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4

Who cares what men think. If you want to age terribly and not take care of yourself with modern medicine.... go for it sis lmao
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/20 03:02 PM
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She’s “won” in your eyes. That’s so embarrassing. LOL. I would kill myself if I was that lady; failure to be a wife, a bully and a stupid city job at that age. GOOD LUCK
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/20 03:00 PM
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Lol aww
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/20 05:46 PM
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My mom is the same way when I say I want to be a housewife 😆 it’s a generational thing. Don’t pay much mind
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/20 05:01 PM
5

How do you interact with men? Do you feel insecure around them? Nervous? Uptight? I tend to get along well with men because I feel comfortable and joke around with them. Men appreciate women who is confident, silly, and laid back.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/20 07:36 PM
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No? Why would it be more meaningful? It’s the thought that counts. 🤨
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/20 10:30 PM
-2

What?
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/20 07:05 PM
21

For our anniversary I commissioned an artist to paint him and his dog.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/20 06:58 PM
1

Wow. Thank you for sharing your experience with so much honesty and insight. That sounded like a very first tough experience in motherhood. It sounded like both you and your husband struggled. I never realized how taxing motherhood could be. I guess that’s why having a great husband to stick with you and work through this challenging time is important. You mentioned hiring help so you two could breath. Without family nearby, how soon do you think parents should hire someone to help with the baby…
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/20 06:15 PM
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I will never EVER sign a pre nup. The more money a man makes, the more opportunity he will have to cheat. Not signing a pre nup is an incentive for him to not cheat
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/20 03:17 PM
7

Yeah that’s fine but putting himself in nude situations is not ok
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/20 07:22 PM
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You’re so nice! Have you ever cooked with Textured Vegetable Protein (VTP??
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 05:30 PM
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I feel like you’re a people pleaser, and I don’t think that’s what RPW is. Being a people pleaser makes you lose your sense of identity. I don’t think you have to actively prove to your husband that YOURE THE BEST at all times. I think RPW is about being mindful and being your best you.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 03:55 PM
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I’m going Vegan 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 03:44 PM
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IKR.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 01:25 AM
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It’s simply out of touch. Based off of all the responses of actual mothers here, none of them put the complete blame on themselves. Anyways. I guess you’ll learn when you become a mother.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 09:39 PM
1

Yikes.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 09:36 PM
1

Do you have kids?
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 09:32 PM
2

Thank you for such an honest and insightful comment! I guess both parities need to be prepared for the imperfection that comes with starting a family.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 06:23 PM
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YES
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 01:22 PM
8

Interesting on both points.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 04:56 AM
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Bingo! I think you hit on a very accurate distinction between the different types of new fathers. Viewing the wife as a surrogate mother could be a sign of .....mommy issues! Lol
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 04:53 AM
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Thanks for your unsolicited comment. Not reading it😘
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/20 01:25 PM
2

IKR
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/20 05:34 PM
2

Well put. Everyone brought up a good point about body count being correlated to commitment. I never thought about it like that
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/20 03:17 PM
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IKR. I said your comment was the best response, because it caused me to think about the matter differently and I liked your reasoning. I meant it as a compliment and it wasn’t to disregard other comments at all People are getting catty over the stupidest things.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/20 03:04 PM
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Very eloquently put! I never thought of body count as a reflection of standards and self control in a man
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/20 03:00 PM
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😇♥️
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/20 06:19 AM
0

Okay, great! Get off my post since it’s pointless😘
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/20 02:35 AM
0

Does it matter?
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/20 02:31 AM
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LOL. Still an immature reason to me.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 10:33 PM
3

I agree
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 09:11 PM
1

Usually when people have incredibly high body counts it’s because hey have an insatiable need for validation, affection, confirmation of self-worth, lack or respect for sex/the other gender, etc. That’s what I’ve seen from women at least
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 08:21 PM
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I agree 100%. Best response yet
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 07:27 PM
1

So what about your lifestyle leads you to 50? Are you polyamorous?
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 07:05 PM
-21

