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| 1 | How do we reconcile the pattern of men that can’t get anything at all and women who can’t get their FWB to commit ?My theory is, there are more men looking for casual sex than women and an equal amount of women looking for commitment. The dudes who get left on read may be looking for casual sex and/or they’re interested in a woman who is already invested in someone else. The woman may be open to the idea of causal dating and sex but develop feelings in the process for a guy who isn’t thus the cycle continues. But I’m making a huge generalization, we really have no idea what either individuals intentions are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 04:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Some ideas of modern day feminism are more damaging than anything else.Lol for the entirety of history men have inherited respect solely because they have XY chromosomes and a “dick between their legs.” Women are physically more vulnerable and face a lot of challenges that are not limited to their own reproductive rights. It’s hilarious that men want to flip the narrative and boldly claim they’re being forced to “walk on eggshells” in fear of some wild and imaginary punishments. Imagine being a woman and genuinely fearing for your safety and life whilst walking out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 07:24 PM |
| 2 | All plates shit-testing @ once? Wth is going on?Yeah no doubt... wondering why he is having no success.... refers to women as plates.... thinks a woman’s sole purpose is to sexually service him and then stfu, for nothing meaningful in return including but not limited to basic respect. Like WowwwW, no words. Not to mention, the hypocrisy is unreal. These women aren’t prostitutes, either hire one and pay the price or get a grip. No one deserves to be treated like a human flesh light. Gross. If you want to ‘get’ you have to ‘give’ something in r… | /r/seduction | 24/11/20 07:22 PM |
| 4 | Women who complain men only want one thing, yet like like Male sexual desire?, need help understanding thisI’d just be straight up, and interact with them as you would in any other situation. I can sense when a guy wants me to shut up so we can began hooking up. Even though I’m there and I want to hook up, I find that to be a major turn off. My advice is to be friendly and talkative, don’t jump straight into the other stuff (unless the girl wants that too) IMO the experience is a lot better when rapport has been established. | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 10:14 PM |
| 5 | Women who complain men only want one thing, yet like like Male sexual desire?, need help understanding thisI think the issue is certain men hyper-fixate on the act of sex and their sexual desire for women. They forget that women are multi-dimension beings who have value and purpose outside of sex and their body. As a woman I like sex and feel desire too but the lust I feel for my partner is intensified by the emotional and intellectual connection I share with him aswell. Women want to have desire in their relationships with men but don’t want to feel like that’s the only reason their partner is stick… | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Are you attracted to what you’re attracted to because it’s what you like, or because you’ve been conditioned?Weirdly enough I can relate to this. I’m a white woman and white men don’t seem into me, so I’ve developed a preference for south Asian men. It’s not a weird fetish either, I just find south Asian men more striking than Caucasian men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Why do men fuck ugly women ?Fair enough. It’s all down to personal preferences and your own individual choice. I guess when you’re looking for casual NSA sex those factors (weight, education, social class) don’t matter as much. Just think people should be realistic when it comes to what they’re expecting out of a partner. Sometimes standards can be too high (girl doesn’t look like a sports illustrated model/ comes from a lower class, etc) thus eliminating potential partners who actually may be a good fit otherwise. I’m not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Why do men fuck ugly women ?Well obviously he found them attractive enough to sleep with 🤯 either way, there is no need to fuck everyone you possibly can. I think that is another form of desperation. Just because you can doesn’t always mean you should. There are guys who could have a very attractive partner but would prefer to sleep around. It’s not the fault of the woman and it doesn’t imply that she wasn’t attractive enough to commit to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 12:41 AM |
| 5 | Why do men fuck ugly women ?That was my exact point. If you are attractive and/or lack standards you don’t even think about this stuff. You don’t resort to extreme measures to obtain sex. Either you’re w/ someone who you find attractive or you don’t care enough for it to matter. My point being that both parities have to consent. You don’t get to cast judgment on your sexual partner because you made a bad decision and regretted it later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 12:21 AM |
| 5 | Why do men fuck ugly women ?No I don’t think that’s how it works. Anyone who truly believes that has the wrong idea about female sexuality. Women are more choosy with who they have sex with because they can be. Women like sex, it’s not an act that the majority of us begrudge. I have one or two guys who I can call up whenever for “casual” sex if I chose so. I’ve had one FWB for like three years, I can hit him up in between relationships or whatever. Dudes aren’t getting laid because every single attractive woman requires co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 09:48 PM |
