cookycoo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
40	What’s your single biggest most important “the one thing” that lead to a change in success?	Fundamentals	cookycoo	/r/seduction	17/04/25 07:28 PM

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3	My wife doesn’t love me anymore. What do I do? Your behaviour is a threat to her, she feels unsafe and its near impossible to fall back in love with someone who is unstable and a threat. Your financial control disrespects her need to survive and provide for the child and your over-reaction into violence is completely inappropriate. In my country this is termed financial abuse and is now a crime with jail time. You need to work on yourself a lot and be able to respect yourself and your behaviour and reactions before you can expect her to trus…	/r/MarriedRedPill	21/02/26 08:13 PM
-1	Why are romantic/dating situations so common at work? Work allows for regular: proximity, shared experiences, emotional exposure, goals, interests, discussions and social alignment. Plus women get to sus out your reactions, value and safety well before any flirting begins. Other than the risk of it going sour, power dynamics or HR, work is a terrific place to find a match.	/r/seduction	11/10/25 02:10 AM
157	Why do women lose interest when I start actively pursuing them? Some people mostly seek validation, not connection. They engage enough to attract attention and get a response that makes them feel desired (validation). As soon as they feel validated, they instantly begin pulling away, to protect their fragile self-esteem. You can spot them if they show interest only when you’re distant, pull back when you get closer, and rarely matching your effort. They never initiate a truly meaningful connection. If they’ve been single a while simply ask “what are you look…	/r/seduction	29/09/25 04:07 PM
1	Broke & angry, struggling, 26 I had different but similar trauma. At some point you just have to stop letting that define you. That’s not you and you have the chance to let that shit go and move forward. Read my other comments. The words you choose to describe who you are, how you ended up where you are and who you want to be are critically important. Instead of saying Im ….and im like this because dad was a violent drug blah blah Try saying, Im …..Im like this because I allowed my dads trauma to define me and I made poor ca…	/r/seduction	03/08/25 07:44 PM
1	Broke & angry, struggling, 26 You have to forgive to move on and that means forgiving your mistakes as well.	/r/seduction	03/08/25 07:33 PM
1	Broke & angry, struggling, 26 There is a lot of truth in these statements which helped me with some issues: Life hands out bags of shit, you choose how long to carry them with you You can only blame others for so long , then you need to own it and change it You remain angry until you forget or forgive I don’t truly totally forgive my trauma perpetrator, but I forgive them enough that I have worked out ways to move on. Mainly by holding myself accountable for leaving that shit behind and getting on with my life on my terms. I…	/r/seduction	03/08/25 07:22 PM
9	Don't repeat my mistake guys Before social media gatherings were called socials.	/r/seduction	03/08/25 07:10 PM
1	Settling down moving in with perfect girl.... now bored The dopamine rush of novelty has been your main fuel, and now you're trying to switch to something more stable without the inner transformation that makes it feel fulfilling. Dopamine is addictive and you’re missing your addiction hit. The boredom and craving for alone time are signals that parts of you still associate love with the chase and the intensity rather than intimacy. To move forward faster, you need to face that restlessness head on and start therapy focused on addiction and intimacy …	/r/seduction	21/07/25 05:19 PM
4	Need advice. I am a seductive woman but rarely approached. Overtly let a guy know you’re interested in being approached by a smile, a second look with a smile, if he gives you any feedback he’s interested either approach him or signal with a hand gesture for him to come over.	/r/seduction	29/06/25 04:26 PM
8	You are a girl for now and having men interested in you for sex doesn’t make you high value. It’s not that difficult Nothing much new here. For men and women, there’s a big difference between being wanted ( look good) and being valued (look good and be emotionally mature, self aware, self confident, stable, secure) aka high value.	/r/seduction	27/06/25 05:20 PM
7	Why do women like older guys so much There’s a seven year window where women are thinking in much more mature ways then men there age, especially the prefrontal cortex (judgment, planning, and impulse control). For some women, older men exude the highly desirable qualities of confidence, emotional maturity, and financial stability. Often after dating multiple immature men their own age and growing tired off mothering them, they seek men who have their life sorted and ducks in a row. It’s not daddy issues for most, it’s a desire for…	/r/seduction	26/06/25 05:30 PM
