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I think this link means that, at least in the Third Circuit (will be the same in every other circuit if it's so clearcut) exculpatory evidence can be used, always. It cannot be excluded. You might get prosecuted for something much less serious like illegal recording, but I'd take that in a heartbeat. Just make recordings secretly, then use them in court. http://blogs.findlaw.com/third_circuit/2013/01/does-it-matter-if-exculpatory-evidence-is-inadmissible.html
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 08:21 PM
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I agree. Can't rely on a fair shake in court on these things. Fight in a way that doesn't assume that.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 08:18 PM
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I have a little sympathy for her. Women do have a clock. She wanted to understand that things were moving forward. Maybe he wasn't communicating enough for her to believe it would actually happen. She wanted commitment, and given her biology, it's a reasonable thing for her to want. But then why would she make the point now about dishonesty? He did nothing unfair or wrong to her.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 01:58 AM
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They were also interested to get any clues that could give them a shot at him.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 01:55 AM
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Sign up to work on a freighter. That'll get you from port to port. Teach English for spending money. In a year you'll thank us from the bottom of your heart. It's our pleasure.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 02:35 AM
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Girls would rather be the guys they think about, which are top 20% guys. Remember, girls don't even notice guys that are not in their fuckzone. But top 20% girls might not choose to leave being girls. They have it pretty good. Lower 80% girls have it much worse, so being a top 20% guy looks great to them.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 10:45 PM
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Females are a team to raise the children. But they naturally compete for the desirable cock. They're all competing for the same cock, because they tend to value the same things, and because of social proof when they see other women competing for that guy. What do you think social proof is all about anyway? Women are fundamentally all about the children. Best cock to create the best offspring, then teamwork as required to raise them successfully. Not friendship as men would call friendship (excep…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 10:33 PM
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Team Pussy does not exist. When women all react the same to you, it's not because they are a team, but because they are similar in how they react to men, so whatever you are like, they have similar reactions to that. Want a different reaction, just present a different self. Of course they want you to think it's a "team". That's a method of intimidation they use esp. on guys in the friendzone. Mostly I think guys imagine it. I used to imagine it when I was intimidated and didn't know what to do w…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 10:31 PM
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You remember maybe when you were five or six, probably. The brainwashing is happening at age 3 or so. You would have resisted the dress at 5 because you had a proper non-fucked-up year as a 3 year old.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 04:57 AM
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Only the kids with vaginas. The kids with dicks are raised to be ... just yuck.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 04:54 AM
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That's when you were much older and in command of your sexual identity. You were doing it as a joke. For a 3 year old, they mirror things and repeat things and are taking cues from their parents as to their identity. Today I saw a father say "that's cool" about something trivial, and his little kid copied saying "that's cool" about five or six times, trying it on for size, making it his own, capturing that input from his father. It's a terrible thing to put a boy in a dress at THAT age. Which is…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 04:52 AM
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If you have kids and therefore end up spending time at playgroups, pre-K and the like, you'll see the girls gravitate to the girl toys and the boys to the boy toys, and the teachers are strictly neutral about it.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 04:49 AM
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Mom and Dad certainly made a mistake. But it's the social brainwashing and maybe even pressure that gets the parents to make the mistake.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 04:48 AM
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The growing Muslim population in England won't be subjected to this shit. Hence they will come to dominate and get a fair number of the white girls.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 04:47 AM
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Especially if you don't have evidence to provide. There are rape kits. For some reason these chicks wait until a rape kit would provide no information even if she had been raped, then go to the cops and say it really really happened belieeeeeve me.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 04:22 AM
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I think she wants to her lies, that she knows are lies, because she knows you are doing it to please her. That smile you see is the smile of victory over you, the smile of power and vaginal dryness. I don't see the reason to lie. Actually I don't spend much time on "what do women want" because it's not my problem. My job is to do what I want, with integrity. I disagree almost completely with OP.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 04:19 AM
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Deep. In those times I've been very ruthless, I've adopted female tactics consciously. But I only did it for a short time because wanton destruction isn't my thing.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 04:15 AM
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Don't make them feel special very often. It's better not to lie at all, because if she thinks you are compromising your integrity to please her, that dries up her vagina. It's a low status submissive thing to do. My rule is very simple. Say whatever comes into my mind. Maybe pause a second to check, but either right then or soon, say it. A compliment "you're so beautiful" or even a more specific one is rarely what pops into my head. But sometimes it is.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 04:13 AM
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She's just a girlfriend? Why are you paying for her? You're not married, there are no kids in the picture, why are you providing her with a home?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 04:07 AM
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But probably a lot of those who make it didn't start college as premed either. I knew a physics major that went to med school. They take all majors, although you used to have had to pass organic chemistry with a reasonable grade -- which puts it out of reach of most people.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 04:05 AM
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They probably have an oversupply of males so they are marketing to females, and if some actual real men are disgusted, they don't care too much.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 04:00 AM
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It's "cool" enough to be shown as a "slice of life" in the comics. It's reality for a lot of people. Not us, fortunately.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 03:59 AM
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Props to the person who recorded it. At the link it says he's filing charges with the campus cops but not the real police, so maybe she gets discipline from the school.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/03/16 04:55 AM
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I think this is different from OP, although it's true in our society. Consider a Muslim society where some acts by women are punished very harshly, even things a man could do. What you say is culture dependent, and we are in a matriarchal society, so they get advantages here and there. But OP makes a different point. Women actually see everyone as objects. There is not a deep thought in their heads, it's all practical. When the feminists used to say "men objectify women" (and men scrambled not t…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 01:16 PM
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While there's some obvious truth in what you say, you don't get the more profound and hidden truth in OP.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 01:12 PM
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Women see you as an object. In fact they see everyone else as an object. They see other women as objects. That's a part of the very practical female psychology. They may even see their own children objects -- not sure about that, because if they care about nobody else in the world they care about their children. They may also see themselves as objects.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 01:10 PM
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If a man hates getting fucked over, that is hate.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 01:06 PM
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And that her vagina is attracted to you.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 04:52 AM
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This advice might be better than mine, for a person who could pull it off. I could probably not pull it off, and it would bother me a great deal to live my life that way. Plus I have the luxury of substantial talent in some technical areas, so I haven't had to sell my soul. Yet. I'd argue that the "selling your soul" in /u/Thotwrecker 's post involves perpetuating society's unfair treatment of non-minority men applying for jobs at his company. I'll never have enormous wealth, just enough. To mak…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 02:55 AM
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You have a clear case of retaliation here. Document it and use it, a little bit, before it goes away. It's all you've got. If she's going to sit you separate and do all that other stuff allegedly because of some other stuff long ago, but actually right after you asked her a perfectly acceptable academic question, then a reasonable person (cops, the public, authorities in general including school admins who want to keep their jobs) will admit it looks like she's retaliating. She's not allowed to …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 02:06 AM
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If you have babies with her, those tits probably won't work too well for nursing. And that is the purpose of breasts and tits after all. She's gone and poisoned part of her plumbing. It's up to you if you get married or not. But I am a married man with kids, and the reason I married was to have the kids (my kids of course -- used to be that would be automatically assumed.) I cannot see another good reason for a man to marry. And I would not marry a woman who has done something to her body that i…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 12:39 AM
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According to your link (and my prior understanding) in the USA at least, "rape by deception" just refers to impersonating someone's lover. According to some other info I saw, in Alabama a man cannot lie to obtain consent (else the consent is invalid) although a woman can. In every other state anyone can lie to obtain consent, except in some states you can't lie about being someone's regular lover when you're not. I don't think this applies to the current story though.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 05:51 AM
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Have fun. Seriously, just that. Make her do most of the talking. Remember, girls are supposed to fall in love. Guys are supposed to cause it to happen, using attraction techniques such as we discuss here. Keep calm. She needs you to be in charge.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 03:57 AM
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Thanks for the warning. I didn't know things were that bad. Now I know. I don't use pictures at all. Mainly it's because I'm lazy, and I'm old and from before the time posting pix was common, so habit. I don't think I've missed anything because of it, but then I've never used Tinder or anything like that.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 03:51 AM
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Pursue your interests. The whole internet is out there to teach you about anything you want. I honestly think normal sexual relations might be possible, and it's a great thing to have, but there are many other easier goals given your current condition. I'm praying that the condition improves. You've got the spirit. If you could have a bit less pain, you will do well.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 03:47 AM
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PhD to become a quant. Master's in math or physics (maybe also chemistry) means you failed your general exams.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 03:25 AM
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There's a math course that's too hard for any of the female freshmen but not for some of the male freshmen. This is because the best math students are always male, and there has only been one significant female mathematician (Emmy Noether), ever. Props to her by the way. She was a no-politics person who wouldn't have complained but would have certainly been in Math 55a and done very well. This complaining girl just can't stand the idea that those boys are just better than any of the girls, and w…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 03:23 AM
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You'll have a lot of fun now. Glad you have found us. Here's one piece of advice I like to give. Girls are not your mother. Yes of course it's obvious. But our initial and strongest female interaction is with our mothers. And our mothers love us like they love nobody else in the world. In fact the love is much stronger than their love for their husbands. But you only get one mother. Every other girl is auditioning to be your wife, or that sort of relationship. And that's a totally different rela…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 02:03 AM
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Well done. Except the part about throwing out the guy who groped the gropers, that seems unfair and probably they really were asking for it. But very happy for the final outcome. They and others may learn some respect from this. If not, they can receive more such lessons.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 01:55 AM
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CS has a much (much much ...) lighter demand than a math major, which at Harvard would demand serious chops in doing proofs. And props to Harvard for maintaining standards.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 01:44 AM
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"This year, there were no female students in Math 55a, the most intense freshman math class, ..." Then it's not Harvard's problem but that of the students. It's a fall semester course, so she's talking about kids who have just walked onto the Harvard campus. Any cultural issues at Harvard would be irrelevant. But they would probably have enough time to be counseled by people who can assess their level and tell them they would not survive Math 55a in one piece. She mentions MIT's feminism stuff, …
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 01:33 AM
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They complain about any clueful behavior they see from men. They want men to be beta or gamma, and they'll shame to get that. Otherwise they raise a stink -- or not because they're insanely attracted. :)
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 09:33 AM
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Having been mathematically trained by mathematicians, really being a mathematician myself, I know symbolic logic and its application to philosophy.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 09:20 AM
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He's been trying to bang this girl for five years. Not that he would have succeeded even if you hadn't showed up ... If he can calm down a minute, he might learn a valuable lesson from this. Or not. Whatever.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 08:04 AM
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Well maybe it will be more fun to have more than one or two encounters with this chick. You say too many times "she wants". Remember it's not about what she wants. When the girl doesn't get what she wants, her respect normally goes up. Now she has to work to get him! OP showed self control, in a very non-beta way. He was in control, and he didn't do the expected. I bet her pussy will be flowing like Niagara Falls on the next date for this guy.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 06:33 PM
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Indeed it's right on the money with sexual strategy. Some participants have the idea TRP is primarily about lifting and confidence. That's not what the official sub description has ever said. Lifting and confidence can be a part of sexual strategy, but they've become a cult within the sub and now they think they own it.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 06:30 PM
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So the girls are being clinical, not much "girl power" there. What are the guys doing, making fun of the picture? Doesn't sound like supplication anyway.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 06:04 PM
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Which third world countries do you have in mind? And certainly not in Islamic countries, which whatever you think of that culture, is all about male-led households.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 06:02 PM
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Fawning comments from men are associated with the declining birthrate. The disappearance of those comments means they might actually might make some progress, complete the mating process and stop being stuck in eternal adolescence. And I predict an increase in conventional families and baby production. Much to the chagrin of the Frankfurt School operatives who have been working against it for 50 years or more. This is great news.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 05:57 PM
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I am a parent, I know lots of parents, and none of us toss our kids or do any of the dangerous looking stuff. It's absolutely unnecessary. Just hold the child comfortably or throw a ball toward his hand or something like that. To hold a baby, the "football hold" is standard. A baby or slightly older child can be grabbed around the ribcage, under the armpits, or pretty much any other reasonable way. If it hurts they'll tell you. Don't worry. Just hold securely, and nothing bad can happen.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 10:38 PM
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The diffferences between the two legal systems amount to almost all the protections you have in the real system, because in the collegiate "system" you have almost none. Look up "dear colleague letter" which is the way that the Dept. of Ed. issues their guidance to educators.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 04:00 AM
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Do you know any of these white guys who have resorted to violence for that reason or even under those circumstances? I don't, but maybe I don't get around much.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 03:10 AM
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I'm not aware of a single case of that happening to anyone I knew (I'm white). No white girls doing it, no white guys seeing their exes go that way. Whatever.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 03:09 AM
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Cops there, in China at least, don't even have guns. No way they're going up against the gangs. Modern Asian immigrant usually "is" a nerd, not because he's Asian, but because that's who attends PhD programs in STEM areas and then gets a job on an H1B visa afterward. Of course "tiger parent" syndrome is very strong when they have kids here. The parents absolutely killed it when they were in school, to be able to get to the USA that way at all.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 03:06 AM
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Every country is "racist" in favor of its own majority, and every race is "racist" favoring itself. If Asian girls aren't favoring Asian guys here, it's probably because principle (1) is overcoming principle (2). So don't get butthurt. White guys in other cultures or countries would be having the same issues, which they may tend to overcome because overall they're pretty desirable and/or earn a paycheck where the exchange rate is high vs. local currency. And white girls don't get near the play i…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 02:49 AM
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Most of the false rape claims I am reading about now come from college campuses. Obama's Dept. of Education has required colleges to handle rape claims administratively and not step out of the way and turn the case over to the police and our regular justice system that's described in this post. From everything I read, under the Obama collegiate adjudication system (I cannot call it "justice" in any sense) the standard is somewhere between preponderance of evidence (the civil standard) and guilty…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 10:26 PM
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So you're in Romania and under Romanian law, but you have to pay to find out what the law is? Can you pay a small sum and find out all the laws at once, or do you have to pay per law (and then having to know which law to pay to find out about!)?
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 10:17 PM
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Lemme try. I will only analyze whether they raped or murdered Molly, because we don't know the elements of whatever other crimes may have been involved. Abe: raped her by force against her will, probably guilty also of holding her as a hostage whatever crimes that entails. And guilty of murder. Bob: did not rape her, not even there. Not guilty involving the murder. Chris: did not rape her, didn't touch her. Not guilty involving the murder. Dan: raped her because he knew she was unconscious. Cons…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 08:36 PM
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Yeah it's perfect. I'm sympathetic to guys who discover their "girl" has a dick while they're juiced up and about penetrate "her". Sometimes it makes men murderously angry, and some trans write these deceptive articles about how straights are violent to trans people. Yeah, if they deceive us that way, what do they expect? It's good that a court if finally calling THEM out.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 05:31 PM
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Hey shorty I used to be 2 inches taller than you. Not so much any more as I get older. Great post. Girls that have the looks, know the limit of looks. They also know that looks fade, but strengths of men (especially those that are not literally strength and muscle) don't fade. They have the looks side covered so they don't need you to add it to the relationship, and they aren't looking to compete for the title of best-looking. Also, women aren't as into looks as men are, they are more into power…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 05:26 PM
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Isn't there a problem that this pill has serious potential and fairly likely side effects on the woman? It's much worse than Viagra or similar, which almost never have side effects in men. If I were a woman I don't think I would take this pink pill because of the side effects.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 07:16 PM
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It's just such common sense, it's hard for me to imagine anyone objecting to the idea of reserving my life and resources for my own biological offspring. 25 years ago when I was figuring this stuff out for myself, there weren't websites to give me the idea, but also I don't think anyone would have objected to my saying the idea. I only would have been quiet in front of others who could not have their own kids. And I thought political correctness was strong then! Now PC has gone nuts.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 07:14 PM
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As a parent who is within a few years of the college situation you describe, what you're saying makes sense. Although there's a part of me that still wants to procreate some more. So get started, it sounds like you haven't started your own yet!
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 07:11 PM
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Seven year itch could be coming up within 3 years. Hope it doesn't. Your child, or first child, is still at the vulnerable age where she sees you as important to protect the family. Usually this hits when the youngest child is 2 or 3 years old.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 03:57 AM
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Have you had a long marriage? The stuff you mention worked well for about the first 5 years of mine. Now, 20 years in, she's mother to our kids, and we tolerate each other and live very practically.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 02:56 AM
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Actually I do know a little about how the world works. I am a wealthy professional in my 50's who has kicked some shit around in my day. For example, I was able to get a tenured principal of the elementary school my kids attended fired, because he was showing bad judgment by doing not-terrible but generally bad stuff to my younger kid. Have you ever heard of that (a parent getting a tenured school admin fired for less than being caught in the act of something horrible) happening before, ever? Ev…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 02:38 AM
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The media would not be involved unless she get indicted (or an information is filed against her by the DA.) Nor would the courts for that matter.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 02:33 AM
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That's not consistent with the idea that the girl he was almost fucking was trying to make up a cover story to the roommate. All he has to do is destroy the story plausibly, she doesn't deny it while he's there, then he leaves and that's probably enough. He's blown up her reputation and protected his own. In my experience, women trust men over other women. Of course, they know how untrustworthy women are! So the girl's later complaining would be unlikely to convince the roommate -- she would rem…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 08:50 PM
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I don't remember that, I don't know that. I've heard a ton of people say it here, but then they never even try and see if the legal system could work on their behalf. I don't know that it would work, but it's reasonable to try.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 08:41 PM
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That's pretty cryptic. Got anything substantive to contribute?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 08:38 PM
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I do hope you didn't comply with her request about the n-count. In the symmetrical situation, she would probably blab to her girlfriends if she felt like it or saw an advantage in it.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 08:35 PM
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No, the problem is that men routinely don't defend themselves in this situation. He hasn't even made a rape complaint to the police, so how can he know it would not be taken seriously?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 08:33 PM
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Or "stand your ground" and don't leave until the roommate knows who instigated this tryst she is interrupting. I know it's very counter-intuitive, because even "RP" guys have a gallant streak. This must be overcome. Always defend yourself first among women. It's all they understand (they routinely throw each other under the bus too),. and they're used to running over guys who don't.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 08:32 PM
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Why not just let the roommate know you're about to fuck her, and it's obviously consensual? Destroy the girl's excuses before you leave. We men really have to get out of all the layers of white knighthood. Most guys would never consider that. Without thinking about it, I wouldn't either, because it's damaging to the girl. But being willing to inflict damage like that in self defense is how one survives among women -- whether one is a woman or a man or even her husband.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 04:52 PM
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So it's not that just men are disposable. Women are at least as disposable as men. We just don't see it up close if we aren't looking for it. Women are untrustworthy, to you and to other women too. Simple. Deal with it. If possible, even use it to your advantage.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 04:49 PM
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I think OP should get back his reputation by claiming victim status for himself. He was inebriated when she lured him up to her room. Turn the law against her. If men would really really lose the "white knight" reflex and be willing to throw women under the bus, esp. in a case like this when they deserve it, we'd get more respect from the legal system and from women generally.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 04:19 PM
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I think you could consider filing rape charges against this bitch. Yes we understand what she did by throwing you under the bus, and as guys we've learned to deal with it calmly, but that doesn't excuse it. And while we don't mind the girl "taking advantage" of your semi-drunken state, it provides the excuse you need to get back at her. And in fact, you didn't assault her, but she arguably tried to rape you or at least assaulted you, according to legal definitions. Just a thought. It would be a …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 04:16 PM
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You say, wait until the hamster's roommate is back before going over. I don't think he said that. He said that in the actual situation when the roommate showed up, he should have covered for the girl on the bed and made it look super platonic. The roommate felt harmless to him, but to the girl she was a big threat and put her in an impossible situation. So he should have beta'ed it up a bit -- but only after the roommate was back so the fun was over anyway -- to save the girl from the roommate.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 04:15 PM
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So when the court system is inclined to give her primary custody of your child and your money, and she wants to hurt you, what's the best way to "man up"? Be a little specific here.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 05:26 AM
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He obviously loves his daughter. Business affair? Well yes one does want to keep track of the money when she's trying to screw it out of you.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 05:16 AM
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Heh we did the same thing except I went newer -- needed a very reliable car. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 05:12 AM
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Sikhs are generally white and they wear turbans. Hm ...
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 05:09 AM
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I got a 4 door sedan with 425 horsepower, firm suspension and form fitting seats. And plenty of room for kids in the backseat and stuff in the trunk. That was my compromise with the reality of having kids. There are opportunities to keep fun in your life if you look for them and don't just do like all other married men.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 05:08 AM
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32 years and he's your grandfather? They had one of your parents right at the beginning of that (if not earlier!) and your parents had you very young, and you must be at least 14 to be posting here like this.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 11:14 PM
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I don't think alimony works that way. As for child support, it's supposed to be a separate deal if everyone is playing fair. Granted they don't always. Hire the most expensive lawyer you can find and fight even dirtier if it comes to that.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 11:13 PM
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Now women mostly work too. So that makes it a better deal for the guy. Life may not be better, but that's because we're poorer overall, and his single life would be worse than for someone 30 years ago too.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 11:10 PM
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Married 20 years here. That's about right. Women are more aggressive now and act out more on their narcissism, because I guess that's the culture. But a guy can still get a deal like that. It's the deal that has created western civilization.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 11:09 PM
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Tact? On occasion, not often. When talking to women, less tactful is usually best. And maybe I don't even push it far enough. Subtlety? Yes if you can put the shiv in smoothly, it's that much more seductive as long as the girl is bright enough to notice (it'll take cleverness for you to put the words together, and women like that kind of dominance if you have it.)
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 09:41 PM
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I used to wear AE's and don't recall many compliments on my shoes. But then I am hopeless generally when it comes to dressing. AE's are very comfortable, because they have cork in them and no steel shank. Better quality than Cole Haan.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 09:29 PM
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Yes. American men are desirable overseas. American women probably end up paying for it, not desirable.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 08:09 PM
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I thought the protruding belly, which I have too, is due to the shape of the ribcage rather than age. When I lifted, my ribcage expanded to a barrel shape too at the same time my chest increased, so I could never have the "tight abs" look either. Pro athletes don't look muscular, just large, if they wear modest clothing. Suits look OK on them but not great in my opinion, because there's too much mass there -- too blocky, even the guys that are 6 foot 6 inches tall. That's how a guy like an offen…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 07:47 PM
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It's facilitated by Obama's Department of Education. We get a new president in about a year. Let's hope it's a Republican.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 01:40 PM
3

He does have a case, because the college has a free speech policy that he probably did not violate. That's a contractual obligation of the college. And due to the punitive nature of the college's reaction (can't get credits elsewhere, oh really?) I'd go after them for civil punitive damages. Try to shut the place down.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 01:39 PM
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He should start with a civil filing. Drag those mofo's into court. Maybe then he'd get some respect in the school's administrative process, or just win $$ in court.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 01:36 PM
2

Well they didn't have to prevent him from making progress toward his degree elsewhere. That was just abusive and shouldn't be allowed. And as you say it, probably there is a legal difference between dissing black women (double protected class) and dissing white men (no protected class status at all as we well know.) Title IX may be applied differently because of it (any civil rights lawyers know about this?) The expansion of Title IX by Obama's Department of Education is ridiculous and is someth…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 01:34 PM
5

Certainly she could say "white men aren't hot" without any risk at all.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 01:27 PM
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Indeed, he should simply go to the competition. This is simply abusive.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 01:26 PM
5

A black girl is certainly entitled to be offended by this. I would never tell someone they have no right to be offended. At the same time it's obviously something the university should ignore, rather than stepping into like this.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 01:25 PM
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"Shrieking girl" has been identified btw, her name is Jerelyn Luther . When she graduates this spring with her history degree, I doubt many will be interested in giving her a job. Yale's liberal president gave those misbehaving students too much, but far from everything they asked for, mostly vague promises for the future that hopefully will be forgotten in a couple years.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 01:23 PM
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YikYak is not within the confines of the college, so one can argue about whether his comment falls under the college speech code. Anyway the college has a free speech policy, and this "offense", which is nothing more than saying he personally is not sexually attracted to black women, does not appear to me to violate that contractual obligation the college has taken on. He should sue them for about $100 million, seriously try to shut that place down.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 01:20 PM
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Their reaction is literally insane. It would make sense for him to sue the college for millions of dollars, really try to shut the place down. While also transferring to another college. I don't know what the exact terms of the "suspension" were but CC can certainly not forbid him from going to the competition i.e. other colleges! I have boys coming up to college age. I think they would be good "catches" for most colleges. Guess what's one place that won't see any applications from them!
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 01:15 PM
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Beats having a kid you don't want, with a girl you're not going to be with. Don't take this as a reason not to have kids, or we'll be importing all our next generation from God knows where.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 01:08 PM
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I'm a short average guy who's smart enough to be sexy for that, basically. NFL was never a consideration for me, but all the best to those guys. I don't see them as competitors in any sense.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 03:51 AM
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Even though I am a guy, I have enough understanding of game to answer this. She doesn't want stuff you worked for. She doesn't value your effort but your effortless ability, your talent, your genetic endowment. Hard work is, in a sense, cheating. It's that way in lots of business situations too, even athletics. Think of all the athletes who make it look so easy -- because they are talented and also worked 20 years to develop that "easy" skill. Well the work doesn't get the chick wet, but the ski…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 03:43 AM
1

So with these bad men you were settling for because of the sex etc. -- who broke up the relationship? Does Fat Husband Material also have to pass the 2-part initial screen, at the same levels you were applying earlier when looking for Mr. Right or Good Looking Assholes?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 03:37 AM
2

So what are the 10 basic questions? If it's not obvious, what are good and bad answers?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 03:34 AM
2

In the old days the pregnancy would have meant you were married, you would live together and probably have more kids together, and put up with each other's imperfections just like every married couple has to do. Now because of her piggishness you manage to have 50/50 custody, which was the best you could possibly do. But it's certainly worse for the daughter and leaves both your lives permanently complicated. Women's lib FTW :/
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 03:24 AM
2

I don't think it should be. It shouldn't even be the point of MGTOW, because TOW can include relationships and/or marriage and/or kids if that's what they want. But it certainly shouldn't be the sole message here.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 05:21 PM
1

Only an idiot would think that a red pill can "maintain frame" throughout 50 years of living. Truth. Or even that he'd want to. Red pill is turning into some sort of religion here. "I'm more red pill than you, you're not truly red pill, ..." Who freakin' cares? At its best this place can offer some useful advice and a sounding board to people. To the extent RP is treated as some sort of religion and religious wars erupt, it falls short of that. Life is more complicated than RP, and more interest…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 05:20 PM
1

I think my reading of it is normal. But since you're trying to imply things, what answer were you trying to imply with that question? What were you trying to imply with your reply to me, and your reply to him, since I read them as being so different? Say it plainly, and go ahead and be negative to me if you like, I don't mind.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 05:16 PM
1

Well I don't know what else to do, I really know all the pleasures. I've never felt unconstrained, but along the way I've managed to learn about the world and hit about all the high points it offers. I know something about sex and about as much about women as I want to know ;) I know music and food. I should find and read some more literature that I enjoy; when I get a really good book, it's a peak experience for me. I wish I could have the experience of improvising in a jazz group, but I cannot…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 04:22 PM
2

Arnold Schwarzenegger's son is on lists of sexiest men alive. He's not a bodybuilder. Strong shoulders, that's about it. To me, an overly muscular body looks like the guy is a slave or at least makes his living with his muscles. That's not powerful in our society.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 04:58 AM
1

This post is relevant insofar as this kind of talk is a part of game. Is it? I never used it that way, maybe someone else has made it work that way. Other than that, yes there are bigger powers that control some things but cannot control your soul if you don't let them. Not much sense in raging about it, now if you have a strategy for converting some of their wealth to yourself, that's a different story.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 04:50 AM
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This is a post I could put on my wall, or something. Excellent and full of wisdom.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 03:13 AM
1

The kicker here is that your kids hate you .. have you asked yourself why? This is what you asked a few posts back. So now you say they hate Dad because Mom is a narcissist. Well I agree that's quite possible. I know what you're talking about. But that's not the answer you were implying in your original response to OP, where you were putting the blame on him.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 03:05 AM
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It's caused by a woman turning from lover to mom. If you had a good relationship with your mom, think of how unsexy she was. She wasn't "hot", she wasn't "sexy", she was Mom. And she loved you more than anyone else in the world. She loved you in a way she never loved your Dad, but completely unlike a sexual lover. Well now you're Dad and seeing your wife turn into kids' Mom. Now with my parents, as far as I know things continued very harmonious. But with my wife and many others I've heard of, th…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 02:54 AM
4

You can think what you want about the prediction. But the debt, and massive brown and black immigration into Europe, are facts anyone should know.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 02:48 AM
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NYC has laws that are friendly to the world's movers and shaker. That is strategically advantageous to everyone in the NYC area, not just the top earners, and makes it a great city.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 02:45 AM
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On the other hand, some divorces have already been filed secretly, so the woman already files strategically, then tells you a couple months later. And such a bitch thinks she deserves a single penny? This is a screwed up world.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 02:44 AM
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Yes that's the 14th Amendment, but since discriminating by dollars seems to be OK under it (otherwise the IRS couldn't do any of what they do) I doubt that theory would work. Unfortunate.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 02:43 AM
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NYer also but far less familiar with how the courts work here. Thanks for the explanation -- and ouch.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 02:40 AM
3

