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Yeah, I agree that there are a lot of good questions that are met with lazy/weak responses. I think some people just get so used to throwing out certain buzzwords or canned responses that they have zero ability to provide any kind of reasoned insight to a question.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 07:46 PM
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But a lot of generic questions are best answered with a generic response. If somebody asks a question where the topic has an entire post devoted to it in the side bar, it makes sense to reference the side bar. Why rehash what has already been fully explained somewhere.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 06:46 PM
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Or trying to limit/handicap his competition.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 01:31 AM
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I agree. “willing to chat for a day or two” Something is happening during your chatting that is turning off these girls. Schedule the dates to occur sooner and then don’t do any chatting in the lead up to the date, and see if this makes a difference. Edit: Because of your insecurity regarding your height, do you attempt to “hook” these women while chatting in the lead up to your date because you’re afraid if you don’t establish a connection with them before the date that they’ll simply dismiss y…
/r/askTRP11/12/18 06:07 PM
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The level of insecurity this behavior demonstrates reaches epic proportions. Talking about the most fragile egos of all time.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 05:26 PM
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A lot of guys are worried that they’ll come super fast that first time, but more often than not, the anxiety they’re feeling keeps them from coming quickly. Also, when you’re used to the hard grip of your own hand while watching hardcore porn involving super hot girls, fucking a chubby isn’t going to result in the kind of mind-numbing sexual intensity that will get you off immediately.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 05:17 PM
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First, it may not be illegal, because 16 is a legal age of consent in a lot of places. Second, even if it was illegal, it would only be illegal for her, not you. You won’t get in trouble. Third, keep your mouth shut and nobody ever needs to find out.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 05:12 PM
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I cut out all caffeine for a year my sophomore year of college, and I got along just fine without it. But at that time I never really was a regular coffee drinker, so I was mostly just giving up soda. Now, I’m a heavy coffee drinker and I think it would be a lot harder to give that up completely.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:47 PM
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The only link I can think of between TRP and incels is that incels desperately need a giant dose of TRP.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 11:22 PM
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Agree and amplify works for responding to shit tests, but what you’re describing isn’t a shit test. The girl was being straight up disrespectful and mean. If a kid was being bullied at school, I wouldn’t advise them to A&A when they get teased by a bully—I would tell them to punch the bully in the nose. Think about what a shit test actually is. First, a woman does not shit test a true super alpha. The shit tests come from women when they have doubts about whether a man who is giving off the appe…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 10:35 PM
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The idea that there are some girls who are wife material is inconsistent with AWALT. Without a doubt though, some women will make better wives than other women. At one time I was convinced that my ex wife was not like most women, but the check I’m paying her every month says otherwise. The only way I could ever advocate for marriage is solely for the purpose of having and raising children. But you have to know that it’s an extremely risky decision. If you don’t want kids, or if you already have …
/r/askTRP19/11/18 06:43 PM
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TRP is just a body of knowledge. What men (or women) do with that knowledge is up to them. MGTOW takes that TRP knowledge and applies it by deciding that it is a bad idea for a man to bind themselves to a long term relationship with a woman. It is your opinion that marriage is a bad idea for men in the western world and that it is fundamentally inconsistent with TRP knowledge. I don’t even disagree with your opinion, and many TRP men agree with you, but it’s not a fundamental tenant of TRP itsel…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 06:23 PM
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You are confusing TRP with MGTOW.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 05:45 PM
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Underrated comment.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 11:52 PM
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I’m copying below from another comment I made to a guy that struggled with stalling in a conversation with a girl and not knowing what to say. But I think it could help you as well. Also, the context below is for day game cold approaches. Be genuinely curious about the girl you’re interested in. That should be your mindset. There’s always something about her that can lead to a line of inquiry. The activity she’s currently doing. Her hair. An article of clothing she’s wearing. Her opinion on a cu…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 10:39 PM
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I’m a hard gainer like you and it takes a massive amount of calories to pack on the pounds. OP is more than 25 pounds overweight, so he doesn’t seem like a hard gainer at all. It’s very likely he just didn’t have a weightlifting program that his body responded to and/or didn’t properly follow whatever program he was using.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 10:29 PM
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How are your conversation skills with people that aren’t good-looking women you want to have sex with? I’m trying to figure out if this is a specific issue for you just with hot girls you’re interested in, or if you generally don’t converse the greatest with anyone.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 10:23 PM
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My style almost exactly—only difference is I do throw in some kino. But the kino comes naturally to me without thinking about it. I don’t force weird touching or rely on it as a way to escalate.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 06:28 PM
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But you never lost the opportunity until you walked out her door. I was in a very similar situation years ago with a girl where she had invited me back to her apartment. I was a coward and just talked with her for like 2 hours. However, I finally just said fuck it, and went for it. She was super eager and kind of laughed and said “finally, I thought you’d never make a move.” The fact that I was a wuss and didn’t make a move for so long instantly evaporated in her mind once we were making out, be…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 06:21 PM
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A full bag?!? Or just the last half of your bag of skittles after you’re tired of them?
