improving one's personality"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:42 PM
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a little pedantic? imagine if people around the world repeated the advice "you must improve your morals to get better at dating", but with "improve your morals" they actually meant that you mustn't play +4 and reverse when playing uno
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:39 PM
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You can still be yourself while making sure you aren’t overwhelming people, it just requires social skills. that's not true and entirely dependent on how lucky you were to happen to be, how much of your autism is noticeable to others and how much of yourself happens to be stuff people dislike. > People do accept autistic behavior in their friends you don't know many people nor have read much of how societies treat autistic people > in dating, you need to show up as your best, most palatable self…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:37 PM
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> But if you need a consequence to influence your actions then maybe you aren’t living your best life. what in the world are you talking about? everything you do and don't do is influenced by the consequences you know you will face, which isn't just the court system, it's also stuff like how you'll feel about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:22 PM
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except that the world is full of people shouting that moral virtue improvement will improve their dating, when it actually does the opposite, and has nothing to do with ulterior motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:19 PM
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so nothing to do with improving personality, and all about improving one's skill and endurance in being a social dancing monkey entertainment system that hides their own self exclusively in an attempt at successful social interactions. which is as appropriate as calling a car's tires "engine". by this metric when a magician improves their stage act, they have "improved their personality", which is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:15 PM
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how many are these " Well-adjusted, well brought-up and happy women with no childhood trauma or Daddy issues " women? 10 in a million? where are they when it's time to vote or refuse to work for so many companies?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:10 PM
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It’s a sad question because being a good person and doing the right thing are rewards in and of themselves for people it's not, it's that actions have consequences and smarter people realize that, so they act in self-interest and interest of loved ones, and out of empathy, which once again, is not a choice nor a knob you can turn up and down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:09 PM
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considering how many even supposedly non-blue-pillers repeat the mantra of "Improve personality to improve dating results", I'd say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:06 PM
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except that you're conveniently ignoring that increasing masking increases one's risk of suicide and in general lowers one's quality of life. "interacting poorly" has nothing to do with me and so many other autistic people, when people dislike us the moment they see us or the moment we say hello, because they hate our body language and our facial expressions and the tone of our voice and how we structure sentences and what accent we have and don't have. "interacting poorly" has nothing to do wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:04 PM
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an ugly criminal fares better in dating than an ugly empathetic random man with an office job. literal nazis do the same, and as I wrote above, not just in their own country, but even the ones they invade!.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:52 PM
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I'm a fully congruent autistic ugly money-less-for-dating-and-wealthy-life man. the more i'm congruent with myself, the less i'm attractive. the more I mask, the better I do in dating. the more I lie, the better I do. the more I'm honest, the worse I do. same goes for social life. it doesn't matter how much you write here saying that it's all about communicating passion and being charming, to broadcast your passion for algorithm efficiency improvements in assembly will only harm your dating. tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:51 PM
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yes. and neurotypical...ness
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:44 PM
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so you see, you've already, in practice, backpedalled from "improve personality" to "become the dancing monkey that entertains the woman". basically do what geishas learned in their "schools" to do for men. quite far from your false statement. there's zero "improving personality" in becoming entertaining for women. quite the contrary, in fact. there's nothing "personality improving" in learning how to tease a woman to generate attraction, quite the contrary. you're a worse person and much more o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:43 PM
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except that when it comes to dating, women who find a man attractive will laugh at whatever he says, even when he's not joking, and women who laugh at a man they don't find attractive when he says something funny, don't develop attraction for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:40 PM
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but politicians don't even pretend to be a "better person", they pretend to have the ideals and flaws of their target demographic, whether it be shortsighted greed in the most stupid form (cut taxes no matter how!) or racism .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:39 PM
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I will never find true love as an ugly, autistic man with no money available for non-charity endeavors
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:34 PM
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it's not exposure to more women that does the job for an ugly criminal, it's hybristophilia and red cross syndrome and other stuff of the sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:41 PM
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one's behaviour in social interaction is not really one's personality. all you're saying is that one must learn to mask whatever bothers others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:39 PM
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it's not just about sex. men want love, intimacy, touch, partnership too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:28 PM
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lol just think of how many female models, nurses, athletes are addicted to some substance