Courts don't change laws, at least they're not supposed to. Legislatures do. Living in NY, this is something I didn't know was coming, but it's entirely appropriate. You won't get any explanations from courts until there are some cases under this law, and the trial judges or appellate judges write opinions describing their reasoning.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 02:38 AM
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It's good for everyone. Women will be a bit less inclined to try to marry a guy just for the money, planning a later divorce-rape. Think of all the movie stars and captains of industry who, if they can, live in NYC. These guys won't end up giving ridiculous amounts of money they made by their specialness, to spouses who were along for the ride. Also since NY is no-fault divorce, the high income guy can dump the wife at limited cost. I guess division of assets is unaffected though. So old money r…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 02:35 AM
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In their young years, kids are attached to their mother. If mom turns them against dad, even while dad is out making money for the family, they will probably be against dad. Still you have reported no knowledge as to this situation. And as I've said elsewhere, I'm an old married guy with kids (and still married, whatever you think of that.) Congratulations for discovering that by talking the right way to a woman, a guy can get closer to her than any of her girlfriends. This is not news to all of…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 11:25 PM
1

Good point about splitting the assets most of which I bought.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 11:12 PM
1

Where is "here"? How do you get paid? I always thought egg donors made the $$ but not the sperm donors.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 10:23 PM
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If you're "childfree" then you don't know shit about kids. In their young years, kids are attached to their mother. If mom turns them against dad, even while dad is out making money for the family, they will probably be against dad.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 10:12 PM
1

Back when I was single, "game" wasn't even a topic on the internet. World wide web was still coming into normal use. And I met my wife a few years before that. I didn't have the help of 100 competing game sites, "TRP", etc. I fucking had to figure it out like a scientist. How do girls react to this and that, what must they be thinking or feeling, empathize to the extent that is possible with a creature significantly different, etc. Maybe it's actually harder now, because any moron can read fairl…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 10:09 PM
1

I also wonder how to get those income streams.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 09:54 PM
2

I took marriage very seriously when I got married 20 years ago. And it has been my life since then, some very good (kids) and some very bad (shit after the fifth year). But now I realized that legally, the fatherhood thing is quite separate from marriage. You take a vow, but legally it has no force. Child support obligations if you split would be the same regardless of whether you were married. If I'd been wiser, I might have had that view 20 years ago or more. Not sure if it would have changed …
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 09:53 PM
4

This gives the woman too much credit. When she's into you, she really is into you. Her vagina is telling her urgently to be with you. Then she changes and she isn't, any more. And she'll deny she ever was into you, probably. Whatever is least supportive, if you ever were to ask her about it, that's what she would say. It's not like she's orchestrating some big plan to hook you. She's under the control of her own wiring and hormones. The same wiring and hormones that game exploits.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 09:47 PM
2

I'll admit, I didn't understand the part about all the little ways to make so much money, but maybe that's because I have a more academic and less entrepreneurial personality. You can describe it by any Greek letter you want. The choice would probably depend on whether you understand what I do or not.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 09:44 PM
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Old guy here, married almost 20 years, just once, still married, 2 kids. But oh boy the shit really started after about 5 years, a few years after the second kid was born. Not much changed from my end, but my wife turned into a different woman. I think, with ample support from lots of other guys' testimonies, that it's the "7 year itch". A few years into a marriage, between 5 and 10 years typically, your lovely wife turns into a shrew. I believe it's because you are no longer needed for the kids…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 09:39 PM
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Hard to understand how she felt she had nothing to show for it, if she had kids with you, and presumably you were bringing in enough $$ to put a roof over everyone's heads. I have an alternate or supporting hypothesis: the seven year itch. She turned into the kids' lover (maternal love, not sexual presumably) and stopped being your lover. Been there, done that, still wearing the T shirt.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 09:25 PM
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I'm neither black or white, and I'm not based in the US, but it's odd for me to listen to someone talk about "black privilege". So congratulations, you can say you're unbiased, because actually you don't know what you're talking about. Empty head = open mind. Your "back of the line for HR departments" point has been demonstrated to be false: http://www.uh.edu/~adkugler/Bertrand&Mullainathan.pdf So what else would you do if you knew the black candidate's academic credentials were from affirmative…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 07:28 PM
1

I challenge your assertion that the women are avoiding super hard working fields so as to get a man and have his kids. In academia in the most desirable jobs (e.g. Ivy League tenured professor) one finds a fair percentage of professors from good families who were the nerdy boy. This is because (1) they really love the stuff to have gone into it when they had other options, but more importantly (2) their family connection is what gets them that extremely rare tenured job. It's not entirely merito…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 03:23 PM
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Did you tell her that her rate was uncompetitive with accuweather.com's free service?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 01:47 PM
1

Actually the reverse, it's much harder to get into serious trouble if you're under 18. But check your state laws.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 01:35 PM
10

Women treat each other as objects too. It's just how they treat people generally.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 05:10 AM
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This is especially how women fight each other. I think this is a part of women's attraction to men. They hate all the other women, expect to be hated back, and vaguely fear what other women will do to them. So they need to attach to someone less dangerous i.e. a man. Lucky us. Our dicks tell us to attach to dangerous people, women. The good thing is that guys have some useful strategies, basically "game", which calms the women down and plays with their minds. It's how a man keeps the crap in an …
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 05:00 AM
3

What wife wouldn't just love to see the results? A wife who knows she fucked another guy and the kid might be from that guy.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 04:53 AM
1

You can do it quietly. Somehow get a swab from inside each of their mouths, that's enough.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 04:52 AM
1

"If they are, then hit Brazil and sham marriage a local for 80 bucks. Pretty sure you get citizenship and cannot be extradited." Brazil seems a good place to run to. I just saw that two of the guys who escaped from Alcatraz about 50 years ago went to Brazil. There's a picture of them there. It wasn't released until now probably because they are dead of old age, so no worry about the USA coming after them. But our FBI had them on the most wanted list of course, and nobody found them in Brazil.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 04:48 AM
3

"... most single mothers -are- criminals, we just permit their behavior. " Quote of the month, right there.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 04:42 AM
1

He can do this himself, just going thru all areas of expense, taking into account that he brings a marketable skill into this that she is not capable of. It may seem like nothing to him. To her, it's a mysterious thing that's unattainable. Anyway it is a good exercise to break thru all the emotional attachments things have in your life together, and reduce them to dollars and cents. I am sure she does this already.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 04:40 AM
1

Do your friends or spouse stay with you after that? And if you ever cross THEM or really scare them, they could bring the cops out to see your dig too. Sounds like a really bad idea, not for reason of morality, but practicality. Lose your friends and get in trouble with the authorities. In my state, I think even such threats could be crimes.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 04:35 AM
1

And if he has a lawyer, maybe don't tell the lawyer this. Running from CS is a crime, and I don't see how it falls under attorney-client privileged confidentiality.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 04:29 AM
1

Yes. The attitude of the family court is they're looking for someone to support that kid so the state doesn't have to. And if he signed for it, they can hook him as being responsible, and there will be no mercy. Money is at stake after all.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 04:27 AM
1

None of us is sure, we don't even know what state he's in. Best to follow the advice he received to lawyer up, quietly. The lawyer will know if he has a way out of child support.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 04:25 AM
1

Yes you can. How many fathers do that? I didn't, and I know the kids are mine because they have some special characteristics from my own parents. So I trusted and I was right, or lucky. But I didn't get the paternity test. Being married has nothing to do with it, as I understand it. Paternity, and child support, is a totally separate issue. It could matter for alimony, and tax status while married, that's about all.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 04:24 AM
1

He already got the paternity test. Yes he should see a lawyer for strategy now. Maybe he can fight back, maybe not. Agree on the 3rd world issue, which is separate. He could solve both issues by going back to his home country and thus ducking out of child support.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 04:21 AM
2

It's getting to be fun, seeing these women being wrong in the same way over and over. The same temper tantrum, immune to reason, like little children. But that's not a new observation. How are we (or whatever men she finds hot) supposed to stop being pigs? By promising commitment as a result of sex, because the woman wants it? If one is a pig for not giving a woman what she wants, a pig is a synonym for a guy who gets some.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 04:02 AM
1

And still about to score. Perfection is not required, just balls mainly. You show balls, you sense that you're violating her verbal space a bit and you do it, the woman gets wet.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 03:31 AM
2

They're awful at it because they don't have the ability. If they are sexually attracted at all, they lose whatever little verbal ability they may have had. There's a common perception that women have "social skills". When it comes to matters sexual, this is completely untrue. For example, if a woman learns that you are fucking another woman too, she will become completely incoherent. If she meets this other woman, she cannot talk to her but she might try to kill her. Whereas if two guys are fuck…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 03:26 AM
1

Deep down she feels a need. Women who feel that need can't do much more thinking than that. Don't overestimate her. He's getting his dick wet next date, then it's up to him what happens. All this refinement is great, but "good enough" is plenty. He's good enough and is in her fuckzone.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 03:21 AM
1

Fracking is a sort of particular case. The drilling companies will not reveal the chemical composition of the fracking fluids. And I have it from experts in the field that to save money, they don't protect the vertical shaft (down to the 7000 or so foot depth where the fracking occurs, and up which the natgas or tight oil comes up) from leaks. So indeed it could get into ground water at 100 - 500 feet. One of these guys just thinks they should spend the little bit of money to do it right, with n…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 03:11 AM
1

You went to school for 7 years of biochem and you have a part time sales job? Are jobs in your field very hard to get?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 03:06 AM
1

"I know when I'm doing things in my personal life I try not to risk using a diversity hire buy avoiding them all together." Likewise. I would tend to avoid a URM or maybe even a female if hiring a professional, because they may have had big benefit from affirmative action. Therefore one has less assurance of their competence. One could say it's unfair to the competent women and URM, but I am just reacting to a statistically valid inference I can make. If they don't want me to make that inference…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 03:04 AM
1

It's better than not being hired at all if you're incompetent. On the other hand, if you're competent, they are probably happy to give you real work. I'd assume this guy wasn't, or he didn't even want to try to show he could do something.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 03:00 AM
1

They were saying the same stuff 30 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 02:58 AM
4

It would be illegal in the United States. But winning a reverse discrimination suit (discrimination against men, or whites) is near impossible, so the charge would be something minor and she would be told to do better next time.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 02:57 AM
2

Warning: after 15-20 years total, if you are still doing such technical work, you'll be too old and vulnerable to layoff.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 02:52 AM
3

Beautiful. I guess a bit of overacting is OK with women, esp. because they usually don't know what to think and are taking their cue from you. So you can tell them.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 02:44 AM
3

Right, because all the western help agencies help only women. Ever notice, it's for "women entrepreneurs" not "entrepreneurs". We are trying to change patriarchal traditional societies by putting the women over the men. That's why I never give a penny to those "charities". I want them to fail.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 02:38 AM
1

In my work experience, I found I often got technically difficult problems. And I'd better solve them. Girls seemed to get more moderate work, maybe time consuming but they knew they could get it done working 8 hours a day. A subtle form of discrimination but very real. I didn't get extra rewards for doing the harder stuff, it was just expected.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 02:35 AM
2

yeah I observed the same when I was an engineer, before grad school. It was ridiculous. I just stopped caring much. Girls got automatic promotion on management track, technically mediocre. But the easiest boss I ever had was a woman, the only female boss I've had. She was quite easy to work for, for me and the other technically capable guys on the team. But there was this one girl on the team too, and she was technically the worst. She was quite scared of this female boss, who apparently cut her…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 02:32 AM
3

Feel sorry for those doctoral students. Beta providers until those bitches graduate or get into the PhD program themselves, then the hole will dry up ... The pussy pass. Happens especially in fields where there aren't many girls. But I generally looked for women in different fields than I was in. I was in a highly political doctoral program. I survived but some didn't. And one of those who didn't was a very bright boy who was helping a much less bright girl -- who was only cute if compared to gi…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 02:15 AM
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Philosophy, from what I've heard, is very left-wing. You don't get your philosophy paper published by making an argument for capitalism. But redistribution is cool ... But hasn't he noticed that in all his years in the field? Or am I wrong? Philosophy is sort of logical, but unlike science it is untethered to reliable observations. So you can spin whatever sort of story you can put together, and for a wide range of stories, nobody can disprove it.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 02:10 AM
3

"Researchers in a recent study found no sexism in STEM faculty positions as more women are now hired for STEM tenure-track jobs at a 2:1 ratio. " It's not sexist if it favors the women over the men. Really??
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 02:03 AM
1

Men can still vote for the hot looking woman. Wait, none of the women running is remotely hot looking. By the age they can run for office, they're past the wall.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 01:54 AM
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Not when you were 18. When she was 18! Younger woman / older guy is very natural, the mutual attraction is strongest, and it fits with the idea that the woman's fertility ends at an earlier age than the man's.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 01:37 AM
2

You don't have to buy them and give so much money away. Just go to Canal St. in NYC or one of the other knockoff havens and get what you like without paying the insane licensing markup. It's out in the open and the cops do nothing about it. Don't ask me why, but there it is.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 01:34 AM
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Sheesh now that is immature. Just ignore her, say no, wish her all the best, etc. And it'll probably drive her nuts that none of those reactions is emotional, but she can't complain about them either, even to her girlfriends. Correct behavior can be a very powerful habit. Even a chick magnet.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 01:31 AM
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Not sure France will continue to trend that direction. France is becoming overrun with Muslims. And Muslims have an entirely different, patriarchal system.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 01:29 AM
6

Women aren't looking for flawless men. They get all hot for men with enormous flaws. I'd look for one or two tricks to attract women, rather than trying to work on all one's flaws to become a better man. It's fine to become a better man, but don't do it for a woman. Ideally get a woman or three, then become a better man just because you want to.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 01:27 AM
30

They used to have all-girl colleges. They still have a few of them, but it's very hard to get any girls to go unless they have lesbian tendencies. (Smith, Mt. Holyoke, etc.) Others used to be all-girls (e.g. Vassar) but admitted boys because they couldn't get enough girls otherwise. All-male colleges would still be going strong except they were FORCED to close. The Ivy League was pretty much forced to admit women, etc. Most recently, Virginia Military Institute I think had to go coed. None of th…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 01:03 AM
5

It's OK if your genetic children came from that vagina.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 12:50 AM
3

Men should be clear and honest, unless they are in a relationship and the woman cheated and thinks he still doesn't know. Then the man can proceed quietly as he sees best, since he is entitled to secrets too in this case, and wait to blow up the relationship when it best suits them.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 12:49 AM
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Actually he's not talking to this woman in particular whom he didn't even know at 18, but to a class of women in general. He would commit to the 18 year old version of this girl. She should have committed to someone like him then. It makes a sort of logical sense of describing strategies in the battle of the sexes. If you just like him to say he doesn't want to commit to her in the current circumstances, fine and ignore the rest. Look at it this way, and it's not bitter.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 12:47 AM
1

At least one woman said he was right to run. Women are often practical and will take the man's side against another woman, because women don't trust each other. But white knights always take the woman's side and are hopeless wastes of flesh.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 12:40 AM
3

Agree, though I doubt it will happen. Even if it did, as a crime it would have to be proved beyond reasonable doubt. So you'll have a lot of false rape claims where the guy can get exonerated, but he's unable to prove the girl was lying. Let's say conviction requires 90% certainty. Then if it's 90-100% certain (to a jury after a trial) that the guy raped her, he's convicted. If it's only 0-10% likely that he did, and they know she accused him of rape, then she might get a false rape conviction. …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 06:13 PM
-8

Yes I'll go out on a limb and say I think we have gone too far on the seriousness of rape. Is it as bad as getting someone fired from their job that they need to support themselves and their families? Is it as bad as arson, burning down your house for insurance? Is it as bad as serious crippling physical injury? I would say no. The sentencing guidelines disagree with me. Taking into account sex offender registration, but no registration required for false rape accusation, libel, arson or serious…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 06:07 PM
1

The new bullshit study saying that is one where they sent a blind mailing to lots and lots of people, and they were free to respond or not. Now if you've never been assaulted, you'll probably just see a waste of time survey and delete it. If you had been assaulted, you might still be mad about it and tend to answer. In other words, this survey had vast and unmeasurable amounts of "selection bias" in who returns completed surveys. It's worthless and frankly laughable. And university presidents (w…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 06:03 PM
2

Or, one of you gets the hots for someone else and artfully maintains a similar level of "communication" at home while banging someone else on the outside. Look I respect the intellectual aspect of your double-doctorate relationship. I think it can work great. But beware, she has that brain, but she is still a female animal. They are not contradictory. One issue I have about foreign language is that you're working hard to learn something that average little children in that area already do better…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 10:55 PM
1

Privet! I'll give this a little more credit. I know about double-doctorate households. At least in the early years, part of the bond is attraction to the other's intellect which is, no doubt, truly exceptional. When you have a problem, your most competent helper is often right there. You have a close intellectual bond. Brother it won't last, more of her animal shit will come out esp. if you have kids. So just be prepared to step into a more traditional RP role. And by the way, try to have about …
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 10:37 PM
2

She'll eventually convince herself she thought of it. If you're OK with that, and have no desire to possess this woman, hey it's a free country.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 10:12 PM
4

Married 20 years here. This is correct. Have you ever seen a long marriage where the two still talk to each other? I haven't. If the guy kept insisting on talking like a girl, he would have been one of those victims of divorce rape.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 10:09 PM
1

I'd casually, wittily if possible, refuse to get involved. Don't solve it like a beta, don't commiserate like a girl. It's best to turn the conversation to something that can improve your opportunities with her, or it's fine just to say hey Janie is blowing up your cellphone and you've got to go. If she's bringing problems to you, it may be too late already. You're in the friendzone, but if you actually change, sometimes this can change. I think it never changes because guys hardly ever change. …
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 10:02 PM
4

There's also that if you solve her problem, you didn't become her hero but her servant. Or even if you're intellectually her hero, her vagina dried up for sure. A man gets on the fuckable list by getting her to submit to him or otherwise generating sexual attraction. Doing things for women isn't it, and it cockblocks you. You'll never see her treat you better (except very temporarily, if she has unusually good impulse control) by solving her problem. Let the betas do that, you're a different kin…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 10:00 PM
1

Boil the frog slowly. It didn't make sense in sports either, but at least nobody was having their lives ruined.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 09:52 PM
2

any guy who came out saying there is no basis to ban them would be met with choruses of "Ewww why would you want to have sex with a machine?" Easy answer: it's probably better sex than I would get from you.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 08:47 PM
4

Or alternatively, they give abundance mentality, and from there a guy can do great things with real women too.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 08:45 PM
2

It won't be the same for women. How many women consider a vibrator the equivalent of good sex? They respond to smell, touch, dominance, things a robot can't do. But men who just want to get a good orgasm should eventually find some good robots.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 08:45 PM
3

We'll see if it's good or not. But "sink lower"? How can there be anything wrong with buying a machine when women are too much trouble?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 08:42 PM
3

Let them shame it. Nobody will know if I have it, if I live alone.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 08:40 PM
2

The engineers are all over this, and they're going to get it done. And it can't be social suicide to have one, because who is gonna know? If you go out to meet live girls, zip her up in a bag and put her under a comforter or something. The protests by some women are wishful thinking.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 08:39 PM
6

It should not be too difficult to find two men to get into a threeway with in one night. I don't call that sex. You can call it whatever you want.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 08:32 PM
20

That story is a huge psyop. They are either narcissists or solipsists, not exactly the empathetic ones.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 08:29 PM
4

The guy should spin some plates. If you can't find a decent woman, settle for 3 or 4 indecent ones. I'm sure they'll angrily disapprove when they find out, but so what?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 08:27 PM
1

You won't be back. Why would you want used up whores who spend their lives hanging out in bars?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 04:11 PM
6

Fake it til you make it. It's not what you are, but what you can make them think you are for 30 seconds.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 04:10 PM
1

Touching intimate parts causes release of oxytocin. She is somewhat bonded to him. But if I were the guy I would stay far away from this crazy.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 03:49 PM
2

I guess that's OK as long as you didn't get unwanted shit from your family for your neg. I tend to compartmentalize and not play that way when existing family is involved (I would insult my wife though i.e. speak unvarnished, as appropriate) but with a pickup or a date or someone separate from others important to me, I would be more experimental. Maybe I am too conservative.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 03:01 AM
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I never comment on misspellings or grammar because well who cares. But OP might want to fix the following on his website because it affects literal meaning. Suffrage is voting. (think of the suffragettes, the feminists who got women the right to screw up elections.) Suffering is suffering. As far as I know, the two words are not related and are not synonyms.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 02:58 AM
7

The men he helped there, care. The boss cares. The hambeast even cares in her own special angry way.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 02:39 AM
5

Out of three women, one bitch who did the signs. What about the other two? I would guess they are at least neutral or on your side. Probably neutral, concerned only about themselves. When a woman is a bitch, sure call her out correctly. You did an outstanding job of that here, and the other women didn't even complain that they were insulted because (1) they probably have no respect for hambeast, (2) they know why you did it, and (3) the neg may have turned them on. There is no conspiracy of wome…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 02:37 AM
1

Don't underestimate the importance of the kind of money it takes to raise a family. Not when it comes from the father, nor when it comes from the mother. That's real love. It give you a roof and food.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 04:34 PM
0

He did explicitly exclude widows, or didn't you read that far?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 04:31 PM
-4

No wonder gay promoter Obama hates veterans so much.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 04:30 PM
2

I believe that's not true. TED talks are given at TED seminars. TEDx talks are made to have a similar style, similar room feel, etc. but are not at official TED seminars. Maybe the official TED folks are very good at screening for the best talks, and the rejects are subsequently presented at some TEDx. Or maybe not. But that's an assumption one would have to make, to believe TED talks are better a-priori.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 04:24 PM
1

Or, very importantly, they might be cool folks who appreciate and share your interest and are actually paying to give you eye candy to enjoy.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 04:09 PM
1

I wish I had had the money for all sorts of things. And other people have less than me. I don't hate people with differing amounts of funds. A Ferrari is one of the things I wish I'd had when I could have enjoyed it the most. They are so beautiful. Maybe I could buy one with a busted motor, swap in some batteries and have the coolest looking EV that will go 0-60 even faster than the car did originally.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 04:05 PM
1

Travel a bit beyond the confines of your "global" propaganda realm. I took a vacation in Venezuela some years ago, back when it was doing better, but the following is still true. Gasoline is as cheap as water there. And "environmentalism"? Well they do care about the environment and love it, but they aren't scared of good old American 1950's technology that was more fun than anything that came after. My high school age son has received a large dose of propaganda like you've got, and I am gradual…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 04:01 PM
1

No. Species compete to reproduce and strengthen their numbers. That is natural. Cutting your own family down (or race or species , I'd argue too) is unnatural. Nobody had to tell me that one big item on my "bucket list" for this lifetime was to reproduce. Now that I've done it I feel significantly satisfied, and the closer the kids get to launch the better I'll feel about that. Wasting a girl's peak fertility, which not-so-coincidentally is when they are most attractive to guys (at least those n…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 03:55 PM
1

Yes it's easy to understand it somewhat that way, if you just think that women are jealous of all other women all the time, using a male conception of jealousy. But over time and with a lot of analytical thinking, during the process of figuring out game / redpill for myself before it was all over the interwebs, I've come to think it's better described using the words I did. Being a woman is not the same as being a man. To some extent, women can't tell you that difference because they don't know …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:53 PM
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Same here, but I think it's generational. My parents' generation was more heirarchical, more settled. The TEDx speaker's parents may have been in the same generation. Now that my kids are teenagers, I think there's a lot to the idea of developmental stages. At some stages, kids don't react logically to things. So "seeing constructive disagreement" may not help as much as one might think. But anyway there are no perfect parents or perfect children.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:35 PM
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And if it's on TED, TEDx or TRP, the comment should be judged by its quality. If you are impressed by the place where the comment is given, you need to take charge of your own thinking. The speaker, being a woman but wiser than most, knows about female narcissism. A woman can simply never think about her partner's issues.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:19 PM
1

You're telling us that there's something wrong with a woman pressuring other women to fulfill their marital commitments and have sex with their husbands. My parents also never fought in front of me. They kept it together, and well, I think it was the right thing. Now that I am married, I know that there's no perfect marriage, and the woman has obligations too, not just on the guy's shoulders to perform all the time. You are some sort of weirdo, OP.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:17 PM
1

Genetically speaking there is no such thing as a Hispanic, it is a cultural group. Indeed this is true. It's an artificial construct made so they can receive federal legal advantages in the USA. So how could there be a study supporting the first statement, which you've just admitted is undefined outside the USA: The average IQ of all Hispanics is approximately 89, and the IQ of a "Black Hispanic" is approximately 87. I am getting more sure that someone just pulled those numbers out of thin air.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 10:06 AM
1

Thanks I didn't know that. I suppose it uses the constitutional definition of "interstate commerce" applying it in a way the Founders never would endorse.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 04:09 AM
1

A friend of mine was a stockbroker and he had one favorite client, a woman who was at least in her 70's and declining. He was handsome (married too) and she just loved his attention. I have no idea if he gave her his dick, but if it was needed to make the business relationship work, he probably did. In return she let him manage and skim her considerable money. She wasn't gonna be around long and had nobody she wanted to leave it to, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:27 AM
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I have lots of respect for her, OK. But that doesn't mean I would want to fuck her. One doesn't fuck a woman out of respect for her, any more than a woman fucks a man because he supplicates to her.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:24 AM
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It's simple. Bond is over. Find new entertainment. It's not anyone's fault, it's just lunacy to rely on Hollywood.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:18 AM
2

Darkenlightenment can not answer why black Hispanics and white Hispanics have approximately the same IQ despite white Hispanics being of European origin. Is that equality of IQ even correct? How many of the doctors and engineers in Mexico are dark skinned? How many illegal immigrants across our southern border are light skinned? Now you could say it's because all of those cultures south of the border discriminate against dark skinned people (that's true, because they don't pretend to ignore the …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:16 AM
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The modern immigrant is mostly illegal and so doesn't even meet our standards for immigration. That is an important way he differs from older immigrants. They have doctors and engineers in Mexico. That's not who we're getting as immigrants from there. The new immigrants and their offspring will have much lower economic productivity on average. That's for many generations into the future. The other immigrants are H1B's which include a very high proportion of what many would consider geniuses.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:11 AM
0

No, a woman as old as my mother in my first memory of her, or older, isn't hot but maternal. No matter her shape.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:09 AM
1

PU is not trash. You use the canned stuff until you have your own stuff. In my case, I cannot remember the canned stuff, so I make it up as I go along, but having read the canned stuff gives me enough of a push in the right direction. It actually worked well and quickly, though I did think I might fuck it up. Nope, girls will cut tons of slack for anything but betaness.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 01:59 AM
2

You could quietly report her to the authorities for having those guys living there or whatever violations she's committing. Trying to avoid waste of money on such as her is entirely consistent with trp.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 01:54 AM
2

Anybody who generalize any group of people are ignorant. Quite a generalization there lol. Generalization is necessary to get along in the world. If a car is coming straight at me and I can step out of the way, I should do that even if the driver MIGHT have swerved and avoided me. But generalizations are not perfect and need not be. Some call it "prejudice" when it comes to certain hot button categories. I call it "sanity" but I am ready to revise my view based on further evidence.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 01:51 AM
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If the "hot" guy in the first link said that, he would succeed in drying up the woman's attraction for him. Women are not so tied to looks that they would miss the supplication there, from a man who had not known them carnally.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 01:09 AM
1

Sometimes a girlfriend would ask me to pick up that stuff if I was shopping, being very specific about brand, size etc. Sometimes my wife asks me to do it now. I did, because it's just normal in that case. But to do it for a vagina I had not even known intimately? That seems just stupid and beta.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 01:04 AM
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You don't realize an interesting fact that unless they're good friends, a woman would never dare ask another woman for such things. Maybe even if they are good friends. Women have emotional issues with the vaginal area, and with other women, making it so awkward to bring it up, and the other woman might really diss her. You think women can talk to each other. Actually, except for very superficial things, despite all their mouth flapping, they can't.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 01:01 AM
0

He's a boy not a man yet. He's probably still feeling puberty. Hence I don't pass judgment on him. But his idea is certainly cringeworthy.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 12:58 AM
-1

Actually I've had help here and there from women like that. A purse can carry a lot of useful stuff. (As an American man, I don't carry a purse, although in some European countries I think it's a normal thing for a man to do. And looking good in pants requires little to no pocket bulge. If you're not wearing a jacket, there's nowhere for a man to put stuff.) But notice the direction. She helps me. I am not helping her. Both people are happier that way.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 12:54 AM
2

No he's just showing that he's out of control with the first emergence of his normal male sexuality. Such blue pill things will never get him access to those vaginas he's helping, but hey we were all awkward at one time, at least I was during puberty. If he still thinks such things by age 18 then I'll consider him an idiot.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 12:53 AM
3

Women would be very shy to ask another woman for such things, nor would one woman generally offer such to another even if the need was obvious. A woman would ask her boyfriend or husband to shop for her tampons or pads, but she would NEVER ask another woman to do that. Why should a man take over the "solidarity" thing? How completely lame and stupid, lol. The new level of white-knightishness seems to be that men are supposed to step in when women would just say "fuck you" to each other. These pr…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 12:50 AM
1

I didn't know that the philosophers lifted. Got a link?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 05:33 PM
0

Those that would are a fair minority, just a bit vocal. I can't recall seeing anything like that here. Liar.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 02:31 AM
1

This girl was not applying rp truths. Getting someone to commit suicide is about as far from redpill as I can imagine. rp is about helping yourself, not about damaging others. The rp truth is knowing this tendency in women, not this bad of course but anyone who's ever leaned on a woman for emotional support in a difficult time and found out the support isn't there (or she subtly makes things worse) sees a tiny bit of what this bitch did.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 02:30 AM
3

Are you trying to guilt us, for reporting what this chick did? We don't believe most women are this bad. But maybe 1% this bad, and it's important to know it. Because most guys have 0% of this tendency.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 02:27 AM
1