1	What does it mean when a girl plays with her wrist while I'm talking to her? If she’s smiling and making lots of eye contact its a good sign.	/r/seduction	03/06/25 11:59 AM
5	Attracting girls at the wrong time In that state you pose little to no threat, yet project attractive attributes.	/r/seduction	01/06/25 05:52 PM
63	Why are women physically attracted to guys with a porn star profile? Many not all, as all women are different. Many women are attracted to muscles, confidence, tattooed, bad boys, because they signal alpha confidence, strength and status. Many women want a man they can show off or wear as an accessory and a man who will keep them safe and has good genes for reproduction. Unfortunately those same signals make many of those guys difficult to live with, which some people hypothesise is partly responsible for high divorce rates and many women choosing to stay single,…	/r/seduction	20/05/25 03:52 PM
1	Struggling with night game Chat summary 🕺 Night Game Preparation: Wear button-up shirt, jeans/slacks, dress shoes; no underwear Groom thoroughly; carry two condoms Timing: Go out early (9:30–10:00 PM); best nights are Fridays and Saturdays Where to go: “Party bars” are preferred Approach Tips: Make a situational comment before introducing yourself Avoid asking for her number too early Flirt by teasing, joking, and escalating physically Go for the kiss when signs are right Pulling: Use lines like “What are you doing after …	/r/seduction	18/05/25 03:17 PM
1	How do I seduce a GILF? Theres apps for that eg Cougar Life	/r/seduction	01/05/25 03:44 AM
3	When did cold approach get easier for you? Take them off the pedestal, it gets easy when you genuinely just try to interact with no goal other than to engage with. Women. If you initially stop trying to date and hookup, you will comfortably approach ten times as many women.	/r/seduction	28/04/25 11:09 AM
1	Why do so many dating coaches "retire" early Like most coaches they burnout or graduate to more scaleable business models and apply the skillsets in more lucrative niches. They use their free cashflow to accelerate the shift into the more lucrative niche and as a consequence must break free from previous niche to release time constraints. In addition some emotionally outgrow seduction and some even regret the manipulative skills parts of seduction.	/r/seduction	25/04/25 05:47 PM
9	Someone said, rejection doesn't hurt, not approaching does...NOT TRUE!! Get her off a pedestal. She’s one of 4 billion. Boost your numbers, you need practice.	/r/seduction	24/04/25 07:39 PM
4	I find majority of girls boring, what can I do? Describe your perfect girl, what she likes to do on her days off, what shes into, what she wears, what she talks about etc. in other words give her a profile. Then do two things, go to where that person would be and game. Second look for those profile items on the apps and have those things on your profile.	/r/seduction	23/04/25 07:49 PM
1	How to stop being easy to sleep with? You’ve developed a pattern of behaviour that isn’t serving your deeper emotional needs. That’s now an identifiable opportunity to grow. Understand the difference between hookups and dates. Hookups can satisfy the sexual desires but too many can often leave an emotional emptiness. While dating can satisfy the emotional desires, but the irregular date can sometimes leave you lacking in sexual satisfaction. You can use both to satisfy separate needs. You could establish have an FWB and masturbate f…	/r/seduction	19/04/25 07:22 PM
0	Why some women reject in a very rude way? Some women get approached often. Just like you recognise and reject people selling on the street or in shopping centres, they’ve picked up that type of vibe and offer a hard no as a defensive response. Or she could be having a really bad day. Either walk away, or say something like this. “wow, harsh, so I won’t ask for directions to ________”. Then smirk. Wait. Uncomfortable moment where she either apologises or escalates. Remember shes just one of a 100 opportunities and she’s really not proved…	/r/seduction	19/04/25 06:40 PM
3	How can i find someone in this economy. Im a “casual guy, nice person” You are describing yourself in code as a “nice guy”. Girls don’t want to fuck or date “nice guys”. They are boring, passive, doormats, who women don’t respect. Hoping that kindness alone gets you the women you want is a sure road to failure. Either be a bad guy or a good guy, but never a nice guy. You’ve got the look to dress as a bad guy with edge. Or use day game by meeting people In real life and they will see your a good guy, but with the unpredictability and e…	/r/seduction	14/04/25 05:18 PM
4	Exclusive with a good FWB, but not high enough frequency of sex The solution is to either wank in between or get an additional FWB	/r/seduction	14/04/25 10:59 AM
26	Is Studying 'Game' While in a Relationship a Form of Cheating? Im married and I study seduction purely to keep my own marriage spicy and interesting. If Im confident, maintaining my frame and masculinity with some independence, some dominance and more, she continues to respect me. If I become a validation seeking pushover, the relationship suffers.	/r/seduction	14/04/25 02:22 AM
