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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Unpopular opinion: 9s are overrated - a 7 with a good body is worth moreI thought girls with pretty face but no nice body were not 9, maybe 7. | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 06:17 AM |
| -5 | Men, why is eye contact during oral so insanely attractive to you?Because of porn. Nothing special in real life. | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 12:19 PM |
| 6 | What Makes a Guy Instantly Attractive?"The worst thing, and probably right at the top of a list of bullshit beliefs brainwashed aspiring PUAs have, is that faking not giving a fuck when, by the mere fact you have approached a woman, suggests you do give a fuck, want to fuck, or need a fuck." The guy here is talking about not giving a fuck about people opinion. A guy who doesn't give a fuck will approach a woman and not have any problem with showing interest because he doesn't give a fuck what others think. Fact: As reported in Busin… | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Invited to a house "party", don't know what to doGo there to have fun. Forget the hook up part and maybe you will hook up. | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Invited to a house "party", don't know what to doWhat do you mean you're invited to drink, eat and hook up with these girls? Is it a planned orgy? Or you are just trying to hook up? | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 10:49 AM |
| 2 | How should a 74 year old male spark attraction from a female?Have you tested these techniques yourself? | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Does fucking 4s or below help you in any way with getting 5s and up?It contributes to the dick inflation we all suffer from. I'd refrain from it. We need to respect dick more so we can all get better pussy. | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Tips for a 45m who is attracted by 20 and 30 years old in the UK.Do you live in the UK? | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Casual Dating BiosOk. Where is the non answer? | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Casual Dating BiosI think I have replied to your question thoroughly. Also very explicitly. No need to repeat myself or I would really waste my time because there's no chance you would understand if you've not done so already. Peace | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Casual Dating BiosYou're misunderstanding me. I know exactly what I want and I have exactly the opposite opinion: The shitshow in my opinion is caused by goals which force you to look at human relationships with a filter lens and are delusional by design. Seeing someone without expectation and being open on your feelings has never caused any shitshow. I know most women think like you described and that is a shortcoming of their thinking in my opinion and the reason why they feel used. I also noticed a big portion… | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Casual Dating BiosRight, so from what you say you need a goal to date someone. I honestly think that's depriving relationships of their value. I am no tool for anyone to reach their goal. I see people because I like them. But I disagree when you say I don't know what I want. I know exactly what I want. Am I a time waster for what? Wanting to see people? In any case there's no argument to have here because it's a fact. A person who is not looking for commitment not necessarily wants one night stands or a fwb. Actu… | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Casual Dating BiosWhat is time wasting? Seeing someone? | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 09:54 PM |
| 0 | Casual Dating BiosWhat do you mean no logic? I'm looking for casual Dating with is still dating. The only difference is that there is no long term goal nor exclusivity. I'm not looking for hook ups or one night stands. Also the girls I dated who were into casual had exactly the same view. Dumb is who thinks casual = hook up | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Casual Dating BiosCasual means no long term goals. It doesn't mean they want just to shag. I thought it was obvious. At least all the girls into casual I have dated had this view. | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Tips for a 45m who is attracted by 20 and 30 years old in the UK.Age gap shaming is exactly what hinders me but I need to overcome that fear. | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Tips for a 45m who is attracted by 20 and 30 years old in the UK.Also 40 year olds with girls in their 20s? | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 02:24 PM |
| 4 | Tips for a 45m who is attracted by 20 and 30 years old in the UK.In the UK? I've tried. They're very cold. | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 02:13 PM |
| 4 | What is a Theory you have about seduction that you know is true but just can't prove?Can you elaborate? | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 11:14 PM |