I’m not looking for relationship advice. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 07:03 PM
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So other than the “idea of being in other women”, you don’t see any red flags? Good for you. I could not have waited for one person lol
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 06:44 PM
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I’m so happy you found some value in this post! I’m so glad it has helped many women reflect on a bruised and overlooked part of our lives. I am very surprised by how many women can relate. The talk is always about daddy issues as you’ve mentioned It’s hard, but we can always be better. Mindfulness and awareness will make us much better mothers than our own. Sending love ♥️
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 06:38 PM
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Thanks for the negative and snide remark. You don’t know anything about us or the nature of the relationship. Your point could have been made without coming for my boyfriend
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 06:30 PM
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I think any addiction is bad
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 06:27 PM
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Oh yeah he totally wants to just plate and ditch me in the next two months. even though we’ve been dating for two years
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 06:17 PM
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I’m with an older man. Is that a normal body count for older men? To me that seems a bit excessive even for an older man. I guess it doesn’t matter at the end of the day
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 06:16 PM
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Would 50 be a red flag to you? Makes sense just like women have casual sex and don’t see sex as just means to create a family.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 06:12 PM
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I think upwards of 27 is also a good idea.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/20 09:52 PM
2

Thank you for sharing your experience. I as well relate in idolizing any sort of positive female figure in my life. Then when they mess up or recede from my life, it kind of hurts. I was really nervous about posting this, but I am very surprised by how many women can relate. The responses have been very honest and relatable
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/20 04:43 PM
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Funny you mention MBTI. I am INTP, so inherently I am going to feel alienated from alot of people. I relate to a lot of what you’re saying.....feeling masculine and stoic at times. When I do form friendships, I really need to connect with them on a deeper level. Otherwise it feels so fake to me. I think personality compatibility does play a role into bonding but only to a certain extent.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/20 12:10 AM
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Damn that’s toxic.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/20 01:34 PM
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Damn that’s too bad.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/20 06:44 AM
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Lol. I just don’t think it gets as much stigma or heat as daddy issues
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 08:15 PM
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I know right.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 07:07 PM
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100%.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 05:54 PM
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That’s different. That’s a mamas boy. Too much motherly nurturing influence This is mommy issues. Absence of motherly nurturing
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 05:01 PM
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Wow that is very sad.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 04:57 PM
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Yes 100% I am not trying to justify his behavior. I just think it may have been an instrumental piece in his development. At the end of the day, you have to own up to your faults and be be a better person. He didn’t do that and that wasn’t okay.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 04:10 PM
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50+
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 04:03 PM
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Definitely.There are different types of mommy issues, thus manifestations.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 03:39 PM
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The video I linked above talks about this. Sometimes single moms can’t be nurturing and warm all the time so the absence of this hardens these men. And that they seek a lot of validation (sex/affection) from other women
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 02:53 PM
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Movies are terrible for first dates. They’re soo awkward
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 01:33 PM
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I don’t want to be a Stacy 🤢🤢
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/20 01:35 AM
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His actions speak louder than his words. Clearly he is not ready to be emotionally committed. You have to weigh how you would feel if in a few months he ended up telling you he didn’t want to continue onto something serious If you are fine with the possibility, I would keep dating him. If you are not okay with that possibility, I would give him his space to heal and spend your timer constructively elsewherw Also. Men should be the chasers. Never ever forget that if he was in love and serious abo…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 06:29 PM
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Lol
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/20 02:48 PM
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People grow up at different rates. Being around mature people, does help with your maturity. Your assumption that all older people want to take advantage is incredible incorrect and unbased
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/20 02:39 PM
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Again this is the dumbest con I’ve ever heard. You want to cap your maturity based off other people? I could never, I love learning and growing into a woman
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/20 02:28 PM
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You said a con to an age gap relationship is becoming too mature? Omfg I CANT 😂😂😂😂
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/20 01:42 PM
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Ok whatever
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/20 04:38 PM
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Im talking about American society as whole.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/20 04:24 PM
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It’s just a societal knee jerk reaction to millennia of forced upon gender roles. Maybe society will find a brief moment of balance between what you described and ultra traditional gender roles. Until then the pendulum continues to swing back and forth
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/20 03:06 AM
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Attack you how? That sounds terrible. Well that’s good you’re able to discern red flags in a woman. Just don’t feel rushed, I think guys have longer time to find their woman. How old are you?
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/20 03:18 PM
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Makes much more sense. You do deserve that in a wife and you shouldn’t settle for anything less
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/20 03:12 PM
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So basically you just want to pump and dump. And you’re on this sub to better learn how to waste women’s time. Ew
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/20 03:04 PM
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Im not saying it’s easy, nor did I tell her how to get confidence. All I’m saying is that if she works towards building confidence, she won’t have a problem
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 07:21 PM
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You just need some confidence lol No perfect body or makeup will make you feel differently
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 04:27 PM
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YES
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/20 02:50 AM
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Drop them. They can sense your insecurity and need for validation. Once you step away and you’re no longer at their cusp, they’ll start respecting you. Hangout with the guys or different women
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 03:01 AM
5