Your best allies in these situations can be her female friends. The more time she spends with them, the more desperate she becomes for a man, and they more they cut down her internal sense of security.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 10:30 PM
1

But if you're trying to get inside her pants, calling her a slut before you're actually already fucking her is rarely the best thing to do.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 10:26 PM
1

This makes no sense actually.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 10:25 PM
2

I enjoyed a vacation on Koh Samui so envy you your tropical island lifestyle. But 29 is an old woman in Thailand, no wonder she will put up with anything. Still, at 29 she has much fertility remaining and can be hot looking, so maybe it's just a good situation for you. It's a lot better than a fat 35 year old American -- not to say you couldn't pull better. You drink alcohol by "buckets"? That's hardcore!
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 08:47 PM
3

It's not protective of younger girls. You don't understand how little women care about each other. Not at all. Any emotion is likely to be an angry one, not a protective one. This is why female friendships seem so stupid. Because they are hiding an constant undercurrent of anger and distance, so they can never progress much even if they are many years old. These older women are simply competing with the younger women and losing, and so they end up posting their bitter feelings and fantasies on r…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 03:35 PM
2

Will never pass. Older powerful men won't allow it.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 03:28 PM
1

I've come to the belief that Magic Johnson is not HIV+. That's how he lasts forever. He was a psyop for the gay agenda, for acceptance of HIV+ people, but it's like advertising sneakers he doesn't use or whatever. Just an endorsement, well paid or a part of some deal-with-the-devil he made to have the career he had.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 03:26 PM
3

Regarding conversation, I'm not interested in these women because of the new insights they'll give me in ... quantum computing. Bullshit. You're all about entanglements with them.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 03:20 PM
1

It isn't cool to whom? Why?
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 03:17 PM
1

I'm not aware of any legal complications that come with having consensual sex with a girl who is over the local age of consent, even if that age is less than 18. Am I missing something here? But it seems you've got to verify the age and not trust her word, according to a recent nationally-reported case where the guy was convicted of underage sex even though the girl represented herself to be of age.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 03:12 PM
2

I thought Chad was an AMOG who took other guy's women i.e. ignored bro-code and was at least somewhat successful at it. That isn't at all necessarily a guy to whom prospecting for girls came easy. I suspect those who equate them (if that's what they are doing) are showing jealousy, maybe a part or type of anger stage.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 04:22 AM
2

I am currently surrounded by a number of narcissists in my own family. The lessons of detachment and strategy learned here have served me well once I understood how the personalities around me worked (that part I learned mostly elsewhere.) There is no choice but emotional detachment in that case. I guess that's manipulation since one reacts intellectually and not emotionally.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 03:58 AM
5

It was a great post and he didn't even try to sell me a t-shirt.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 03:55 AM
3

I see it like this: PUA is tricking girls into thinking you are a catch, TRP is actually transforming yourself into a catch. It's not either-or. Who decides whether you're a catch? For purposes of seducing the girl, her opinion is what matters. Understand that what's important to her may not be what you find significant or worthy or important. You may think it's stupid, maybe it's too easy. But it's her opinion and she's entitled to it. That's not tricking her. It's being effective in interperso…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 03:49 AM
2

If being a dick works, then it works. One is free to try it. Turns out that softening that around the edges, at least, works better.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 03:43 AM
1

Thank you, /u/redpillschool . You and the other mods have a very tough job because this sub is relentlessly and systematically and sometimes overwhelmingly concern-trolled as you describe. Thank you for not being swayed by crowds that want to change the central principle.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 03:41 AM
22

I've read about "gay man game" where you pretend to be gay then change just for them. Might be fun to try when I am drunk, otherwise I doubt I could pull it off.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 01:42 AM
2

No your offspring will be dumped at the police station or something.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 01:35 AM
0

well blacks (guys and girls) do say they're offended pretty often. One hardly hears white guys say it.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 01:32 AM
9

Chad is parasitic. If Chad's an alpha, he's not the only alpha.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 01:31 AM
1

If you think you're going to pass linear algebra by "nerd herding", well I doubt it. Have you done it? And do you really want to be acting like a woman, taking advantage of betas? That's not what I think of as redpill, more like Chad. And as I've observed months ago, Chad is a little bitch who uses girl techniques.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 01:29 AM
-5

I think also the bulging muscle gym look is an indicator of working class status. You don't find it in the best occupations or corporations. These people are too busy and are concentrating on things more useful than building a physique, which is ornamental in this day of computers and machines.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 11:46 PM
4

If the gym is the first time you've been disciplined, you are not doing well elsewhere in life. What about excelling at a musical instrument (not necessarily guitar), killing it in school, building something, starting an organization -- all things that generally require a lot of self discipline. Top guys have self discipline but no muscles, because they are too busy and have no time for gym.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 11:44 PM
4

No need to shudder. Just don't be that BB. Maybe being an alpha (or at least non-beta) is being able to say no to women, repeatedly, happily.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 11:32 PM
3

I think the cause of it is exactly what you say. They're buried in their smartphones. While they are doing that, they are not getting seduced by you, Chad or anyone else. They are simply not fucking. One seduces a girl by getting her vagina to send alarm signals to override her everyday brain. If that brain is so busy the vagina can't get a word in, she won't end up in bed and the poor vagina will be neglected.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 10:55 PM
1

Greenwich CT and good NYC suburbs generally, and good parts of NYC itself. I don't know where that guy is referring to, but there are few fatties here. How much are houses here? About 4 times what an equivalent house would cost many places. But surprisingly, large lots are a good deal (under a million) in the northern suburbs i.e the Hudson valley.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 03:58 AM
2

She has children from a previous relationship. These are huge time and resource sinks that will siphon off resources from any step-daddy even if they are getting support from the baby daddy. How would the baby daddy continue to pay CS after she marries you? I think the court would allow him to terminate the CS wouldn't they, unless you are indigent. The court would not allow you to protect your assets from kids you are adopting. And how can you marry her without adopting her kids? I don't know t…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 03:51 AM
1

As a single mom, all any guys were willing to do with her was pump and dump. Hence that's all she has ever seen and she wonders if there is more to life. Amazing, but I guess it's true. Also, if she does meet a beta who is nice to her, she is probably so repelled she just forgets he ever existed. So it's as if that date didn't ever happen.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 03:48 AM
1

There is now hymen replacement surgery. Since hymens are not at all consistent and very few men have seen anything like a statistical sample of them, almost anything would be enough to be believable i.e. this could allow an experienced girl to pretend to be a virgin. But when it's on a 36 year old, you're gonna wonder real hard. And for those who have fucked a virgin, you might get the idea that this seems a little fake, for example basically if the sex is not awkward enough.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 03:43 AM
1

Did she say how many months she was a good Christian wife? Did she cheat? Betcha.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 03:35 AM
2

you're humble-bragging Nope, for that he would have to be humble or at least pretend. He isn't. Nice brag though, well done OP.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 02:09 AM
1

The degree and good job are good for you. Being in shape, as long as it doesn't consume a ton of your time, is good too. Women respond to game, to smell ... to lies. Rather than doing a ton of self improvement, just say you did. Have fun with this! There are plenty of girls that do, and as the natural leader, guys have much more to gain, easier, from this. All you have to do is spend 30 seconds convincing a vagina that you're fuckable. And then take it from there. If you're a potential beta buck…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 11:06 PM
2

In fact looks aren't that important. Looks that you can control, the obvious result of effort, may even be counterproductive. Quite a few women are put off by the "body of Hercules". For one thing it shows that you put in a lot of intense work. Women are not looking for guys who worked very hard to earn their love. Their vaginas want guys to whom it came naturally. So do things that look like they came naturally, and do only half of a complete job. Less is more, a hint is what gets the moisture …
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 11:03 PM
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Redpill is about being egoless? This is news to me.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 10:58 PM
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Have you formally canceled the engagement, contacted the invited wedding guests that they should not come, cancelled the registry (if she has one) at the department store, cancelled the catering and cake, etc. etc. etc. Do those things if she hasn't. And just try kicking her out of the condo, see if she goes without a fuss. (You say you bought it together, so propose a lowball deal to buy her out. Don't be fair about this unless you have to.) Well done on finding out in time. As she gets older y…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 08:24 PM
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Not enough pension to live on is it? Same deal if you're a cop, you go home every night, less dangerous by far, better pension.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 11:53 PM
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This story shows the limits of physique for a man. I swear, it seems like the athletic men get cucked more than us lardbuckets. Maybe it's because you don't need as much game if you're built like that.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 11:52 PM
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Women assume men objectify them, because they (women) objectify everyone. Men, other women, anyone else. Since they lack empathy, they see others as objects rather than as living souls. They're walking through a world of unfamiliar others, even if that other is their best female friend. This is why their definition of "friend" is different from ours. Men have the capability to avoid objectifying, instead to be empathetic. We are naturally empathetic at least to some extent. But sometimes men do …
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 08:39 PM
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I am fighting the goddamn school system with one wrong decision after another about my kids. It's fucking insidious and it consumes vast amounts of time, then they just keep doing more of it waiting for me to wear out. They want my kids. They are not going to get them. But it's made me a slave to this fight. Until now they could not get me. I outsmarted all that other shit, rode easily above it. But this is a new degree of difficulty.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 08:28 PM
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Nope, that's not Stephanie's Law. Stephanie's Law, named for 20 year old Stephanie Schmidt of Kansas, is a sexual predator law that allows the state to keep those convicted of sex crimes confined after they have completed their sentences, if in the judgment of professionals they should not be released. If it's illegal, the penalty for doing what OP did is probably like a parking ticket. So don't worry about it. And if it gives even a little protection against a false rape charge (it does indeed)…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 08:21 PM
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Why? The penalty for this is small and won't be demanded anyway. It's not like rape, where the penalty is huge.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 08:14 PM
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It's narcissistic. Which is completely believable.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 08:12 PM
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Why? A guy who hasn't swallowed how assertive he can/should be, but who isn't actually beta and won't take shit. That describes me before I became a bit more assertive.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 08:10 PM
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But there are a ton of female responses there telling her she's full of shit. Women are moralistic to each other. There's a common misconception here that women support each other. Not really. Now take that to the logical conclusion (which is how I figured out game before there it was all over the interwebz) and ask whether they could be ganging up on men. No of course not, they don't cooperate for any reason. See a set? Blast it open. Let them hamster against each other. Have fun. You're put on…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 07:57 PM
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What's wrong with Koreans? I don't know about now, but I had a Korean friend about 20 years ago, and he and his Korean wife were the most old-school traditional couple I have ever known. I'd go to his office in the evening and we would bullshit and have a good time. When we were done we would go outside and she would be waiting for him. I asked how she knew to pick him up. It was that she actually waited there an hour or more until he came out.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 05:38 PM
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I gotta admit that in HS, I didn't consider hamplanet girls to be actual girls. That's not what I meant by girls. (and my upper limit was way way below 250) For guys it's all about the girl's physical attractiveness. For girls it's about smell, technique, dominance -- not so much looks, though looks are great too.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 02:41 PM
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Helping guys move, sure. Helping girls move, more iffy.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 03:51 AM
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Yeah well he should have acted quicker for his own sake. Not because he did anything wrong to her. I didn't understand your comment.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 12:58 AM
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Yeah OK my comment works that way too.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 12:57 AM
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Yes this happened. And the all male schools were doing great but could not remain all male because the women demanded the "opportunity". The all women schools were doing worse and worse and now they've mostly gone coed from lack of female customers e.g. Vassar, Skidmore, Manhattanville. Girls don't want to be in an all female environment unless they are lesbians. And at some point girls didn't even want the reputational risk that might come from going there and having men think they are lesbians…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 10:56 PM
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The Universal Error in Womens’ Sexual Strategy: A Field Report (self.TheRedPill) submitted 2 months ago * by 1down_with_whomever Why did you link to an archive of this old post? It's still worth commenting on. My comment is that the women there seem to be narcissistic (caused by damaging childhood, such as daddy issues) and need attention and excitement, not necessarily validation, but any sort of "narcissistic supply". This indeed causes them tragically to waste their final years of eligibility…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 05:08 AM
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Why is the contract per se illegal? This is a critical question.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 04:05 AM
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Use the cash income (after tax, if you report it) to pay tax for the real estate capital gain.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 04:03 AM
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You wouldn't get sent to jail for theft if you have any paperwork. But be aware that all contracts for real estate must be in writing. (I learned this in a business law course, lawyers are invited to chime in here.) So if the real estate kicker at the end isn't in writing, I think he can just renege on it and your attempt to enforce a verbal contract would be thrown out of court without further investigation.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 04:02 AM
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Yes the amount of money is almost too good to be true. Surely he could get a decent SMV gay guy to do this for a lot cheaper. Where's the catch?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 03:57 AM
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Make damn sure he's clean and remains clean, even if a condom is used. It's possible to get HIV through anal sex, because it's spread by blood-blood contact and the friction and small tears in the anus where blood can go through. Vaginas don't tear, anuses do. Beyond that, if you can keep it unemotional, it's a whole lot of money.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 03:55 AM
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How is Walker old hat? Has anyone ever beaten the public employee unions before? No, he's showing a power that nobody before has had! Oh, and Ron "audit the Fed" Paul was a psyop. For one thing he was in the race to drop out strategically so that loser McCain (if I remember the year right) would get the nomination. For another, the Fed is audited every year, by Deloitte. Not only the Board of Governors but each of the 12 Reserve Banks. It's on the Fed website, lemme know if you can't find it and…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 11:34 PM
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Ross Perot was just there so Clinton would win FYI. It was obvious after the fact.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 11:31 PM
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I like to think "Michelle", despite "her" football background (people like football players) would lose big. Race and gender card aren't working so well lately, and that's all she is.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 11:30 PM
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Well then this is an honest man by your definition. For a long time he did things for her and as comments there note, didn't seem to get much in return. Then when she rejected him, he didn't do anything aggressive, just stopped providing nice things but didn't ask for any return on the nice things he had already done.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 09:47 PM
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Maybe, maybe not. Seems to me that the way he behaves to her would determine whether he's an asshole, not his inner intentions at various times which we can only guess. At no time was he impolite. He simply distanced himself when she rejected him. He was a friend, then he stopped being a friend, but he didn't do a single asinine thing. I think he did it just right, although he might have wasted less time if he knew earlier he wanted a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 09:45 PM
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He's an asshole because he stops being her friend? That's an interesting definition of asshole.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 09:43 PM
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Why? He's doing fine. She's spending all the time thinking about him. He is not wasting any time thinking about her any more.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 09:42 PM
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Good RP advice in here: do what the nerds don't. Offer them to come over for "Netflix and chill". Text them "sex?". Girls don't like these things that get them to go further than they had planned.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 09:40 PM
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It's so freakin' typical. At 17:00 Howard asks her how he could win her love. She answers that he could do more work for her. She complains about a time he didn't shovel snow that she wanted him to. And he should be nicer and more attentive. We know that if he followed that advice, she WOULD probably leave him. He's already working and earning most of the money. Dude is doing great actually.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 02:24 PM
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I've heard of r selection and K selection. Do you mean the fraction r/K ? I don't think it was ever paradise, just different problems. And the next problems will be different in turn. Since population is growing and communication increasing, it will probably become necessary to be sneakier and cleverer. But the means for that are available too. You have more information to reason with, and you'd better use it if you mean to win in this environment.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 05:28 AM
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And since my wife is a bona fide narcissist (she scored 100% on an online checklist I did recently) that makes things more exciting. Since I figured this out though, I've become more mechanical and things calmed down. A lot. Thanks for the words of encouragement about the kids. I need them!
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 05:20 AM
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He has some other fun shows where women masturbate using various toys, on the show on TV. But he has to white-knight because that appeals to a largely female audience. It's all about appealing to female viewers.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 05:00 AM
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Sounds like they have several kids together. That's some sex right there, and when there are kids around, the both parents are distracted by childraising esp. the mother. This guy is doing well even though he is getting some bad habits from the henpecking. When the kids are a little older, they can shovel the damn driveway.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 04:55 AM
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Yes he could tighten up his game. A lot. But even with all the loser behavior, he's doing OK. No divorce rape there. Wife bitches because he's not making more money. If he were he would have been dv raped already.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 04:52 AM
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He has several of his children from her womb, and she's still there if he wants her. Stern seems jealous with all the shaming, but the guy is smart enough to ignore it. Yeah she's mad at her husband. He's played it pretty well, not as she expected. Women hate it when they don't have power.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 04:50 AM
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He did well. She's mad because he didn't pursue the higher paid career he "promised". So he's earning less now and can't be divorced raped. She can bitch all she wants, but there she still is, probably because he's not earning more. And he has several kids with her. Doesn't matter what happens here, he has won. And then he can get another good looking girl if they split. Meanwhile he has the chance to go more alpha on her. She commented he's not sitting close enough to her. So he can up the kino…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 04:46 AM
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If the prenup is otherwise OK, I think it's considered fair to keep what you came in with, even if that is way lopsided. It's the way the wealthy protect their fortunes routinely. When a big fortune marries a bigger fortune, a prenup routinely assures that if there's a split, the fortunes leave about as they came. The ruling families in the US want it this way. I don't think it's going to change for some feminists. Besides feminism is going out of style. Look at the shit Megyn Kelly is getting f…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 04:26 AM
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They miscalculated, assuming their vaginal privilege would assure they would not have to pay. This makes me happy. I think the message is that if you feel the wife's affection growing cold, lose your job. Preferably you want to be earning less than she is.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 04:19 AM
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I don't see your point. Normal contracts are binding whenever you sign them, perhaps with a few day "cooling off period". Whatever you signed at your closing was binding. This prenup thing is different, with the requirement to have it signed long before the wedding.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 04:15 AM
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If the woman is narcissistic, going postal just gives her the narcissistic supply she craves. Not the best way forward. You want her to seek her supply elsewhere, while you are implacable.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 04:07 AM
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I heard (in a serious academic setting) that some serious academic research showed that the best investment for a businessman is to buy a politician. The return is something like 8 times as much as the second best investment.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 04:04 AM
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Well yeah, but some will cost you more than others.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 03:56 AM
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I liked Trump. He's the guy who owns politicians. I'd rather have the owner working for me (as President) than his minions. I like Walker because he actually beat the public employee unions in Wisconsin. Even FDR knew that public employee unions are an abomination. If they're public employees, they are using their union protections to bargain against me! There's no reason that should be allowed. Most of them were pretty good. And they're not serious felons like Hillary. (That stunt with the emai…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 03:52 AM
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Being tired of each other when you're grandparents and have done your job is a lot different from the girl not having the tingles at the beginning!
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 03:35 AM
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lots of RP advice here. "Netflix and chill" is a good idea, texting "Sex?" is a good idea.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 03:10 AM
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I agree with you. My 2 kids aren't enough logically, but they are 2 more than zero. I should have started earlier it's true.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 03:00 AM
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I thought the "parol evidence rule" was already a "no oral amendments" rule for written contracts.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 11:01 PM
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I think this story is a population control psyop. It's an old story being brought back up. But realize the following: (1) She signed the prenup right before the wedding. It's supposed to be 2 months or more, apparently, to show lack of coercion. (2) He supposedly made this verbal agreement that the prenup would be void when the kids came. Why would that not be in writing? Did he deny it? If he denied it, the judge should have assumed such an agreement did not exist. (3) Subject to safeguards suc…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 10:55 PM
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The story doesn't say whether he agreed that he had made this verbal contract. It's important of course. If he disputed making that contract, he should win. Maybe the "parol evidence rule" applies here, that if a contract is in writing, amendments must also be in writing. That's what I recall of business law, any lawyers can chime in here ...
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 10:48 PM
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I would like to see a better legal analysis. But the story says she signed the prenup just days before the wedding. I've read here and elsewhere that the prenup should be signed at least two months before the wedding. This is how you rebut the idea of coercion. Not blaming the guy, maybe this wasn't known at the time. Hope he gets it reversed. The ex wife is a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 10:46 PM
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"People like him" explained the mechanics of what the judge did. You would apparently be less outraged if he just gave 15 days in jail with no alternative. If you want to reason with your morality rather than logic, that seems kinda girlish to me.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 10:20 PM
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So I've been the best for over 20 years. Whatever.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 10:13 PM
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Sometimes such a belief is justified. Even if one believes all souls are equally valuable, there are dimensions to superiority, like intelligence, physical ability, beauty or game ability where some people certainly are superior to others. Such a belief in superiority is not sickness but just recognition of objective reality. And if one doesn't think too much of areas of inferiority, or overrates oneself a bit, that's typical of successful people and isn't malignant narcissism.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 10:10 PM
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Not terrible looking as in does not seem to be terribly overweight. The face is not so nice, but high forehead looks like she's intelligent. That's important if she's contributing half the genetics of your children. I think the basic sentencing idea was he sentenced the guy to 15 days. This apparently is legal, right? Then he offers to suspend that sentence if he marries her. That's probably legal too. Not sure what the lawyers are thinking, how this is not possible. Can't a judge show clemency?…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 07:41 PM
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I think she had the option to refuse. He can't sentence her since she is not charged in the court case. But she wanted to marry him.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 07:37 PM
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He sentences the guy to 15 days in jail. He then offers to suspend that if he marries her. And if he's sentenced to jail, he doesn't get to make a phone call from the courtroom.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 07:35 PM
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Fair point. And she wasn't refusing his (forced) marriage proposal either. She's young. They may have a lot of kids together.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 07:34 PM
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Is it OK to go around throwing one punch at people? Of course it's reasonable to press charges. Men have got to start respecting themselves first.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 07:32 PM
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That particular principle is hard to separate from white knighthood. And see how much trouble he got for it? A frame where you support women and put yourself down is probably a stupid idea.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 07:31 PM
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You could always tell them (if they start trying to weasel your money, this would be after sex) that your money is for you and if they want money you're sure they will do well at it. Some will be turned on. Most will give you a nice show with their face falling but then leave. Some might hit you and need to be restrained.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 11:45 PM
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What help, and how was it all eaten so it can't be given to you now? Or, are you writing something objectively irrational but well calculated to get them off their asses in a productive way? If it's the latter, I salute you.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 11:19 PM
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If they were gonna get married anyway, the judge did the guy a favor. No "special snowflake" wedding, get it over with, no chance to waste a lot of money. The girl is 19 and not terrible looking. Hey he didn't do badly. It's not like the judge was rescuing her from the wall. Maybe he was saving her from any longer on the CC, or trying to anyway. Maybe they'll have a decent marriage and 6 children. Anyway they can easily get it annulled or a divorce within the time frame where no money changes ha…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 10:05 PM
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I used to give it so she wouldn't take it out on the boys. Now the kids are older and are rebelling against me, I'll let them work it out. They need something to break the Oedipal attachment anyway. I get depressed after one or two Vaknin videos, so I can't take too much of it at a sitting. Like he's a brave man giving us a courageous report from a very dark place. But as a narcissist his perception is limited as well.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 09:43 PM
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Are you a male narcissist, or a female one? I guess female because you are so impressed by the male. But I say that without any certainty. Women get attached via hormones. Oh shit do they, including or especially narcissistic women. That's what it means if a guy is in the fuckzone not the friendzone. The woman's vagina is attached to him. See my comment about Sam Vaknin. You know that you're a narcissist, but you are probably less likely to know if (other) women are, because you tend to lack emp…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 09:36 PM
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OK you could be partially right. (Never read HP but I think I get the point.) And 5 years in when the kids are past infancy, she goes into mother mode, out of attraction mode, and lacks the energy bothering to conform to what I like. The seven year itch that's been known for a long time, that never really goes away. You are not completely right. Women are attracted to men. Tingles, oxytocin and all that. Didn't you know this? Maybe it's you that should wake up and at least try to synthesize your…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 09:26 PM
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Correct. There are no perfect people, not even perfect children. I just want everyone to get through it pretty well and onto the point where they are running their own lives. Nothing is ever resolved. Hardly ever anyway. This is something I am learning in my 50's. But it's the human condition. The next generation, and the ones after, will go through the same stupid shit we do. It just is. I have met and overcome great challenges in this life. Raising kids in this environment is not for the faint…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 09:22 PM
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But even that, maybe only for their own children.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 09:19 PM
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It's self centered for sure. We call it "solipsism" though we might better call it "egocentrism" as someone noted above. But that's neither necessary nor sufficient for narcissism. I like /u/illimitableman 's idea that the solipsism prevents the perspective needed to keep narcissism to a reasonable level in a woman. Still forming my opinion about whether women want to raise a strong and independent child, though I have to say you might be right as my kids are in their teenage years and that part…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 09:16 PM
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who the hell wants a womans sympathy Children want their mother's sympathy, appropriately. But they have to learn that they should not see any other woman (including the mother of their children) in the same way at all. But this is more about Oedipus than Narcissus.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 09:13 PM
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solipsism is devoid of the reasoning necessary enough to effectively keep the narcissism in check via abstraction Very good, this makes sense. Your post is indeed excellent and explains a lot of what I've observed and started the thread about. So why does my thread, containing this excellent post as well as those of MorpheusGodofDreams and vys1, currently have only 1 point?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 09:01 PM
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Carly Fiorina, in her normal corporate and now political roles, is surely a grandiose narcissist. She's a tough tough broad with a limitless thirst for power. I can only imagine the geeky nice engineers at HP trying to reason with her, just making her more vindictive, and they're wondering what they did wrong! But when the dustup between Trump and the female Fox interviewer (who Trump tweeted was "bleeding out her eyes and wherever") came up a couple days ago, there she was with the usual femini…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 08:52 PM
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With respect I don't think you have experienced a narcissist. A narcissist's belief in himself is insecure and fragile and constantly being compensated for, hence the need for narcissistic supply. A narcissist can attach very strongly. But the reason for that attachment, I am now coming to understand, is that the need for supply is strong. Well we all respond to our needs and we all have strongly felt needs, but the narcissist is that need, is subsumed by it.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 08:48 PM
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I agree with this. I remember reading decades ago about solipsism, and it's a philosophical concept as you describe. So now my question can be reframed: "Egocentrism, or Narcissism?"
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 08:36 PM
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If you want to raise children, you are signing to get stuck in a lot of horse shit for a long time, in ways you cannot believe if you haven't been down the path. But there are rewards if you do it more or less right. MGTOW is not the only reasonable choice.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 04:18 AM
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So you say they all lack empathy. But I don't think they all do. Maybe it's that they are just very cold. I would think a tough business woman (Carly Fiorina comes to mind, pick your own example) can put herself in the other's shoes, to plan strategy and exploit that person. Cold empathy. A woman is warm for her children, and nobody else ever. Though she can be attracted to guys sexually. That's how it seems to me.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 04:15 AM
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Because there may be good things too about this person. Good things I already know about. Strong offsetting reasons to stay if I can handle the narcissism. Heck, it seems I am doing OK since I incorporated this understanding. It's supposed to be impossible to deal with a narcissist, after all Sam Vaknin tells you to run. And he's not only an obviously smart guy, he's a narcissist with a horrible childhood as a cause. But he's like a girl telling a guy how to get along with a girl. Girls don't kn…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 04:04 AM
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So you're thinking what? Since AWALT all chicks are narcissistic? All chicks are not?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 04:01 AM
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Indeed. And we may be underestimating the level of their self-centredness. Maybe your chick isn't narcissistic. Mine is. She got more that way after about 5 years of marriage. Have heard many similar stories.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 02:37 AM
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I just had this crazy legal thought ... We don't actually have laws since 1865 or so, but rather "statutes". Since "equal protection of the statutes" is not required, can we just start ignoring the damn 14th and say it doesn't apply to statutes? Whatever, I know this is off topic ...
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 02:32 AM
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That's interesting, but I don't know much about Texas. Did a lot of the people in Texas want to stay a part of Mexico then?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 02:25 AM
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It's coming from a female administrator in the Dept. of Education sending out Dear Colleague letters that tell schools something like they have to do this to comply with Title IX. Which is riduculous because Title IX is about sports competition. Anyway it may get better with a new president who can replace those bureaucrats with his own bureaucrats.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 02:19 AM
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I don't understand your point. If alphas start staying away from women because they don't want the risk with college girls, it's rational. The doesn't make them betas, more like MGTOW. Now the girl's vag feels like it's gonna explode if she doesn't get a cock in there. Maybe the beta is looking better. And afterward she can always say he raped her. So betas had better watch out here too. Find out the rules in enough detail to know what is defensible, and record himself (if possible) doing that r…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 02:16 AM
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You think you get to be the boss? Yeah maybe 1% of the time, overtly at least. They have egos too, and the woman stops being so much your first mate when she becomes the kids' mother. But it's a good goal to work toward rather than away from. And you have to help them toward the highest standards.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 01:59 AM
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He's hoping you'll give him grandkids. As a parent, I think that's a pretty common and fairly reasonable hope. I don't want my kids to get a raw deal, but I want them to find a way to continue the line while having a good life. It's a higher degree of difficulty than dating game. I am almost getting a degree in psychology with all I am having to learn. But it is doable, and my kids are doing me proud and starting more and more to surprise me with successes.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 01:57 AM
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To them, having kids out-of-wedlock is horrible, something that the poor people do. Or they'll get hooked into child support anyway. Expensive, complication, abnormal home life for the kids. Not a great deal. They also think that kids of divorce are destined for drug addiction, teenage pregnancy, etc.. Is that not significantly true? I think a lot of marriages could be improved if the husbands learned to see the wives as narcissistic (rp theory calls them "solipsistic" which seems about the same…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 01:55 AM
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I feel both mom and sis are narcissistic, and if dad and OP recognize it and don't provide narcissistic supply, mom and sis will turn on each other in meltdowns that will be interesting to watch from the sideline! When narcissists bully and pile on, it's not because they are happy. You see no joy or high fives after. It's an outlet for aggression that's mutually convenient for them. But if it goes away they'll be aggressive to each other. Let them, you don't owe it to them to try to help out as …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 01:48 AM
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Re #6, my younger son is going thru an Oedipal stage (early adolescence) and feels that way about me a lot. Therefore he even rebels against RP comments. So it's not so easy to pass on ideas to someone, esp. who is going thru brainwashing at school. Maybe I am "that fucker the father" now to him. But hopefully he'll outgrow this Oedipal phase. If your generation is still stuck in that, well I am not favorably impressed.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 01:44 AM
1

