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coolhand24/r/askTRP01/01/16 05:28 AM
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coolhand24/r/askTRP21/07/16 04:21 PM
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I go through phases. Mind you, I'm still a student so it's different. Usually I handle any potential set-backs with ease. Eventually I run into a BPD girl or something totally unforeseen happens which causes me major set-back. I then spend a year or so getting back to type A again. Rinse, repeat. I have no idea how to stay at type A without cracking at some point. Also, when you're king, everyone wants to dethrone you. And they will if you have even the smallest ounce of a conscience. But the qu…
/r/askTRP23/10/16 09:19 PM
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Fair enough. Things have changed in the last few weeks. I don't know why I was so concerned about this stuff. When I let it come naturally, all is well. I do appreciate your replies, I need to make things right myself though.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 10:24 PM
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No, I won't do that. Don't need to prove it. It's stupid for me to care this much about Tinder or any of it, isn't it ?! The less I concern myself with it and just do it, well . .
/r/askTRP03/08/16 10:31 PM
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I don't know. It sounds arrogant, but I am very good looking. I have law school, being a pretty accomplished musician, being a boxer and athlete under my belt. Sometimes I wonder if my value seems/is too high and girls think I'll be too high-value (which will make it worse for them in the end).
/r/askTRP03/08/16 01:21 PM
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My problem is I haven't been clear on what it is the girls I talk to are looking for, I suppose. Per the other comment, I suppose I should modify my approach. My SMV is fine (lawyer, boxer, musician, social skills). I have no idea how to convey that as I probably have too much respect for women and sometimes think they're intellectual/moral equals.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 06:32 PM
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Love yourself, then whatever love you get from others is just supplemental.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 08:58 PM
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Tell her you support her decisions and that you have a date you're late for, then don't talk to her again.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 10:50 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 04:50 AM
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Some women are losers. Actually, most people are unethical pieces of shit, and they will fuck your head up if you do not have a solid constitution and health self-image that doesn't depend on what others think. From now on, don't tolerate BS at all. Be clear on that. Have your shit together and be impervious. And with women, you will quickly learn which ones are only worth fucking and those worth having in your life. The latter will be the type you'd want to be friends with. They will have a goo…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 01:34 AM
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Sympathy is more like pity - feeling bad for someone. It's more like a specific emotion experienced through affective empathy, which would encompass more emotions. That's how I see it anyway. They certainly are capable of cognitive empathy - only severely socially inept persons and retards are incapable. It's how we're able to effectively interact with people and women do it very well. Now, if you mean being considerate of others or having an ethical lens in how you filter and act on the informa…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 12:24 AM
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Not sure. I started when I was 12, so it was always part of me. This isn't to say I became alpha in every situation - it was more like I didn't care about being alpha. I could knock people out, whereas I was untouchable. Having high intelligence helps too. As for the second question, it takes awhile. You get used to it. Learn to protect your chin, roll with shots, etc., and it isn't such a big deal anymore. But boxing or martial arts is great for no longer fearing getting hurt while also learnin…
/r/askTRP07/01/16 08:44 PM
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Certainly. I became more comfortable being vocal and direct about things, knowing I wouldn't be scared if things turn physical. Not being scared of being punched, which takes awhile and isn't fun at first, makes a world of difference.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 05:15 PM
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Learning to fight helps. Being able to kick someone's ass if push comes to shove makes everything else child's play. Also, being really intelligent and recognizinghow sheeplike people are helps. You're at school and you live life to succeed. Friends are secondary.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 11:28 PM
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Stop caring about the group. Care about the members you enjoy being around. You're overthinking it. Don't worry about your status or their perception. Focus on school, be involved with things, develop and demonstrate your intelligence in practical matters. Focus on your own development. Also, learn to box and/or grapple. I'm not a big guy, but knowing you can kick just about anyone's ass if it comes down to it makes the verbal stuff seem pretty small. Don't avoid him or confront him, just do the…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 08:59 PM