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:27 PM
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Most women aren’t dating addicts, dude https://drugabusestatistics.org/#:~:text=Drug%20abuse%20and%20misuse%20of,3.5%25%20of%20females%20abuse%20opioids. and that's only for "druuugs" of the kind that the government forbids or allows but deems to be drugs. now imagine to add the other addicts, such as people on legal painkillers, nose sprays, alcohol..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:26 PM
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well your argument is certainly convincing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:24 PM
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what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:22 PM
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not exactly true. there are criminals and psycopaths who are ugly but attract women through "virtue" of their negative qualities and feats. but there's ugly and then there's ugly. I guess that it matters more that you look masculine than beautiful for this combination
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:22 PM
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what does "rejection is scary" have anything to do with women not flirting with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:13 PM
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oh I know all the flirty signals. but I'm ugly and autistic, so I only get them from some friends' bored wives who want attention from anyone and not from genuine interest and from single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:09 PM
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ah yes, when faced with arguments you can't face, always insult the opponent, truly a sign of intellect
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:18 AM
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I live in Italy, a country full of fascists, male and female. so no, I don't realise we have gone a long way. not to mention that USA is considered "good" while they occupy foreign territories militarly, finance terrorists, finance and support regimes and theocracies, and provide them with weapons and training and support, and commit "regime changes"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:23 AM
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> Those are hardest to detect. > Women don't have telepathy, but can read a creep right off. > There are women with mental issues you know. Lol look at you backpedal. so women can detect "creep", where creep means "looks horrific, or has weird body language", and absolutely squat in regards to their personality.autistics out, bernie madoff in. MMA fighters who will pummel their face in, people with malformed faces and facial tics out. are nazis invading your country "hard to detect"? were all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:48 AM
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what?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:07 AM
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"Christianity and other religions instill upon us the value of monogamy" well, I see you haven't read the bible. just like most christians. just like christian authorities pretend it's not a thing they're supposed to be based upon
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:05 AM
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"hey, look at that guy.. his face is so repulsive! I wanna marry him"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:33 AM
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why would an unattractive person make up excuses for not learning signals when they don't get any because they're unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:52 AM
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learn what?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:22 AM
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there's gonna be no woman flirting with you when your face is ugly (unless you count golddiggers / visa seekers / looking for anyone to marry/have a child with)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:17 AM
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by that metric I'm actually a homosexual who wants to romance and bang my most interesting friends
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:10 AM
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I don't know. I'm autistic and I've been with women who responded positively to my rare teasing but I respond negatively to teasing altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:10 AM
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you think that when a woman is interested in someone they meet at a public gathering, they start doing what, sucking the man's finger and ask him to marry her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:06 AM
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no, five or ten out of one hundred make it really obvious when they are interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:56 AM
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except that you don't. men swipe right on everyone. """female accounts""" which give a match to men are mostly spam, scam, pranksters with nothing better to do than making fake women's accounts to ask men out on the same day same time ,prostitutes, criminals, women trying to promote their instagram and nowadays there's onlyfans too, plus all the actual women who match with men just for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:56 AM
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can you give an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:53 AM
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Because people notice slightly off social cues eh, NTs read NTs. sorta kinda sometimes. it's not a special skill they have. it's like saying that people know which team is gonna win before the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:52 AM
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no. it's incredibly rare for women to express romantic/sexual interest in a manner beyond being friendly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:51 AM
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so your advice is to only flirt with strangers on the street
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:50 AM
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However if you're not good looking it might take years to find one interested in you'll never happen
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:49 AM
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you can't learn to be facially attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:48 AM
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I didn't know that someone's own personal body language counted as "human relations". I'd like to see how well you fare at reading a variety of us, autistic people, and then we hand down judgment on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:47 AM