Married 35 years, you're 18? Is sister older or younger? They went a loooong time without any kids it seems. Probably a lot of fights then about it. I've been married 18 years and my kids are 16 and 13 so ... much faster. To me the reason for marriage is to raise kids. If you marry and she has a fertility problem or you just aren't having sex, hurry up and divorce her while it's still cheap in money and time. Don't buy the house until after the delivers. You don't need a school district til the …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 01:17 AM
2

I don't even know how to do YMY. Has anyone ever said which stages require permission? Does moving my hand one inch require permission? One foot? Touching a breast? Touching the vag? Kissing on the lips? What??
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 12:30 AM
1

This is just not accurate. I've seen counterexamples. I think a lot of really hot women figure they've got the looks thing covered. Looks don't excite them, it's not something they lack or are fascinated by. So really an ugly guy can do fine there. But he has to bring other things to the table. Assertiveness, intelligence, money, for example. Even if she doesn't get your money, the fact you have it makes you a winner, exciting, having some ability she cannot get.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 12:25 AM
1

How she feels probably depends on other things neither of you mentioned. Like, how he smells.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 12:22 AM
5

And reducing our birthrate. The elite are not reducing their own birthrate. Plenty of families in the mansions in Greenwich CT with four or five kids.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 11:51 PM
1

He chose a different path, and he did a hell of a job of it. Yes he's a real man of course. But if you have to choose between your children and their mother, it's advice to choose the children.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 07:19 PM
2

The Constitution negated half of what the colonists fought for just a few years earlier. Since it was arguably treason to the Confederation, it was done in secret, with curtains drawn, doors locked and Independence Hall guarded. None of those precautions had been necessary when they were doing the will of the people with the Declaration of Independence in the same building a few years earlier. And it even promised to pay the war debt back to England. The purpose of the Constitution and the Unite…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 07:02 PM
1

I was never as alpha as you growing up, but for me, what worked was realizing that girls aren't my mother. Don't look to girls for love and support. All my beta just vanished at that point. I am still a fairly reserved guy, but afaik without beta cues.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 06:52 PM
-4

Yeah all true. But like most of the business people, she's brighter than the pure politicians, and she doesn't have a law degree which is a plus to me. Law school grads seem to be infused with political correctness even if they weren't going in. I like Trump and Walker, not sure I trust Cruz, and am surprised how good Santorum and Huckabee are sounding, better than I remember them.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 04:51 PM
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It's too early to be attacking opponents (except Hillary). The normal strategy is to stay positive at least on the surface, until it's down to 2 or at most 3 or 4 candidates. I doubt this was strategic. She just couldn't help her bitch self from doing it.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 04:51 PM
-4

But then the gender aspects would be offtopic.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 04:49 PM
3

When you say your heart you really mean your reptilian brain. See, oneitis is just your biological drive to provision for a woman. I have never seen it expressed this well. I would upvote this 10 times if I could.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 04:36 PM
2

We all make mistakes. I've made plenty. Should other people lose respect for me? Sure if they want to, just as much for me as for you. Good luck, and I hope you get some of your own kids out of her.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 11:11 PM
6

I saw some of his videos where he was just reading off a script, and it was clear somehow that he did not write that script. He has a good presentation style which is why people watch him, but the quality is uneven and I wouldn't put it above him to draw you in and plant some bp messages.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 11:09 PM
1

The girl will assume the pic is accurate unless it's very clearly off. Ambiguity is resolved in your favor. Women are attuned to faces, and your face is exposed and is pretty constant over years. so be subtle there. Women are not so attuned to the details of what's hard to build on male physique, so a very difficult-to-achieve improvement (or reduction from her point of view when she meets you in person) will probably go unnoticed or assumed away when she does notice. You're wearing a shirt when…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 03:56 PM
0

Why not do the poor guy a favor and mention you already know her casually, and tell him about seeing her taking it in the ass from those guys. You'll save his life. And hers? Not worth saving after that. Let her roll all the way to the wall.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 05:00 AM
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She wants to be independent, but not TOO independent. I guess the last sentence she wants a guy to want her while she is being "independent". That's up to each individual guy isn't it? Surely she has no right to tell guys what to want. After all we guys know we can't tell women what they should want.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 01:32 AM
11

A Harvard degree: the admission (the hardest thing) and the tuition paid. From there as Steve Jobs' daughter, couldn't she get something in media?
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 01:17 AM
1

Does that pic actually work? Upvoting your post that goes against the usual TRP dogma.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 05:24 PM
1

Once she's ridden 200 cocks her commitment mechanism is permanently broken and she is only good for CC use.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 08:56 AM
1

Why do you call them betas? Some people on this sub think alpha is the same as tall, built, cut, aggressive, etc. No, and in fact one can be all those and be beta, and none of those things and be alpha.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 08:54 AM
1

Aren't they all, or at least most of them? And it's not because she goes into it looking for commitment. She'll fuck you if she feels the tingles. Having fucked you, she wants you to stay around. Both steps are biochemical, not rational.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 08:53 AM
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Make sure ethics is not one of the reasons. It's the wrong frame of mind for this pursuit. Cutting corners is half the fun. The girl cutting corners is the other half, because she's guaranteed to do that. I'll keep you in mind in case I ever want pix. I am an old fart married 20 years so I dunno if I'll need them but it's good to know who you are.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 01:47 AM
2

You can fix that in digitally can't you? How about you just make a v shape by stretching the distance between the shoulders 10%, tapering down to 0% change somewhere around the belly button? Regarding actual chest workouts (I think the actual hard work is less interesting than getting the same results through technology ;), I think the place to start is upper pecs. Shoulders come along automatically, then make sure you have enough back so the shoulders don't hunch together. You don't really need…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 01:39 AM
4

So hire a couple 10's for an hour, non-sexual, for those photos. Easy. If it's photos, do what people in the photo business do.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 11:19 PM
2

Get your photos enhanced by a digital artist. On Tinder you're a model. So do what models do.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 11:16 PM
2

So given that pua is quite a broad field with many techniques, most of which don't involve dressing up like Mystery, how are you not endorsing it?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 11:15 PM
2

So maybe the bulk-up hypothesis is not confirmed in your case. Actually I think it's sort of the best of both worlds to be digitally enhanced so you get the Tinder swipes, but actually skinner so you're not carrying around all that meat.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 11:13 PM
5

Take a shirt-off photo. Not enough musculature, some imperfections? No problem, do what models do. Send it to a digital artist. You can find them on modeling websites. Instructions to make upper body bigger, biceps bigger, more bulge in the crotch, whatever. It can be modified quite a lot and still be you when you show up fully clothed for your woman to meet you. I would imagine facial edits would have to be fairly subtle, but a good artist will know how far you can push that too. This will do a…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 11:09 PM
5

And how many decades have you been married? I mean, all in one marriage, not split among 4 marriages.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 07:21 AM
13

Good luck with that thru 20 years of real life esp. if there are kids. There will be good times but also rough times. Rough times don't excuse her breaking her commitment. Yeah sure legally she can, but she did vow "for better or worse" and she's breaking a solemn vow. So be it, however she chooses to hamster it.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 07:20 AM
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I think every wife goes through Stage 1. Some keep their vows and discover that, lo and behold, the system works, and their feelings return, even if takes until the children are out of the house and she's out of "mother" mode. Some women don't keep their vows. They progress through the other stages and self-justify it aggressively.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 07:17 AM
0

Except, whatever the woman feels, it is not rape. Of any sort. At all.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 07:14 AM
-1

Then he would have said that.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 07:05 AM
1

There's also cold empathy. Empathy doesn't have to include sympathy. In fact "game" is indirectly like empathy, using the way a woman is probably feeling based on clues you observe and many men's experience. You can develop actual empathy, as you use your masculine power to lead the relationship successfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 06:37 AM
3

And yet I am willing to do it, so that others aren't the only ones creating the next generation.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 06:31 AM
3

I was her Chad. Most good marriages start this way. It's still had ups and downs. Not every stretch is Chad-like. Do you think I should go without sex in those periods? Fuck you if you do.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 06:29 AM
1

He made some good points. I think he empathized fairly accurately, at least a part of her feelings. Empathy is good. It can help you to be more effective in whatever you want to do. Where he went wrong was in calling it rape. I can't legitimize that or condone that talk in any way.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 06:27 AM
1

Feelings can change in a long marriage. The "seven year itch" is very real. Very few of these rp dudes here have even been that far. For me it was well over a decade ago,.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 06:25 AM
0

No, he said it is rape. Which is wrong.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 06:23 AM
-1

So you're talking about mainly very LTRs and long term marriages and that ho hum feeling ... How many such relationships have you actually done yourself, before you preach about people who have done more than you?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 06:23 AM
-1

If someone is white-knighting for OP and fixing his post, one could say that. But that isn't what he wrote. What he wrote is wrong.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 06:21 AM
-1

But OP isn't saying the woman "feels" raped. He's saying that she "is", in some way, raped. And that is simply, utterly, wrong and incorrect.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 06:19 AM
0

Because as an alpha, I'll just say clearly that OP is full of shit. And a lot of apologists are trying to fix his inexcusable post.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 06:18 AM
3

Understand that other women are not your mother and you should not seek comfort from them. Rather, using your logical male mind, you use techniques that cause them to be attracted to you. You just became an alpha. Go and have a fun life.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 05:51 AM
2

16 in Connecticut, 17 in New York, I am pretty sure.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 05:41 AM
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It is what happened. It just isn't illegal. The judge seems to be sentencing this guy for something he doesn't approve of, that's legal. That could be a ground for an appeal, saying the judge showed his prejudice. The illegal thing is that the girl was 14 even though she lied and said she was 17. The judge did not appear so outraged about that. The unfortunate thing is that the judge may have discretion to be harsh in sentencing based entirely on his personal opinion, his dislike of hooking up b…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 05:40 AM
2

Judge showed he's prejudiced by saying there's no excuse for legal behavior.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 05:35 AM
-4

Or, they don't like big muscles. But this sub is so clued in that we can't admit that that might be true of many women.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 05:17 AM
1

Excellent clear analysis. The pussy decides who she is willing to have sex with, at least at first. How many long term married men, esp. with kids, think that same excitement is maintained when the kids are 8 and 10, she's heavy into mother mode, life's ups and downs have included a few downs, and so on. She promised "for better or worse" so when it's worse and she does her part, it is not rape. It is her life, her family, her commitment. If we say men are less willing to give commitment, is it …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 05:08 AM
1

Yes this sub is actually full of deluded pathetic people, working away in the gym to become what women want, trying to be more manly than the next guy. And then they're surprised when despite all their muscles and hobbies, she cucks them. They say AWALT when some people without all the lifting don't get cucked.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 05:04 AM
-1

And these other guys aren't man enough like you are?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 05:02 AM
-4

He writes well. He's just wrong, at least in this case, completely utterly wrong. What he describes is not rape.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 05:01 AM
-1

Nah. The comments are agreeing with it, not taking it ironically. And OP's followup comments too. Nope, OP is going to get blamed for what he said, because he said it.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 04:59 AM
-1

It is not a form of rape. It is not rape. As with all other misuses of the word, it is unfair to the man and does a disservice to women who are actually raped. Do not use the word rape. OP is full of shit.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 04:57 AM
7

But do you feel bad for the men who get prosecuted after doing what they thought they were allowed to do: have sex with their wife who isn't saying no.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 04:55 AM
1

And some of us knew what you know 20 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 04:53 AM
0

How exactly would this help? Help a guy trying to fuck someone else's wife? Maybe someone will fuck your wife.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 04:52 AM
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OP is so full of shit. Consensual sex is consensual sex. Easy divorce is possible in all 50 states. Doing something you don't want to because of other reasons is called being an adult. We all pay taxes and don't want to do that. Some people think their solemn marital promise is what it says it is, legal outs notwithstanding. These are all adult points of view. /u/Archwinger is a white knight. The lack of scorn for his post really reduces my respect for this sub. Some idiot gave him gold. And its…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 04:46 AM
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She wants women to be able to cocktease better. Fuck her.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 11:12 PM
2

I am suprised. But that's the answer right there. I will try that question.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 11:08 PM
3

I don't think I could do it. It's too cold, if she was throwing you a party the next day. She had basically moved in, but I guess she did it without full territorial rights. Territorial rights are very important to a female. Hence the meltdown when the other female invaded, and that other female's smugness at the invasion. You survived inducing a primal female conflict on your territory.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 07:22 PM
3

I thought dread game was whenever you induced dread. There's an element of it when you approach a group of women and talk to one of them, even though others are attracted to you. The women will generally do a little of the crabs-in-a-barrel thing to vie for your attention, if you let them -- which can't be a bad idea. After all how can you choose the best one without giving them a chance to compete?
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 06:52 PM
2

Cluing him in behind the scenes, not letting her dominate him while he's inexperienced, is always good if he's willing to hear it. If she hates it, good. If she hates you, defend yourself but keep it up, you're helping your friend.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 04:41 PM
4

That's why they hate you. You're cluing your boy in. But I think there's something else you should realize, and clue him into. There's some Oedipal attraction there. You're the father figure, the girl is the mother figure, and this boy is attracted to the mother and rejects the father. (He's still thinking like a boy in his family, but now it's time to think like a man in the world. And how one treats women is the hardest adjustment here.) Why isn't this a good thing? Because it won't work FOR H…
/r/askTRP02/08/15 04:21 PM
1

How can it be impossible to get rid of a fetish for high socks? I surely doubt it's genetic since cavemen and cavewomen didn't have socks at all. Can't you learn to enjoy different porn?
/r/askTRP02/08/15 04:04 PM
1

Watch different porn. Seriously, nofap is too much self control for me. If I want to jerk off to porn I do it. But I am repelled by the idea of submission. If that's the sort of shit you're watching, delete that and watch anything else.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 04:02 PM
5

Read about the Oedipus complex. Realize that you'll never have love from another woman like you got from your mother. No not even your wife. Your mother didn't love your father (even assuming an excellent nuclear family) like she loved her children. Now realize you've got to go out and attract the women you want, which really isn't that hard when you stop treating them like your mother. While learning, try treating them the opposite from how you would treat your mother. (That may feel disrespect…
/r/askTRP02/08/15 03:53 PM
2

Freud is pretty redpill stuff. Understand Oedipal attraction to your mother, and understanding that you need to see all other women differently so they are attracted to you, is about as fundamental as it gets in rp. Someone called that "the hardest pill to swallow". I think it may be the only pill you need to swallow. Do that, and all your beta behavior will vanish. The trouble is (surprise surprise) that therapy (psychoanalysis) is out of fashion and hard to find now. Instead you get behavioral…
/r/askTRP02/08/15 03:40 PM
1

Getting the kind that does dig into your past is hard these days. But it sounds like what might help you the most. Why don't you try a "psychoanalyst" if you can find one any more, or other "psychodynamic" therapy? Behavioral therapy, which is the current trend, is all about behaving better, but it seems to me that's just cheap and easy. In our competitive and declining society, we no longer try to fix problems, but tell people how to paper them over so they can perform better! How hard is it fo…
/r/askTRP02/08/15 03:33 PM
1

You're talking about building up your own attraction. Usually guys are sure they are interested in fucking. Hey it's a challenge. Do you ever do challenging things? You say you played sports and played chess, those are hard things where you tried to win. Well here's another. Usually when we talk about attaction, it's about building up their attraction to us! And coincidentally, it's often helpful if we can be rather coldly logical in that attraction building process. It's NOT a process of mutual…
/r/askTRP02/08/15 03:19 PM
1

You don't know if you can get an erection without getting to know her first? To ask bluntly, how do you even know what it takes to get an erection in bed with a girl? You say you've never been there. I can only speak for myself, which seems to follow what a lot of guys report i.e. almost everybody. It's sort of taken as given. Guys get turned on visually, or by fantasies of domination. Bernie Sanders (yes the US senator from Vermont who is running for president) even made a comment about this ye…
/r/askTRP02/08/15 03:02 PM
1

I survived pretty long there but eventually got banned on r/relationships. It's entertaining so I posted quite a lot, whereas here is a bit of an echo chamber. First they shadowbanned me. I was spending time crafting good replies, and I noticed they weren't getting any comments or up or downvotes and msg'ed the mods asking if I had been shadowbanned. They replied with a formal ban and never explained it. Assholes. And in their ban msg. they say reddit terms of service forbid getting around a ban…
/r/askTRP02/08/15 02:45 PM
2

Easy. Date them both. That way you give both of them a chance. You should be fair to the new one who never gave you any shit. Stop white knighting for a girl who broke up with you!!
/r/askTRP02/08/15 02:33 PM
1

And aging population. And increasing Asian competition generally to sell to big markets. And a shortage of arable land. And a worsening problem with their fish supply as you say. It's just hard to see the upside. The radioactivity will just accumulate I guess.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 04:06 AM
1

Cool. You can build your life up and enjoy it uncommitted for 10 years, then date girls from the next generation if you start to want it.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 03:42 AM
1

Can you move out to a different community? You'll benefit from your good businesslike habits and have a lot of choices, and you'll find nonblacks who are relieved you're not trying to play some trick. From what I've heard, a lot of black women are going for white men. If that's true, are you looking inter-racially as well? If not, I imagine you would be chickbait because these chicks say they are looking for an establishment guy. Maybe they'll think you're beta but beta game can work pretty well…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 03:29 AM
3

Sounds like she's cute too. I am no expert but I would guess it's your job, as the man, to text with next instructions. Hey meet me at xxx at xxx time ...
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 03:20 AM
7

I've never heard that a girl would inflate her partner count. But you handled the end part very effectively. Kudos.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 03:15 AM
21

But from what I've heard, the Mormon girl won't cuck you and you get those 4 kids, and little worry about their real paternity. It's a much better deal than a lot of guys end up with.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 03:11 AM
4

It freed men from the ownership of other men. And the female and child slaves too. No, indeed the Civil War wasn't about that.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 02:37 AM
1

As Emporian says, you've got it backwards about the sex ratio. Boys are preferred to girls, so people would secretly kill girl fetuses and hope for a boy later. (Such ultrasound was illegal but done anyway.)
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 02:25 AM
3

They may not fuck the alpha. I think they might see it as a loss of their value, some of the women anyway. They are materialistic and narcissistic. This materialism provides some protection from falling for Chad Thundercock. Some of them would just consider him garbage, rather than their vaginas overruling their brains. But probably some would fuck him. These women must talk this way because they can. They are talking very tough aren't they? But when they hit 25 years old, their actions may not …
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 02:23 AM
2

Some female friend that was. As I say, women are moralistic with each other. Guys will white knight for women where other women will throw them under the bus without a thought.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 02:07 AM
1

Girls will rat each other out to you, if you just stop believing there's some sort of "sisterhood" they belong to. I guess it's the same mechanism as preselection: their instinct is to fight against each other, and they tend to be moralistic with each other, at least by my observation. Have standards, and women will support your standards and rat each other out when they don't meet them.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 02:03 AM
2

It was this dude's fault because you imagine he was skinny and didn't have hobbies or whatever he's supposed to do according to folks here? He had a deal. He honored his deal. He had enough respect from his cousin that she ratted this girl out. He dumped her. Sounds to me like he had preselection working for him as well as being worth the long relationship. Who's to say more muscles and hobbies would have helped? That's completely off point.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 11:48 PM
1

So do most true life stories involving females.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 11:45 PM
2

We can invite him to join. But he can probably teach most of us. His reaction under the circumstances was consistently good enough. And that's all a man needs.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 11:45 PM
2

No wonder she didn't have tingles for him. Years of enforced celibacy, even if mutual, can do that. In traditional societies, this girl would be stoned to death or something. This would cause her to defer and keep her promise, despite lack of tingles. Dread can substitute for tingles. Without that, it just seems damn hard to pretend we're in a traditional society when this place is turning into Sodom and Gomorrah. For a moment she was made to forget that a missing hymen is evidence of something …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 11:17 PM
1

Deleted now, but apparently it was written in English. Maybe an English speaker will be stupid.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 08:00 PM
2

The math isn't quite right but the idea is. In NY I think you have to support them until 21. And your kids don't come on the marriage day. Certainly not the second or any later ones. I'm married 19 years and my younger is 14. So I could hypothetically be obligated for up to 7 years of CS. But I'm still in the game, and every year I hold things together is better for everyone psychologically.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 07:45 PM
1

That hasn't been my experience. As a long term married guy, deep in the late innings of a game of narcissistic chess with the wife and kids, i.e. a survivor of the marital wars, I've never gotten deleted that I know of. I've said many times that by refusing to have kids, we just take our genes out of the pool. What a wonderful "red pill" that is. They can convince us that's so cool, and we do their population control for them, while others get to produce the next generation. The trick isn't to g…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 07:40 PM
3

Singapore is not the hinterlands. It's about the most cosmopolitan city in the world. Lee Kwan Yew, a real rp alpha, was probably keeping it conservative while he was in charge, but that was a while ago. Anyway she isn't divorce raping, which is a lot better than lots of guys marrying American girls report. A whole lot better.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 07:35 PM
3

Obama said he's going to spring people wrongly convicted. Here's a guy wrongly convicted, he's even black. Well, Barack?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 02:58 AM
1

Since there are no kids, she was unfaithful (documented) and the prenup is clear (and presumably she was not rushed into it), I think there's no leeway for the family court. All the lawyers here say that if she is shown to have been represented on her side of the prenup (he doesn't say this) with adequate time before the wedding (say 2 months) then the prenup will be enforced, except for child support issues. (The state decides child support, the divorcing people don't get to tell the court what…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 05:07 PM
1

I think he did rather well. He stayed "incognito" until way more than sufficient evidence was gathered. After that, well he's not a machine. And it didn't matter. It may have induced her to commit a crime by slandering the ex-boss. She will have to testify in that one (unless she takes the fifth and then it's hard for her to contest her guilt), and the testimony can be used against her in divorce court. It's time to use the prenup. And he must not sleep with her. In NY, sleeping with a known che…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 04:59 PM
2