| 8 | Why do men fuck ugly women ?No doubt, these “Chads” have their own free will.... and the ~ultra horny~ guys who WILLING AND EAGERLY participate in those activities, call down the same women who they engage in that with? That doesn’t make any sense. If “Chads” were actually what these people claim them to be- they wouldn’t be THAT desperate. Why would they need to be? ...After all, I thought that chads were chads because they easily get attention from (attractive) women. Otherwise, nothing would set them apart from the next… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 08:38 PM |
| 4 | The Wall Doesn’t ExistTotally agree with you. The vast majority of mentally, emotionally and financially stable men between 30-35 wouldn’t date a woman younger than 25 (and that’s pushing it) ... the ones who have, are usually dealing with immaturity and their own issues I.e) party lifestyle that involves lots of drinking and drugs OR they’re men who were involved in a LTR with a woman their own age and it didn’t turn out and they became jaded. My biggest problem with “the wall” is that PEOPLE AGE, it’s normal. As a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/20 12:18 AM |
| 2 | The Wall Doesn’t ExistLol not every guy is “top tier” ..... there are tons of unattractive, overweight, short, broke, uneducated men who are under/ over 30. News flash, they can’t get a date either. Let alone be picky. No young woman is chasing after them either 😂 get a grip. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/20 12:13 AM |
| 2 | He wants to "pull up outside and talk in the car" and not arrange a date.LOL good lord 💀 years ago I met up with a guy who GHOSTED me after like four months of see each other on a consistent basis. He ended up driving to the car wash and manually washing his vehicle. I still think about it till this day. How disrespectful and undignified. If that happened again I’d catch a cab home. Bizarre. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:59 AM |
| 4 | Women having standards make them SO mad! The level of reach in this post is comical. We want men to level up, not ‘go die in war’ 🙄Yeah I’m not pressed, more so just laughing at how hard they will defend their wicked ways instead of choosing to not be tools. You can lead a horse to water but can’t make it drink 🤷🏻♀️ might as well have some fun while we curve these idiots. Male depravity at its finest. Bottom line is women stay winning! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 07:42 PM |
| 2 | A real winner here 🤢Yeah I noticed the men who are pushing 40 and single are more inclined to pursue woman in their early 20s. It allows them to continue living out their f-boy days whilst having the security of a “relationship” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:50 AM |
| 2 | My LVM sent me this mestoday after weeks of no contact. 4 years on and off, lived together, and I moved out a few months ago after I grew tired of playing wife and not getting my needs met. Leave these LVM the fuck behind sis, it’ll have him questioning his whole existence.Great minds think alike 🙏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 12:39 AM |
| 5 | My LVM sent me this mestoday after weeks of no contact. 4 years on and off, lived together, and I moved out a few months ago after I grew tired of playing wife and not getting my needs met. Leave these LVM the fuck behind sis, it’ll have him questioning his whole existence.Yeah agreed hence ....hmmm, wait a minute ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 12:25 AM |
| 14 | A real winner here 🤢I don’t whether to laugh or cry at this point 🤦🏻♀️ My mom is 43, has four kids, marriage, full time job, and bills. Your dinner “Z” can go fuck itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 11:59 PM |
| 40 | My LVM sent me this mestoday after weeks of no contact. 4 years on and off, lived together, and I moved out a few months ago after I grew tired of playing wife and not getting my needs met. Leave these LVM the fuck behind sis, it’ll have him questioning his whole existence.At first I was like props for at least admitting he is messed up in the head. But then I was like wait a minute, he is “too ignorant and prideful” to change even though he hates “living like this?” Sounds manipulative sir, the only word that mattered after that was narcissist. Yikes 💀 your drunk pseudo apology doesn’t make up for the four years of BS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 10:38 PM |
| 5 | Why attachment styles theory can save you a lot of heartacheHow do you know if it’s their insecure attachment style vrs. they’re just LV? Serious question lmao I think I’m anxious avoidant. I distance myself from people when my feelings are overwhelming/ or when I feel insecure and out of control of my feelings as a result. I need to work on this, because my brain insists on pushing people away. It tricks me into thinking that I do not need people and that I will only get hurt if I start to “rely” on them or develop deep feelings. I also feel inadequate … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 09:53 PM |
| 2 | I have no single girlfriendsMy friend who I no longer speak with was single her entire life, she used to roast LVM and complain about LVW behaviour. All of a sudden some old guy swooped in and whisked her away with his weed, apartment and audacity. We went from seeing each other multiple times a week to the point of barely getting a text back from her. I had to ask if she could tell her LVM to refrain from hitting on me ( he would out right say I had a “nice ass and rack” in front of her) 🤢🤮 Anyways, the first red flag was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 11:21 PM |