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you're joking, right? please oh please tell me you're a troll who's trying to make me mad. so no woman ever fell for Ted Bundy deceptions, no woman who wanted to emigrate has ever been trafficked, and no woman has been the victim of domestic abuse? no woman married Hitler and made kids with him? no woman has ever married a psycopath? pal, you're insane. or high on feminist propaganda, I don't know. believing that women are x-men is quite something. are you also a flat earther?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:45 AM
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so if you have a billion dollars, you call "friends" all the people hanging around you waiting for the moment to ask you for money?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:33 AM
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no, you're talking of the success to dating / romantic relationships / sex https://www.dw.com/en/the-forgotten-children-of-german-occupied-france/a-2145680 so those nazi were really treating women "like people" and that was the key to their success, between one stabbing and one pillaging, with the women of the country they were invading, , while the phd nerds doing astrophysics and cancer research are all high functioning complete selective psycopaths that view men as human and women as objects …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:54 AM
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what about all the people who are friends with someone because they hope one day they'll get to be together or have sex? how can you call that a friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:52 AM
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so your advice is to be platonic friends from opposite sides of the table for months or years, and then out of nowhere start getting closer? sure, that'll be appreciated lol. women LOOOVVEEE when their friends start putting the moves on them!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:11 AM
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There are a lot of mannerisms that are off putting well if you know how to stop having an autistic brain you let me know, i'll be thankful
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:10 AM
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and like other things okay , for the next ten minutes I want you to *actually like* the taste of shit. go ahead, try.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:14 PM
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that the ones you have are limiting your ability to grow, mature, wtf are you on???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:05 PM
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never happened. except for the sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:05 PM
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yes I do. how does that help with dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:33 PM
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If you hang out with other autistic people you wouldn’t that's not how it works at all. it's not like a goth subculture. there's too much variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:32 PM
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i have a degree in jack and shit, and jack is out of town
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:46 PM
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whatever little money I have I put away to try to build a better future for me. and I don't have interest in very brief relationships. I don't wanna get married but when I find someone I like it hurts too much to get separated for months or years before we meet again, I've already had long distance relationships and never again. Sure if I had the money to spend literal months abroad it in a place where I don't have to fear for my safety would be cool, but it's unlikely that I'm gonna be attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:44 PM
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are you asking if in these home meetings there were also women? yes, but they were their girlfriends, their sisters, their daughters, their moms, their grandmas. there have been occasionally female friends of the girlfriends of my friends who participated in the home gatherings, but they didn't stick around long because they got in a fight and separated, or they stuck around but quickly got a boyfriend, or occasionally were around but seemed angry with everyone, or occasionally were around but w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:41 PM
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your advice is literally to hit on them in a manner that is so obvious that everyone you're in line of sight from will tell that you're flirting with her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:38 PM
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not many. they either don't stick around, or quickly get a boyfriend, or are mad with everyone, or are hopelessly in love with someone, or angrily claim that they need no man and/or no sex, or moved far away, or there was no mutual interest, or whatever else
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:33 PM
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they've never helped. because of them I got to meet more couples. and the very rare single woman in suitable range who didn't stick around, or was mad with everyone, or quickly found a moderately wealthy boyfriend, or where there was no mutual interest. also, as an unattractive man, some women who were friends and acquaintances of my friends have complained to my friends because I dared to chat them up online, despite the fact that I had no interest in anything romantic or sexual with them, beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:31 PM
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I'm autistic. people who are gonna like hanging out with me and people who i like hanging out with are not social butterflies by unintentional consequence
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:26 PM
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I made friends through hobbies. never got to meet single women through them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:20 PM
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I made friends at the chess club and other hobbies and activities. never got to meet single women through them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:19 PM
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I don't really consider to be actual "friends" people that I only meet at school or a club. so what I call friends are people that I meet at home or go for walks or whatever else. are you asking if in these home meetings there were also women? yes, but they were their girlfriends, their sisters, their daughters, their moms, their grandmas. there have been occasionally female friends of the girlfriends of my friends who participated in the home gatherings, but they didn't stick around long becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:18 PM