/r/askTRP15/11/18 02:52 AM
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What he said, except when you check in on date day, don’t ask if the date is still on (because why the hell wouldn’t she want to go on a date with you). Text her that morning and say something like, “I’m picking you up at 2. Make sure you also bring some comfortable shoes because I have some plans that involve some walking .” In other words, act and assume like the date is still on. She may respond and cancel the date (and in that case no big deal), but your frame didn’t budge.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 02:37 AM
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Dirty bulking is a better option than not eating enough. Read some stories on the internet about how Joe Thomas (retired NFL lineman) gained weight and kept it on.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 09:42 PM
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I don’t have time to mess with a fake tinder account, but I get the point you’re making. I love hearing from women I’m dating about all the horror stories they’ve encountered with other guys in the dating pool. It seriously makes me realize what a giant advantage any guy has if he is even halfway normal and not socially retarded.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 09:25 PM
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Your biggest focus in addition to lifting should be eating. Because you’re young and probably still growing, it will take a tremendous amount of calories for you to put on muscle mass.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 09:19 PM
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The answer to your question is going to be unique to each person, but in my opinion I looked the best aesthetically when I was heavily involved in CrossFit. So, if just looking as good as you can naked is the goal, I would recommend any kind of HIIT program. But again, your mileage may vary. If you’re a naturally bigger guy, but struggle with extra pounds of fat on your body, then you’d focus more on cardio and weight loss to look good. If you’re a hard gainer who is naturally very skinny and le…
/r/askTRP14/11/18 08:36 PM
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Why do I get the feeling that you are asking people to do your homework assignment for you?
/r/askTRP12/11/18 09:33 PM
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And especially not right in the middle of banging her.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 09:21 PM
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It’s definitely better to say you are in a hurry and need to go instead of staring blankly and awkwardly at her for a long time.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 06:48 PM
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Deleting a girl on social media is not a soft next. It’s a big public statement of rejection. If you do that, you’re asking for drama. A soft next is simply moving on. No drama. No big deal. The option remains open in the future should the girl come back with interest.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 10:29 PM
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Smile more. Smiles are disarming.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 09:59 PM
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If I was you I would try to do everything I could to get as far away from being a “stereotypical nerd” as possible. Don’t play video games. Stay away from STEM. You’ve been trying to slot yourself into this stereotype just because for your whole life even though it’s not for you. Become an English major. Take up skateboarding. Try mixed martial arts. Get in the gym. Become a runner. Try cycling. You desperately need to break out of this mold and reinvent yourself. Think of the things that you wo…
/r/askTRP09/11/18 09:36 PM
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Be genuinely curious about the girl you’re interested in. That should be your mindset. There’s always something about her that can lead to a line of inquiry. The activity she’s currently doing. Her hair. An article of clothing she’s wearing. Her opinion on a current issue in the news. Where she’s headed to. What is the best coffee shop in town. The key is to not fake interest, but to actually be interested in her response and really listen. So, I’ll give an example that could apply to almost any…
/r/askTRP09/11/18 09:12 PM
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The numbers may be off, but the general idea is pretty much on point. When you start lifting (either as a noob or somebody that hasn’t lifted in a while) you’ll make rapid progress in the first 4-5 months and then you’ll have diminishing returns. The first 15-20 pounds of muscle won’t be that hard. And then the next 5 pounds could take a year of dedicated lifting.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 08:42 PM
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Sometimes the best thing you can do is have a third person give you an honest evaluation. Or have somebody video you. You noticed the posture in the mirror, but there’s a ton of things you could be doing that you don’t realize. I noticed in videos that I was in that I hold my hands in weird positions.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 09:58 PM
