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If she went to therapy but refused to make any changes based on that (did I read you right?) Then I'm not sure what she's bringing to the table. Has she offered any radical changes from her side? What would it take for things to work? Are those things realistic?
/r/askMRP12/12/17 03:51 PM
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Correct
/r/askMRP29/08/17 04:16 AM
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Honestly I would do fucking everything possible to match her libido. That's nothing to do with RP or anything, just gut intuition. You can rest when you're dead.
/r/askMRP28/08/17 08:27 AM
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Maybe you know who you are very well, maybe you don't. When I was 17 I had a very high opinion of myself and figured I knew quite a bit. But I didn't know anything, especially about myself. I can also look back at other ages, 25, 30, 35 and see it happen again. Doubtless I will look back later and see what I am doing now as less than ideal. Don't get too locked into "who I am" thinking. If you're not totally closed off to learning and experience, you will always change over time.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 10:05 PM
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Favorite quote from NMMNG which also applies here nicely: "If it scares you, do it."
/r/askMRP17/08/17 07:17 PM
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You probably aren't addicted to porn, judging by what you've written
/r/askMRP15/08/17 04:26 AM
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So guys final verdict, was this a shit test proper or was it mixed with some kind of masculinity test? Loyalty test Or are those all the same? Noob in training here.
/r/askMRP14/08/17 03:35 PM
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Honestly good advice. He's obviously hung up on the virgin label. So fix that part, anyone can. Then fix the rest...
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 08:18 PM
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You're not the only beta Rambo around here, don't worry. About a month ago I had a full on meltdown in front of the wife at dread level zero, which I'm pretty sure set me back a couple of months or more. I'm too embarrassed to write the details. It's a journey...
/r/askMRP10/08/17 05:06 PM
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For a long time, far, far too long, I've been the submissive husband. Finally got fed-the-fuck-up with our shitty sex life, found this place. Now, after a few months of MRP training wheels I can at least see where the problem areas are. If anything, I've had the most difficulty easing into the material instead of going all out Rambo. I've no doubt the huge reaction I got from her was because she's never witnessed me making a stand for myself like that. I don't regret how I handled it, but I have…
/r/askMRP08/08/17 05:03 PM
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Mostly my anger has been triggered by my lack of accepting her lack of respect towards me. E.g. the last (and I hope final for a long while) outburst I had was after she woke me up from sleeping so I would close an open window in our bedroom, which she could have closed herself with very little difficulty. Old me would have gotten out of bed with some grumbles and closed the window. New me said no, went back to sleep, and then told her to never do that again in an ice cold tone when I did wake u…
/r/askMRP08/08/17 09:18 AM
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I will certainly check back in. :) thanks
/r/askMRP08/08/17 09:11 AM
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Rambo is a real thing. I've already fallen in to that pit and am currently climbing my way back out (had some anger outbursts, unproductive frank discussions about where our sex life is lacking- those things were not helpful at all and almost resulted in a separation). At the moment we're "repairing" emotions. Meanwhile am continuing to read... and planning to implement the 12 levels of dread slowly. I think, if I may say, the hardest part of this for me is sticking with it despite having this s…
/r/askMRP08/08/17 09:05 AM
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Yeah, it is hard to not look at the numbers. To be honest, I will keep tracking the numbers at least in the short run, because I need to have something objective to keep me honest about my situation. Clearly falling short of the monthly goal by one encounter is no reason to panic, but looking at the overall trend is something to keep an eye on I think.
/r/askMRP08/08/17 09:01 AM
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It's always happened to me when I've been too aggressive with increasing the weight on the bar. This takes practice, but only increase the weight when you can hit ask your reps on all sets with confidence. To be extra safe, don't increase weight until you can exceed your target reps on the last set. To over come injuries, find a good sports physiotherapist.
/r/askMRP08/08/17 05:05 AM
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Great post and I totally agree. It continues to astound me how backwards I've had it for so long. I used to always pride myself on being in touch with my emotions and being unafraid to share my sensitive side. face palm
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 08:43 AM
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I will do just that. Sadly I have fallen into the Rambo anger trap already. Went to fast on some things... Not too uncommon to do I guess. There will need to be some healing time before I can truly start level one and pass the shit tests consistently. At the moment she's talking about getting marriage therapy and is a little freaked out in general. Pretty sure I can navigate around the therapy idea and patch things up in a month or less. Meanwhile I'm taking time with BPPs book. Writing my actio…
/r/askMRP01/08/17 05:58 AM
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Thanks for all of these comments so far guys. It's a refreshing change in tone from what I hear in the db Reddit, where mostly I'm advised to just nuke it. I suspect this is because folks there are a bit jaded by their own experience and are vicariously lashing out at their own partners through others. Also likely because they don't have the tools to do anything about it like we have here. Just some guesses.
/r/askMRP31/07/17 06:23 PM
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Uh? Think you misunderstood. I'm not questioning if MRP is worth the effort. I'm questioning if my wife is worthy to be with me when I'm done with it. I think that was pretty clear from LRP as well. But glad you could experience some fun internet rage. (it can be fun.)
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/17 12:51 PM
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Really great comment. I've saved it in my trello of MRP tricks. cheers.
/r/askMRP25/07/17 12:37 PM
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Constantly questioning myself on this point.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/17 12:13 PM
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Yeah, and overall I think this is a fantastic comment, which I have committed to executing. Somewhere else I saw someone write that if a doesn't go forward with the required personal development, he can't expect his next relationship to ultimately turn out any different should the current one end. I know that RP is more than fixing a low sex life, it's about fixing men's lives. So should all my improvements fail to "fix" the DB, I'll be "ready" for the next girl. Sadly, we've always had a libido…
/r/askMRP25/07/17 11:13 AM
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You're absolutely right, I should update the post. Silly of me! [FOGGING and NEGATIVE ASSERTION]
/r/askMRP24/07/17 09:36 PM
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Unspoken
/r/askMRP24/07/17 07:41 PM
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Solid advice. Thank you.
/r/askMRP24/07/17 04:51 PM
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Well, I can see that this open marriage idea is pretty fucking awful, so take my next comment with the knowledge that I understand that now. But in defense of the cheating comment- yes, it would not be cheating, if she knew. Why do you imply it would be? Also she did not suggest this idea, thankfully. I think the implications as you mention would be pretty bad.
/r/askMRP24/07/17 03:32 PM
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Damn guys. I went into this suspecting that it was a bad deal- but now I can see that it's not like that at all. It would be worse than a nightmare you couldn't wake up from. It's so easy to think of something like an open marriage and immediately start imagining how awesome it would go for me. But I can clearly see that's a very one dimensional view. Marriage is hard enough without that shit.
/r/askMRP24/07/17 03:26 PM
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Thanks for providing these examples. It appears that A&A is a more playful version of fogging and negative assertion. Is that more or less the idea?
/r/askMRP23/07/17 09:46 PM
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Great reply!
/r/askMRP23/07/17 05:20 PM
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Looking forward to having similar "problems", OP!
/r/askMRP23/07/17 11:29 AM
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Great reply. I am very logic focused. That's going to perhaps be the most difficult thing to chang. Question, is this a strategy that you're friend used on men as well as women?
/r/askMRP23/07/17 07:25 AM
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