10	Do girls always give you tell tale signs of when they want to kiss you She mimics you, she looks at your lips, her hands start rubbing you, she gazes into your eyes while holding hands or rubbing you. Lean in slightly, pause, be silent, if she leans in, kts a good sign.	/r/seduction	12/04/25 06:18 PM
1	What can I do? It's the first time I've met a chatty girl. If she chats appropriately amount, that’s great. If she wont take a breath and listen move on.	/r/seduction	11/04/25 11:03 AM
2	Sex anxiety is real how do i get over it? The key to a life of happiness is to stop comparing yourself to others. Just be a good version of you. Right now your delivering her an incredible sexual experience. The only thing thats going to fuck that up is these these insecurities you have which seem baseless and false. She’s not with those guys for a reason. She’s likely legit discovered shes far happier with you. Take this as the win it is. Despite what you perceive in them, she’s with you and she absolutely loves it as evidenced by mult…	/r/seduction	10/04/25 04:19 PM
8	How do you detect Flakes? -She makes no effort to go beyond superficial topics. Conversation feels like you doing most of the talking or putting in non reciprocal effort She is scanning the room, checking her phone, checking time, instead of looking at you and engaging She turns part side on or partially away from you, especially if she starts looking away regularly She answers most suggestions with a “maybe” or a lack of commitment or enthusiasm She keeps mentioning others people rather than a focus on you or her.	/r/seduction	09/04/25 05:29 PM
1	How do I approach guys at the gym? How do I approach guys in general!? Hi, I like your vibe, can i grab your number so we can grab a coffee or go for a walk.	/r/seduction	09/04/25 03:29 AM
1	Why cold approaching women is wrong? Some people say using apps is wrong, others say meet them in a gym is wrong or at work is wrong or friends is wrong or friends of friends is wrong. The list of BS views on most topics is endless. Man up and live life your best way, how you want but without negative impacts on others. Just don’t be manipulative, deceptive, coercive or rude. Make women feel safe and happy and all will be ok.	/r/seduction	08/04/25 02:04 AM
3	My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brand It’s brilliant advice. Can you elaborate on whether you have branded texts or opening lines or verification images.	/r/seduction	07/04/25 08:00 PM
22	Why do so few men have "rizz"? Supply and demand. Most women half decent looking operate in a sellers market where they dictate terms. Most men half decent looking operate in that same market. Only exceptionally good looking men who have it all together operate in a sellers market where they dictate terms. You can manipulate some aspects of these transactions but the market is the market you are in. The closer you get to being that guy the more the market becomes favourable.	/r/seduction	05/04/25 12:08 AM
2	Do yall think you can date 10's And more importantly when it gets a bit of age and a few dints and marks, will it still be great to be around?	/r/seduction	03/04/25 06:16 PM
1	Most guys don't believe in seduction, and this puts you ahead of them all! Half or more don’t believe. Of those that do half or more don’t understand it. Of those that do half suck at it. You got 12.5% of guys to compete with.	/r/seduction	31/03/25 09:05 AM
2	Why I stopped approaching women. And how that gave me relationships as well as unlimited access to attractive women So in reading the room, if someone seems shy or reserved, you might choose to be more gentle and less pushy in your approach. Alternatively, if the vibe is fun and playful, you can mirror that energy. Is this what you are doing? In reading cues and signals are you watching things like tone of voice, word choice, eye contact, and physical proximity? Are you using these cues can tell you whether the other person is interested, uncomfortable, engaged, or detached? With energy and vibe are you doing…	/r/seduction	30/03/25 06:08 PM
3	Why do girls give strong, obvious indications of interest and then act rude/make you feel stupid when you approach, and how do you deal with this? Could be lots of reasons, many mentioned here. Respond with light statement that gives her an out and a back in if she wants it later. Eg hey you were all smiles earlier, come chat if you feel like it later. That also gives you an in later to say hi, feeling chatty yet.	/r/seduction	29/03/25 05:06 PM
2	Texting game Be playful, confident, and lighthearted in your messages. Build attraction through fun, teasing, and creating mystery by not oversharing or over-texting, while ensuring every message has purpose, such as building rapport or setting up a date. Timing is crucial, with a focus on controlling the tempo of conversations and mirroring the other person’s texting style. Humor and playful banter are vital tools for creating chemistry, and escalating flirting gradually, starting with light teasing and com…	/r/seduction	29/03/25 04:44 PM