| 130 | What is a Theory you have about seduction that you know is true but just can't prove?If you approach constantly and you get used to rejection at some point something clicks, you start pulling with always less and less effort, sometimes you have only to walk in the club and they approach you. It's like they smell it. Very weird but it happened to my friend first, then to me. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Spending the night at FWB’s house .. focusing on the friendship!Had a similar relationship 10 years ago. We were good friends and had sex too. Nothing beats that sort of freedom. | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps are confusing: how do I clearly communicate dating goals?I gave up being honest with women on dating apps. Tell them what they want to hear. | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 10:52 PM |
| 0 | Never know how to text for hookups or respond usuallyThat leads straight to unmatch. | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Never know how to text for hookups or respond usuallyIn what parallel reality does this work? | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Asked a colleague out, she said yes but texts stay brief — propose a plan or step back?Right, I'll explain better: I messaged as a follow up of a previous message where she said she was going to spend the weekend cleaning. did you enjoy your weekend cleaning? yes, it was fun ahahah. I didn't do much. let's go for a drink when you want a break from your house chores. live music ahahah let's look what's on next weekend as this Saturday I'm on call. sure! Ahahah I'm also away this weekend as it's half term. cool. Let's keep an eye on what's on next weekend. sounds good. This is the e… | /r/seduction | 16/02/26 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Asked a colleague out, she said yes but texts stay brief — propose a plan or step back?Thank you. I've always waited for them to make moves first but I'm tired and I want to start choosing rather than be chosen. I feel very uncomfortable doing this but I'm trying to push myself. | /r/seduction | 16/02/26 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how to manage post hinge date.Yes, I've become really insecure after 2 years of dates going the same way. In the past most of my dates were successful and when they rejected me they used to be clear and upfront. In these last 2 years I only got dates that went well apparently and then they disappeared, despite saying they wanted to see me. This made really anxious to find out if there will be a second date. Probably it's a vicious circle, because I'm becoming needy and this puts them off. I proposed 6pm because it's what I (… | /r/seduction | 04/02/26 01:34 PM |
| 0 | Not sure how to manage post hinge date.Again, I wanted to test someone's suggestion. I don't feel uncomfortable at all with no set time. I said that in my previous reply to you. You should propose both a time and place. Right now you're basically putting all the date planning logistic work on her instead of being a man and coming up with a plan and inviting her to join you. Then you add this which is what I wanted to test, it's why I proposed 6pm. It didn't work, it's not me and I don't believe in it. I don't think is not manly givin… | /r/seduction | 02/02/26 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how to manage post hinge date.In my previous reply I misunderstood your question. I proposed "6pm Thursday" because I wanted to test someone suggestion to be the man and propose a time myself. My initial question was "let me know about the time because I'm flexible" without any attachment to it. The fact she ignored it, as well as the fact she ignored the bit about cooking together in the future, together with the fact in the last year I've only had dates that go well and then flake before the second date, made me wonder if … | /r/seduction | 02/02/26 11:22 AM |
| 0 | Not sure how to manage post hinge date.What am I defending? Where did he tell me why he thinks she's not interested? | /r/seduction | 02/02/26 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Not sure how to manage post hinge date.I have no urgency of setting a time. I only told her to let me know about the time cause I'm flexible. The point here is that she ignored it and last year my dates went all the same way: first date seems to go well but then they flake, sometimes even the day before the second date, plus this girl explicitly said this is her red flag. So I'm becoming really anxious about girls flaking. I proposed "6pm then on Thursday?" just because I wanted to test the theory of someone who suggested me to be th… | /r/seduction | 02/02/26 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Not sure how to manage post hinge date.Because, as I explained, lately I'm getting only first dates that go well and then they disappear. That has caused me anxiety which she enhanced with saying that her red flag is exactly that is not able to reject men directly. FYI, she's most likely not into you Can you expand please? Why do you think so? If she's not interested then the problem is not my neediness. What is she doing then with these messages? Playing with me? Why did she agree on Thursday if she's not interested as you say? | /r/seduction | 01/02/26 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how to manage post hinge date.I messaged: it definitely does count xd 6pm Thursday? She replied after 7 hours: do you like plants? I'm confused | /r/seduction | 01/02/26 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how to manage post hinge date.That's a good reply. Thank you. I messaged: it definitely does count xd 6pm Thursday? She replied after 7 hours: do you like plants? I'm confused | /r/seduction | 01/02/26 09:34 PM |