There isn't much sex when women are nursing. If I recall correctly (it's been a long time), it even reduces the lubrication, and the woman doesn't ovulate. He's doing great. Once those chicks start ovulating again, they'll probably be competing like mad for him.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 04:19 PM
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Well Dani's the butch / masculine of the two women, but she's reduced to the beta butch. Maybe she has a good job bringing money. She's conventionally intelligent and articulate, saying all the right things about the situation she finds herself in. A real team player. Melinda is the dominant one of the women who forced a man into the picture. The manipulative bitch. And the guy, he just sits back there and says very little, and enjoys two wives. Melinda's manipulation is focused on Dani while he…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 04:12 PM
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Dani's the butch. Look at that hair. (She has gone more butch recently, she used to have long hair.) Melinda is the femme who is "pretty much straight" in Dani's words. Melinda decided she wanted a real man not a fake one. Dani wasn't man enough for her. But she was willing to let Dani hang around and gain continued narcissistic supply from her. As someone else says, she seems totally cold to Dani, "corporate".
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 04:07 PM
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Deadbedrooms is easy to explain. They can't fuck without a toy! Women normally can't get along with each other. We can't get along with them either, but there's no point for them. If a girl has a lot of male hormones or something, she might want to be a butch. Who would be the femme though? I believe there was a real problem that eventually the femmes figured out there's a whole world of real men out there.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 03:56 PM
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I missed the "banding together" part. They are together because of this herd instinct they seem to have. But it's key for men not to be intimidated by that. Just march right in there and separate them. Yes, this means you. It's something they like, that they cannot do themselves. Have you read any of the threads over on r / relationships by women who are having any sort of problem with another woman -- whether they are fucking the same guy, or they just compete in any way at all, or not even rea…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 01:34 PM
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PUA is a way for male (and female) spergs to pass for non-spergs. That's a great thing for us, and I don't apologize for it at all. There's a TRP contingent on here who happen to have been born with great physique and/or invested years of solitary work in the gym to get it, who don't like that. As a woman, do you think they are largely women who want "the real thing" and not spergs who thought and acted their way out of sperg-dom? Or maybe white knight men with the same mission, to protect their…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 05:01 PM
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The official description of TRP is that it's about sexual strategy. The question of how much to emphasize that in your life is beyond the described purpose of this sub, I think.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 04:55 PM
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Who is "catching out" these PUA's? Do you have any examples to point to?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 04:53 PM
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We're manipulating, but it's no different than a teacher manipulates a student to get her to do homework, or a salesman manipulates your wife to get her to buy a refrigerator from him. Or a woman manipulates you by putting on makeup and perfume. These are agreed to be permissible manipulation, the way things get done in our society.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 04:52 PM
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Well they're doing business. RSD rakes in a lot of money. If they guys there became specimens of physique, it would (should) hurt their business. People would say "I have to look like that to get the results, the rest is bullshit." So for them it's no longer about getting women. As successful businessmen who are on the radar screens of lots of women, I bet they can get lots of slutty women regardless, just because of women's competitive instinct against other women. And probably some not so slut…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 04:49 PM
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So to you TRP is about obtaining results, that probably anyone would respect, that do not include sex. What you are doing is not sexual strategy, great as it is. And therefore I think it doesn't belong on this sub. Please read the official description of this sub.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 04:45 PM
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Each of those above is hard, except for 7. And if you have one or two tricks, you can perhaps skip them all. Seems like the tricks might be worth a try, before or while spending years in the gym and other extremely hard and ascetic work on self improvement. Otherwise, while you're manning up in the gym, some asshole is going to be fucking the women. Be that asshole.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 04:42 PM
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Great post. I learned something. And I have an artist in the family. Now, engineering is a place in your head that women can't get to either. Test results have shown they can't get those skills themselves. But the output isn't so interesting. It's too FAR from female thinking. Artists produce interesting objects, or sounds, that appeal on a female level but display your masculine sensibility and ability. The artist I spoke up uses a lot of scientific and engineering principles to create the phys…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 04:33 PM
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3 says men are supposed to help women, obligated and should not expect a reward. TRP (as I see it) says the reverse. Men have no obligation to help women. If they want sex with women, there are some things they can do to get more of it. (As it happens, helping is usually not one of those things.) They are entitled to expect that reward, not to the point of breaking any law to get it, but certainly shouldn't do those things if they don't produce some desired result.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 04:26 PM
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Not the ones that waste their time posting as angry feminists. They don't talk about it at all, because they are competing with other women for the guys they want and the life they want. Like normal people. I think quite a few, can't prove it atm.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 04:03 AM
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Yes.
/r/MensRights29/07/15 04:02 AM
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I would see it as negative that they've taken their eye off the ball to hire racially. The "press" is full of PC types who don't think that way, but you can imagine how much I care about their PC opinions. I think there are many like me. Such "good press" may not be a positive for the stock price or sales.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 08:08 PM
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"Princeton Mom" has given them great advice in this famous RP letter, hated by feminists worldwide. They should nail down a man on campus. The advice doesn't just apply to elite schools either. http://dailyprincetonian.com/opinion/2013/03/letter-to-the-editor-advice-for-the-young-women-of-princeton-the-daughters-i-never-had/
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 06:12 PM
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If she were an attorney she would have the job environment and money to wear heels, a good outfit, strategic makeup etc. If she's behind the counter in a McUniform, she won't have any of this and will look like shit. And remember, women are buoyed up. They have a hard time climbing up when they are down, and (maybe this is male privilege but whatever) they look bad and are said to be bitches when they try. The other females at their level pull them down. Oh well it's not my fault. Some win, some…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 06:05 PM
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The new thing is that the girl can decide the day or week after that it was really rape and invoke the college kangaroo court system. This is really great for the girls, at least a certain kind of girls. Is this what they're looking back on fondly? In the real world, the cops will expect you to do a rape kit and you have to prove it was rape, or he walks.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 05:59 PM
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If they could, parents would force their kids to make good choices like studying engineering. But parents are not allowed to do that. Due to FERPA the kids can even refuse to let us see their grades. This has got to be a scheme to cause failures and out of control college students, majoring in feminist studies and such, to keep those departments in business.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 05:51 PM
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Well engineering is a lot harder than most majors, with a few weedout courses, for example calculus based physics. Can you learn to translate a physical problem to equations, then use the rules of mathematical language to solve that equation? There are two or three things that most people find too hard to learn. It's easiest to do as much of this as possible in high school, where AP courses go at half the speed of college freshman courses. If you can overcome this hurdle, the rest is maybe nicer…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 05:46 PM
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To me the PIV penetration count is important. Only that causes the woman's body to release oxytocin to bond her to a man. Those are the guys she might fantasize about. Those are the guys who injected their DNA. (Does swallowing cum have the same effect of DNA transfer? I would assume not since it goes thru the digestive system, and we don't absorb DNA when we eat a steak do we?) It was good to probe alternative forms of sex she may have had, but I would want to have the PIV only total broken out…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 05:36 PM
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OK so you know the facts. Modify your behavior accordingly. You can have a side job trying to change the world, but until you succeed, I sincerely recommend being as effective as you can in the world as it is. Women don't expect men to notice or adapt to this situation, so I think you get an advantage if you do. Entirely deserved!
/r/MensRights27/07/15 05:21 PM
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How could this post get downvoted!? Only if some trolls are trying to make this sub less useful to men. It's full of truth. Big muscles denote hard work in the gym. Women don't get wet because of your hard work. A rangy athletic frame is surely more attractive, but well I don't have that. Women may date you because of intellectual reasons, but if they aren't attracted, you'll be their beta bucks. You can get some pussy that way with beta game but ffs don't marry it. Marry a woman if she's attrac…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 02:32 PM
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But I wonder if there's a pickup advantage to the metrosexual look i.e. TRP musclemen are going the wrong direction.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 02:22 PM
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It's an old practice. People would hire a lactating woman called a "wetnurse".
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 12:36 PM
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Women don't communicate anyway. It's either some sort of scripted exchange, often about feelz, or it starts getting bitchy real fast if there's no man around.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 12:34 PM
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You are imagining all this. Attraction must be maintained with game techniques, if it can be maintained at all. I read of PUA guys dumping girls, or having an accident and dropping a plate when they are spinning too many. But solid TRP frame-holders seem to get dumped more often than those skinny-fat PUA guys. Totally third hand stats here, but the LTR game stuff, and how it get even harder and more important when kids come, I know from personal experience.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 12:46 AM
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I've read enough stories of built cut TRP guys on here who got dumped after a while. I am not at all sure what's taught here constitutes adequate LTR game.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 12:42 AM
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Yeah so what. And women have a lot of secrets they hide too. What matters most is winning, within the law, and however she feels later is how she feels later. A lot of "naturals" seem to get dumped too or have weird female shit happen to them. It's the battle of the sexes. They have a defense for you to attack. It has to be a little hard to win. Your genetic survival is at stake.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 12:38 AM
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Disaster in one bar. Fine, go to another bar after that.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 12:34 AM
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Having exercised, you still won't know what to do with the chick, other than stand with good posture and display your muscles and "frame" I suppose. Seems like a good way to get AMOG'ed.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 12:33 AM
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I think they can benefit from some early success. The reason for monk mode is emotional, because nothing you do during it is required for some success. You can use monk mode to process your experience and refocus, but first you should get some experience and try some of the initially crazy seeming ideas of PUA -- and start to see them work for you.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 12:31 AM
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I've seen a lot of ugly guys get a lot of poon. But then I am not good looking so maybe you get much more than I did when I was single.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 12:29 AM
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how are there still so many guys out there who dont understand physical attraction is based on looks and ALWAYS has been since caveman days and always will be.. Because it's based just as much on smell. Confidence is key too. How can people not understand what you say with your wall of text? Because it's fundamentally wrong. Missing ways that guys can get lots of success even if they don't look great. Some guys on here seem to think that's fundamentally wrong and shouldn't be. But it is, and the…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 12:25 AM
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That's all fine, but you can get your dick wet before doing much of that. And those techniques will become a part of your charm even after you add muscle and hobbies.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 12:23 AM
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But TRP as discussed here minimizes very important parts of PUA. To be honest, if there's a beginner and I want him to have some success in short time (as he should), he should start with PUA. If I had to have only PUA or only TRP as discussed here, PUA wins. TRP is maybe another more arduous and complete way to improve yourself, but if you want pussy you should have pussy.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 12:21 AM
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That stuff is good for giving you examples of things that work, that you would not think of. Giving you ideas, getting the inexperienced dweeb out of his comfort zone, getting him some experience of at least partial success. Then if you're like me, with very imperfect memory, you start making it up as you go along anyway.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 10:54 PM
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Briffault's Law is crap. Sometimes I think this sub is about female empowerment, with such female friendly ideas. A woman decides in a few seconds if she'll fuck you. If a woman is deciding that fast, it's her vagina not her logical brain doing the deciding. So do one or two things that communicate directly with that part of the woman, when you first meet her. (You can also de-friendzone yourself, if you act like a man who doesn't belong in the friendzone. It rarely happens because gameless men …
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 10:52 PM
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And indeed the sub's description is that it's about "sexual strategy". We should stick more to that.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 10:48 PM
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What truth would they deny? That it's probably better to be assertive and be muscular and cut, than to be skinny-fat (oops, a game term I think) and a white knight feminist? Of course they would not deny that. But they show that you don't HAVE to spend a year or three in the gym to start having success. Start having success, then add gym if YOU want to go to the gym.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 10:47 PM
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Wrong. Simply wrong. I am short, I've always had some money and status, I am a nerd. And I got all the female entanglements I wanted after I figured out a bit of game. This was before the game lit. was published. I observed women, put myself in their shoes and figured out how they must be experiencing things to produce the reactions they gave. Then I stopped treating them on an intellectual level and started interacting with the machine I imagined I was facing. A woman decides in a few seconds i…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 10:39 PM
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You're both so insanely high value that you should have female ass crawling all over you. The fact that you have to work for it means we have a matriarchal society here. Someone divorced /u/projectself or made him divorce her? Hell, go to Ukraine and get some.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 10:26 PM
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Usually it's the girl who wants to LTR and cling in this situation. Use this chance to meet some new Italian chickies. Foreigners often have things go fast for them. To them you're exotic.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 10:24 PM
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If you happen to have that right "self" already, great. For the rest of us, we can allow ourselves to emulate and pretend. Like learning a language. Pretend to be the man who will be successful in a given situation. Women in attraction situations are extraordinarily shallow. Use that fact.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 10:21 PM
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It's stupid to make that a long process if you can start faking it quickly, make a few awkward mistakes perhaps, and surprisingly quickly (3 approaches? Doesn't take long.) you're up and running with a new persona that works better. Successful people have different personas for different roles in their life. Do you think Bill Clinton talked the same (1) to Monica, (2) to Hillary, and (3) during a political speech?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 10:19 PM
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the greater the love, the greater the hurt and the greater the reaction Definitely so. The "good" thing is that if you make it past the first couple of rounds of this, you start to care less and hence can control yourself more easily the next time. And hence narcissistic behavior spreads. It's a survival trait.
/r/MensRights26/07/15 03:15 PM
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You think she was killed on the roadside? I watched the video and she did go very quiet. A cop should not fall for the provocation. But she was doing everything to provoke him. Playing the race card, the sex card, just generally being as obnoxious as possible, as well as not following an apparently lawful order. Perhaps he should have just waited until backup arrived, then he would have had more control. It took an awful long time for backup to show up.
/r/MensRights26/07/15 02:04 PM
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Yup. Well I am glad to say I didn't fall for the provocation, but it was certainly there. Wife goes to a session with a therapist with one of our kids. The therapist was the kid's regular therapist, but wife had never been before. Therapist says something that she misinterprets to mean that I am thinking of leaving her. Within a day or two she's trying to get me to hit that kid, and trash-talking about me to them when she thinks I am asleep and not listening. True story. Took me a few days after…
/r/MensRights26/07/15 01:57 PM
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Are those tats on her right shoulder? Or varicose veins? Ugh!
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 08:58 PM
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The producer was trying to be nice. With women that's usually a mistake. He could have avoided the issue by saying, correctly, that she's just not attractive enough. (And never was.)
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 08:57 PM
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Yes but the women compete with each other. I am glad that men don't compete on this dimension. The crazy entitlement of mediocre women in this society means they don't have to compete with each other enough. It is indeed out of balance. But there's a whole world out there, that generally likes American men and doesn't like American women. It's said to be so cheesy to go overseas, and it does present some problems. But it's an option American women don't have, because there is no country where th…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 08:54 PM
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The quality of male sperm and female eggs is equally important to the genetic quality of the offspring. The woman's unique competence is in carrying and nursing babies, and generally taking care of young children, up to maybe age 10. Since men have a wider range if IQ, perhaps the man's sperm is more important than which female egg it enters, genetically. Just a thought. So I never bought this idea of Briffault's law, or that men are expendable. I just proved it's not so. But the man is supposed…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 08:43 PM
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I do work my ass off though. And I know I am worth more. That's basically your pitch right there, especially the second part. You can prove the second part by getting a competing offer, or (perhaps less effectively) with a wall of words.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 08:18 PM
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The same comment I have about a lot of the stuff on this sub. It could have been written by a woman looking to have guys improve themselves for her sake. Be great. Be a top man, better than most men, otherwise don't bother her. Do nothing special. In other words, be yourself. Initiate. If she likes it, great. If she doesn't, don't bother her and go away quietly. Have no more than 2 girls at once (explanation promised later.) Just enough to proof yourself to both of them. Does this post really sa…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 07:05 AM
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I am willing to go deeper, without denigrating the virtue. It wasn't easy what she did, there were many paths that could have been tempting. Some noble souls come in female bodies. I believe we do have souls. Most women seem to be largely ruled by their vaginas (and hence AWALT, at least there is a tendency) but some overcome it. And if they eventually fail, heroic men can eventually fail too. That tells you something about my theory, which I find to be consistent with at least most of what I re…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 03:15 AM
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A couple points: (1) I don't believe he is known to have gotten caught cheating. That seems to be a meme among participants that is not confirmed by OP. (2) The son is likely in the throes of a bit of Oedipus complex so he wants to outdo his dad. So I should cut him a break there. But only to the extent of allowing he may grow up. I will mercilessly call a wrong a wrong and tell him he is out of line, because that will preserve sanity and help him learn -- much as he will hate it at first.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 03:09 AM
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Most women are actually sexually attracted to other women but choose to partner up with men for other reasons Did you actually mean this as written? It's profoundly untrue. Between most women there is a sort of repulsion. (Related, female "friendship" is a shallow and tenuous thing -- that repulsion keeps things at arm's length. Women see each other as objects.) You seem to think women are just all ready to be lesbians. It will never never happen. Lose that fantasy or that fear. You, a guy, don'…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 03:01 AM
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Yes you're right now I see it. Thanks for pointing that out.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 01:41 AM
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Well I don't know if you need evidence, but it can definitely help. Conviction without ever having met the girl (hence the only sort of evidence that would matter is an alibi that you were somewhere far away) does paint a scary picture. Yes it does suck. No doubt about that.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 01:29 AM
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And you don't think their own words should be used against them do you? That would be too ... effective.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 01:10 AM
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*Oh, and before you go all "not all socialists like that", please see this image. This is brilliant. In fact the whole post is brilliant.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 12:01 AM
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Or look beyond our national borders. That has worked well for a lot of men, though there are issues to be aware of before allowing commitment.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 11:52 PM
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Gay women I've seen have been defeated women who probably do not attract a man. Whereas some hot-bod cut guys seem to be gay. Very few lesbians are that way by choice, in my observation. Maybe they're all hiding from me. The female imperative to pair bond and have children is very strong, which is why society provides cradle-to-wall coverage of psyops to them designed to prevent it. Once they've passed menopause nobody cares about them any more.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 11:45 PM
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If they read the feminist comments, they are told to wait til 30 because of 1000 different reasons. And if I point out they'll be less attractive to men they might want then, my comment is quickly downvoted to where it's no longer visible, and far beyond.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 11:39 PM
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You write very well, including the emails or texts or whatever those were with her.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 07:01 AM
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I'd say the chances of her finding you when she is pregnant and forcing you to give a DNA sample are pretty small. (Does anyone know of DNA taken on an international warrant, or an extradition to give a DNA sample?) Still, wrapping up is the right advice.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 06:49 AM
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Well then, release the women's profile data and if those women don't actually exist, it's no harm / no foul. And for the women who do exist, well they were clients. Unless they were employees or otherwise paid, which makes them more like prostitutes.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 01:35 AM
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Blaming the victim eh? Not very RP to fall for doing that. It's gonna be interesting.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 01:24 AM
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If you look at a pussy from the rear, it can look like the pages of a book. Nah women are the books, and I think Briffault's law is crap. Women have "agency" whatever that means, but a woman is strongly strongly influenced by what her vagina is involuntarily telling her.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 04:54 PM
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Relationships aren't really meant to last. Biologically, you meet a woman, there's mutual attraction, you fuck and spread your seed, you take care of them until the baby or babies are a few years old, then you're supposed to move on. If you stay, eventually the wife despises you (seven year itch) and eventually the kids despise you. Yeah you can do LTR game but after a while, what's the point? Because really you were supposed to go do it again and spread your seed again. And this is for even the…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 12:31 PM
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This sounds like the school disciplinary system for suspensions, that unfortunately one of my sons faced. The judge is hired by the district and his job is to convict. He does so, 100% of the time. But there is some sort of appeal system available under state law, and there you can get a real review of your case. Seems exactly like what you describe as the South Korean criminal justice system.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 05:37 AM
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As a newbie it was going to take you a while to calibrate anyway. Don't blame us for that, blame yourself if anyone. AWALT expresses a fundamental, though not absolute, truth. All women have certain tendencies. Some women overcome some of them, somewhat. My understanding of the science is that all women have vaginas and female hormones, and female brain structure. Hence they all have those tendencies. They also have logical brains to a greater or lesser degree, and willpower to a greater or less…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 12:19 AM
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Not to my knowledge, at least not as egregiously. And maybe some colleges did and some didn't. Now Obama has instructed all to do it.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 12:15 AM
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I think the dear colleague letters specify appropriate punishments. After all we want the women to feel safe! And if you have such a system and ignore cases obviously (for sure these cases will be brought to you by girls who want revenge and white knights, including those in the administration) then the university can obviously be at risk. So no, once the system is in place, it will be used. The only way out is for the judges in the system to declare that the evidence standard is not reached and…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 12:14 AM
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As far as I can tell, this isn't particularly a money grab, but rather a political wind coming from the highest levels including the UN, the Pope and the people who put Obama in office and tell him what to do. It's designed to reduce the birthrate and handicap alpha males with the best genetics. I'd say it will be effective, because men now will optimally pursue other sexual strategies involving townies or just not fucking girls. It can also be influenced to be enforced in a racially biased way.…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 12:08 AM
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Female rapists don't even have to sign up for the registry. Is that true? Got a link? I've heard of women having to register as sex offenders, so if this is true I didn't know it.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 12:05 AM
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This is intentional from Obama's Dept. of Education and Dept. of Justice. It might get reduced by a better president but that's likely to be slow, because the UN, the Pope and all the rest seem to be behind this type of political correctness. Record your encounters. Best to fuck girls who are not attending the same college, if that gets you out of this "injustice system" run by the college.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 12:03 AM
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Yeah Paglia's great. Maybe she sees the world the way I do because we both like women sexually -- she is a real lesbian rather than a political one. And she doesn't hate men at all, she just isn't after sex with us.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 11:44 PM
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The USA is uniquely resistant to attributing proper importance to race. The French, being less polite, have been willing to talk plainly about it. And nonwhite people have no such fears at all.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 11:40 PM
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Roissy, a wonderful writer in English, also has a French name. Wonder if they're the same guy.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 11:39 PM
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I don't think the rape prosecution process is quite so unfair -- granted I have no experience even from people I know so I might be talking out of my ass. But it's my impression that if you bring evidence into court you can get yourself off. Like using a dropcam during the leadup to sex. (If there's no problem, never mention that film. If there is, bring it out and confess to unauthorized recording.) In fact women often complain they can't prosecute because they didn't do a rapekit soon enough. …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 09:13 PM
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But then he had to kill himself. If the system took care of this, he wouldn't have to do that.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 09:05 PM
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He doesn't know if it's his. Nobody does. The right thing to do, it seems to me, is for him to speak to her privately and for her to arrange a paternity test. If it's her husband's, then fine. (The guy can provide a sample of his DNA. If it's not a match, then hopefully we can assume it's the husbands, or it may be easy for her to get a sample of his DNA discreetly, around the house.) If it's his, then the wife has to own up to her behavior (she would be found out immediately if he reported it a…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 09:02 PM
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Yes. It's amazing how far total honesty can get, but sometimes a bit of reserve and strategy is fun and effective too.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 08:50 PM
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She was probably introducing you to her beta orbiter. Don't wish you could trade places with him. Well done!
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 08:48 PM
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Mods, have the powers that be ever hinted that this sub may be banned? Because I think this whole discussion is a big circle jerk. Nah we're not gonna be banned. We've got enough shills to make it PG13 here. But I have noticed game related threads being deleted, like the one where the guy asks directions on college campus and the girl insists on walking him there. This is a great opportunity to talk about how he could have gamed her at this "wide doe eyes" stage, but the thread was deleted.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 08:22 PM
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I guess so. It's so full of really clever shills now that I'm not sure it's even helpful to someone who isn't firmly in command of redpill knowledge already. I come in here and squash shills and the next time there are even more of them. The noise is drowning the signal here.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 08:15 PM
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How do they shadowban subs? Which subs are shadowbanned, do you know of any?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 08:13 PM
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Yes western culture is too matriarchal. Islam is too patriarchal. Each one appears crazy to the other. Nobody seems to have yet devised a culture that's "just right", although I think the old Chinese culture (before the Cultural Revolution) was pretty traditional and patriarchal -- polygamy was allowed if you could afford the wives -- without some of the extremity of Islam.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 07:47 PM
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That's why they don't suggest this to you.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 05:58 PM
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Such strong language over a good, constructive FR. If we all already knew everything there would be need for this sub.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 05:17 PM
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I never had such negative experiences with cops, and I wouldn't have hesitated to call them. But whatever works. There could be slightly different circumstances where the cops would not be an option but the cam saves your ass
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 05:15 PM
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There's a law about recording without consent in some US states. I wouldn't bother. If she says you raped her, bring out the recording and cop to nonconsensual recording instead, which is probably about like a traffic ticket. If she doesn't lie about what went on in the bedroom, never show anyone the video.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 05:13 PM
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Yes her tune would change if he started having some success. He should try it.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 10:55 AM
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It's pathetic. But he says he gets some too. But not as much. His game sucks. He needs to learn some game and start having more success. Tell her stories of Sarah and Annette, how their pussy was tight and they gave great head too. He would suddenly see some desire for commitment from here. He should be careful not to fold, let her suffer with her joy for his success. Because this stuff is hard for men to deal with, but it practically kills a woman.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 10:54 AM
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She was offered operating roles in client companies at Kleiner, and turned them down. She wanted to be an investing partner, dammit!
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 04:45 AM
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I despise Ms. Pao for the crap she pulled legally against her former employer Kleiner, and her generally seedy business life with her husband. I don't know why she was given a job here after that. If it was to be scapegoat for some planned changes, that's how the cookie crumbles. At least it was better for her than being unemployed for those months. I don't hate her. Don't have to bother.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 04:41 AM
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Or major damages settlements against falsely complaining women, universities or both. Universities see no risk in abusing men. If all that has to happen here is the student is readmitted, then there's still no fear. They've got to dread what can happen if they abuse men and are found to be wrong. But as the legal landscape is now, that may be impossible. They are just following the instructions of Obama's Department of Education, which tells them to use a "preponderance of evidence" standard rat…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 04:37 AM
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Because Obama's Department of Education issues "Dear Colleague" letters telling them to do it, and all too many leftist weenies at the universities are champing at the bit to do it anyway, like this dean who vastly increased the guy's punishment just because he appealed.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 04:33 AM
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A good friendship with a woman is where she is in your friendzone rather than vice versa. And they don't mind, it seems to me, because they are comfortable when the man is dominant.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 04:23 AM
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I call what she did virtue. When a woman is a bitch I call her a bitch. When a woman is a hero I call her a hero. I don't hate women just because of some theory. They are individuals and are judged as people. I think that's not only useful to me, it's only fair because I will call them out on their shit without being nicer because they're women. (And that, in turn, makes them wet.)
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 01:25 AM
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What good would that evidence have done, with a judge who convicted of rape despite an intact hymen? As long as he's ignoring convincing evidence, it's not clear that further evidence would matter. It's interesting, this girl is not some party girl. She's a virgin, and she's out to ruin men's lives. Very strange.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 01:22 AM
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How a judge can convict when the physical evidence proved the charges wrong -- this is truly nuts. I don't think the US court system could do that, and our courts are known for some pretty bad things. Not even our college sexual assault kangaroo courts are probably that biased.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 01:20 AM
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Good on Witte's wife. That's unusually good, a good woman. Needless to say the bitch who accused him should burn in hell for a while. Germany seems like the most PC place I've ever heard of. Ever since WW2, political correctness has made people scared of even simple logic. It's very sad and wrong. A great people, reduced to this.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 01:19 AM
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Anger is eventually replaced by acceptance, or even a bit of sadness. But it takes a while, like years or a decade.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 01:15 AM
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It gets him in trouble but it doesn't help you. And makes him hate you, which is just not good for your health. Just have fun with "his" girl since he admits he's just in the friendzone, but don't make more waves than necessary. It doesn't help anyone.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 12:55 AM
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I don't get why the crackdown now. They get rid of the former Kleiner executive who tried to make undeserved money by suing them, and then they spoil all that good will with this. Maybe they pissed off someone "important" when they got rid of Ms. Pao.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 12:50 AM
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I'll bet you money that we are not included in such a category. This place is tame. It has become very tame, and now it's so full of shills I am finding it close to useless. Half the responses to most threads are blue pill distractors these days! No need to make the same drama again and again. Granted, it may be the first time OP has raised the question here, but many others have including, I think, mods.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 12:47 AM
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She doesn't know he wasn't recording. She probably doesn't remember enough. OP had courage. I respect that. He cared for his brother. That's more important than lifting.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 09:47 PM
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Let things go on til he actually gets cuckolded and let him learn that way. You blame him (here behind his back) for being a white knight but you won't even tell him. You are using girl bitchy tactics. I think this sub is becoming hopelessly overrun.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 09:46 PM
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I disagree. Forwarding the messages was a heroic thing to do. Let the man know what's going on before a cuckolding is actually successful. How can we learn AWALT, or anything, without facts?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 09:44 PM
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Not after the kids are a few years old, and if the income is becoming less. Then you need married man game to the max just to hold things together for the kids. You may not appreciate how much this guy was doign right.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 08:58 PM
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This would apply if he were actually caught cheating.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 08:56 PM
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And here, looking at his denial from a distance of the internet and years, you know he actually cheated. You're really smart.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 08:55 PM
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He denies cheating. Wife turns into a bitch, saying it's because of this cheating. Maybe she was looking for an excuse. Maybe his income had already started to fall off. That can dry up a pussy pretty fast, then she needed an excuse. Easiest thing in the world would have been for the guy to conclude things and leave, strike out on his own. It's what men do. Much harder to stay in the picture with the kids until they are no longer helpless. Then at the end there's unanimity that he was a pussy. B…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 08:54 PM
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He probably thought it was best for the kids that he stay. He was probably right, even though his son shows no gratitude at this time.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 08:50 PM
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"let him resign them to you" ? Allow Dad to let this proud little boy have his stuff that he's worked his life for? That's what wills are for, and you find out what they say when the parents are dead. Trying to get the stuff now should mean you don't get it later either. Doesn't anyone have a sense of right or wrong any more?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 08:47 PM
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The only time I can recall being abused by police was when I was driving through western Arkansas late at night. The guy really was trying to put me in jail, and I had done nothing, but I had out of state plates from the east coast. My pregnant wife and young son had to wait in our car while he did his best to provoke me into reacting. But he probably treated his homies just fine. This guy really was an asshole. But it's individual. A job as a cop lets bullies enjoy themselves. But most cops are…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 08:10 PM
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And you'll probably never get married because you're afraid of being dictated to or taken to the cleaners. And this is how he is a much better man than you will ever be. Because if he had done the same, you would not even have been born. How dare you show him how he should have done things? You aren't worthy to talk to him man to man yet.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 08:03 PM
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Guys "back then" could be blue pill too. I was. I see my 13 year old son going that way too. It's actually hard to stop him starting out that way because the Oedipus complex is just a natural stage. He'll outgrow it, but he's in it now. Those of you who haven't been parents yet, it's a fascinating ride. You should try it (with a carefully selected woman) or else we won't have a next generation of our own. When he's a little further along I'll tell him the big secret: other girls are not your mot…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 05:53 PM
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Not sure it would be helpful for HR to see you as the alpha stud. Unless it moistens some panties in HR. HR might increase surveillance of whether you're sexually harassing or creating an unwelcoming workplace or simply decide to write you up on some pretext. No, don't refer it to HR.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 05:43 PM
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well, this guy spread his seed. That's an imperative for some men. It was for me. He is in an impossible situation now and should basically abandon this family and start over elsewhere, spreading his seed again. His child here will get raised, with state money if necessary. He may or may not know this kid. But it is still his kid. I'd rather know the kid, but I'd rather have a kid I don't know than have no kids at all.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 02:21 AM
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Yeah he can just forego the GI benefit and start over elsewhere, and the bitch won't get anything. As for the kid, not much he can do for the kid now, better to start a new family elsewhere. Tough luck for the kid, because mom screwed over dad.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 02:18 AM
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OMG Canada's down the tubes. Compared to that, the USA is reasonable.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 02:05 AM
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Get the girl to buy the drinks, pay her back, duh.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 02:24 AM
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Imagine that. They don't want to become cum dumpsters. But they don't want you to spend your best years wasting your seed either. The upside is that they are known to stay married once married. It's a bit closer to Marriage 1.0 there, from what I've heard. Game is still good for becoming the serious boyfriend rather than the friendzoned beta. And that's something, given China's unfavorable male-female ratio (too many boys by about 20%). A stronger culture, a stronger society than ours. Good for …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 03:51 PM
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Not decreasing their value, but describing our perceptions without any sugar coating or protection of the woman.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 03:30 AM
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He should sue FL State for about 10 million dollars.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 03:27 AM
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Women don't get to punch guys in the face because they are uncomfortable. The school will do whatever pro-female thing they do (overcorrecting because Jameis was pushing the envelope in this regard already) but legally, there's no way they should be prosecuting him. Unless he is required to register his fist as a deadly weapon because he's an athlete. Maybe FL has some doctrine like that, I dunno. This is really unfair because once he's punched in the face, the animal response and anger can very…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 02:28 AM
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Men may want to use this rule sometime. Suppose the bitch steals your sperm. She stimulated you, got you hard, induced you to put it in, and now she's pregnant and ready to take 20 years of your income in child support. Go after her this way. It may not have an effect in the family court, but it could at least get her kicked out of school. Not sure but if you lie enough you could make a case to the school tribunal that would get her kicked out of school.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 01:58 AM
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But you didn't go after them. I won't call you a white knight because you were just doing what most men do. But the only way to use these new rules is to keep checking with yourself "do I choose to be bothered by this? should i make a shitshow out of this?" In other words like a litigious female. We got no choice, we have to win by their rules.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 01:56 AM
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What are you majoring in? Yuck.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 01:54 AM
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Yes this is probably the way to go. The best defense is a good offense. They may be biased in favor of the female, but at least you give them some trouble rather than throwing yourself on their nonexistent (they are women and white knights after all) mercy.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 01:48 AM
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So you were a creep unless she doesn't regret later? You sir are a white knight.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 01:46 AM
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Somehow though, the guys in those relationships always seemed pretty alpha. I think he was enjoying his wife's lust and knew that was all a man gets in this world, so it was enough for him.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 05:13 AM
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Same advice as I gave OP. Don't look for love from gf's or even your wife. Look for lust, desire, attraction. Love is for the kids. You got love from your mother. A woman gives love to her kids, that's what they are built to do. If they're your kids too, be happy because that's what they need in their childhood. In this case, it sounds like you ended it with this girl because of your own lack of understanding. Oh well, we learn by experience.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 05:10 AM
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You got love from your mother. Don't expect that feeling from any of the other 3.5 billion females on the planet. You'll get lust from girlfriends. You may or may not give them love, it doesn't particularly matter to the outcome. (Though oneitis is risky unless things are very settled between you two.) You won't get love from your wife. Her love is for the children you will have together.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 05:06 AM
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One partner on salary to bring in cash, the other with a cash business to optimize things for taxes. It's a good way to optimize a family's activities.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 02:17 AM
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This woman is running a business. Guys should consider that too. These tech careers are the most fun when you're young, they're a great education, then find a place where your maturity and growing people skills are used and you're not competing with the endless stream of the world's other brightest people.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 02:15 AM
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Hey these days, you should consider it just a job. And guys can quit too if they can find a more interesting path.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 02:13 AM
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She opened a successful business. A career in technology is hard, and not really for the over-40 anyway. And if her husband has a salary, it's a good combination as the family can allocate a lot of personal expenses to the business and deduct them from income -- not 100% honest but everyone probably does it who has a business to use that way. Having had an engineering career, I think she made a wise choice. She's presumably still married, it didn't say not. Good for her.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 02:11 AM
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That's not how corporate politics works. Very often.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 08:29 AM
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If she was invisible how do you know that? Or do you have some inside info? What hard questions to whom? She allowed the audience enough space to rake JJ over the coals on this AMA.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 08:23 AM
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There wasn't one "bad moment" for JJ in that AMA. The whole thing was just a destruction of him from beginning to end, after he spouts nothing but the liberal orthodoxy of the worst sort. He deserved all of it. What was Taylor supposed to do, censor everyone?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 08:21 AM
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If she's not, it's still her fault because she should have enough control that bad things don't happen without her knowledge. She is CEO. It is by definition her fault, unless the Board reached in and ordered it.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 03:31 AM
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PUA reprograms your habits by giving you examples of good game techniques, so by habit you start doing productive things naturally. That, and realizing that your beta habits with your mother should be dropped with all other females on the planet, makes you an alpha socially.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 03:25 AM
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I would upvote this 10 times if I could. First lesson is: the girl you're after is NOT your mother. All the ways you learned to be with your mother, unless you had a really weird / sick relationship with her, are sort of the opposite of how you want to be with a girl.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 03:22 AM
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I did a sort of "fake it til you make it" and the faking didn't take long at all. I tried to memorize things, couldn't remember them, but just saying things sort of like them was getting results and I was learning my own style. That style has become a personality I have. So I do it with integrity. It is me. If you want to lift, fine. I think it's a long term strategy, but it's nice to get some quick results and confidence too, even if you are also working in the gym.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 03:19 AM
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Does it count that I wasn't a natural but I figured a lot of this stuff out before there was even much of a World Wide Web, when we communicated over irc and the like? Back then the internet really was a male space because it required some technical chops even to be on it. Now we've let women on our internet and, sure enough, they are trying to control us here.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 03:14 AM
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Yes, be yourself. But first, learn some skills, a new self as it were. PUA gives some examples. After doing a bit of it, you'll learn how to do it naturally, and then you are indeed being yourself.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 03:11 AM
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Oh please anyone can read this sub too including "enemies". Comments on this sub can be pretty funny sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 03:09 AM
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PUA techniques can give a taste of success and examples of good conversation. From there many guys can gain confidence and start making their own conversational style. And then they're just being themselves, a new self. Seems pretty RP to me. Even if he never lifts.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 03:06 AM
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Your first reply was great. I would have dropped the attempt at logic in the second (surely wasted and unnecessary with that audience) and just said "OK" or something like that. Like, IDGAF. Gently, with a smile.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 03:00 AM
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The thing about the opinion of such women is, though: who cares about their opinion? Proper women certainly don't. You shouldn't be in the situation of marrying those low quality women. To get respect, first treat yourself with respect.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 02:56 AM
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Or just a normal Oedipus complex. Were you competing for your mother's attention?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 02:51 AM
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Correct. If you eat an inferior donut, it doesn't matter. If you have an inferior life, it does matter.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 02:48 AM
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I guess neither you nor I should comment honestly here, at least it's not a RP activity we're doing. All this saying, taking time away from doing ...
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 11:06 PM
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The "I beg to differ" comment admits the reasons to avoid these women. It's not a moral issue. It's the waste of his life's energy for another man's child. It's against the law of nature; look at any animal behavior to see this. And she has no respect for him, saying he'll be alone if not with her. Her vag is dry as a desert for him. RP is an attitude of doing what's best for oneself. This comment proves that marrying a single mom is not best for the guy and his own posterity.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 11:04 PM
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I didn't say "don't be gay". I gave some problems involved with being a gay male. Does that make me a dick? You think the problems should be covered up because "tolerance"? I will admit though, I provided this information probably before the years where they formed their sexual identity. So they could take it into account before it could become "just the way I am". Does that make me a dick?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 09:07 PM
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Who ever takes a year off, unless they're retired? You should have a job (that could be raising young kids) and meanwhile scout other oppoprtunities.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 08:28 PM
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It's hard not to "need" a happy family. Unless there's polygamy, it's hard to have many of them. But you do have to game your wife when it feels to you that this should no longer be necessary. It's the solution to pretty much every marital problem I can think of, including teenage boys trying to compete with you for your wife's attention and affection. You don't have to game her every day. In fact you should think of it as a tool and retain a certain scientific detachment about how things are go…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 08:24 PM
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I got married, the kids followed soon after (born in years 2 and 5), and by year 7 she was turning into a bitch to me. Now I understand that's normal The "7 year itch" is a real thing. At that point understand that you cannot reason with her, do not give in to her, and things will never be the same. Game the shit out of her. You have to assume your seat as boss, patriarch of the family. Still married at about year 20, kids still here. It's a long term project but turning out successful. It's har…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 08:16 PM
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Indeed, don't help girls. A tough exterior is what turns them on.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 08:13 PM
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That sounds like an excellent idea, but check first with a lawyer to see what time period the court would look at your income to determine you obligations in divorce. Can you go 3 years or whatever? Anyway no risk, no reward, but get legal advice from the toughest most expensive divorce attorney in town, first.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 08:09 PM
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That's when you're supposed to have kids. At least when the woman is young. Of course that's why our society is as it is, to prevent you from doing that.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 08:06 PM
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Thanks. The tentacles led me to an interesting anime involving tentacles, juice but no grapes. The girl was having a very good time.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 07:29 PM
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Yes, that is gross incompetence by upper management. But maybe Pao had to do it this way because she had no support from others in upper management. Which in itself indicates Pao should be let go.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 07:28 PM
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As long as people keep coming her despite Pao's shit, she can do whatever she wants and get a big bonus because the money is flowing in.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 07:26 PM
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Oh and if you do want to use the campus as a source of your future wife, consider doing it as a grad student. My father and I both did this.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 07:24 PM
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Can't be done. If you're the biological dad according to DNA, the family courts and police WILL be involved if they want you to pay child support. Of course, if you want to plant seeds and flee the country, that's your choice. Or just admit it's our system, get married for the tax benefits, but step up your game. You are the king of your castle. You must know it and fight occasional battles (first with the wife, then even with the kids in adolescence) to keep the throne, for the good of all. It'…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 07:20 PM
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As a father, married (still) 20 years, with kids, kids are definitely about the biggest bucket list item I had for this lifetime. At least after learning objectives were satisfied. RP says "don't get married" because married man game, and family game, is harder than repeatedly slaying new pussy. It's the harder levels for those who succeeded enough in the earlier levels. It's much harder now than it used to be. They want you to give up to keep the population down. it can be done, guys. Have kids…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 07:16 PM
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What does college have to do with this? There are a few Joe-cool college guys who get almost all the pussy. If you are a Div. 1 athlete in a major sport, or another campus leader, or some other way a part of this group, good for you. You need very little game to score, but by all means enjoy. Well maybe not so much, now with the campus sexual harassment codes and rape codes meaning that if the girl has regret later, your life is over. Can you really do better than those Duke lacrosse players? Li…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 07:08 PM
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My reply was downvoted. Whatever. Mods, this sub has a fair number of participants who want to take it away from the "sexual strategy" idea.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 07:04 PM
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Just making an excuse, blaming you for not dating them.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 07:00 PM
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It's not against intolerance either. These are all choices. We are all entitled to our opinions, whether or not others consider them tolerant. See my reply to myself about why I am "intolerant" and want my kids to be too, when it comes to our own lifestyles. BTW your calling my attitude "intolerance" confirms why the school would not impart the life-saving information in that reply, and that it is critically important that parents know this so that they can fill the information gap at home.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 06:39 PM
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Aquiline nose is probably one of them. I have a friend from India whose skin is jet black. It actually looked bluish, it was so black. But he has wavy hair, an aquiline nose, and says he is Caucasian. He is black skinned but not from the African continent.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 06:35 PM
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By the way the school intentionally deprives them of this information. They take years of "health" which includes the sex ed, with lots of stuff about gay tolerance. None of the following are ever said in health class, and they all surprised my younger son (who has an excellent literal memory) when I mentioned them: (1) HIV is much worse than those other STD's like syphilis. It is incurable with modern technology and will kill you. It is spread by blood-to-blood contact. (2) Anal sex is how gay …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 06:29 PM
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You can prefer it, and only date white women. If you're going to have kids or risk a pregnancy, this can be especially important. You don't have to say it, to do it, and to try to influence your kids the same way. I take a very mechanistic approach. I think and sincerely hope it's consistent with the linear logical way a smart boy thinks. "This is a dick and this is a vagina. This is an asshole. Anal sex is how gay men have sex. Do you want to be gay and risk getting incurable HIV that will kill…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 06:22 PM
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The only solution is not to give a shit what women want. Game can get you past a lot of those things that women have pre-decided they want. Just try to protect yourself in case they say it was rape later.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 06:19 PM
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And what was Pao's CEO experience before this? Kleiner offered her operating experience, but she turned it down insisting on being an investing partner instead. Please explain how Reddit, with a stable userbase and operating environment, would founder in the three months it would take an intelligent layman to get going as CEO. Reddit basically runs itself which is why Pao could be plugged in there as a sop and to support her as she continues to do her damage, rather than just being bankrupt and …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 04:47 PM
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I don't understand, probably because I am clueless: 1. how do video AMA's make for easier brigading 2. what is FPH 3. what are tentacle grape juice advertisements?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 04:40 PM
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Not atypically, the person she put under the bus is a woman. That's the same thing she did at Kleiner.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 04:38 PM
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I'd support Victoria Taylor for CEO. It may be needed to save Reddit, and we can see she was doing a fine job.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 04:05 PM
1

