| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | I hear a lot about being dumped but not about dumping someone. Advice neededYou are right. Oneitis is the opposite of abundance mentality - because of corona i had a hard time finding other plates. Only random ons on trips and shit which didn't help with the oneitis at all. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/21 12:05 AM |
| 1 | I hear a lot about being dumped but not about dumping someone. Advice neededI couldn't since I never saw her as a LTR material. She was just an very good fuck, that became oneitis. But I did leave her on a better place than when we first met. 100% | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 11:36 PM |
| 1 | I hear a lot about being dumped but not about dumping someone. Advice neededAmen, thanks brother. I completely agree with you. So many times I thought about texting her to fuck but didn't because of the reasons above. Tbh, the fact that she also went no contact and hasn't reached out ever since is also killing me. Its been 1 month exactly. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 11:34 PM |
| 1 | I hear a lot about being dumped but not about dumping someone. Advice neededCheers man! | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 11:31 PM |
| 1 | How to re-plate a girl I just broke up with?I understand and agree. The reason why I was a very good partner under her eyes was because of 1y and 3m of consistency and countless orgasms. I have other plates but nothing compares to the chemistry we had. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 10:54 AM |
| 1 | How to re-plate a girl I just broke up with?Thats the problem with oneitis man, it doesn't just go away. I tried to snap out of it but I'm unable to do so at this point. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 10:42 AM |
| 2 | How to re-plate a girl I just broke up with?No, that was part of the problem - because of my oneitis, I started feeling paranoid on the idea of her fucking other dudes. Even me having options and other plates. Should I wait until she reaches out? I feel like she is a proud woman and will not do it. How long did it take for her? | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 10:41 AM |
| 5 | Why could I only spin one HB8 girl after 1.5 years of repill?I see a total difference. I was able to get many good looking girls on a date and also on my couch. But, got rejected many times right before we were about to fuck or even after escalating and kissing. For some reason they have second thoughts and as a result I'm not fucking/plating them. I read the other day that that's a common mistake. To compensate for our beta mentality and behavior we tend to end up on the other side of the spectrum. Too much pretending to be alpha, cocky, confident. Girls… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 07:00 PM |
| 12 | Why could I only spin one HB8 girl after 1.5 years of repill?I agree, we became a non exclusive couple. Or FWB, however you wanna call it | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 06:33 PM |
| 6 | Why could I only spin one HB8 girl after 1.5 years of repill?Since I was plating a HB8, my confidence went up. So I would mostly approach HB8s+. Did quite some during the whole time. That's actually an interesting point what you said because I've been getting a lot of feedback that I'm a player (or have become one) with my attitude, so girls reject me. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 06:32 PM |
| 1 | I broke up with my +1 year oneitis plate. Help to move onWhy would I do that | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 08:11 AM |
| 2 | I did a little test with a plate I'm vetting. Did she pass? Need your opinionI completely agree - she doesn't know tho. How would you have done it differently? | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Plate never initiates plans - submissive/expected or not as interested ?This girl is really into you since she has accepted all your invitations to bang. 5 weeks is still in training period so you can still set how you want the relationship to be. A way to get her to reach out to you is to make her crave for your dick. Cut the contact and wait for her to initiate. However, part of being submissive is also allowing the guy to take the lead. She will probably say it in covert ways she wants to bang but it's up to you to make up plans. They will rarely do it. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 12:34 AM |
| -3 | Reapond to date invite from plateDifferent plate | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 08:25 AM |
| 2 | First date right before 3 weeks vacationI'm definitely going on my trip brother. Even if I had time to meet, it seems desperate to see a girl the next day after she "denied" sex. My question was how can I maximize my chances of fucking her, and plating her after given the circumstances I mentioned above. Cheers | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 10:23 PM |
| 2 | First date right before 3 weeks vacationI already have other plans until my trip.. I'm genuinely busy. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Girl leaving the country. Logistic help!Should I explain the reason why I'm setting something up so soon (because we might not see each other again)? | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Girl leaving the country, logistics help!Im asking about the approach: A) Should I invite her on a random Tuesday without explaining that I'm leaving and we might not see each other again? B) Should I ask her when she is leaving first? "Hey, when are you leaving again?" "End of month" "so, you should come over before I travel then" | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Girl leaving the country, logistics help!Very helpful | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 12:01 PM |