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1 - download an app and go out on dates, yes, that works for women . not for many men. 2 - ask my friends if they know anyone available to set me up with hahah good luck with that as a man. 3 - go out to a nightclub that is known for people looking to meet people, enjoy dancing with my girlfriends and keep my eyes open for anyone interesting attractive, so don't be autistic and be beautiful. gotcha. I'd continue my life as usual - work on myself as a person, that is expand my interests, maybe go…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:09 PM
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anyways, I have friends groups. the women I got to meet through them and befriended were they girlfriends, wives, daughters, moms, grandmas. what now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:04 PM
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i never spoke of being unable to deal with rejection. i'm simply asking what do you think happens once an unattractive man asks out multiple women over time in the same hobby club.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:03 PM
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i've made friends who were single men. never met single women through their groups. i've made friends who were men in relationships. never met single women thorugh their group. as for "keep enojying your hobby" how is hanging around in a chess club lobby with no women 18-50 gonna get me to meet women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:02 PM
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i've made friends who were single men. never met single women through their groups. i've made friends who were men in relationships. never met single women thorugh their group. as for "keep enojying your hobby" how is hanging around in a chess club lobby with no women 18-50 gonna get me to meet women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:01 PM
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oh, so 1 go to hobby club 2 ask one woman out 3 get rejected 4 cut off your balls, you blew your chance, you're asexual now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:59 PM
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so you're advising to get to know them a bit but not too much. except that it's different for everyone and so many will take offense no matter what point you reached. aside from that, let's say you do become acquaintance with a woman in the hobby group. and then ask her out. and get rejected. what now? move to the netherlands to join a new group to be allowed to ask one woman out?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:41 PM
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ah, become "that guy who befriends you to ask out all your friends". gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:37 PM
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so you spend months at a hobby club and you're lucky enough that there are single women and after you "click" you ask her out and she rejects you. what next?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:37 PM
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lol, there's barely anyone from my country on reddit, and even less so who are women. I'd have more luck playing the lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:34 PM
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so your plan for men to meet women romantically is to join a club, spend months there, make friends, ask one woman out, get rejected, then skip town and find a new job and spend months in a new hobby club to be allowed to ask one woman out?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:34 PM
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it's like buying an SUV and then complaining about the price of gas. which is something that people unironically do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:30 PM
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joined chess club. no women age 18-50. what now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:30 PM
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so your advice is to become REAL FRIENDS and then invite them for sex? you sure that's a good move?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:29 PM
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yeah I learned recently that now instagram is the thing but it just blows my mind. how does it work? does it have a search feature by geolocation? do men spend typing all the nearby cities in the search function?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:28 PM
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the only women who strangely gave me a big smile unlike with others had no interest in me. the women I've dated didn't smile and give me eye contact before being together. what now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:26 PM
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Make eye contact and smile. If she smiles back, start a casual, platonic conversation. lol. fail
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:25 PM
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they'll just keep matching with chad for the occasional sex and promote their onlyfans to the "80% below average"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:24 PM
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oh I wish I could be born non-autistic and non-eastern-asian-looking, but I can't. might throw in "not a nerd" too while you're at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:23 PM
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lol yes. I have made male friends. they invite me to their social gatherings. so now I have the great option to hit on their girlfriends, wives, daughters, grandmas. what next?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:22 PM
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as if every single woman had dozens of genuine male friends
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:21 PM
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> If his goal is to make friends and expand his horizons, he is far more likely to stumble across a woman he shares common interests and goals with. so what if in his hobbies there are no women participating or no single women in suitable age range? and what is he supposed to do once he gets rejected once in his hobby club?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:20 PM
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yes, if I could "learn" to be taller, have beautiful skin, awesome jawline, less eastern-asian-looking, and not autistic, I'd do it, but for some reason, I can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:19 PM
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so basically befriend everyone so then you get accused of being "that guy who befriends women to ask them out"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:18 PM
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and then once the first person in your hobby group rejects you, what do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:17 PM
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hahahaa. "if you drive properly, you will never be in a car crash"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:17 PM