https://archive.is/jouWQ is the actual JJ AMA, courtesy of a link from breitbart.com. He's even worse than I thought, the personification of all the leftwing big government ideas. Maybe he's getting senile, too obvious.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 04:02 PM
6

I never heard of her either, but her stuff was a big part of the Reddit brand. That's because she was doing her job superbly.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 03:35 PM
1

Well this was pretty amazing too. I was never contacted this way by mothers of any girlfriends I had. I would have considered it pretty unstable too. This just shows that we're used to seeing a lot of chutzpah from women. Men, pay attention, and if it can benefit you, do the reverse. Not just this, but in various ways. It may not be "alpha" but it's likely to be effective. In this way women are smarter than we are, unless we learn from them.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 03:21 PM
1

He sounds like exactly the sort that would benefit from the rules-based approach in early game literature.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 03:06 PM
1

As a father of teenage sons, I have some awareness of what other parents of my kids' classmates are experiencing. And mothers of teenage girls generally can no longer communicate with them at all. The daughters hate their mothers. Probably it's the "Electra complex" which seems more ubiquitous than the male Oedipus version. It's not the mothers' fault. Well the lectures should have occurred when the girl was about 8 - 10, late elementary ages, before puberty hits. And then hope.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 03:03 PM
1

I remember reading the idea from Roissy.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 02:56 PM
-1

Is this sarcasm? Do not nitpick the details of a legal thing that depends on details? Rape is a crime that has a fairly precise definition in every state, and case law, and must be proved beyond reasonable doubt. (Except on campus, now.) A "TRP endorsed" contributor saying there's no way to win the seduction game?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 09:38 AM
1

Maybe not. In my years it was negro, then as I recall african american, then black, then someone was saying we should go back to african american but by then I was done changing. Black is convenient unless there's a need to distinguish where the individual was born.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 09:02 AM
1

I didn't know that a lot of intentional breeding was done. Just a selection process in west Africa, that was probably something like two tribes had a fight, one tribe won and captured the other, and sold those prisoners to slave traders. So they are the losers in a serious conflict. Hence likely somewhat lower attributes that would help in a conflict.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 09:00 AM
1

When we wake up and tilt the playing field in our favor, we get Sharia.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 12:35 AM
1

I know my wife and her sister were major cutters i their teens. What is the relevance of this statement in your story?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 12:32 AM
4

But you don't need anyone in this world besides yourself.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 12:25 AM
1

BPD usually refers to Borderline not Bipolar.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 06:51 PM
3

I don't know that much about your sister, but if she's school age she could do worse than keeping her nose in her books and getting the best grades she can. It could take her mind off other issues. It sounds like you're both at least into the teen years, and at that point you are becoming responsible for how things go, as long as you're given a roof and food (which you may have to cook yourself.)
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 06:44 PM
3

That's because among blacks, they know the white part is the most desirable. White men look for a hot body, and skin color is secondary, unless they get control of their instincts with some rationality about what they want their kids to look like.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 06:40 PM
-1

Black women don't have to do all that to "make it". Affirmative action weighs heaviest in their favor out of all groups of people. Have you ever seen any black woman, no matter how dumb or fat, who can't find a job? So the comparison isn't appropriate. Black women cannot do what our Asian immigrant men can do, and they don't have to either.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 06:38 PM
3

In a true chaos society, women would face huge risks and want to go back to order. Women (only) have been given insurance against their risks, tilting the chaotic playing field consistently in their favor. Men have to find the narrow paths to success. These men are following such a narrow path, and they are among today's true alphas.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 06:35 PM
3

Alpha, because it's winning in business. Isn't that what men are supposed to do, to prove alpha creds in our post-brute-force society?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 06:33 PM
2

But so what, after all that she could equally say she consented to sex because she thought it would lead to a relationship. Regarding technicalities, apparently permission is only needed for removing clothing and penetration not other touching. Is that true or not? Because the guy turned her on with skillful touching that is not acceptable in a normal business setting.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 05:57 PM
12

What's a woman doing who tries to get you to buy them a drink? Hinting that she'll give you fine intellectual conversation about whatever vapid topic she is talking about? Of course not, she is trying to lead you on.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 05:36 PM
1

I don't understand. Does the affirmative consent have to be a piece of paper signed by the girl saying she consents to sex? Is the presumption that she did not give consent unless the guy can prove she did? Bring on that "paper consent form". Guys will be using it to game girls like crazy. Sit down in a bar, guy brings out the paper, says he'll have a drink with her (not buy, just drink together) if she signs. If not, he wanders away. If she signs, he's halfway thru the steps of game because of …
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 05:15 PM
5

Women value their feelings over the guy's feelings. Especially once the guy's committed. That's OK, right? Man values his feelings over the woman's feelings. Especially before giving commitment. Then that's OK too.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 05:12 PM
18

I don't understand all about women psychological problems, but as a guy married almost 20 years, I know women can be batshit crazy. By staying together, they provided a home for you and your sister. There are no perfect parents, and maintaining "frame" all the time when raising children and adjusting to their challenges is impossible. This thread is about a success story. Have a good life. It's why your parents did all this.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 03:03 PM
0

US Polo for a long time was a downmarket ripoff of Ralph Lauren's Polo line, with the similar polo pony. It was downmarket because you would wear it among people who didn't often see a real RL Polo logo and hoped they would not notice the difference. But then due to the magic of trending and imitation, it became its own "thing". Or maybe it's ghetto chic, or was for a while. Amazing.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 01:44 PM
-1

If you like it, fine. If you don't meet a lot of women in this activity, and it doesn't make you "management material", I am not sure I would go to the trouble in your shoes. But that's freedom for you.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 01:41 PM
2

The post claiming that all marriages end in divorce, which is wildly wrong, gets 12 points. Mine, correcting that statistic, gets downvoted. Cool. This is a great sub.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 01:34 PM
0

Men who accumulate a small fortune in life surely do operate on value. And you think women don't operate on desire? What are tingles?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 01:33 PM
5

You've never actually lived in Asia have you? It's more self centered than here.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 12:23 PM
1

Sex is a part of keeping her bonded. It can be great sex or lousy sex, but as long as her vagina is penetrated, oxytocin is released in her system and the bond is strengthened. Of course, great sex is nice. But for bonding purpose, sex is sex. Add that to dread, and you've got some successful married man game.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 03:48 AM
2

Only about 50% of marriages end in divorce. I think it's about providing a stable home for kids. If you don't plan to have kids with her, of course just fuck her and enjoy her and when you want, move on. Some of us took the risk, some of us have survived it. Exhausted, but still going. What used to be fairly routine in the time of Marriage 1.0 is now something requiring great skill, if I say so myself. But for the next generation, it's got to be done.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 03:45 AM
1

Wife threatens divorce. Divorce means less money all around because of more expensive separate living arrangement, and most likely she gets custody and you get to send child support. So, you don't get to spend time with kids. Unless you get a new woman and make new kids, but your CS obligation to the old ones will remain. Better make it work if possible. And it's possible I think, almost always. Just game the bitch again!
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 02:57 AM
1

So wife lost interest when the kids were born and a couple years old. This is the time that we're wired so that the man leaves the family to seek new pussy, and the kids have survived infancy and can be raised by the women of the tribe. We don't do it that way any more, but that's how our brains are wired. It happened to me. I've found it happens to a lot of men. So what you gotta do is rebuild attraction. You can do it, you did it once after all with this same woman. What happened here is dread…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 02:49 AM
1

If you want a ONS, you can try making up a story about how rich you are and how you have a fancy career even if you don't. It's legal to get consent by lying this way, in every state except I think Alabama. (This is not "rape by deception" which is only impersonation. If you actually sort of like the girl and might want an LTR, game her without that prop.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 12:17 AM
1

Nobody forces you to spend a lot of money in a strip club. The entrance fee is modest, and you can nurse one drink a long time. Nobody forces you to put your money in her g-string. Get drunk before going, if you want to be drunk there. Of course they'll shame you into spending money if you let them. If you fall for their routine to get their money, then they win. So only go to the strip club with the idea, the explicit plan, that you won't put money in the g-strings or buy more drinks than the m…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 12:05 AM
1

What is that other reason to get married, other than to have kids? And I know that we're in the age of Marriage 2.0, but if you game your wife, you can approximate the older style. After all we are still the same organisms. I am married almost 20 years myself, with kids, so I am not just imagining how things ought to be.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 06:20 PM
3

I like heartiste for general game / redpill reading. Good writing too. Personally I had to figure this stuff out before any of those sites existed.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 02:16 PM
2

I definitely agree with the part about genetics and looking at her family. I'll put in a good word for having a wife with a high IQ. That is, unless you don't care what your kids' IQs are. There's a story that the kids inherit their IQ from the mother and their looks from the father. So marry a supermodel who is dumb as a box of rocks (this does not exist because an actual supermodel is a savvy business woman, but you get the idea) and you'll be happy until the kids are a few years old and just …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 12:06 PM
6

No, be careful with that site. Some of the advice is wrong. How can a site be relied on for advice, when it tells you dopamine is the source of a woman's attraction. It's oxytocin. And that's important, because one stimulates dopamine by things like excitement, keeping her entertained, etc. But it's oxytocin that builds the bond, which has more to do with how you smell, as well as having sex. Any sex, even bad sex, bonds the woman to you. In fact, I recall reading that bad sex is just as good as…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 11:59 AM
0

The pill / game probably saved my marriage and my family. After my kids came and the youngest was about 2 years old, wife became very nasty. Eventually I started gaming her the way I had when we first met, and while I can't say it's made everything smooth or changed her from a drama-loving female, I am still married going on 20 years now with our two teenagers in the house. Issue now is my 14 year old boy's Oedipus complex. Folks, you gotta game your kids too, but the game is different. Role pla…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 11:51 AM
1

Can't you force your way back into your kids' life? You are still too agreeable to what women tell you to do. That's OK, just realize it and remind yourself to say no more than yes, focus on your self and your children first. We all have weaknesses, and this is one of yours. It's undeniable. Anyone who would move out "if you love me" has that tendency, and you've got to counteract it.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 02:58 AM
1

You're still the alpha and they carry your genes. They are a credit to YOU and never forget it. No need to let these women forget it either. Beta bucks is a female. Fitting, since it's not a sexual attraction involved. She can disrespect another female for raising someone else's kids same as she can disrespect a beta bucks male.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 02:51 AM
0

For me fatherhood is a major thing I wanted to do in my life. Call it a top bucket-list item if you want, but that seems to trivialize it. When you're married, be aggressive. Do not allow it to be a dead bedroom. She will push you away, keep coming. Don't worry, unless things are terribly far gone (I've not really heard of this happening) it isn't rape, it's your role as her husband. But you have to know this, you don't ask her what your role is.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 02:49 AM
1

No, you can seduce her a lot more than that! She is lying in bed next to you, so be assertive and score.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 02:47 AM
6

The main thing going on here is that after the kids came and were a few years old, the woman normally pulls away from the man. Serious game is needed at this point to overcome the fact that by our instincts, that's the end of that family unit and the guy leaves and the woman raises the children. On the other hand you have the advantage that you start every night in bed. The game is set up for you to win, but you gotta use some tricks. What tricks? Whatever worked with your girl in the first plac…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 02:41 AM
1

This guy was probably in better shape than you'll be at his age. Impressive for being married with a job and kids, actually. I don't see this guy did anything unusual, and it was hard to say no at any stage. Women are good at setting up these decisions. What you don't understand is that after the kids come, the woman normally develops a revulsion toward the father. Dad is supposed to go kill mammoths and father children with a new woman rather than hanging around with the kids after they are 2 o…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 02:37 AM
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No, women care about their own children above anything, 1000x more than anyone else especially other people's children. This is why the best school teachers are often women who did not have their own kids. But they won't respect the beta who provides for alpha's child. They just don't get tingles for him. Sounds like this guy didn't get much sex with this GF either, why weren't there more kids from that? .
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 01:58 AM
14

If you raise another man's child, how can she respect you?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 01:53 AM
2

Good read, thanks. And so glad this guy wised up and grew a backbone when he did.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 01:50 AM
1

A PUA isn't enmeshed in the map system, he is mastering it and making the map for others. A good PUA is well aware of the territory, because he has to use it in his map-making. Hence, PUA > TRP if you like to talk that way.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 12:56 AM
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Yes. He can date American girls who wouldn't have given him the time of day (or their younger sisters) when he started with this import. Or he can go for an import with a much wider choice. An American guy with a successful business takes a few weeks to go to Odessa and hang out meeting girls. OMFG he would have so much interest from the most desirable.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 09:32 PM
2

But not that she can probably get. Unless she already had one ready to branch-swing to.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 09:30 PM
1

Been there doing that. With some success. You have to game. I don't game constantly, it's too much trouble. And beta is inevitable when there's the very long term project of raising children underway. You won't get thanked for your contribution, but you can have an intact family and children who know you're Dad and learn from you
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 09:29 PM
10

"Rape by deception" is not about that, it's just about impersonating someone's lover. Like some guy slips into my bed next to my sleeping wife, rolls over on her and tries to fuck her, she says OK thinking it's me. I'm glad that's illegal. And what your friend is doing is 100% legal.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 09:25 PM
9

It's completely legal by the way, to obtain consent by lying. The consent is still good. The only thing that "rape by deception" outlaws is pretending to be someone's lover or wife i.e. impersonation. The female lawyers want it that way, because they know women tell 100 lies to get men.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 09:23 PM
4

That's IF they can find that guy. My exes all seem to have ended up financially worse than I am. Maybe that's why I did all the breaking up, but I never felt like any sort of alpha at the time.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 08:59 PM
17

Good on you getting her best years, then she jumps off just because of some risk. You did well.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 08:57 PM
2

His having the extremely highly developed rationality of a physics grad student increases the chance that he figures out the tenets of game / RP by himself. And now with help available ... the blinders are off, his SMV is higher than it ever was and going higher still ... make sure he gets thru the next 2 weeks (call the cops!) and he'll be on the upswing.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 08:53 PM
4

It's not a doctorate in sociology or ethnic studies.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 08:50 PM
1

Hey, during that seven years, this guy probably went from being a college sophomore to almost done his PhD in physics, and got thru his awkward early 20's. She left him better than she found him. She left after spending her most desirable years WITH HIM. And with him on the cusp of major professional advancement. smh After things calm down, he'll see that life is pretty good. Normally it would be him dumping her at about this point.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 08:34 PM
1

Hey that's not my experience. I dumped a girl, and her SISTER gave me no shit for it (no other women did either.) She understood. Women know that dumping is a part of the game. If they are acting so proud around you, maybe you're even more beta than I was at the time.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 08:32 PM
1

Not so sure, I have read stories of women who say they are destroyed by a man leaving. There are decent women out there. But assuming decency is antithetical to game, and it can always come and go. Basically women are more selfish, but they can care and be damaged too.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 08:30 PM
1

Well, do both, but def. call the police. It's low effort, and they are better at finding people, and probably more able to help if they do find him. Professionals and all that.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 08:29 PM
3

I don't think I've seen the word "ratiocinate" for about 20 years!
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 08:28 PM
1

Nah, I'd call the cops now. If they find him and he's OK but just on a drinking jag or something, they'll understand and let him proceed. They would just be protecting him if he's causing risk to himself.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 08:26 PM
1

A tragedy if he doesn't calm down and finish that doctorate. PhD in physics (even if it's experimental not theoretical) is super employable. In a few years he'll be swimming in pussy if he wants it.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 08:24 PM
1

Partially correct. (1) You are fine. The movement you need is on your shoulder. (2) And so use your manly logical skills to learn game. There is a technique or set of techniques, and you don't even have to figure them out yourself any more.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 05:22 AM
1

Please send me a reminder by personal message when your book is available!
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 04:50 AM
1

I'm calling baloney on this one. CS degrees require programming and debugging. Unless you are a genius you did not take 45 credit hours of this at a time. Still congrats on however close you came to this; it's a great ideal to strive for.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 04:43 AM
1

I don't see that you've proven anything one way or the other as to the possible role of vaccination.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 04:28 AM
1

Yes. I don't know if one ends up completely better in all ways, but one has or can develop the tools to win.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 04:08 AM
2

How can this very well documented post get downvoted?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 04:07 AM
1

Far better at fake sympathy. I think there are two kinds of empathy, one that is felt and one that is calculated. Women have the first, men can develop the second. But women can't develop a man's logical ability.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 04:05 AM
1

why do you believe this? just because of the definitions in the DSM-whatever?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 04:03 AM
1

I am an engineer and the son of a natural scientist. And I am a bit autistic although never diagnosed, as it was not typically looked for in the old days when I grew up. Probably just as well, I learned to hide it or compensate for it, which is what coping amounts to anyway. It's not a condition, it's just who I am, and I have to live in this world. I disagree with the TLDR. Don't reduce your use of logic, use the hell out of it. Logic is a gift, and those of us gifted with it should learn to ap…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 03:53 AM
4

He probably didn't think he had to treat his old guy friends like girls.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 12:48 AM
3

I certainly don't feel any "white guilt" and despise those who peddle the idea. Whites who push it are like white-knights among men.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 12:35 AM
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RP is about the differences between boys and girls. It has little to do with differences between black and white. I can compare experiences with a black dude and we can both feel the same experiences. AWALT whether black or white. But you can't say all whites are the same, or all blacks. I am sure it's the same for RP women. They share common views that have everything to do with their gender and nothing to do with their color. So what this chick did is at least consistent with that RP experienc…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 12:30 AM
0

So you don't believe in transrace because there is no essential difference between the races. This is actually a difference why transrace should be much MORE acceptable. So why do we treat people differently because of race? Why can't one opt for the other treatment by assuming the costume (including skin and hair appearance) of that race? Transgender has some implicit problems. I can't complain if girls don't want a biological boy in their locker room. But race is a nothing in our society, and …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 12:24 AM
5

I don't know about that. (I am neither, as a white man.) Lots of white women are saying they are passed over in favor of black women, and black women almost all seem to hate white women bitterly to protect that extra advantage they have. The black girls are really losing their shit over what this white girl got away with.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 12:17 AM
-4

I used to live in the trannie section of Chicago one summer. The big girls with broad shoulders and stuff one would see were quite amazing. But I never saw it as a horrible mental illness, just something strange they chose to do. I challenge you to document your assertion that it is a horrible mental illness. I just think you're saying that to discredit the transracial people, to say there's something worse about them.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 12:13 AM
-3

You say all these bad things about her, but if a truly black woman did exactly the same things she is doing, you would have nothing bad to say at all. The whole basis for your condemnation of what she's done is that she did it as a white person. Isn't that racist?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 12:11 AM
-2

I don't think she really believes that stuff. Though it must have been weird for her when her family adopted 3 or 4 black babies. She doesn't have a useful degree, and she has had a whole career in the race industry because she is taking positions that are designated for black people. Like transgenders "I feel like a girl" (said by a boy) and then treated as a girl for practical purposes, she decides to say "I feel black" and has been treated better because she's taking that role. I don't think …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 12:08 AM
1

I'd leave some fakes permanently. More controllable. If you start getting into some shit or have a new idea, you have that tool available.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 07:48 PM
1

OK, so would you go to the trouble to notify all the girls he's friended with? I hope that no, you would just quietly know he's full of shit. But meanwhile, a lot of pussies will be full of his dick.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 07:46 PM
3

Redpill guys aren't particularly like that. At least as I see RP, it is about independence and following your own desires. If some other guy has a chick, I am not some pussy "Chad Thundercock" butting in to cockblock another guy. I congratulate him and find my own damn pussy.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 07:40 PM
2

And then that plate falls off. Fine. It's not like these girls talk to each other. Talking to a girl they're jealous of is pretty much the one thing girls cannot bring themselves to do. Anyone who has had more than one plate at a time knows that. The dread is overwhelming. Which is why there's are constantly trolls popping up telling you to be afraid of it.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 07:36 PM
3

Why? I guess you're female and don't want your games interrupted. Or a SJW white knight male. Which is it?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 07:34 PM
2

So do you think the story is true or false?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 07:33 PM
1

Picture was probably real enough. Started from a real picture, and from there one can employ the services of digital enhancement. Go to a modeling website to find a ton of those guys advertising. Upper body a bit bigger, waist a bit slimmer, face a bit nicer -- but it still looks like you.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 07:31 PM
2

It's exhausting because girls are selfish users, for one thing. So if you're close to them sexually, you get a lot of their other shit. You can push it away but it's always there. The best a man can do is get to the point where he has the confidence and technique to have that relationship if he wants. That doesn't make it perfect, but at least he's no longer intimidated about women and things are under his control.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 07:28 PM
3

It's gone now. What is the technique?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 07:15 PM
1

Rape by deception, where it's a law at all, just refers to impersonating someone's actual lover. Lying about anything else to get consent is totally legally permissible. The rape by deception laws are OK with me. I wouldn't want some asshole getting into bed with my sleeping wife (however that might happen) and able to have sex with her because she thinks it's me.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 07:14 PM
5

Yes, they don't want the truly efficient methods to be discussed. Only "go lift more". Which makes it very hard to bypass the guy who has been lifting for five years.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 07:10 PM
3

Lifting is a lot of effort too. This was more efficient. Pure Redpill in my opinion, well done!
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 07:05 PM
1

OK that's just the impression I got from first reading. Glad I am wrong.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 06:54 PM
2

I'm not sure I have ever seen them stick up for each other "as a gender". Each is always out for her self-interest, and often their interests coincide. If they can turn a man beta, they view it as an ecological victory that makes their life as a female much better. They NEED betas to have power. However their general feeling for each other is hatred, whereas their general feeling for a man who doesn't show beta cues is attraction.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 10:32 PM
1

That's generally true. Women are rough. Embrace that and you're 3/4 of the way to interacting successfully with them. Whatever difficulties you have, realize that other women have it worse. You can go to "easy mode" by introducing a little sexual tension, a bit of natural attraction. They don't have that option and have to face bitch mode from each other, even their "friends", all the time.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 10:28 PM
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Thanks, you probably brought him over. I think it will go well for him.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 10:25 PM
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Great, and welcome to you /u/diablo1988. Please let us know how we can help or just hang around and lurk or chat. We don't want to lose you!!
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 10:24 PM
2