| 0 | Organic approach. Worked! How to proceed?Thanks brother - you are the man. Maybe I should get a Yorkipoo to attract her. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 12:01 AM |
| 4 | Did plate try to dread game me?Good perspective. Cheers man! | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Summary of 1 year of a plate that became oneitis. Please helpAmen | /r/askTRP | 14/03/21 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Summary of 1 year of a plate that became oneitis. Please helpAgree. Cheers! | /r/askTRP | 14/03/21 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Summary of 1 year of a plate that became oneitis. Please helpAgree. Thanks man! | /r/askTRP | 14/03/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Girl I thought wanted LTR doesn't want to be exclusiveHow can I recover from here? | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Girl I thought wanted LTR doesn't want to be exclusiveAgree | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 01:47 PM |
| 0 | Girl I thought wanted LTR doesn't want to be exclusiveI do have my heart in it. In this case, what should I do? | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 01:47 PM |
| -2 | Girl I thought wanted LTR doesn't want to be exclusiveOnly text for logistics. What should I have done? Hang out immediately after 12 days together? | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 11:12 AM |
| 2 | Girl I thought wanted LTR doesn't want to be exclusiveIf she doesn't want you to be her boyfriend, means she thinks she can do better. That's how I felt. I think this whole "you put me down, make me feel insecure" is bs | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Girl I thought wanted LTR doesn't want to be exclusiveThanks. What steps should I take to stop behaving like a couple? | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Girl I thought wanted LTR doesn't want to be exclusiveTheres no problem. We have great sex. The problem is now that I caught oneitis and developed feelings. I'm not sure that I can keep going the same way and overcome. For that I need plates, and the pandemic doesn't help. I agree with that, the only thing that changed from before and now is that I caught feelings and she knows that. Nothing to do with money, we both make 100k+ True If I take some time off now wouldn't I seem butthurt? I have the feeling that she felt I was a bit sad after our conv… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Just came back from trip with plateSince I've had this one constantly for 1 year I've had plates coming and going on the side. Atm I have 1 more which I fuck but it doesn't compare to her, therefore my inclination to this wanna-be-upgraded plate. She fell in love with me and I also have feelings for her. But been keeping my frame for the past 1 year. If you feel things got "boring" or "predictable" Quite the opposite. The trip was very good and she got the spend quality time with me, so she wanted to extend it. I pushed back. nee… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Just came back from trip with plateThanks for the answer. Option A seems desperate but I would never do that anyways - I know how to text. I've been repilled for the past 1.5 years but still my beta mind comes out once in a while. moving fast It's not fast because I've been spinning her for the past 1 year exactly. Kept this plate and others but gotta admit that I developed oneitis for this one. Corona didnt help on that. I think I'm really afraid that after she showed her feeling to me during the trip and I didn't reciprocate th… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Just came back from trip with plateThanks man. I do feel like meeting up with her to talk about the crazy shit we did during the trip. But I'm also fine with having someone else over, so it's not about her but myself feeling needy. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | After rejecting her multiple times, when should I set up date?Should I do some beta move like "I want to see you, what are you up to today?" to compensate a bit? | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 07:19 AM |
| 1 | After rejecting her multiple times, when should I set up date?commit to having the date What do you mean with that? | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 01:36 AM |
| 1 | After rejecting her multiple times, when should I set up date?It's not one of those, but I think a couple days is safe. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 01:36 AM |
| 1 | After rejecting her multiple times, when should I set up date?Why do you assume that? | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 01:35 AM |
| 1 | After rejecting her multiple times, when should I set up date?Thanks for this reply. What do you mean with "good, gracious woman is out of the picture"? | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Should I travel with a plate that I might upgrade?I agree with you and that's my biggest concern. She is from there so she will want to plan it and take me to places, food, etc. From my experience with her she likes to be in that position but I usually don't let her take the lead. Any practical tips on how to handle that? | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Should I travel with a plate that I might upgrade?planning what you are doing during your stay Can you elaborate on that? | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Should I travel with a plate that I might upgrade?The exercise made me realize that she isn't girlfriend material. If I add your answer with the one from kclanton80, the conclusion I get is that I should go if I feel like it. While there I hold my frame, have fun and keep things light. Don't upgrade her afterwards if I don't want to. No expectations. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Should I travel with a plate that I might upgrade?You don't have to change the nature of the relationship after that if you dont want True in that. Thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Should I travel with a plate that I might upgrade?I haven't spent more than 24h with her, so that could be true. Why would she risk ruining her valuable time back home with her family by bringing a guy she wants to test, tho? I agree and disagree with you, she used to be a plate and she is not anynore, agreed. However, we see each other every 2 weeks, text is only for logistics and there are no expectations (she even told me she learned that from me). So, I'm not sure where we stand right now. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Should I travel with a plate that I might upgrade?This is a hard exercise because I'm thinking about her and not a generic girl. So I'm biased towards her flaws. But here it goes: She needs to have a big ass, small waist ✅ Be able to cook and clean ❌ (she's vegetarian) Be a follower not a leader ✅ Not have cheated in the past ❌ (she cheated and broke up right after) Perform everything sexually in bed ✅ Have stable relationship with her family ✅ Not use drugs ❌ Have a career ✅ Not be in the same career as me ❌ (afraid she will outshine me) Be sm… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Should I travel with a plate that I might upgrade?How can it go bad? | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Should I travel with a plate that I might upgrade?True.. because I've been thinking about her more often than before since she got into my group of friends and essentially inside my mind. However when I'm with her my frame is solid, that's why I was able to spin it for 1 year now even tough she has been covertly asking me to upgrade her. I'm definitely in the mood for a trip since all of my friends are not in town. Also, it's an exotic country that I always wanted to go. But I'm still not sure. How can the trip go really bad? | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Should I travel with a plate that I might upgrade?Thanks for this reply btw. Your question made me think a lot and I guess you are right. The thing is that she got closer to my group of friends and has been making plans with them so I'm feeling a bit pressured (I fucked up, I admit). She has been covertly wanting me to upgrade her (inviting me to meet her family, asking 'what are we?', etc) but I'm not entirely sure if she is worthy of an upgrade. What makes a girl worthy of one? | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Plate became friends with my friendsTrue that man. I realize it was a mistake. I only have 1 extra plate atm | /r/askTRP | 05/12/20 09:10 AM |
| 1 | How to plate a girl without coming off as needy?The attraction builds up when you are not together. The contrast between being warm in person and cold in text drive them insane. Wait a couple of days without any contact. When you do reach out to her, don't go "5pm tomorrow, come suck my cock". Being funny, cocky, curious, etc still applies - she isn't a plate yet. Never ask, always tell her to join your plans. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 08:25 AM |
| 0 | How to plate a girl without coming off as needy?You should hit her up. But only for logistics. Never say "I had a great time". Never give full disclosure, this is simp talk. She will know this while you are fucking her, it doesn't need to be spoken. I usually message the plate 1 day before. They might say they already have plans. If the plate wants to see you, they will give an alternative date. If no alternative then do not reply. That's the only way you will can leave as high value man. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 12:04 AM |
| 2 | How to convince girl to come visit youOk, let's change the mindset. How do I throw the idea of her coming to visit? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 04:45 PM |
| 1 | How to convince girl to come visit youShe lives in another country (4h train ride) | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 02:36 PM |
| 7 | How to keep texting to logistics only?You set the pace. Once a girl I was seeing texted some meme and I replied with: "how cute, you think we are friends". She understood right away and with time she learned. Trust me... when you lead they follow. The contrast between being fun and warm while in person and cold while being apart drives them crazy. Another benefit of that is that when you limit the amount of texts, you reduce the margin for error. Text for logistics only. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Girl leaves me at "I will let you know"Yesterday (Wednesday) setting up a date for today (thursday) | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Girl leaves me at "I will let you know"I would agree with you if our interactions were in a short period of time. But we she has been reacting to my stories and liking my posts on instagram since April. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 11:04 PM |
| 1 | What’s the most beta shit you’ve ever done/said to a girl?On my teenage years, I used to draw the portraits of every girl I liked and give them as a gift. Guess what? Never kissed or fucked one of them. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 08:10 AM |
| 24 | Can't get rid of blue pill fantasiesEvery time I have these thoughts the phrase "she was never yours, it was only your turn" comes up to my mind and it helps me a lot. Do whatever makes you happy tho, redpill never says to not have a relationship. If that's what you want, go for it. Learning how to remain alpha in a LTR is the tricky part. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Anybody here live in a country where prostitution is legal?Prostitution is legal in Amsterdam and I have access within a block from my house. It hasn't changed a thing for me. Nothing compares to raw, chemical desire. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 09:24 AM |
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