| 5 | Most men gleefully cheer on predatory selfish sociopath traits in other men (especially those used to exploit women) but they expect TONS of sympathy from women when they feel stepped on by a much bigger sociopath male who simply has more money/power to exploit them (politicians etc).Super human pimp powers 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 09:49 PM |
| 14 | Reminder: Trust your gut. Get out at the first signs of gaslighting.Hehe true, he had an ant infestation in his room at one point so... I’d be a fool to cry over him. Thanks 🤙🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 01:15 AM |
| 13 | Reminder: Trust your gut. Get out at the first signs of gaslighting.Yes I do! Thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 01:14 AM |
| 10 | Reminder: Trust your gut. Get out at the first signs of gaslighting.Well I agree, when I genuinely care for someone, I can’t just switch those feelings off. With that being said I have my mental faculties and no man will ever pull a fast one over me from this day forward. Thanks for your input. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 01:07 AM |
| 1 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!I agree, but for some reason people on this app believe that physical looks are the only thing that is taken into account by the opposite gender. My advice was insinuating that there is a whole lot more to women and their romantic feelings that do not involve a dudes appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 12:28 AM |
| 1 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!Simply put I’d say the ability to “read the room” goes a long ways. Both genders are attracted to attractive people (no surprise) but then again, not everyone can date a model. People usually fall somewhere in the middle, but of course there are outliers on either side of the spectrum. I’d say looks matter, but presentation matters more. Like I said, a very small fraction of people are 8,9 or 10s. The problem occurs when everyone goes for these people not taking into account their own looks, per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 12:21 AM |
| 1 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!True, he had a nice body, smelt great and his voice was soothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 12:14 AM |
| 23 | Reminder: Trust your gut. Get out at the first signs of gaslighting.Omg, I would love if anyone could give me some insight on this. I don’t know whether my intuition or trust issues are speaking right now. Guy told me three weeks ago that he couldn’t commit to anything right now because his visa expired at the end of August and had to be approved or else he had to move out of country.... ALSO, before he fessed up to the visa in the first place I had asked him “what is this” and he said he couldn’t commit. I cut him TF off, and always rnr’d every single one of hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 11:21 PM |
| 6 | This is why you wait until you are exclusive until you sleep with a man.I don’t understand how guys can “like” more then one woman at the same time. When I get to know someone who meets my standards/ I like them as a person and there is compatibility my brain naturally loses interest in seeking out others. This stuff makes me sad tbh, I just end up feeling like garbage for even trying lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 11:25 PM |
| 37 | Why do men think stuff like this is going to make us want them? 🙄HAHAHAHA I see it too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 11:16 PM |
| 11 | Woman posted about liking guys for their personality amongst other non materialistic attributes- Men found that enraging and obscene tooYeah, it’s like they’re admitting that they have absolutely nothing to offer other then their own entitlement and audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Women are better off without men & most women don’t understand male nature.Agreed. It’s interesting how guys despise women for having their own set of preferences....Yet, when it comes to a woman and a relationship, some men openly claim that physical looks are they most important variable when deciding. On here, I posted about how women generally value how a man makes her feel in his presence over his physical appearance; not shocking but, guys were quick to hurl other insults ie) you must be a gold digger/ and liar) even tho my post wasn’t about other shit like their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 12:57 AM |
| 1 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!I agree! There is a time and place for that conversation if you chose to have it. I think some people make a huge deal out of it themselves so it come across as a little unattractive in my opinion. Choosing to disclose that info isn’t bad in and of itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/20 06:32 PM |
| 1 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!I don’t think that’s how it works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/20 03:31 PM |
| 2 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!It was a $7 drink on a first date, relax. Don’t really think that qualifies as “funding my lifestyle” LOL..... But nice try :p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/20 03:30 PM |
| 1 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!Fair. Thanks for your feedback, I will keep that in mind for next time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/20 12:39 AM |
| 1 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!I originally set it to discussion not sure what happened. Either way, no war crime was committed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/20 12:34 AM |
| 1 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!People think I’m blowing smoke up their ass, but what I’m saying is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/20 12:28 AM |