What make you think good technique involves whistling at women? Clue: it doesn't. If you think a man who wants to slay pussy is a douchebag, he still won't announce to you "I am a douchebag". You think he's a nice guy but you get that certain feeling. He's been studying and learning technique. You're both happy with the outcome. :) Your post is a bit self-important. We don't care whether you think we "need" to improve ourselves, or how you think we "need" to. One thing that's special about slayi…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 10:00 PM
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We think we've improved when we are getting pussy. It involves skill, like playing the violin or repairing a transmission requires skill. When one learns these things, one is improved by them. Now you may not approve of the improvement. But that's not our concern.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:56 PM
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isomers of molecules in chemistry: cis has two groups of atoms on the same side of the molecule, trans has them on opposite sides. So I'd expect normal (boys like girls, girls like boys) to be trans and homo to be cis. But the usage is reversed by those who use it in this context: cis is normal, trans is homo / transsexual / whatever other weirdness.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:26 PM
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Since women have often referred to other women and girls as "females" in my presence (and probably also outside my presence) I won't bother following any instructions not to call them that.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:24 PM
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One problem is that he generally shows disrespect around the house. This I am addressing step by step by building in minor consequences. I used to attribute the mistakes to stress or other things. Now I've concluded they are intentional disrespect, and furthermore, school is about over for this year so I don't have to worry about stress at home from dealing with this bleeding over into problems at school. Another problem is that he knows I follow redpill-like ideas, and his feminist training at …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 08:58 PM
2

We smell some of the shit. We disagree somewhat on what is shit and what isn't. I think a lot of what's posted here is shit because it is too easy on manipulative women, actually bluepill in some cases. But not everything like that gets downvoted. And why do we think there aren't some women on here, redpill and otherwise? Hey I don't care. I am a man, but I don't mind if some women are here, can't stop it anyway.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 08:30 PM
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All women have vaginas. All vaginas, the hormones associated with them, etc. work the same. AWALT. If a man wants sex or reproduction, he'd better learn how that system works and how to interact with it, from hello to (wham bam) thank you ma'am. But some women also have brains. And the brains are not the same, just as my brain is not the same as another man's.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 08:21 PM
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True, and some time in the gym could help clear the depression a bit, so it cannot hurt. But some tactics (rather than disinfo) would help him too. Look I don't know how hopeless this guy is, but it's not that hard to get a woman's time, a woman's pussy. It's just not that fucking hard. So if he's put in all this effort without more success, he was trying the wrong way. Learn how, get the pussy, get your rocks off, move on with life -- whether it's career, family, more pussy plates, whatever. Bu…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 07:55 PM
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It's called "monk mode" when it's done reasonably. Maybe a few months, six months is OK. Six years is crazy. Has anyone offered this TRP? Theres' so much "advice" out there meant specifically to steer away from our ideas. The disinfo is intense and sophisticated.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 07:52 PM
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As a parent with difficult teenagers, I would have expected there's lots of help out there for us going through a famously difficult phase of raising young'uns. I am having some problems with my younger boy, and I wanted to reach out. Well there's no really that much help, and even when it starts out pretty good, it eventually turns bluepill in most cases. I found reading this sub helpful even though it's about sexing women rather than raising boys.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 07:49 PM
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The final line is very hopeful: I have been laughing since yesterday. I have lots of thinking and growing up to do. He is right on. He needs some better thinking and some growing. And we can help. (when someone announces they are at a decision point like this, the whiteknight shills typically jump in in force to steer them away from actual help.) Perhaps we should offer some help to /u/diablo1988 on how he can actually improve his experiences and results with women, some thinking and ways of gro…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 07:37 PM
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While this chick was OP's plate, hoping for exclusivity, she was unavailable to him. When she became available (they don't wear signs announcing this) he saw a way. As OP describes it, it doesn't sound too good. Why would OP not make it look as bad as possible. And maybe he has some feelings for the girl and is sad that she will be with the other guy having his baby.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 06:30 PM
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I think you need to improve reading comprehension. You're imagining that it took knockout drops or some such. No that was never alleged or hinted at. She had consensual sex that OP says she now regrets.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 06:27 PM
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No, the reason that it's so hard to get out of the FZ is that it's hard to change. You change, you can be out of FZ just like that. But people rarely change. We often see stories here of guys go got some RP in them having sex with a girl who had them in FZ. We applaud those guys and say it's due to the pill. Now we have the other man in the picture talking, and we pat him on the back and agree with him that the other guy was such a pathetic loser. He says he even talked about the other guy with …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 06:24 PM
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"This guy" is the child's actual father. And all you know about this guy is the OP's anger that "this guy" planted a seed in his plate. Like OP never greased things with alcohol, pot, or other aphrodisiac.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 06:21 PM
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It seems like her sister forced it out of her once she saw the good news on FB. There was a real baby but the girl just didn't want to announce -- maybe without OP's financial support she WILL abort it or adopt it out. Getting other women involved is usually very helpful -- they dig into each others' shit and are pretty moralistic with each other.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 06:16 PM
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I think you're a paranoid nut. Most betas are just betas. Many of them are white knights. Then there's beta game. How do we know this happens only once in every few lifetimes? With the number of real genuine RP guys on here talking about how they were cheated on, I conclude that RP gives no immunity to cheating, and you're not going to catch everything that goes on while you're working so hard lifting.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 05:12 PM
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There's beta, and then there's beta game.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 05:08 PM
3

Yes. If it's zero-risk for women to try paternity fraud, the shit will continue. They need to be scared of the consequences if they get caught. In case anyone didn't notice, this is an economic argument not an anger based one.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 05:01 PM
1

And maybe beta even knew that. If OP hadn't been so good at analyzing the situation, his reproductive ruse would have worked even better.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 04:59 PM
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Because her sister forced it out of her. Getting other women involved is usually very helpful, they moralize like hell about each other because they know the female ways. Even though OP didn't plan the details of how that would happen and just put the post up on FB.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 04:57 PM
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Seems that beta saw his chance and alpha'd. And that OP is kind of pissed off about it. Like a feminine bitch, now he's trying to drive beta and his mother away and get the chick back. Look dude, I applaud you on slicing thru her shit. And I would never wish on a man that they are cuckolded and raise another man's child. It was beyond wrong that she tried to fool you into that. She is going to abort now that she doesn't have your support for his child, which makes her a bitch and you, Mr. Redpil…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 04:53 PM
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Prime reproductive age. They've been fertile already for five years or more.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 03:47 PM
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Abundance mentality lets you drop her without all the sleuthing. Good! If she's truly innocent, she'll give you a reaction that will change your gut feeling. But I doubt that will happen.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 03:44 PM
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He doesn't know how to get along with her now that he doesn't trust her? He's still not come to terms that he needs to try to weasel out of CS for this other man's child as fast as possible. So deep in beta ...
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 09:44 PM
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I had hoped this thread would be about tongue technique.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 09:34 PM
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If I feel like jacking off, and there's a convenient opportunity, then I jack off. Anything else is just too much trouble. And my version if alpha is basically I do what I want to do.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 09:30 PM
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Do what any alpha male would do. Do what you want. If you want to observe, learn, etc. then do that. If you want to leave, then do that.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 09:27 PM
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Indeed. They don't talk to you. They talk to the partner or senior managing director in charge of your part of the bank.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 02:55 AM
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You didn't mention investment banking. Sales, trading are trading floor funcitons, equity research is a type of sales, often you're trying to help your bank get some shit off its books by talking it up. In a very subtle and entertaining way of course. Investment banking depends on the clients, and indeed some clients may be put off by a guy who bulks for the sake of bulking. It's not about intimidation.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 02:46 AM
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A young teenage boy shouldn't bulk too much. Too much tension on the bones can inhibit bone growth.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 02:39 AM
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Maybe. It goes against the rule I've found to work: never help girls. So be a bit hands-off about it, make the suggestion and let her take it, or fail to do so.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 02:35 AM
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Assume you're a high status male. Chances are, that's enough.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 06:36 PM
1

And my hypothesis is that she was giving shit to a guy who didn't get her respect. Given that he apparently fucked her, and was otherwise successful with females on campus, he had that respect originally. What made her change her mind? Maybe the perception of weakness from exactly that: his family's feminist "credentials".
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 06:08 PM
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Either that or one of them had this friend begging to be set up, and they had to shut her up.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 02:05 AM
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Well there is no team woman, but each woman individually is threatened, so they all support this effort to end your conspicuous freedom. Again there is no team woman.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 02:03 AM
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Never for a single day of my life did I want to fuck a woman who reminded me of my mother. I loved my mother, she loved me, but (or maybe because of it) there's no confusion and I don't want someone else to take her place. Hence the whole milf thing never made my dick budge a millimeter.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 01:47 AM
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Sounds fairly atypical from my short experience, and others' reports, of dating single moms. I had one after me once. I heard about her child but never saw the child or any evidence she was busy with it. Others report the same thing, they have others handle all that because it's so important that the guy not feel the presence of that other man's child in her life. Then once you're committed, it all changes. But not til then. Your case was easy. She didn't even come onto you hard.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 01:44 AM
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I don't see tha other post.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 01:41 AM
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Nungesser has no fault. Still, I can't help noticing that his family was leftist, feminist. Feminist guys get no respect. This seems like yet another example. There are alternatives to these expensive colleges. And I have kids who will be going to college in the next few years. My advice to them is work hard, get through and get the degree, and don't fuck the girls. I am scared about this environment. It's too damn bad, because college used to be a good place to meet a wife.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 01:39 AM
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I don't think women hardly ever sympathize with each other. That's an important principle. But they have a shit-test reflex to prevent a beta from turning alpha. Any beta. It's an ecological thing. They must keep good men down. Part of the deception is to appear to sympathize with each other, in front of men who might be intimidated or fooled by it. Behind the scenes there's no sympathy there and they both know it. If you show that YOU know it too, then they'll realize that they are looking at a…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 01:21 AM
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Do it now before you dip your dick in there any single time again. You can just tell her you are not ready to be stepfather. Five months is not that long, she should be glad that you made a decision quickly and didn't waste more of her precious time. Be direct. That's how women think, very direct.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 11:29 PM
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I am sure you made the right call, but from a FR perspective, what happened on that date to convince you?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 07:29 PM
1

"Find a single mom", yuck but come to think of it, there is one living with her parents just down the street. Her daughter goes to the elementary school and gets off the bus here every day. She says there aren't single men around here in this very boring family neighborhood. But maybe this is a part of her problem.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 07:28 PM
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I think it's entirely normal for a woman to care only about her children, once she has kids. Since I understand this, it's part of why I am still married after 20 years. And at home raising MY kids. That's hard enough. It would be thankless hell if they were not my kids. I didn't understand this very well before my kids came. And being married really starts being "RP on hard mode" a few years after the kids, i.e. once the mother no longer needs you to protect them in infancy. So I am telling you…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 07:14 PM
1

I didn't know this, I thought it was fairly common for them to get together and form a "blended family" like the Brady Bunch. Yet another lie from the MSM ...
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 06:57 PM
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AWALT. Our white women know these things too. They often don't choose to say them, and they are very brainwashed not even to think these things. But they know and feel them in their guts. And in their pussies.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 06:20 PM
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I believe it. Redpill is pretty much just when a man adopts truths that all women understand and accept. They know when a guy is a cuckold even when he doesn't. That's why they don't respect such a guy even if (or, especially because) he's paying to raise her kids. Women are cold and calculating. They're easy to understand. This is not an insult to them or a rejection of them. They can be great allies. They can bear YOUR children; we need them for that and for raising them in early childhood.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 06:16 PM
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I would still think it's not nearly as good as when your OWN rebellious child grows up in their 20's and comes back to you.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 06:12 PM
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"I had to watch my moms do all that alone growing up, as she chose to leave my pops, rather than be subjected to catering to a man not on her level." Barf. Is his ex-single-mom wife freezing him out in bed and he hopes this crap article will help him?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 06:11 PM
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When a man really does what he thinks makes the most sense, AND he has some basic facts straight, then he is no longer a beta but an alpha. It's that easy.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 06:14 AM
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My exes seem to have tried to replicate me with future men they dated. But they only got far inferior pale imitations. I may have been beta and clueless, but they didn't understand my true value and longed for it anyway.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 06:09 AM
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Will you guys get over it? This is just one woman who thinks she has an angle to get some money FOR HERSELF. If she has to give a little to other women, that's a cost of doing business, But it will be as little as posslble, and she will take more than them due to her administrative duties or whatever excuse she dreams up. The important principle of understanding feminism is this: Women do not give a shit about each other, except to hate each other. Sometimes they appear to line up and say the sa…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 01:44 AM
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No she's not honest. Bet she takes a cut of all that money. For her administrative duties of course. She doesn't give a shit about other women. Women never do. (White knights, on the other hand, like the guy bananawhatever, really want to help all women in a way that just brings their disgust.)
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 01:40 AM
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No it's really not that bad. The white knights get abused like this. The ones who can say no, win. Remember, women have no sympathy for each other, and whenever they appear to band together, it's just because their individual interests are aligned at that moment. So it's easy to break them up and make them ridicule a woman who is so greedy.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 01:34 AM
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"That's not how I see it ..." Don't try to cure a white knight that doesn't wanna be cured. rofl
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 01:30 AM
1

How does that change your child support obligation? What else matters?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 09:38 PM
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I don't see the point of not being married if you have kids. You are both bound to those kids, legally and financially, and emotionally because they are your line, your life that continues after you die. You're stuck together. Now it's a catastrophe if the bitch can throw you out and make you keep paying, but not being married won't affect that much that I can see, in fact could make it more likely. And courts will award child support regardless of marital status, as I understand it. The state d…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 09:36 PM
1

She's not like she was before, she is primarily the kid's mom and cares little about you. This won't change. Double down on the alpha cues and keep the bitch in line. Fuck her hard and put another one or two buns in that oven. If you're going thru all this grief, might as well have multiple kids to show for it.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 09:32 PM
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No matter what contracts you write, the courts will make sure you're financially responsible for the kids.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 09:31 PM
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I'm married 20 years, raising 2 kids. And OP is on the right track. Now I recommend he start fucking her for real and get those kids popped out. Starting earlier is better and you can have more of them. 24 isn't too late to start, but it isn't early either. After the kids come, the hard part starts. Women's attraction naturally shifts from being your lover to your kids' mother. Maternal love is stronger than anything, but you are needed for what you can provide. Honestly my wife now sees her rol…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 09:25 PM
1

If you get a normal woman, she would probably find it interesting reading. Why not be spiteful, women are often spiteful, and a man should not try to be better than the woman. When he does climb out of the woman's gutter he should do it with an air of superiority -- so, sort of still in the gutter. Down and dirty is what women are about.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 09:12 PM
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I've found women are not hostile at all to redpill ideas. I relate them specifically to a story I am telling, they arise naturally from the situation, and the woman agrees and likes them. Men are afraid of being un-PC or they are brainwashed. Women are more cold and realistic than that. (Except they are susceptible to tingles.) Women know the weaknesses of women. And they don't mind exploiting them, see the "frenemies" comments in OP. For a guy to understand this stuff, to talk about it easily w…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 09:09 PM
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She admitted the facts of rape, even though she probably didn't think of it that way herself. Ignorance of the law is no excuse, for men or for women.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 01:30 PM
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She only did it because she doesn't even realize that a female is subject to that law. She never thought of it that way. Well a lot of men get surprised by the insane laws and there's no mercy for them, so there should be no mercy for Amy. Until there's a mass exoneration and they ALL have their convictions overturned.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 01:28 PM
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She did rape him. Get it through your thick skull. The law says she raped him. This is indeed analyzed in the thread, and even most of the females posting (at the top which is all I read) agree that it was rape. Women are not so forgiving of other women by the way. They mostly agree it is rape, because it is rape, under the law. We should use the hell out of the "if the genders were reversed" scenario, because it's the way we will get support for improving the laws, which will benefit reasonable…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 01:25 PM
1

I admit that reading her article, I would not think of "rape". I would put myself in the drunk guy's shoes and wish he could get it up properly. But it's not about feelings. It is about the law. The law says she raped him. She should be prosecuted, convicted and put on lifetime sex offender status, forced to register ... all the shit that happens. Maybe if that happens, a few more SJW's will stop being poisonous and support changing the ridiculous laws, instead.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 01:19 PM
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No, say your specific knowledge, otherwise it comes across as too generic.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 12:45 PM
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We are all made in God's image. Do we try to live up to our potential? Yes you tell him, hard as it feels, because you know it's right. Anonymously works fine.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 12:44 PM
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"those who don't want to be unplugged"? The poor guy doesn't know all the facts! Just give him the facts you know, he's going to make the decision himself anyway.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 12:40 PM
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I am not advising on technique, just that you should tell him, unlike what RPmatrix says. So what if you're not certain? If he gets a paternity test and it IS his, then he knows. Mention "paternity test" and that it's easy to get, then there's no way he would dump them without at least such a test.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 12:39 PM
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Tell him as clearly as you can (anonymous account with the true facts would work) NOW while he has time to process it and get the paternity test, before he's locked in legally as the father.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 12:36 PM
1

It's all relative. Except that you can go overseas. Rather than bemoaning the state of affairs, which makes you sound whiny and you could even make intemperate statements and get in trouble ... solve your problem. There's a whole world of women, and an American guy is a pretty good commodity in most of the world. Let's have a thread about how to make as sure as possible, that your loyal wife from a country where women are still female, isn't cynically exploiting you with plans to split with righ…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 12:26 PM
1

You become pretty old with still a lot of teen years left, even if you and wife pump out kids pretty efficiently right after starting. You don't feel this at all at your age.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 05:47 AM
1

If you lived in the USA, it cost most of that 45K to live at all reasonably.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 05:31 AM
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I think one can be fully a man, without having 5 million free and clear by age 40. Don't be a white knight for your children either. I am speaking from experience here, as one who has one late-teen and one early-teen. And I think the comparison is apt. We say the woman is the oldest teenager in the house, because teen behavior isn't much better than female behavior. You can't take it personally, nor have all your wealth locked up so that it's really theirs and you can't take it back. Or I think …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 05:28 AM
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As a guy who waited til 40 to get married and start this whole process, I agree it would have been better to start at 20. I made the mistake of going to engineering school and so dropped completely out of social life for a long time.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 05:20 AM
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Then what happens when the husband is told to write checks to some finance company and he decides this is bs and stops sending checks? Does the judge enforce payments to the third party finance company? Does the finance company break the wife's knees?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 05:17 AM
1

Yeah after this suddenly find he doesn't have this problem. Girls will stop sleeping with him at all until he unlearns that shit.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 04:33 AM
1

Ugly, short fat guys are alpha about as much as others, at least if they're smart.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 11:45 PM
1

You have to be clear. You change your face, stop being "husband" and be "ex" who is saying no. Just say "no I don't want to continue this marriage any more." If you're not ready to do that, maybe you are not so sure. And that's OK too. I am not saying you should cut it off with her, or not. If you're really decided to end it, being soft will either give her false hope, or it will drag it out at your expense, or both. Be clear, in a kind voice, without saying more than necessary. I think that's t…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 10:54 PM
1

Pay the maid? How much? Didn't know this was done.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 10:43 PM
0

I planned out a vacation last summer. One of the sights to see, out of 5 or 6, wasn't good. Wife wouldn't stop bitching about it. I told her to plan a vacation if she wants one. And if she isn't wet, fine.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 10:42 PM
1

Please explain. What work are you referring to? I am fairly new to this community. I figured out enough game to do OK 20 years ago, since then I've been raising my family with my wife and only recently have I found (and benefitted from) RP, the game community, etc.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 10:52 PM
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What do you want to them to do, just completely give up trying anything because of that? No, please read the OP. Instead they should do things that work, like GG is apparently doing. Stop trying to reason harder with people, because that's begging them for understanding, and simply attack the bad behavior of white knights and feministas.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 10:50 PM
1

Interesting. I had not focused on those parts of the story.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 03:45 PM
0

If he's alpha, I think we're all alpha. All he did was to value himself. Personally I'd go for the FFM but not the MMF, so I wouldn't do it just your way.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 03:41 PM
2

Being a bad person is OK once she starts the ball rolling like that. But he just didn't aspire to that kind of threesome drama. Different strokes, one not better than the other.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 03:39 PM
0

With my voice I say no. He's substantially right with this post.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 03:36 AM
1

So many white knight comments. Subtle, persistent. The problem isn't the anger phase, but the white knight perverters.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 03:29 AM
5

Especially correct on the watering down and bluepill subversion -- despite the efforts of the mods who seem just fine, but probably overwhelmed by the attacks.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 01:15 AM
5

Yes it is a conflict of interest, but it's almost an academic tradition for profs to date grad students. In other words, everyone will always look the other way.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 01:42 AM
0

Those grad students are paying tuition? They can't be any good. Anyone with talent in a PhD program is not paying tuition and can earn some money as a TA.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 01:40 AM
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I'll agree with her on this much. The prof. should not have tried to pretend the mediocre coed's comments on Orwell were more than they were. He didn't know the importance of negging . Too much of that false complimenting and she'll feel she's been there and done that, and dump HIM.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 01:38 AM
1

I wonder if sociological statistics are any more competent than medical statistics used to be. As in, not very. I know, it's obvious, that we have differing results by race. Do you assume that if things were completely fair, those results would no longer differ? If so, why? If not, then what's the basis for deciding we haven't done enough, or even too much? Any shred of math talent in anyone from an "underrepresented minority" will be encouraged and get that person lots of scholarships as well. …
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 12:43 AM
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I'm automatically suspicious of people who are studying race (I think we've way overdone the compensation for the groups whose results are not so good) and education (because there are forces all the way up to the UN who want to make education about "equity" and closing achievement gaps i.e. equality of results again.) It's always gratifying to get agreement esp. from women, perhaps because it's more interesting. It's a new twist on our male echo chamber here. But I am struck by the negative rea…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 10:12 PM
1

But most women are not feminists, at least they are uncommitted to it. On the internet you can get a twisted impression, because the most vocal women on the subject are the feminists. But one sees the same nicknames over and over. Few people, lots of noise. They are women who have dropped out of the mainstream. Typically they have failed in the competition for male attention. Women certainly can be troublesome for men, AWALT after all, but they don't hate men the way hardcore feminists do.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 09:56 PM
2

We can generalize about vegetables, men, rocks, differential equations, food flavors, men, RP men -- so why not feminists?
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 07:00 PM
2

She was one of the lucky elite who got admitted to Columbia. They're supposed to be very smart. An Asian female got no affirmative action boost there. And what she gets 4 years and $200,000 later is a visual arts degree? And notoriety as the mattress girl? She is an idiot actually.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 06:04 PM
2

It's important to remember that the real victim here is not other rape victims, who still have the opportunity to prove their cases in court. The real victim is the man falsely accused.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 06:01 PM
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The position is waiting, HR has "prioritized" you. Why aren't you in that position today? What is the position waiting for? Not sure HR is being completely truthful here.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:15 PM
2

I thought OP played it beautifully. When he quit, they could have persuaded him to come back with a better offer. Thanks for shilling for management though.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:12 PM
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OK when they weigh the costs and benefits, they have the lawyers telling them to hire the woman, but at least they should have the supervisor telling them he needs the man and is afraid he'll quit if he's mistreated.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:10 PM
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Not needed. Just demand to be HER boss or at least make a lot of money. Otherwise turn them down. We know how to turn down women. It's no different. Hold frame.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:09 PM
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But men don't get preferential treatment in heavily female fields like nursing.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:07 PM
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Black women say white women benefit the most from a.a. I think that's only true in total: the most a.a. hires of any subgroup are white women. But per capita, I am sure it's black women. Black women are double minorities. And as a result, very few black men get preferential treatment. Why hire a black man if you can hire a black woman and get double credit? So black men probably get little benefit from a.a. and have a high unemployment rate. I have no axe to grind here. I am a white man. I'll ne…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:05 PM
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Your second point is generally right. But here he wanted to avoid training the woman who was hired instead of him. Since he had the confidence he could get another job, he was quite right here.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:03 PM
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If he got those great reviews and perfect scores, he reasonably asked what the hell had happened. Off the record it's reasonable to think he was told this.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:01 PM
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It was too late. The other person was already hired. They gave him no warning that would have allowed him to use those strategies.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 12:59 PM
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Very well done. Many props.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 12:58 PM
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Yes, I don't see why the man can't have at least moderate control of the money. Though the woman will put up a tremendous psychological battle over it.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 04:33 AM
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Once they are "settled down" what happens if the guy grows some alpha balls? I don't mean sleeping with another woman, but keeping at least some control of the money, a little dread here and there, etc. Crossing up her control mechanisms.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 04:32 AM
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Beta game may get the girl. But then you should go HARD alpha once she starts pulling the shit. It works. Just as it should according to theory.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 04:27 AM
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Why? Because it's a white-knight society where a woman is presumed to deserve "honor and glory" regardless of her actions.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 04:22 AM
2

Indeed. I advise people to do the same in the USA or anywhere else.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 04:15 AM
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In the United States, truth is an absolute defense to slander. Furthermore, the only people who saw the tape (presumably) are the people in the courtroom that day. The tape compromised her "honor and glory"? In Sweden the white knighting is so bad that a female is legally presumed to be "glorious"!
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 04:14 AM
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Yeah, that's just the first stage of redpill. What's beyond that, she doesn't understand. But it's OK, that's a man's job, not a woman's. Women really can't go there, but GWW does commendable work.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 03:28 AM
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Female friends are OK. They're great if it's just a friendship because you have or could turn them down. It sucks if they have turned you down. So if you show no interest and have some alpha cues, they'll probably be attracted, and then being "safe" is fine because it's your choice, hence you retain your higher status in the relationship. A female friend in that case can be a very nice friend for a guy, and she'll do things for you she would not do for another woman -- because instead of light c…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 05:18 AM
1

No it's not because you're Mother Teresa. It's because you are, in fact, a clueless newbie and experienced old hands (probably especially nurses) know it. If you try to hotshot it soon (something tells me that time is about one year) they may take pleasure in embarrassing you. Your residency is several years, right? What matters is not how much you are in charge now, but how much you are in charge the last year or two.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 05:12 AM
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Did you have parents? Were they married? Was it hell? With RP knowledge, you can make it work. And the pendulum is swinging back a bit, women are dreading getting too old single because men are refusing to marry MILF's now -- life can be good, make your own kiddies with a girl who's hot for you, that you are also attracted to
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 12:40 AM
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No, the correct conclusion is don't spend 20k on a wedding. Mine was 2k, planned by my wife. It was nice, but it would have been almost as good to go to the courthouse and have a party at home afterward, like my parents (married over 50 years) did. Spending more on the wedding weakens the marriage. That's what I believe now. And if by some chance you have a very affordable wedding and the sex stops, then just get divorced or annulled. She thinks she's got you hooked, but actually not yet -- it's…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 12:33 AM
1

They have big "quinceanera" (15 years old, their equivalent) in Spanish speaking countries, and at least in Latin America there's nothing wrong with their birthrate.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 12:31 AM
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If the first husband had the balls he was born with, his answer to "Can we just cuddle tonight?" would have been "No." Men, don't act like this. When you take a wife, take her and fuck her.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 12:30 AM
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Wrong conclusion. Don't marry a whore, and if you do marry a whore, make sure she kept some of the $$ so you can enjoy the money with her. Jesus F. Christ, if nobody here marries and (most important) has kids, we're going to let everyone else reproduce and we'll have to pay for their kids' schooling etc. while we die old and alone. The level of game required to keep a marriage with kids intact is higher than that required for playing the single game. But that doesn't mean you can't do it. Maybe …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 12:26 AM
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Married guy here. Married about 20 years, 2 kids, ours. I've seen all the stuff play out that is talked about here. Well except cheating. But emotional games galore, and more that I don't want to talk about. RP is one of the sources that gave me the backbone to straighten things up -- but the going would have been heavy regardless. Women do lose attraction when the kids are out of infancy, and then the shit often starts. This morning I fucked my wife, my kids are doing well and becoming fine you…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 12:12 AM
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It's hard for a man to fail to be in control, if he just understands a tiny bit about women. They will be naturally attracted to him. Having a dick is a huge advantage when it comes to dealing with a woman, and all you have to do is lose beta cues and an amazingly large number will just be somewhat attracted. Reading a site like this helps. I would say "know your enemy" but they are not your enemy, and their vagina is your friend. PS I'm not much to look at so it's not that I'm especially hot --…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 12:05 AM
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Are you a parent? I am amazed at the amount of advice and evaluation of parenting, from people who've never done it themselves, maybe never even played the game successfully enough to get a decent wife so they can try.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 12:03 AM
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I don't see what's surprising about it. If this is the first you are learning women are greedy and selfish, welcome to the Pill. For example, wishing your kids were smarter. How many guys here just want a hot chick and ignore intelligence? They will be singing that same tune. I've tried to warn here about that. Good site, good reading about how the other half thinks. In some ways not too much different than us. Look we all sweat and fart, they just call it something different when it comes from …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 11:55 PM
1