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ok, and after the first woman rejects you at the knitting club, what now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:16 PM
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and sometimes " women will just assume a man approaching is a creep because he's ugly - unattractive - autistic"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:16 PM
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except that no one is gonna get mad that you got friends with them with the intent of... becoming friends. no one is gonna ostracize you from a hobby club or a group of friends because you asked "too many" people to be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:15 PM
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Men need to go to x activity or space with the intentions of participating in that activity or space joyfully. so if your hobbies and interests are for stuff where women unfortunately don't participate, what are you supposed to do? turn gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:13 PM
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oh I have a personality. it's just that I'm born autistic so people flee just from my body language or my tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:12 PM
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yes, nazis and criminals and billionaires are known to "treating women like people"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:10 PM
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I'm autistic and ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:10 PM
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so 1 spend time at your favorite hobby club 2 you meet someone you click with 3 you ask her out 4 you're rejected 5 what now? skip town? move to Mars? use the man in black memory eraser before asking out the next woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:08 PM
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guess I gotta jump off a bridge then, no one smiles to me except my friends' girlfriends and my grandma
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:07 PM
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a club that is social?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:06 PM
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so what's the plan? expand your social circle so you can meet more women in more situations you're not allowed to ask out?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:05 PM
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lol as if asking out women in your hobby club was socially acceptable..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:05 PM
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You don't have to act FULLY platonic. oh okay, so I'm supposed to only rub my left nut on her face while we chat about the weather?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:04 PM
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so your advice is to become friends with women so then you get accused of being that guy who befriends women to sleep with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:03 PM
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so basically be super hot and just hang around and hope that there's a woman who's so into you that despite you not hitting on her or anyone else and despite you becoming "friends" eventually she'll start touching your elbow and then it'll turn into a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:02 PM
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"I go to the dance club / pub / bar / social events to hang out with my friends and to dance with my friends in high heels and make-up while paying 50$ for an alcohol shot, I don't wanna be bothered by men" there you go, the argumentation is the same for EVERY place in existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:01 PM
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how dare these men approach women they have something in common with! they should definitely hang out at the place where expensive alcohol, loud music and a mix of darkness and harsh lights are present, so that they can be judged on their height, jawline, small talk and on their not-autismness!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:59 PM
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https://www.google.com/search?q=virginity+iq https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/out-the-ooze/202111/why-intelligent-men-may-not-be-so-attractive-after-all " Both studies indicated that people could accurately assess an individual’s intelligence, but that a man’s actual measured intelligence did not make him more desirable as a romantic partner. In fact, in the first study, intelligent men were actually rated as having a slightly lower sexual mate appeal. Being physically attractive and funn…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:52 AM
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https://www.dw.com/en/the-forgotten-children-of-german-occupied-france/a-2145680 wtf do you mean "not what women do". are you suggesting that they reproduce by getting fat and splitting? or that they rape women and keep them in cages? every criminal, nazi, and religious fundamentalist? and all dark triad men? and all rich shitty men? ahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:48 AM
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Lol of course high IQ men are sexually attractive. except that it's exactly the opposite. high iq men are statistically unattractive to women, and the higher the iq, the less attractive. same goes for autism. the only aspect of high iq that is attractive is the statistical correlation with a slightly higher income. normies do better, and below-iq-but-not-too-much have the most sex, just like bullies have more sex. i'm not really sure what you're trying to prove with your anecdote of you marrying…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:41 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_condoms
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:38 PM
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just the other day someone posted on reddit "you told me my openers (on dating apps) wouldn't work, and yet here are my results" and everyone thought it was legit and then saw one conversation where it was revealed that the guy was a tall white guy with shredded abs... most hot men give crap advice on how to be attractive and game, and so do wealthy men, just like pretty women think that "people just talk to you" is a truth of life that applies to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:22 PM
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This isn't "women like bad men", https://www.google.com/search?q=women+attracted+dark+triad https://www.google.com/search?q=bullies+have+more+sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:27 PM
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except that nazis, criminals, dictators and fundamentalists never have trouble finding mates and breeding. meanwhile high iq men, autistic men, short men struggle. empathetic men struggle, dark triad men are the most desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:56 PM