Yeah maybe that’s same for me. I don’t try too hard with my clothes, I’m just naturally nice and and friendly
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 01:15 PM
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I’ve gotten free bananas at 7-11 lmao And a discount at forever 21😆
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 04:43 AM
2

“Loser life” lol what
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/20 07:47 PM
2

This.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/20 01:03 PM
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Just own up to it and embrace it. Femininity is less physical, but more so a mindset and grace
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/20 03:01 PM
1

Ouch, those are tough realities. I’ve seen this amongst highly powerful women as well. although I want to have a well earning career, there is no urgency for me to break glass ceilings like my male counterparts.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/20 11:20 PM
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The latter for sure
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/20 01:01 PM
1

This is political. Reported
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/20 09:37 PM
2

Very valid point!
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 02:07 PM
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Right! She sounds so forced. It’s uncomfortable
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 06:44 PM
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Please see a pelvic floor therapist!
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 01:50 AM
2

Oohh gotcha
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/20 03:35 PM
2

Again if that’s your biggest priority in a woman, most HVW wouldn’t want to be with you. Maybe a LVW
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/20 03:01 PM
1

What’s RMV
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/20 02:54 PM
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If all you care about is fertility, then you’re not really a HVM women would strive to be with. HVM are sophisticated and want more from a woman
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/20 02:51 PM
5

I relate. I feel so masculine around other women even when they tell me I’m girly. It’s like I try to over compensate. I kind of have an aversion to women so it’s hard making friends outside select few who I love. Not sure how to fix it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/20 04:32 AM
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This. Right here. Just because you’re hot doesn’t mean a man will want to take you serious
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/20 07:58 PM
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Hotter? You’re right a 50 year old women will never be hotter than an 18 year old Can she be more attractive? Yes. Her class, experience, wisdom, career, social circle would be qualities a man may favor instead of “hotness”
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/20 07:58 PM
3

👍🏽
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/20 03:10 AM
4

Oh shit that’s true. It’s a two way effort in maintaining the masculinity of the man. Im not solely responsible for his masculinity
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/20 04:43 PM
2

Yeah, I’m pretty open minded to any other religion except a particular one. I know all religions are equally bad and equally good. I just had Moe experience with one and probably saw more bad than the other religions
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/20 03:25 AM
1

Very good examples
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/20 08:54 PM
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I think that’s a good way of putting it. Enthusiasm. He’s so stoic, it’s hard to tell sometimes lol 😔 thank you for all your helpful responses♥️
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/20 03:13 PM
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That’s what I figured. Thanks ♥️
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/20 03:03 PM
1

Ohhh nooo. I have an aversion to religion (because of my upbringing), but if it’s truly helpful I’ll get past it. Thank you for the recommendations 😊♥️
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/20 02:57 PM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/20 02:15 PM
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He’s suuuper tight lipped about sex outside of the bedroom. Maybe I’ll try to open it up or just read his body cues more closely
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/20 02:10 PM
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What do you think constitutes being a starfish? Lol I hope I’m not one.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/20 02:09 PM
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That’s another thing......should I be on top for sex? Can he still be dominating when im on top? Do you think men prefer to be on top? Sorry if this is too weird of a question!!
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/20 01:40 PM
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How sweet!! I love that ♥️ looking back, I too think my grandmas RP lifestyle is something I subconsciously always wanted. But yes my mom did fall into the whole feminist thing. I admire her ambition in being the breadwinner, but it’s just not the life I want.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/20 01:36 AM
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My grandma is so RP, and I absolutely adore her for it. My mom on the other hand is BP lol
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/20 01:28 AM
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Is she Christian?
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 10:30 PM
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They’re not saying that men actively want to build life or date with a BPD woman. It’s just that some men may find the emotional volatility and excitement something physically attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 10:19 PM
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Did you already explain to him porn is a boundary for you? It would be unfair to put the blame on him when this was not discussed. It this was discussed, he agreed and he is still choosing to watch porn, then you need to ask him to stop (for your emotional sake). Both of you will need to discuss how important this is on an individual level because he did break your trust Are you justified in asking him to stop? I don’t think so and it will just annoy him. But if this an uphill battle you want to…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 02:13 PM
0

Well I’m referring to masturbating and porn watching. He’s not going to watch porn without masturbating
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 01:55 PM
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It’s ridiculous to think it’s cheating. All men masturbate! Leave them be. Thinking it’s cheating will just create unnecessary drama and hurt feelings Edit: If porn or masturbating affects your sex life or becomes addictive for him, then I would try to intervene.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 01:51 PM
1