| 1 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!Lol....... 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/20 12:19 AM |
| 4 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!Except TRP dehumanizes women but ight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/20 12:11 AM |
| 4 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!If you want something in life have to set yourself apart from others in one way or another to get it. This is literally a fact of life. Yes women get dates and sex but then again, men have other options too. This guy was a university student and was highly educated. No he didn’t go to school to attract women, he just made himself stand out from the crowd in an unconventional way. Oh and before I get called a gold digger he was in university, there was no gold to dig 🙄 it was the vibe I tell ya | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 11:50 PM |
| -2 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!No one said a guy shouldn’t be successful LOL everyone should strive to be the best version of themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 11:41 PM |
| 4 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!Do you find every single person who is physically attractive enjoyable to be around???? Probably not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 11:41 PM |
| 2 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!Uhhh no they don’t.... I’ve dated a variety of people with different interests, careers, education, etc and 75% were down right rude and unkind. Didn’t matter if they were 2/10 or 9/10, a shitty personality doesn’t get ya far. Hence, I made this post informing men that the way you make a woman feel will greatly affect your success in dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 11:40 PM |
| 4 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!Lmfao what crack are you smoking my dude? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 11:34 PM |
| 2 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!Exactly! Why does it blow some men’s minds that woman are attracted to dudes who have a decent personality and can interact with women???? 100% every boyfriend I’ve had wasn’t conventionally attractive yet I was 🤤 over them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 11:32 PM |
| 3 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!Exactly! Thank you. Some men just love to hate women and whatever they say. Another prime example of what I’m talking about. Confidence or lack of SHOWS. Women can tell! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 11:07 PM |
| 8 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!Actually he had no shortage of attention from other women and had zero intention of actually dating me.... which is why I said I was “crazy” for him, because I was. I don’t really understand how this message could be interpreted in the way you just did.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 11:06 PM |
| 17 | Actually Being Protected vs "Gentleman Behaviors" aka False ProtectionSo true, a lack of concern and reaction to situations in which a woman would feel uncomfortable tells a whole lot about his character. On my first “date” with LVM, he suggested we meet for drinks. After we had one drink, I paid for my own (it was $7 lol ⁉️ so much for first impressions), we walked into the shop next door. I purchased what I needed, and since he worked there he went into the back to use the bathroom. I didn’t want to stand around and awkwardly wait so I decided to hangout outside… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 07:31 PM |
| 45 | Entanglement told me he didn’t talk to a girl because she was out of his league.I think 80% of guys have bad intentions. For example, I used to go out with an international student who had recently emigrated from Iran. We had been hanging out for a few weeks and on this particular day, I picked him up and we were chatting in my car. He started to go on and on about how woman here need makeup and that “women in Iran are 10x more beautiful than Canadian women even with hijab and no makeup” .... I was like...... did this mofo just call me ugly and a cake face?.....🥴 Yeah, so a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 03:46 AM |
| 77 | Entanglement told me he didn’t talk to a girl because she was out of his league.Guys want to paint the illusion of lots of choice and unlimited attention from women. When in reality his words were probably strategic and his rationale( I.e not pursuing girl) was purposeful. Most LVM are delusional in their grandiose perception of themselves- for some reason I can’t imagine a guy intentionally NOT pursuing said attractive woman because she was “out of his league” lmfao... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 03:08 AM |
| 95 | Entanglement told me he didn’t talk to a girl because she was out of his league.What a douche.... seems like a subtle nag? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 02:52 AM |
| 10 | Little boys man.... like what???Literally though.... none of my pictures are provocative either.... like boy, are you calling me fat or are you sexualizing my fully clothed body? 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 03:55 AM |
| 23 | Little boys man.... like what???Yep.... rookie mistake 🤣😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 03:52 AM |
| 23 | Little boys man.... like what???Was for comedic affect 🤪 no one enjoys a dry conversation, but agreed LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 01:27 AM |
| 1 | 30 is NOT the new 20- why do people over 25 think being emotionally stunted and/ or immature while dating is ok? *messed up the post title*It’s sad :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 11:31 PM |