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that's like thinking that there are billions of people who prefer aspartame to sugar for its taste
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:55 PM
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that's like thinking that the demographic of people who want to have sex and or marry a wall or a chair is large
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:10 PM
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because you literally stated " If you would rather date a robot "
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:09 PM
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nazis are a demographic highly popular among women, even though many other women hate them. high iq men, autistic men, short men, indian men on the other hand are highly undesired. dark triad men are among the most if not the most attractive men "personality" wise statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:08 PM
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except that dildos are mostly bought by men, and they are not sticking them up their vaginas
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 01:00 PM
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you haven't addressed the point at all. " I agree, this is a good thing as it keeps men who already view women as inanimate objects strictly with their own kind. " is complete nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:12 PM
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yes. while we're at it, we can abolish all food hygiene laws. because after all, you can just avoid spoiled food. no?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:40 AM
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oh, you're trolling. bye
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:38 AM
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they don't realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:35 AM
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yes, huge ones. interactions with an actual "ai" personality (not current chatbots) will feel a hundred times better. and depending on the coding it will be incredibly harmful or incredibly nurturing and healing for the individual. or a combination of both,
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:34 AM
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It’s a very new technology and early adapters are already stigmatised as socially inept weirdo’s incapable of having “real” relationships. worse, here in this thread they are all claiming that these men are "choosing" ai girlfriends, as if it was their first choice..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:32 AM
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" Opposition to condoms did not only come from moralists: by the late 19th century many feminists expressed distrust of the condom as a contraceptive, as its use was controlled and decided upon by men alone. They advocated instead for methods which were controlled by women, such as diaphragms and spermicidal douches "
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:31 AM
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robots don't get pregnant, don't cheat, and they can't divorce you and take your wage, your company and your house. but if ever reached, they are quite far from being developed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:31 AM
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but at the moment there is no "ai girlfriend", there's only a chatbot
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:29 AM
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so you have no interest in autistic men, but you do have an interest in criminals?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:29 AM
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it's creepy to ask people's opinion? wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:28 AM
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except that they are chatbots, so there's no pussy, and "ai" wise there's not much either, you can get more realistic interactions out of a choose your own adventure book because at least they remember what you chose one second ago
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:27 AM
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so autistic empathetic men are "losers" and nazis are "winners"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:26 AM
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ah yes, the highest quality of people who get dates: criminals, nazis, religious fundamentalists. and how to forget dark triad men? I also didn't know that men's "quality" was directly proportional to their height. I guess we're like fruit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:26 AM
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so criminals and nazis and fundamentalist muslims are high quality, and short baby faced empathetic egalitarian high iq scientist men are low quality?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:24 AM
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that's okay, I wouldn't want to date a redditor since you use devices built "exploiting real life men"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:23 AM
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"satisfied"? what are you talking about!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:23 AM
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The types of guys who would use an AI girlfriend are not the types of men we are interested in. yeah I know, hitler and al capone and muslim fundamentalists would never date an AI girlfriend, and you're looking to date them, so you're happy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:22 AM
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If all those horrible men find their happiness with AI "girlfriends" it will only mean easier life for everybody else. ah yes, hitler, ted bundy, muslim fundamentalists, al capone and attila the hun all would have gone immediately to chatting with ai girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:21 AM
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yes, I'll learn to do better so that my brain will be less autistic and my face will become more attractive. cm'on..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:20 AM
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If a guy is single I assume he wants to be single. you're living in fantasy land. that's like assuming that if a guy doesn't own a house it's because he doesn't want a house, he enjoys the woods
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:19 AM
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But also social skills, emotional problems, lifestyle issues, etc. https://www.businessinsider.com/bullies-have-more-sex-according-to-a-new-study-2017-12?r=US&IR=T I didn't know that abusing people was a positive for "social skills", and that being a rageful maniac was a lack of "emotional problems"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:18 AM