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The truth was that women love the idea of you, not the actual person. My highschool/first year university girlfriend left me for another guy a month and a half before we were supposed to move to school together. She went so far as applying to my school, us getting a cat, me finally acquiescing to relationship counselling. After 2 sessions, where I stand my ground on things, she decides we're great, kisses me passionately and all seems well. Within 2 weeks, she leaves me for a guy in a band who s…
/r/askTRP03/01/16 10:32 PM
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From my experience, only competitors get to do much mittwork beyond learning proper technique with a coach. I understand wanting to avoid the zoomba stuff. Join a gym with a decent # of members actually competing. You'll still need to do the warmup and workout though.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 04:55 PM
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Practice punching? Like heavy bag drills, sparring, and mitt-work? All gyms are going to start with warm up and cardio. Hitting a bag without warming up is a good way to pull something. Also, you need great cardio to compete. My guess is you're in for a rude awakening. I watched many tough guys show up to my gym for a few weeks then disappear when they realized the work and commitment involved. So, if you want to get a leg up, start running and doing circuits on your own beforehand.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 03:27 PM
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Don't even think of it in RP terms. You're 16, so kill your classes with dominance (ie. Don't be a nerd, but the guy who knows his shit), be well-read (read some philosophy and political philosophy in general, ie. The Prince, Genealogy of Morals), figure out what to do after HS, stop playing video games and watching TV, be a leader and involve yourself in things, don't things seriously without letting it stress you out, and rely on yourself as much as possible. Don't chase any one girl. Girls wi…
/r/askTRP01/01/16 11:03 PM
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Yeah, pursuing other women. She was talking about marriage and wanted a proposal, but the crazy making started before that happened. It did draw me into thinking she was the one, and I do believe we generally got along well. It's weird to think so many subtle things were tests. I recognized blatant ones. Hard for me to wrap my head around someone being so intelligent yet so child-like. There's also a feeling of jealousy still if there's someone else involved (she wants me to believe there is, FB…
/r/askTRP01/01/16 09:37 PM
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Depends on the context. Best approach is to never be in a position to be called a dummy. If the tone is in jest, roll with it ('only a dummy for loving you' in a funny way). If it's condescending or starts to get to that point, ignore. If it doesn't go away, start looking for someone who doesn't think you're a dummy. The fact of the matter is that once it happens, it's a quick slope. Would she call her father a dummy ever? I can't recall ever being the type to be called a dummy by anyone.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 06:41 PM
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Yeah, couldn't get a straight answer when I was direct, but then was shown disappointment when I didn't do what she 'secretly' wanted me to do. Played victim to get my empathy, and then it was a rollercoaster (wanted kids, didn't want them, was accepted to school [lie/test], didn't know what she wanted]. If I care, I'm a pushover and if I don't, I'm an asshole. I started getting vibes from the start, but feel I would've handled it better if I knew in advance. Ignored the alarms going off, like w…
/r/askTRP01/01/16 05:46 PM
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Well, last time I tried to contact, just to clear something up, I was told 'not to talk to her in that voice' and then she hung up. Painted black for being nice? Pretty sure her ex cut her off after cheating on her, so maybe this is her way of getting revenge by putting it on me. I imagine I was part of some triangulation scheme. Oh, she has a psych degree too. Specializing in developmental and abnormal psych. Now, that's a red flag.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 03:22 PM
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Yeah, I read that. The whole thing creates mad cognitive dissonance - lying crosses a line, but I always thought of her as part of my future plan. With one lie comes others, of course. She manufactured a whole situation around a lie. For months, my head was spinning and I'm a highly educated guy. It was like I dropped 10 IQ points. But yeah, I'm not someone who is usually prone to being played and that part of it is hard to come to grips with.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 03:16 PM
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'You'd like that wouldn't you?' 'Not as much as you would' More to do with the attitude than the specifics.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 07:53 AM
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Be sly and dismissive, test or no test.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 07:24 AM
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Working on the second part. Should have chucked her the minute she was trying to manipulate me into buying shoes. My BP ways and years of knowing her made me think her word was good and she had a good character. Same factors involved in giving her room in decision-making, which turned out awful. Prettt brutal wake up to realize all the victim stories she fed me in the past were BS, and she was the root of her dysfunctional relationships. But really, how should I approach this, if I hear from her…
/r/askTRP01/01/16 05:58 AM
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