But if the person isn't a deafmute and not roofied or otherwise strongly intoxicated? If she's roofied she's limp, isn't she? But if she's normally responsive but you are taking the lead -- man that's how the human race has survived this long. Are you saying that only "yes means yes"? I thought that wasn't the law hardly anywhere.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 10:54 PM
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Someone downgraded, but didn't explain why.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 10:48 PM
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Well a bit of it is inevitable. If she's in the middle of all that stuff you're likely to get drawn into some of it. That's not pandering it's normal life. But if you pander by letting her spend all your money, or being particularly interested in the wedding, that would probably come off as weak. The guy should have other things he's doing. You know, like a normal busy guy into guy things.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 10:46 PM
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Not really. I'm not female so you won't soften and defend me. Which is great.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 10:14 PM
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I am not going to take responsibility for women. They succeed or fail, and when they fail it's their problem. If they ask my help I can choose to give it or not. Women are adults just as men are. Women have problems. That doesn't mean they are my problems. Anything else is white knighthood. Thanks for the literal comfirmation of your white knighthood. There's nothing I can "do about it". Women are as they are. Damsel's in distress? Well I'll save her if I would save anyone else in the same distr…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 10:04 PM
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It worked because actually he has enough, and a good future. She miscalculated and now pays the price. Cool.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 09:38 PM
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He didn't fail. She's asking to come back to him. He won. Your questions are OK too, there's more than one right response.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 09:37 PM
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She broke up with an engineering student who has enough to get him to graduation at least. (Honestly I don't understand buying a house unless you have kids (not just a wife) to put in it, but maybe it's a good investment now, I don't claim to know.) What's he supposed to do, take her back? Realize he was wrong not to show her his balance sheet and income statement because vagina? You can't be serious! lol ...
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 08:49 PM
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No motivation and no life goals = you won't be a slave for me. I bet most alphas would come across that way. You get her wet, she's just looking for a beta provider now.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 08:46 PM
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You didn't mention your gf / plate / whatever. Do you bring a female to the group or are you perceived as making time with other guys' females?
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 11:44 PM
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OP says you would be wrong to assume the all female group would work like an all male group. All men is fine. All men with one or two women around tends to cock-tease the men. But if there are anywhere like sufficient women, the men stop focusing on them and the women freak.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 11:32 PM
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The men's behavior is worse because they trapped in the middle of the ocean with insufficient females. It's like engineering school. Whereas on shore, the men can mellow out, and correspondingly the women freak out, because the thought of a man relaxing pretty much gives a woman dread. So according to you, that's the man's fault for not being deprived enough, or something.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 11:31 PM
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Engineering school sucks. Grade A men, and an insufficient supply of grade A or grade B women (affirmative action at work) so that they are getting all excited over anything with a slot.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 11:27 PM
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Not the first time I've thought your comments are white knight-ish. Sometimes I've said so.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 11:26 PM
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The women will either get along famously, or be at each others throats constantly... it's all over the map, and the less they are sexualized in the workplace, the better off it gets. So if the women aren't getting along with each other, it's somehow the guys' fault! Hope you didn't swallow that koolaid if they tried to tell you that.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 11:23 PM
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Bet you never got any pussy from it or anything else of value. Never help girls. But I didn't know that as a kid either.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 11:15 PM
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I recommend the linked article.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 11:12 PM
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It's about getting girls you find desirable. If she's a 6 with a high IQ, you'll have better children with her than an 8 with a low IQ. But hey they're your future children, don't let me tell you what to go for.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 09:42 PM
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Bachelorette parties are gold mines because there are sets on spades, those girls not getting married and especially those without guys are really feeling it, competitive with the others at the party (they'll compete with them for the bouquet the bride tosses in a few days), and so the mood is perfect to get the OTHER girls. Not the bride, you moron.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 09:40 PM
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Why can't you be a Chad looking for an unattached girl? If Chad is finding that there are no desirable unattached girls, that's a useful datapoint. Or maybe the Chad type is more attractive to women already in a relationship. Just a thought, no idea why or what it would mean if that is true.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 09:38 PM
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I haven't. I really can't recall that this happened to me. Now someone will say it did and I just didn't know it. And what can I say, if they're right I don't know it. But I don't think it's right.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 09:36 PM
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Aren't there single girls enough for the hanging Chads out there? I don't get the point of going for a girl who's already in a relationship, does that make her more desirable to you? If so you're acting like a woman, Chad, by looking for social proof! Reverse the genders and realize how much women hate and fear other women who are homewreckers -- since this is typical FEMALE behavior, Chad.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 09:34 PM
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Not so sure the women are actually nice to each other at the beginning, there's a sort of veneer to their behavior that's used to hide and gloss over their natural mutual distrust and dislike. So it starts off as tolerance. Then the veneer is worn away and what's left is, well, just shit. And why? They aren't especially good as soldiers in any discipline, are they?
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 08:51 PM
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Screamed at by another woman no less. Mutual hatred situation.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 08:49 PM
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If they buy that, don't buy them. They'll be spendthrifts in the future too.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 07:45 PM
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I was working overseas in the runup to my wedding. My bride worked it all out and did all that crap, with minimal intervention from me. It came out great and was not expensive. Ability to manage money is important in a girl. This is a clue to how she'll be as a wife. Basically, a cheapskate is best.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 07:43 PM
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I advise a cheap wedding. A young couple needs every penny for paying down debt, various startup expenses and savings. Getting married at the courthouse is a fine idea, or some other ceremony that isn't expensive. If the girl wants an expensive wedding ask her where she's getting the money. Not from you, certainly.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 07:41 PM
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Nothing says you have to be a beta provider, In fact, once you're married, the only reason to be beta is because the big joint project of raising kids requires a lot of cooperation. When you take that vow, she may think she's getting a beta provider, but you are not promising it.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 07:39 PM
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Women are vacuous and materialistic. That's what they are, it's what they have always been. And (partly because they prefer the company of men to that crap with each other) they want to lock down a man. It's how the human race has made it however many thousands of years we've been here. These women are just the current generation, but for once they acting like NORMAL FEMALES. Don't be so suspicious. We won. Enjoy, but remember relationship game to keep that marriage on the rails.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 07:37 PM
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Here's what the parents want. Grandchildren. They got married, rode that marriage out thru thick and thin, played relationship game or whatever crap it took, and produced you so their line would continue. And now they'll be highly disappointed if you don't carry on and continue the line too, because you have to do it now, they can't any more.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 07:34 PM
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No it doesn't. In some cases it does but far from all. Look it's no secret that men are wising up and rejecting those who spent years on the Carousel. These girls look at their sisters, stranded when they thought they would have locked down a beta male (that beta male may have read some /r/theredpill ), and don't want that for themselves. Dread at work. Don't doubt that this is some evidence of our success.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 07:25 PM
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You are wrong. This is the right reason. A woman's role is to pair with a man and produce and raise babies. This is as deep as it gets. We know that women are not great thinkers, their thinking is just good enough to handle this role very reliably. They are acting like true females here, not perverted left wing lesbian bitches. All the stuff about "love" really sort of evaporates by the time the kids are a few years old and life is a long slog of supporting this growing family, meanwhile the wom…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 07:19 PM
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Yes women compete with each other and put each other down, a fact to bear in mind that will come in handy in many situations. But a woman's prime role on this earth is to bear children, and she cannot escape that her body screams that at her in many ways. And when she has children, nothing in the world is nearly as important as those kids. Not you, not her job, not some other guy -- nothing. Understand women. Use your knowledge to be in charge. Everyone's happier that way.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 07:14 PM
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Guys can protect themselves by having the wife work too, and following the advice for relationship game (a bit of dread here and there, don't turn beta especially if she's becoming distant, and never ever leave the house or act as if you are leaving it and the kids to her) -- it isn't perfect, but it's pretty good. Guys look, now that you KNOW the pitfalls, you can turn on a bit of game here and there and keep that woman from growing cold.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 07:12 PM
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Since I am glad that I have children (my own, not some other guy's) I would advise that in situations like this, the green light is on if you find a girl you like. If she's somewhat plain but healthy and intelligent, especially if her family isn't poor, that's a good catch. You'll have intelligent healthy kids and her family may help you out a bit here and there. If she's on track to graduate college at least she's not too stupid. It makes sense to be highly suspicious of marriage. But if there'…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 07:08 PM
2

She's probably an alpha widow and he dumped her or didn't return her texts after ... so now he's "her rapist".
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 02:46 AM
2

Do you have to let the other person know that you don't want it to continue?
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 02:45 AM
1

So now we're supposed to call her up after the buzz has worn off and ask her whether it was rape or not. Even though she consented and went along with it.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 02:44 AM
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It's not much of a movement. The slutwalk is stupid and any woman would have to be stupid to join it. Because MOST women and most men will just think of them as sluts. Women are not a team. Usually they are just clueless, even as they are often nasty.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 02:43 AM
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Sometimes bravery is stupid. She's announced the whole thing to the world and now everyone will despise her. And yes she did drink too much and her shorts were too short, but beyond that she doesn't tell us what happened and I am not going to assume.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 02:40 AM
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See she still wanted to see you again because you didn't throw money at her when she expected it. Well done. You can have a good chuckle at her msgs, she is still thinking of you.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 02:34 AM
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I don't understand, I think you have it backward. If it's an LTR, then each is responsible for the other's choices to some extent; they are a unit. For a first date, they are not.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 02:31 AM
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Exactly. He lost frame by asking and invited all the crap. If he'd just said "let's split the bill" and not budged, she would have looked bad for complaining. Still, if he chose the restaurant, it is somewhat his fault. It should have been a cheap coffee get together, not a restaurant far better than I have ever been in, in my life.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 02:29 AM
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I don't know anything about modeling. Does this mean women make more than men? I know there are more women than men models, and a lot of men would not want to model but I think more women would if they had the looks, so it's not fair to compare the top female to the top male. Nobody's heard of the top male. But what about an average female model vs. an average male model, does the average female make much more money?
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 02:27 AM
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These days they will grow old with their cats. Yes we are having an effect.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 11:54 PM
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True. And the real skill is where you can get laid on her pussy's assessment even without "having the goods" her greedy mind wants. Or certainly not ever spending or providing significantly for her. I never agreed with "be exceptional", that's giving too much to the woman. All you really need is a good 30 seconds to get her pussy sending her demands, and women are not some sort of truth-diviners. Hey there's nothing wrong with being exceptional, and it's one way of making it easier to come acros…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 11:51 PM
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Exactly. I would say you are still somewhere in the hate-phase. It's normal, I was there too, everyone says they were. It will pass. You are past the hard part and you will have more and more fun!
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 11:47 PM
1

I've never had the experience of being friendzoned by a woman but having her still usable as a wing-woman. Different experiences I guess but I can't relate to that.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 11:44 PM
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There are 2 kinds of fz: the one where the man wants sex and the woman refuses, and the one where the woman would accept sex but the man does not offer it. The first kind is no good, you'll never have a good female friend like that. Get out of her fz or get away from her. The second kind of fz is the one where your female friends will be assets to you, pleasurable to you, an ornament to your alpha frame.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 11:37 PM
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And he's changing status. Guys can change. I've had women upgrade me before, as I was figuring this stuff out and applying my new style. It's explicit. Most guys can't get out of the fz because they don't change. If you change, the woman may resist cognitively but eventually her pussy will demand that she try to keep you.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 11:35 PM
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But he may have killed it just before by "laying it all out". Guys, don't do that.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 11:33 PM
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Sounds exactly like what he said. A woman classifies men as "tingles" or "no tingles". "Hatred" is reserved for other women, so those are the only 2 categories you'll get as a man. (Pretty cool to be a man, it makes interacting with women much easier!) If she puts you in "no tingles", that's the worse of the two so it's an insult.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 11:32 PM
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Nobody succeeds all the time, but he's not blaming anyone. He's just saying he won't spend time with that woman. If he wants to hate her for his health, that's fine. It didn't seem to come thru to her, from what he said, and if it did, it means he's not thru the anger phase, but that is just a phase and it's fine too.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 11:30 PM
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Well done at the end. The "laying it all out" was probably not helpful and perhaps harmful. Rather than telling a woman you would like to date her, isn't it smoother to suggest (not ask, almost tell) her where you can meet for that first date, not even use the word date?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 11:28 PM
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Why, it probably got her wet. All he needed was to hold alpha frame and the wetness would have increased. But he showed weakness and emotion, and it dried her right up.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 11:09 PM
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I think everything was OK up until "so it's over before it began", that brings up a romantic image. A desirable guy is not romantic but effective. Frank's proposing you basically compete with the boyfriend. That's weak as you know instinctively. After "I just felt bad for him" you could even go all-positive "I am not going to risk that. Best to both of you!". She will hate you forever then for being so superior you leave her with him and no chance to get you back.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 11:05 PM
1

I like the start with the weights. You undersold yourself here, women will come running for you. But not if you don't realize it. Just drop ALL beta cues. Like the last line, didn't you feel uncomfortably beta sending it? That's the clue not to. She should talk and write twice as much as you. Consistent with the observation your middle texts were a bit much also.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 11:01 PM
2

yes, she (like feminism generally) is hardest on the women. She threw every other woman at Kleiner under the bus that she could -- Mary Meeker was too strong for that so she just avoided Meeker. Women are naturally attracted to men (even though they don't mind screwing them over) and naturally hate other women. So it's fun to play these games as a guy even if you don't want to take the risk of trying for or having sex.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 10:45 PM
3

Hm, wonder if I am shadow banned ... I was pretty direct about her.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 10:42 PM
1

And this reminds us of the redpill truth: you gotta contradict the woman and shove her shit tests right back up her ass (with a smile of course.) Otherwise she'll needle you to death. Only when she feels like a loser will she stop it.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 10:41 PM
1

Maybe those women aren't really so desired, so if they turn down an offer (that's what negotiation really is) they are simply dropped. Now they scream foul.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 10:38 PM
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Indeed, if as you say women are unable to obtain their market value in negotiation, then Reddit will hire them for cheap. But men, being able to come much closer to their market value in negotiation, will not accept Reddit's lowball offer and will stay at their current jobs or go elsewhere. So Reddit will manage to fill with underpaid females (Ellen doesn't like women, she never did a favor for one that we know of, so this is fine with her) and at least until the place implodes, there will be no…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 10:36 PM
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This is perhaps the purpose. To take away any asymmetrical advantage of men while jealously guarding and strategically increasing those of women. But given the number of women at Kleiner she threw under the bus, for the promotion of only one female's career (her own), I don't believe she cares about other women any more than other "feminists" do.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 10:19 PM
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Shareholders generally only have one priority. Well two: expected return, and risk. I didn't notice "diversity" in that list.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 10:17 PM
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They're required to offer equal or better pay to women, but men can negotiate easier because actually they are higher value. Now after Ellen's edict, men simply won't join the company. They'll negotiate by accepting someone else's better offer. In fact they won't even want to interview at Reddit with this ultra-feminist tool in charge. Women say they're just as good. Reddit will soon be a test case, because it will be predominantly female before long.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 10:12 PM
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Yeah when that happens I leave the group behind. If a woman wants 2 guys, she can have the other one. I am an independent cat not a loyal dog.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 10:07 PM
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Am I just supposed to "be myself"? lol Actually I am, but I decline to provide beta cues for your exploitation. Since I stopped I've found women generally delightful to deal with. :)
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 10:04 PM
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Indeed this is the best way. Deconstruct "their" arguments, extract the facts, and rearrange things in a way that really makes sense. Yup, they'd probably hate that. They more they hate, the more it's a sign of success.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 10:03 PM
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The real problem on this sub is the subversives and white knights trying to muddy the message, get men to "man up", get men to compete against each other, and all sorts of wrong things.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 10:01 PM
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Anyone helping them was showing beta / white knight behavior. If they can't be bothered. Walk away. And when they THEN get out to help, keep walking. A lesson to be taught, your time to be saved.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 07:25 PM
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The latter depends on how much of a sex god you are. As a newly alpha you may not be that far up the experience curve, but getting in the panties at all is significant and could be the start of a new adventure. Women bond through sex. The reason it may appear that a beta can't get out of the friendzone is that betas rarely change. I've had a girl react differently to me after I changed a bit, and could see it in her body language while we talked, and then she said "you've changed ..." and I coul…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 06:40 AM
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They don't care. Those are real advantages, real money, real careers they get and you don't because of that status. As a consumer I back that advantage out of my decision making as much as I can, preferring providers who did not receive affirmative action.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 06:35 AM
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I'll continue to apply the statistically correct assumption that (other things being equal) affirmative action recipients are less talented and skilled than those who did not receive that advantageous treatment. I am fully entitled to think this. If they want me to stop thinking this, all they have to do is repeal the affirmative action laws, then I'll gradually stop thinking it as results of more fair selection processes appear for my review.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 06:33 AM
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Yeah that's true according to the statistics, and it doesn't contradict what I wrote, if only the top 50% or top 20% of the bell curve (of all people) can do STEM. But even for a guy and girl with the same full-scale IQ, the guy is more likely to have better mechanical aptitude (tested on the ASVAB but not the SAT, so it doesn't help the guy get into college) and also math aptitude, and the girl is likely to have better verbal aptitude (tested on the SAT.)
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 06:30 AM
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You say no it's a lie. A girl won't even be believed by other girls if there's no evidence. They are not especially inclined to believe or have sympathy. Read a bit of /r/relationships if you doubt this -- it seems a guy has to step in to convince other girls, which is why a white knight can be dangerous. But if it didn't happen, just say so. And knowing this works, a girl won't usually try shit against a guy with self confidence to say what he wants to say. They don't see a soft target, they re…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 06:24 AM
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If this guy is doing OK in his PhD program, say he's been admitted to candidacy, he can be a Big Man On Campus at his elite university and get plenty of attention from elite girl students. It's a fine hunting ground. wtf is he thinking??
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 12:50 AM
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It's not just that it doesn't appeal to them. Most people who can do STEM, do it. The reason is that most girls can't do it. They seem at least as smart as boys up to early HS. By the end the boys are pulling ahead, especially in math related stuff. Girls can do biology but rarely physics. It's normal and biological. Girls' brains don't contine to develop, testosterone helps in the development of spatial reasoning ability, etc. This was obvious in my advanced math classes in HS where the % of gi…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 12:39 AM
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She can accuse him. he can deny. Studying together, providing some answers on homework, tutoring the course is not going to get him in trouble. If he had written a paper for her and she could prove it, that woudl be more dangerous. If he had taken a test for her, very dangerous. But it doesn't sound like that happened. Don't be afraid to play mind-games on girls. Guys can win these games, but in the words of a state lottery advertisement, "you can't win, if you don't play".
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 12:34 AM
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My rule: Never Help Girls . I think you should become more comfortable talking again to the leech. Sit close to her. Don't return her texts because the only appropriate replies could be evidence of sexual harassment. But talk to her, don't retreat from her. And when she tries to "work" or "study" with you, decline / go away / outright refuse / laugh at her. That will hurt her, which is what you'll enjoy. Your next step is becoming comfortable talking to such bitches. Soon you'll be dropping thei…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 12:31 AM
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Nah I don't really agree. He didn't lose control in a bad way, but in a redpill way. Having this stuff come out of your mouth naturally (i.e. not "controlled") means your redpill self is emerging.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 12:26 AM
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Well done OP. Rather than having a big breakup with her when you felt most emotional, you waited (whether intentionally or not) when she was expecting you to give her 15% of the grade. When you turned her down she did not have time to find a backup or learn to do it herself. This is all right and fair. It should hurt her. Well done!
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 12:20 AM
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The women typically have a breakdown when a guy isn't the dad. The woman is desperate to find a cash flow stream and the intensity of the breakdown shows that they would do literally anything to get it. Watch those shows if you're ever thinking of sex with a single mom or otherwise associating with her in any family-like role.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 04:25 AM
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The part about receiving CS was for the kid's own good. Nobody else would pay that money to them. Granted he would have been a good (step)dad in person too, but as the kid grew up looking nothing like him maybe questions would be asked ... better to go away and keep him sending money, financially anyway.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 04:21 AM
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Probably just losing the beta cues. What's left is a man you may not have known is in there.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 04:32 PM
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Former engineer here ... For me engineering school was a social desert because it was so much work, and because I went to a true "engineering school" rather than taking that major at a diversified university. The women were simply horrible, with few exceptions. Went from incipient social life and having a girlfriend to monk-mode. Likewise when working as an engineer, there were few women, and those that were around were heavily advantaged because of affirmative action. Barely competent female en…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 03:41 PM
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It's your house. You paid for it. You are entitled to be there as much as you want.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 12:32 AM
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Well this is a bit complicated. Because Sharia is the opposite of gynocentrism! The Muslims have something useful to teach us. Let the liberals promote it.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 12:30 AM
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I thought it would be a good neg with a woman near the wall. How do you neg those women anyway? Can't say I spent enough time with them to worry about developing the technique, maybe you are the same ...
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 03:59 AM
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"and we wouldn't even if we wanted to" doesn't make much sense, read it carefully. If you can still change the title I think it should be "and we wouldn't even if we could".
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 03:56 AM
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Take it from an old married guy: a lot of truth there. Regardless of when you marry her, after a couple kids and 10 years, your relationship won't be new and fresh any more. But kids are important to me. If they're not important to you, avoid the whole scene. And OMG don't marry a single mom. When she had the test tube baby, that killed whatever desirability she had left. With all the difficulty of raising a child, you want all those kids to be yours.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 02:17 AM
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Or you cannot change your habits faster than your SMV drops ... and drops and drops.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 02:02 AM
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But now there's this book and other things to help them see the wider picture. Will they learn from it? Darwin is waiting for their answer.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 02:01 AM
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I think continuing my family line is pretty redpill. Or if it's not, the fault is with "redpill" not with me.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 01:59 AM
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You don't appreciate that a woman cannot make a single baby without your sperm. She needs you as much as you need her. This sub is getting more and more filled with white knight comments. That's OK because guys learn by saying these things and being corrected. But boy there are a lot of misconceptions out there. A man is at least as magical to a woman as a woman is to a man. You do not appreciate how much women need you.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 01:55 AM
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Don't get "infuriated" ffs. Girls get infuriated. Laugh it off and ask her about the zits on her face or pull some other game move. Neg her. This female is not someone you want to have intellectual discussion with, isn't that obvious?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 01:52 AM
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Yoga is great exercise! Maybe it's harder for a man than a woman in some ways, but that's OK, it makes you that much stronger. For me the greatest result was upper body strengthening, not what I expected. And I wasn't weak before, but now I am pretty strong. Combine with lifting and it will prevent tightness, so you'll have all the size but also flexibility.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 01:49 AM
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Go to the gym or box with consenting others. Don't go to the middle east and shoot up innocent civilians to get your macho feeling. Seriously. You'll have a more enduring confidence when you just identify and drop your bluepill cues, and then women will react to you as a man. It's that simple. No need to fight anyone really. But men do like conflict and physical activity, it's good for us. Just better to keep it safe for us and others, unless there's a good reason to do otherwise, like a war tha…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 03:24 AM
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Do you have a link about the punishments for indictable crimes? It would certainly be news to me.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 02:58 AM
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I thought it was a post saying that dread game isn't based on the girl's insecurity. And it sort of is. But your comment in the next to last paragraph implies that your point is, you apply dread game out of strategy rather than your own insecurity. But this is just perhaps an editing comment. You make an important point, and I am upvoting your thread. "Cancell dates last-minute, let her know you're seeing other girls and ignore her. Give her the 'haggle-experience' after all she's the one that w…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 02:57 AM
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I think this teaming is observed via the action of Team White Knight. See if women in traditional societies react this way. I don't think so. It's just the degradation of men (heavily influenced by insidious government and money power to be sure) that allows this sort of antisocial crap to flourish.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 02:19 AM
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I can't evaluate this until I see the study. Hope it turns up. But while women may well be a hivemind, this does not mean they are a team. Hivemind is just, empirically, observed by seeing that they react similarly. That's also explainable by AWALT: rather than communicating in some special way, they are independent but identical copies in the sense of their reactions to many stimuli. Certain stimuli, involving more than one woman, can show the difference. Game strategy includes approaching "set…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 02:13 AM
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I think it's more basic and chemical than that. Why isn't girls' night out an opportunity to bond? It sounds like it would be. It could be, if the women were inclined to bond. And in my bluepill / ignorant days, I didn't know this and I assumed there was a lot of bonding. No woman will tell you different after all! Consider how often lesbian relationships are violent. And this is between women who are, or choose to be, lesbian! There's a natural repulsion going on.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 02:07 AM
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This is help that, generally, a woman cannot give her son. A woman has maternal love for her son. Under this umbrella the son tends to be beta. The woman CANNOT stop having maternal love for her son. But she will get a thrill when the son breaks free and is negotiating the world of women, and especially when he brings her grandchildren. This is when the son becomes superior to the mother in a certain way, leaving the umbrella and becoming leader of the family. However this is something the son h…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 12:39 AM
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She does hate them more than you do. You have a possible reason to be with them -- sex and kids. She has no such reason, no sexual bonding, just revulsion.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 12:25 AM
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What's that town where women outnumber men so much that very attractive girls are ignored? Tell people here, some guys might move and give it a try. But, she could just move to some place like San Diego or generally near any military base, and the men outnumber the women. But very attractive women can be intimidating. Still if she moves as I said I am sure she can get plenty of male attention.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 12:16 AM
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You wish you had been born an attractive woman. Most women are not especially attractive. And they're invisible to you as they are to most guys. Whereas, by hard work or technique, an ugly guy can become a gamer and get lots of female attention.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 12:13 AM
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There is no team girl. Girls hate each other. But there are similar reactions to prevailing situations, that makes most or all women react the same way to stimuli. There's also the social proof aspect that women want a man who attracts other women. So to be blunt, if you think there's a team girl, I suspect you haven't yet gotten over being unpopular in high school with the girls. Learn some game and you'll find that team splinters with almost no effort on your part.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 11:50 PM
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Women generally care about their children more than anything. But in a non-intellectual way, it's instinctive and involuntary. And I suspect they care a bit more about their sons than their daughters.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 11:47 PM
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I don't think Obama ever wanted to give blacks priority treatment. He made asinine comments (If I had a son ...) that inflamed whites against blacks generally, but those comments didn't do any actual black people any good. If he had successfully prosecuted George Zimmerman the anti-black backlash would have been even worse. Obama is only a small percentage black, he's just as much Asian, supposedly. He was happy to accept the votes of practically every black person, that is all. Meanwhile he ope…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 11:36 PM
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They do it because they can. Financially, women, and in particular black women, can get jobs more easily than others with the same qualifications. And if they have kids, they can get AFDC. If they point out the baby daddy to the state, they get child support. Your grandmother, in today's world, would get on disability and relax. Maybe not her, but most women with her health issue anyway. Regarding loose women: women used to beat other women who slept around, to prevent someone daring to sleep wi…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 11:26 PM
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He's a rich famous athlete, he could have someone at home if he wanted. Maybe he's just MGTOW.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 11:15 PM
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Once you understand men's and women's utility functions, how they are the same and how they differ.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 06:01 AM
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When there's no-fault divorce, alimony makes no sense.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 05:57 AM
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Hope your alimony ends soon. You didn't say anything about child support, and that's good.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 05:54 AM
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Even though lots of people were telling her that. If they are idiots they deserve what they get. Darwin at work.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 05:41 AM
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She throws up barriers, so that you can break her rules and thereby make her wet. It's the same control. Female being in control dries her up. Your violating that causes lubrication. Of course you let her play with a little control, so she enjoys it, does some things that benefit her and you, and so she notices it when you snap it back or slyly redirect things or however you choose to dominate when you do. There's no wrong way to do it (as long as everyone's safe and not legally at risk bla bla …
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 05:32 AM
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Yes there are shortcuts. Fake it til you make it. If you want to master something, master it. If you want large muscles, get large muscles. If you want pussy though, you can get it even without much of mastering things or muscle enlargement. A little helps, talking about it and knowing how to show it off helps more, going beyond that is fine but diminishing returns in terms of pussy.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 05:30 AM
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Yes I think this thread is a waste of my time.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 05:24 AM
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Sarcasm, I hope. A POC will be rejected from a university that a white with the same grades will get into? Gimme a break, it is exactly the opposite.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 05:23 AM
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Propaganda. Just the same old crap.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 05:18 AM
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I think your schadenfreude may mature into an enjoyment of control of the interaction. And that's fine because it's the man's job to control.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 05:13 AM
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This is not particularly a sustainable solution. Only 1% can be in the top 1%. I regard it as a troll comment. Better to appear attractive, rather than nearly killing yourself so you can defeat other men, all the while the women cheer from the sidelines as men compete for them. Yeah sure lift if it will improve your attitude and health. Exercise is important, being swole is cool. But there's probably no need to go overboard. It's just pussy, and you just have to attract it for a brief irrational…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 05:11 AM
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It was affirmative action. Hiring a black man is perceived to be slightly dangerous by many, and it gets you one affirmative action credit. Hiring a black woman gets you two credits, for black and for female. And so black females have lots of opportunities, while black males have to be pushed out of homes with children so the welfare $$ can flow. Hence a fucked up black community with families destroyed and the men often taking up a life of crime.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 05:07 AM
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But it's hard to get that role. Lots of people realize that. And shareholders want those cost savings for themselves.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 05:04 AM
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Yeah don't stay in engineering too long unless you get a nice gig and/or have some patents. But it's a good education and a good place to start.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 04:29 AM
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Since online game and redpill sites are ideal for the way these geeks learn, I would expect that many of these guys hit their stride sometime in their 20's or early 30's. And this is reported by many to be the case.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 04:27 AM
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I think that would have been the outcome of KP had lost. As it is, they see women might be somewhat reluctant to file nuisance suits or they can hope to win, and they might take the risk of the hire. So, good outcome all around. And the other women at KP probably saw it the same way. She had no supporters among her "sisters".
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 04:17 AM
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He probably tries in a way that produces beta cues. Beta cues will produce revulsion no matter what the guy looks like. I suspect even more if the guy is handsome. If he stopped trying and just focused on non-beta behavior, I bet the pussy would find him.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 02:38 AM
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yeah I couldn't make that style work.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 02:26 AM
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