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Just tried this. It works! Good tip.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 09:55 PM
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Your head is in the wrong spot if you’re thinking how to handle future contact from her.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 07:50 PM
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Grey Goose is a scam. It’s mediocre alcohol packaged and sold as ultra premium vodka. Having said that, it shouldn’t taste like rubbing alcohol. Sounds like the club filled the Grey Goose bottle with bottom shelf vodka. Typically clubs can get away with this because people that buy Grey Goose have no idea what good vodka should taste like or mix it with something that masks the flavor.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 07:39 PM
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She’s already broken it off with you in a rather public fashion
/r/askTRP01/11/18 04:36 PM
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True. For two reasons. One is that girls are good at disguising their true appearance on Tinder. They can typically make themselves look a couple points higher than they really are. Once a guy invests enough effort into the girl, and he meets her on a date, even if she's a little below his standards he still goes for it. Second reason is that a Tinder date is a soft target. By matching, she's already indicated to the guy that she's DTF. So, the guy will lower his standards a bit for the sure, ea…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 12:18 PM
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I'm constantly explaining to guys how the same exact line or same exact action done by one guy can have a polar opposite reaction from a girl if done by a different guy even if they have the same physical appearance. Girls, like dogs, can sense fear, nervousness, anxiety and stress and it makes them extremely uncomfortable. You actually hit the nail on the head--"being cringy" is one of the number one flaws by so many guys. But "being cringy" has nothing to do with a cringy line itself; it's how…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 10:01 AM
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The question doesn't depend on any specific answer. He asked a common pick up line that she had heard before and beat him to the punchline. So, he improvised by going hard in the opposite direction. If the girl thinks he's giving her a huge compliment, he surprises her by teasing her instead. In the example, if the girl had answered, "No, why?", he could have followed up with the traditional line. The whole point is that there is no right or wrong answer and no matter what the girl says, you can…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 09:49 AM
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If you’re average height, wouldn’t you be considered tall in SE Asia? A 5’10 guy in SE Asia would tower over most other people there.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 08:02 PM
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A good rule of thumb is your bench press should be 1.5 times your body weight, your squat should be 1.75 times your body weight, and your deadlift should be 2 times your body weight. Your bench press is closest to that guideline, and you should be shooting for 225. Your deadlift is the furthest off and should be at 300. Not to make you feel bad, but I know a number of women smaller than you that deadlift quite a bit more than you do. Keep hammering at those legs. They’re your biggest muscle grou…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 09:15 PM
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That’s a good math problem. For me, two 8’s at the same time equals 10. Two 7’s at the same time equals 9. Two 6’s at the same time equals 8. Two 5’s at the same time equals 7.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 08:17 PM
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Your mind just hasn’t caught up to your increased SMV yet. I was kind of the same way when I started college. Being a late bloomer, my mind was still acting like I was lower SMV than I really was. One day, things just sort of clicked in my head and I realized I was a prize, so to speak. The instant that happened, talking to girls became easy.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 08:02 PM
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Did you describe breasts as feeling like bags of sand?
/r/askTRP11/10/18 08:07 PM
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Well, the girls have a good point about the coffee. It’s hard to stay in frame when a girl points out you have training wheels on your bike.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:59 PM
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He meant that he views 5’8” as normal, even though he himself is a tall dude
/r/askTRP01/10/18 08:16 PM
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