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but most of them struggle for good reason. ah yes, everyone knows that hitler and muslim fundamentalists don't have wives and children, while the most empathetic good men are just chased by hordes of women looking to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:17 AM
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yes I'll just unselect "autistic brain" from my build when I respec my character..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:16 AM
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except that the men who are least attractive also have less friends, less family, less wealth and work
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:15 AM
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except that you conveniently forget the real reason, men too unattractive to get dates and relationships except that you got it completely wrong, because I assure that the ones who " (1) you don't see women as people, " , in other words, clinical complete psycopaths, don't have much trouble dating. in fact, many get married and have children, and their wives don't even realize that they are psycopaths for years, if ever. men who are dark triad have no trouble dating. and the more narcissistic th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:14 AM
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wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:12 AM
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first of all, if you can't tell the difference between current "ai girlfriend" chatbots and "robot" you've got big problems. second, do you really believe that the people who are currently chatting with "ai girlfriend" (or boyfriend for that matter) are doing it out of preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:12 AM
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ah yes, hitler, ted bundy and al capone are exactly the kind who will go for ai girlfriends, along with christian and muslim fundamentalists. while egalitarian empathetic men are the ones who will totally find a partner. what are you on??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:09 AM
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yeah, that's why " Opposition to condoms did not only come from moralists: by the late 19th century many feminists expressed distrust of the condom as a contraceptive, as its use was controlled and decided upon by men alone. They advocated instead for methods which were controlled by women, such as diaphragms and spermicidal douches.[1]: 152–3 "
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:08 AM
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you support unattractive people deleting themselves from the gene pool, and support the spread of the genes of attila the hun, ted bundy, al capone, hitler, and the people with no money and 10 "wives" and 100 inheritable disease?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:07 AM
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but, they should be asking someone of equal or inferior visual attractiveness or it's moot
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:05 AM
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https://www.nylon.com/articles/straight-women-attracted-to-women-study
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:04 AM
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ah yes, everyone knows that the best car salesman is the guy who tells the customers "hey relax, it's just a car."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:02 AM
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and when small things like “be yourself tall and handsome”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:01 AM
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that's like asking mom how to approach women. you get "don't be bad" advice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:00 AM
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you know you're in trouble when a dating strategy requires more steps than an elaborate scam
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:18 AM
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so you shouted sick burns at each other across the field while out of breath?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:16 PM
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on facebook there are indian men who write "hello wonderful can I know you?" to... paintings
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:56 PM
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no you'll just lose job and friends and may get physically assaulted by jealous boyfriends and husbands while you chat with women when you don't have a romantic interest in them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:56 PM
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what the hell means your weasely "move on"? because you've smartly avoided talking of the fact that now you can't ask out anyone else in your friends' group and among your friends' friends. so what now?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:40 PM
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don't forget to be respectful!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:39 PM
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so you went to tennis, played tennis, and did it over and over again and one day as you were walking out he tripped on his shoelaces and fell into your car, and you thought "what the hell, already got a man in my car, may as well get married"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:37 PM
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I've also chatted up some women online who seemed interesting people and could have good conversations with, and we did, but they lived so far that I had no interest in a romantic long distance relationship since I've gone through 3 of them already and they hurt too much, so I was just having life conversations with them, and all but one of them ended up going nuclear the first time I casually talked of anything sex or romance related, as if I had sent a dick pick and asked if they wanted to cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:34 PM
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> Yeah I'm not saying to go down your friend group hitting on every chick. That's the absurd outcome. so what do you say? ask out one woman in your friends group and then stop? and then after getting rejected do what? abandon your friends and job to move to a new city to get a new group of friends after years of working on getting them just so you can ask out one person? may as well play the lottery
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:32 PM
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for this conversation, I'm discussing succeeding in making the women fall in love, not in getting money
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:28 PM
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I've seen younger people in broad-healthcare volunteering, but it may be different where you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:27 PM