| 1 | 30 is NOT the new 20- why do people over 25 think being emotionally stunted and/ or immature while dating is ok? *messed up the post title*I’ve dated men who are almost 20 years older than I am. Status and wealth will get attention forsure but if you’re immature or a dick it won’t get you too far. Not to mention most women don’t want to date people who are THAT much older. Women are doing their own thing and can provide for themselves without a man. Both people have to bring something to the table other than their body or money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 11:21 PM |
| 1 | 30 is NOT the new 20- why do people over 25 think being emotionally stunted and/ or immature while dating is ok? *messed up the post title*It appears as though many people generally lack direction and motivation these days. I’m 22 and within two years I’ll be done university and making more money than both my parents. I will have my own place, my own car, good credit etc ( normal “have life together checklist requirements”) but these forums discourage other “normal milestones” such as LTRS. It comes across as men/women are asking too much of said person to want to explore and develop a connection outside of sex? If both parties are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 11:12 PM |
| 1 | 30 is NOT the new 20- why do people over 25 think being emotionally stunted and/ or immature while dating is ok? *messed up the post title*Lol, this isn’t about me it’s about a common trend I’m seeing in relationships and dating these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 10:32 PM |
| 1 | 30 is NOT the new 20- why do people over 25 think being emotionally stunted and/ or immature while dating is ok? *messed up the post title*This isn’t a rant? I wanted to have a discussion around common points here on reddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 10:30 PM |
| 1 | 30 is NOT the new 20- why do people over 25 think being emotionally stunted and/ or immature while dating is ok? *messed up the post title*Lol read between the lines dude- that’s not what I was implying at all. If that’s your only contribution to offer on this post then plz move along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 10:19 PM |
| 1 | 30 is NOT the new 20- why do people over 25 think being emotionally stunted and/ or immature while dating is ok? *messed up the post title*I agree! That’s cool too, but it’s important to be upfront and honest about your intentions. I hate dating people to only find out months down the road that they’re “not ready” or “don’t want to be tied down” - that’s their prerogative, but again I think its a sign of maturity regardless of what you want, to respect people’s time and make that be known. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 10:15 PM |
| 0 | 20 is not the new 30- why do people think being emotionally stunted/immature while dating as an adult ok?Living longer because medicine can better treat chronic diseases. Just because you “live longer” doesn’t mean that you will have a good quality of life during the last decade- again, everyone ages and so does their body. Not many people are looking to get married and settled down at 70 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 09:12 PM |
| 3 | MEN, ITS OK TO HAVE STANDARDSI agree with this- but I have a question for men! I was listening to “The Roomates” podcast and on many episodes they claim men mainly care only about looks when it comes to a relationship (face and body) - and then intelligence came in third place. No mention of education, ambition, career, goals, etc. So for the average guy ( as I am the average woman) , do men put those qualities on the back burner when selecting a girlfriend? Can someone explain this to me? | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else having a WEEK right now? Need to vent or get something off your chest? Feeling tempted to text or go back to old toxic patterns because you are feeling isolated? Need a "big sister" pep talk for any damn reason? A thread for affirmation, support, virtual love, and healing for any Queen!🎵 we all must meet our moment of truth 🎵 thank you 🙏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 06:00 PM |
| 18 | Anyone else having a WEEK right now? Need to vent or get something off your chest? Feeling tempted to text or go back to old toxic patterns because you are feeling isolated? Need a "big sister" pep talk for any damn reason? A thread for affirmation, support, virtual love, and healing for any Queen!Yeah I feel like I’m losing my mind.... This summer has been rough for me, I’ve been knocked down a few pegs so to speak. I had a falling out with my best friend and my dating life is in the absolute gutter. I’ve made a lot of positive strides in the last year but I’ve lost a lot of people. I feel very alone, these last three months I’ve been feeling 20x worse. I made the mistake of entertaining LVM and that only made things WAY worse. I’ll be starting class soon and while it will be a nice dist… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:25 AM |
| 140 | LVM exampleCould not have thought of a better response DAMN 🔥💯 reading this stuff motivates me to get out of bed some mornings LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:48 AM |
| 2 | I ignore, they chase- why?Probably not as he informed me that he was sleeping with another person they entire time.... He also has accounts on dating apps etc. | /r/seduction | 24/08/20 06:28 AM |
| 7 | Any stories about how toxic exes are doing years after?He got a random girl knocked up, developed a drug addiction, assaulted his baby’s mother, and went to jail 💀 not even exaggerating!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:40 AM |