These publications were made within the past five years
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 10:10 PM
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That’s true but what they go after maybe isn’t entirely reflective of what they genuinely find attractive? Because maybe someone women feel they have to settle for average Joe when in their fantasies they want a rich George Clooney
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 07:40 PM
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Your original comment wasn’t about physical health though. It was about how promiscuity leads to divorce lol
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/20 02:30 AM
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And just in general the types of people conducting the research seem to be biased. “Family Institute”, “Before I Do.org”, all seem like types of sources that are for traditional family values. Even the credible sources mostly talk about mental health illness and STIs. I don’t see where your statistic came from
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 09:52 PM
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https://www.everydayhealth.com/longevity/can-promiscuity-threaten-longevity.aspx Is about physical health I can’t believe you cited RPW lol
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 09:43 PM
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Where’d you get this statistic from? A church lol?
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 08:43 PM
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Exactly!!
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 08:42 PM
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SUNSCREEN. Always wear sunscreen. It’s anti aging and will keep you looking young forever
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 12:26 PM
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Idk I’m just a loner and get along with guys better. Nothing over the top LOL But after watching the YouTube video... I think I checked the boxes. Guys tend to fall for me pretty hard because of my unintentional“cool girl” ways
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/20 04:25 AM
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Hey we should grab coffee on Xxxday!
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/20 12:14 AM
2

Oh my god! You explained myself to a T!! My dad is pretty submissive and my other for most of my childhood has been the breadwinner. Drama at school has always discouraged me from making friends too. It’s insufferable. Thank you for commenting. I think friends at arms length distance is a great idea
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 06:33 PM
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EW!
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 10:29 PM
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I actually agree. I’m 21 and feel pressured to find a husband, but I think a little more life experience and a professional job couldn’t hurt. Thanks for the post OP
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 12:10 PM
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100%%%%
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 03:43 AM
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Wax or do laser treatment
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/20 05:08 AM
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I think the fact that is affecting your life, this could be considered an addiction. Addiction is bad, therefore you should consult a doctor. This would be my advice regardless if it was masterbating, drugs, sex, habits, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/20 09:18 PM
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Good idea! Thanks
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 07:59 PM
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Off topic. Has anyone tried SKIMS? KK’s shape wear looks so amazing. I imagine it’s pricy so I want to make sure it’s worth the investment
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 04:10 PM
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I think the pros outweigh the cons for me. Sure he will die sooner than me, but to me the age gap is invaluable. Men with at least a 10 year age gap, are generally much more focused, mature, emotionally sound than my counterparts. They’re better in bed and to be quite honest they have the means to be a provider. I think an age gap is super RedPill. It plays on the benefits of each gender. A young woman can bring her youth, good lucks, short window of fertility while an older man can bring to the…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 03:32 PM
1

Well that’s why I’m planning to date someone at least 10 years older than me, to help mitigate this risk. Regardless. Take care of yourself, start using Botox and keep putting effort into the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 02:06 PM
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This right here lmao
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/20 07:30 PM
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Yes that’s basically what I said in my comment
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/20 12:55 PM
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I agree with everything but introverted ness. Women shouldn’t have to alter their personality. Some men enjoy an extroverted, charming, classy women. There’s room in elegance for all types of personality
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/20 03:08 AM
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I am around a lot of wealthy and established men. They appreciate a woman with a good head on her shoulders. And would rather want a woman with a career
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/20 06:15 PM
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Exactly. You’re not trying to impress every man. Only one.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/20 05:54 PM
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There are many men who make over 200k. It’s not impossible. It depends on where you live. She could easily marry someone within her field. You can marry for love and lifestyle and that’s perfectly fine. She can afford to be picky and disqualify men based off of income since she is a HVW. This is what affluent people do. They marry up and within their circle.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/20 01:25 PM
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I think r/girlsgonewired will be able to address #1 better
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/20 02:40 AM
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“If it goes against someone’s morals I would say it isn’t considered respectful and or safe to them.” You made it unspecific to OP. You made it a blanket statement. People need to learn to deal with opposing views regardless if they have familiar relations. It’s not bad. And I’m not talking about behavior. I’m just talking about opposing beliefs her kids might have
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/20 04:34 AM
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Uh no... just because I disagree with someone on fiscal policies doesn’t mean I’m disrespectful or unsafe
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/20 04:21 AM
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Respectful and safe isn’t open to interpretation
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/20 03:50 AM
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🥶🥶🥶🥶 no one said YOU have to. Why do you care so much about what your kids think if it’s respectful and safe? It just seems so authoritarian
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/20 12:33 AM
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Well tough luck, kids have a mind of their own. The moment you try to impose on them, they will run the other way. Just talk with them. Who cares what they believe in. No one thinks exactly like their parents. As long as they are respfectful, I don’t see the issue
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/20 12:18 AM
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I got banned from the feminism subreddit a long time ago. Any dissenting point of view is shit down lol. So hypocritical
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 10:21 PM
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You do you. You don’t seem HV to me, but my definition is different.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 07:27 PM
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What a high value person is, is completely variable. RP definition of a HV person to you may be true, but for another person it may be the contrary. Now if you want to argue that the RP definition of a HV person is superior to all else definitions.....then that’s extremely closed minded and I could no longer continue this discussion.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 05:14 PM
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The biggest concern here is about her safety, not her value. How she values herself via RP/BP is none of your business. Yes there is always a risk in sending NSFW pics, and talking with her about that could be important. Telling her that location, date, time, IP address is embedded within pictures is important. However if she knows the complications and risks, yet she still decides to send NSFW pics, that’s on her. She’s a legal adult and should live how she wants. No one should impose their val…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 03:31 PM
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Determining your value and your way of life around what others think will only lead to a shallow, unfulfilling life. I am so sorry that is how you are living your life.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 03:28 PM
2

Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 12:48 PM
1

Well you’re super creepy for reading my entire post history. And being red-pill is a mindset regardless of body count, medical history, occupation history, etc. So I’m going to stay subbed to the subreddit lol
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 12:46 PM
1

How do you know I lost my virginity as a minor? That’s so creepy
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 12:38 PM
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You need to date higher up.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 02:25 AM
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OMG! Thank YOU! I’m never deleting this post so I can always refer back to this comment for when I’m feeling discouraged.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/20 01:37 PM
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Uhhh yes... I still plan on getting my degree, pursuing a career, and continue culturing myself. I would consider myself HVW. Not sure what you’re point is
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/20 04:17 AM
2

And that’s another thing. There are TOO many options. I’m paralyzed as to what to do
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/20 03:50 AM
1

Actually you can get a paternity test before the child is born.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/20 07:34 PM
0

Yep
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 03:52 PM
-3

You said it in your own post lol
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 03:39 AM
-5

Get over it! You’re being insecure
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 03:18 AM
11

YES
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 02:37 PM
1

Thanks for sharing! Very good anecdote
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 03:22 AM
11

I just think it’s a slippery slope to have the mentality of “not refusing”. This indicates you’re contemplating refusal because you might not be ready in some way. And eliminates any avenue for giving or revoking sexual consent. Im not saying to NOT give your spouse as much sex as you can and appease him in his love language. I think I’m more comfortable with the mentality as “give as much sex as you can for him”. I think it’s a much more healthy mindset and accomplishes the same goal. BUT if yo…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 01:52 PM
7

Yikes yeah this train of thought spooks me. It does sound like servantry
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 12:01 PM
3

Okay
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/20 12:52 PM
12

Yes dude. Sex is better and they are usually settled in their career
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 04:39 AM
1

Maybe work on your attractiveness (wardrobe, plastic surgery, hair, etc) so you can get confidence? When you’re fun, we’ll put together and confident men will be attracted to you.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 12:09 AM
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😂😂
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/20 08:12 PM
2

Thanks, that’s how I was feeling at the time.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/20 04:16 AM
-3

I think you’re taking this scenario too much at face value and are not understanding the contexts and themes being touched upon. Yes he was being a jerk but that’s not the point. The point is HOW do I enforce sexual boundaries when I’m feeling vulnerable and when I’m not being taken serious. To what degree does STFU come in to play with sex? How do you enforce boundaries without being aggressive? And if it is about him being an ass why put blame on me? You telling me to “get it together” is just…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/20 04:15 AM
0

Okay a little bit more substantive what than your first comment
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/20 04:06 AM
1

okay can you elaborate?
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/20 04:02 AM
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You sound like a high functioning extrovert LOL
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/20 07:50 PM
0

🙄
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/20 08:18 PM
1

I like that! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/20 03:28 AM
2

Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/20 02:00 AM
-1

No i swear to god. He’s very traditional and I don’t want to come off as cheap but I also want to keep him entertained
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/20 01:55 AM
1

You’re actually a terrible person. Not only are you broke, but broke and UGLY
/r/seduction04/02/20 01:48 AM
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