| -2 | Not sure how to manage post hinge date.I messaged: it definitely does count xd 6pm Thursday? She replied after 7 hours: do you like plants? I'm confused | /r/seduction | 01/02/26 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how to manage post hinge date.What was needy about my conversation? | /r/seduction | 01/02/26 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how to manage post hinge date.This is exactly my go to as well. It worked until 2 years ago. But then girls started saying it would be great to see me again and disappear soon after. This caused a lot of insecurity and anxiety in me. | /r/seduction | 01/02/26 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how to manage post hinge date.Thanks. I appreciate | /r/seduction | 01/02/26 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Not sure how to manage post hinge date.Thanks | /r/seduction | 01/02/26 11:51 AM |
| 2 | Does this stuff really work?I found one but he only wants to hit the same club where everyone know us so I feel more self conscious and only wants to approach girls he really likes. If I try to explain we need to talk to multiple people (even men) to warm up and get in the mood he doesn't understand. He replies he's not good at small talk. Most nights with him are spent looking around with no action. | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Does this stuff really work?These are 2 hard years of rejection and personal introspection. Your motivation needs to be of steel if you keep going for 2 years at some hard work with no rewards. | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Does this stuff really work?99% of the time even when you get good at it? You say you don't believe in coach teachings but at the same time it helped you because it motivated you to approach. If it motivated you I suppose you were believing it and then realised is just the numbers game that does the trick. I am a quiet person, an introvert, and I'd rather spend my nights with a couple of trusted friends but I want to put myself out there and try, maybe in the clubs first as the street is too scary. I'm also affected by oth… | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else just burnt out from dating and this whole seduction circus?You said you're a late bloomer. I'm interested in your story if you want to share it. | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 10:32 PM |
| 3 | How can you tell if older men find you attractive?Older men love girls your age but feel like they'd be called creeps if they made a move. | /r/seduction | 02/12/25 08:08 PM |
| 1 | How is game in the UK?I'm in Nottingham and I'm an immigrant. When my friend from Italy visits me he kiss closes every time and me too, just by going out with him. On my own I struggle. I think I need a wingman. Send me a message if you want to try Nottingham. | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Men who are into younger women age gapIt's just a fact that woke people see old men approaching young women as a predatory and creepy act. I don't mind being down voted for ststiny6thr truth | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 03:08 PM |
| -2 | Men who are into younger women age gapWoke culture affected this a lot too. A indoctrinated young girl will instantly see you as a predatory old creepy man. | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Don’t Let Women Use You For Your Non Sexual Time and Attention!!!!How insecure... | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Is it normal, like part of the process, to be continually rejected?It takes alcohol and high chaotic spirit for me to approach. The quite atmosphere in a coffee shop switches my courage off. | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal, like part of the process, to be continually rejected?So I get it gets better with practice. | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal, like part of the process, to be continually rejected?I would like more than one to accept me tho. I'm not yet ready for the one. Does it get better with practice? | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal, like part of the process, to be continually rejected?To be honest I see that as way more difficult. | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal, like part of the process, to be continually rejected?Will it get better eventually? | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal, like part of the process, to be continually rejected?What do you mean? Do I have to stop approaching? If those people weren't for me then there's nothing I can do to improve and it's not part of the process but only what I can get according to my standards. | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal, like part of the process, to be continually rejected?I know that. I'm talking about continuous rejection in this case tho. | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal, like part of the process, to be continually rejected?Did you go through it? Is it better now? | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Hinge date says she wants to start as friends as she doesn't want to jump into romance.And I would be perfectly OK with that but she wasn't able to communicate that and was mean to me when I tried to. | /r/seduction | 01/10/24 04:04 PM |
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