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I was thinking more of the online scammers who don't meet the women in person but also don't use a fake profile of a very attractive or very rich man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:26 PM
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most absurd outcome? be tactful? yeah I'm sure that asking out friends and friends' friends when you're an unattractive man will yield great results and great consequences if you're "tactful"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:25 PM
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to not be a cold approach you have to know them already. approaching a stranger at a bar or social event is a cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:24 PM
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but even then, it's not easy. I've known many unattractive women who had very quirky fixations on what man they wanted or the men who they fell in love with, so simply pretending to be an attractive man wouldn't have worked on them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:24 PM
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so your advice is to cold approach complete strangers and hope that the 1004567th woman you approach will instantly like what you look like and halo effect into believing you're a great match?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:05 PM
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I've never seen ONE person "meet" a stranger at a restaurant. what do you do, stand up from your table and just nonchalantly move closer and closer to a sitting eating woman until your crotch is near her mouth? ask the waitress if she can provide a bun for your sausage? punch the jukebox until it starts playing something? heyyyyyyyyyyyyy~
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:03 PM
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ah yes, "meeting and approaching women" in arranged marriages and taking women captive as spoils of war, such wonderful ways /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:02 PM
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how?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:01 PM
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yeah just ask out women at work and get fired, in the real world, man up! just ask out women in your friends group and your friends' friends, lose your friends, in the real world!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:01 PM
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yeah just ask out women at work and get fired, in the real world, man up! just ask out women in your friends group and your friends' friends, lose your friends, in the real world!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:00 PM
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that's like saying that burning gasoline is a perfectly reasonable way to heat up your home, you're just prissy about the smoke
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:59 PM
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I'm an unattractive man and after I chatted up some women who were friends of my friends, women that I wasn't interested into and just wanted to get to know to expand my circle, they complained to my friends. Not for having done anything inappropriate, just for having "bothered" them with my existence and having dared to speak to them, the dirty ugly peasant I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:58 PM
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I mean, it really depends on the kind of volunteering mixed with your local area. There are young adults who volunteer in healthcare and aiding disabled people, old or young, at least where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:57 PM
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there are no men volunteering? what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:54 PM
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"just don't be born autistic bro, also have family money"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:53 PM
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material wealth pushes people apart improvement of treatment of people, morality, human rights, and less countries being under military attack (although most of them still attack and occupy other countries) plus material wealth means less shared traumas, which means less bonding of the strongest kind, and disappearance of spaces where people have to go to get something in a shared manner. once tvs are affordable, people don't have to go to a bar to watch it with other people, although a few peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:53 PM
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I've been in places where relationships are accepted, as long as you don't work directly with each other. it doesn't really matter if relationships are accepted, the point is that if you enter into a relationship with a coworker or client or anyone involved at work, you risk of losing your job. in fact, you risk losing it even just by interacting or by not interacting with a woman who wants to target you, but if you get into a relationship, the risk gets higher
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:49 PM
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only until you give them what they want. as soon as you don't, some of them will turn against you and some won't, and it only takes one to damage your life seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:48 PM
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oh yeah, criminals and abusers rate very poorly with women, they never get women and never have kids, and kind charitable moral men are chased down the street every time they walk out the door by hordes of women throwing their panties at them. in fact, the nazis had lost the war before even starting it: they were gonna go extinct in exactly one generation anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:43 PM
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says the person on an internet forum..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:41 PM
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the ask women subreddit will delete threads that ask women questions, because it's not inclusive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/09/23 04:09 PM
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you can easily telegraph you have money without saying a word by spending time in places that are expensive where rich people socialize. gentlemen's club, boat club, golf club, we're-not-masons-clubs, expensive bars and restaurants with a social setting. or buying expensive tables and 'private section' at discos if they still exist lol. the rich ones in italy apparently spend like 5-10k to get one champagne bottle, pour a glass each, leave the bottle, and move to the next very-expensive club or …
/r/seduction11/09/23 04:37 AM
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you're conveniently forgetting that most dildos are... purchased by men, by a large margin
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 01:35 PM
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