| 1 | I ignore, they chase- why?Kind of..... but I find it particularly cruel.... I could see this working on someone who didn’t reject me, but since he already had me, I don’t see why it would increase his interest now. | /r/seduction | 24/08/20 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Yet another guy blames the woman for the shitty treatment she received from menP.S, I don’t think it’s wise to compare yourself to other women either. After all, my loyalty lies with those who are the same gender. The commenter was implying that said douche didn’t want to commit because HE could do better. Dumb. Like his ex and I are in his past for a reason, we levelled up 👋🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Are all men are misogynisticWow powerful stuff | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:15 AM |
| 38 | Add This Question to Your Vetting ListUgh, I’m in the mall food court about to cry as I read this. I’ve given my all to the select dudes who I liked enough to even entertain a relationship with. These same dudes who gladly took my all, gave me low self-esteem and PTSD in return. I wish I could turn off a switch and forget about men all together. I won’t settle, but damn it gets lonely! I don’t think it’s outrageous or wrong to want a partner either.... I hate that I come up with excuses for them when they don’t bother to even come u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever been in a relationship that had an expiration date?I think it was what the other commenter said. I was able to look past certain things because I felt a “certain way” about them, but as the time went on so did this feeling. I overlooked certain “non negotiables” but in the end, the psyche will be heard! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 08:19 PM |
| 6 | Have you ever been in a relationship that had an expiration date?Not intentionally, but I have been in two relationships where around the 10 month mark I knew it wasn’t going anywhere. I don’t recommend it, if you know early on that you’re incompatible my advice is to end it. I knew I wasn’t going to marry these dudes, so I didn’t want to waste any more of their time or mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 01:55 AM |
| 10 | I had not texted him back for over a week, he sends this message todayLol how do they have all the time in the world to waste our time but when it comes to something constructive all of a sudden they’re running space X??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:10 AM |
| 4 | If he only wants a housewife clap your hands 👏🏼👏🏼outta service from now on period 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:07 AM |
| 80 | What was the biggest/most shocking FDS revelation for you?Men view women as a means to an end rather than a person with their own thoughts and feelings. Every woman is interchangeable to them because nothing else matters but their own dicks and interests! This realization has been enlightening but also terrifying. Men on reddit go on and on about ridiculous things that make women “unfit” or “undeserving” for a long term relationship. Some of the preposterous deal breakers include non-virginal, over 25 and not a sports illustrated bikini model. These ar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 07:27 PM |
| 10 | Best friends who discard your friendship for a NVM are LVW in disguise! Don’t be a door mat for ANYONE!Thank you for your input, I do see where you’re coming from. I would like to say first and foremost that my friend is obviously very important to me. Ive hit a brick wall because believe me I have tried to help her in every way I can. Over the course of the last year I have consistently tried to maintain the friendship. I’ve asked her to chill, study, go for a walk, hangout with my other friends etc. Ive went as far as chillin with NVM and her- but stopped because every time we hung out he got e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:36 AM |
| 28 | Has anyone else encountered the white collar city fuckboy type of LVM?Yeah totally agreed. Because of my profession I used to be really attracted to doctors/ lawyers/ and other people in professions who I viewed as ‘intellectuals’ - Yeah the money and status was attractive (duh) but I wanted a partner who I saw as my intellectual equal. A lot of guys my age are seriously daft so I sought after the ones who were by societies standards supposedly the opposite of that. It was a real eye opener because they were 10 times worse than the ‘average’ f-boy I would encounte… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 06:24 PM |
| 3 | What to do after you follow eachother on insta?Just slide in the DM’s no sense in beating around the bush | /r/seduction | 16/08/20 04:28 AM |
| 4 | Today is the day I am leveling upAmen to that sister ☝️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 11:10 PM |
| 16 | I’m choking-🤢🤮💀🤡 idiot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:35 PM |
| 17 | I have a problem with Indian men.I was starting to wonder WTH was going on.... I was thinking about dating cross-culturally but now I’m like they’re all like this???? 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Why isn't male hypogamous nature ever discussed?This is what I’ve been pondering for the last couple of years. I’m a woman in my early 20’s, I would say I’m attractive but that’s the least interesting thing about me. I am also “kind”, “feminine”, “agreeable”, etc. At this point I feel like I’m dealing with mainly emotionally immature or emotionally unavailable people! I’ve clicked really well with a couple of guys I’ve dated in the past, but every single one of them did me wrong no matter how good I looked/ how strong our connection was. Sure… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/20 05:54 AM |
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